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Gerard Butler: Farmers Market Lunch With Parents

Gerard Butler: Farmers Market Lunch With Parents

Gerard Butler leaves Farmers Market after having lunch with his parents on Tuesday (March 20) in Los Angeles.

The 42-year-old actor dined at an outdoor table and took a phone call in between bites.

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Gerard recently signed on to star in Olympus Has Fallen, which he’ll also produce.

The action film centers around an ex Secret Service agent who has to prevent a terrorist attack on the president’s residence.

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# 1

we’re not forgetting

# 2

He looks fantastic! I love that he opened his mouth for the stupid paparazzi taking his picture eating. Very inappropriate of them. Good for you, Gerry! I would have done the same thing.

# 3

Remember when he buttfingered Jennifer Aniston? Classy guy.

# 4

This place is always teeming with paparazzi and Gerry’s knows it. This was a clever way to counter all the bad publicity lately. A family friendly outing to the Farmer’s Market.

# 5

Love him . How splendid it is to see Gerry out with his family . What a delight . He’s so sweet and charming . Love him . : )

# 6

Wait for his crazy psycho fans to come thumbing down all the truthful posts.

# 7

Oh I am sure that his folks appreciated his gross behaviour too. Very rude to be talking on his cell while having lunch with them as well. Unless, of course it was a peace conference with Syria, sure it could have waited an hour. Terrible manners for a grown man. Maybe he should have ordered in instead of putting his folks through all that crap or taken them someplace a little more out of the way if he didn’t want to be noticed. Not impressed.

# 8
Out-of-Towner @ 03/20/2012 at 11:45 pm

What is the Farmer’s Market? It looks like a mall. Downtown LA?
Not cool that the paps ambushed him while on a family outing. Looks like they wouldn’t back off.

# 9
he is a loser @ 03/20/2012 at 11:50 pm

This guy has become the biggest disappointment ever. I don’t care what movie they say he is gonna do, whatev, his time has come and gone, his career is already finished with all the dumba ss stuff you read about in the tabs, just a tab clown. he takes his career as seriously as a f art. and I agree with all the objective folks who tell it like it is, and about the foolish fangirls who will shoot you down when you tell em like it is!

Horrible bad boy behaviour and not a single decent movie after 300 and Law Abiding Citizen. Now that the new and a lot more ‘talented’ people are coming, his time is up. Just another typical pretty-boy-with-no-talent person

Gossipgirl @ 03/20/2012 at 11:54 pm

I thought I read that his father left the home when he was very young. That may be his mum, but that may not be his father. Anyhow, whatever.

He went to The Grove for lunch. What do you expect? There are paps everywhere and “Extra” even tapes there every day.

justsayin'too @ 03/20/2012 at 11:55 pm

His Mom’s face looks like she is showing stress compared to her premiere pictures for Law Abiding Citizen. I’m sure she has been worried with all this crap going on in his life. On a positive note, he looks to be eating some carbs so maybe he is getting back to eating like a normal person if he has gotten the drugs out of his system. The yo-yo weight loss has taken it’s toll on his handsome face. I hope he gets stable with his weight and fitness and realizes he has to be consistent to keep his health in check.

Out-of-Towner @ 03/21/2012 at 12:13 am

@Gossipgirl: It’s his stepdad. Nice looking man.

I noticed Margaret’s appearance, too, but I didn’t want to say anything. The precipitating events that lead to Gerry’s need to go to rehab, were very stressful for his family, I’m sure. No matter how old your children get you never stop worrying about them. Margaret’s youngest child has turned out to be quite a handful! I agree with those who say this particular outing was a photo-op. The Grove is where everyone goes to get papped. There’s nothing innocent about this choice. However, I am happy that his parents are with him right now. Gerry always seems to stabilize when his parents are around. I hate to say it, but Gerry needs adult supervision. LOL

@a fan: if an arrranged PR op, I’m surprised his parents knowingly joined in. Must have been some pressing need? More likely thoughtlessness or less than a full openness from Gerry?
Or just an innocent family outing to a place they liked without letting the press affect their enjoyment?
Does look a bit calculated though.

This should be titled. “Kindly upscale couple asks homeless vagrant to lunch.”

money can’t buy class!

He is using his parents to improve his image just as I suspected, he is so predictable. ;)

Yup, I agree with post # 1. We’re not forgetting Gerry.

Yet another calculated and cynical ploy to try to show how balanced and normal he is, when he is actually far from it – existing in a twilight world of hangers-on, acquaintances, encounters with total strangers, not forgetting the drug pick- ups.

He’s way past using his parents to try to improve his image. He went to rehab for 3 weeks and came out only to get caught up in the middle if a scandal (all his own doing may I add!)… people are way smarter and they see through this PR completely. In the end people will remember him for his scandals and etc…. and not his movies . that’s too bad for him. It’s too late to fix it now.

gabby from wo @ 03/21/2012 at 5:38 am

agree with all of you, this parents outing looks planned date with parents to keep people from thinkng about home-wrecking,
i posted in the last thread about his mtv friend alicia i think that her being candid was also a ‘favor’ to keep people from even paying attention to this fake adultery accusation.
i think its always planned with butler. i visited alicia facebook public page and saw there that she has a boyfriend, so gerald is a friend.
i think janae is probably broke now and trying to get back at butler for not wanting her and so is stalking him and now going public to get public sympathy and some money for her son.
i really dont want to think of gerard even being with a p/orno star so i just try not to judge and pray on it.

Do you really think it’s too late to fix the whole participation in adultery thing? Does the homeless po/rn star just want his career and image runined?!?
It seems like he is trying everything to get people’s mind off it…
Why can’t the p0rn star just get back on the pole where she came from instead of stalking the guy after he said loud and clear and changed his number I DONT WANT YOU ANYMORE lol he’s entitled to not want some p0rno transsexual anymore, isn’t he?

