Jessica Alba Has Secret Wedding

Yeah!!…I knew it!!

they got married right before the baby comes. how cute. the baby is due next week on the 29th!

Two shotgun weddings in one week! Who’s next? I’m betting Nicole Richie.

SHE IS SO BEAUTIFUL AND CLASSY.
A GREAT EXCEPTION TO THE OTHER GIRLS YOU POST ON HERE.

Awww congrats to them! I hope they enjoy the married life

I am so happy for Jessica. I like her.

CONGRATULATIONS, Jessica and Cash!

Congrats!

talk about a shotgun wedding at the 11th hour

Kiki @ 05/20/2008 at 6:01 pm
Yes, traditionally people MARRIED before they had a family. She’s certainly a lot wiser than Nicole Richie and Halle Berry!

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Traditionally, people waited until they got married to even have sex — let alone start a family.

Hardly anything is traditional anymore.

However, congrats to the couple.

I LOVE IT! WAY TO GO! THEY ARE JUST AS MARRIED AS ALL OF THOSE “OVER THE TOP” SHENANIGANS. CONGRATULATIONS! LIVE LONG AND PROSPER.

She looks great. Congrates!

2 Hollywood shotgun weddings in 1 week. Wow!

I guess it goes along with her super secret identity!

Kiki how is marrying before baby “wise”? Marriage is not a guarantee of solid commitment, especially when it takes a baby to make them do it.

How much greater would the divorce rate be if the “traditional” generation were honest enough to leave thoroughly rotten marriages that had run their course and the two, while maybe not openly antagonistic toward each other, were merely staying together out of social pressure? Already 50% jump ship.

Marriage is nothing more than an anachronism. True commitment cannot be made stronger or less strong by a ceremony. It’s either there, or it isn’t. You can’t force someone to love you just because you wore a white dress and had a big party.

Wow, #28, hate marriage much? I couldn’t disagree with you more. It’s still “wise” to marry before you have children, much to Hollywood’s chagrin. That child deserves to have the parents who created him/her committed to each other, and have a stable name and relationship to come into. Kids are so messed up these days, with messy situations at home. They get lost in the drama and lives of unmarried parents, and end up screaming for love and attention when they get older.

No, marriage is not a guarantee of solid commitment, but neither is “shacking up”. It’s a lot easier to walk out on that partner and child without any kind of commitment. And who suffers? The child, who thinks he/she was at fault.

Where do you get your ridiculous numbers? And assuming everyone “traditionally” married is in a thoroughly rotten marriage?? I’ve been married for 29 years, and love my husband more than ever. My parents are married 52 years, and my in-laws the same. All, very happily. Social pressure?? What? No one stays together because of social pressure these days. That’s the “all about me” generation and their philosophy.

Marriage is a beautiful statement two people make to each other. They’ve found the person they want to share life with, good and bad. They’ve found their best friend, and a ceremony is the way to celebrate and share their joy with their family and friends. Or even just each other.

The problem your generations has is, you don’t know how to love, care, and commit to anyone but yourselves.

I applaud this couple for getting married and doing the right thing for their child. And if it doesn’t work out, at least that child will always know his parents DID love and were commited to each other at that time in their lives. It’s called building a FAMILY, and your generation wants to make that extinct. How great…..a world of detached, uncaring, self-absorbed people.