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Gerard Butler: Doctor's Office Dude

Gerard Butler: Doctor's Office Dude

Gerard Butler hops out of a car and heads inside a medical building on Wednesday (April 18) in Beverly Hills, Calif.

The 42-year-old Scottish actor was accompanied by a pal for his doctor’s office visit.

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It was recently announced that Gerard has possibly signed on for the upcoming thriller Manhunt! The film is about FBI agents searching the woods for a wanted criminal.

This past weekend, Gerard had fun in the sun at the 2012 Coachella Music Festival! He hit up numerous parties and concerts while at the outdoor extravaganza.

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# 1

Nice!!!! Very Nice!

# 2

Take me to a porta potty. We can go inside and …

# 3

Any new stds?

# 4

Probably getting checked out after coachella…… gross

# 5

Happy to see him tending to himself, for whatever it is… it’s all good.
who giggles at the differences of how he dresses east coast vs west!

# 6

News Alert! He’s a sneaker addition! LOL
happy to see him with his darling companion, his phone! ;o)

# 7

Someone does the downward thumb when they should be doing the downward dog.
Seriously, get a life, will ya?
Did you know sitting too long is the worst thing a person can do health wise? Truth.
who thinks he looks like he needs a hug

# 8

So, who is the chick driving the car? An assistant? A GF?

# 9

Partying all weekend sure hasn’t hurt his looks any. Gawd he’s beautiful.

AustinCityLimits @ 04/19/2012 at 12:23 pm

I imagine it is Amy, his PA who is driving the vehicle and more than likely he is there for his physical prior to filming his next movie, as actors have to have those before they start filming. So don’t let imaginations run wild here, and assume or accuse him of something that is perfectly innocent.

@gawker: As Lucy Sullivan said when she first met Gus: “That face. You could get lost in it.”

I want ur peepee inside of moi!

Looking fine as usual, Gerry – hey, looks like you’ve got yourself some new “neekers”. :-)

Getting checked out prior to starting your new project on May 1st, huh? Best of luck with Thunder Run, sweetie. Hopefully the media will pay more attention to it than they did Machine Gun Preacher & Coriolanus. What a shame…two outstanding films almost completely ignored because they weren’t guaranteed “box office gold.”

I appears over the years that a moderate lifestyle is not only intolerable, but also unimaginable for Gerry. Yet I keep a flame lit he actually would love to have more of a solid life with more responsibilities, purpose, and feel more useful.
Over the past few years he’s become an intensity junkie. If not traveling world-wide, then zipping crisis-crossing the states! As if he knows how to live two ways: petal to the metal or completely numb.
He’s become familiar with an environment in which life and death seem to hang in the balance? As if he’s earned some respect with his ‘crowd’ for the high level of intensity he can tolerate?
I’m kinda like maybe the doc will have a heart-to-heart knee-to-knee with him? Gentle of course. Good. He’s trying.
A friend told me, “Addictions are tough. It’s almost like the allegory of the Emperor’s New Suit – if all the people around him are ‘yes-people’ and support the behavior, there is no reason to stop.” It must be his idea! Think maybe it is??

Gossipgirl @ 04/19/2012 at 1:18 pm

@ew: Totally! He is getting a STD work up. Douchebag!

That’s It’s obviously. (sigh) I am myself.
You know what I hate? Being told not to worry. That is when I do. At the same time no one should force anyone to do anything that does not come naturally, unless he’s a harm to himself.
He needs to keep his head in the game and find a new passion than chasing skirts! He needs some emotional connection. It’s like pain is his drug of choice?
Feeling stress or pressures changes how people weigh risk and reward. Personally, I’d prefer anger, it means they feel something other than pain. I understand very little, least of all, the people closest to me.

He's not dating anyone. @ 04/19/2012 at 1:47 pm

“Did you know sitting too long is the worst thing a person can do health wise? Truth.”
Do you stand when you type? Four out of the fifteen posts here so far are yours and I would imagine by the time I get through writing this one, there may be one or two more.
Like was said on the previous thread, there is a pic of P. Diddy getting out of a car in the very same place. Link is on WO.