The fact that they ate outside is telling.
They wanted to be seen.
Anytime he is papped? It’s because he was SUPPOSED to be papped.
I think his PR flew his parents out to ‘help’ get people talking about anything OTHER than the Janet’s accusations.
She is disgusting. Hell hath no fury, Gerard…

angelsandguns @ 03/21/2012 at 6:05 am

He has boobs in that picture. Why hasn’t he gone to the gym??? :(

Hell Hath No Fury... @ 03/21/2012 at 6:09 am

J Alt won’t stop until Gerard’s entire career/image is leveled.
She is pissed, broke, divorcing and has nothing to show for her marriage ending fling, except for unanswered phone msgs and embarrassment.
Do you think she’s going to let Gerard just slide off into oblivion and change his number?

@he is a loser:

ita. He’s finished, career on life support and he looks like crap most days. We’ll probably hear next that he’s filing for bankruptcy or being sued for child support. Where is his boytoy Freddy Bosch?

KiwiGirl (NZ) @ 03/21/2012 at 6:23 am

We see through your supposed ‘rehab’, sxsw with your ex, charity appearances and convenient outdoor lunches with your mommy! You did that older married woman wrong and she means business! Maybe he should give her a call to shush her? I do agree this is bad for his career.
What ‘boytoy?’ Does Gerard dabble?…

angelsrock @ 03/21/2012 at 6:29 am

I’m not convinced that everything Gerry does is choreographed. I think that’s exactly why he does get into trouble. He does what he darn pleases when he wants to do it. Of course there are times when he has to play the game. He’s a P.R. team’s nightmare. He’s spending some time with his parents and he’s being slammed for that. He admits over and over in interviews that he is a “bad boy”. And still everyone wants him to be the pairfect boyfriend and role model with the highest of standards who’s on a mission to save the world. You need to go find another celeb to swoon over and admire because that is not Gerard Butler and he will tell you that himself. His true fans realize that; they appreciate his hard work and love of making movies. They get a kick out of his antics that are actually rather low on the scale of “being a horrid person.” Of course there are times that we wince and shake our heads. But we take it for what it is and consider that most of the gossip is well just gossip and fabrication. It is quite evident that he disappoints some people. I’ve been a fan since 1995 and the same comments have been made about him since then. Especially the one where his career’s over. He’ll never work again. LOL He’s doing just fine making a decent living making movies. It seems he’s alive and well in Hollywood for at least the next couple of years. Sorry if that just sends you into a frenzy.

angelsrock @ 03/21/2012 at 6:37 am

Okay, I can’t believe I typed 1995. It’s early give me a break. I meant 2005 after I saw POTO. He wasn’t even working as an actor in 1995 was he?

@Sins: Its not just the adultery. Its that he concentrates more on partying and having fun then his career when it should be the opposite.I mean he hasn;t had a really good movie since 300. He’s never in a serious relationship and every time they ask him about it he always says that he’s been in 2 or 3 serious ones but he kept them on the down-low. I mean come on how long is he gonna use that excuse ?…. but then again it’s his life and if he wants to ruin it it’s his call. I now some people might get upset over my comments but that’s what I think.

The only relationship he ‘admits’ is Bianca…and maybe because of what his fcking FANS did to her he doesn’t go there any more. Don’t blame him. After reading here recently of what you guys thought of Brandi Alicia and Janea I’m not sure I’d want to be on the receiving end of that either to be honest :(

I don’t think anyone is saying his every move is choreographed at all –
I think we are saying that just his damage control/clean up PR is choreographed – and you would be stupid to think otherwise.

The rehab, sxsw/mtvgirl-gate, charity appearance and nice little outing with mom and dad are a little to conveniently clustered and suspect.
I think his PR team wants us to think about anything, anything at ALL except the fact that some woman – and a married with kids p0rn star which makes it even worse – is claiming she left her husband for Gerard. Only to be tossed aside when she was available. That looks very BAD on him. Very bad, don’t you see that?
Not even a reality Z-lister puking off his balcony is that bad.

I was just on Alicia’s facebook page. It doesn’t say she has a boyfriend.

angelsrock @ 03/21/2012 at 7:31 am


I do not call people stupid because I disagree with their opinion and perspective especially about gossip that none of us here knows for certain the details.

This is Alicia’s FB page. There’s no mention of any boyfriend.

GerrysGreenEyedWoman @ 03/21/2012 at 7:40 am

Been dying to see these to back up the Tweet.
Ah, a mother’s love. Every person needs it. He’s lucky to still have his. Some of us are less fortunate. A mother’s love is unconditional, supportive and real.
Feel this man needs all the true honest sincere non-judging love he can find just now. And what better way that to start a new season, spring, with the one woman who never fails him, his mom?!!
Big and clunky, comfortable in his own gear, Gerry so looks like the child at seven, which we all remain believe it or not. I love these!! These are precious! Thank you, thank you, thank you… these are just what I needed to see. Prayers do get answered. Now, if only he’d head home with them and come back after Easter. [read: might be pushing my luck but if you never ask.... ]

Can'tGetEnough @ 03/21/2012 at 8:01 am

Good Morning JJer’s! Loved the pics of him with his parents and at first I felt sorry for them being intruded upon by the paps, but I’ve been to the Grove and there is NO privacy there. I think he definitely wanted to be seen! Regardless, I’m glad his mother is there to smack some sense into him. Although, maybe she didn’t smack hard enough? He was off to another party last night:

Hayden Black ‏ @haydenblack
Saw more stars tonight than I have in 2 years. James Caan, Bill Murray, Gerard Butler, etc etc etc. Fun premiere/party at Chateau Marmont.
Kari Mozena ‏ @karimozena
Made my way over to Chateau Marmont. @Starz prem party for #MagicCity. Show good enough to make me subscribe.
Kari Mozena ‏ @karimozena
Gerard Butler and Damien Lewis here. Bill Murray popped by screening but doubt he is in this mob scene.

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 03/21/2012 at 8:22 am


Well I suppose Gerard could have called the paps or just accepted that they would be there. Who knows. It obviously hasn’t taken anyone’s mind off of his current scandals. The question would be if he really thought that it would. I’m sure he knows that the public isn’t stupid. Is it possible that more is being read into this lunch with his parents than there really is? (checked for grammar and spelling errors this time!). :)

Can'tGetEnough @ 03/21/2012 at 8:29 am

@Anastasia Beaverhausen:
” Is it possible that more is being read into this lunch with his parents than there really is?”

