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Gerard Butler Gives His Fans Some Love!

Gerard Butler Gives His Fans Some Love!

Gerard Butler flashes a peace sign as he chats it up with his fans at a cafe on Friday (March 9) in Beverly Hills, Calif.

The 42-year-old actor then left the eatery and gave a big smile to some onlookers!

PHOTOS: Check out the latest pics of Gerard Butler

It was recently announced that Gerard will be replacing Eric Bana in the upcoming diamond-heist thriller Brilliant, reuniting him with his The Ugly Truth director, Robert Luketic. Producers are currently searching for a female lead.

WHO WOULD YOU LIKE TO SEE play opposite Gerard Butler in Brilliant??

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# 1
serendipity @ 03/10/2012 at 11:23 am

First

# 2
serendipity @ 03/10/2012 at 11:24 am

Jennifer Aniston. :-)

# 3

Gerry hothothot!

# 4

It’s time to find some kind of girlfriend Gerry! Do it!

# 6

Hope it’s NOT aniston, witherspoon or heigl. Their recent movies have all tanked. I’d like to see his chemistry in PTF with Thurman and/or Zeta Jones before making a wish list.

# 7

How about Nicole Kidman and not any of the usual suspects. Maybe Scarlet Johanson?

# 8

Its good to see gerry out and about.

# 9

love him love him love him
How about Lena Headey :D The hottie from game of thrones and his co-star in 300 :D

ooops. Did not mean to underline.Couldn’t do it again if I wanted to. LOL.

Hello Gerry! Looking nice)).

Anyone but Aniston.
Looking good Mr. Butler.

Jennifer Lawrence is my choice

Anyone who is married or in a relationship..so we don’t have to suffer through months of faux romance rumors!!!!

ANGELINA JOLIE IS A WH@RE @ 03/10/2012 at 1:39 pm

wish he would do more serious-roles–i think he is better in a deeper character.
don´t like these romcoms…at all…they are all the same—same,same–same old story

J. Aniston Is A Wh@re Too @ 03/10/2012 at 1:43 pm
The Noise In The Walls @ 03/10/2012 at 1:53 pm

Hey Gerry!!! “Peace” to you too :)..:)..Looking good..I heard that he joined Soccer Aid..that is awesome if true!! Take care Bello!! ***

Looks like Butler is going back to NOLA/schreveport for Playing the Field reshoots – they must have identified some major flaws in the film. Details on WO. According to the last thread he has ladies lined up in advance to keep him amused in the evenings.

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 03/10/2012 at 2:19 pm

I would like to see him in something with Kate Winslet.

dargabriel @ 03/10/2012 at 3:16 pm

great afternoon from high above. Butler you’re looking mighty spiritual,loving it absolutely. Eagle lake is calling and screaming in your direction,lol. Hi Cholita, haha, sag lovers,wow, but truth is they are freaks in bed, I guess the expansion/jovial. I wish butler many,many happy returns, I like the Jesus look, suits you butler, but more so the Gabriel look,haha. Quite the jester @ heart, haha, nice trick this am, almost had me in tears, but thank you for letting me off the hook. I do like to play games, but ones that keep the even flow,lol. Today is a very fine day and I wish everyone a very beautiful day, hello to my many children all my love. Work,work,work,fatten the savings for upcoming travels. Cholita I hope you’re cooking up something succulant today, yum,yum. Peace and light to you,Mr. Butler hottness, and everyone else in this beautiful universe. Peace out,so be it. Love,dargabriel aka archeia HOPE

So HAPPY to see Gerry out and about looking happy and rested. Love him . : )

demi moore – they were always FWB’s anyway……….

and now fellow rehabers

It can’t be halle berry gerry had a fight with her boyfriend

Emmy Rossum!

Just not Aniston..ugh.

who would want to @ 03/10/2012 at 5:08 pm

the film and script is garbage

can’t cast, can’t finance, doubt it will get made, it has stalled so many times already, Butler projects like Anistons have been dropped in HW, they don’t pull weight anymore. especiallly with Butler’s insurance issues.

fassey, hardy, gosling and idris have the buzz now.

sorry butler fans but its the truth

ANGELINA JOLIE IS A WH@RE @ 03/10/2012 at 5:14 pm

@J. Aniston Is A Wh@re Too:

LOL–thanks–jen aniston is a wh@re too…and angelina jolie is a wh@re agree..that is somehow funny.
just a sidenote–i think jen aniston is a wh@re myself…mediawh@re..like angelina is..

not everything about angelina is about aniston..you can hate angelina as you can hate aniston.
i hate angelina for her fauxmanitarian things and her arrogance.
and jen aniston for her TERRIBLE movies.

but this here is about butler.
please..gerard..you are a nice,intelligent guy..i just would love that he shows that more often in his roles.

looking good gerry but please shave you look so good when your cut and trimmed love the hair and the curls and im glad your looking healthy

curious cat @ 03/10/2012 at 5:37 pm

I rarely show up this early and have no idea who should play his co-star in a movie I know nothing about.

/Gerry is gorgeous…no other man…in my fantasy universe…affects me as he does. I do love him. He is so talented, but like the late Errol Flynn…he’s too handsome to be taken seriously by some critics….The fools~

He is looking so healthy and just the right weight. Not thin at all, as some people might have thought he looked a couple of weeks ago.
Oh my…and those arm muscles – he looks like he’s been working out and getting back into shape.
His beard doesn’t bother me at all – very manly.
I’am still waiting to find out where he’ll turn up after his stay in LA is done. .

Can'tGetEnough @ 03/10/2012 at 6:28 pm

Want to bid on a visit to the PTF set and meet GB?? Bid is currently at $2901. How high would you go to win this? =)

http://www.hollywoodcharityauction.com/gerard-butler-fans-visit-the-set-of-playing-the-field,name,107904,auction_id,auction_details#d90af8afdef3

Oh dear 1 @ 03/10/2012 at 6:41 pm

Gosling, and Fassbender are definitely the hot ones now.  Butler star has well and truly waned.  But hey,  he still gets to go to loads of HW parties, get loads of  se/x. Have loads of faux friends  and on top of that he’s made a lot money. So to many the boy’s done good. 

But when it comes to his work,  his legacy will be cursory at best.

The good thing is at least if he is no longer the hot new thing has three choices:

Disappear into obscurity and do something far more constructive with his life.  

Concentrate on doing some good work either as an actor and/or producer. 

And the third choice which would  be too sad for words and that’s to be a  desperate ageing second rate actor, hanging on to  past very mediocre glories and doing even crapper movies for TV as well as the odd reality show while trying to ban/g far too young chicks  to keep his sagging ego in check. 

But hey the guy has choices, and that’s always a good thing. 

Hmmm mm.. I wonder which one it will be? At the moment the third one  is looking uncomfortably plausible. Fingers crossed he’ll get his preverbals together before it becomes to late.

The looks and the body won’t last forever.

 In  the end the only think truly worth having is your health – in every sense of the word. And that is a fact. Fingers crossed for Butler boy.

you guys won´t believe me now..but i swear to god i don´t lie.

years ago when butler did the phantom..i really,really loved his looks..i thought he was such a hunk.
i guess he still is a hunk to some.
BUT–he looks EXACTLY like my father..my father is 56 and has more grey hair..but he looks exactly like gerard.
i can´t see him as hunk anymore–that would be weird.
but he aged a lot in the last years.
i still like him as an actor though–

the second pic.
that is my dad—this is how he looks like.
lol–that is so funny to me

justsayin'too @ 03/10/2012 at 8:17 pm

Butler has reached that age where he can’t rock the dirty frat boy look anymore. He ‘s going to have to make some effort and clean up and shave if he wants to get back his hotness. Pitt and Clooney are in the same boat and only look good now when they are clean shaven and dressed nice. I have to say it is nice to see that the men have to make effort like the women. LOL

Hollywood Gossiper @ 03/10/2012 at 8:54 pm

@Oh dear 1: Can’t say I understand why Gosling is so hot because frankly I find him very one note but that is so typical of American leading men which is why I tend to like the non Americans – Fassbender now it makes perfect sense that he is hot, the boy has versatility same with Hardy though hopefully his one foray into romcomdom is enough to last him for a while. Heard Hardy has his own production company now.

If Brilliant has a brilliant script which I doubt or why did Bana run, if they pick actresses that are more dramatic than comedic and are not predictable romcom choices maybe there is hope. I’m thinking Emily Blunt or people had mentioned Thandie Newton or Lena Headley now that would be interesting, someone with a strong screen presence and can hold their own with Butler and then some. But if they need financing they will go for a big [read boring and predictable] name.

Personally I think a lead role in a decent cable series would do wonders for the Butler’s career, key emphasis on well written! something like Game of Thrones or Boardwalk Empire etc etc. Even just some cameo appearances on those kind of shows if he can’t make more of a commitment.

Maybe he can do that with Pinkerton. Sure done wonders for Emmy Rossum’s career. I actually am impressed with her acting chops after watching Shameless which is dead funny. But methinks Team Gerry thinks TV is beneath him which is such an 1980s attitude.

But you get the exposure of a TV audience and you actually get to show your acting chops and a character arc which could prove he is a better actor than he is perceived. And you can keep making movies because the shooting season is short now, 13 episodes instead of the old 22 and some shows even less. Mr. Shannon is keeping himself quite busy.

Does his hat say Boobie Shack?

It sure as shi/t does, lol, not as subtle as the rooster hat,
good to see he trimmed his co/ke nail,
now if he would just trim his beard!!!

@ Hollywoodgossiper

I agree, an excellent tv series is just as good as any decent movie – better if the truth be told.   But going by Butty boy’s track record… well…what more do I have to say on that point.

 I also agree a really good actress as a co-star someone like … ummm…I’ve suddenly realised I can’t think of any really versatile thirty something actresses who could fit the bill. Winslet  is way too up market. Newton a little too serious. The other thirty something high profile actresses in HW  - apart from Theron who is way too up market and serious and Jessica Biel who is so beige she almost disappears when she’s in a magnolia coloured room- have all done their best work in their twenties and have gotten rich, complacent and lazy and stick to doing by numbers romcoms. The only actress I can think of who would be really good in a film like ‘Brilliant’ and would lift its profile is fortysomethng and that’s Sandra Bullock.  As long as Butty boy is not producing it someone like Bullock would make him raise his game. JMO

Gerry really looks good
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I don’t know what this means but here it is
“The notorious ladies man would surely have been extra keen to be friendly, given the fact a pretty lady was enjoying a refreshment at the table.”
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2113116/Gerard-Butler-shows-winning-addiction-battle-mingles-fans-Beverly-Hills.html?ito=feeds-newsxml
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and this statement, wtf is that?
“They’re planning to meet up again. Her friends are worried she’s heading for trouble but she thinks he’d be a great way to mend her broken heart.”
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I doubt she has a broken heart. The divorce was welcome by both of them. It’s just crazy reporting.

dead thread

times are a changin?

oops guess there is a wee bit of life afterall

@Oh dear 1: Or maybe Julia Roberts???

what about angie?

she’s still kick a** and pretty

Old fan photo from last summer taken after the football game in the UK
http://twitter.com/#!/laura_mack90/status/178647919904296960/photo/1
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https://twitter.com/#!/laura_mack90
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Not his best look. He looked much better yesterday. I really like how he is been looking since the Oscars.

@Info: :”his stay in L.A.” Umm, I think he lives in L.A.. Correct me if I’m wrong, but I believe he has homes in L.A.. , N.Y. & London. But, he always seems to spend the most time in L.A…….

There have been a couple of sightings tonight.
Someone placing him in a place near Palm Springs at a tennis match. We know he loves tennis. Didn’t he go see that tennis player friend of his after he filmed Coriolanus in Serbia?
Anyway, I got to leave so maybe someone else can post the 2 sightings of him from a couple of hours ago.

ok taking my bat and ball and going _ bye bye friendly peeps

@numpty:
Don’t go Numpty, we like having you around.
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@Toronto:
That’s right he has homes in these places, although I am not sure he still has his apt in London. In any case, he usually doesn’t stay anywhere long enough. Sometimes, he can stay in NYC for a couple of months, and sometimes it’s LA, and this usually happens when he is in between filming. Sometimes, he uses his time in between filming traveling the world, so there is no guarantee he’ll be in any one of his houses long enough for it to be called living there. That’s why I used the words ‘staying in LA’. It sure always feels like he is just on a visit.
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BTW, he might not be even staying in his house right now. He could be staying in the Palm Springs hotel yet again, either because he is getting treated, or for some other purpose. That’s what ‘Reviews’ mentioned a little while ago. He was spotted near Palm Springs tonight.
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You weren’t around for a while, how are you doing?

@Info: Great, thanks! I’ve been around. I made quite a few posts on the last thread, but for the last week or so…I stayed away. Too much ridiculous arguing (and all about nothing!)

That’s barely a smile . Gerry has a beautiful smile. when he smiles his whole face and eyes light up. anyways I hope he doesn’t do this movie with Aniston or Heigl (even though I like her). Maybe he should do it with someone like Natalie Portman or Salma hayek for a change.

How about Penelope Cruz?

@Reviews: Post 48 – It does look like he hangs arounds cafes, hoping to show some pretty young things the video ‘of the big waves hitting me’. Rather sad for a middle-aged man.

2 similar @ 03/11/2012 at 6:51 am

Info is scarily like GFW. Yikes.

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 03/11/2012 at 7:05 am

By the happy look on his face, and those at the table, it that he’s showing to them might be something of the love of his life, Lolita?
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Very happy for the V for Victory sign symbolizing he’s ditched something for a better experience.
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I rather like seeing him in cafes and bistros. Feel that a big part of the European in him, which I find very attractive, especially the out of doors variety. Feel he enjoys life and if recognized in this kind of environment he’s most gracious and kind. This is what some want? Clock his progress? More photos? See him? Have treads?
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Gerry looks really well. His eyes are clear, lucid and showing signs of well, his dark victory.
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Living in recovery is not easy and everyone will deal with it in their own way. It’s a daily on-going battle. Change is hard to keep. Keeping changed is hard. I’m proud of him. Happy he’s getting the support he needs.
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As for a co-star? I’ll think to that. I’d like to see Abbey Cornish. She’s got that kind of quiet sex appeal that might work well in this kind of heist film. She’s got a softness about her yet she’s fit, bright, intelligent and it could be good to make this film interesting! I’ll think of others. I’m kind of into her right now after seeing W.E. where she exhibited just a smidgeon of her Brit wit.
~K

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 03/11/2012 at 7:09 am

@2 similar:
What does that mean? A real question.
~K

Joie de Vivre @ 03/11/2012 at 7:10 am

Greetings all! Hope everyone is well and happy. Butler is definitely rockin’ that shirt. Thanks to CGE, Reviews, Numpty and others for posting links and news. If that was really a text from him to the guy at Boobie Shack, he sounds genuine and grateful AND he uses contractions properly ♥….LOL!!! How about Charlize Theron for the female lead? My company’s logo is a wave (HQ is in Tidewater area of Virginia) and I was thinking about sending Butler one of our hats, especially given the nature of work I do, it would be a fitting tribute to his “surviving” the big waves. It is a royal blue and a top quality hat. Wonder if he’d actually ever get it, or would it just end up in the rubbish bin? Wonder where to send it? There are two different addresses for fan snail mail. Anyone know? The only fan mail I’ve ever sent was to Beatrix Potter when I was a little girl….HAHA! Hope everyone has a safe and lovely day!

Can'tGetEnough @ 03/11/2012 at 7:10 am

Good Morning JJer’s! Here are the two sightings that Reviews was referring to in her post #55. Both sightings were at the Paribas Open in Indian Wells, CA. It’s about 25 minutes from Palm Springs, CA.

priscilla guzman ‏ @priscillabaaby
Gerald Butler standing right next to me, yup (:
https://twitter.com/#!/priscillabaaby
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Marina Santos ‏ @Rinabrazil
@gerardbutler is at the #Paribas open… Yuuup that JUST happened :D
https://twitter.com/#!/Rinabrazil

Joie de Vivre @ 03/11/2012 at 7:15 am

@Anastasia Beaverhausen: Hey girl! I asked HB about Dave Grohl since I never met him myself and he said he was a normal guy back then. Nice, funny and VERY driven regarding his music. He’s the only one of the DC punk/metal scene from the day who made the big times. He was younger than the rest and apparrently lied about his age to play. Should I invite him to HB’s surprise 50th bday party next month? LOL!!! I’m gathering up some of the old music-makers from that time in his life. Should be an interesting event. Take care and study hard, love. XXO

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 03/11/2012 at 7:25 am

“How about Charlize Theron for the female lead?”
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She would be really good. She was incredible in Young Adult. She’s another with that kind of classic quietness that would work well against Gerry’s gregarious nature! Plus she’s tall, fit, beautiful and can act!
~K

Joie de Vivre @ 03/11/2012 at 7:37 am

@thetruth: Your posts are hilarious, so thanks for the belly laugh!

Joie de Vivre @ 03/11/2012 at 7:40 am

JJ, yoo-hoo….daylight savings time ended at 2:00 am this morning….you need catch up. :)

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 03/11/2012 at 9:10 am

No it wasn’t his best look but a natural one which I happen to like. Sincerity and authenticity appeal to me. I see both in that photo. With the history of his personal issues exposed now the older photos take on new meaning for me. Feel the quality of the picture does not help (you) see what you need to… a coping mechanism. He’s lost his “go to” appeal for many fans with so many bailing. Hey, you can’t lose what you never had!
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That said I wonder what many look like right now? Photo op ready? No, didn’t think so. Please try to realize how hard 2011 was for Gerry on many levels. He needs support and forgiveness, not self-righteous scrutiny.
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He’s a fine specimen of a human being so finely made on the outside, but might feel his insides are curiously put together as well. He inherited his fathers, as well as his mothers, DNA. I feel he’s far more of his mother’s survival skills in him than he gives himself credit for!
~K

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 03/11/2012 at 9:15 am

Guess a better question might be is how do some of you guys would look after playing a hard game of soccer in front of millions of viewers? Which I watched live by the way rooting for him every step of the way!
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That said, just after a shower with his wavy bangs and shaggy hair, dressed in his favorite camouflage colors, I think he looks tired and in need of some bedtime and rest kind of way but think he might smell really good and that fan is lucky to have him so close to her.
~K

@Joie de Vivre: Started at 2 a.m. not ended.

Hollywood Gossiper @ 03/11/2012 at 10:46 am

@Toronto: After watching a very horrible Pirates of the Caribbean No. 3? with Depp and Cruz not Cruz, I find Cruz is a much better actress is her own language, she has done some very wonderful powerful films in Spanish.

Hayak yes, she did a movie with Pierce Brosnan that was comedic which I enjoyed.Theron is probably too expensive at this point and she has options so she won’t do it unless the script is good and offers something different. Heist movies are rather generic unless the writing is also “brilliant” and/or you put together a good ensemble of actors. Now Helen Mirren would be fun. All depends on what the script is callng for, the initial article said there were two key female leads.

Hayak has married well though so she doesn’t really have to work anymore.

Just as long as it isn’t Statham’s chick, please, no vacuous models with no proven acting ability and preferable no actresses under 30. How old is Megan Fox again? That would make G happy though LOL.

Personally, I don’t give two craps what this dude is doing. I show up here to read the posts from dargabriel and the GFW; they are the true stars of this site. I’d like to see a picture of them getting a coffee. Together. You know that would be one hell of a table conversation. Shat out to Ethel!

Unbelievable @ 03/11/2012 at 11:47 am

I’ve never seen so many people so invested in an actor. If normal people look at gossip sites like this at all, it’s in a passing moment of boredom. They look, maybe think “huh, that’s weird”, and move on with THEIR OWN lives. I’ve read through a couple of Gerard Butler threads for that reason now – to my great regret – and I can’t believe how many of you have made this website your home! Posting regularly about Gerard Butler as your hobby. Really? You have NOTHING better to do? From tabloid wet dreams Oh Dear 1 and Manny who apparently believe EVERYTHING that’s ever written, tweeted, or gossiped about Gerard Butler and then spend hours analyzing what they think it means about him as a human being to Gerry’s Fascinating Woman who writes about him like he’s playing the lead in her acid trip to fans who seem to spend their time searching the Twitterverse to track down where Gerard Butler is, who he’s with, and what he’s doing. It’s nuts and I think you all know it’s nuts, since none of you are using your real names when you comment. I’m sure as hell am not using mine because I don’t want to be associated with this, because I think these threads are CRAZY. But you guys claim to think that the way you think and post about Gerard Butler, and the time you spend doing so, is normal and cool. So why wouldn’t you use your real names? And the way you attack each other when you’re ALL involved in and contribute to this insanity. Not one of you is any better than the rest. You’re all the stuff that reality television and papparazzi garbage is made of. I hope someday something happens for each of you that snaps you into something more valuable and personally fulfilling to do with your time. From what I’ve read, you’ll protest, “posting here doesn’t mean we don’t have lives.” That may be true for some of you, but for those who obviously post regularly and frequently about Gerard Butler here, it’s not. There is no way that someone who has better options in their lives chooses to spend so much time doing this. Unless you live in Siberia, or are confined to your home alone for some reason without an ability to function off a computer, you have something better to do. Try it – try anything else. Really, because this is just sad and I think someone from the outside who took a peep in and is horrified really needed to let you know. If you’re not going to expand your world and decide to stay here, cut out the fighting. Really – fighting over who is the least pathetic and sad of the pathetic and sad is just …….. whew.

@Unbelievable: You failed to mention those who come here pretending to either know, have seen or ARE the girlfriend! Those are the most fun!

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 03/11/2012 at 12:41 pm

@Wanda X:
And you want to see what I’ll say because I make you feel like sh_/t or use him as a whipping post for every single thing that ails me? No. I know why you do. I haven’t caught the contagion others have here. I don’t ignore stuff either like many do. I’ve faith and believe he can pull through again, because he wants tom and will. Still proud to be a supporter, not a fan. Never was a fan. Not bailing either. Been told to never leave the door, so I won’t. He’s struggling for substance sobriety once again with a mighty will power few have here. Don’t forget his aches and pains don’t go away. They need management differently.
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As for photos, you’d be surprised who knows what I look like. Okay, not off schlepping groceries and getting house chores along with laundry done, but what about you? You up for the scrutiny yourself? No. See didn’t think so. Do think if I lived in a fishbowl like he does, and not in blissful anonymity like I do, I could look well enough for to take the peering nosy judgmental eyes of folks like you!
~K

thanks info :)
maybe i’ll come back later

@Unbelievable bit harsh don’t you think? why do you care so much about the posters here if we are so sad and pathetic. caring about us must be the most sad and pathetic thing of all, lol
using your logic

underworldluver @ 03/11/2012 at 12:59 pm

@Unbelievable: yawn!

Back to the gossip-

Butler and Beckinsdale in Brilliant
http://theberry.com/2012/03/06/todays-celebrity-rundown-11-photos-50/celeb-rundown-8-106/
He should be so lucky.

nailed it @ 03/11/2012 at 1:03 pm

@underworldluver: Beckinsale is perfect for his sidekick, well done!

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 03/11/2012 at 1:04 pm

@Unbelievable:
Acid trips? Seriously? Do people take acid trips these days? LOL You sound like some sour puss bitter because she’s lost her groove from the swinging ’60s or the funkadelic maggot brain infected mushroom heavyweight ’70s? Unhappy, much? (holding my nose so not to catch that bitter disease)
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@ahem….:
Sure she’s harsh. She’s dropped her own lofty self-important psychedelic power acid made sour and crass as her point of view displayed in that tyrannical diatribe…. for attention… which you and I are giving her. Nailed.
~K

@Unbelievable:

You forgot to mention dargabriel, who, to be fair, probably is in some sort of isolated environment where they only get access to a computer during communal rec times.

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 03/11/2012 at 1:35 pm

You know Gerry has had a lot of people in his life who’ve told him he could never make it. That he would never amount to much. Well he showed them. And showed them by doing it his way. He became a success and I don’t think for one moment he’s going to let anyone (or anything) stand in that way.
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The problem with success is it is stressful. Rich people have problems like everyone, only different problems. Their problems have to be lived out (a lot of the time) public. They don’t have the blissful anonymity I do. When I go fetch coffee or have lunch out of doors no one is rushing me for an autograph or with a handheld device for a photo.
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Really feel he feels very much better so is able to do this more now. Much about how he is looking says he’s far more in control now.
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If doing stuff outside with friends going here and there, then great! Why not? Beats twiddling thumbs indoors fretting over the past doesn’t it?!
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That said there are a lot of people who could and can tamper with his career and sobrieties in the way they can. These people have access to him. While I do not. What can I do? I don’t offer him a hit or ask him if he wants to use something? I understand he might be self-mad that he allowed it to happen but he also stopped it. And to me that’s all that matters. Now. Today. This minute on the clock.
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Just don’t want him to feel he’s less than anything for stumbling. That to me in the picking oneself up, dusting oneself off, and getting back on the proverbial wagon is all that amounts for everything. I mean that.
~K
who’s making this her last post of the day

God Bless yoou all! @ 03/11/2012 at 1:46 pm

“In Christ Alone” a beautiful song with hope for all.

For those who might enjoy this….

http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x4r2nh_in-christ-alone_music

The Noise In The Walls @ 03/11/2012 at 1:56 pm

Mahalo Numpty!..Please return..I remember that store in Maui..

Best have the weekend to all JJer’s..

I. Agree kate beckensale would be perfect. I know I didn’t spell her last name right. Sorry.

dargabriel @ 03/11/2012 at 3:52 pm

Igorance is bliss, I will blind you with my light. People live in make believe land on this sight, not wanting to believe the real, sad story. You only wish I lived in a nutt house,lol. Eagle lake resort is anything but that, haha. If you care to check out my beautiful place, go to eagle lake, spalding,california, then you can all eat your hearts out,lol. I live in the etheric of the Gabriel. There is only one GOD GIVEN SOUL who would know this Cholita. Anyways, have fun with your fantisies

Oh dear 1 @ 03/11/2012 at 4:54 pm

@ unbelievable

Having a bit of a bad day are we.

@dargabriel:

OK, I looked it up. There is no Eagle Lake Resort in California. There is one in Ontario, one in Wisconsin and one in Ohio. There is a Mariner’s Resort at Eagle Lake but it’s a vacation place with camping facilities. If you LIVE at this resort, you must be a resident employee of some sort. Many resorts have employees live on the premises, like campground hosts and especially housekeeping personnel. Yeah, I’m eating my heart out over that possibility!

@dargabriel: I would think you’d be pretty p.o.’d at Cholita right now since she told you Gerry’s not going to adopt your six kids!

@Treschic:
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It appears you might be right… There are 178 in Spaulding and it is a support community for fishing at the resort.
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spaulding,_California

@Treschic:
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If you look at the census data listed, Dar’s offspring constitute 60% of the kids in that town…

Crazy Wench @ 03/11/2012 at 6:55 pm

@GerrysFascinatingWoman:
“Still proud to be a supporter, not a fan. Never was a fan.”
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Silly us, of course you don’t feel like a fan but a supporter, code word for wife. You always thought of your self as HIS woman. It’s pathetic. You’re nothing to him just an eyesore.
You said you’re not going to post for a while, how come you’re back?

@GerrysFascinatingWoman: I’m sure everyone enjoyed the public service announcement as much as I did

~golf clap~ very nice, very nice

curious cat @ 03/11/2012 at 6:55 pm

@Unbelievable:

You sure had a LOT to say about people you think are wasting their lives here. Some of us visit here on a more casual, off and on basis than others, and chat about a wide variety of things other than the actor in question. Choosing Oh dear 1 and Manny as examples of blind believers in everything they’ve read is off the mark, sorry. This site fluctuates in quality from day to day and week to week. It’s taken on a life of its own. But it seems as if you’ve stopped here more than just dropping by this once if you have all these opinons and strong feelings, however wrong some of them are.

GOOD afternoon as always to everyone, as this sra.Dargabriel, yesterday I was with the family, cooking a delicious lasagna with red sauce or bolognaise, that rich, we did because it was a request of my dear niece kiara, it the love this Italian dish, the Peruvians we like to eat tasty food and specially made with love, our food is varied and rich I love the lomo saltado which is a dish of beef, french fries and sauteed vegetables, also I like the fish ceviche, rice with chicken …. I really like …. u all …….. I really hope to pass some beautiful days in that his favorite corner and relax enough, take care much of the sun, because it is so dangerous …… ignore the taunts ….. here are some people who like pointless fight that boring ……. yawn … yawn …….. … the best fights are fist, face to face and without fear …. wow …. I guess as Spartacus fights that if it was a male … . sigh … uff … that man blood and sand ……. ……… heh, heh, heh ….. I am a small but brave woman, I do not I have fear of quarrelsome, these insults, that if I put the finger down or if I put the finger up, this smells like a coward and battle virtual pen strokes, it is not cool …….. in As I said that Mr. Butler will have six children own, as I stand firm in what I say, my friend think different because I respect his point of view, the fact is that Mr. will have his dear children, how come is the point of difference, if adopted or owned at the end as I said time will tell, hopefully, nothing changes my friendship with Mrs. DARGABRIEL, or as was the fate of sr.BUTLER have a good wife is responsible, it faithful truly loves her husband and his family …… I mean honestly, not my hand trembles as I write this, I am strong ……… I like challenges ….. wow ……, Dargabriel I retire until later, because I am seeing a red thongs as sexy on a website ….. oh ….. I bought them girls …. we should always be flirty inside and out, are dismissed with her friend CHOLITA love ….. kisses, kisses ….. goodbye.

@Manny:
Why do you always show up when one poster is gaining up on a second poster to always offer assistant to the instigator?
It’s so obvious you only live for strife.
The moment there is some bullying you’re there.
Maybe you should get some help dear.

@Can’tGetEnough:
Thanks for posting these two sightings I was referring to.
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It looks like it might be a busy night for sightings, links, pix, and videos tonight.
There is talk he is at the WPT Foundation launch party in the Bizarre restuarant at SLS Hotel in LA. Some interviewer said she is going to interview him tonight. I hope we get to see it on YouTube in a few hours. Of course, he could still be a no-show since I think she is reading from a list of people said to be invited so there is no guarantee he’s there tonight.
Let’s wait and see.
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Meanwhile here is the information on this party. JJ is not letting me post the link to the party or hotel.
“On Sunday, March 11, at The Bazaar At SLS Hotel, A-list celebrities will come together with some of the biggest names in poker for the WPT Foundation Launch Party as they help raise money for the WPT Foundation’s global charity partners. This inaugural event marks the beginning of the poker philanthropy event series WPT Playing for a Better World.
The celebrity host committee for this event includes Maria Bello, Gerard Butler, Don Cheadle, Will Ferrell, Woody Harrelson, Eva Longoria, Joel Madden and Nicole Richie, Jeremy Piven, Rob Riggle, Sophie Winkleman, Frederick Windsor, Robin Wright and many others soon to be announced……….”
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The restaurant
http://latimesblogs.latimes.com/dailydish/2008/09/a-look-at-jose.html
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I’ll be back later. Meanwhile maybe someone else can monitor and post links as they come in.

