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Melissa Etheridge Files For Divorce, Leaves Tammy Lynn Michaels Blindsided & Broke

Melissa Etheridge Files For Divorce, Leaves Tammy Lynn Michaels Blindsided & Broke

After nine years together, singer Melissa Etheridge filed for divorce from actress Tammy Lynn Michaels on Friday (July 2), citing irreconcilable differences.

Melissa, 49, is asking the court not to award financial support to Tammy, 35, but seeking joint custody of their 3-year-old twins, Miller and Johnnie. (Tammy gave up Hollywood to raise the kids in Indiana. Melissa has been on the road, performing her “Fearless Love” concert tour.)

Here’s what Tammy had to say about being blindsided by the divorce news via her blog:

i am wondering if it’s an art

gentle waves
no noise for awhile
or maybe gentle voices


even though we both promised

no filing until after tour
in the fall

her broken promises
told to me by

i’m raising the kids
doing what i can
second set of yours

could you stop blind sighting me?

unless it’s another art form you’re working on?

have a good concert.

Click inside to read Tammy‘s other VERY TELLING blog entry…

Tammy’s New Blog Entry ABOUT MELISSA

“no such thing as privacy, i guess? so okay.”

late 2001

we were standing on a porch, outside, under the stars. we were talking about life, and what was coming up in the future, and schedules, and dreams, and building. she had a tour coming up, but the kids had school, and i had some auditions coming… what to do, what to do, what to do….

and that’s when i sort of knew. those kids needed someone at home, someone stable, someone who wasn’t jetting off all the time, and scrambling in and out. i knew that was like, to be a kid, and have people on revolving doors. so i stepped in, truly thinking i was doing the right thing.

“you know what?” i said. “do you want me to take a year off? take care of the kids? i can be here when you’re gone, get them at school, bake for them, do the school stuff, and just catch them when you’re not here. want me to do that?”

her face lit up like i was giving her a present she wanted but could never name. “would you do that??? you would do that???”

“sure! i’ve always wanted to make a home anyway! i’ll make a home for you and me and the kids, and you go and do your thang with your guitar!”

we laughed and hugged, and she said it was perfect, and it was what she had always wanted anyways, but didn’t want to ask anybody to do it for her….. make her a home…. etc. and that night was perfect. sitting on the porch, under the stars, back when we lived on the house on Mandeville canyon, near the ocean.

i gave up my managers, agents, contacts, all that good stuff, because i stepped directly into potty training a small boy, and carrying around a small girl on my hip. both excellent souls. and i was a very huge part in raising them for many many years while She with the Guitar focused on her Guitar.

i was always the house wife after that. the only thing i hated about it was not bringing in money- i have made my own money since i started babysitting at 10, and having a newspaper route at 11. having no steady paycheck killed me for those years with her. and now it’s really killing me. the other week i had to borrow money from a friend. two weeks ago i had to scrape together $1.25 to pay for gas. i know she doesn’t want to give me money. trust. i’m borrowing cash left and right from people to get through this summer, and feed my kids, with a stomach full of ulcers, thank you. no stress here. :-)

how’s that spiritual tour coming along?

so now…. to open the lap top…. and read the headlines…. when i just spoke to the fame crawler yesterday…. she could have mentioned it….. and hmmm…. wants some custody of kids…. interesting…. but no $ support for me… interesting as well…. so so so interesting, there, melissa. practicing what we preach is always hard for americans, i think. (is that why you and rick warren got along so well? ) oh, the nights of promises…. “tammy, if i ever leave you, it’s because i’m crazy, and you have to come find me and get me and save me!!! we have to be together forever!” (remember that one, lucky?)

the corn out here in indiana is ABSOLUTELY AMAZING this time of year. i don’t know if it’s the humidity that brings it on or what…. but boy is it GOOOD!!!!! this farm girl is headed back to hollywood pretty shortly here, but i’m going to try to hang on to my honesty and my integrity and my gumption. i also am going to hold on to my balls, i think. if someone tries to make my life a cartoon, i’m going to step in.


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49 Responses to “Melissa Etheridge Files For Divorce, Leaves Tammy Lynn Michaels Blindsided & Broke”

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  1. 1
    Dance In The Dark Says:


    Bothered …

  2. 2
    ? Says:

    Can’t comment – don’t know anything about the situation

  3. 3
    popularculture Says:

    That blog is way too long to read, I come to this site to relax by braincells! lol.

  4. 4
    popularculture Says:


  5. 5
    Kelly Says:

    Sad :(

  6. 6
    me Says:

    Melissa is no better than men/women who quit their jobs so they don’t have to pay child support. Most spouses have no respect for the ones to stay home and raise the children. Sad really.

  7. 7
    Vanessa Says:

    What is it with lesbians and bad poetry? As if Rosie O writing it weren’t bad enough, now this Tammy person is doing it.

  8. 8
    Whatever... Says:

    Starting to look like Melissa has a pattern of this behavior given this and past relationships. If her “wife” truly did give up her career, why does she think she shouldn’t have to provide support? Bad PR move Melissa – wake up and treat your family with the respect they’ve shown you.

  9. 9
    oh dear Says:

    Team Tammy.

  10. 10
    lene Says:

    So, Let me get this straight Melissa is out touring, while Tammy Lynn is at home taking care of their kids?!?! I think Tammy definetly should get financial support then.

  11. 11
    pamela Says:

    Team Tammy, as well- Melissa, you should be ashamed! You need to support Tammy and the kids even if you no longer love her

  12. 12
    Kaz Says:


  13. 13
    Slig Says:

    Haha where iam now yeah yeah

  14. 14
    Zara Says:

    Melissa has always seemed difficult from what I’ve read about her. Hope they work it out for the sake of the kids.

  15. 15
    jeez Says:

    @popularculture: Seriously? It’s not even that long.

  16. 16
    may Says:

    can’t wait for the other side, there are alwas 2 sides

  17. 17
    Alaia Says:

    Well…I have nothing to say other than I remember her from the show Popular.

  18. 18
    Shoshanna Says:

    Capital letters are our best friend, woman.

  19. 19
    b Says:

    Melissa sounds like an absolute douchebag. You don’t go and create a family, leave them, and then expect not to financially contribute to the ruins you left behind.

  20. 20
    Michele Says:

    I think Melissa is disgusting. She wants custody, but has no genetic relationship to those two kids. Tammy was pregnant and had the kids. Their hers, and I am sure the courts will think so too. Usually the mother gets custody rights.

  21. 21
    Michele Says:

    I think Melissa is disgusting. She wants custody, but has no genetic relationship to those two kids. Tammy was pregnant and had the kids. Their hers, and I am sure the courts will think so too. Usually the mother gets custody rights.

  22. 22
    mickey Says:

    I don’t know about this. Melissa sounds like a good for nothing man, but Tammy sounds resentful about the kids so it’s kind of a mess. Good luck to them all.

  23. 23
    [marie] Says:

    WOW…just ..Wow..

  24. 24
    CanadaGirl Says:

    Perhaps the fact that she blogs about the intimacies of their life might have a little to do with the split.

  25. 25
    sigh Says:

    this is terrible. stop it with the same sex “divorces”

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