Absolutely! Perhaps that is just where his parents wanted to go. But it does make you wonder, with all the negative news about him lately, if he figured being seen with his parents would prompt a ‘good’ gossip article about him for a change. As usual, we can only speculate. I would HOPE that there is nothing more to it, but you just never know in Hollywood!
BTW, good job on the spelling this morning! LOL =)

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 03/21/2012 at 8:46 am


Haha thanks. I was rushing through when posting last night and was mortified at the errors when I looked back at my posts. What you say is very true. :) I’m sure his Mother worries for him too, but he’s a big boy. He makes his own choices. Bad ones it seems like these days.

Hes compete stupid he shouldve never got involved with a married woman she wasn’t stupid to file for divorce he encouraged her & gave her false hope & then bailed! She was p!ssed as shes left with nothing he’s a coward can’t even confront or tell face to face & has to change his number such an immature man! He knows he looks bad & lost respect of ppl so is trying to act like the doting family boy

He knows exactly how to avoid the paps they never get hold of him with his hook ups, he wanted to be seen if your so bothered about paps you don’t have lunch in full view he wants to show this to distract his latest homewrcking label

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 03/21/2012 at 9:20 am

“Hes compete stupid he shouldve never got involved with a married woman she wasn’t stupid to file for divorce he encouraged her & gave her false hope & then bailed! She was p!ssed as shes left with nothing he’s a coward can’t even confront or tell face to face & has to change his number such an immature man! He knows he looks bad & lost respect of ppl so is trying to act like the doting family boy”
Yes, he should have not gotten involved (if it’s true) with a married woman, period. BUT you don’t know what SHE said to encourage him! My guess if ANYONE had “false hope” it was HER for putting herself in an INSTANT RELATIONSHIP when there was no hope for one from the start and if SHE thought so, SHE is “stupid”. What kind of man would want a CHEATER for a partner? Eh? A real question! Besides it wasn’t for all that to begin with and SHE knows it. She thought having sex with him meant more than, well, having sex with him like most dumb women who know nothing about life! I think HE did her husband a FAVOR!!

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 03/21/2012 at 9:30 am

Right he does know how to avoid the paps same like Jared can avoid posting the photo of him with his mouth open. From the hate vibes here no wonder he rides off the grid so much! I’m proud of him being with his parents. I don’t find it a stunt at all.
It’s nearly Easter (and Mother’s day isn’t far off and no one knows their plans) plus he has family on the west coast for God’s sake!
If they came over from the east coast to see their son, what’s he to do… say no my fans will call me a manipulator of press? Hell, no, he’s going to be seen with them because he wants to! You people are really morbid-minded and so out of focus. You’re too angry to care.

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 03/21/2012 at 9:32 am

The only thing I’m annoyed with is his talking on his cell at lunch! LOL Really, turn it off for 30 minutes to eat in peace! I doubt anything is that important it can’t wait!

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 03/21/2012 at 9:34 am

@Hell Hath No Fury…:
LOL, You’re kidding right? Like who the hell is she anyway? If not for him she’s be well, whoever she was before… a nobody! Oh, wait… she still IS a nobody!

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 03/21/2012 at 9:35 am

“I don’t care what movie they say he is gonna do, whatev, his time has come and gone, his career is already finished with all the dumba ss stuff you read about in the tabs, just a tab clown.”
What century did you crawl out of? LOL this is plain dumb. It is.

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 03/21/2012 at 9:38 am

Correction. The above should be directed to the one above that poster whose moniker I won’t even acknowledge thinking it takes one to spot one. ;o)

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 03/21/2012 at 9:42 am

“Horrible bad boy behaviour and not a single decent movie after 300 and Law Abiding Citizen. ”
Hay thanks for liking Law Abiding Citizen! Thought The Ugly Truth was very good but apparently you haven’t seen Coriolanus or Machine Gun Preacher, otherwise you wouldn’t have said what you did.
Last I read everyone loved the “bad boy” behavior calling it “just Gerry”? LOL
Gerry doesn’t, and won’t, let others rules dictate to him. He may know how to play, but it doesn’t mean he should do it.
Besides he’s three really good parts lined up! Where you been? Oh, in the hating pool with SO many others! Contagion theory proved!

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 03/21/2012 at 9:44 am

His mom is beautiful. She is. Sorry, I just needed to say that. So stylish and well groomed. Dresses age-appropriate and loves color! And Alex is all man. He loves his woman. His step-son and family. What man and role model!

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 03/21/2012 at 9:54 am

She wrecked her own home… if it’s even true.

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 03/21/2012 at 10:12 am

“Although, maybe she didn’t smack hard enough? He was off to another party last night:”
I’m sorry but I don’t understand your thought process regarding this, could you please explain?
What has he done wrong this time?
If his every move displeases you, then why do you track him like an elk in the Black Forest on a moonless night wearing a night-vision helmet?

just a thought @ 03/21/2012 at 10:16 am

I see once again the thread has been usurped by the mad-as-a-hatter spammer. Poor wee Gerry had an extended hookup with a married woman, did not even attempt to deny it, but it’s all HER fault? Riiigght. Plenty of blame to go around, I say. He deserves the thrashing he’s getting in the press. He should man up and apologize to his fans. They’ve stood with him through “The Bounty Hunter”, so he owes them that, IMO. Isn’t that one of the twelve steps – making amends for those you’ve hurt?

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 03/21/2012 at 10:27 am

@just a thought:
It’s her fault. If true she ruined her marriage. I mean she’s a newlywed? Really? And she’s jumping into someone else’s arms? Not that two wrongs make a right but she is the real wrong one here. IF she loved her husband she wouldn’t have given Gerry the time of day. Again, he did the husband a favor. If not Gerry, who next? Gross. Simply gross.
What a despicable awful person she is to cheat so close to just getting married! No values. No scruples. No character. Disloyal. Unfaithful. Untrustworthy. A liar. A fraud. A user (of both men). Dishonest. A loser. She ruined her own life. She deserves the scorn, hate and her life dismantled and raked over the coals. She did it! It’s all her fault.
What man ever trust her again? Who’d hire her to keep secrets on a show? A movie script? This is all backfiring!
God help the next man she manipulates into her life. No wonder they’re keeping a lid on who she is so she can get it together (if it’s even true). If anyone needs to soul search it’s the cheating wife!