I tried one more time but JJ is not letting me post the link.
But here is a link to the Hotel – as you can see it’s very luxurious.
http://www.slsbeverlyhills.com/
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I loved the chemistry between Jerry and Jennifer Aniston. They look good together. Their movie did quite well.

OK, the link above is the one I was trying to post, it finally did post.

dargabriel @ 03/11/2012 at 7:58 pm

@Treschic: you’re looking up the wrong info then, I happen to live @ the second largest ntural lake in california, eagle lake, sspalding resort area, trust there is such a place. World known fishing, for eagle lake trout, people fly in to our small airport for the fishing. I live where most people have vacation homes. We’ve american bald eagles, beautiful sight. This spiritual place is located between sacramento and mt shasta california. Its breathtaking. I live in a place most ppl dream of. Its in lassen county. Its known as little lake tahoe. I hope you can see it, its a very lovely place.

Joie de Vivre @ 03/11/2012 at 8:50 pm

@Jet: Thanks for clarifying…I stand corrected.

Joie de Vivre @ 03/11/2012 at 8:56 pm

Albeit, JJ is still behind….too funny. My EST clock says it’s 9:52 pm, yet JJ insists it is 8:52 pm. So I’m getting more confused by the moment…HAHA!! I’ll take the opportunity to comment that I love the way Butler’s hair cascades from under the hat rim…..lovely! LOL!

Can'tGetEnough @ 03/11/2012 at 8:59 pm

Pic of GB at airport in Palm Springs taken about an hour ago:

https://twitter.com/#!/Jackuhttackk/status/179005156518658048/photo/1

Joie de Vivre @ 03/11/2012 at 9:23 pm

@Can’tGetEnough: Hey CGE! You never disappoint. Thanks, and hope you are well, paisana.

Joie de Vivre @ 03/11/2012 at 9:37 pm

So what do you all think of KONY 2012? What better place to to gauge a response than here? Please share because I’d love to know everyone’s feelings about this campaign. It’s brilliant and that is the happy comfort to help us sleep at night. Yet, the whole thing, Invisible Children, Inc., and associates has come under harsh scrutiny, as everyone knows, I’m sure. Your thoughts?? Anyway, just trying to test the temp of those who might (or might not) have an emotional investment in said travesty because of Butler in MGP. Hope everyone stays safe and happy. XXO

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 03/11/2012 at 10:24 pm

@Joie de Vivre:

Oh dear. Came to see the posts (through my JJ addiction). I actually do have a pretty wonderful life @whoever posted what I’ve been thinking, but still coming back on here….person. But felt the need to post this link. Because I started the Kony 2012 on the last thread. And my friends and people who love me are wanting everyone to look at it from a wide perspective. Here’s a link. Let’s all research and go from there.

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http://www.forbes.com/sites/haydnshaughnessy/2012/03/11/kony-2012-successes-and-failings-in-the-stop-kony-campaign

@Joie, dammit if you get Dave Grohl there, let me know. I will be calm, I will be calm. Thank u for that! :D I love that he’s a family man. Just like Hugh Jackman. For ME, it isn’t a feeling of wanting to BE with the celebrity crush, it’s an admiration for their work. Ok fine! It’s Hugh Jackman’s looks too. Whatever. But I love that their family men.

@ The person that said their Dad looks like Gerard. The exact same thing happened to me with Liam Neeson. Always found him attractive until I got told he resembled my Dad. Thanks a lot for that. Grrrr

Maggie P.U. @ 03/11/2012 at 10:37 pm

Hey Treschic 91…. Eagle Lake does exist as a camp ground and resivoir…with some RV areas. I rented a cabin with friends some time ago. Not as pretty as Morro Bay…. and not spiritual. You can ask to validate and they will tell you people do not live in the mountains because of accessability. Rentals are at the bottom. You can get all your questions and curiosity settled with this info. I did. Have a great day :).

Eagle Lake Map
Eagle Lake is located about 17 miles northwest of Susanville at an elevation of 5,100 feet. Eagle Lake contains 27,000 surface acres of water 100 miles of timbered shoreline. The northern end of the lake is mostly characteristic of high desert country. Brush and junipers cover the surrounding area. Rocks and patches of reeds makeup the shoreline. The south end of the lake is forested with pines, cedars, and firs. The Eagle Lake marina and boat launch are located at the south end of the lake. Fishing at Eagle Lake opens each year on the Memorial Day weekend and closes on Dec. 31. Eagle Lake is nationally known for its trophy Eagle Lake Trout. The average size fish caught at Eagle is 3 – 5 pounds with the record fish caught being around 15 pounds. There are several public campgrounds situated at the south end of the lake with flush toilets and piped water. For more information contact the Eagle Lake Ranger District at (530) 257-4188. Sep’s Pro Fishing (707) 449-8413. Eagle Lake Marina (530) 825-3454. Camping Reservations (800) 280-CAMP. Eagle Lake RV Park (530) 825-3133.

Peace.

MPU
**Hi peeps…HUGS!!!!

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 03/11/2012 at 11:49 pm

* sorry edit: They’re. And WAS told. I don’t care for grammatical errors. But no edit button. Ok a lot going on around me….be Nice to one another. And NO Dar, you are not the only spiritual one along with Cholita (JaJa as I like to call her). Trust me, I know I’m protected and I appreciate it more than you know. I respect your opinion, but never assume you are better than anyone.

Jennifer Aniston!

dargabriel @ 03/12/2012 at 12:31 am

Cholita, I will always be your friend,no matter what, if we agrree great and if we disagree wonderful. I think its a coincidence I’ve 6 beautiful children and Butler will have six as well, great for him, kids are terrific. My kids are my true love, my hearts desire. By the way sweetheart, you refer to me as a Mrs. But I’m a miss or Ms. I got a divorce in 08, but thank you for the compliment. You like thongs,lol, sexy, omg, I happen to love boy cut shorts,hehe, now those are sexy, not too much to be revealed just a litttle ass cheek, I like wearing em, maybe that’s too flirty,no? To other ppl on here, Eagle Lake is very spiritual indeed, to go camping is one thing, but to live up in the pines and just a short walk to the lake is true beauty. I live with a very good friend up here and pretty much have the place to myself most of the time. Anyways, if you ppl want to be cruel and immature thats your gig, in the meantime I will be enjoying, my work,my home, the mountains, the lake, the animaal’s, the fresh mountain air and most of all the views, I bet Mr. Butler would love it here. Peace, dargabriel

So it appears that GB didn’t show up at the poker event tonight. I can’t say I am disappointed. I think he needs to focus on his rehab more than going out, and it’s not like he isn’t going out at all. Last week he went to a concert, a tennis match, and has been seen in certain eateries, so he is not totally hiding. He is doing a little of everything and that’s good. No need to become a total radical and deprive yourself completely only to get sick and tired of it all and relapse.
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Here is some stuff that might interest. A few gorgeous pix of GB, they look like stills from MGP.
http://kc-picspam.tumblr.com/post/19061088812/gerard-butlers-machine-gun-preacher
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Another interesting site
http://lovegerardbutler.tumblr.com/

Another tumblr blog about GB with some photos from Phantom promotion that I don’t think we saw before.
Click on them.
http://bornforblackandwhite.tumblr.com/
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6 minute sample from a one hour interview with Gerard Butler available in the bonus material of the Wrath of Gods DVD.
http://www.wrathofgods.com/gerard-butler-interview/

He was seen earlier today eating in Palm Springs and later at the airport possibly going back to LA after a few days doing BFC. It seems he is going back and forth every few days between PS and LA.
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g4cohen‏@g4cohen
“Sorry Gerard Butler, the most handsome guy brunching here today is Hayes T Cohen (@ Le Parker Méridien Palm Springs) ”
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“Gerard Butler cruising after his rehab from his surfing incident for his new movie wearing a Boobie Shack hat!!! ”
http://twitpic.com/8v0dtr

@Reviews:
He was seen earlier today eating in Palm Springs and later at the airport possibly going back to LA after a few days doing BFC.
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A few days at BFC? He was papped in LA on Friday.

Dementia has set in. He’s flashing the “v” sign at the wrong establishment. That’s not on the cafe’s menu, Gergolo. You’re not in Thailand.

More GB interviews
http://www.net-plus-profit.com/celebrity/category/gerard-butler/
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Gorgeous GB art for Int’l Women Day last week. I think it’s fair to say GB has many devoted ladies.
http://gbutler.ru/fan-art/happy-womens-day/

I think I may have posted this before but here it is again just in case I didn’t
http://www.flickr.com/photos/37341181@N08/6962597699/in/photostream/
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@wth:
He was seen in LA Thursday for the concert and then again on Friday at a coffee shop. Then in Palm Springs Saturday for the Tennis match, and depending on whether or not the sighting is true, today he was seen again in Palm Springs. That’s why I am saying he is probably going back and forth between both places. Of course, there is no sure way to tell he is still doing rehab, but he sure is spending lots of time in Palm Springs lately.
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The Russian site has troubadour and some other pix from over the years, some really gorgeous ones
http://gbutler.ru/fan-art/when-thee-in-vain-looks-for-the-gaze/
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http://gbutler.ru/news/gerard-butler-troubadour-club-in-west-hollywood/

The Russian site has several previously unpublished photos from the TO film festival September 11, 2011
http://gbutler.ru/photos/tiff-obverse-and-reverse/
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Apparently, KP has been so furious with Russell after he allegedly filed for divorce without telling her.
Maybe it’s true she is trying to make him jealous with GB, who knows.
http://www.nation.com.pk/pakistan-news-newspaper-daily-english-online/entertainment/07-Mar-2012/perry-%E2%80%98taunted-brand-with-burger-photo

Prince Harry wants to date Katy Perry? What should we believe now?
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“Harry apparently hopes to sign the “Firework” singer up for Queen Elizabeth’s diamond jubilee concert so that he can make his move, reported femalefirst.

“Harry has a double reason for targeting Katy. First, he thinks she is a rocking artist with great songs. But secondly, she is single and very sexy,” a source told the Daily Star newspaper.”
http://articles.timesofindia.indiatimes.com/2012-03-07/news-and-interviews/31131633_1_katy-perry-prince-harry-firework
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“A source told HollywoodLife.com: “Katy doesn’t even mention Russell’s name. She has never looked or seemed better. She is on the top of her game right now, and Russell is the last thing on her mind.

“Katy doesn’t want to know about what Russell is doing now. She really doesn’t even care what he’s doing.”

However, the 27-year-old beauty will no doubt be thrilled to hear Britain’s Prince Harry is reportedly keen to bag a date with her, and is hoping to sign her up to Queen Elizabeth’s Diamond Jubilee concert this June so he can make his move…”
http://www.thesundaily.my/news/315448

Don’t think he is back in LA for long. Isn’t he due in NOLA this week, though not doing reshoots in Shreveport till 25/26 March?

@Sweet:
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Yet the ONLY time you spot is to try and mother me. Awwwww I feel so loved and stalked all at the same time. ♥
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@Reviews:
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“I think I may have posted this before…”
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Of course you have because that is all you do…

colormeskeptical @ 03/12/2012 at 10:55 am

@Reviews: Well come on dontcha know Katy is very much desired and all the men are throwing themselves at her feet, princes, actors, male models, what’s a girl to do?

good morning to all …….. no, no, no change ……. ……. …… good morning all I apologize to everyone for being very rude, but I hate to commit abuse against people, one may have different positions on thoughts, beliefs, feelings, political etc ….. that’s good, but when people engage in mock others constantly is an abuse of thought and behavior towards others, I love the discussions, gossip, excesses, be fans, no fans, gossipers by fraternity, but the repeated and constant evil just for the fun of it …. damage sucks …… even in the foreing legion guess who had healthy living standards ……. I imagine …… heh, heh, heh …. I have nothing more to say respect, thanks …… SRTA.Dargabriel like this, I corrected ….. ha, ha, ha ….. I always so formal, yesterday I actually went the wave negative, but when I get upset, I’m terrible, I am direct and rude, thank God this is only very sporadic, does me no good, so I try to balance myself immediately to my side, live in constant duality and natural .. wow .. as a good sign ….. Rooster-Acuario at a time ….. very funny …. I like the debate, exchange views, know that is what people really think of many things, helps to understand more deeply the human being …. I like the smooth and constant communication, I like to keep me anything about my feelings all I say, what I like and dislike, but I always try in possible to be cautious not to damage the sentiments, I am very frank about it, I feel that the day I find my soul mate, my other half, half of my heart … that emotion ayy …… will understand …… I am, and I will understand such as …… dear friend, know that the number eight is very strong, Mr. Butler remains much that numerical vibration, as you and my laughter …. laughter …… …… my name has eight letters, numerolgia am eight, my family is made up of 8 people, so I got my first job at age 18 work as telephone exchange operator, the company enters a 8.8.88 and work there for 10 long years of my life, very happy, by changes in the economy of my country, there were Reductions of workers and leave the place on a very also special match …. wow ……. 08/08/1998 … and as I find out that there was Mr. Butler. I first saw the movie 300 just the year 2008 …. and this is a great laugh ….. .. JA JA JA … but really …. I’m on this forum recently, my destiny is very special with that number, by intuition I feel that in my future that number will do a great job, I look forward to meeting him again ….. I always forget, it’s true I love thongs and baby dolls are so cute, no matter if you’re thin or robust, here is a great time to indulge to feel sexy and very feminine and above all sure of yourself ……. I say goodbye but I keep talking until tomorrow, I will prepare my enriqueceder breakfast ….. amaranth milk with my bread with black olives than rich …. positive vibes to all ….. lucky …… bye.

Oh Lord, another one thinks she’s Butler’s destiny!

Butler was spotted at the Indian Wells tournament so I highly doubt he was at Betty Ford for a couple of days of whatever…

@dargabriel: you refer to me as a Mrs. But I’m a miss or Ms. I got a divorce in 08, but thank you for the compliment”

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Why is being called a “Mrs.” a compliment? Are you one of these backwards women who believe marriage is a status symbol? You need to get over yourself. No one cares where you live or how and please spare the details of what you wear! I know you think Butler lurks here and is reading and that everything you say is making everyone so jealous. So go on talking about your butt cheeks hanging out beneath a pair of shorts and how good a mother your are for loving your six kids all in the same post! It’s quite enlightening to exactly what kind of woman and mother you are!

backward azz @ 03/12/2012 at 11:58 am

@Treschic:
I think You’re a backward azz woman for attacking marriage. Marriage is definitely a status symbol, except I don’t think you’re married and that’s why you attack it. Probably one of those women that look like Rosie with the big fat mouth that no man wants. Go get yourself another ice cream cone and lick it, because that’s all you’ll ever lick.

I don’t want to know what kind of underwear is worn by anyone here. Way way way too much info.
And who else would like Dar and Cholita to just get a room already. They can indulge in their incomprehensible stream-of-conscious gibberish together.

@Manny:
There is an old saying if you don’t have anything good to say don’t say anything at all. Yet, you always come here to throw one of your old snarky remarks at someone.

What do you care what Reviews posts? You used to be obsessed with Eve, then GFW, they’re not around as much so now it’s Reviews. You always find someone to direct your bullying to.

You behave like a mental case. You’re one of these people that could definitely use a good stay at the mental ward.

@Manny:
Who cares what Reviews posts? People love pics of Butler so if we see it again, why is that irritating you?
I know why. It’s because you’re not a fan, you only come here to annoy, irritate, and get your thrills doing it. You’re not a fan so you don’t care much whether or not you see pics of Butler. It’s more appealing to you to be an *******. Your true colors are showing.

@backward azz: Marriage is definitely a status symbol, except I don’t think you’re married”

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First, let me enlighten YOU! I AM married and secondly, when women start seeing marriage as an upgrade from being single, means they do not value their own indepedence and their life as single.
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Are you one of those women who put more detail and thought in to your wedding then a husband? Your type sets women back a hundred years! Marriage is not an upgrade, it is NOT a status symbol. No one should respect a married woman any more or less then a single one! GET OUT OF THE DARK AGES!

@backward azz:
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Gerry is a single man. Would you consider him a better person if he were married? Or with your backward thinking, it’s not the same for a man?

backward azz @ 03/12/2012 at 12:22 pm

@Treschic:
STFU, I don’t need your backward values. Marriage is a good thing, so stop bashing it. Just because you didn’t find a man doesn’t mean marriage isn’t good.
No, and I don’t think you’re married. Who would marry an angry hateful woman like you?

@Manny:

I thought Indian Wells was close to Betty Ford? Sounds to me like he’s doing some outpatient therapy. I hope so.

@backward azz:
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What are you, eleven? My views are anything but backwards and marriage IS a good think if it’s with the right person! Too many women get married just for the sake of being married and settle. I’ve been married a very long time but whether or not you believe it doesn’t matter to me. You didn’t answer my question about Gerry though!

I sometimes wonder about the emotional stability of some on this site! It’s scary!

Then too are the ones on WO that follow every tweet and siting and comment someone makes about Butler! There’s one over there that even seems to stalk him to places! Astonishing!

@Treschic:
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Indian Wells tennis was fabulous over the weekend, we watched some. I don’t know how he can do daily outpatient and attend tennis matches at the same time. If he did he is quite the multi-tasker and has conquered the being in two places at the same time.
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@Sweet:
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Again, why is it YOU feel the need to play my mother??? You only post to scold me. Do you spend hours waiting for me to post? You post within minutes of everything I do so I would say the ONLY person with an unhealthy attachment is you to me. Really strange in fact… stalkerish…
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But thanks for caring so much to watch the threads day in and day out to find my posts. ♥

@Manny:
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Maybe he’s staying there over the nights and going to group therapy and some one on one. Doesn’t mean he needs to be there weaving baskets and making wallets all day! Seems the whole purpose of OP is so that the patient is checking in with his counselors daily. Would make sense since he’s been doing this for several days after his inpatient stint.

Now they’re over there posting info about the tennis tourn. he was supposedly spotted at.
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I wonder if I were famous, would someone post later today the location, directions and layout of the local Wal-Mart where I might be? lololol!

backward azz @ 03/12/2012 at 12:49 pm

@Treschic:
“Too many women get married just for the sake of being married and settle.”
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Then that’s their fault. It’s not men’s fault women settle. Men do the same thing BTW. It’s called being realistic and responsible. No one ever ends up marrying the image of the partner they have in their head. Grow up and stop bashing marriage. Maybe then you’ll find someone.

@Treschic:
I think it’s a good thing they post info on Butler.
What’s your problem?

@backward azz:

Why do you keep saying I’m “bashing” marriage? I’m just not elevating to a the status above being single, that’s all!
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Your post doesn’t make sense. You say someone marrying poorly is being realistic and responsible! How so? You mean like beggars shouldn’t be chosers? Sounds like you are in an unsatisfactory marriage but you stay in it because you feel you can’t do any better and being married holds some sort of status for you! You’re sad!
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Then you go on to tell me to grow up and maybe I’ll find someone, like that is the ultimate reward in life! The ultimate reward in life is making yourself happy and following YOUR dreams, whether you are single or not and not by putting all of that on a mate to come in to your life and make you happy. It doesn’t work like that.

How about the waves at Mavericks today? Anyone got any info? I love the new interest some acquire for things attached to GB, especially after never having any interest in it before!
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Come May there will be new interest in the Gulf War and gemology! lmfao!

@WO:

No problem other then it seems a tad obsessive and much of what is posted is reposted over and over again. You don’t think that posting every tweet that mentions the guy’s name is a bit much? A couple of weeks or so ago he was jerked around from Scotland to London, to NYC, back to Scotland, then to Mexico then back to LA just because there were random tweets out there that mentioned his name with bogus sightings! All the time he was in rehab! I don’t think it’s ME who has the problem here! Just sayin!

@WO:

You know, I like to lurk at the fan sites occasionally. But I tend to believe the sitings that have a photo with them and don’t put much stock in the tweets or the repeated posting of tabloid articles.
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I like looking at the guy, knowing his next projects but not knowing his every move! I guess maybe I’m not qualified to be weirdly obsessive or perhaps I misunderstand the definition of it.

It makes me wonder if some of these women would have to know their own mate’s every move every day! It seems a tad smothering and smacks of the need to fulfill a void in some very unfulfilling lives!

I have to hand it go GALS for not allowing tweets, even though they seem a bit too rigid in the rules on discussion over there.
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WO wants to come off as a place where you can voice your views openly but I’ve had posts go missing that were merely stating an opinion.
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A few of the other more obscure sites are no different. Your views and opinions are welcome as long as they coincide with the ongoing mindset and climate of the board.
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I think the problem is when you come on to a site and speak sanely and logically and objectively and make some valid points that perhaps some don’t want to see and you make good sense, it makes some take review of their own thought processes and put in to perspective how fcked up they may be getting over an actor and they feel a tad threatened and want you censored so they don’t have to be reminded of their own instability.
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He’s a human being, not a God, not your husband, not your son. He’s a guy who’s doing his job and trying to get by the best he can.

@Treschic:
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GALS come here to discuss everything not allowed on their site. Same with WO since Dianne decided to play moderator over there too.

backward azz @ 03/12/2012 at 1:37 pm

@Treschic:
“You say someone marrying poorly is being realistic and responsible! How so?”
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Not so. Marrying poorly is a choice, and people marry poorly for many reasons, not just because they think it’s a status symbol. In fact, most who marry poorly don’t do so because they think it’s a status symbol. That’s ridiculous. They marry poorly usually for other factors like money or for having children (biological clock ticking away). If women do that, it’s not the man’s fault.
Also, it shortchanges men too. I am sure most men wouldn’t want to be in a situation where the woman married him only for his money/earning power, or because she is desperate to have kids and he is the only one around she can latch herself onto. No, men don’t like desperate women.
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“Sounds like you are in an unsatisfactory marriage but you stay in it because you feel you can’t do any better and being married holds some sort of status for you! You’re sad!”
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I am not in an unsatisfactory marriage; not even close, which is why I think Marriage is a great thing and the best institution to get into, provided you marry a man that makes you happy and viceverse. Mine does. We are everything to each other. I just don’t understand women that put marriage down. In my experience it’s always been women unhappy with men in general, so they take it out on marriage in general. It’s not men’s fault you’re unhappy with yourself or marry him for the “wrong reason”.

@Manny:
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I don’t doubt that they do that! I do it too! But even here it seems like an overflow from the one tracked mines of either the “Butler does no wrong” camp to the “Butler is a creep” camp. I don’t think those with a sane opinion somewhere in the middle have a place! That’s why I say it’s all overrun by the emotionally unstable.

@backward azz: I just don’t understand women that put marriage down. In my experience it’s always been women unhappy with men in general, so they take it out on marriage in general. It’s not men’s fault you’re unhappy with yourself or marry him for the “wrong reason”

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Who is putting marriage down? You keep saying this! I never said that. I said that marriage should not be held as a status symbol for a woman OR a man, for that matter. It’s the union of two seperate lives, not an upgrade in society! It may have been deemed that for women a hundred years ago because they needed it for financial security but this is a new era….at least I thought so!
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You have a very backward view of marriage! If you believe it raises the status of a woman to be married, perhaps that is all you feel YOU have going for you is the fact that you are married. Are you not an individual too? Could you thrive and function on your own single? Maybe not!
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Seems your bitterness is coming from experience. Does your hubby have an ex who likes to blame him for the demise of their union perhaps? Were you part of the reason for that break up? There are many questions I could ask that coincide with your view and your attitude and your apparent sensitivity to the subject!
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No one is blaming men or women for a bad marriage. But it takes two people to make it a good one. It’s always far better to be in the status of an unhappy single then unhappy married, in my view.
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Marriage is almost becoming an outdated mode of status, IMO. It used to be a necessity for people, especially women a hundred years ago, now it should be a luxury that two people engage in and not take lightly.
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It’s so commercialized these days that all the romance and purpose of it has been diminished. Women spend thousands of dollars on the wedding, ONE DAY! Then spend thousands divorcing later. It’s madness and I don’t blame Gerry for staying single!

God Bless yoou all! @ 03/12/2012 at 2:12 pm

“We love because he first loved us.” 1 John 4:19 (NIV)

colormeskeptical @ 03/12/2012 at 2:18 pm

@Treschic: Butler can be a good multi-tasker at times.

colormeskeptical @ 03/12/2012 at 2:28 pm

Don’t understand the obsession about other fansites here, it is like obsessing about the obsessors.

Don’t get it.

Not enough to talk about just the Butler, who is far more interesting, not enough for many of you either?

curious cat @ 03/12/2012 at 2:31 pm

Wow, all this on marriage. I haven’t read back far here, but I recall reading studies that said the happiest people are married men and single women. Why? This was years ago. Maybe the expectations of marriage were different. When I was a teen I had no interest in marriage. It scared me. It seemed as if it were a trap for women, that they became OWNED and like servants. I had a boyfriend once (thank goodness I didn’t marry him) who said he felt the role of a wife was to handle all the mundane chores in life to free him for creative work. Eh, what? How about MY creative work?

On the other hand, an older male friend once told me many people stop looking for the great romantic love, have someone who is a great friend, the sex is good, they grow together and decide, might as well get married.

People used to have arranged marriages and some worked out into long lasting love affairs, some didn’t. Some people have great passions that last, and some great passions don’t. So who is to say?

colormeskeptical @ 03/12/2012 at 2:39 pm

meanwhile JJers missing the juicy goss over at Radar Online

So I will probably get blasted for his but seriously since Brandigate it has been an open field day on Butler’s sexual encounters. This sounds a bit too far fetched. He was not in rehab last year… so the first few lines are not true. I think it is another story trying to get air time. I don’t think Butler is a saint but this is too off center even for him!!!

Can'tGetEnough @ 03/12/2012 at 2:55 pm

Good Afternoon JJer’s! Here’s another pic of GB with a fan:

Sandy ‏ @nycsandygirl
Forgot to tweet this pic w Gerard Butler. I ran into him in the stadium on the courtside level. He was v sweet. :)
http://twitter.com/#!/nycsandygirl/status/179240037987254272/photo/1
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Can’t wait to hear the speculation on the Radar Online article! Any guesses????

internetmasterbrian @ 03/12/2012 at 3:07 pm

Finally the story is starting to break. his pr tried real hard to deflect with the rehab baloney.

I am going to enjoy watching his diehard fans, defending their idol now, they are gonna die when they find out who and why he ran to rehab. He fuucked up big time. Finally this dou/che gets his day.

Its the beginning of the end for Gerry, no one will like him or work with him after this.

I wonder which super sleuth will get her name first. The son is a huge hint.

GerrysGreenEyedWoman @ 03/12/2012 at 3:08 pm

“Before entering rehab last year,”
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This is how this article starts. So does the “legal editor” know something the rest of us do not?
~K

@Manny: For those with good memories Lainey talked about his involvement with married women at some ‘gossip’ party last year – several people tweeted the comments. She specifically said that he liked the idea that women were willing to leave their husbands for him.

gazooks, it wasn’t Britta I hope, just wondering since Relativity reallly dropped the ball for Gerry regarding some films this year? He royally screwed himself if he did. Ryan K. has a son but she doesn’t.

Thoughts anyone? or is this total b.s.?

@internetmasterbrian:
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Give us a hint… A-List, B-List, reality starish….
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@…..:
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I remember that but I was hoping it wasn’t true. If this does turn out to be the truth, Oh Lord…

Katy Perry split from hubby last year….

@L:
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But she isn’t an actress…

..she wants to be one…?? no idea… if this is true he is an idiot. complete idiot !

Can'tGetEnough @ 03/12/2012 at 3:34 pm

She’s apparently a model turned actress and could it be he was in rehab last year as well? Or did this just end? Interesting to say the least.

“His admission into rehab was reportedly what ended the alleged affair.”

http://www.entertainmentwise.com/news/71473/Gerard-Butlers-Steamy-Affair-With-Married-Star-Revealed-

Can'tGetEnough @ 03/12/2012 at 3:35 pm

@Manny: Says at the top of the article I just posted:

Gerard Butler had a sexy affair with a very high profile Hollywood actress and model that led to her divorce.

GerrysGreenEyedWoman @ 03/12/2012 at 3:38 pm

I wish Gerry would go live in Italy for a year.
~K

Can'tGetEnough @ 03/12/2012 at 3:40 pm

Could it be his OMAM co-star Abigail Spencer??? She does have a son and she filed for divorce!

http://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-news/news/hawthorne-star-abigail-spencer-files-for-divorce-2012262

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 03/12/2012 at 3:43 pm

@GerrysGreenEyedWoman:

I wish I would go live in Italy for a year. :) If this is true, shame on him.

GerrysGreenEyedWoman @ 03/12/2012 at 4:06 pm

And rent a villa near Lucca, use his Italian to make a few Indie films.
~K
wondering where the we used Coke together part is? (in quotes of course to make it seem “real”)

angelsrock @ 03/12/2012 at 4:17 pm

Time to grab a diet coke and sit back to watch the speculations!!!!
If this is false Gerry is really going to be pissed off!!!!

I always hoped he’d keep his big paws off the married ladies. I hope this isn’t true!!!!

whattoexp @ 03/12/2012 at 4:29 pm

@Can’tGetEnough: Abigail Spencer sounds very plausible. If it’s true then it’s too bad for both parties. Wasn’t there a photo floating on the net of them too earlier this year? I thought that’s a very pretty picture of them but never gave it any other thoughts.

GerrysGreenEyedWoman @ 03/12/2012 at 4:44 pm

And not one photo or Tweet or shred of any kind of substantial evidence as they came and went into hotels? No, “his hotel”? And for months? It reeks of a smear campaign. But why?
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Ah, yeah Tuscany, and a long break from all that is… this might not actually be such a bad idea!
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Wasn’t Abigail Spencer cast in Of Men and Mavericks??

The Noise In The Walls @ 03/12/2012 at 4:52 pm

Hard to say..I guess time will tell or if we even get a statement from his camp…who knows??

btw, I’m going to Italy in a few months…hopefully it won’t be rainy…

@internetmasterbrian:

This is just a bunch of crap! Are you that stupid? The story has already changed just in the last few hours to the point it’s obvious it’s all fabricated!
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Even if it were true, it won’t hurt his career. This is Hollywood. They thrive on stuff like this!

@ahem…:

Is she a model/actress wannabe?

@ahem…:

Also, have you seen a pic of Kavanaugh? I wouldn’t blame her!

whattoexp @ 03/12/2012 at 4:58 pm

It’s all pure speculation as to who this woman is but here the article Abigail wrote earlier this year including the picture with Gerry.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/abigail-spencer/post_2776_b_1170281.html

Spencer was married in 2004. That’s not that recent. The article said she was recently married which I took to be in the last year or two max. One article says “high profile” the other says “actress wannabe”. Which is it.

Somebody who was a newlywed, with a son from a previous relationship. Actress, model. Married to a friend of his. These are your clues people – you can snoop out the identity of virtually any woman who stands within 2 feet of him. Don’t disappoint me now.

dargabriel @ 03/12/2012 at 5:14 pm

I think Cholita is Gerarad’s other half and he will eventully make a filming her country. It would be very nice if ppl on this site could be light hearted. Have a blessed day to all. It’s all good I won’t be posting any longer, I find this site takes away from my spiritual self, for me I’d rather stay fully positive. See ya,bye. Dargabriel

How do I put this...? @ 03/12/2012 at 5:15 pm

WARNING: SARCASM AHEAD —

I’m confused. Is it –

He went into rehab because he was cheating on Unnamed Mistress with Aniston, while Katy Perry watched?