He's not dating anyone. @ 04/19/2012 at 1:49 pm

Can I call it or what? LMFAO!

LoveDoctor @ 04/19/2012 at 1:53 pm

@kel: “New” stds????? Are there older ones we should know about? Do spill……

By the look in his eyes, he has a story to tell.
who sits to type, and these posts are while I’m working–and why so frequent are out of passion, out of love, care and worry whose best are at the other tread, but even fidgeting is better than just sitting!

Looking forward to him starting his new movie soon and seeing PTF and OMAM! He looks good!

My last post today…
If you want money more than anything, you will be bought and sold.
If you have a greed for food, you will become a loaf of bread.
This is a subtle truth.
Whatever you love, you are.
who sees his grief bags below his eyes and feels…

Other sites are saying he emerged from the car slowly, maybe he pulled
a groin muscle from all that “dancing” at Roachella.

he looks like he’s hurting too. Can’t bounce back after those wild weekends like you use to when you were younger, Gerard. :))

He's dating someone @ 04/19/2012 at 2:54 pm

“I imagine it is Amy, his PA”
No it’s not. Amy has very blonde short hair. This one looks different.

@He’s not dating anyone.:
Your moniker tells me you’re jealous he might be dating someone and that’s why you use this negative moniker. Right now you have the same mentality as GFW. That’s nothing to be proud of.
How mant jealous women follow Gerard?

He's dating someone @ 04/19/2012 at 2:58 pm

@i think:
Yeah maybe he pulled a muscle and he is in pain. That could be why someone else is driving him. He usually drives himself when he is running errands in LA.

LoL…Look at his right arm…He grabbed, probably by accident,. the seatbelt and it looks so funny. I did it one time in the past and I fell down, right after this… LoL…

Is this Gerry with his famous brunette? Her outfit looks a little familiar, but I just can’t remember which one she is from this past weekend.
I hope this is not true, even if he doesn’t drink. Really, he doesn’t need to spend time in a bar, especially when he is in his hometown. I can understand if he hangs out in the neighborhood bar when on location, as he is trying to get to know some of the locals, but in LA, why?!/whoabeee/status/192766427080556544

@He’s dating someone: YOU, insulting someone else’s choice of moniker is very funny. You picked yours for the SOLE purpose baiting people. All you post about is what chicks Butler’s seen with. Newsflash….Butler gets around. We KNOW that. Let us know when he gets an exclusive GF or engaged/married. Anything else isn’t news….and clearly posted simply to get the nutters jealous. You seem to get off on it. Why?

STD check, Gerry?

GoodGrief @ 04/19/2012 at 3:21 pm

@Reviews: Is that pic also from Coachella? (Looks like it) Or from within the last couple days?

He's dating someone @ 04/19/2012 at 3:33 pm

“clearly posted simply to get the nutters jealous. You seem to get off on it. Why?”
Not really. But I do enjoy talking about his dating shenanigans more than other things regarding him because I know some of his friends, or people that know them. Last night I posted something regarding one of his friends and someone flagged it. I don’t know why? Seem some people don’t like it if you say anything positive about Gerry or his buddies. I have notices that many people posting here like only negative things about him.

He's dating someone @ 04/19/2012 at 3:34 pm

At least Ted Casablanca was being fair. I don’t think we have any proof he is doing anyhting he shouldn’t be.

That’s Coachella
It’s from here
roll down, you’ll see it.

@He’s dating someone: Well, now that we’re on the subject, there IS something I’ve noticed. No woman Butler’s with can win. If she’s pretty, she’ll get ripped apart for any number of reasons. If she’s average, she’s not good enough and he “can do better”…..
And, it’s mainly on JJ this happens. No other site is quite as insulting to his dates. Any chick who’s with him better not visit here…..or….she’d better have nerves of steel….