Mad-As-A-HatterSpammer @ 03/21/2012 at 10:33 am

@just a thought:
“He should man up and apologize to his fans.”
You’re kidding, right?

The very thought of the possibility of him hooking up with a pOrn star is just that.. disgusting. Why Gerry? No decent self respecting women left in the entire LA?

If anyone here has any doubt about his acting ability I suggest her/him getting hold a copy of Coriolanus. His acting in that movie will restore your faith in Gerry’s acting chops. Wish every director gets to see it. Yes Spielberg I am looking at you.

The Noise In The Walls @ 03/21/2012 at 10:42 am

Glad he’s out..looking good..Glad to see his parents there too :)…

Mad-As-A-HatterSpammer @ 03/21/2012 at 10:58 am

Do you think this is the first time he’s, ah, been “with” a prn star? Really? Where you been, luv? Why does it bother you so much? Most men (out there) would love to do it with one! ooOps.
Hey, do you think men link up with them for something meaningful? No. They do it for uninhibited action and little more. And the ‘stars’ know it. It is sex for sex’s sake.
Seriously, it is the ultimate no strings attached motion without emotion heartless fcccking (that could be aimed at weeding his fans and actually pissing them off… ever think of that? HE is angry at THEM? Again what is it, that bothers you? You’re judgmental of her, of him?

And so what? Who cares? Is he the first or the last? To me it reads I’m not looking for love right now and this is like real easy and might piss off my fans who he is tired of living up to some daunting expectation? That it reads… go find your own man and leave me the F alone? Question, again. Why does it bother you so much?
Most prostitutes service to more married men than single! Did you know that? Ridge ashamed and prudish wives or GFs are why. The kind of action most married or single or men in relationships view… when snobs like you aren’t around, porn!
As for the Coriolanus mention and Spielberg?! Hey, I back that. But he is linked to work with Michael Mann soon enough. Ah, the things we forget hating! Sigh.

Mad-As-A-HatterSpammer @ 03/21/2012 at 11:09 am

Yay! Jared put it at headline news! ;o)
~K, spammer and proud of it… who must leave now (read: you’re welcome) allowing the hate-fest to reassemble hoping you enjoy how all that makes you feel… but doubt it

Reading here, I just have to shake my head in realizing how many mean-spirited people there are. I wonder how you got that way. It’s obviousthat some of you are trying so hard to say mean, hurtful things that you just come out looking ridiculous and sad.

Can'tGetEnough @ 03/21/2012 at 11:44 am

Video of GB last night with Mom in car. Looks like Ariel as well:

AliceInWonderland @ 03/21/2012 at 12:07 pm

@Mad-As-A-HatterSpammer: “To me it reads I’m not looking for love right now and this is like real easy and might piss off my fans who he is tired of living up to some daunting expectation? That it reads… go find your own man and leave me the F alone?”
You are as crazy and unstable as a loon, aren’t you? You have some rabid hatred of G’s fans and then say you are not one so you can bash them! I and I’m sure many others are as sick of it as I am! I’ve even seen you come on to the fan sites as “Slimchance” and start with your ridiculous ranting and berating!
Most of his fans are in relationships and are more accepting of his lifestyle then you’d like to believe. The people that post the negativity here are not fans! They are neurotic obsessed ex fans who can’t let him go now that he’s not lived up to their ridiculous standards!
You’re just a nut case who rambles on here endlessly because you are the one that has no life, no man and fantasizes about him to the point he IS your life! You sit at your keyboard and when you start getting horny, you write some mindless ramblings you call “erotica” on a blog because it’s all you have! You dream about him, you fantasize that he’s reading what you write, you’ve even put up photos of body parts! You’re stalker material! Get a grip on that!
Then this ignorant line…”Most prostitutes service to more married men than single! Did you know that? Ridge ashamed and prudish wives or GFs are why.” You were talking about a porn star now she’s a prostitute? And now you are disparaging married women! You are blaming a married woman for having an affair then you turn around and say that the woman should take the blame for her married husband/boyfriend fcking a prostitute! Do you hate women much?
READ: YOU are nothing but a jealous, psychoneurotic, antisocial nutjob with NO life! I’d tell you to get some help but you’re beyond it!
I’ll beat you to the punch line….HAVE A NICE DAY!

From the previous thread:
There are an average of 24.7 posts/comments per page thus far. Approximately each page one half dozen of them are GFW’s. That means that she approximately is responsible for one quarter of all the posts on any given thread or roughly 84 posts total so far on just this thread.
That’s what I thought. She is responsible for at least a 1/4 of all pots if not more, and she definitely Monopolizes each thread.
GFW, you need to find something else to do.

AliceInWonderland @ 03/21/2012 at 12:23 pm


He looked angry and I think he wanted to pop a pap and I don’t blame him! Ariel (or whoever that was) jumped out of the car to head him off, I believe, thank God!
Gerry looked wound and maybe he should have just driven off. He doesn’t seem to get that the more he acts out, the worse he makes it!
There are only two ways to handle the paps and that is either just smile and move on or just move on and say nothing. They are going to taunt and taunt until they get a reaction out of him. They’d make a fortune on him that way! The less he gives them, the less they get! I wish he’d think about that every time because he’s never going to be free of them unless he stays home!
Gerry does need to get out of HW. It’s going to make him crazy! I don’t believe he has the emotional stamina to handle living in that kind of fishbowl existence. He’s a hot headed Scot and when he gets pushed, he wants to push back!

How old is Alicia? Does anyone know? Isn’t she a bit old to be on MTV?