Or because Perry was tired of Unnamed Mistress constantly ringing his phone when she was on her super “secret” date, so she demanded her money back from his pimp, Aniston, who then ordered him to rehab?

Or because all three simultaneously showed up at his front door demanding even bigger “Big Love” and he panicked and ran out of the back door and straight into rehab?
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Seriously, this is totally out-of-hand. A change in thinking, image, venue/homebase, and maybe even management is REALLY overdue in his (professional) life.

This kinda stuff has officiailly become more easy to create, believe, and/or distract from what could be his talents and what might be his truth.

Too bad…

colormeskeptical @ 03/12/2012 at 5:24 pm

I don’t think anyone will have to exert much effort. Betting this woman will be sitting down with Oprah next week. Or at least one of the tabloids.

colormeskeptical @ 03/12/2012 at 5:28 pm

@Can’tGetEnough: Except every other detail is taken right from Radar, you know the people with the EXCLUSIVE. And since when did Katy Perry have a kid from a previous relationship.

backward azz @ 03/12/2012 at 5:32 pm

@internetmasterbrian:
“Its the beginning of the end for Gerry, no one will like him or work with him after this.”
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Unfortunately, this is HW and those people have no values. So I doubt that if indeed Gerry messed with a married women anyone would care. If anything, by the looks of it, marriage is not in vogue these days, so anything that undermines it is going to be welcomed.
I, for one, am hoping the story is false.
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Yes, I agree with you, he has a bad reputation when it comes to women but a lot of his escapades wouldn’t be possible without a stupid willing female who forgets her morals and jumps in bed with him because he is so exciting sexually – heartthrob Gerard Butler. That stupid married woman is totally to blame for her marriage going south. What did she expect? It’s not his fault if she is stupid enough to think he wanted her to dump her hubby so he can marry her and adopt her kid just because he is having sex with her. Didn’t meg Ryan make the same mistake with Russel Crow? I hate Russel Crow but I didn’t blame him. I blamed Ryan for being so stupid, he just made a fool of her. She moved in with him in AU, then he kicked her out and married someone else within weeks. How stupid can one woman be? She behaved like an amateur; like someone who never had a man before in her life.
I think women have to be very careful before they make such moves. Men do this to women all the time. It’s the same story repeating itself all the time. It’s the testosterone effect.

@dargabriel:

You couldn’t just leave without one more of your taunting stupid remarks about some “other half” could you? Then all your wish for light and love is fake. You have no love lost here. You only post here to annoy and taunt people and you know it. Don’t let the screen door hit you and take Cho and her incoherent ramblings with you. Peace!

Wow. Gerry is being revealed as the star of many blinds. First, being drunk as a skunk at the Venice FF, getting a bj from a waitress while out for dinner with friends, dating teenagers…….

And now, as a matter of fact, I DO remember a blind about a movie actor who enjoys sleeping with married women and seeing if they’ll leave their husbands for him. Apparently, it feeds his ego….

When will it end? Hopefully, most of this behaviour stems from warped judgement due to his drinking/drug use. I’m praying that getting clean and sober will help him become a better man.

But, in the end, all of this is his business. I’ll still enjoy his movies…even if he’s an a/s/s…LOL!

@backward azz:

So it’s always the woman’s fault? Men are off the hook for their bad behavior because of testosterone and women should know better, right? You hate your own sex!

He is dating someone @ 03/12/2012 at 5:44 pm

Almost 6 months ago I declared, based on this picture alone
http://www.google.pl/imgres?q=Abigail+Spencer+gerard+butler&um=1&hl=pl&client=firefox-a&rls=org.mozilla:pl:official&channel=np&biw=1366&bih=622&tbm=isch&tbnid=N4LBweGyq_W9BM:&imgrefurl=http://www.huff

that something is going on with this woman and Gerry.
People told me ‘no she is married’.
I then said, maybe she is divorced or getting a divorce???? Of course, all I got from you people is negs. You never listen to any idea.
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Well, someone on WO said exactly this but the good ladies removed the link.
It’s a good thing I at least found the picture.
And it gets better. Around the time of this picture (Nov/2011) she filed for a divorce from her husband. I read her blog where she wrote about going home for the holidays with her son and no mention of her husband at all. I thought it was so odd (and that was even before I knew about the divorce).
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So I was right after all. That picture really spoke volumes for me. It’s very possible it’s her.

Wasn’t there someone here last year talking about a tall and dark modelistic woman seen around Gerry last summer and was suspected she was a gf? Then someone came along and also pointed out that they were also with her boyfriend who was a pro surfer and that the two of them were getting married. Remember the photos of him getting the pizza and again pics of him getting out of a golf cart with h im and her and then again at lunch in Malibu? Same guy, same girl and Gerry. BINGO, I think we have a winner!

Now if someone can dig up the photos! It would be during the time he was renting the malibu house and surfing.

Regarding Abigail... @ 03/12/2012 at 5:45 pm

That “exclusive” says the woman has a son from a “previous relationship.” That implies NOT with her divorcing husband. Spenser’s baby daddy IS her divorcing husband, right? It’s a few more discrepancies in that link, but I can’t tell if it’s poor fabricating or just sh!tty grammar skills.

Like someone said upthread, if this is on the up-and-up, the “wannabe” model/actress (or “someone close”) will wannabe in a “Her Side of The Story” feature somewhere soon enough. Just ask Tiger, Jesse James, Ashton, Arnold, etc.

colormeskeptical @ 03/12/2012 at 5:48 pm

Women should know better because they should be smarter as they are not ruled by the peen. They should know that a guy like Butler is only after sex so you use him for sex and to expect anything more is stupid. Is it unfair that women get penalized more for the same behavior as men, you betcha. You know Quaid was out boning everything in sight whilst Meg was doing the Crowe. His poor me I am the victim here was quite laughable but people lapped it up. Wonder what his excuse is with the latest divorce.

It’s not Abigail, people. Gerry has expressed many times he doesn’t get involved with actresses, especially those he’s working with!

AND YOU ALL CALL YOURSELF FANS!

Did anyone look to see if Alan filed for a divorce?

He is dating someone @ 03/12/2012 at 5:52 pm

@BINGO:
That’s also a possibility. I remember the incident in equations.
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@Treschic:
Backward might be right. Testosterone has a lot to do with it. Women hardly behave like that. They are usually looking for love. Men are looking for quantity. If she cheated on her husband with Gerry perhaps she felt her husband wasn’t giving her everything she wanted from a man so she needed to look elsewhere, while for Gerry it was just another vadg to fuuck.
Sad!
People should really think twice before they act with their feelings/needs/emotions instead of with their brain.

I think this whole thing is made up. It’s fun to guess and all that but you can’t believe the stuff they print out there! If this woman is so aspiring, she should just come forward and show herself. It would do wonders for her fledgling career!

colormeskeptical @ 03/12/2012 at 5:55 pm

@He is dating someone: Can you read clues. This person was newlywed. Does being married since 2004 make you a newlywed. The other clue is he was friends with the husband?

Either you accept all of Radar’s “clues” and the person has to fit them all or the story is not true.

If hugging your co-star is a sign of an affair get out the photos with Aniston and Heigl and Thandie and so on and so forth.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wn1lc_HytyI

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This is the photo call at 2011 The Art of Alysium party. Was that Alan at 0.33 ? Alan was with Gerard so Abigail was apparently right after Gerard’s shoot.

backward azz @ 03/12/2012 at 6:13 pm

@He is dating someone:
“People should really think twice before they act with their feelings/needs/emotions instead of with their brain.”
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My sentiments exactly.
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@Treschic:
“It’s not Abigail, people. Gerry has expressed many times he doesn’t get involved with actresses, especially those he’s working with!
AND YOU ALL CALL YOURSELF FANS!’
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You don’t really understand men. I can tell from the things you write. Just because he says so, it doesn’t mean that if there was a good opportunity with all the right conditions available to him he wouldn’t be swept away into it, despite his NO deceleration.
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He also said he stopped drinking and smoking, which implied he stopped doing other substance addictions Then we saw him smoking, and now doing coke and painkillers. The coke and painkillers were such a shock because when someone says his career is dependent on not drinking and then he does coke, it just doesn’t make any sense. Same thing with his dating habits. He says no co-stars but who can be so sure it will never happen just because he says so. Who is willing to bank on it? I am not willing to bank on anything Gerry says or promises. Are you?
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With men remember one rule, “never say never.”
Just because they say something it doesn’t mean it’s outside the realm of possibility if the conditions were right. The problem is too many women take men at their word. Yet when a man says no, or there is an indication by his actions that he doesn’t want to get tied down, the woman doesn’t take that as a clear indication that he won’t settle down, and she tries to convince him to do the exact opposite of what she knows is true about him. Why? Because women are desperate and they don’t know how to handle men. I guarantee you that if he got no sex from women until he agreed to be in an exclusive relationship, he would settle down so quickly the woman’s head would spin. Women are doing the damage to themselves.

He is dating someone @ 03/12/2012 at 6:26 pm

@colormeskeptical:
“This person was newlywed. Does being married since 2004 make you a newlywed. The other clue is he was friends with the husband?”
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How do you know he is not friends with Abigail’s hubby?
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Also, just because it says she is a newlywed doesn’t mean it’s true. Sometimes tabloids get some facts wrong like during the Oscars there was an article about Gerry’s rehab but it also mentioned he is 39 and not 42. Does it mean the article is wrong? No. It got one thing wrong, but the rest of the article is true.
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“If hugging your co-star is a sign of an affair get out the photos with Aniston and Heigl and Thandie and so on and so forth.’
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Your level of ignorance here is astonishing. He hugged these women on the red carpet for publicity’s sake. This picture is much more intimate. It had no purpose like promoting their film. You can tell the affection between them. Stop ignoring the clues. I am not saying she is the mystery woman all I am saying is that it’s very possibly her.
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Another option is the model he was seen having lunch with last year about this time. They called her LA lunch girl here at JJ, as opposed to the NYC lunch girl the year before. She is a model and an aspiring actor. Also, I think there was talk about him knowing her husband and about her trying to get into movies. She is definitely someone to check out.

@He is dating someone:
Oh wow! “LA lunch girl” sounds a very interesting possibility. I remember she had a Latin or Italian sounding name. Who remembers her name?

whattoexp @ 03/12/2012 at 6:33 pm

In the article Abigail called Gerry “Amazing”. That’s a reincurring word used by women linked to Gerry. Remember Simmone Mackinnon of Attila? It is a well known fact she was linked to Gerry while filming Allita and she called him “amazing” in the behind the scene interview.

He is dating someone @ 03/12/2012 at 6:36 pm

Perfect example of not believing everything said by the tabs.
This article says she is a star, not aspiring.
http://www.entertainmentwise.com/news/71473/Gerard-Butlers-Steamy-Affair-With-Married-Star-Revealed-
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Who remembers this one from the days of Malibu?
http://socialitelife.com/shirtless-gerard-butler-seen-with-mystery-blonde-and-set-to-star-in-new-fbi-drama-photos-08-2011
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What about Sarah Carol? She is a model with aspirations????

@backward azz: You don’t really understand men. I can tell from the things you write. Just because he says so, it doesn’t mean that if there was a good opportunity with all the right conditions available to him he wouldn’t be swept away into it”
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Again with the whole “it’s the woman’s fault he got swept away” as if he has no self control over what he does!
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Your moniker suits you to a tee although it’s missing a word on the front…Misogynist backward azz!

@He is dating someone:

I thought you were told once before Sarah Carroll is a fake person? She’s a spokemodel for Virgin Mobile! GAH! There is no such person!
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You people are idiots! The fact that you believe tabloids proves it!

“Treschic” is Eve

He is dating someone @ 03/12/2012 at 6:48 pm

@Treschic:
“I thought you were told once before Sarah Carroll is a fake person? She’s a spokemodel for Virgin Mobile! GAH! There is no such person!”
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So what if she is a spokemodel for Virgin Mobile? Does it mean he wouldn’t get into a relationship with her?
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Anyway, i really think LA Lunch girl is the one.

@Heads up:

Who’s Eve? I’ve seen the name mentioned before. Must have made a profound and lasting impression on the likes of some of you numbskulls so for that, I’ll take it as a compliment!

@He is dating someone:

She had a fake boyfriend too! OMG! They were called “Sparah”! It would be like saying Gerry dated Elaine Benes from Seinfeld!

http://sparah.com/tag/sarah-carroll/-

backward azz @ 03/12/2012 at 6:57 pm

@Treschic:
WTF???
You have no argument left. It’s obvious you don’t understand men which is why you sing the same song “Again with the whole “it’s the woman’s fault he got swept away” as if he has no self control over what he does!”
I didn’t say that at all, and you’re twisting my words because it fits your nonsense argument.
I said:
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“Just because he says so, it doesn’t mean that if there was a good opportunity with all the right conditions available to him he wouldn’t be swept away into it, despite his NO deceleration…….I am not willing to bank on anything Gerry says or promises. Are you?”
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If you believe everything he says, then you’re as gullible as any of the women who sleep with him. And yes….not using your head is your responsibility, no one else.
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The backward azz is directed towards you

@Treschic:
You sounds as idiotic and as lofty as she does; pretends to be a know it all, as well as a major anti-male feminist bs.
I have no doubt you are her.

Britta Lazenga is another that he could have bedded. She’s a newlywed and she’s married to one of Gerry’s friends.

He is dating someone @ 03/12/2012 at 7:11 pm

@Sequins:
Totally possible.
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Keep the possibilities coming. Who has other ideas?

Does Britta have a son?

Does Judy Greer have a son?. She is a newly wed (only married last year).She was also in PTF?

In The Know @ 03/12/2012 at 7:27 pm

I am almost positive the lady in question is Micheal fassbender’s ex GF.
The only thing is she never married Micheal but don’t let that get in the way. The article got that info wrong. He’s been involved with her. I think now he hardly gets in touch anymore. She follows him on the Internet – the fan sites etc. She also tried to get back with Micheal. That’s where the trail ends.
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@Question:
Brita has no kids. BTW, Micheal’s ex has one son from a previous relationship.

colormelaughing @ 03/12/2012 at 7:46 pm

“He is dating someone” is someone who likes to play games on JJ but she’s not playing the guessing game very well.

If the Radar article is bogus or has wrong details there is no point with the guessing game then but our friend will likely trot out the name of every single female the Butler has even so much as glanced at even if the woman is not married or divorcing, doesn’t have a son – in other words don’t fit the only “clues” we got.

I can play this game too let’s guess Betty White! He was hugging her in a picture too recently and man you don’t mess with Betty!

.@He is dating someone:
If this sounds ridiculous re read your own posts then.

Were you the one tweeting the old headlines about Cholewa today? I never understand that on Twitter, it’s like dead bodies that keep floating to the surface.

I have no knowledge of who the affair was, but the rumors have been out there for a while that he was having an affair with a married woman whose husband held a position of significant power in hollywood.

He is dating someone @ 03/12/2012 at 8:06 pm

@colormelaughing:
Idiot! I wasn’t tweeting anything about anyone today. You sound too paranoid or you spend way too much time on Twitter. I think you need to find something to do beside patrol all the avenues in which Gerry is mentioned.
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And since when is guessing and asking for ideas on the identity of the person offensive? This is a gossip site. Unless, of course you can’t take the truth.

well if this is true..his ride is just about over. He’s becoming a joke..luv him I do with all my nasty thoughts but I’ll have to find a new crush if he keeps messing up like this. No wonder women don’t speak up, who wants people to know how they’ve been used and played by him. No real woman will take him seriously and he sure doesn’t need to get married AT ALL! This just goes to prove he doesn’t care who he F….S behind!

@justme:

You make a lot of sense, I’m ok with if they are both single adults, but married women…isn’t there enough beautiful singe women throwing themselves at him? Unless it all comes down to the fact that he wants sex without commitment!

I must say that I’ve been his fan for a while but recently ive just been put off him, good looks isn’t everything and after observing him I’ve noticed that he seems very self absorbed and selfish! If there’s any element of truth to this story then thts just morally wrong ******** your friends partner is off limits and shows his loyalty the silly woman thought he would be hers but deep inside men don’t respect you theyl use you for s/ex but if she could do tht to her husband no man will trust her or respect her!

I know it’s the womans fault bit despite everything Gerry should not get involved with a married woman how would he feel if that happened to him red arrow me all you want! But Gerry knew all these stories would come out so his PR gave the rehab story so it adds bit of sympathy as such a private man like him would never tell of his medical conditions like that!! I don’t think he’l ever settle down the rate he’s going the man had no morals, values or principles men like that!!

On the other hand serves these ladies right there’s no excuse for infidelity and you can never build your happiness on others unhappiness fact

@AM:
Not just a married woman, but there’s a child involved. I know his birth was from a previous relationship, but this little lad was just settling in to a new family arrangement with a new step-father and this chaos comes and blows it all to hell. Hard on the child.
If Gerry wants to s.crew around and play games with people, it would be nice if he at least stayed away from wives and children.

TheDoctorIsIn @ 03/12/2012 at 8:39 pm

Drug addict and lecher…(chuckle)…I guess the only part he missed in getting into the Sam Childers character was redemptive salvation. How terribly predictable and boring.

I don’t think married women are new to him. He reminds me of the guys who plays everyone until he’s played himself out. He’ll get with someone when hes about 55/60 and she’ll use him, pop out some kids and take him for what she can. Karma comes to us all…hide and watch! How many of us know the good looking guy in town whose a has been? That’s him in the making!

He’s super good and nice to his fans bcoz they make him successful and I’ve noticed by experience that the men that are all nicey sweet to public and outsiders they the ones with hidden agendas know from personal experience!! With Gerry no real decent woman will take him seriously or get involved with him, the ones that do get with him are fuc/ked as him or with no brains or really insecure! A confident woman with character won’t go near men like tht

I don’t think married women are new to him. He reminds me of the guys who plays everyone until he’s played himself out. He’ll get with someone when hes about 55/60 and she’ll use him, pop out some kids and take him for what she can. Karma comes to us all…hide and watch! How many of us know the good looking guy in town whose a has been? That’s him in the making! Something tells me he has been on more than pills and has a true sex addiction…he has no boundaries. People try to compare him to Clooney or Warren Beatty..they may have dated a lot but at least they didn’t hide women from each other.

Sry for the double post :}

@justme:
I think he’s a sex addict, too. This was reckless behavior. Sleeping with a friend’s wife and there’s a child in the mix? Reckless. He was playing with fire, which may have been the attraction. Add to that, he was sleeping with other women at the same time. More and more it seems to me that sex addiction might be fueling his bad judgment.

Why do “articles” like this always name just one party in them?

This is interesting, Radar’s exclusive on this story was posted by “Jen Heger — Radar Legal Editor”. I wonder if some of the sourcing on this came from the divorce docs.

I guess no one told him the Cardinal rule///you don’t Sh/T where you eat. I guess he’s made his money and doesn’t care. Its obvious no ones feeling mater but his own. Does anyone remember the video where he was being interviewed and he answered that there were maybe 4 special people in his life and they together could make one special person and then said Sorry darlin…his pig side has been showing for a while and he bought his own hype.

conspiracy theorist @ 03/12/2012 at 9:44 pm

@nyob: This could be the explanation for why MGP and Coriolanus were basically buried. Could he have pissed off the wrong exec, and now he is having his career and reputation systematically destroyed? Did he mess with the wrong woman, and her wronged husband took revenge? This is better than the plot of any of his films.

He’s been known to eye up married women in ischia he had an affair with a married woman too I think he gets off on the fact that woman are willing to leave their husbands for him! I’m glad he doesn’t have children or married he would mess them up! The whole reason he never goes public is bcoz he’s got to many he can’t commit to one!! This lady mustve been really dumb to not know about his reputation but saying that maybe Gerry was feeding her false hope! A couple of years ago this Latino girl claimed she was seeing her & using her but he was so charming that she believed him & he kept telling her that she was the love of his life etc etc sometimes I do feel sorry for these women because u don’t knw what he’s telling them & then he vanishes & leaves them heartbroken & he doesn’t have the decency to break it off properly with them instead change his number like this case! I strongly believe the married womangave this story asking not to be named but damaging his reputation the only way her name would be revealed of Gerry comes out with it which he will never do & this lady knows that

backward azz @ 03/12/2012 at 9:58 pm

@ugh:
“Not just a married woman, but there’s a child involved. I know his birth was from a previous relationship, but this little lad was just settling in to a new family arrangement with a new step-father and this chaos comes and blows it all to hell. Hard on the child.
If Gerry wants to s.crew around and play games with people, it would be nice if he at least stayed away from wives and children.”
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The child’s stupid mother should have made these calculations not Gerry.

I can’t help but laugh at the Radar story.
It was only a matter of time before all Gerry’s whoring sh*t came out. Karma’s a b!tch.

Hi you bunch of dumb fat girls. I hate you all and you all can suck it. This horses azz ruined a marriage and she’s TALKING

The incessant phone calling and love-sick pursuit of a disinterested Gerry, doesn’t make the wife look very good. My guess is the wronged husband leaked the story.

No she wants more MONEY and she can’t mention her name bc she is a wh@re and will be proven as one or she would, so stop being so stupid easy gulible dummies and yes GERARDS wh@ring is all coming out thank god get off the pedestal – i hope tHEY ALL TALK!

The cuckolded Husband leaked the story and she wont go in on it unless they get more money bc its dirty laundry – the woman wasnt single.

Sam the Hot Ginger @ 03/12/2012 at 10:05 pm

@Tintagel:
Exactly. I agree. Gerard has to expect his actions come back to him…he’ s in his 40s why do you women like to act like he’s all innocent??? Get over yourselves – i have heard stories about this guy here in LA that would make your ears bleed

Drug addict, total cheating lech womanizer and adulterer. Sounds like a great guy. No wonder you idiots fight over him…*snickers*

backward azz @ 03/12/2012 at 10:09 pm

@Alina:
“the silly woman thought he would be hers but deep inside men don’t respect you theyl use you for s/ex but if she could do tht to her husband no man will trust her or respect her!”
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ITAWY!!!

Truth be known @ 03/12/2012 at 10:09 pm

Let’s face it his image is thrashed first Brandi, then katy wonder if he had a hand in her marriage & now this! A lot more sh!t will eventually come out of the woodworks & ppl will loose respect for him no wonder the critics dislike him! There was a blind item about how a top exec got an actor kicked out of major movies bcoz he was screwwing his wife & everyone put GB but I didn’t believe it! What’s he gona do when his looks fade & his peen isn’t as active as it used to be! I thought he was a bit intelligent but now I think he’s dumb & a complete idiot

backward azz @ 03/12/2012 at 10:12 pm

@Alina:
“With Gerry no real decent woman will take him seriously or get involved with him, the ones that do get with him are fuc/ked as him or with no brains or really insecure! A confident woman with character won’t go near men like tht”
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I agree with you again.

Chris the Dude @ 03/12/2012 at 10:13 pm

Yeah you women who follow every movement of this guy and even worse – the women he has banged, scare the cra/p out of men. Why do you care so much who he sticks his dack in? It’s his choice. I can assure you that it will never be one of the beat up chicks that sit here on some website posting. I hope your husbands/boyfriends don’t have anything to do with it…oh, wait, theyre probably out banging their co-workers or the deli waitress, starbucks girl down the street.

@ugh:
“Drug addict, total cheating lech womanizer and adulterer. Sounds like a great guy. No wonder you idiots fight over him…*snickers*”
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Okay, well I wasn’t the “ugh” who posted that comment. I’ll choose another moniker for the rest of my posts.
I see the trolls have arrived for the night.

Yuck that Brandi chick plastic surgery face was beat – and he must have been bored. A tv reality star?? And a nasty one who doesn’t bathe. Lowest of the low. What talent does she have??? He is a loser. LOSER. Why not some smart girls? Girls who read???

…right after I take a dump on whomever posted that as not me. Grow up and get a life! Or I’ll leave this site and post somewhere else.

conspiracy theorist @ 03/12/2012 at 10:18 pm

@Sam the Hot Ginger: Well, tell us then.

@ugh:
Ohhhhhkay. You could have found a better way of putting it LOL and why do people feel the need to announce they are leaving? No one cares, just GO.

Hole in one @ 03/12/2012 at 10:19 pm

And all you stupid fan girls who idolise him your welcome to carry on
Shows what your all made of he’s a total scumbag hel screww anything to get a thrill out of! I’ve heard stories about him from well known media ppl Im doing my placement with & this guys a Sex despo and jerk!! I deeply feel sorry for any woman who ends up with him

Brandi is the nasty dirty reality star that tweeted that she was f√cking some guy on her kids bed, right? Classy girl, gerard.

@Hole in one:
No actually I agree with you – I am so happy that Gerry’s girls are talking and taking him down a few notches. He is a LOSER a huge one at that.

@Chris the Dude:
“Yeah you women who follow every movement of this guy and even worse – the women he has banged, scare the cra/p out of men. Why do you care so much who he sticks his dack in? It’s his choice. I can assure you that it will never be one of the beat up chicks that sit here on some website posting. I hope your husbands/boyfriends don’t have anything to do with it…oh, wait, theyre probably out banging their co-workers or the deli waitress, starbucks girl down the street.”
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Touche` well said.

@conspiracy theorist:
No one bothers believeing anything bad said about this drug and drunk GB, so why should anyone share anything ever? I don’t blame people for not wanting to share.

@Alina: Stop bringing up fcking ISCHISA! Its old news. God I want to leave this site….

Hole in one @ 03/12/2012 at 10:34 pm

Gerry could never match up to his contemporaries like Christian bale, Matt Damon, George clooney, Colin firth, hugh jackman they may have had their fun, But they can be taken seriously can’t believe this mans 42 is a club rat never had serious relationship and gets involved with married women, young girls, looser reality tv stars, famewho/res etc the list is endless wonder how many stds he may have had if he was a woman he wouldve been called all sorts

@ugh:
I told you to leave the site!!
It’s spelled Ischia. Learn how to spell
LOL

Cannot believe the married woman threw her life away for this loser drunk and drug addict. And starts STALKING him? hahahahThat’s one dumb woman. and her husband now gets a ‘freebie.’

@Treschic: Seems like you are the only person speaking some sense here tonight. Thank god. I do not idolize this drug addict. He used to be a hot up and coming actor, he USED TO BE what i thought was the next big action star. He is a LIABILITY. Good luck getting a job in tinseltown that you don’t give yourself or beg for like Lindsanity, Gerard you DRUNK. Only ‘desperate’ film studios hire people who’ve been to REHAB for SUBSTANCE ABUSE. You don’t go to Betty Ford for drinking Kool-Aid. Please!We all know this is not the first and certainly not the LAST time this guy will be in rehab! Face it! It’s over for him! He might as well move back to Glas where people care about him (I live 20 mins outside London)

Robert Downey Jr. went to jail for substance abuse. He gets hired.

What’s creepy is seeing how many of my fellow GALS and WO are following and tweeting 2 of Gerard’s women (won’t name them but take a guess they live on it) kissing butt. Can you honestly say you find these women so amazing? Or is it that they’ve swapped spit with King Leo? As a fellow GAL I hope your intentions are beyond just stalking.

@cubfan34:
RDJ is Hollywood ROYALTY. Do you know who his parents are??? Gerard is a has been, one hit wonder in the states. Sorry try again.

Uh WO people are the real stalkers. Throw that at them.

@Heads up:

GFW uses the word “lofty” ALOT! NAILED! lololol

@Sequins: Britta? and she’s ugly as sin.

Robert Downey Sr is a hack. He has no pull in Hollywood. He never has.

Ben Affleck, Drew Barrymore, Kelsey Grammar, Robin Williams(twice),
Mary Tyler Moore, Samuel Jackson, Russell Brand and many, many, many more have been in rehab. They work.

Since coming out of rehab Gerry has been signed for Brilliant.

Except for this post, all posts under Treschic on page 11 and 12 are not mine.

This thread has gone to crap! I’m outta here!

Seriously you guys, we’re not giving Butler the benefit of the doubt here. The stories keep changing and I, for one, don’t put much stock in Radar. I think you are all crazy for jumping to conclusions on this one. I have to back him. I think it’s all rumor. And like someone said, why is Butler’s name mentioned but not the other party? I smell a rat!

@Manny:
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The only rat is the moniker stealer. Flagged…

I used to love him. I did! Until this crap! He’s a dog and a home wrecker and someone I would never want to support.

Who no longer loves Butler?
K~

@Manny:

Oh shut up, Manny! Stick your flag!

@Manny:
You flagging yourself? hahaha! NAILED

conspiracy theorist @ 03/12/2012 at 11:38 pm

@GFW: You are a phony. Why don’t you find a name for yourself instead of impersonating others?
This whole thread is madness.

@Manny:
Oh you are so not Manny!
The moniker stealing is completely out of control tonight and it’s killed the thread.
I would ignore anything written after page 11 and wait for a new thread ….. or until the moniker troll tires herself out and goes to bed.

I stuck it. NAILED!

dargabrial @ 03/12/2012 at 11:41 pm

Love and light to you all! I bought a new thong for Gerry and it got sucked up my butt! Cholita, please tell me how to get it out?

conspiracy theorist @ 03/12/2012 at 11:43 pm

This is a smear campaign. Someone is leaking damaging stories to the tabloid press. And people are running with it because he has a bad reputation as a womanizer and club rat. Someone is out to trash his career.

dargabrial @ 03/12/2012 at 11:44 pm

Nevermind! an eagle swooped down and pulled it out! thank god for the american bald eagle!

It is all her fault. Gerald would not do it. Gerald is a desent man.

@conspiracy theorist:

No one leaks a story to the tabs. They can just make up their own sht! If this story had any merit, especially coming from a tabloid, the woman’s name would have been revealed! It’s all lies.

@Manny:

Yes and he’s also decent.

Dragonette @ 03/12/2012 at 11:48 pm

HOT. F/KING. MESS. Starting a prayer circle for Joy right now, tbqh. It could be a long road ahead.

… this story had no merit, Gerry’s people would have denied it by now.

so........... @ 03/13/2012 at 1:09 am

where is the de nile tonight fans, still in egypt. ?

prayer circle for joy lmao

butler’s peeps should have a statement out by now if its false, i agree

so like coke/pill rehab and the embarassing brandigate the wall of silence rises once again around gerry’s camp

poster ugh is right , married crosses the line, kids involved even worse. fuuckin a mates wife unforgiveable.

get out of dodge butler, scrape whats left of your nice guy image and go home

there is no saving your rep now

i can’t believe lainey was right!!!! all along

Undergroundput @ 03/13/2012 at 1:13 am

I want to think all this is BS but even tabloids have to consider any legal ramifications if they call a celeb a home wrecker without any evidence. So the story may bear some truth to it although they could get details wrong.