@He’s dating someone:
I hope so. I really do.
The DR stop must be for insurance purposes. It’s possible that because of the drug allegations Alan had to go to guarantee everything is alright. Alan is half the business so it’s his neck on the line too.

TheUglyTruth @ 04/19/2012 at 3:44 pm

Glad to see Ted C. gave my question top billing……. :)
But I’m not sure I buy his politically correct answer……

He's dating someone @ 04/19/2012 at 3:48 pm

I totally agree. You hit the nail right on the head.
lol maybe that’s why I like discussing it. It’s fun. Just as long as people don’t take it too seriously.

Amy does not have short hair, she seems to have been growing it longer over the past year or so, not short by my standards, maybe by every woman seems to have a weave standards in LA August 2011

I know I have seen a photo of her since then and it was even longer but its location and time frame escapes me, maybe OMAM set?

Well said. I have made the same evaluation about what’s going on here regarding the women he dates or is seen with.

The woman driving the car is not Amy C.

@He’s dating someone: Ted is just regurgitating what’s on every other gossip site. He doesn’t know anything.

Ocean view @ 04/19/2012 at 5:05 pm

So great to see him back in LA …he looks beautiful…looking forward to seeing PTF and OMAM!!!!

He's dating someone @ 04/19/2012 at 5:12 pm

Of course he doesn’t know anything, and I wasn’t implying he was. All I meant was he was at least not his usual snarky way with Gerry this time around when so many others are being shameful about the whisky and potty allegations. He sure sounds more rational than Prez Hilton, don’t you think?

Ocean view @ 04/19/2012 at 5:13 pm

Gerry s project schedule just announced ..First off it s Olympus Has Fallen , then Motorcity , then Brilliant.

TheUglyTruth @ 04/19/2012 at 5:27 pm

@Ocean view: Awesome! Where did you find this info??????

Ocean view @ 04/19/2012 at 5:31 pm

@TheUglyTruth: It s on the GBGals website but I got the link from WO

TheUglyTruth @ 04/19/2012 at 5:39 pm

@Ocean view: The first film doesn’t start filming until September. It would be nice to see him back at work before then…..

I’m not surprised to read he emerged from the car slowly. Gerry looks totally out of it in these photos. Check out his face and eyes in the thumbnails at the bottom. He looks very groggy. If you’ll notice, he’s even stepping out of the car with the seat beat still wrapped around his arm. No wonder Alan is having to open the car door for him, he’s not all there.

Olympus Has Fallen was brought forward to June to compete with the other White House terrorist flick. There were articles out a week or so ago.

#45: Some confirmed news, cool . . . sounds good! Hoping OHF turns out to be a good one. Really looking forward to seeing OMAM and PTF though, since those will be in theaters this year.

A message from Gerard to the fans through GALS
he wants the fans to know he’s “ok and really appreciates all the support” regarding his recent rehab.
C’mon people give him the benefit of the doubt. We don’t really know he is still doing drugs, and until we have proof I think we should chill the sling shots and the nasty mean remarks. He probably knows there are 2 camps – his supports, people that genuinely care about him, and the contingency that wants to see him fail and take great pleasure in that for various reasons. It’s not fair and people need to cool it. It’s OK to criticize but wait for concrete proof before you do, not irrational hearsay like sex in the porta potty.

I’m a fan of Gerard Butler and I think he has relapsed. No amount of lecturing from his other fans is going to stop me from posting my honest and heartfelt opinion.

Now home so want to say normally Ted would have shred him with a box cutter. Ted has softened, as well as Lainey being (from what I can tell) totally quiet on many things lately, because these folks use psychological, emotional and verbal abuse to gentle and kind man like Gerry, who clearly has some personal challenges. All I can say is shame on them.
Yet, I’m positive they feel some sense of regret within from years of press assault and abusive battery. A man can only take so much. Their casualty is this: a man with eyes holding a look of horror, empty pools.
He feels not good enough, can’t measure up, meet expectations, so why bother going with less than people or quick fix hook-ups.
He can’t be perfect, so he screws it up. He can’t get angry with them so he acts out. He emotionally abandons himself to survive. All primal responses to trauma is to survive.
You know when someone simply can’t be enough, they feel this unconscious drive to self-destruct like a strong tide that pulls them out to sea.
who prefers to be a life-jacket and raft, left oar rather than a Swiss Army knife ready to pop it