AliceInWonderland @ 03/21/2012 at 12:34 pm


She’s like an knat buzzing around your head! She’s so annoyingly delusional, in fact, she even justifies all of our irritation with her as some kind of “jealousy”. It gets her through her days and lonely nights! I’m still waiting for her to tell us all what that special thing is we are all so jealous of! LMAO!

AliceInWonderland @ 03/21/2012 at 12:36 pm

Oh helltotheno! She had a gig teaching young, impressionable teenage girls how to become as superficial and golddigging as she is!

“It’s a safer option for the renowned lothario, who has attracted attention for all the wrong reasons lately.”
Wow the Daily Mail sure holds him in high regard. :P

……bring in the big guns Alan…ha ha ….dialed up mammy!

….well if anything can center gerry it will be his mum…..i’m glad she is around for a bit….as a mom of some grown (and sometimes i wonder if i can call them that )men myself…..a mother knows….. a mom knows how her kids are doing ….part instinct ….part gut feeling…..hopefully she can assess, encourage, advise, support and mostly love through it all…..

nice thing about moms…..they accept you and love you no matter what….even through the really stupid stuff….

Buttercup @ 03/21/2012 at 1:37 pm

@AliceInWonderland: I think he is just dropping him off there. He does look a little wild-eyed, though. That’s one of the cons of being a celeb. Gerry would have to swallow a big dose of dumb azz to pop a pap at this point in time.

God Bless yoou all! @ 03/21/2012 at 1:38 pm

“Rejoice with those who rejoice [sharing others' joy], and weep with those who weep [sharing others' grief].” Romans 12:15

I have to disagree. She is not a nobody to Butler like you and me. She has had him intimately in her, her world, her heart (if you look at it from her point of view). She also knows him in a way none of us will.
This woman scares the sh!t out of Butler IMO. All she has to do is open her mouth on a show like Howard Stern and believe me every media outlet will have a hay day. She is probably the closest thing to a ticking time bomb rather than a nobody.
This woman has brought him more bad publicity than he wants. She does have quite a bit of power. If she goes on the record it will only get worse for Butler because nothing sells better than the loved & dumped crowd. Aniston has made a career of it.
You don’t realize that by calling her nobody makes you… well… lower than that…

@just a thought:
You gotta love GFW’s spunk… if you can get over the smell. :P

“The very thought of the possibility of him hooking up with a pOrn star is just that.. disgusting. Why Gerry? No decent self respecting women left in the entire LA?”
He looks for easy women, why don’t peeps understand that?
All his women are easy women that will sleep with men without any guilt feelings. That’s what he looks for. Therefore, I for one am not surprised by his choice of women. Brandi’s, Alicia’s, Jeana etc…..
When he is ready for a marriage, if ever, he will look for a more discriminating woman, as many men do. Many men have double standards, even if they don’t openly admit it.

EveIn TheGarden @ 03/21/2012 at 2:41 pm

Trying to check up with what has occurred in his life over year(s). Almost died and addiction. Lawsuit(s) and heart break and heart breaker . My goodness he looks unhappy and unhealthy. Sad …Words fail me at this point….

@Question: Alicia admits to being 34. Which means she’s probably a few years older than that. Most celebs, especially female, lie about their age….

I was nice enough to answer a question, and some a/rse w/hipe has nothing better to do than thumb me down?

WOW. Insanity….. :/

I’m glad to see Gerry with his family. But he looking very dissatisfied. I think he don’t want to attract paparazzis’ attention.

If you are a fan of Gerry’s it’s because you like his movies. You may not like all the movies he has done but you are still a fan.
What I don’t understand is where anyone here has a right to ask for an apology or a explanation for what he does in his private life. He is the one who has to deal with whatever press good or bad comes his way.
Was he foolish to hook up with someone who will cheat outside her marriage with single and married men, yes he was. Is he paying for this indiscretion, yes. We really don’t even know who she is yet. Do I care, NO. We each have to live by are own standards of morality. It is not my place to approve or disapprove of his actions. It is unfortunate that he can’t separate his HW life from his private life, but some people just seem to thrive on the dirty gossip whether it is true or not. Wouldn’t it be a kick in the pants if this turns out to be all made up. As far as his mom and step dad are there, why read anything more into it that they are just enjoying a visit with their son. When Gerry left the legal profession to become an actor I remember him saying that his mom told him whatever he wanted to do with his life she would always be there for him. Was this a photo op to try and distract from the negative press, could be or it just could be he needed to see his mom to share some special time with her. Margaret is a tough lady that left a bad marriage with three small children to raise, she knows how to roll with the flow. As far as his career over, it will be over when he says it’s over. If he decides not to act anymore he just might want to produce films for other actors, maybe even direct at some point. I will stay his fan until he stops making movies and I won’t condemn him for his dumb mistakes. Heaven forbide we found out he is human!

angelsrock @ 03/21/2012 at 6:37 pm

I walk the same wavelength, lolita. Your words mirror my thoughts exactly. He is who he is. Period. Exclamation point. He is far from perfect and I disagree with lots of his decisions. But I’m drawn to him like bees to honey. I find him so hot and so funny and so charismatic and so……..wounded. I have always believed that he is lonely and really doesn’t know what he wants out of life. I hope he finds true happiness one day and the lady of his dreams who will scratch his back and “have” his back and vise versa. The Hollywood life is not good for him. He needs to get the H out of there.

Whatshedonenow @ 03/21/2012 at 6:45 pm


No.  His  so called true fans- the phannies – think the sun shines out of his a/se. Blame everybody and everything  but him for his bad behaviour. And when they begrudgingly forced to face the truth about  him  go inton”denial defence” with nonsense like -he did say he was a ‘bad boy’.  Or -what he does in his private life is none of our business. May I remind you nobody needed to know he went into rehab- in my book  that’s a pretty private matter – but he used it to garner positive PR. So if he’s prepared to play that game with his  private life, as far as the press is concerned all bets are off, and we can gossip and speculate about him and his private life – be it good or bad-  to our hearts’ content.