@sad:
“sad day in Butlerdum to be sure :(”
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It’s been a sad 2012 in Butlerdom. Confessions from a trashy reality star, revelations about pill-fuelled sex with his trainer, rehab for drugs, and now messing with a married woman.
And, it’s only March!
There’s only so much his publicist is going to be able to do to help him.
I’m a fan and I’m seriously losing faith in this guy’s ability to straighten himself out.
This man has been given tremendous opportunities in his life and yet he’s pi/ssing it all away because of his narcissism. He doesn’t need rehab for drugs, he needs rehab for his ego.
Thumb away, folks. This is how I feel.

a looney ex stalker and pills @ 03/13/2012 at 1:34 am

could explain some of the weird stuff lately
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why he was in an airport alone on new years, and staying in a hotel down the road from his LA home
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STILL NO EXCUSE THOUGH he sounds like a misogynist, toying with married women to preen his ego
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utterly gobsmacked

He’s a man…he’s wash off his ****** and be back at work. The sad part is he will lose some fans and the HW circle will continue to treat him like an outsider. Please don’t compare him to RD Jr. He is touch and has true, unbelievable talent. Gerard unfortunately is a hottie in the wind…when the new crops come in he’s out. A pretty face can’t sustain anyone! I noticed the other day that Michael Fassbender’s net worth is more than GB (as listed of course I don’t personally know) so if his financial troubles are real….yeah he’s in a world of Sh/T!

throwing this into the mix @ 03/13/2012 at 1:42 am

Anyone else think Brandi Glanville could be leaking tidbits and cooking up trouble for Gerry’s camp.

You know what they say about a women scorned, payback for the diss?

thoughts anyone?

throwing this into the mix @ 03/13/2012 at 1:45 am

what is up with the thumbs, its a gossip site, give it a rest will ya.

someone who has access to multiple ip’s

hmmmm i wonder who that could be LMFAO

dargabriel @ 03/13/2012 at 1:52 am

@CHOLITA: one last post to you my friend, I posted something to you and weather its true or not, you are a special person and I-e enjoyed reading your beatuful posts. This site is really negative though. I’ll still be reading, I hope to see you writing here. No matter what happens in this butlers life, I wish him much happiness, I see him soaring to the top and defeating the negativity. In a way I feel like you’re very close with him, dating many moons ago. I also see all these delays and mishaps on his filming status is a god @ work. Know that I love Michael very much and you have brought much light to my life. P.S, there has been this man coming into my work, he is 6 ft 2, piercing eyes, he is very cute, but I was feeling vibes of pure anger and madness coming through me like very intensely, I guess this is a little reminder that God is watching everything, flirtiness and hugs,oopsy, its hard fo me not to love everyone, I’ve been taught to love. Take care dear friend, funnily I’m an infinite 8 too. Love,dargabriel

This is what it looked like today before the news broke.
http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20577440,00.html
“Recently, the actor attended the Crash Kings concert at L.A.’s Troubadour. Butler appeared to arrive at the rock show solo – and he abstained from alcohol and stood in the back of the venue. Though he was on his phone for a good period of time, he was extremely polite and chatted with fans. He also made a little eye contact with a tall brunette during the show, according to a fellow audience member.”

@a looney ex stalker and pills:
“why he was in an airport alone on new years, and staying in a hotel down the road from his LA home”
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I often wondered why he often stays in hotels while in LA. It’s so weird. I guess now we know if this turns out to be a true thing.
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http://www.radaronline.com/exclusives/2012/03/gerard-butler-broke-marriage-home-wrecker
“They would exchange heated text messages, emails and phone calls. She would drop anything to be with Gerard. The two would hook-up at his hotel when he was in Los Angeles.”

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 03/13/2012 at 2:27 am

@dargabriel:

I used to think your posts were a little interesting, but I don’t think you love everyone at all. You lash out, act jealous and more “spiritual” that anyone else. And stating who you believe is Gerard Butler’s “other half” just made you sound crazy. That’s the hard truth.

Of course this site is mostly negative, nothing new there.

I will keep reading here and there, but no longer going to post either. I really hope this latest rumor is false. If not, that’s the lowest of the low. I for one, wouldn’t even be friends with someone who would do that.

@Reviews:
He’s been seen at a lot of hotels in NYC, too, and we all know he has a home there.
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I know a couple of years ago there was a lot of talk that Gerry rarely brings any of his hook-ups to his homes. He prefers to meet up with them at hotels. I’m starting to think this might be true. It may be how he protects his privacy.
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Even when Laurie went to visit him in Detroit, she was photographed at the hotel, while Gerry was renting a home for himself by a lake.
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If he was meeting this married woman at a hotel in LA, then she must have been pretty deluded to think Gerry was serious about her. If a man won’t take you to his house, that’s a good indication that he’s not serious about you.

“According to RadarOnline the saucy Scottish actor carried on an affair with the woman in question for months behind her husband’s back.”
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All of these tabloids are admitting they are only repeating what RaderOnline has reported.
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““She thought Gerard wanted to be in a relationship with her but then she found out he was involved with other girls, and hadn’t been exactly honest with her about what was going on in his life.”
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And also they say he wasn’t honest with her about seeing other girls. Well, everyone knows what the rumors are about him; how he isn’t faithful to any woman. This has never been proven, as no one has claimed anything, but the tabloids thanks to people like Laney and Kiser have been fueling these rumors for years. That’s why I think there is also a possibility this is all fake. The report use too many convenient stuff about GB to make it believable. Furthermore, I don’t think RaderOnline bothered to verify this story, which someone might have reported to them And why didn’t the person(s) who revealed this scandal didn’t do it to TMZ? TMZ has more credibility then this little known site. Maybe because they know TMZ is going to verify every morsel of information. Also, maybe they are the same people that revealed the drug rehab thing, so if they also reveal this story TMZ might think they have a vendetta against GB and is why they are revealing all this nasty stuff about him. TMZ might not take them seriously enough to report so many stuff coming from the same source. It also makes me wonder why the trainer didn’t reveal her story to TMZ but did it to some British tabloid instead. It’s all so strange. Maybe someone has been orchestrating this whole thing since Brandi Gate broke out in an attempt to destroy his career???
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“His admission into rehab was reportedly what ended the alleged affair.”
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Oh God, he just went to rehab a few months ago, so this means this is still very raw for her. Maybe it’s the actual woman doing all this divulging of the affair because she felt he lied and tricked her and she wanted to get even with him while keeping her identity private. I think it will eventually come out.
http://www.entertainmentwise.com/news/71473/Gerard-Butlers-Steamy-Affair-With-Married-Star-Revealed-

@opinion:
Yes, I heard about him not taking any of his women to his home but utilizing hotels instead.
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“If he was meeting this married woman at a hotel in LA, then she must have been pretty deluded to think Gerry was serious about her. If a man won’t take you to his house, that’s a good indication that he’s not serious about you.”
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Can’t agree more. I can’t believe a woman with something to lose is not going to have her radar on a little more than a younger carefree woman might. For goodness sake, she has a kid too, so what was she thinking jeopardizing all that for passion? I guess some people stop thinking when they encounter sex and such passion.
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Another thing to think about is maybe this is truly made up. The story about the trainer saying he started consuming painkillers to be able to perform more passionately in bed is a bit suspicious in light of this story coming out a week later. Maybe someone made up this story about how he was meeting some married woman solely for the purpose of having sex by claiming the affair ended when he needed to go to rehab. Now watch, in a few days they will tie it all together a little bit better to make it look like he was hooked on painkillers because he was trying to have wild passionate sex with this mystery woman, as already reported by his former trainer and lover, and at some point he had to stop and go to rehab, or get totally addicted..That’s why they are already making it look like his rehab has ended this relationship.

Something just doesn’t add here. Yet, if this is all a lie why isn’t his team coming down on this tabloid like a box of bricks?
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http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2113867/Gerard-Butler-accused-having-affair-ending-marriage.html?ito=feeds-newsxml
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He is dating someone @ 03/13/2012 at 3:25 am

Gerard Butler’s rumoured to be dating model Sarah Carroll. Well, she is hot.
http://www.ok.co.uk/posts/view/40196/Gerard-Butler-s-got-a-new-girlfriend-sadface-
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http://www.huffingtonpost.com/abigail-spencer/post_2776_b_1170281.html
Yes, this is the article I read about her going home for the holidays without her hubby, and I thought how odd. She filed for a divorce a few weeks before, but at the time I didn’t know that.
You can also see the picture she took with GB. They look very close. It filled me with suspicions. Maybe Abigail is the person in question.

Remember this?
“Gerard Butler Is Worried That Ex-Girlfriend’s Will Sell Sex Stories”
http://www.entertainmentwise.com/news/52311/Gerard-Butler-Is-Worried-That-Ex-Girlfriends-Will-Sell-Sex-Stories
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And supposedly all this was unfolding with this mystery woman while he was saying this nonsense to the tabloids. Here “India Today” was just repeating what was reported in another publication.
http://entertainment.oneindia.in/hollywood/news/2011/gerard-butler-wants-to-get-married-221111.html
“I would love to settle down and share my life with someone. But it’ll happen when it’s going to happen,” femalefirst.co.uk quoted Butler as saying. “When I try and plan things in my life they very rarely pan out. And it’s often when I think, ‘OK, you know what, I don’t want to be in a relationship right now for whatever reason’, that suddenly I find myself open to one and it happens,”

I forgot to add something about the Daily Mail article. It mentioned he went to rehab for 3 weeks last year. WTF? It was end of January early February when he went to rehab. Unless, the Daily Mail knows something we don’t. Did he go to rehab last year too?
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And another thing. All the tabloids repeating the same story:
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“The incensed wannabe actress model then ‘began calling Gerard incessantly and he changed his cell phone number. ”
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How do they know this if it’s not the “incensed wannabe actress model herself” or someone VERY close to her revealing this information? This could indeed mean it’s her, or her through her friends, That want to get back at him for “ruining” her life.

“Believe nothing, no matter where you read it, or who said it, unless it agrees with your own reason and your own common sense.”

I feel that the most disturbing aspect of this revelation, and indeed GB’s whole attitude to women, is the purely calculating element. I know that many married men and women cheat and let down their partner, but at least they have had that ‘let’s get married and have a family’ moment of optimism and real emotion that is common to much of the male and female population. Same goes for many long-term couples or even ‘serial-monogamists’ with regular two or three year relationships. They display the ability to relate to another person’s needs and affections.

Butler shows none of this – he hides encounters, uses hotels for hook-ups, shows callous disregard by disavowing his current girlfriends in interviews, crude references in public and private, lies about addiction issues, constantly moves on, drawing support from a motley bunch of male associates. He is a user, only he matters and he is self-obsessed to a degree that most of us would find obnoxious. Looks like a lot of this has been well known behind the scenes but the Hollywood establishment has a cover-up mentality until they scent blood. Butler’s films are failing, partly because his real deficiencies as an actor have been exposed. What is left but the partying, clubbing, womanising, substance-abuse lifestyle that has been the centre of his existence?

Katherine Heigel talked a couple of years ago about how he would not return calls from girlfriends. Looks like this is a long-term pattern and that one lady got desperate to the pont he cut her off by changing his number. Totally believable and rather despicable on his part; rather silly on hers.

angelsrock @ 03/13/2012 at 6:43 am

I’m not commenting on this until all the names are mentioned. Why would the tabloid mention his name but not hers??

Why are they protecting her?? And putting him out there on the chopping block??

GerrysGreenEyedWoman @ 03/13/2012 at 7:16 am

GOTCHA @ 03/12/2012 at 11:13 pm

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@Heads up:

GFW uses the word “lofty” ALOT! NAILED! lololol
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Whoever you’re referring to it is not me. My last post was yesterday afternoon referring to his spending time in Italy and it being an obvious smear campaign.
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Posts# 290, 291, 292 and 295 are not me either. Don’t even sound like me. And feel it kind of scary someone would do that.
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RadarOnline now ends its latest online ‘news’ with this…
“Butler’s rep did not respond to calls for comment. Meanwhile, the mistress insists she only has met Butler once at a movie premiere, and she denies having any relationship with him.”
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beeny girl @ 03/13/2012 at 7:23 am

@He is dating someone: If you think that is was Abigail Spencer, his costar in OMAM – its a massive own goal for that movie and all the pr idiocy concerned. I am amazed that his team have not trodden on this via the ‘gossip cop’ etc already.

What have we got to look forward to?

‘Playing the Field’ (as of today’s headlines, was a movie ever worse named than this one?) boy oh boy, is it time to re-think this turkey.
GB playing the role of a womanizing ex soccer playing manwhore who sleeps his way through the soccer moms of his son’s school team. Married women and sons? Oh Help. Maybe the focus group screenings so far have caused all the extra weeks of re-shooting scenes. But please! When the producer/leading man is alledgedly carrying on like this, this movie might as well go ‘Straight to video’ for all the good his personal antics will do for the movie itself.

‘Of Men and Mavericks’ – IF Abigail Spencer WAS the alledged affair in this version of GB world, just speculating … AGAIN, total own goal for a drama movie by the producer/leading man. When you go to see the movie … will you be watching the drama of the story of a brilliant young surfer killed in the prime of his youth?, or watching and disecting all the onscreen chemistry of the alledged affair than ‘broke up a marriage’ and the headlines from now on about the ‘home wrecker’ GB and his leading lady in the movie?

I get that the notion of Abigail Spencer has already been shot down, but both of his self produced movies now have lead weights around them caused by GB’s personal life.

What an idiot.

They’re saying it’s someone named Sarah Howard. Never heard of her….

Guys….sorry, but I don’t know how to link. Google “Dave Navarro Sarah Howard” And a few stories pop up about how she was his new GF around the time of his split from Carmen….she looks dark blonde in the pics…but hair color can change….

It’s Sarah Howard. Not all that pretty, IMO.

just visiting @ 03/13/2012 at 7:44 am

Sarah Howard looks dark blonde in this pic

http://www.celebsource.org/carmen-electra/carmen-knew-about-the-other-woman/

Don’t know what to think of this, but one article does say that Gerry is mentioned in her divorce papers.

I don’t know how true these stories are. but if they are true then I’m so over Gerry.I mean how long could one carry on like this, with so many partners?…..

Can'tGetEnough @ 03/13/2012 at 7:58 am

Good Morning JJer’s! Here’s yet another article claiming that GB is named in the divorce papers:

http://www.mrpaparazzi.com/post/18305/Gerard-Butler-named-in-divorce-papers-of-upcoming-Hollywood-actress

Can'tGetEnough @ 03/13/2012 at 8:07 am

And this one hung out with GB yesterday. Run Samantha, RUN!!

Samantha ‏ @_Samantha_Rae
Best day of my life!!! Celtics win, Charlotte Sometimes wins, I got four packages in the mail AND hung out with Gerard Butler. #lifeisgood
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https://twitter.com/#!/_Samantha_Rae

Can'tGetEnough @ 03/13/2012 at 8:14 am

According to GB’s spokesman, MOST of the details here are in accurate:
http://www.nydailynews.com/gossip/blake-lively-ryan-reynolds-fly-friendly-skies-lots-snuggle-time-york-a-article-1.1037736
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“GERARD BUTLER hasn’t quit partying. Sources spotted the “300” actor at the Troubadour in West Hollywood Friday around 12:30 a.m. with “three young, hot blonds.” But it was Butler’s demeanor that had them looking twice. An insider says Butler was “slurring his words” and “sweating profusely” while holding a glass of clear liquid with a lime as the rock band Crash Kings performed. A spokesman for Butler says “most of the details in this story are completely inaccurate.” According to TMZ, the actor entered the Betty Ford Center in early February after deciding he had become too reliant on pain medication. He checked out three weeks later and was spotted at a number of late-night Oscar fetes, looking healthy and happy.”

Hollywood Gossiper @ 03/13/2012 at 8:36 am

@Toronto: I don’t think you could assume it was this Sarah Howard woman because you know how Hollywood works, Navarro and Electra could have been separated long before it was ever announced to the public in which case any girlfriend at the time might not even be the woman that broke up their marriage, assuming even that is true – this woman could be a two time loser because Navarro is hardly an shining icon of monogamy. I have vague recollections of women who were possible suspects but I can’t think of a name for the life of me but hot brunettes come to mind.

GerrysGreenEyedWoman @ 03/13/2012 at 9:08 am

“Gerard Butler named in divorce papers of upcoming Hollywood actress…”
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For the life of me I never ever thought I’d see these words attached to Gerry’s name. What lies did she tell to get him to smuck her? He can have so many unmarried women. I reeks of foul play. Maybe the papers are, or will be, public record because only then will I believe this.
~K
and to the psychopathic nutcase using my moniker last night, seek help please

Hollywood Gossiper @ 03/13/2012 at 9:24 am

@Reviews: It’s called poor proofreading and given the allegations, sloppy!!!

Hollywood Gossiper @ 03/13/2012 at 9:27 am

@angelsrock: Agree angelsrock patently unfair and if the story is true and she’s already ruined her marriage why protect her. Besides I doubt it will be long before her name is revealed. Especially If she is the “unnamed source” she was stupid to think she could hide forever.

GerrysGreenEyedWoman @ 03/13/2012 at 9:41 am

Really do you think, if this is true, people (lots of people) don’t know who she is? And won’t take the bait of money to $ay who?
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And what kind of man would want any kind of relationship with a woman who’d cheat while married… and a newlywed? Yuck, what a loser. If she cheated with him she’ll cheat with, well, him?
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And that’s it reeks of foul play. Adding a lot scorn for being dumped (if real) by both men. We have some real $ini$ter manipulation of a (possibly) true fact but well piled on to for more money to buy $ilence?
~K
who is making this my final word and if I’m seen here… it isn’t me

Pearl Clutchers and Bass @ 03/13/2012 at 10:02 am

You pearl clutchers and widemouth bass begging to get hooked by tabloid bait are amazingly funny!
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I’m not going to call the story about GB BS because I don’t know him. He could very well be a slimey horndog with no wits as to women. But regardless of what actor was named in these articles, you lot are posting about them like walking brain donors.
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It’s RadarOnline, which is about 5 steps down on the credibility threshold than Life & Style Magazine, which just ran a total BS story about Sandra Bullock hooking up with Brett Ratner, even though they hadn’t seen each other for years!
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That is what these outlets do. If someone, anyone, even just hints something about a famous name – particularly someone who’s been a recent tabloid target, like Bullock was because of Jesse James, and Butler is now because of reality TV wanna be Brandi and rehab – they’ll run the story. They don’t fact check first like CNN. They run the rumor first and ask questions (maybe) later.
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It all amounts to zilch unless the celebrity target of the story comments on it, which they OFTEN do not, because that opens the floodgates. If they start commenting on stories about their personal lives, then “no comment” ceases to have any meaning. It is assumed “no comment” means “it’s true,” because why wouldn’t they deny a story when they’ve denied others unless it’s true – right? Of course in reality, someone might say “no comment” because the subject is just one they don’t want to discuss, or maybe because it implicates other people they don’t want to expose. But if they start commenting about their personal lives at all, eager beavers like you lot start making assumptions about what it means when they don’t.
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Also, it’s obvious why this story is coming out. The fact that everyone’s name is being dropped except for the “mistress,” her husband, her first husband, etc., means this is going down pursuant to a deal struck between RadarOnline and a source related to the “mistress.” Whether it’s because she’s acting out as a woman scorned, the husband is acting out because he’s pissed, etc., whoever it is made a deal about how this would go down and is cashing in on it. Again, that doesn’t mean that there aren’t elements of truth to the story, but whenever deals and $$ are involved, it’s totally sketchy, even sketchier than normal tabloid fodder.
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For all we know, this is the result of a failed attempt to extort GB. Pay us or we’ll sell a kernel of truth to a tabloid who will sensationalize it into a bigger deal than it actually is. That happens ALL the time, and someone like GB who has stories like the one with BG out and just got out of rehab is a ripe target.
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Again, that doesn’t mean he isn’t a lowlife. But unless he chooses to confirm, clarify, or deny the story, the only thing that anyone can know is that the way this is going down is totally sketchy – and it’s going down this way for YOUR benefit, because people like RadarOnline know you all are frothing at the bit for this kind of gutter trash. You asked, and you received, and so long as there are people like you, this kind of garbage will be in plentiful supply.
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Frankly, you lot are really in no position to judge anyone else since you’ve chosen to live in the gutter yourselves, eagerly looking for and consuming this slime. I suppose you all may be assuming that your years of living for trash make you uniquely qualified to identify and analyze it. That may be true – lol.

GerrysGreenEyedWoman @ 03/13/2012 at 10:32 am

It’s me again with another thought as to why the untrustworthy cheater woman does not want her name out there (if this is true). It’s like what other (sane) man in the business, or not, would want her?
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And she can “name” Gerry all she wants in her divorce papers but that does not qualify it as truth at all.
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thinking if this was really real and could be substantiated it’d be on TV etc… wondering if it has cos I don’t watch it too much?

Dear friend Dargabriel, I believe in honest truth, I am very glad I had this beautiful communication with you, tucked into the chaos that reigns here, yet in a perfect cosmic order, I am a MIKAEL of the order of warriors, proud so, my light and energy is attached to the line, descended from nefilims, I remember some of my past lives and resonate Through his teachings, never be afraid to express your feelings, that will help you better balance, all I think and feel are thoughts that come from my heart, you know I’m empathetic, no matter what people think about Mr. Butler, will live his life full of happiness with your future family, friends, business, and the real fans is worldwide, the latest news given, are simply lies as always …… sell a lie in this time of constant deception, it is more lucrative to offer and sell a really small thing .. LIGHT ….. but always prevail at the Dark …… we are beings of light ….. really ….. that is our true essence, I always remember it my friends ….. the universe is mathematical, it’s all numbers, variables, equations, the laws of the universe are thousands like the world that exist in the vast universe, 8 no accident is a universal code infinitely perfect, those who vibrate in that code are leaders of their own lives, strength, courage and luck are waiting, but must be balanced humanely, I know GERARD light as well as you feel it, I have known in another life, was always a very special and now, at that time was dedicated to his work, his royal family and his people, beloved and respected by all, I am very proud of him, things were not easy at that time and are not now, but always held out …. . in what has improved is what renegon, because when everyone was upset at that time they made smoke, ran,,,,, ha, ha, ha,,,,,, something like the roadrunner. …… laughter, laughter ….. for me it was all very funny and it was because they were doing things the way he wanted it to be very pefeccionista, it is good so far …….. is a little story …. the distant past that vibrates in my heart and I’m not making this up, close friends of the must know very well this facet je.je.je. …… …. this time .. I leave to another time friend Grace and luck to you, I send you many strength for your family, friends etec … and always true to yourself, why not sell it or for all the gold in the world .. .. look what I discovered …. DARGABRIEL if I decompose each letter of your name I find hidden another name and is finally …. GERARD …..ji,ji,ji…. kisses, kisses …… LOVE … LOVE … LOVE …… bye.

Mass Media & Markets @ 03/13/2012 at 11:12 am

@Pearl Clutchers and Bass: “That is what these outlets do. If someone, anyone, even just hints something about a famous name – particularly someone who’s been a recent tabloid target, like Bullock was because of Jesse James, and Butler is now because of reality TV wanna be Brandi and rehab – they’ll run the story. They don’t fact check first like CNN. They run the rumor first and ask questions (maybe) later.”
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“and it’s going down this way for YOUR benefit, because people like RadarOnline know you all are frothing at the bit for this kind of gutter trash. You asked, and you received, and so long as there are people like you, this kind of garbage will be in plentiful supply.”
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We recently studied tabloid “journalism” in my Mass Media & Markets class and this is all really true. The U.S. has a really high standard for proving defamation regarding a public figure. A public figure has to prove that the person who published something about them knew for a fact that it was false when they published it. It’s not like defamation of a private person where defamation might exist if a person published something with a reckless disregard for the truth. Anyway, because the standard for public figures is so high, tabloids get away with murder, because they can run any bit of gossip they want so long as they can’t honestly testify that they don’t know for a fact that it’s false. So, all it takes is someone calling them and telling them something about someone like Gerard Butler that they can’t say for certain is false, and boom, it’s a story, even if they don’t know it’s true.
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And it is all about supply and demand. Tabloids are 100% profit driven. They are not like The New York Times or CNN, which run some stories based on public interest, but in terms of hard news reporting, make judgments about what to report without a profit motive. Tabloids only have one motive – profit. So, they run the stories that they think people will pay attention to the most to buy magazines or increase website traffic, and consequently advertising profit. So, if a tabloid or gossip website runs a story about Gerard Butler, they’re doing it because they know there are people looking for stories about Gerard Butler and that will react strongly to stories about Gerard Butler, in this case, to generate website hits. In addition to his general fame, it’s probably because he’s already on the tip of gossip tongues right now because of his rehab treatment and the Brandi Glanville thing.
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By the way, I think he probably is a player, not because of anything that’s been written about him, but because most men in their early 40s that are good looking and affluent are or would be if they could be. Just ask the countless women who don’t understand why their husbands were madly in love with them when they were young and just starting out with little money, only to have an affair with someone 10-20 years younger in his sports car after he’s paid his dues and has cash in pocket. Add “movie star” to that element, and a buffet of women lines up for the taking. I think 9 out of 10 men would partake in that buffet, given the option.

@Reviews:
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Thanks for bringing fresh information to the site today. Refreshing and not frustrating. Thanks a million…
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Holy the trolls had quite a night last night. None of the Manny post in the evening were mine… I was at the hospital working and then in bed asleep… It seems they started to eat themselves last night.

oops translations renegon=grumpy…….adios.

My gut reaction to all this is that he surmised it was going to hit the gossip press sooner or later and decided to check himself into rehab … partly to avoid a dependecy on the pain pills and also to give himself an excuse for “bad behaviour.” He can say, “Oh, dear, I wasn’t in my right mind. The drugs made me do it. I realized I had to clean up fast.”

Man the more I see the more I cringe… I just hate seeing him go down in flames this way… Oh well… his choices are now his consequences…
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@Hollywood Gossiper:
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Because there is a child involved may be why her name has not been released. As for unfair, when you play with fire you get burned… Butler has courted the press and sometimes they bite back…
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@GerrysGreenEyedWoman:
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Shame on you… it is always everyone’s fault but Butlers. The woman is deceitful and yet Butler is not for f*cking his friend’s wife???

I am not sure what I believe anymore…but why are there no pictures? If this was going on for several months..the paps follow him all over LA. Why a hotel? He has a house in LA. He filmed PTF in Shreveport and then of OMAM in Malibu. So when does he find the time to meet with a woman in an LA hotel? Just thinking……

@AM: I agree the bit about meeting in “his” LA hotel sounded bogus. He has a big home there. If he didn’t want to take her there, I’d bet he would go somewhere more private than an LA hotel. What horse pucky.

Goldielocks @ 03/13/2012 at 12:04 pm

@angelsrock:

My thoughts exactly, Angel! I’m not firing until I see the whites of HER eyes! Seems like when someone gets down in HW, the users come out of the woodwork.
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This alleged woman supposedly had cheated on her first husband (father of her child) with a famous rocker way before. She sounds like nothing but a slutting around golddigger and I think she thought G was a bigger fish. Now she’s pzzd off that it didn’t work.
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Gerry needs to put himself in check if he has to become a Monk to do it! He’s going to be more well known for his antics then his acting soon and people will tire of it.
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He would be wasting such a wonderful talent that I know is there and it saddens me.
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I’m hoping this whole thing is made up and as my granny used to say, “Never believe anything you HEAR and only half of what you SEE!”

The Noise in the Walls @ 03/13/2012 at 12:05 pm

Janey..I think you nailed it :)…if all this is true….:)..#352

Stars go to hotels all the time for many different reasons(events/awards shows/press junkets/meetings), wasn’t there a photo of him taken by a twitter user a few weeks ago lounging around the pool at an L.A. hotel were he had been supposedly using the gym there? Just saying that he goes to hotels for other purposes where opportunities for other activities exist…

@hotels:
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So true. Seemed odd to me at the time because he has a beautiful pool at his own home. Then the thought came to me that maybe he was wanting to be photographed reading a script kind of like the ploy of photographing him reading Sam Childers’ book in the cafe as the DVD release was approaching.
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Awww the crazy games PR plays…

@hotels: Sure they go to hotels for a variety of purposes…but to have an affair on the downlow? I doubt he would. Wouldn’t want a photo of that taken now would he.

@but….: Right, and I’m sure GerBear would feel totally confident that no one on the hotel staff would tip off a pap or tabloid about his down low festivities. Why would a minimum wage maid, room service porter, door man, valet checker, or anyone like that spill the beans about a celebrity hooking up in their hotel? Everyone knows such people take unbreakable vows of silence!

This is so stupid.

AmICynical? @ 03/13/2012 at 12:42 pm

Where there is smoke, there is fire. That being said – it’s his life to live in any manner he choses to do so. I would not take well to having a choir chiming in as if my life was a Greek play each time I took a step.

Over in the wilds of IMDb, someone claims the woman is a model/wannbe actress Jessica Welch who is married to an la soccer player and has a young child. They say she is the model in his L’Oreal commercial.

Can'tGetEnough @ 03/13/2012 at 12:45 pm

Wouldn’t it be easier to have an affair at a hotel rather than his home? Sure the paps can take a pic of him walking in or in the hotel lobby but no one knows why he’s there. Could be for a meeting or a lunch. Then he disappears into an elevator and no one gets a pic of what happens after that! If the woman came to his home, the neighbors can see and if the paps stake out celeb neighborhoods, they can easily snag a pic of this “married” actress showing up at GB’s home. Awhile ago either myself or Reviews posted a tweet about a sighting in one of the LA hotels. I forget which one it was but it was in the afternoon. Makes you wonder!

@Manny: indeed.
@but….: Hotels offer lots of opportunity and privacy, one just needs to go about things in the right way. As of now, no photos have surfaced of “hotel rendezvous” in this case but that doesn’t mean encounters have not taken place.

No kid, but a rumor says it’s KK.Some pieces fit. Hey, Jet, how come you didn’t mention that is on IMDb as well?

No Kidding! @ 03/13/2012 at 1:08 pm

@AmICynical?: ” I would not take well to having a choir chiming in as if my life was a Greek play each time I took a step.”
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No kidding! What’s even weirder is the relish some of the people here are showing in doing it, when in reality, someone very close to them has probably done the exact same thing or worse. A friend, a family member, someone they work closely with. They may not know about it because unlike Gerry, their lives aren’t trotted out for public comment. I wonder if they would be so gleeful when commenting about their friends and family members who have had affairs with married people. It’s a shame that all of this seems more important to some people than the only reason they should be interested in him – movies.
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@Mass Media & Markets:
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Thanks for the explanation regarding the defamation standard. I didn’t know there was a different standard for famous people, but I looked it up and you’re right. They bar for what is and is not defamation is set way higher for them. I’ve always wondered how people like Perez and Ted and the Life & Style type mags get away with writing completely false things. If the only limitation on them is not writing something that they KNOW is false, and they don’t care about credibility because they’re tabloids and the public eats it all up anyway, then they really can write virtually anything. I could call RadarOnline right now and tell them something about Gerry and they could write about it because they don’t know that I’m lying or wrong.
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It’s unfortunate that so many are ready to believe what they write, not just about Gerry, but everyone. They can really do a lot of damage to reputations with the accusations they print, interfere with relationships, all sorts of bad stuff. Why do people think that’s okay and play along? Because the people also tend to be rich? Does that make it right? Let’s play havoc with someone’s life because he or she has more money than I do? That smacks of bitterness. It’s also unfortunate that the stories sometimes turn out to be true, which makes vapid people believe that they’re all true, when really most of them aren’t. I hope that doesn’t happen here, but I guess we’ll see.