And by the way why are some of you still so ridiculously naive about PR? Even though you’ve been told time and time again about how it works in HW.  Don’t you get it by now-  if the Butty boy  doesn’t want to be seen- HE WON’T BE SEEN! Comprende! For crying out loud- (roll eyes)

@angelsrock: Angel, I just can’t see why people want to see just a negative in him when there is so much positive to him. I will never believe all the crap that is said about him. I have seen some of his dumb moves but we all have moments like that in our lives. He is special to me too and I agree with what you said.

AliceInWonderland @ 03/21/2012 at 7:01 pm


I don’t believe he deliberately looks for easy women! If he ever planned on gaining the respect of a decent woman in the future, he’s certainly going about it all the wrong way.
I think he as a low self esteem, for one. I know that sounds ridiculous with his looks and all but I don’t think he likes himself all that much. I think he carries around a lot of guilt and has a lot of trouble letting go of his past. He then sets himself up to attract the wrong kinds of women and the users.
He’s a nice guy, he’s vulnerable and like a kid sometimes. He’s often said he can be in a room full of people and end up by himself and alone.
Maybe some don’t know how to take him and I think some women think he’s coming on to them when he’s just trying to be nice. He may say something inappropriate or something that gets miscontrued as a come on. I think that’s a Scottish thing too and he doesn’t get away with it like say Craig Ferguson does because he’s a comedian.
I still believe that because of his looks people think he gets more women and “action” then he does. This whole thing with the married woman I’m willing to wager is another trumped up stunt with Brandi Glanville behind it. That’s a woman with baggage, a woman scorned by another man and she’s going to make every man pay for it. I know the type. She tried to use him, he didn’t go for it, she tried to embarrass him, he acted like he didn’t know who she was and this is her play. JMO.

angelsrock @ 03/21/2012 at 7:03 pm


I guess you didn’t read my post carefully. I do not believe the sun shines out of his ahs. I do believe he’s a P.R. nightmare. I know he makes very bad choices. And I am a fan. BTW I’m pretty sure that there has been very few celebs that secretly went to rehab. And may I add that you are exactly whom the tabloids and P.R. people love!!!

AliceInWonderland @ 03/21/2012 at 7:09 pm

@lolita: I’m with you! It’s one thing to frequent sites when you LIKE the person and it’s quite another to frequent sites when you don’t like the person! Why waste your time?
And worse, to call fans names and ridicule them for sticking by him! What’s that all about? Do they not see the irony in that? Can they not see that they are more effed up then any phanny ever was?

Is it the negative in him they see or more the true him?
Right now he hasn’t done a lot for fans to be proud of. Two movies that most didn’t see won’t save him from the PR his bad behavior is generating. The public is only seeing bad in the press right now and Butler’s rather naive attempts at positive PR just is insulting IMO. Like the first poster said, the public won’t forget and they are cynical.
What positive spin they put on the rehab is sadly by the wayside since he spent almost every night out partying for days after less than 24 hours out of rehab. Unfortunately the public is quite good at smelling bullsh!t and it seems that is all Butler is offering them currently.
Kudos for him not giving a damn what the public thinks but that attitude in the long run will cost him much more IMO. His fans carry only a miniscule amount of the tickets sales worldwide. His career is dependent on the public more so than the fans who willing overlook the behavior. It is a sad truth of life.
Conversely the public loves to embrace the underdog. What is sad is that Butler doesn’t get that. Maybe if he tried to act like he wanted to be redeemed peeps would cheer him on. But his f*ck it I do what I want no matter the consequences isn’t appealing to watch as he mows down everything/everyone in his way. Per the latest press stories, he’s a lothario that now breaks up marriages, seems narcissist and is spitting in the faces of those who have climbed the mountain of sobriety. Hard to cheer for the antagonist in this story IMO.

Whatshedonenow @ 03/21/2012 at 7:21 pm


I did read your post carefully enough. I don’t know if you are a phannie or not. That’s down to you. As far I can see there is a difference between a  fan and a  phannie. A fan doesn’t go ballistic if a poster  says something even marginally negative about the Butty Boy. 

Also I am more than a happy to be like most people on the planet and enjoy a bit of a gossip and a read of a tab.  As I’ve said before that’s what the celebs get paid the big bucks for – to entertain us.   

But alas angelrock, I think you are the one who’s the PR man or woman’s w/et dream.

angelsrock @ 03/21/2012 at 7:24 pm


That’s something that I have pondered too. Why waste your time talking about a celeb you don’t like? I just don’t get it.

angelsrock @ 03/21/2012 at 7:28 pm


Nope, I don’t believe any of the BS that is written about celebs. Because 90% is BS. They know it and the celebs know it. But the fans drool over it. And so it continues.

But we agree to disagree and that’s what makes life so darn interesting. Have a good evening, whatshedoneknow.

@AliceInWonderland: I agree, even to read more into his mom’s visit. If he would have went to Scotland to see his mom instead of her coming here they would be saying he ran home to momma. Don’t any of these people visit their parents just because. Enjoy your parents while you have them. He really can’t go to many places without someone recognizing him and tweeting or asking for a pic with him. When he goes to starbucks people tweet that they saw him.
@Angel, he disappeared for month for rehab and I agree if he had done it for PR it would have been announced when he went in not coming out. The statement released was he is out and healthy. They didn’t go into any great detail about it. TMZ and such are the ones who said the most about it.

oh c'mon ..... @ 03/21/2012 at 7:31 pm

“This whole thing with the married woman I’m willing to wager is another trumped up stunt with Brandi Glanville behind it.
This is where some fans lose all credibility. You’re willing to believe the patently absurd, rather than common sense. A Brandi Glanville conspiracy to explain away the p0rn star, a Jennifer Aniston conspiracy to explain why he was snubbed for an Oscar, and on and on it goes. This is what “Whatshedonenow” is talking about. It’s everyone else’s fault. If being a fan means you have to check your brain at the door, then that doesn’t say much about Gerry.

His mum and stepdad are a very handsome couple. Nice to visit with GB in sunny LA and enjoy lunch outside – who cares whether it was a PR ploy or not. Live your life – you don’t need to answer to anyone – make your own decisions then own it.

Hope everyone has a great evening and rest of the week. Hope all is well.


AliceInWonderland @ 03/21/2012 at 7:34 pm

@Manny: You’re way too focused on negativity! A lot of movies aren’t doing well right now. He’s done some good stuff and he will again. This will not hurt him but what will hurt him is his own inability to put it perspective and move on. So he’s gotten his nose bloodied by the HW rumor mill! They all do! He’s officially in the club now!
And how do YOU know the recent stories about him are true? Are you so gullible to believe things you read from the tabloids? He admits he’s a bit of a bad boy and if he screwed around with a reality star, so what? I really don’t even think that is to be contrued as “bad” behavior really.
The thing with the married woman needs more concrete facts and reliable sources for me then the Internet tabloids. I think it’s a set up and a fabrication by a bitter woman. Now she’s the one that’s damaged goods, as far as I’m concerned.

AliceInWonderland @ 03/21/2012 at 7:38 pm

@Whatshedonenow: Problem is your definition of “ballistic” is anyone counter pointing your negative comment. Your definition of a phanny is anyone who doesn’t agree with you, isn’t it?
We don’t all see him as all good but we don’t see him as all bad. I’m not sure what you’d call those who promote the negative here. They are not fans for sure. It’s rather troubling to me just what they are!

AliceInWonderland @ 03/21/2012 at 7:41 pm

@angelsrock: I think they are far worse then any phannie ever could be because they are so obsessed with him that even when he disappoints them, they still can’t let him go! That to me shows they are far more obsessed then any phannie every was! LMAO!

I think it’s odd that anytime some on here take a swipe in general – not even personally – at the ‘mean girls,’ for lack of a better description of them, there are immediately a little flurry of thumbs down. Does that mean the negative thumbers appreciate crass, nasty posts?

I’ve read on here for several years, and today’s meanies seem to be a different breed than those of the past. I’m not sure how to describe them or their motivations.Looking back, does anyone remember Stupidfans and some of her buddies? Now there was one sick chick. Her sole purpose in life was ragging on phannies and GB. People tried to figure her out but failed. In the end, she melted down in a crazy crash and burn. Hope there aren’t any more like that around. You can’t have a conversation with them.

Whatshedonenow @ 03/21/2012 at 7:50 pm

Regarding Aliceinwonderland’s comments – see what I mean. ( roll eyes once again).

You need to read more carefully before you start tilting at windmills.
I said, according to the press the public is seeing…
I don’t know what to think of the story with the married woman. All we see is what is in the press, literally all over the world. Then that possibly inaccurate press is compounded with what looks to be staged PR photo ops with the parents and it all smells … well … pungent.
I just think it is a shame his extracurricular activities put his career so deeply in the background that people have to remind themselves he acts.

@Manny: Well Manny I have learned by life lessons the only person I need to impress is myself with my actions. I watch people come here and tear you a second one for your posts and wonder why they don’t respect you for how you feel. We hear a lot of rumors some have been true and some downright lies. Why would you start a story like this and not name names. When President Clinton was tootsing around we all knew who Monica Lewinsky was. They don’t want to say her name or name her ex-husband and present husband. The tabloids feed on this dirt and would kill to release the names. Until this proves to be a real story I’m not buying it. I’ll give him the benefit of the doubt. He said he was much naughtier in the past and I can believe it. If he lets everything said about him taken to heart he would be more of a nut than he already is. Do I think he is full of prunes and could be more aware of his words and actions, yes. Case in point, Clooney just said he gives a sh*t that people say he is gay. So did he lose fans by that quote I doubt it. I agree Gerry is rough around the edges and he will never be a polished gentleman but that is what I like about him.

Whatshedonenow @ 03/21/2012 at 7:54 pm


Are you calling me a “mean girl”?

AliceInWonderland @ 03/21/2012 at 7:55 pm

@oh c’mon …..:
“You’re willing to believe the patently absurd, rather than common sense. A Brandi Glanville conspiracy to explain away the p0rn star, a Jennifer Aniston conspiracy to explain why he was snubbed for an Oscar”
Tell me this then, why did the so called married fling come out right after the Brandi Glanville thing? Why didn’t this come out before? You know why? Because it’s Glanville that has been stalking him around, texting him, calling him, etc. which may have been the catalyst for him to go in to rehab and get his head clear! She’s been doing this since last summer! Can’t you see this? She’s behind all of this! No name has been given yet and neither has TMZ reported on it further and if there was any truth to it they would and you know it. This is just a silly continuation of a scorned Brandi Glanville and that’s all it is.
I remember last summer when he started looking too thin and smoking again and knew something wasn’t right. I think he was under a lot of stress and pressure, trying to learn to surf, etc. He started with the pills and did something stupid, whatever it was, a one nighter or a week. He tried to move on and she wasn’t going to let him. She wanted to use him and he probably sensed it and she wouldn’t let go. And if you recall, wasn’t she married for a short time?
I think YOU are the one lacking common sense here. You like the drama and the scandal more then anything else. You are feeding in to this and you and others like you are going to hurt Gerry if you don’t stop it!
I don’t know anything about Jennifer Aniston conspiracy and Oscars. All I know about that is nothing happened between them and they are friends. Again, you’re letting your imagination run too wild, even for the likes of Hollywood!

Whatshedonenow @ 03/21/2012 at 7:59 pm


Sorry, I know this is an easy shot – but you’ve chosen an apt moniker.

oh c'mon ..... @ 03/21/2012 at 8:01 pm

If you think Brandi Glanville is behind the married woman story, then I’m sorry, but you’re in deep denial. If the only way you can be a fan of Gerry’s is to buy into these kinds of outrageous explanations, then I question whether you really do believe in the man. There are people who can see Gerry with clear eyes and can call him on his c.rap and still enjoy his films. These are the people who accept the man for who he is and are his real fans.

@Whatshedonenow: I was not speaking of anyone in particular. Just posters who say insanely negative things and jump to wild conclusions after reading some tabloid stupidity.

AliceInWonderland @ 03/21/2012 at 8:08 pm

I said, according to the press the public is seeing…
I don’t know what to think of the story with the married woman. All we see is what is in the press, literally all over the world. Then that possibly inaccurate press ”
LMAO! You call the tabloids “press”? Yes, I would say “inaccurate” is a good word to describe them! Give me one reliable source reporting this story?