@Manny:
that was in Palm Springs when he was reading the script on a lounge chair in hotel.

@No Kidding!:
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I think you make some really good points. I can understand with a child involved why the press is more reluctant, if not court ordered, to keep mum on the lady in question. I haven’t had the time or the inclination to see if he is listed on public record in a divorce filing…
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Sometimes I ride Butler harder than most, but that has to do with what my expectations are for a stand up human being, not a celebrity. Different rules seem to apply with the celebrated because they have people sculpting public perception.
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At the same time, maybe it is easy to believe stuff like this because of his past history. It’s not like Butler is helping the situation at all. If he would bed down with Martina I find it hard not to believe he would bed down with Brandi AND a friend’s wife.

So some stories claim GB was mentioned in this woman’s divorce papers? If true and the papers have actually been filed, it’s all public record. So why the dancing around about who she is?It would all be there for the public to see. Maybe there are no divorce papers with GB’s name on them afterall. ANd, no papers, likely no true story anyway.

Can’t wait to hear Alan and Rupert’s spin.

…….i have to laugh at myself for coming here sober……
but here it goes anyway….

its not the first time i have been dissappointed by a man and i’m sure not the last…….i’m not going to ask gerry to fall on his sword…..but maybe tuck it in his pants for awhile…..get right in the head….big and little…..

make peace with yourself and the others you have hurt and learn form it….

@am i Cynical….how true about the greek chourus…hard to live in a fishbowl……. but i also agree with manny, we are now seeing the consequences of maybe some very poor choices…..

(hello to Lolita, friend, i know how you are feel darlin, all i can say is i feel the same)…….

Janae Alt ?????

Goldielocks @ 03/13/2012 at 1:27 pm

@Pearl Clutchers and Bass:

You’re wasting your breath here. Your post of logic and good sense will fly right over their heads. They want to believe the bad so they are the stuff of a tabloid’s wet dream! These are people so dense and so unfulfilled in their real life they thrive on this crap like a drug!
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@CHOLITA: And your name rhymes with his dog! Give me a break with this crap! Dargabriel is not her real name, it’s a moniker and one she made up.

@who dat: That IS Sarah Howard….what’s the story behind her being in the park that day? Was Butler there, too?

question from me too @ 03/13/2012 at 1:32 pm

Wouldn’t the divorce in this case be sought by the wronged husband? So why would the chick file divorce papers and why in heck would she name her lover? That would be in HIS divorce papers, not HERS, I would think. It’s all too silly.

@Toronto:
I don’t think the yoga instructor is Sarah Howard
You people need to have your eyes checked

GerrysGreenEyedWoman @ 03/13/2012 at 1:34 pm

I think the whole thing is to make you wonder!
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What I wonder is who this is targeted at, or whom?
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I wonder why was (I–GFW) here last night when I wasn’t saying stuff I didn’t say when I wasn’t? I wonder who that was? Wasn’t me.
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Is this to disguise something else? It seems rather nutty fast!
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Is it a smudge campaign to turn someone off perhaps? Someone they know he’s more interested in… and this woman found out? ooOOoo the plot thickens.
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Been a weird year since this time last year. OMAM was a cursed film but God saved his handsome butt for a reason. Might he think to that? Like in Lucca, Tuscany, Italy!?
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Hollywood is taking its toll on Gerry. That much I do know.
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Goldielocks @ 03/13/2012 at 1:35 pm

@who dat: No, not at all!

@Manny:
I agree with you to a point..however Brandi and Martina are single adult women. I am not a Butler expert and God knows he is not saint…but married women with childern seems such a bad choice for someone who complains that most of what is written about him is false. I am trying to make sense out of something that dosen’t make any sense to me. I think I will just give up!!!!

I’m getting alota negs lately. Oh, well whatever.

Uh, what? @ 03/13/2012 at 1:49 pm

@Manny: “I can understand with a child involved why the press is more reluctant, if not court ordered, to keep mum on the lady in question.”
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Uh, Manny? The involvement of a child makes the story jucier for the tabloid. Tabloids don’t protect children. They exploit them for bigger numbers! This might explain some of your weirdness about Gerard Butler. You seem to think tabloids and gossip writers have a higher integrity than he does. That makes you very gullible and naive, my dear, and explains why you’re so ready to believe what they say. They write smack about people for a living. They go through people’s garbage. They pay snitches and hire people to trail celebrities through the streets. They run pictures of children at school. They’re not decent people. When it comes to the private lives of celebrities, they’re predatory. They might get the story right now and then, but most often they don’t, and the methods they use to get dirt on people are anything but laudable. Giving a tabloid or gossip writer more credit for integrity than the people they target is nuts. Tabloid and gossip writers are slime.
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Gerard might be slime too, but I wouldn’t believe Radar before him if he speaks to this for a hot second, and I don’t think Radar would withhold an ounce of dirt to protect a child. Whoever said that there’s an arrangement for the information and the release of information here is dead on.

Goldielocks @ 03/13/2012 at 1:50 pm

@$$$$: This is from back in 2006!
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A few days ago it seems the tabs tried to invent a story about Gerry and Katy Perry. It petered out pretty quickly and switched over to Katy and Prince Harry! She’s in the news right now because of her split from Russell.
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So now it’s about Gerry and some alleged hook up with a married woman. It does not make sense that any woman would file for a divorce and then name her affair in the petition. What would that be for? The husband could do that if he was the petitioner to deny alimony payments, support, etc. but since they claim she filed why would she put Gerry’s name in there? That would only be hurting her!
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Doesn’t anyone see this is made up? It’s so bad, in fact, that they don’t even know the law regarding divorce proceedings and certainly believe everyone who believes this doesn’t either! It’s insulting, really!

Too Funny @ 03/13/2012 at 1:56 pm

@Uh, what?: You’re singing to the choir with Manny when you talk about people who like the dirt! She’s one of the biggest spreaders of bad gossip and dirt around this place! She thrives on negativity or hadn’t you noticed?

@Me2: …..there are some very immature people here that can’t let people say their thoughts…….its passive bullying really…

i can’t stand the fact that some people will not respect an individual’s right to free speech even if they think what is being said is sh*t….i know guys who sacrificed their all for that right you so easyily dismiss…….

i read all the minus 15 thumb comments anyway just to spite the thumbers…they are usually some of the most honest…..

buggin out….

Dragonette @ 03/13/2012 at 1:56 pm

LMAO I’ve never been thumbed down so much for such a minor comment. And now it’s even hidden! OH THIS IS SUCH AN HONOR :’D Thanks, Phannies

Too Funny @ 03/13/2012 at 1:58 pm

In fact, it’s probably Manny who hides behind these other monikers with all these links to possible Butler hook ups. She needs help!

@FYI: Sorry…my bad. I clicked on the FIRST pic…which is Sarah. The woman in the second pic is not her…..

What the HECK is with all the negs EVERYBODY is getting….no matter what they say? Is it the fan-site Nellies’ attempt to silence us?

first we get thumbs manipulated by those who own and admin websites HINT HINT and now the manny phanny has arrived,

oh JJ you have sunk as low as Gerard.

Too Funny @ 03/13/2012 at 2:04 pm

@Manny: So for someone so not in to Butler, you know he has a beautiful pool at his home?
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@wtf?: Yeah, why don’t you go get “drunk” and come back. You make better sense when you’re not so sober.

God Bless yoou all! @ 03/13/2012 at 2:05 pm

“I have discovered this principle of life—that when I want to do what is right, I inevitably do what is wrong. I love God’s law with all my heart. But there is another power within me that is at war with my mind. This power makes me a slave to the sin that is still within me. Oh, what a miserable person I am! Who will free me from this life that is dominated by sin and death? Thank God! The answer is in Jesus Christ our Lord.” Romans 7:21-25 NLT (Suggested reading: Romans 7:15-25)

@Goldilocks
Yes 2006 when Navarro and Electra split. The article said that the woman in question was involved with Navarro first, during her 1st marriage.Gerry more recently.

Too Funny @ 03/13/2012 at 2:11 pm

@GerrysGreenEyedWoman:

The depth and breath of your delusional mind never ceases to amaze me!

GerrysGreenEyedWoman @ 03/13/2012 at 2:27 pm

I feel for his mom, true or not. I don’t feel she raised a rogue live wire hooligan who does not know right from wrong, just the opposite.
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I know she didn’t raise a saint either but Gerry is a good man with a huge heart who gives a lot back.
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That said, I send prayers up for this and for his mom and family. He’s people, good people, who truly care about him.
~K

GerrysGreenEyedWoman @ 03/13/2012 at 2:28 pm

I’m beginning to think the negs (thumbs) are secret code for they like stuff!
~K

GerrysGreenEyedWoman @ 03/13/2012 at 2:31 pm

Re: Gerry’s pool? Gerry doesn’t bring “good for right now” women of any sort into his homes. He sticks to sterile hotels of the no tell kind. No tell hotels in other words where staff sign non-disclosure papers!
~K

Too Funny @ 03/13/2012 at 2:32 pm

@GerrysGreenEyedWoman: You say:
“I think the whole thing is to make you wonder!
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I think the whole thing is to make you all wonder about the truth about me being GB’s secret love connection.
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“What I wonder is who this is targeted at, or whom?”
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I don’t really wonder, I know who the target is, ME!
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“I wonder why was (I–GFW) here last night when I wasn’t saying stuff I didn’t say when I wasn’t? I wonder who that was? Wasn’t me.”
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Someone is trying to sabotage my “relationship” with Gerry!”
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“Is this to disguise something else? It seems rather nutty fast!”
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Trying to disguise our secret love affair!
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” Is it a smudge campaign to turn someone off perhaps? Someone they know he’s more interested in… and this woman found out? ooOOoo the plot thickens”
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They are making this whole thing up to turn me off because someone knows he loves me and found out that I am THE ONE!”

*rolling on the floor with laughter!* TOO FUNNY!

Too Funny @ 03/13/2012 at 2:40 pm

@GerrysGreenEyedWoman: You are hilarious as well as delusional! Non-disclosure papers? How the heck would anyone inforce something like that? Any person can walk in to a hotel and SEE a celebrity coming and going and tell the paps or a tab so how would they know if was an employee or a random person off the street?

GerrysGreenEyedWoman @ 03/13/2012 at 2:44 pm

Hotels get staff to sign non-disclosure statements especially of the 5-star variety he’s known to luxuriate in. Have a nice day.
~K

GerrysGreenEyedWoman @ 03/13/2012 at 2:45 pm

@Too Funny:
Hi Manny! Have a nice day.
~K

The New York Daily report of Gerry with slurry words and sweating profusedly at the party is so sad. Witney Houston was reported looking disoriented and sweating profusedly the day before she was found dead in her hotel. By all signs Gerry is on a self destructing path and if I were his mother I’d be heart broken by now.

GerrysGreenEyedWoman @ 03/13/2012 at 2:47 pm

@Too Funny:
Dear Hick Town, to answer your “How the heck would anyone inforce something like that?” It’s called the legal system? Have a nice day.
~K

GerrysGreenEyedWoman @ 03/13/2012 at 2:58 pm

@TooFunnyBoredAndIgnoredManny, I don’t know Gerry. At all. We don’t have any ‘love affair’ going on. Get a grip, you sound ridiculous.
~K

@Uh, what?:
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Not naive… I haven’t said I have totally bought into it or RadarOnline’s report. What I said, given his past choices, this kind of a choice isn’t a surprise to me.
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I do believe wholeheateredly that Butler makes his choices and he has made some really bad ones. This whole mess is a good lesson on accountability for choices on all levels.
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Butler’s peeps won’t say anything and let it drift out there. Or maybe he will head to rehab again, which seems to be more of a dodge than rehab if what it being said is only somewhat true.
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Giving Butler 110% benefit of the doubt is naive. He has espoused a “sober” lifestyle and now has admitted that he hasn’t been “sober” but just not drinking. Splitting hairs… So anyone could be suspect of what Butler says since he has indeed sought to deceive the public.

Too Funny @ 03/13/2012 at 3:00 pm

@GerrysGreenEyedWoman: Now you can add stupid to that list!

Can'tGetEnough @ 03/13/2012 at 3:04 pm

Looks like GB may have headed north:

Half Moon Bay Brewing Company
6 minutes ago
Thanks Gerard Butler, Iron Cross film crew and local surfers for stopping by the Brewing Company again last night! We can’t wait for “Of Men and Mavericks” to hit theaters and for all of you to come back by the Brewing Company again!
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http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?pid=8668261&l=a76678b358&id=68771224360

@Too Funny:
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Awwwww Sweet… miss me???
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@Dragonette:
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Welcome to the club. :) Next they will accuse you of running a smear campaign against poor Gerry. Or using mulitple monikers to smear Gerry. Or just reading to smear Gerry.
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Funny thing is, if their sites would allow them to talk amongst themselves we wouldn’t be moderated. Poor Dianne is even posting here since she imposed her own stupid rule at her place… isn’t it TOO FUNNY…

Too Funny @ 03/13/2012 at 3:07 pm

@GerrysGreenEyedWoman: Yeah, you are having a “love affair” with him, in your mind!
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Stop hiding it! We all know by just your posts that you believe Butler has been reading your posts and blogs and he’s sending you subliminal and cryptic messages out in to the universe and it’s all just a matter of time before your paths cross and it’s all over but the cryin’! Also, by your jealous rants with other posters and alleged hook ups he has in real life and your ever faithful “I’m a supporter not a fan” crap! You’re a fool! You need to get a life and seek out a man in your real life before you grow old and lonely!
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Every post you compose is for his eyes. You and dar and cholita are all cut from the same crazy cloth!

@GerrysGreenEyedWoman:
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GFW… It seems you and I both get to share a tormentor today… Too Funny is not me sweetie… and here I thought it was you.
~K
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@Manny: JUST SUCK IT, MANNY!

GerrysGreenEyedWoman @ 03/13/2012 at 3:22 pm

@Too Funny:
Seriously, you’re off your stage-coach! Gerry does not read here. My blog(s) are airtight (now) after some foreign readers hacked in. He doesn’t read there either! Are you kidding? Why don’t you go back to GALS or GBF.com or WO or the Twitter and Facebook sites where you came from!
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Yes Manny apparently we both are! LOL
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I just want to know who was here as me/GFW last night? Some jealous drunk I guess (who thinks Gerry reads here). Why use my moniker? Anyone reading can see it’s not me. Why even readers here nailed them!
~K

radarlove @ 03/13/2012 at 3:29 pm

Censors working overtime today -hitting to close to the mark?

“Apparently Dave’s affair with Howard was the last drop in Carmen’s glass it was also rumored he had an affair with Jenae Alt and Casey Durkin”

GerrysGreenEyedWoman @ 03/13/2012 at 3:30 pm

@Can’tGetEnough:
Not North enough. Maybe Canada to spend time in a Yurt in the middle of a campground getting out of town alone with just a life coach?! [read: not a chance] Feel a lot of his problems come from the company he keeps.
~K

We don’t have Yurts we have teepees and igloos.

GerrysGreenEyedWoman @ 03/13/2012 at 3:44 pm

Fraud alert! #409 is not me.
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Who uses “suck it” a lot here? That reads familiar. [read: like I care] Ah, the games the demented play!
~K
who is leaving and if ‘seen’ here it isn’t me here on out

curious cat @ 03/13/2012 at 3:51 pm

@Goldielocks:

I’m afraid he’s already passed the Point of No Return. I hate to believe gossip and scandal too but he has contributed to his reputation. Plenty of hollywood actors get married, have children, and live quiet lives off the set. He has chosen to be flamboyant, tease the press and keep everyone guessing, claiming to do 3-ways and whatever. I still doubt he does half of what he’s reputed to, but he hasn’t behaved in a way that would stop the rumors cold.

@Can’tGetEnough:
This sighting is so curious. His hair looks like it looked a few weeks/months back before the Oscars, I wonder if it’s really from last night as it says.
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I wonder why he went back there, especially when his work is completed there, or at least it’s been reported that filming using Butler has been completed. That area in CA is so gorgeous and peaceful, I am tempted to think that maybe he just wanted to get away from the fire storm and enjoy some quiet time and clean air. Poor Guy! I know most people think he is a lowlife, but now in light of more information coming out on the situation, I am a little more sympathetic to him. This woman has a history of having affairs while being married, and I suspect she had many other lovers in between her marriages. She is not some innocent young girl, the kind Butler gets accused of “taking advantage” of on regular basis. I think, just like with Brandi, the only thing I can criticize him for is his choice of women. Too bad men don’t think before they act when sex is involved. Just because a woman is available to him and is willing and able to engage in sex with him, doesn’t mean she is a good choice for him to touch her, especially when he has other things to think about like his good name and career. This kind of bad publicity and judgments against Butler are the direct consequences of choosing the same type of bad partners.
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If this really occurred exactly as reported, and exactly as the new information reveals, then he is an idiot more than malicious. For someone who supposedly protects his privacy so strongly, what did he think was eventually going to happen with such a messy dysfunctional situation? Did he think the husband was going to keep quiet when he finds out? Did he think a woman as passionate and as sexual as that one seems to be was just going to let him go out of her life after he had enough of her without saying a word? Those things never end in a clean manner where everyone involved just disappears into the sunset. He should know these kinds of dysfunctional situations can end up in such a BIG mess. It seems all the women he gets involved with are dysfunctional on some level. How about getting involved with someone wholesome for a change and thinking about settling down on top of that too. Is that too much to ask from him? Why can’t he see what’s good for him?

@Reviews:
I think you are correct. I somehow feel Butler likes really sexual women. So when he gets what he wants he leaves thinking they got what they wanted like he did, but somehow these women have feelings for him and he does not have feelings for them. I think it is all about sex for him and like most men when it’s over it is over. I am not saying it is right …just my thoughts….

The Noise In The Walls @ 03/13/2012 at 4:36 pm

Butler can do what he pleases outside the realm of work..He is single and if he loves to play..oh well..however..I’m not a big fan on him playing with married people?…if ALL those rumours and tabliods are true..or half truths…Both parties know what’s going on…He’s guilty but so are the women who get involved…and don’t tell me they are innocent in all of this…Seems the word “Morals” nowadays is completely “gone”..No one has any self respect…Sad….really…..

I see him heading down a destructive path..like Saddie wrote eariler….Money and fame..some people can’t handle it well…Alot of enablers in that business and alot of temptations..especially in Hollyweird…People who cater to them and the “Yes” people…Sometimes when you’re in that situation “You don’t see it” like others do…looking in…

I’ve always enjoyed Gerry’s films and I still wish him the best…hopefully he’ll see it…and pull through..#416…before he can get involved with someone..he needs to seriously take a look at himself…

Well… I still liked Coriolanus very much and some of my friends who have seen it said they actually liked it, too… :-)

I also want to say that perhaps it is naive of me, but I find the whole “home-wrecking” talk over the last 8 pages gross. I know we all have opinions and thank God for free speech and the internet!!! But the whole talk is absolutely disgusting. This is my opinion and I’m sticking to it!

Why is it any of our business what Mr. B. does and with whom? His life, his choices…

Have a wonderful morning, day, evening or night, depending on your coordinates on this beautiful Earth and much love and light!

Em

Goldielocks @ 03/13/2012 at 4:52 pm

@curious cat: How does anyone know how he behaves really? A few photos here and there, usually caught by the paps who always want to show the worst possible side!
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He’s a handsome, devil make care, European single male. He gets a lot of female attention. Why should he get hitched just to stop the inevitable bad rep he’s going to get? Everything else is hearsay.
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I’m not going to pass judgement until I know it’s true from a reliable source and that isn’t on line tabloids. When I see a mugshot of him, like Robert Downy Jr. or Hugh Grant, then I will question his behavior.

The Noise In The Walls @ 03/13/2012 at 4:58 pm

Emma..You are absolutely correct..his life and his choices…:)…but alot of people find empathy in another human being…:)…

Empathy is a rare emotion these days…:)..I wish you well too !!

Goldielocks @ 03/13/2012 at 5:03 pm

@justsayin’too: That was so poorly written and just repeating what they read from Radar. I have never heard of her. Seems like she’s nothing more then a golddigger trying to sleep her way to the top.

bystander @ 03/13/2012 at 5:14 pm

Mr B! What the H*lls Bells are you doing?

Even if only 1 in 1000 stories we read is partly true, there are too many years of catalogued and rumoured bad behaviour/ PR deception to excuse as just ‘hot mess’, or his poor choice. Although I recently read a WO thread where the same fans who would maintain GB is ‘nice’, because he is so ‘nice’ to his fans and everyone he works with says he is ‘nice’, were slaughtering Aniston because she only pretended to be ‘nice’ to him publicly and really resented/blacklisted him for not paying the Hollywood PR game with her? So do his co-workers like him or is that just another game too? Can’t say I understood half of what was said, but it came across as a self defeating argument.

I keep going back to his admission that he was nicknamed ‘Gerard Superficial B*astard Butler’ at University because of his way of only appearing to be ‘nice’ to everyone in order to get what he wanted. Has this changed?

I also wonder how those he has encountered along his path to fame, celebrity and all its attendant benefits really feel about him now. What about Sue Jones, the acquaintance from Scottish Youth Theatre upon whom he descended when first in London. Worked as her assistant, gleaned acting tips from her, used his position in her employ/bed to wangle an audition with Berkoff, and then……what? Are they still in contact? And then there’s Christina Martin, who reckons he used her connections and recently made it obvious what she thinks of him. To them add Brandi, Sarah Howard, and a few hundred impressionable young females who GB has h*mped and dumped, how do they feel? I thought his dismissal of Brandi was callous, and not the behaviour of a ‘nice’ man, whatever you may think of her.

I suspect ‘egotistical manipulator’ would be a more appropriate description of our Mr B. Which makes him even more fascinating, psychologically, to watch.

But as his hitherto ‘private’ behaviour and PR games come to the fore, where will his career lead? His film choices can be dire, a bit frat boy lacking in emotional maturity, or simply uncommercial like MGP. His voice work is good, but physically his expressions are limited and can be completely hammy if he lacks good direction. His ego gets the better of him with script changes. His best work has always been ensemble, alongside a good British cast or in a British production, but he jettisoned those before learning his trade for the glitter of Hollywood. His days of beingthe young, hot new guy with charm and potential are over. In twenty years time we won’t be reading about the new Warren Beatty, the former womaniser who found true love, family values and an award winning directing career. It’s more likely to be Tony Curtis, a sad botoxed old lech getting taken for a ride by young bimbos, or, heaven forbid, another Jim Morrison/Michael Hutchence/David Carridene found dead, alone in a hotel room in seedy circumstances.

JMO, of course.

Goldielocks @ 03/13/2012 at 5:22 pm

For all we know, Brandi Glanville could have started this whole thing up. She was probably pretty po’d at him. How difficult would it be for her to contact Radar and claim a friend of a friend of hers was going through a divorce, blah, blah and use his name? I wouldn’t trust her.
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Funny how all this is coming out now after she opened her big mouth. I think it is Glanville that has been calling him and when he refused to talk to her, she opened her mouth. She seems the desperate type that would do anything to promote herself. She thought she’d use Gerry to get back at Eddie. When Gerry wouldn’t do it, she got mad at him. Poor Brandi dumped again! Makes perfect sense to me.
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If Gerry did have an affair with some married woman too and decided he’d better get in to rehab to get off of whatever it was making him senseless, I can see that would be a good thing. When he went back to smoking last year I think he had bottomed out and perhaps knew it and things were closing in on him.
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He does have a self destructive streak in him and when he gets like that, he doesn’t care anymore. I hope he got the help he needs from Betty Ford and turns things back around so that the vultures and users won’t have anything to play with anymore. He can do it if he detoxes his life too, not just from substances but from toxic people.

@bystander: Oh, good grief. What are you smoking?

bystander @ 03/13/2012 at 5:35 pm

@gag me:Nowt, I don’t smoke!

Are you implying I’m the only one who ponders on such things, or am I just the only twerp who commits such thoughts to writing!

Well, if I am the only one who thinks on such things then I apologise for being so out of synch with the majority, but GB still makes for some interesting cogitation, especially when the headlines are ripe!

I’d love to be a fly on a wall at Alan’s house today. But I bet the air is blue. Just when he thought it was safe again after the rehab story was accepted pretty well everywhere, this has to come out.

@wtf?: Hi lady, I wonder if his feet will ever heal from shooting himself in the foot. Good to hear from you, always a pleasure to talk to you. The bullseye on him must be gigantic. Have a great day!!

Goldielocks @ 03/13/2012 at 6:03 pm

@bystander: You make some valid points and if what you say is true, the latter of what you suggested that will become of him will happen eventually. Time will certainly tell.
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For now, I give him the benefit of the doubt. I always have to have proof before I draw judgement, especially on something like this.
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I stand at the check out and can read crap about everyone in Hollywood at any given time and I’m so desensitized by it that it probably is made up that I don’t trouble myself to care.
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As I said, I give him the benefit of the doubt until otherwise proven.

Goldielocks @ 03/13/2012 at 6:10 pm

@Can’tGetEnough: You know that picture looks old to me for some reason because he recently had his hair darkened and had lost a lot of his tan. I think that’s an old picture even though he might have been there last night eating, who knows, but it’s a ways up there from Palm Springs just to have dinner isn’t it?

Goldielocks @ 03/13/2012 at 6:11 pm

Maybe with all the recent media hype around him the restaurant thought it might draw patronage!

Can'tGetEnough @ 03/13/2012 at 6:16 pm

@Goldielocks: Hard to tell with the pic, sometimes it’s the lighting, so who really knows? I thought it was a bit far to travel as well, but he was sighted at the Palm Springs airport on Sunday and he didn’t make it to that poker tournament (or whatever that was), so maybe he just flew up there to meet with the cast for some reason?

if you google janae alt she looks like his type and she got married last year… and had a thing wth dave navarro.i wouldn’t be surprised if its her.

Uh, what? @ 03/13/2012 at 6:32 pm

@Manny: “I haven’t said I have totally bought into it or RadarOnline’s report. What I said, given his past choices, this kind of a choice isn’t a surprise to me.
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I do believe wholeheateredly that Butler makes his choices and he has made some really bad ones. This whole mess is a good lesson on accountability for choices on all levels.”
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Manny, you totally contradict yourself here. First you say you’re not assuming the report about what Gerry did is true. Then you say that this is a lesson in accountability. If you say this is a lesson in accountability, then you’re assuming that Gerry has done something to be accountable for. Which is it?
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Or are you saying that this story validates your past opinions about what Gerry has done and that you think he needs to be accountable for? In the which case, you’re still assuming that reports about things that he’s done are true.
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When has Gerry ever claimed to be the icon for a sober life? The only thing that I’ve ever heard or read him to speak to is alcohol. I’ve never seen him go farther than that with claims of not using any other substance. You’re projecting.
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And no one is giving him 110% credibility. There are two groups of people posting here – the people who aren’t condemning or acquitting because they’re not going to pass judgment either way based on tabloids and those who have passed judgment on him based on tabloids. You’re clearly in the latter group, per usual. Just admit that you’re a sucker for tabloids and gossipmania. You already refer to them as “the press,” when they’re not. Like someone else said, they’re for profit products produced in response to demand. They’re not products of journalism. Yet you are obviously more than willing to let them exploit you by buying into the whole schtick.
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You’d seem less silly if you would just admit that. This nonsensical backpedaling with “I’m not assuming that he’s done the thing that I’m saying he needs to be accountable for but he needs to be accountable” stuff just makes you seem spineless and schizo. It doesn’t make you seem reasonable.

@WF: janae alt looks like holding hands girl from January?

Well he was afraid of being the next “Tiger Woods” let the text begin and where’s Gloria Allred!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

correction @ 03/13/2012 at 6:45 pm

The photos of Gerry reading a script were taken on January 27 at the Beverly Hills Hotel, not Palm Springs. He was in LA. This is also not the first time he’s been seen at this hotel. Was was lounging around their pool last summer, as well.
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https://twitter.com/showbizshelly/status/163057110303776768/photo/1

I don’t know if this is true or not, but there’s one thing that makes me thing that there are at least big parts of it that are bogus or totally unsubstantiated — it’s been 24 hours, and TMZ hasn’t said squat about this, and they totally would with their whole “You’ve Been Butlered!” thing and that goofy song. I know that TMZ is a trashy tabloid, but next to the cheapo sites that have run this story so far, they’re a little better about checking sources, especially where legal matters like divorce are involved, because the guy who runs it was a lawyer. It’s not like when they have video of GB looking at a girl and they joke “You’ve Been Butlered!” when all he did is look at the girl. This is potentially reputation damaging stuff.
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I think the accusations are serious enough that TMZ doesn’t want to get caught with its pants down so it’s not saying anything until it checks sources out itself. Even if Radar Online claims to have an exclusive, divorces are a matter of public record, and enough names have been pulled into the story by now that CIA rivaling TMZ would be able to find someone who could speak to this.
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TMZ would totally blow this up if they felt that they had something to base it on. The fact that they haven’t makes me thing that they don’t, and if TMZ hasn’t found something to back up the story, maybe it’s bogus or hanging on a very thin string. Just my two cents.

I would love to see him with January Jones, Alexa Havins or reunited with Lena Headley from “300″! They had great chemistry! Gerry is funny, and awesome, and I hope he finds some better leading ladies.

TheDoctorIsIn @ 03/13/2012 at 7:02 pm

Has anyone else observed the correlation between long winded posts on this story and defense of the indefensible? I guess baseless rationalization does take a lot of external processing to justify. (chuckle)

TheDoctorCan'tHelp @ 03/13/2012 at 7:13 pm

@TheDoctorIsIn: “Has anyone else observed the correlation between long winded posts on this story and defense of the indefensible?”
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There are literacy programs now that help people who find reading big words and complete sentences intimidating. I hear kids do really well with Hooked on Phonics.

@TheDoctorCan’tHelp: “There are literacy programs now that help people who find reading big words and complete sentences intimidating. I hear kids do really well with Hooked on Phonics.”
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lol! That’s all.

Bystander you actually worry me. If I recall you said you were at front on Norton?? well the quiet lurking type of fans are the worst. You have the hallmarks of a potential stalker and I fear for Gerry lol.

@bystander
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I loved your post. Your description of GB is far more truthful than any of his fan girls could ever muster.
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Pay no attention to their attacks. They’ve got their giant panties in a bunch. Their boy has scr.ewed up royally again, so they’re attacking everyone and anything in sight. They’re so predictable.

This ....... @ 03/13/2012 at 8:05 pm

@TMZ: “TMZ would totally blow this up if they felt that they had something to base it on. The fact that they haven’t makes me thing that they don’t, and if TMZ hasn’t found something to back up the story, maybe it’s bogus or hanging on a very thin string.”
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…….. is actually a good point.

@Uh, what?:
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I can see you missed my point.
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The accountability statement was a generalization for Butler period. In regards to the relationship you have with the media. If you taunt the media they dig deeper. In regards to the fans/media Butler has been deceitful in claiming a sober lifestyle and then off he goes to rehab. Sleeping with Martina, aka Blabbermouth, Choices can be more than this radaronline story and guess what… I was speaking generally.
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Sorry if I didn’t make that clear… but then again from your long oration it seems you just wanted to vent at anyone because you’re p!ssed about this whole mess. Well join the club. Cheers!

TheDoctorCan'tHelp @ 03/13/2012 at 8:12 pm

@Manny: “but then again from your long oration it seems you just wanted to vent at anyone because you’re p!ssed about this whole mess. ”
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Lame cop out. “Your post is long,” “you’re just upset.” Read: I don’t have a better way to respond to you. Next.

Hole in one @ 03/13/2012 at 8:19 pm

Gerry should know better I know the lady is to blame for being married but gerry played a part there is no excuse to get involved with someone who is committed, i feel sorry for the child her ex husband said her current husband was really good with their child poor thing will have to go through adjusting to new men again!

The thing ppl think when they have an affair or cheat is they think they can get away with it but it comes back to bite them back! Just for some cheap thrills under the sheets she wrecked her marriage s/ex isn’t everything! And shows how dumb this woman is did she really think Gerry would get serious with her n settle with her she mustve been so oblivious or stupid to not know his reputation or did she think she was so special compared to all his other conquests that he would change pleeesee makes me cringe how dumb some woman are that they leave everything!

If he met her in hotels shows how serious he was about her any guy who does this rather then take you to his place must mean something surely

@TheDoctorCan’tHelp:
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Sorry to disappoint you but I’m not willing to engage with someone who has an axe to grind…
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Next…
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@Uh, what?:
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BTW there are not two types of people who post here. It isn’t one side against another. Very shortsighted and childish of you. But if you are now making the rules here, well, whatever…
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You can assume what you want and go on and on about it. I didn’t know we were choosing up teams… adults don’t have to do that. :)

bystander @ 03/13/2012 at 8:25 pm

@Jenna J: firstly, where you sit is pot luck where you are placed. Secondly I was there for a whole weekend, for various reasons, not just our sleazy friend . Thirdly I have never seen him before and have no intention of doing so again. And finally I wasn’t impressed!
I think mr b has far more ladies to fear , both in quantity and rabidity LOL!

TheDoctorCan'tHelp @ 03/13/2012 at 8:27 pm

@Manny: “but I’m not willing to engage with someone who has an axe to grind…”
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LMAO! Despite posts that could probably be bound into a chain spanning the length of the US proving that you’ll engage anyone at the slightest provocation and often without any. Poor baby, having to result to demonstrably false statements because she can’t be clever.

dargabriel shut up. no one cares about your stupidity go away

justsayin'too @ 03/13/2012 at 8:30 pm

OK- I had an hour to kill so I thought i would see what is out on the internet. IF the radar online report is true, I am almost positive it is Jenea Alt, also known as Jenea Altschwager. She has a website but also some po-rn videos at Jenaealt.blogspot.com–DO NOT OPEN IF PO-RN UPSETS YOU! She may just be a gold digger trying to get some mileage as it seems she is not very successful but is trying to promote herself. She states she is a mother but not sure if a boy or girl. She also got married to her second husband Jeff Bozigian of Sunset Tan on Feb 12 2011. He is not the father of her child. She is from Michigan and her first husband said he was from Michigan. She also has a website for her “production” company Give Entertainment. Don’t even get me started on that choice of names-LOL She’s quite the classy lady!!!! However, she looks like the typical GB ‘type’. She is not very attractive with out the hair and make-up and photo shopping but I’m sure she is talented in what matters to him- LOL
I keep hoping he shows better taste in his career choices and personal choices but he is a self-destructive son of a gun isn’t he, because he has so much going for him and he keeps digging himself into a hole or in this case, ho!

@He is dating someone:
Wow if that’s hot you need your eyes checked. Sarah Carroll is and looks like a post op trannsexual. sorry try again

What? Alicia and Brandi and the Married woman all conspiring against Gerard to get back at him?? I am a Butler fan but that just seems so so far-fetched. I think most women in tinseltown are out for themselves. I doubt Alicia or Brandi cares about Gerard and the married woman for sure hates him. I would say her ex hub is spilling the beans on this new story.

I think we have a winner @ 03/13/2012 at 8:40 pm

@justsayin’too:
I think you’re right about Jenea Alt. It’s her. She’s even got the Michigan connection. Great detective work there.
She’s also a brown-eyed brunette like Radar said.

her name ... @ 03/13/2012 at 8:48 pm

… is spelled Jenae

@I think we have a winner:
And Jane is a diseased manly-looking p0rn star. Way to pick em Gerard you big stinky loser. To the person who said that perhaps Brandi is orchestrating this whole thing: I did notice that Brandi and Alicia are ‘friends’ on Twitter and FB. Maybe when Brandi knew she’d stuck her foot in her mouth and was getting trashed she asked her buddy Alicia to bring up her dalliance from the past to take some heat off. People do weirder things just thinking outside the stupidity here. if so Brandi is smart and not as stupid as people think she is.

@her name …:
Sorry JENAE is a manly looking diseased P0RN STAR.

@I think we have a winner: you may be right. She looks like the hand holding ‘girl# from the sunset video that caused a pre rehab stir in January.

Oh Gerry,

a married po/rn star,
a real housewife,
Anustain fingergate,
Biel on a bike,
Eurotrash tour,
Butler loves Brasilians,
Playing survivor with 12 models,
Dial a hook-up Louisiane style,
Venetian Violin on tape,
College girl camp outs,

it just get’s better and better,
you must be on drugs!!!!!

Brandi has better things to do than worry about you train of lossers here. She has her boys and her gays. Her girlsfriends also. Gerard was lucky to even get her attentoins.

angelsrock @ 03/13/2012 at 8:54 pm

@ha ha:
That was so stupid and boring. keep uyour day job.

Oh Gerry! @ 03/13/2012 at 8:58 pm

Her really name is probably “Jenny”, but she thinks if she spells it “Jenae”, it will make her breast implants look classier.

TheDoctorCan'tHelp @ 03/13/2012 at 8:59 pm

@so what: “She has her boys and her gays. Her girlsfriends also. Gerard was lucky to even get her attentoins.”
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#1 – If Brandi writes like you, I hope she also has a dictionary.
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# 2 – Your post is one of the saddest statements about someone I’ve ever read in my life.

@angelsrock: no probs phangurl, at least i have one,
you sit here and thumb all day!!!!

Gerard Butler: The Women of 2012
Brandi, Alicia, Janea.
Who am I missing?
Get ready and I’m not kidding,
I have a feeling that this is NOT the end of the line.
TIP of the iceberg :(
We are watching how one man single-handledly destroys his career.

Just Sayin' @ 03/13/2012 at 9:04 pm

@TheDoctorCan’tHelp:
Erm Brandi DOES write that badly. Have you seen her Twitter feed? It’s like she is ‘slow’ mentally truthfully. Alicia is seemingly ‘book’ smart but annoying and you want to smack her – so she and Brandi even each other out on my timelines on Twitter. I just joined a month ago.

@Emma:
“I find the whole “home-wrecking” talk over the last 8 pages gross.”
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You’re absolutely right. Calling him a “home-wrecking” is just spin by the tabloids, or by this woman. The only person responsible for the demise of this marriage is this woman herself.
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Just like men should exercise some self-restraint when they see a possible conquest, and just like they must weigh all the possibilities of the pros and cons of who they can hurt by engaging in sex with a conquest, not letting their “needs” control them, so do women. Women should accept responsibility for bedding men without a commitment. Not only did this woman have no commitment from Gerard, but she was also married so how could he give her any commitment even if he wanted to? And besides, it’s very hard for a man to give a commitment to a woman who cheated with him on her husband. Believe me, if a man has an ounce of common sense, the idea of ‘if she cheated on her husband, she’d cheat on me too one day’ WILL cross his mind. Therefore, if this woman actually believed she could make him marry her or whatever, then she is devoid of common sense. She is both guilty for cheating on her husband, as well as at fault for being SO damn stupid. I have no sympathy for her. For Gerard, I don’t have any sympathy either. You play with fire you get burned. He gets involved with the sleaziest women possible so as a result he must pay the piper when the time comes. It’s the law of the universe.
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Yes, I understand he loves sex and the sleazy women are the only ones available so readily without him having to wine and dine them, but still, if he presented himself as a man open for commitment, the right woman would come his way. God and the Universe will make sure she crosses paths with him. It’s that simple. When you are ready in earnest to settle down, very soon the right partner walks into your life. He is constantly out in the public going to parties, premiers, traveling, etc…so he meets many, many people. If he wanted to, he could easily meet someone this year and settle down with her. It should be easier for him than for most regular people who don’t know as many people, of who don’t have as many opportunities to meet people from the opposite sex. I am not surprised by his antics at all. Single men in his position and with his lifestyle find themselves in this situation a lot. Except at some point everyone has enough of it, and even a hot rich guy wants to fall in love and settle down when he finally understand that he can’t do the same old-same old forever. I wonder when Gerard will have this realization?

@Can’tGetEnough:
Wow! I can’t believe he keeps going back there to film, it’s like the projects that never completes.
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But either way, I am happy he is there. He really needs to be with regular folks and away from the sleazy types. It’s like I said, he meets so many people, he could easily find someone nice and wholesome to build a life with. All he needs is desire to do so.
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@Goldielocks:
” but it’s a ways up there from Palm Springs just to have dinner isn’t it?’
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Not if he is still filming, then he needs to be there.

It’s known fact if your personal life is an embarrassment itl impact on your career in Hollywood look at all those examples of stars who ppl lost respect of! And having a homewrecker accusation looses all respect be it a man or a woman! He’s a complete idiot for ruining his career & it’s a matter of time before no one will take him seriously! I knew of his manwho/re ways & being a player but married women is below the belt shows how selfish he can be without thinking of others I really liked him but after this it’s a complete turn off for me no matter how hot he is I’ve just lost all respect for him!

@Reviews: HE SHOULD NEVER MARRY!!!
NEVER,NEVER,NEVER

@TheDoctorCan’tHelp:
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Go pick a fight with someone else… I’m not playing…
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@The Box:
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I hope you’re not right but afraid you are. :)

justsayin'too @ 03/13/2012 at 9:18 pm

I really think this woman was looking as Gerard as a step up for her “career” She’s only been married one year and her husband is part of her “production” company and he was a producer on his Sunset Tan reality series. That’s probably how GB knows him from all his orange spray tans. They used each other and I don’t feel sorry for her or GB. However, it is so sad the way children have to deal with idiots that keep bringing people in and out of their lives without a thought to what it does to the child. The more I learn of Hollywood the more the more I understand why all the people are so warped. Everyone is just looking for the better deal or the next big thing. No substance at all.

Harvey and Alan are friends, he was asked to sit on this over at TMZ till Gerry’s team(?) could get their last hail mary duck in a row. I think his career is circling the drain now, you should hear the pulling of the plug on a key project any day now.

Gerry has always been the Butlered joke at TMZ, Alan laughed along for publicity’s sake, but Harvey stepped over the line with the cocaine mention, and he refused to retract it.

Harvey knows the truth but is hushing the identity of this women and not running the story in an attempt to win back his friendship with Alan.

@justsayin’too:
OMG! Great detective work. We need to see a picture of her, can you link us something? So I was right about her character if she is indeed the lady in question. She is hardly the victim. And, the fact that she has a child doesn’t make her a victim either, and we should not feel sorry for her. If she insists on behaving the way she does, then she is the only one responsible if her child gets hurt by all of her shenanigans. In fact, she is exactly the kind of girl Gerry likes to have flings with. I am sure, the fact that she wanted to get a divorce from her current husband in order to be with him, must have really surprised him. He probably thought a woman like her will never develop any feelings for him and that it was only about the sex for her, as for him. Boy did he get an unpleasant surprise. In addition, maybe it’s true what some people have alluded to that in order to get away from her for good he faked a rehab stint. He might have not even been to rehab at all. After all, he was tweeted about left right and center during the time he was supposedly in rehab lol. We all speculated on the short rehab stay and reached the conclusion that at most he was in rehab for 10 days, not 3 weeks.
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In addition, if she is the woman he was holding hands with outside the GGA, it all make so much more sense now. It’s totally not like him to be seen holding hands in public with a GF, or someone he is having a fling with. It must have set something off in his mind the way she was behaving in public, reaching out to him and locking hands with him, leaning on him with a diabolical look of satisfaction on her face. It must have become all way too close for comfort for him when the GGA parties wore off. Within 2 weeks he disappeared. We all thought he was laying low because of Brandi, which also came out right after the GGA, but maybe in reality he was staying away from this woman in which he ceased to have NY interest in. Then he went to “rehab”, a further excuse to get away from her. If this is true then the Alicia story is also bogus, and maybe just something she and Brandi cooked up. Oh… Gerry it’s time to cut all the exotics, porn stars, reality stars, and gold diggers out of your life.

@Can’tGetEnough:
“but he was sighted at the Palm Springs airport on Sunday and he didn’t make it to that poker tournament (or whatever that was), so maybe he just flew up there to meet with the cast for some reason?’
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That totally makes sense now why he was at the airport. LA is not that far so flying is not much likely, but to San Fran, well, that makes a lot more sense.

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@ha ha:
Oh yes he should. I think marriage is going to benefit him greatly. He is not the only man who behaves like this. Most guys in his position and lifestyle have women falling all over them but they eventually settle down, so why not him?

Just Sayin' @ 03/13/2012 at 9:45 pm

^^^^ aw another one of Gerards sad phannies in denial.
Guess what? Gerard really didn’t go to REHAB – he went to DISNEYWORLD for a vacation!! Dummy. Believe whatever is going on in that numb skull of yours no one cares who you are or what you are about you might as well take something and end it all. Wake up stupid.

question??? @ 03/13/2012 at 9:45 pm

@BTW:
How the fu//ck do you know this? Or, are you just guessing it’s the case. Please enlighten us.

Cut.It.Out @ 03/13/2012 at 9:55 pm

@BTW:

He needs 2 STOP. This is sad to me. The L.A. I know is beautiful….do not know Hollywood the business…….never will. Nor want to. If Gerry wants to keep his career he better start pretending. Pretend a relationship whatever he needs to do. I take that back. Either he needs to get his s/hit together or get out. Disappointed. It’s the woman’s fault first for cheating on her man. For whatever reason doesn’t matter. It’s WRONG. Do we care about her??? NO. Do I care about her child?? Yes even if I don’t know the kiddo. I feel bad for his fans. I see some of u taking up for him. Nope if this is true. Cut it out. Don’t be enablers. I know that from experience. The ones seeing reason keep at it. If something happens to him it doesn’t only affect him. It affects his family, friends & fans. He better take a hiatus and get himself together. As a mom I feel his mum needs to give him a sound lashing. He doesn’t have a wife or girlfriend or friends it’s looks like 2 do it for him.

TMZ vs Radar @ 03/13/2012 at 10:09 pm

@BTW:
Also TMZ and Radar are legendary rivals. The two sites hate each other. The only story TMZ would run on this is a story that debunks it. Radar already got the exclusive. Whoever the leak is has given exclusive rights to Radar, so TMZ can’t do much other then find other info that repeats what Radar already broke. That’s a feather in Radar’s cap because they got the exclusive before TMZ.
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These two sites are notorious competitors. TMZ’s next move will be to try and get Gerry’s side and debunk Radar’s exclusive. They obviously haven’t been able to do that. They haven’t been able to find any holes in Radar’s story … at least they haven’t found any yet.
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TMZ and Radar often set up their exclusives in opposition to each other, with TMZ siding with the celeb.
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During the Mel Gibson scandal, TMZ published all of Mel’s leaks, and Radar published all of Oksana’s. The Mel Gibson abuse scandal was one of the biggest stories of that year and it was Radar that blew the lid off it. It was Radar Online that had the exclusive rights to Oksana’s tapes and there was nothing TMZ could do but publish Mel’s damage control.
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The same thing is happening with the Halle Berry baby-daddy scandal. Radar is publishing all the leaks from Gabriel Aubry’s camp, and TMZ is publishing the Halle Berry leaks.
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TMZ tries to be as celeb friendly as they can and it really shows in the big scandals. TMZ will get exclusives to the celeb’s version and Radar gets rights to the opposing side.
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The chess match between TMZ and Radar is fascinating and has been going on for some time.

@Ella:
“I knew of his manwho/re ways & being a player but married women is below the belt shows how selfish he can be without thinking of others I really liked him but after this it’s a complete turn off for me no matter how hot he is I’ve just lost all respect for him!”
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You are really not putting this in the right context. Think of her character.
She is hardly the victim. And, the fact that she has a child doesn’t make her a victim either, and we should not feel sorry for her. If she insists on behaving the way she does, then she is the only one responsible if her child gets hurt by all of her shenanigans. In fact, she is exactly the kind of girl Gerry likes to have flings with. I am sure, the fact that she wanted to get a divorce from her current husband in order to be with him, must have really surprised him. He probably thought a woman like her will never develop any feelings for him and that it was only about the sex for her, as for him. Boy did he get an unpleasant surprise. He needs to re-calculate the way his hos would behave. They might talk on a reality show about his prowess, name him in their divorce, or God knows what….. So if he wants to protect his reputation and his career, he needs to choose more discrete/serious/responsible women for his flings.
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The fact she was married or has a child is totally irrelevant. It doesn’t make him any worse than having a fling like Alicia or Brandi. It’s not his responsibility to watch out for the woman’s marriage or child. It’s her responsibility to stay away from other men if she wants to stay faithful to her husband. This is not like they were both working on a movie set together and he started to make moves on his co-star , enticing her to betray her husband, fu//cking her, and dumping her afterwards when she was ready to get a divorce for him. Rather, this is a highly sexual woman who makes her living in the p//orn industry. She is also someone who is no stranger to cheating on husbands, as she did it once before, and she is no stranger to sex and having flings for the sake of the thrill she gets out of it. I mean C’ome on! If I blame him for anything, it’s for choosing poorly once again. When is he going to curb his appetite for these type of women?

@TMZ vs Radar:
Fabulous explanation of the whole Radar vs. TMZ rivalry.

I had no idea about it. I brought up the question yesterday of why TMZ didn’t say anything about this story and thought it spoke volumes on its validity.

Now, you shed light on why TMZ hasn’t said anything. It’s very interesting to see what TMZ eventually reports.

so........ @ 03/13/2012 at 10:33 pm

remember the good ol days when you could peruse WO and laugh, guess you must be a member now, no more peeking at their comments. waawaaaaa

lots of sugar coated gerry on the front though

reeks of V for Vendetta don’t it? all hail the regime and their benevolent dictator

here’s to JJ and like some poster said FREE SPEECH

Desperate Housewife @ 03/13/2012 at 10:39 pm

I’m married and he can bring his sweet little manhoing butt cheeks over to my house anyday….specially when the old man is out of town!

Cut.It.Out @ 03/13/2012 at 10:44 pm

@Desperate Housewife:

I have no tolerance today. F/uckin’ gross. Have some self respect. If you women care about Gerard Butker at all…..Give some tough love. Yet don’t give up.

Cut.It.Out @ 03/13/2012 at 10:45 pm

*Butler

No Kidding! @ 03/13/2012 at 10:46 pm

Well, if this does turn out to be true, I’ll be bummed. Not because of Gerry. I’m not sleeping with him so I don’t care who he sleeps with. It’s none of my business or concern. I’ll be bummed because I hate seeing tabloids validated for this kind of nastiness and seeing the people get what they want from feeding it to the tabloids. It is the bottom feeding land of the entertainment business, imo. It’s a parasite feeding off of people because the public feels entitled to know all of this crap about famous people. No one would ever presume to ask these questions about their neighbors or coworkers, but the public feels entitled to know it about total strangers. And people exploit it to cash in, like the Bombshell McGee’s of the world, and everyone who buys into the tabloid culture makes it possible. That’s what bums me out. Dirty people cashing in on dirt, with people getting hurt, and the public who makes it all possible claiming innocence. So, I hope its not true and some people end up with egg on their face for being all wrapped up in this. Guess we’ll see.
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I don’t care about Gerry’s personal life, but even if this turns out to be true, I think people are being a bit alarmist in saying it will ruin his professional life. If Alec Baldwin can scream threats and curses at his minor daughter in a voice mail, have that recording spread everywhere, and then get booked on 30 Rock like nothing happened, a single man having sex and not cheating on someone himself isn’t exactly going to shock anyone’s conscience in the business.
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I realize that everyone here feels differently, but then again, everyone here has a particular focus on Gerry and isn’t exactly objective. Most people don’t chronicle the events of his personal life like the people posting here. Everything with regard to Gerry is going to be a bigger deal to the people posting here than it is in reality to the rest of the world.

TMZ vs Radar @ 03/13/2012 at 10:47 pm

@Reviews:
TMZ may very well have known about the “married woman” story before it broke. Often people with a story to sell will shop it around to all the major outlets and then choose the one who offers them the best deal.
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This may have been TMZ’s leverage with Gerry’s team. TMZ gets to publish the exclusive on Gerry’s rehab, and TMZ promises to sit on the affair with a married woman. TMZ tries to work with celebs as much as they can.
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On a more serious note, this tendency was something that really elevated TMZ when Natasha Richardson died. TMZ actually had the news that Natasha had died but refused to publish it. Other sites went ahead and broadcast it, but TMZ waited until the family was ready to come forward. It was a classy move and I never forgot it.

justsayin'too @ 03/13/2012 at 10:48 pm

You can facebook her under Jenae Alt and several pictures will come up
She’s not very attractive unless she is made up and photoshopped. Not sure why he goes for these types except they are easy to get. But what thrill is there to that when you know everyone else has had them already? I hate to see anybody think so little of themselves, men or women, that they hook-up with anyone and everyone with no thought to the consequences and I’ll get trashed for this but the diseases-OMG!!!!

justsayin'too @ 03/13/2012 at 10:59 pm

Here is an interview she gave a few years ago. Not too bright-LOL
http://hotspotsweekly.com/hottie/jenae.html

@No Kidding!:
You’re looking down your nose at the gossip industry, while posting on a gossip site.

justsayin'too @ 03/13/2012 at 11:02 pm

a poster at Radar online posted this under the story

“this is no brainer. jenai alt is the sl##t’s name. she is divorcing my friend’s brother. she is an opportunist druggie”

Cut.It.Out @ 03/13/2012 at 11:06 pm

@justsayin’too:

You will not get trashed by me. That’s reason! It’s too dangerous to sleep around these days. Be careful who you pick as your friends and your lovers. This will sound bad….. how do I put this. I’m still young and thriving. I’ve lived in big cities and lived the big city life. I only say that to keep the hateful people at bay. I’ve been around celebs plenty and lived the small town life 2. Appreciate both yet BE careful who you chose as your loved ones.

justsayin'too @ 03/13/2012 at 11:07 pm

If she is into drugs this explains him going into rehab to get away from her. That is the perfect excuse to cut her out of his life. The plot thickens!!!

No Kidding! @ 03/13/2012 at 11:11 pm

@oh really: “You’re looking down your nose at the gossip industry, while posting on a gossip site.”
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Just Jared isn’t the same type of outlet. It doesn’t break stories about anyone like a Radar or TMZ. At most, it will reprint news after it’s already been everywhere, either in a pragmatic way or often with a positive spin. Jared is well known for being “nice,” which is why actors sometimes choose to do things like online chats in coordination with Just Jared. Mostly, Just Jared just runs photos with tags like, “Gorgeous Shopping Gal!” or “Bathing Beach Beauties!” or “Friday Fitness Hunk!”
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You would never see me posting at a TMZ, Radar, Perez, or any of those types of sites.

@justsayin’too:
I just want to say, I’m really enjoying your detective work tonight. This is getting very interesting! :-)

People Talk @ 03/13/2012 at 11:14 pm

Someone who wasn’t very happy weighed in on Perez.

Is there no respect or character in this world anymore. Gerard is a man *****. He bring around his type. They are skinny, wannabes, who have no morels either. Or they are naive to think they are his only. He is a magnet to these types. Married or single. He is eye candy and a player. That is it.

What waste.

RRRing...RRRRing... @ 03/13/2012 at 11:17 pm

Hello TLC this is Alan Siegel calling….

I would like to book Gerard Butler for and episode on Intervention or Hohoarders ……..

*click*

hello…hello…dam.n Gerry you better call Brandi and see if you can book an appearance on RHOBV and maybe promise her another week in Malibu…..

Cut.It.Out @ 03/13/2012 at 11:21 pm

@Sadsadsad:

No life is a waste. I’m p/issed about this. I’ve been doing research on this site for a while. Grown fond of a few & I refuse to let another celeb that has talent go to waste. I have this weird feeling that his people are now checking up on what fans think. Well, I think he better get it together. That is all.

Can'tGetEnough @ 03/13/2012 at 11:22 pm

I think she’s in San Francisco:

Ariel L ‏ @ariellaura914 Reply Retweet Favorite · Open
OF COURSE GERARD BUTLER WAS IN MY STORE ON MY DAY OFF. Omg. He’s one of my favoritessss. I’m really upset about this.

@Cut.It.Out: This fan sees him with so much potential but his private life and lack of depth crosses over into his performances. Script choices etc…

He has no interest in getting it together. He is having too much meaningless fun. Not growing older with grace and dignity. Like a Paul Newman, Cary Grant or even George Clooney.

The Hollywood Grind.com is going as far as naming Sarah Howard. But, I’m now leaning towards Jenai……who the F/uck knows….but I’m sure the truth will come out SOON.

conspiracy theorist @ 03/13/2012 at 11:52 pm

@Cut.It.Out: Somebody is keeping a close eye on this thread. There were a bunch of posts last night speculating the woman was Jessica Welch. They were deleted by morning, with the new direction being one Sarah Howard.So now it might be this p 0rn person? WTF? Could it be all three??? So many divorces, so many dodgy women in his orbit. It must be terribly hard to get the definitive answer. What an unholy mess this man has made.

@justsayin’too:
Thanks for providing the link. She does look like the girl at the GGA.
And, oh my! She is so his type lol. But, I got to say, she isn’t as unattractive as Alicia or some of his other hos. She is actually alright and she has a killer body. She must work out religiously to have that body after having children.
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@justsayin’too:
““this is no brainer. jenai alt is the sl##t’s name. she is divorcing my friend’s brother. she is an opportunist druggie”
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LOL! Maybe that’s how Gerry got involved with her originally – for the drugs. She might have been his partner in crime originally. From there it turned sexual.

JJ poll thumb this post please @ 03/14/2012 at 12:26 am

thumbs down this post if you are sick of Gerry, leaving his fandom, probably won’t buy a ticket to his movies anymore,think he is a manho or even a little disillusioned
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thumbs up this post if you still will go to his flicks, follow his career, blog on his fansites, attend a convention and are able to seperate his personal life from his professional

thanks for your participation, just curious :)

Can'tGetEnough @ 03/14/2012 at 12:38 am

@Reviews: I think you’re right, she does resemble the “hand-holding girl”, so I think she may be the one, although I’m surprised they would be seen in public like that?? I guess if it’s really her, she must’ve been separated or divorced from her husband at that point. If you look through her photos on her website, there is a pic of her with a little blonde-haired boy. It doesn’t say if it’s her son, but it might be–and the drug thing—well that certainly explains the timing of GB ditching her and going to rehab. All very interesting speculation. I wonder if one of the gossip sites will eventually confirm who this woman really is.
Also, just a note–if you look at her Twitter account, she tweeted on December 14th asking what she should get Jeff for Xmas. Jeff is her husband??? And if it is her, she was holding hands with GB only a month later at the GG party?? Also, her replies to Will Smith’s tweets in February are interesting too.
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https://twitter.com/#!/jenaealt

Cut.It.Out @ 03/14/2012 at 12:40 am

@JJ poll thumb this post please:

That depends. Would never attend a convention, of course would buy tickets to his movies if I want to see them. He’s so a man/***** yet time to stop. Only ever checked out these sites for the comments. Beyond interesting.

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Feel he can do better in real life for himself. He will never know what life is all about until he experiences real love. It may be hard to find, yet he will only find it if he starts looking in the right places. If he doesn’t want it fine. He better take care of himself. He started this now he must finish what he started with his family, friends & fans in mind. I could only imagine the sadness to others if he ruins his career &/or himself.

@justsayin’too:
“Not sure why he goes for these types except they are easy to get. But what thrill is there to that when you know everyone else has had them already? “
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So true. But I think he loves trashy women that give him his sexual satisfaction for the moment so he could focus on his work for a few days until he needs his next fix. He is not after the chase or after the thrill of the catch. That’s why he doesn’t care much about how many other men had her before him. He is mostly an opportunist who looks for available women interested in sex. I think he is the type of man that can size you up within 30 seconds and be able to tell how available/easy you are. That’s why he never approaches good girls, or girls that want you to work a little before they let you have them. He is not into wining and dining, or perusing a woman while she plays a little bit of “hard to get”. He wants an easy lay. He even said once that he wants the woman to call him. So basically he wants her to show she is interested in sleeping with him before he’ll consider getting together, or “hanging out”, as he calls it.
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He takes her to a private place where they can be intimate like a hotel room, and that’s where they carry on their sexual activity. I won’t even dignify it by calling it an affair. It’s not an affair, which has a more romantic or glamourized connotation to it. It’s plain trashy sex for the sake of the trashy sex. That’s for him.
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For the women involved, though, many might be stupid enough to think there is a future in carrying on something like this. However, as soon as he gets his fill, or as soon as she becomes clingy, he is out of there, and…. if she starts chasing him, he changes his phone number, and if she says anything publically……. he says he doesn’t know her. If that’s not an indication of how he really feels about these women – purely sexual (which is almost every woman in his life right now) – I don’t know what is. Yet, I am not judgmental towards him or the women. If that’s what he or the women want, they should be able to have it. My only contention is the woman who gets upset with him or says he played her. There is no hiding his true intentions with respect to such woman because if he is not taking you out in public, taking you with him to industry parties or asking you to join him on the various red carpets, or if he is only seeing you in private hotel rooms, then there is a very STRONG indication that you don’t mean that much to him, and don’t make the mistake of thinking otherwise no matter how satisfying the sex is. This woman should know better. She is not exactly new to the game. She is been around and around many a time.

@People Talk:
“Someone who wasn’t very happy weighed in on Perez.”
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What did they say?

standing :0 @ 03/14/2012 at 12:51 am

Crikey what’s next? shaving his head ?

curious cat @ 03/14/2012 at 12:54 am

@Goldielocks:

I agree. I never meant to say I believe all the hype. Or that he should get married just to stop gossip. No. I was just sayin’ that Hollywood isn’t necessarily to blame for whatever he is or is said to be doing, that plenty of stars marry, have families, live what most people consider normal lives out of the hullabaloo and treat HWood as simply the place they work. And you hear no scandals about them.

I try not to pass judgment either. It’s too much ingrained into me as a journo not to believe gossip and rumor. But I don’t think he has exactly done anything to curtail the rumors. I think of that stupid interview when a stupid crass interviewer asked him to answer “the Butler did it” or “the Butler didn’t,”asked if he did 3-ways and he said, “The Butler always does it.” He laughed and the whole audience did too.

He doesn’t have to answer silly questions like this from interviewers who by the way are clearly not trained journalists. They are just scandal mongers. He’s over and over again dug himself into a hole by saying things he would have been well advised not to.