@nicole: I think the difference in today’s neg posters and that Stupidfans is that she KNEW the difference between tabloid fiction and the truth but said junk just to inflame the board.

New thread. He looks beautiful.

I hear what you are saying. Like I said earlier, I don’t know what to think of the married woman story. I would like to think he wouldn’t go there but he didn’t he already do that in Ischia with the married p*rn star he was photographed with canoodling on that balcony?
It’s funny because I will leave this place for days on end and I find I come back to see what he has been up to. So in my own way he still has a hold on me. My take on it is the only thing that seems to be the only thing that has changed.
I don’t willing believe anything he says anymore. I can’t. I have heard his party line, “[Name of city] has the most beautiful women in the world” or “I love [Name of city]. I’m buying an apartment here” or “I want to settle down and have a family” so many times now that even the most dense realize he only says what he thinks people want to hear. I’ve watched him embellish his stories from interview to interview until I really thinks he believes the end result.
The only thing that I feel for sure is he doesn’t want anyone outside of his circle to know him, not really. Whatever his reason for his subterfuge he has used to keep himself an enigma is also the thing that makes him hard to believe IMO.
Do you mind passing what you are smoking? I could use a hit…
BTW I believe that the Pentagon is going to have a press conference to out Brandi as the cause of all the unrest in Syria. Stay tuned…

AliceInWonderland @ 03/21/2012 at 8:24 pm

@oh c’mon …..:
“There are people who can see Gerry with clear eyes and can call him on his c.rap and still enjoy his films”
I thought the concensus here was his films are crap? You talk out of both sides of your mouth when it suits you. I see him with clear eyes, more so then you do. I just don’t go around believing everything I read, especially from tablois, like you do.

AliceInWonderland @ 03/21/2012 at 8:25 pm

@nicole: I would have told her “if the shoe fits”.

New Thread Gurls @ 03/21/2012 at 8:27 pm

Out again….

AliceInWonderland @ 03/21/2012 at 8:34 pm


I think it just drives you crazy that he’s not more of an open book! You are so obsessed with him, you abhore his ambiguous responses and his failure to satisfy your need for his inner most private thoughts! You are the true phanny, actually! You feel that if he’s not willing to tell you all, you’ll just make it up yourself and it isn’t going to be pretty! It’s his punishment!

@Manny: Manny, sometimes i think he just says things to make people happy. How many musicians on tour always start out with the line so happy to be in such and such greatest place on earth with the best fans. It is all horse hockey but people eat that up. Makes them feel good statements. He has a coloful past that is for sure. The Brandi thing has left him a target for all the other affairs he has had coming out to publicize the flings. I hope it turns out not to be true. I know people say if he denies it it didn’t happen and if he says nothing it did. He would be spending all his time denying stuff like this. His bad boy image is biting him in the butt now. Only time will tell but I don’t believe he is as bad as made out to be.

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 03/21/2012 at 8:54 pm

He doesn’t owe anyone anything. Sort of. I do wish he would issue a denial if the married woman situation is not true. These conspiracy theories are too wild. If it is true, then…… I don’t know, karma for both of them. It would also help him to stay in for a while (a couple of weeks at least?) at night. I feel it would bring some peace for him. And show the public that he is serious about his recovery. JMO. It’s his life and again, he’s a big boy who can make his own decisions. If he doesn’t care what the public thinks (which he should if he wants to keep this career), but if not, then he needs to understand and accept the repercussions for his actions. Wishing everyone, happiness, love and belly laughs. :D

No we have to blame that on Brandi too. Lmao…

he said loud and clear and changed his number I DONT WANT YOU ANYMORE lol he’s entitled to not want some p0rno transsexual anymore

it’s- the- most effective-s i t e in the world to connect- with,- d at e and mar ry— successful, beautiful-people”,one said

It’s his stepfather not his father. Thus his mother is his only parent.

“I was nice enough to answer a question, and some a/rse w/hipe has nothing better to do than thumb me down?

WOW. Insanity….. :/”
Thank you for your answer. I for once appreiciate you answering me back. BTW, I asked a question and got 5 negs. LOL! Some peeps really need to get a life if they have time to neg posts. I hardly have time to read them, let alone stop for a second to neg. Neg after neg takes time if you think of it……
BTW, I agree; Aliecia looks much older than 34.
Is it true she is engaged?

No, she is not engaged.

“It’s his stepfather not his father. Thus his mother is his only parent.”
What? His Step Father was around him more then his biological dad! he practically raised him! Just because you’re the sperm donor, does not a parent make!

Excuse me, but a father is a lot more than just a sperm donor. And BTW, his parents were married when he was conceived so his mum didn’t go to a sperm bank. I totally cringe at the disrespect some of you show men. Is it any wonder men have become emasculated and not interested in getting married these days? Men dislike women so much they rather remain single without a nagging disrespectful wife to give them more disrespect and take a way their masculinity.

Hello Gerry! Now you know why he remains single. He has woman falling all over him so why marry any of them? Why, so they can have power over him? He’s too smart for that, as he understands the dynamic of male/female when the woman has no power. The moment they marry, he elevate\s her. Why should he do it for an unappreciative beetch?
BTW, Gerry said in interviews he wanted to meet his dad and ended up spending much time with him at the end of his life because he felt that this is the man who made him. So if Gerry has sense to know a dad is not just a sperm donor, i think the beetches here should respect that.

I just love Gerard Butler .With all the bad publicity he has gotten lately,it doesn’t matter I will always love him.That is true love.

LOL, I know! Sooo obvious of him.

@Toronto: Alicia is not 34, she’s older. She was born in 1973.

. . . don’t care about ANY negative comments, here there everywhere to support him ! ! ! ! People have no imagination, they just keep repeating the same comments they read by leech-internet-commentators.

AS ROGER EBERT said . . . “Gerard Butler is a hunk who can act.” Hah! Who would I take a comment from dime-a-dozen-internet commentators or respected movie critic! Duh!

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