I don’t believe he does half of what he is accused of in the b-room either. I believed him when he said he spends more nights alone with his little dog sleeping on the bed than people think. It’s just logic. He’s been sold as this stud, hottie, ladies’ man and has to keep up the image to the point where it has backfired.

@Reviews: I agree with a lot of what you say….BUT….explain Annalynne McCord? She chased him at a charity event last year and he turned her down, saying something like, “You’re too easy….even for me. Now move along”. So, what he wants depends on his mood, I guess…..sometimes the chase is on, sometimes he can’t be bothered.

curious cat @ 03/14/2012 at 1:07 am

Doesn’t mean I will disbelieve either when and if activities are proven. I’m not in denial., am not that invested.

I don’t think Gerry likes to chase these women. I think he’s very lazy in that department. How else do you explain how awful looking most of his hook-ups are? When he wants to get laid he grabs whoever is at arm’s length, and when he wants to go home alone he tells them all to p.iss off. I highly doubt Gerry had to chase Brandi. No, he grabs the easiest ones when he wants a sport f.uck and he waves them away when he has work to do.

standing :0 @ 03/14/2012 at 1:20 am

amazing insight and bears repeating

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I feel that the most disturbing aspect of this revelation, and indeed GB’s whole attitude to women, is the purely calculating element. I know that many married men and women cheat and let down their partner, but at least they have had that ‘let’s get married and have a family’ moment of optimism and real emotion that is common to much of the male and female population. Same goes for many long-term couples or even ‘serial-monogamists’ with regular two or three year relationships. They display the ability to relate to another person’s needs and affections.

Butler shows none of this – he hides encounters, uses hotels for hook-ups, shows callous disregard by disavowing his current girlfriends in interviews, crude references in public and private, lies about addiction issues, constantly moves on, drawing support from a motley bunch of male associates. He is a user, only he matters and he is self-obsessed to a degree that most of us would find obnoxious. Looks like a lot of this has been well known behind the scenes but the Hollywood establishment has a cover-up mentality until they scent blood. Butler’s films are failing, partly because his real deficiencies as an actor have been exposed. What is left but the partying, clubbing, womanising, substance-abuse lifestyle that has been the centre of his existence?

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I don’t come over here that often these days because when I do, it’s usually a bunch of cat fights going on between posters. Crazy sh!t! But, saw the news on Butler and had to see what the weather was like here. Same ol same ol. I don’t advocate him sleeping with married women and he’s possibly guilty, but I have to agree with “No Kidding!” You people really get off on all this crap and act like a bunch of vultures out for a good kill. Can any one of you swear in a court of law that anything in part or totally is true? If I tell you a story that may or may not be true, would you believe it without proof that would stand up in court? Is there intelligent life here at all or is this place just a game of fun to you women? Hey, but don’t let me stop you from your fun……

Cut.It.Out @ 03/14/2012 at 1:36 am

@standing :0:

Then in my opinion, his family and friends need to take him down a notch. I can even get ahead of myself (being a commoner) & need my loved ones to tell me to sit down. Monogamy was only invented right after The Dark Ages. When Christianity came into play. It’s not natural. What is natural is respect. Respect for your partner & yourself. If you’re unhappy you move on or u suck it up, fight 4 the relationship & stay faithful. U know why? U need to think more about others than yourself. Look, I seem to root the most for the ones that have been thru the s/hit. River Phoenix, Robert Downey Jr, Heath Ledger, so on. I’m not comparing. Different people, different situations. Some made it out of their s/hit famously, others didn’t. If there’s a chance that Gerard Butker’s people are hearing (really hearing this), he needs to think more than about himself. I’m done now. My thoughts & prayers are with him, his family & friends & fans.

goodgravy @ 03/14/2012 at 1:42 am

What a clusterf/u/ck. Gerry has more skeletons than a graveyard.

@Toronto:
Exactly!
LOL!
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Sometimes, he’ll use the very SAME attributes he likes in a woman he is considering “hanging out” with – her being cheap/easy/highly sexual – as an excuse to blow someone off when it suits him. Some Chutzpah if you ask me lol.
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Now….don’t make the mistake thinking he has sexual morals just because he blew off Annalynne McCord or Kim K on account of being too easy. It just suited him at the time, OR maybe he wasn’t attracted to them. Or, it could be a number of other reasons why he blew them off. But with respect to his love life, in general, I think he acts in the manner I described
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What does this ultimately mean? It means he knows deep down inside that such women are not the type of women he should hook up with, which is why he uses the “you’re too easy” excuse, but he can’t help himself. I think he is the type of man who likes his hos real trashy, but will want his wife real pristine. Or at least, very sexual, but only with him. Oh yes, she’d have to be highly sexual. I can’t see him with a goody two shoes – no way. BUT, she would have to keep her high interest in sex private; only between the two of them. He is too much of a ho himself, not to mention jealous, to trust a woman who is not into playing the goody two shoes in public. He knows all about sex, head games, and women’s behavior, which is why he has been able to keep most of his shenanigans private so far. And, he is way too sexed not to want a woman who can keep him satisfied at all times. That’s why I am saying it will have to be a woman who has a high sex drive. Many couples end up splitting because their sex drive levels are not the same. Being mismatched sexually is on the list of things that causes couples to break up. However, regarding the sex, it can’t be a woman that has a history of horing around because he just won’t trust to be in a relationship with her, because it means he has to be vulnerable. It means she will have a chance to hurt him. He won’t put himself in a position to be hurt until he knows he can absolutely trust her.
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“Just Sayin” pretty much asked the right question. What’s the thrill in having someone who isn’t that exclusive? Don’t men like what they can’t have? Well, usually we all like what we can’t have, not just men. Also, not only in regard to sex, but in all aspects of life, we all want what’s exclusive, hard to get, expensive, and generally what others want. We put higher values on such things, items, or people. In Gerard’s case, or men like him, he doesn’t want issues or troubles. He is a cad in the truest sense of the word. He wants easy sex because he is not thinking about having a lasting relationship any time soon, at this point in his life. If he ever sees the light, it will be only if he decided to change his direction, his lifestyle, his objectives in life concerning marriage and his lifestyles.

standing :0 @ 03/14/2012 at 1:51 am

Boy I wish I could articulate as well as you bystander,this is exactly some of the things I ask myself about Butler. There are so many great informative writers here. Let’s respect each other. Even like the funny bits like Joy’s prayer circle, and theTLC phonecall.

@cutitout, sorry, I was still reading and catching up. But you are right he needs someone to give his head a gentle shake.

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# 424 bystander @ 03/13/2012 at 5:14 pm +2

Mr B! What the H*lls Bells are you doing?

Even if only 1 in 1000 stories we read is partly true, there are too many years of catalogued and rumoured bad behaviour/ PR deception to excuse as just ‘hot mess’, or his poor choice. Although I recently read a WO thread where the same fans who would maintain GB is ‘nice’, because he is so ‘nice’ to his fans and everyone he works with says he is ‘nice’, were slaughtering Aniston because she only pretended to be ‘nice’ to him publicly and really resented/blacklisted him for not paying the Hollywood PR game with her? So do his co-workers like him or is that just another game too? Can’t say I understood half of what was said, but it came across as a self defeating argument.

I keep going back to his admission that he was nicknamed ‘Gerard Superficial B*astard Butler’ at University because of his way of only appearing to be ‘nice’ to everyone in order to get what he wanted. Has this changed?

I also wonder how those he has encountered along his path to fame, celebrity and all its attendant benefits really feel about him now. What about Sue Jones, the acquaintance from Scottish Youth Theatre upon whom he descended when first in London. Worked as her assistant, gleaned acting tips from her, used his position in her employ/bed to wangle an audition with Berkoff, and then……what? Are they still in contact? And then there’s Christina Martin, who reckons he used her connections and recently made it obvious what she thinks of him. To them add Brandi, Sarah Howard, and a few hundred impressionable young females who GB has h*mped and dumped, how do they feel? I thought his dismissal of Brandi was callous, and not the behaviour of a ‘nice’ man, whatever you may think of her.

I suspect ‘egotistical manipulator’ would be a more appropriate description of our Mr B. Which makes him even more fascinating, psychologically, to watch.

But as his hitherto ‘private’ behaviour and PR games come to the fore, where will his career lead? His film choices can be dire, a bit frat boy lacking in emotional maturity, or simply uncommercial like MGP. His voice work is good, but physically his expressions are limited and can be completely hammy if he lacks good direction. His ego gets the better of him with script changes. His best work has always been ensemble, alongside a good British cast or in a British production, but he jettisoned those before learning his trade for the glitter of Hollywood. His days of beingthe young, hot new guy with charm and potential are over. In twenty years time we won’t be reading about the new Warren Beatty, the former womaniser who found true love, family values and an award winning directing career. It’s more likely to be Tony Curtis, a sad botoxed old lech getting taken for a ride by young bimbos, or, heaven forbid, another Jim Morrison/Michael Hutchence/David Carridene found dead, alone in a hotel room in seedy circumstances.

JMO, of course

Cut.It.Out @ 03/14/2012 at 2:00 am

Butler* My phone keeps fixing it to Butker? Maybe it’s time for a name change? According to my spellcheck.

@Can’tGetEnough:
“I’m surprised they would be seen in public like that??”
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If you remember, she kept reaching out to hold his hand, not he hers. So what was he to do, push her aside? I think he tried to control it as much as possible by continuing to converse with some other ladies who seemed to be real fans of his, while he mostly ignored her even as she was leaning all over him. That said, we still can’t be 100% sure she is the same woman, but I’m inclined to believe she is. I think someone needs to find that GG party video so we can compare both women.
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In addition, maybe she is photo shopped but she is pretty, much prettier than his usual, and she has a great figure. I think it might be why he kept it going with her a little bit longer than the usual fling. Based on the article, he was carrying on with her for a few months. Also, I am sure the thrill of hiding out, meeting in hotels, and not letting her husband find out was thrilling for both of them at first. Eventually, when she started to become clingy, started to talk about divorcing her husband, he got cold feet, wanting to get away from her before she starts taking it for granted he is some kind of a BF to her who might be interested in marrying her. Maybe the need to get away from her was the catalyst for him going to rehab. I have heard way before February that he uses painkillers for injuries sustained from movies, so maybe he decided that perhaps he is indeed getting too depended on them, fueled by the fact that he needs to get away from her. Maybe if it weren’t for her, he wouldn’t have considered himself having an addiction and needing to go to BF. Maybe in an unintentional way she did him a favor. Sometimes, things happen for a reason.
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Oh yes, I agree. In December she was still with her husband. However, by the time she was reaching for Gerry’s hands at the GG party, she must have filed for divorce, as well as thinking Gerry will marry her once her divorce is final. Is it any wonder why within weeks he stepped out of her life? I’ll take this one step further, maybe she didn’t even tell him she filed for divorce before the GG party. Maybe she told him that night or a couple of days later. The news must have hit him like a box of bricks. Then Brandi within a few days of that, and then he disappears for weeks. Yes, you’re right; it’s all so interesting. I would love to find out how it all unfolded, timelines and all.

@Reviews:
Jenae Alt is not pretty at all.
Here is a YouTube video of her talking about her breast implants. She’s not an attractive woman.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vVZzEhnQ4v8

@emily:
OMG! You’re right.
Thanks for the link. Good find.
I guess Photoshop is providing all the magic she has.
That said, now that we have seen how she really looks like, I am not sure she is the girl holding GB’s hands at the GG party.

@Reviews:
I found the video of GG girl!
I think she looks like Jenae.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HXcv_Sf5eww&feature=player_embedded

@emily:
Wow! You’re great!

I guess many of us will discuss tomorrow whether or not it’s the same woman. But for now, it’s time for bed; I am exhausted.
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BTW, there is another video where she is leaning and hugging him. If you or someone else can find that one too, it’ll be great.
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lol, I can’t believe how we couldn’t figure out who she was 2 months ago and how we spent pages upon pages discussing this mystery woman, and now we are finally finding out.

Seriously Sleuthy @ 03/14/2012 at 4:46 am

Even The Daily Mail is trailing behind JJ posters on this one. They are just now talking about the Dave Navarro connection.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2114534/Gerard-Butlers-secret-mistress-caused-end-Dave-Navarros-marriage-Carmen-Electra.html

@wtf?: ] I know what you mean. the second some people (phannies mostly) read something that contradicts the perfect image of gerry that they have in their heads they go bonkers
.I guess they just don’t want to face the truth. and the truth is that gerry makes mistakes and does stuff they aren’t perfect just like the rest of us . But, hey NEWS FLASH: He’s human!!… regardles,s I do hope that if he still has a problem he will seek help for it.

angelsrock @ 03/14/2012 at 6:27 am

@ha ha:

haha, that was not my post.. Not my style at all. I don’t post a whole lot and when I do, I’m rarely snarky and negative. And I very very rarely thumb anyone. When I do, it’s the thumbs-up for posts I agree with.

Why do people steal monikers? Just to be annoying little a-wholes I guess.

Just Sayin' @ 03/14/2012 at 7:11 am

Jenea is a druggie. It’s too bad Gerard got serious with someone like her – enough for her to get serious about him. Sad case. Let’s hope he doesn’t have any men in his past – or they will be coming out of the woods :(

Janae is YUCK mouth and Skunk @ 03/14/2012 at 7:15 am

Why does Jenea have a wig on in that video??? Her teeth! Ugh! Jenae looks like a man with a bad cheap wig on – she is a raw p0rn star…does an/al scenes, its like he actually went DOWN a few notches after Alicia then Brandi? Never thought I could say that with those two, but looking and reading about this jenae girl online? Gerard is just getting worse :( – best comment on Youtube:
Bad caps on teeth, bad lip job, obvious baseball boob job, says nukyular instead of nuclear, lol. She forgot to get her ears pinned back. Very ordinary, seen a million women who look like this. All this surgery and not even thirty yet? Imagine her at 60. KEEP THE CAMERA BACK OFF CLOSE UPS, please, I’m eating. She comes off as a neurotic, needs different doc, like a psychiatrist.

Ugly Uk women @ 03/14/2012 at 7:18 am

@Reviews:
Sorry Jenae is fugly. You must be in UK or something cuz everyone knows Euro women are uglier than US women so your standards are pretty effed up

Janae is YUCK mouth and Skunk @ 03/14/2012 at 7:21 am

@Me2:
Who gives a flying fuuuuk about the phannies? They are all a bunch of clock punching weirdos that Gerard runs from. I ignore what the phannies say here and I know who’s who.
@Ugly Uk women:
Oh the boys are back posting. UK women aren’t uglier they just have grosser teeth so maybe that’s why review was talking stupidity?

Are we 100% sure that Jenea is FEMALE? or was born female? She is tall, but looks very plastic but post-op tranny in the face. Those fish lips! What in the hell! If she’s in her 30′s I am.

Just Sayin' @ 03/14/2012 at 7:26 am

Also getting really TIRED of seeing that FAT Jeanette Jenkins chick’s Bikini Bootcamp ad on the side of this page. She used to lick on Queen Latifah vagg – JJ is a BIG HUGE LEZ don’t want her garbage or advice – no thanks carpet monch and she’s fat too GOOGLE LATIFAH AND JEANETTE you’ll see what I mean

That ugly budget manface poorn star Jenae is tall. Wow. She is wearing heels but she is still almost as tall as gerard and he’s like 6’2. Gerard sure likes em leggy.

she has a really harsh face damn fish lips and wigged out

id rathre gerald dateing a fitness wh@re or a reality wh@re than this new diseased poorno wh@re. and now he is dating poorno stars. he is laughingstock in amaerica, can’t get worse than reality wh@re you all thought? wrong.
-from Finland ecuse anglisch please

I did not think it could get worse than brandi glanville. I was mistaken. You are a gross pig Mr. Butler. Ick. I would not touch him with a ten foot pole, even if he took an acid bath.

As a beautiful European woman, I resent what has been said about European women. But then again, I am maybe naive thinking that there’s a little bit of beauty in every woman, you just have to go looking for the beauty, instead of the ugliness… And boy, don’t we women like to put ourselves down? :-P

In my part of the world, it is said that men should be a little more handsome than the Devil… :-)) Now that’s something to ponder about!

As Angelsrock mentioned, I believe, we don’t have the identity of the lady in question (and many of you will say she is no lady…). I love how everyone is a detective – it’s a great skill, that I also share (I’m a head-hunter & management consultant), but in this case, I do not care.

As I mentioned before, nothing has changed for me re Gerry’s acting, I will still say what I think about his movies (I’ve seen POTO recently and I hated it!!!) and I still don’t think any of this whole mess is our business… :-P

Just a quick (long) post to say Hi and send you guys positive thoughts!

Em

Hollywood Gossiper @ 03/14/2012 at 9:37 am

@Gamelock: You must live in a cave haven’t you watched Lee Ann Rimes and Brandi Glanville go at it on twitter for the past few years and you really don’t get Hollywood, it’s like one big high school when you get right down to it. Emotionally stunted and manipulative and desperate people as a rule. Revenge is a sport. The bullies just wear suits and run studios and blackball you instead of steal your lunch money.

@TMZ: TMZ makes a good point a lot of bigger gossip sites have not picked up this Radar story, only sites I’d never heard of until this week except Perez because you know Perez will print anything. I noticed that yesterday, which I take to mean they are taking their time to suss it out or they know something we don’t. .. Even if Harvey was backing off as part of some previous deal or a friendship as someone is claiming, that shouldn’t stop some of the other larger gossip sites. If it hits US Magazine I guess we’ll take that as interesting sign.. People Magazine is the magazine of the publicists but US Magazine has no problem ruffling feathers. E! Online has no shame and when I looked last time, crickets on this story but Ted Casablanca should be cooing over this. I guess it is possible Gerry’s people have been calling in favors.

People keeping forgetting that Gerry is also a producer of the film Of Men and Mavericks and since he has been basically left alone in Santa Cruz and Half Moon Bay I think he’d rather be there than in LA right now. They were filming on the water on Sunday.

cubedweller @ 03/14/2012 at 9:41 am

Just saying a quick hello to the JJ peeps. What a week, huh? Never thought I’d miss Brandi, but every day the news seems to get more disturbing. I’m not surprised at the anger and bitterness being expressed by those that have followed Butler’s career. He has had every opportunity. A caring and supportive family, an outstanding education, a lucrative and high-profile career. Money to indulge his every whim. He has no one to blame for his downward spiral but himself. He has made the choices that led to this. His fans have been loyal to the point of obsession, but many are saying enough is enough. Many (me among them) are saying, “Dude, you are a narcissistic, self-destructive fuuk-up. You are no longer deserving of my interest, or my time.” I hope that he will seek help for his serious issues, and eventually find some peace and happiness. But I also feel that being caught in the grip of narcissism keeps people from the self-awareness to admit that they truly need help. I don’t know that he is capable of genuinely humbling himself, and opening up to the kind of changes that would entail. I believe his recent “rehab” was a sham – designed to proactively help his image as this news broke. As someone said, too many people enter rehab as a dodge, a way to hide from their consequences. This is all so sad and ugly.
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Waves and hugs to Manny, Curious, et al. Carry on, peeps.

Hollywood Gossiper @ 03/14/2012 at 9:45 am

@Reviews: Much as I have enjoyed TMZ the fact of the matter is the show hardly covers any real stories any more, so I don’t get it. They often ignore great stories even their own exclusives and just cover silliness on the show. I can’t believe their show hasn’t lost ratings. The show had far more bite in the old days. Maybe because Harvey’s gotten too chummy with too many publicists and managers.

I think someone is confusing TMZ and Radar with People and US. The tabloids also take sides in these scandals but the most hilarious thing is the major tabloids are owned by the same media company. It is just another way to sell more copies.

@Reviews:
“If you remember, she kept reaching out to hold his hand, not he hers. So what was he to do, push her aside? I think he tried to control it as much as possible by continuing to converse with some other ladies who seemed to be real fans of his, while he mostly ignored her even as she was leaning all over him. That said, we still can’t be 100% sure she is the same woman, but I’m inclined to believe she is. I think someone needs to find that GG party video so we can compare both women.”
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Found it:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HXcv_Sf5eww&feature=relmfu

But really do we care. If he looks like a duck and smells like a duck. What he swims in is his karma. He reads all this on these sites. It doesn’t change anything. Things eventually come to surface. It is our choice if we want to make it significant. If he hides his bones in the closet and we all spec, our opinions are worthless. He is just a hot mess hanging on. He does his work well. And he is the chick magnet for parties. He does things to perpetuate his needs alone.

founditsecond @ 03/14/2012 at 10:04 am

@emily: Yes, you found it first. I did not read quick enough.

@emily: The girl holding his hand at the GG after party is Jenae Alt

look at this:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=baMecNZgRdg&feature=related

great body, not so bright.
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Sad State of Things @ 03/14/2012 at 10:16 am

I guess all we need now is a sex tape…

@cubedweller: “Money to indulge his every whim. He has no one to blame for his downward spiral but himself. He has made the choices that led to this. His fans have been loyal to the point of obsession, but many are saying enough is enough. Many (me among them) are saying, “Dude, you are a narcissistic, self-destructive fuuk-up. You are no longer deserving of my interest, or my time.” I hope that he will seek help for his serious issues, and eventually find some peace and happiness. But I also feel that being caught in the grip of narcissism keeps people from the self-awareness to admit that they truly need help. I don’t know that he is capable of genuinely humbling himself, and opening up to the kind of changes that would entail. I believe his recent “rehab” was a sham – designed to proactively help his image as this news broke. As someone said, too many people enter rehab as a dodge, a way to hide from their consequences. This is all so sad and ugly.”
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Bravo, so true.

Desperate Housewife @ 03/14/2012 at 10:31 am

@Cut.It.Out:

Mind your own self righteous business! What’s fair for the goose is fair for the gander. Seventy-five percent of males in relationships cheat and the other 25% just lie about it. Get real! Are you as ignorant as you sound? Wake up ladies! Gerry’s your backdoor man!

I must admit, I had not envisaged him being harassed into rehab by an affair with a star of ‘adult’ films. As sleazy as it comes. No wonder she was looking very pleased with herself at the GG party. He really must have become jaded with less exotic offerings from more normal females. What sane, clean, intelligent woman would ever want to follow that (and no doubt suspect that she is being rated scale of 1 to 10 for performance).

NotSuprised @ 03/14/2012 at 10:46 am

Married women, 3-somes, Brandi and Jenae types. Do you want a husband, boyfriend, son or father who disrespects himeself like that? Unfortunately, these kind of men turn to longterm relationships when they are most vunerable (emotionally and/or physically). The signif is there to take care of them. At that point, they reveal in their past and grateful they are not alone. Love is of themselves. Speaking from experience.

Desperate Housewife @ 03/14/2012 at 10:47 am

@Cut.It.Out: I’ve been doing research on this site for a while. ”
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OMG, I can’t stop laughing! YOU need to get a life!

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@Sadsadsad: Like a Paul Newman, Cary Grant or even George Clooney.”
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I’ll go for Paul Newman having a decent life but I happen to know Grant was an abuser. He was married to actress Diane Canon and she claimed he mentally and emotionally abused her. Clooney’s too full of himself and he’s not settled down either. You’re another one under some delusion.

@…….: “What sane, clean, intelligent woman would ever want to follow that ”

They talk and flirt and then they run away as fast as they can.

Cut.It.Out @ 03/14/2012 at 10:56 am

@Desperate Housewife: @Desperate Housewife:

You’re disgusting and idiotic. I have an amazing life. You sound gross and in an unhappy marriage. I feel bad for you.

Desperate Housewife @ 03/14/2012 at 10:58 am

@Reviews: Your so full of hot air! Go back to posting links that everybody has already seen a million times!
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I can’t believe people are buying in to this crap! And I thought I was “desperate”!

Desperate Housewife @ 03/14/2012 at 11:04 am

@Cut.It.Out: Your the one who’s an idiot for believing in tabloid fodder just like the rest of these other twits around here!

Clooneyfan @ 03/14/2012 at 11:04 am

@Desperate Housewife: Clooney dates single women , has longterm relationships, Oscar winner, helpis fight for justice in South Africa. Settling down is not for everyone. He is using his energies in another positive way.

I feel sorry that there are people cannot recognize bad behavior. Maybe it is their own morals that comes into question and they will badger all who recognize bad behavior. No one is perfect. Ger is now at the shallow level if all these rumors are true.

Desperate Housewife @ 03/14/2012 at 11:06 am

@Clooneyfan: Clooney only started showing off his “relationships” after he got caught hoing around young girls at a club! They’re all the same. Wise up, people! He’s just got that old Hollywood royalty name.

Another moniker to ignore. What fun!

Cut.It.Out @ 03/14/2012 at 11:09 am

@Desperate Housewife:

Ohh ok. You got me. Your soooo smart. I never stated that I believe anything 4 certain. You’re 2 weird & immature & dense 2 converse with. Bye now.

#555: Maybe that was his intention.

Desperate Housewife @ 03/14/2012 at 11:19 am

@foundit: There are two different long haired brunettes in that pic and the one holding his hand has bangs then seems to have disappeared. Why would he bring a date to that, especially if she’s married?
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YOU ALL ARE CRAZY AND SO NAIVE!

SuperficialB*Butler @ 03/14/2012 at 11:53 am

Day off from work: Wake. Pet Lola. She is female. Text, text, text. Walk Lola (chick magnet). Wave to my fans. Phone call from PR. Get yelled at for some new rumor. Deny Deny deny. Go to lunch. Wave at fans. At an outdoor cafe with skinny models and men who want my leftovers. Look like I’m eating. Text, text, text. Get picture taken for the paps. Wave at fans. Phone call from agent. Get it together. Hump women at a hotel. Deflect, deny, deflect. Workout, Gotta workout. Hang at the beach or park. Get a pizza. Look like I’m eating. Party and clubbing with men who will take my leftovers. Hump some more. I love women. I love all women. At the same time. Until I am bored. Pet Lola. Hug Lola. Until I’m bored. Look in the mirror. .Love myself.I truely love myself.. . .it’sso good being me I would give myself an Oscar.

I agree with Desperate Housewife, Clooney, who has also been raised in Hollywood, just knows how to keep a much better PR face or listen to his advisers.. Butler can’t seem to decide how to play the game he keeps waivering.

Some men are just very good at multi-tasking. JFK was doing the sweet young staffers at the White House, juggling some female spies and handling the Cuban missile crisis all at the same time.

A Man's Perspective @ 03/14/2012 at 12:05 pm

Do you “ladies” have any idea how truly psycho you look? “Detective work” to track down the identity of a girl that an actor slept with? This is the type of **** behavior by women that makes a man’s **** limp. You’re all like the crazy women on that show Snapped! If this is how you act out when an actor is reported to have had sex with someone, what the hell would you do to your boyfriends or husbands????? If they exist, which judging from your posts here, I’m betting they don’t.
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By the way, for those of you slamming the women you’ve named for being fame seekers, slam yourselves because you’re the ones tracking their arses down across the internet and bringing them up for discussion. If they’re fame seekers, that makes you the fame seekers’ beeyaatches. Just sayin.
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Pathetic women. No wonder you’re obsessing about an actor on the internet. What man would want this?

Cut.It.Out @ 03/14/2012 at 12:15 pm

@A Man’s Perspective:

You’re actually very right. I don’t get the tracking his female companions or tracking him. I do get their concern for his welfare. It’s a sad sad thing to watch him possibly ruining his career & life.

SuperficialB*Butler @ 03/14/2012 at 12:15 pm

Obsess about me. Talk about me. Love me!!!!

@Cut.It.Out: @A Man’s Perspective: Very sad. The warning signs are all there.

@A Man’s Perspective: Just makes some of the peeps here wannabe tabloid journalists except
with better “research” skillls. The rest of us enjoy the gossip and sorry, men gossip just like women and in some ways worse, seen it, heard it, lived it.

Besides the goal of actors who rely on their hotness more than talent and even the talented actors love to have legions of women frothing over them because they will go see even the crappy movies, buy the DVDs, buy magazines etc etc. It’s show business. It is why geeky guys join rockbands. They wouldn’t get laid otherwise. It’s the lifestyle baby.

You like to bash women but how much you want to bet that the source of this whole scandal is the cuckolded second husband. Hell hath no fury like a man scorned? Or maybe he’s the fame seeker or maybe he’s a money seeker? It is a Ho ish world we live in.

“Why are you downcast, O my soul? Why so disturbed within me? Put your hope in God, for I will yet praise him, my Savior and my God.” Psalm 42:11

A Man's Perspective @ 03/14/2012 at 12:30 pm

@radarlove: ” Just makes some of the peeps here wannabe tabloid journalists
except with better “research” skillls.”
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Wow. What a wonderful thing to aspire to. Nothing sexier than that. Now if you’ll excuse me, I need to go remind myself that most women aren’t this sad.

I don’t care how nasty the woman gerry sleeps with is. he chose to sleep with her. And just because she obviously is unbelievably selfish doesn’t make it okay for him to sleep with her. he is TRULY narcisistic. Where is his EMPATHY to the child who because their parent is self serving is thrown into a whirlpool of change. You would think Gerry could relate. ALL he talks about is how selfish his father was. Why would Gerry play any part in a child going through the same thing he did as a child is beyond me. He obviously knew she had a child and didn’t care. I am sure his thinking, if he did any at all, was the same as his fans, “If not me someone else”. that maybe true but that doesn’t cleanse the foul odor off of you Gerry.

And by the way when his fans go on and on about not believing anything until its proven true but in the same breath bash the woman, it kinds of negates anything they might be saying. Being optomistic in your views does not mean ONLY optimistic when Gerry is concerned.

The Noise In The Walls @ 03/14/2012 at 12:47 pm

A Man’s Perspective..I’ll have to agree with you…

@A Man’s Perspective: Ah lovey look who own or runs most of the tabloids. Rupert Murdoch’s name ring a bell? You know getting people to hack into voicemails and stuff? A guy runs this site as a matter of fact. The appetite for gossip runs with both sexes. Pretend you are superior all you like. It was men who invented yellow journalism long ago, probably before women ever had the right to vote or own property. Human beings are flawed creatures and one of the flaws is pointing out the perceived flaws of others. NEVER GOING TO CHANGE.

GerrysGreenEyedWoman @ 03/14/2012 at 1:03 pm

From a man’s perspective he did the husband a favor. It was Gerry this time, who next ? Now, conscious or subconscious? Dunno. Just for everything a reason. He doesn’t need to be dating from the married lady pool, but if she dove in she’s no lady.
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That said, two wrongs do not a right make. Not judgin’, just sayin’. He’s better than this. Yes, I believe so. Yes, (I think) he knows so too.
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Fact. His mother didn’t raise a sociopath. She raised a man who knows right from wrong, and this was the latter. Feel until he can admit that to him self, and work on the whys connected to it, soul search and re-access his life’s direction, and what he wants to take from it and leave behind, he has a problem. But it has to start with him. All change is hard to keep.
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But this time when he does it, and he will, he needs to do it for him self. Last time it was for someone else. That said, (I don’t think) they’re not gone and (I think) he knows that. Again, I think this woman realized he’d true emotional connections, and not with her and never would, and flipped out. Start at the top and re-read.
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Final word? He does not need those closest to him bailing on him right now, but not enabling him either. Was this a cry for help? Real friends need to be heard. Do the right thing Gerry. It’ll hurt you. I guarantee you but it’ll be the best thing you’ve ever done for your self. And, yes, you’re worth it. I know stuff.
~K

radarlove @ 03/14/2012 at 1:08 pm

@PsychoB: If people never cheated on their spouses especially if they had children and single people never had sex with married people not knowingly then wouldn’t it all be unicorns and rainbow. But again this has gone on for centuries, when the social consequences were far more severe, usually for the woman more so than the man, and will continue because the horse is out of the barn baby. We still have cultures where adultery is punishable by death or they risk losing all access to their children and people will still risk it. The sex drive puts the brain in neutral or park. Darwin has a theory for that. Maybe instead of the anti racism pill they could have the anti adultery pill and people would see the faces of their children crying when they were ready to start banging.

Cut.It.Out @ 03/14/2012 at 1:15 pm

@A Man’s Perspective:

I can’t help laughing at your last post. I get what you saying yet U r here? My man knows I look at these sites for the comments and to get a good look at different psyches. He just rolls his eyes & thinks its silly. I could never imagine him coming onto this site though. I see this as a girlie thing to do. So excuse me, I need to go remind myself that there are manly men out there.

Gerard is not the first bright, highly successful individual that has flaws and/or dysfunction in his private life, nor will he be the last. Look at JFK and his sexual addiction. I also know a couple of local highly successful people (and also brilliant in their profession) that are clueless and naive in their social and family dealings and have great family dysfunction as a result. I truly hope Gerry can face up to his demons and get the help he needs from those around him. I agree with some of you that say he needs tough love right now and he needs to quit hanging out with all these lowlifes. Where are his agents and managers?

radarlove @ 03/14/2012 at 1:20 pm

@GerrysGreenEyedWoman: Or what if you are wrong, maybe mama did raise a sociopath?

radarlove @ 03/14/2012 at 1:24 pm

@Rebecca: Well some might argue that the agents in Hollywood are the lowest of the low. It mean his agents put together the Bounty Hunter “package”- seems more emphasis on the commission fees than what it would do to their clients’ careers.

GerrysGreenEyedWoman @ 03/14/2012 at 1:39 pm

@radarlove:
Ouch. That is really, really mean. His mom doesn’t deserve that. You’re an ugly contagion caught astthole for saying that! Isn’t being anonymous grand (for you)? I doubt you could say that to his face… or worse, hers.
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That said, what if some fans [read: you] don’t have his best interests at heart and just want to express their condescension? Nailed. Enjoy. I’m done here.
~K

“Each of us has five significant parts in our lives: the physical, the emotional, the mental, the social, and the spiritual. All five are designed to work together in harmony. In the search for intimacy we want the solution today, or yesterday. One problem is that people want “instant” gratification. When the need for intimacy in a relationship is not met, we look for an “instant” solution. Where do we look? Physical, mental, social, emotional or spiritual? It’s the physical. It is easier to be physically intimate with someone than to be intimate in any of the other four areas. You can become physically intimate with a person of the opposite sex in an hour, or half-hour — it just depends upon the urge. But does it equal happiness? You soon discover that sex may only be a temporary relief for a superficial desire. There is a much deeper need that is still unmet. What people really want is not entirely all about sex. What people really want is a connection, love, and intimacy.” (article excerpt)

SuperficialB*Butler @ 03/14/2012 at 2:11 pm

@radarlove: “Well some might argue that the agents in Hollywood are the lowest of the low. It mean his agents put together the Bounty Hunter “package”- seems more emphasis on the commission fees than what it would do to their clients’ careers”

But I wanted the Aniston booty call. Oooh. Taser me again.

TheDoctorIsIn @ 03/14/2012 at 2:20 pm

To those who took umbrage with my hypothesis about hysterical, blind devotion and diarrhea of the keyboard, you proved my point in further posts. (chuckle) Butler’s accountant, manager and “posse” are counting on your continued denial.

You’re all certainly more entertaining than most of Butler’s romcoms.

@TheDoctorIsIn

Who is continually denying about Gerard’s “manho” problems? Most of us here and on his other boards know perfectly well what he’s like. Even if this latest episode about him is false it’s still adding to his lothario reputation. Just because people write a lot about him doesn’t mean they are in denial.

SuperficialB*Butler @ 03/14/2012 at 2:35 pm

I love my fans (ch-ching). They love me, I am Attilla, the Phantom and King Leonidas. I undress you all with my eyes. I protect your honor. I will be your mystery man devoted only to you.

BTW who’s the leggy number that just walked in?

GerrysGreenEyedWoman @ 03/14/2012 at 2:49 pm

Okay, not none but need to say a problem with Gerry is he is the king of deflection.
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He’s as slippery as a wolf-eel in the deepest region of the cold Pacific and will dodge most anything he does not feel like talking about… any light in the water. A it’s maddening. On the upside? And, is there one you might ask? There is. He’s an excellent listener especially from anyone he cares about.
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So, acknowledge it or not, he takes it all in. It’s just who’s doing the talking that might matter. And it is up to him whether to act or not. Is he angry? Then he won’t. Might even do the opposite. No.matter.what.it.is. Could all this be a case of that? Possibly.
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So much has to be his idea. Men! The when, the how, the if he even acknowledges what you say, or what you don’t? What’s to get through is ultimately up to him. He needs to be in control.
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And (to me) that’s what this (if it’s true) affair was all about? He was (maybe) feeling out of control about something else so found this perfect distraction that got out of hand? Let’s hope right about… 8 weeks ago he realized this. So now? Deflection! But it isn’t funny. And I’m not scolding.
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The blame game is not helpful. Again I’m not judging. Bottom line? This should not have happened… and he knows it. So much of this showed up on his face last year and this: remorse, regret, shame, fear. I hope he’s now working through it. He is a good man. But good men can do stupid things! We all do! I do. Missed the bus again this morning… NO reason… doing something stupid!
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All I have to say is never underestimate the power of simply letting someone know you care. Gerry has a lot of “in name only” kind of friends of the fair-weather variety. The kinds that are all over him during the high times. BUT do not think, by any stretch of the imagination, he hasn’t any of the foul-weather kind either. The ones who stick it out, are loyal, and richly rewarded by the real him, and this episode by the way, is not the real him… regardless of what >anyone< says.
~K

@PsychoB: “. ALL he talks about is how selfish his father was. Why would Gerry play any part in a child going through the same thing he did as a child is beyond me. He obviously knew she had a child and didn’t care. I am sure his thinking, if he did any at all, was the same as his fans, “If not me someone else”. that maybe true but that doesn’t cleanse the foul odor off of you Gerry.”

Thank you!!!

GerrysGreenEyedWoman @ 03/14/2012 at 2:52 pm

@SuperficialB*Butler:
Enjoying yourself? You’re nothing but an ex fan turncoat disappointed to have lost her ‘go to’ guy for coping. I know stuff. ;o)
~K

Cut.It.Out @ 03/14/2012 at 2:56 pm

@Dr. Dr.:

What I like about being in a relationship is the partnership. He always has my back. We r best friends & we have great s/ex. Even if something were to ever happen, he would always be my best friend. I hope Gerard finds that one day. Alright, I’m out. I really hope Gerard ButLer is ok. Get it together man!

SuperficialB*Butler @ 03/14/2012 at 2:59 pm

@GerrysGreenEyedWoman: So why don’t you come to me so you can find the ‘go to’ you lost.

Uhh.! Are your stats 34-24-34 by chance? Don’t worry, it is all the same in the dark.

GerrysGreenEyedWoman @ 03/14/2012 at 3:00 pm

@Sotrue:
Just because an apple doesn’t fall far from the tree doesn’t mean it has to sit there and rot.
~K

GerrysGreenEyedWoman @ 03/14/2012 at 3:07 pm

@SuperficialB*Butler:
You’d be surprised who knows what I look like, and not in the dark! ;o)
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Enjoy your time here using using Gerry as a whipping post for losing your coping mechanism for your dull-padded pedestrian life. [read: like he cares] Go on then, reach your hand in the Vinegar and Salt chips and take another swig of Bud… it’s 5 o’clock somewhere right?
~K

That apple is definitely not sitting around.

selfhelpisneeded @ 03/14/2012 at 3:12 pm

Would any of you be surprised if one day the news comes that Gerard Butler the Hollywood actor famous for 300 is found unconscious in a (fill in the blank here)? Not me the way things are with him these days.
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The scary part of an addict is that he/she is out of control or wouldn’t be called an addict. He/she is closed in his/her little world shutting out all the good advice and counsellng money can buy. Just pray he is not to that extent yet and is still possible to be reasoned with.

SuperficialB*Butler @ 03/14/2012 at 3:13 pm

Wait, I shower and use Burberry for Men. Or was that for Women?

Whatever, it gets chick.

So you are my type? What a cracker you are! I will stare into your soul and ravish you.

Vinegar and Salt chips Do you have some?

Desperate Housewife @ 03/14/2012 at 3:20 pm

@Cut.It.Out: My man knows I look at these sites for the comments and to get a good look at different psyches. He just rolls his eyes & thinks its silly. I could never imagine him coming onto this site”
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What’s he standing over your shoulders? He KNOWS you look at sites on the internet? Have you no “me” time to yourself? Look at different psyches? You’re is about as different as it gets! LMFAO!
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Yeah, and I bet he tells you he buys Playboy and Penthouse for the articles! Boy has he got you duped!

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@GerrysGreenEyedWoman:

Are you still around here repeating what other posters say? Don’t you ever have an original thought?

GerrysGreenEyedWoman @ 03/14/2012 at 3:23 pm

@Desperate Housewife:
The other way around, luv.
~K

angelsrock @ 03/14/2012 at 3:25 pm

And still SHE has not been revealed……..hmmmmm.

@cubedweller:
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Well said Cubie. ♥ Again you have verbalized so well what I’m feeling too. I remember when we started this Butler roller coaster and the fun of the ups and downs. Seems like the ride has gotten itself stuck in the crap swamp… I still want to believe he wouldn’t bed a p*rn star but……. So gross…
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@Sad State of Things:
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Oh Lord….

Desperate Housewife @ 03/14/2012 at 3:32 pm

@selfhelpisneeded: Would any of you be surprised if one day the news comes that Gerard Butler the Hollywood actor famous for 300 is found unconscious in a (fill in the blank here)? ”
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“facedown, grasping two ample jugs, with his mug buried in somebody’s shrub!” LMFAO! Hopefully MINE!

Oh dear 1 @ 03/14/2012 at 3:37 pm

Basically I think GB is as he was described by someone who knew him before he was famous – a superficial b*****d.

Most who post on this  site regularly  gave him the benefit of the doubt for varying amounts of time. But now most even the phannies- though they may not want to  admit it- know that’s who he is , and probably  always  will  be. 

Now,  I can’t see him ever changing. I think  the die is well and truly cast.   

He strikes me as one of those truly unfortunate people who are bright enough to know they are really really  not ok with themselves  but are  not bright enough to do anything worth while about it.  That makes for a very sad life no matter how much money you have.   

Good luck to him, because he’ll need it.

Cut.It.Out @ 03/14/2012 at 3:39 pm

@Desperate Housewife:

You really are dense. People in a relationship are going to look at other people, big deal. Im not a jealous person. I know I’m loved dearly. & I love him dearly. I know he prefers looking at me without clothes on. I’m 5’8, 135 pounds, nice knockers & in great shape. So please, give it up. You are just a jealous mean person. Who comes here 2 torment others because U are unhappy in your own miserable life.

GerrysGreenEyedWoman @ 03/14/2012 at 3:39 pm

@angelsrock:
I don’t want to know.
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If they reveal her, how could the gold digger latch on to another lifeboat, I mean, houseboat? They, and trust me when I say this, but the press is doing her a favor.
~K

@SuperficialB*Butler:
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Thank you for bringing some humor here. *hugs*
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@SuperficialB*Butler:
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BTW GFW is not in his acceptable age range. *winks*

@Desperate Housewife:
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Okay that made me laugh… almost as good as oy’s “crawling out from under a pile of models.” *clapping*

SuperficialB*Butler @ 03/14/2012 at 3:59 pm

@GerrysGreenEyedWoman: Hey wait. You’re my assistant?! Did I do you yet. Or are you more covert than that. Like a CIA or FBI? Can I play with some guns. Loved making Gamer. Great movie. Got to use guns! And I’m better than the professional snipers. Did they tell you?

You know things. So, you can make me happy!

Desperate Housewife @ 03/14/2012 at 4:00 pm

@Manny: I still want to believe he wouldn’t bed a p*rn star but……. So gross…”
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Look on the bright side….if he’ll bed a porn star, maybe you have a chance!

Desperate Housewife @ 03/14/2012 at 4:02 pm

@He is dating someone:
You’re just not going to give up with the Sarah Carroll thing are you? You are tenacious! Why don’t you just say he’s shagged Elvira and Mrs. Santa Clause too and that would be about as real!

@Desperate Housewife:
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Pass… but thanks for thinking of me… GFW can have him, warts *snikering* and all…

SuperficialB*Butler @ 03/14/2012 at 4:13 pm

@Desperate Housewife: Is Sarah and Caroll the twins from last Thursday or was it last month? Now they taught me things!

God Bless yoou all! @ 03/14/2012 at 4:16 pm

Seems things have been busy here in the last day. Either Carmine and I have been copied or Carmine is send a message. However, positive words are good anytime.

“Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.” Romans 12:2 NLT

GerrysGreenEyedWoman @ 03/14/2012 at 4:20 pm

@SuperficialB*Butler:
Your type of deep-rooted resentful spiteful ugly turncoat anger is not only malicious, and self-revealing of how deep caught up as a fan you were but very, very scary.
~K

Oh dear 1 @ 03/14/2012 at 4:23 pm

I give GB credit where credit is due. He hasn’t had any kids- at least any that we know of. Because where he seems to be right now,  and the lifestyle he is addicted to right now   – he would make an absolutely sh/te  dad. That’ll set the cat amongst the pigeons.

@GerrysGreenEyedWoman:
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Awww lighten up GFW… They are just joking around. :)

http://www.opposingviews.com/i/entertainment/whole-rehab-thing-did-not-work-out-gerard-butler
“I think the fact that Gerard Butler only stayed in rehab a couple of weeks shows he probably was not all that serious about it in the first place. Either that or he thought he was fine after a few weeks.”
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Well, it begs the question. Was real rehab or just a joke to get away from the woman? I still think he has a drug problem but he wasn’t serious about kicking the habit. i think he used the excuse just to end it with this woman.

SuperficialB*Butler @ 03/14/2012 at 4:41 pm

@GerrysGreenEyedWoman: I’m no Dr. Ruth.

Hey you know things. Can you find me a dragon? How can this dragon movie be my highest grossing movie?! And to cap it off, I am not seen! Only heard! And no dragon in the contract to boot! I worked on the first movie for 3 years. And a couple more of this next one!

Hey, do you know Hagrid?

radarlove @ 03/14/2012 at 4:44 pm

@He is dating someone: Sarah isn’t Richard Branson keeping you busy with your fake husband Spencer, stop trying to extend your 15 minutes over here. You were only at the premiere because Virgin sponsored it. Oh hurry you might be late for next botox/filler appointment because nothing hotter than a 20 something year old who looks like a 40 something Beverly Hills Housewife.

GerrysGreenEyedWoman @ 03/14/2012 at 4:54 pm

@Manny:
Jokes reveal a lot about a person. Their character or lack of in this case. Her anger, disappointment and seething rage. But of course you’d be like a moth the her flame! Like attracts like. ;o)
~K

pastorjoe @ 03/14/2012 at 5:00 pm

Clyde Shelton: I’m gonna pull the whole thing down. I’m gonna bring the whole f**kin’ diseased, corrupt temple down on your head. It’s gonna be biblical.

Wisest words spoken by Mr. Butler. Just apply this to Hollywood and the sad cult of celebrity. Those that crave fame and get it have made the Devil’s bargain. The flock have lost their way and Mr. Butler is just one of those sheep. May we all find our way back before it is too late, back to what really matters in life.

@GerrysGreenEyedWoman:
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You are taking this all way to personally. Smile… it does a body good. ♥

@foundit:
Yes, that’s one of the videos, which Emily, found already. But there is another one where she hugs him.

This whole thing is to throw you all off the track. Her initials are DM.

angelsrock @ 03/14/2012 at 5:30 pm

So it seems a lot of posters have Gerry depicted as Satan himself. And mostly based on tabloids, tweets, hearsay, and hunches.
But I suppose that is true of all celebrities for the most part. Gerry has had a way of keeping his private life sort of private. Well, at least enough to always keep people guessing. You have to admit that he shows some responsibility in that he has never had a child and hastily married just to divorce shortly after. He knows he’s not
husband material and does his best to stay away from commitment. That is his choice and maybe it’s a good one for him and a gullible unsuspecting woman. Women will continue to fall at his feet and will not hesitate to sleep with him. I would hope that these women are aware of his track record.
I’m still not ready to call him a sleaze ball just yet. He’s got many a good attribute and he’s far from Satan or even one of Satan’s minions.
Again, for those who held him in such high regard, it is difficult to face the reality especially with the last 2 news flashes of rehab and now THIS!! Whatever THIS is. Since we really don’t have any details yet.

As for his professional life. He is working and seems to be liked/respected by many in the business. I have never set the bar too high for Gerry. I’m enjoying the success he has and I’m looking forward to his ongoing career. I will not commit hari-kari if he never wins an Oscar or his name is not mentioned with the likes of Daniel Day-Lewis, Colin Firth, etc.

@Desperate Housewife:
“here are two different long haired brunettes in that pic and the one holding his hand has bangs then seems to have disappeared. Why would he bring a date to that, especially if she’s married?
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YOU ALL ARE CRAZY AND SO NAIVE!”
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Dummy, she gets invited to the same parties, as she is part of the industry. She didn’t come with him. They have been having a fling for months. He never takes her anywhere. I bet she showed up at other places he was at too. She was just never photographed standing so close to him, let alone holding, touching, and leaning on him. There is another video out there where she is leaning and hugging him too. That’s why we all thought he wasn’t seeing anyone. Both probably left separately meeting later at the same place. She probably went to his hotel room after the GG party. There was no news of him being anywhere else later that night.
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BTW, does anyone remember a brunette photographed with him last May at some basketball game in New Orleans? Is it possible it’s her too? It was during the time he was filming PTF.

@A Man’s Perspective:
You’re no man. It’s obvious you’re a woman. lol

@radarlove:
“A guy runs this site as a matter of fact.”
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Who is the guy who runs this site?

Desperate Housewife @ 03/14/2012 at 5:39 pm

@Cut.It.Out: I know he prefers looking at me without clothes ”
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So he won’t look at you unless your butt naked? What a guy!

Desperate Housewife @ 03/14/2012 at 5:42 pm

@Reviews: Re-read what I wrote in bold and repeat!

@Sotrue:
“ALL he talks about is how selfish his father was.’
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He never blamed his dad for his bad behavior. He even said that he will not blame his father for his troubles. He takes responsibility for his behavior. He might have talked about his early childhood and mentioned his dad left the family, which is an important part of his story, but he never went as far as to say that he is screws up because of his dad.
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You, Psycho, and people like you just twist the truth in order to validate your point. Pathetic idiots.

Desperate Housewife @ 03/14/2012 at 5:49 pm

@Reviews: Dummy, she gets invited to the same parties, as she is part of the industry.”
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So now that it has been established she is some kind of porn star, not even D lister, she is invited to an awards after party? And you call me the dummy! LMFAO! As I said, read the bold type and repeat!

Cut.It.Out @ 03/14/2012 at 5:52 pm

@Desperate Housewife:

OMG last time I will address you. You said something stupid like he sneaks nudey magazines. I only stated that he prefers looking at me naked. We have it all…..respect, friendship & a great s/ex life. I’m sorry U don’t have that, but u really need 2 stop taking it out on other people. Wow, not sure why I’m bothering, u sound like your 13. If not literally, mentally. & before u get any ideas, nope I’m not an old hag. Do not address me again.

He is dating someone @ 03/14/2012 at 5:53 pm

@Desperate Housewife:
“You’re just not going to give up with the Sarah Carroll thing are you? You are tenacious! Why don’t you just say he’s shagged Elvira and Mrs. Santa Clause too and that would be about as real!”
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STFU and stop using a different moniker every time you post here.
Am I irritating you? GOOD!

Desperate Housewife @ 03/14/2012 at 5:56 pm

@Reviews: He never blamed his dad for his bad behavior. He even said that he will not blame his father for his troubles. He takes responsibility for his behavior. He might have talked about his early childhood and mentioned his dad left the family, which is an important part of his story, but he never went as far as to say that he is screws up because of his dad.”
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Where do you get this stuff? Let me enlighten you! His Dad never left his family, his MUM got sick of it all and left him and dragged the kids back to Scotland with her!
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I’m going to have to revoke your Gerard Butler decoder ring and send you back to Butler Fandom 101 for a refresher course!

Desperate Housewife @ 03/14/2012 at 5:59 pm

@He is dating someone:

Your stupidity irritates me. Otherwise, carry on with your ridiculous fantasy.

He is dating someone @ 03/14/2012 at 5:59 pm

@Cut.It.Out:
Don’t let her upset you. You upset her instead. She hates it when people have full love life and she doesn’t.

Desperate Housewife @ 03/14/2012 at 6:01 pm

@Cut.It.Out: Wow, not sure why I’m bothering.”

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Because you wanted to study my “psyche”! LMFAO!

Can'tGetEnough @ 03/14/2012 at 6:01 pm

Looks like GB is on the move again:

DivaChun/Tatiana ‏ @DivaChun
so I saw a celebrity at the airport yesterday
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DivaChun/Tatiana ‏ @DivaChun
my friend n I with Gerard Butler ;D
http://twitpic.com/8wauy2

Desperate Housewife @ 03/14/2012 at 6:04 pm

@He is dating someone: I got a news flash for you and your little friend, @Cut.It.Out: I’ll bet I get more poontang then the both of ye combined!

@Desperate Housewife: Are they just plain dumb, or just don’t proofread?

Cut.It.Out @ 03/14/2012 at 6:09 pm

@He is dating someone:

Thx! I only came back on to tell Gerard to get it together. 4 his family, friends & fans. Not 2 fight with an imbecile (aka desperate beyond belief housewife). But I know that’s how it can b on these threads at times. I shouldn’t have fallen into the game. Have an amazing rest of the week!

Desperate Housewife @ 03/14/2012 at 6:11 pm

@curious: YES!

@Desperate Housewife:
Dummy! If you know the right people/sleep with the right men, men who have power and clout you get invited to hot parties as perks.
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Didn’t you read her blog, she is dying to make it in HW. She works out, got a boob job, started acting 3 years ago and recently picked up singing- she wants to be a big star. Nothing will stand in her way. she goes where the action is and that’s how her path crosses Gerard. I don’t know how her husband comes into the picture because Radar mentioned Gerry know him too. But apparently, by the time this party came about she was already going through the motions of getting a divorce, so she can be with Gerard.
Within 2 weeks he disappeared off radar. If anything that has been reported is true, then he disappeared to get rid of her and then a couple of weeks later checked into rehab. The whole thing happened at the same time Brandi broke, which is why at first we thought he was laying low because of Brandi. Then, when rehab became public we thought he was laying low because of rehab. Now it can be a combination of getting away from her and rehab.
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There is no question that Gerry would’t on his own accord reach out and be affectionate to her in public. She must have been feeling confident enough with him at this point to engage in PDA. It’s funny because within days he was out of her life.

Desperate Housewife @ 03/14/2012 at 6:18 pm

@Cut.It.Out: I only came back on to tell Gerard to get it together. ”
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Does you hubby know you speak to Gerard? He might not want to see you naked anymore!

Desperate Housewife @ 03/14/2012 at 6:19 pm

@Question: Who is the guy who runs this site?”
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Just jared! I’ll bet you don’t even know who’s buried in Grant’s tomb either, do you?

nola chicky @ 03/14/2012 at 6:20 pm

@Reviews: Gerry was standing with actor Danny Huston and his long time girlfriend Lynn Renee in that photo.

@Desperate Housewife:
You’re an idiot but I’ll address you anyway, even though an idiot doesn’t warrant any responses.
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“Where do you get this stuff? ‘
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From an interview he gave over the summer to one of the magazines. He said unequivocally that he never likes to blame his dad’s leaving the family for his alcoholism and his other troubles. I thought it was great of him to take responsibility for his own sh!t. GALS might have a copy of this interview in their various magazine articles sections.
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” Let me enlighten you! His Dad never left his family, his MUM got sick of it all and left him and dragged the kids back to Scotland with her!”
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Idiot! what does it matter who initiated it? The point is they weren’t getting along, she didn’t want to stay in Canad, the father did, she left, the father didn’t follow. The fact that the father let her leave without going after her back to Scotland is tantamount to him leaving the family.
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Gerry never used his anger of his father as an excuse for his bad behavior. He is a good man, just a manho. So what? Many men are like that when they have opportunity like good looks, fame and money. The more successful with the ladies a man is, the more opportunity he has for horing.
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Ladies throw themselves at him. It’s very hard for a man to resist. I bet you both Brandi and this ho initiated it with him. I don’t think he came on to them. he lets the woman be the aggressor, and if he likes her, he will not stop her. If he doesn’t like her, he’ll tell her something like she is too easy and move on.

@Can’tGetEnough:
Yep, that’s the same T-shirt he was wearing at the “Half Moon Bay Brewing Company’
http://sfist.com/2012/03/13/fresh_out_of_rehab_gerard_butler_ch.php
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He’s definitely on the move. I guess, it’s like I speculated yesterday. He must have wanted to get away from things so he took a trip up there.
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“Although shooting appears to have wrapped on the upcoming surf-flick Of Men and Mavericks, Scotsman-turned-Californian-Surfer-Dude Gerard Butler is sticking around Half Moon Bay. Butler, who nearly drowned and then checked himself in to rehab for abusing painkillers, seems to have found a new addiction near the legendary surf spot: the seafood sampler from Half Moon Bay Brewing Company…………According to the folks over at Eater, Butler has a thing for the seafood sampler, fresh oysters and hanging out by the fireplace at the bar until 11:30 p.m. So, ladies, now you know where to find him.”
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Sounds like he is looking for company and just chilling. I really hope that’s all it is. I hope he is not there because he needed to do coke with some of the surfers.

Desperate Housewife @ 03/14/2012 at 6:35 pm

@Reviews:

You sure can make a lot of something out of nothing! Maybe you’re missing your calling working for the tab rags!
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What celebrity would check themselves in to rehab for substance abuse and let the world know about it to get away from a scorned lover? That’s the most idiotic thing I’ve heard on this board lately! If he wanted a deflection, he could have done something nobler like give a large sum of money to the Sudan or donate a kidney.
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Again, give me back that damned decoder ring!

@nola chicky:
“Gerry was standing with actor Danny Huston and his long time girlfriend Lynn Renee in that photo.”
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OK! cool!

I think Gerry has no standards when it comes to who he beds, and to be honest we all know how hot he is etc but in reality and in all truth i dont think pretty girls really would go for him or be his s/ex friends they know there worth and value and & will go to get better! even though hes very good looking i myself wouldnt bed any man like that no matter how famous he was,

He knows he cant be a proper girlfriend and i really dont think hes been totally faithful to any of his relationships, then hes left with no choice but to go for desperate, insecure, trashy women who will put up with any crap, how can this woman not know it wasnt serious when all it was s/ex sessions at a hotel. Hes stupid he couldve easily met a decent classy girl & settled but he loves the thrill of different women & dispose them i dont think he could even invest any emotion or serious affection to one woman

@Desperate Housewife:
“What celebrity would check themselves in to rehab for substance abuse and let the world know about it to get away from a scorned lover? That’s the most idiotic thing I’ve heard on this board lately! If he wanted a deflection, he could have done something nobler like give a large sum of money to the Sudan or donate a kidney.’
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Well, I agree with you here. It’s very idiotic if he checked himself into rehab just to get away from her. But then again, there are a lot of things that are inexplicable when it comes to him.
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That said, I am not 100 percent sure he went to rehab to get away from her, it’s just a theory we have been tossing around because the tabloids made a connection between the end of the romance and his rehab. the 2 things might not have anything to do with each other, or maybe he needed rehab a long time ago and put it off. This situation just emboldened him to go threw with it. Who knows; it’s just speculation.
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In any case, stop attacking people. why don’t you post what’s on your mind without fighting? You have a right to post but don’t belittle others.

I just looked up Abigail Spencer on IMDB and I have to say that she looks dam* old for being only 30. She looks more like 40.

@Serene:
Well said! I totally agree with you. It’s so obvious from his choice of women. But hey, it’s his life. Let’s hope one day he’ll see the light and find a proper GF.

@Reviews:
lol, I meant to go through with it.
we need an edit button.

@Reviews: Go through with it. Not go threw with it. Stuff such as that undermines what you write.

Are we still naming female co-stars for Brilliant? If so, how about Ashley Judd?

another view @ 03/14/2012 at 6:51 pm

@Reviews:
The rehab stint could have been a PR tactic. If his team knew this affair story was about to hit, then rehab was their pre-emptive strike. A lot of the media on this story are taking pains to say this sordid tale took place before Gerry went to rehab – the implication being he’s a good boy NOW. Not true, of course, rehab doesn’t work that fast, but from a PR angle it’s a good story to sell.
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(And if anyone here thinks “A Man’s Perspective” is actually a man, then I’ve got a bridge to sell you.)

To Be Fair @ 03/14/2012 at 6:55 pm

Isn’t it funny that when Angelina and Brad had their affair their careers rose and with Gerry people are all up in arms saying that his career is now in the toilets.

Cut.It.Out @ 03/14/2012 at 7:00 pm

@another view:

I had a feeling it wasn’t. That’s why I wrote him/her that post. I figured if it were a male, he would come back & defend “his” honor as man. & state that it’s ok 4 a male to post on JJ. Which of course it is but was curious 2 see if I would get a response.

We Know Who the REAL Fans Are @ 03/14/2012 at 7:02 pm

@Rebecca: “Who is continually denying about Gerard’s “manho” problems? Most of us here and on his other boards know perfectly well what he’s like. Even if this latest episode about him is false it’s still adding to his lothario reputation. Just because people write a lot about him doesn’t mean they are in denial.”
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Rebecca, don’t sweat them. Some people have posted on this thread that G may be slime, that he’s a player, that he goes too far, but that they’re just not prepared to say something’s true on a tabloid’s say-so …….. and the people insisting that this story have called them “phannies” for not conceding. LOL.
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I guess they feel like they have to lash out with something because they’re upset that people aren’t accepting their feelings about a frickin’ actor, so much so that they ridiculously call people who refer to him as a slimey player “phannies.” That’s not even the pot calling the kettle black. That’s the Axis Alliance calling Switzerland an Allied Power or vice versa. It’s silly. Ignore it.

Such a shame he seems like a nice person in all & talented but ppl will remember him as homewrecker, manwh/ore, player, addict etc i think his PR ppl must be sick of covering for him theres only so much they can do! Its a matter of time this woman will sell her story to gain fame, i think many more women will come out he was lucky before he got away with so much but i think his luck is begining to run out