wahwahwahwahwahwah @ 04/19/2012 at 7:03 pm

@Reviews: For the one millionth time this is not a fan site this is not a court of law this is a “court” of opinion and gossip. If you don’t like the variety of opinions and gossip expressed here or anywhere, there is a solution. Don’t read it.

Express your differing opinions but lose the lecture. It tends to have the opposite effect.

“I’m a fan of Gerard Butler and I think he has relapsed”
But you don’t really know that for sure, right?

wahwahwahwahwahwah @ 04/19/2012 at 7:10 pm

@shamroc: As much as you know he hasn’t relapsed or what drove him into rehab – no more than anyone else beyond what the PR spin is.

Just kind of feel Gerry might feel, like I feel, it has hit its saturation point and he wants to reassure some of his fans who might be doing stuff other than posting on sites and pestering Alan or Admins, out of concern and worry, that is embarrassing him that he is facing the right direction.

I guess you didn’t notice that I wrote the words “I think” and “my opinion”.
By the way, no one knows he is clean “for sure”, either. We are all stating our opinions.

Now that’s what I call an irrational poster.
How is telling people not to jump on hearsay without proof as if it’s truth, not a rational thing to do?
I have news for you. This doesn’t need to be a court of law for you and your ilk to then tell the truth. The truth should be upheld anywhere, even on a gossip site. And for someone that values the truth above all else, I find your remarks on a daily basis really tasteless.
And let me remind you that I don’t need your bogus lectures either. I was the first one to tell others that not all posts are going to be worshiping GB. I am surely not promoting anyone worship him. All I am saying is that before you spread stories about the man let’s ascertain it’s true. Surly now, you would want to be treated with the same decency if it were you on the hot seat, no??? Something for you to think about, perhaps.

wahwahwahwahwahwah @ 04/19/2012 at 7:25 pm

Once again not tolerating opinions other than your own. Pot – kettle. You may rant all you want you won’t stop people from expressing their opinions or discussing the latest gossip. Just stating the obvious for those that need it stated. The comment was not addressing only you, you were just the last one lecturing. You need to chill. A lot of you truly overestimate the importance of this site.

British Cows @ 04/19/2012 at 7:32 pm

Wahwahwahwahwahwahs is the British cow Whatshedonenow.
Ignore her azz. She is an ugly old used and abused cow nut case. And don’t forget her teeth are also crooked and yellow. They don’t know anything about beauty over there. They are still living like they are in the 19th century in Britain. The only things they are good at is being gossipers, troublemakers, and instigators – even politically. No wonder they are responsible for so much sh!t on JJ.

PotMeetKettle @ 04/19/2012 at 7:33 pm

@Reviews: Oh, puleeeze. You are obsessed, and freak out if anyone says anything the least bit negative. You really should spend all your energy over at WO or Gals, where it’s encouraged.

The problem is you are not discussing the latest gossip. You are making accusations and statements that are totally not true, and taking cheap shots. Go back and re-read you pots if you can handle facing the truth, that is.

“I guess you didn’t notice that I wrote the words “I think” and “my opinion”.”
I just wanted to make sure you knew this is only your opinion.

“You are obsessed”
LOL! Look who’s talking about being obsessed. You are the only obsessed one here since you get annoyed when some of us with rational minds remind people like you to wait for proof before you attack, make accusations, spread the gossip as if it’s the unequivocal truth, and worse of all criticize him about something that is easily disprovable, it’s practically silly. Sorry, but you were the first one to jump on the porta- potty story and regard it as gospel, do you remember? I think it’s shameful and makes you look obsessed about wanting to see GB fail so that you don’t have to ever feel unhappy about your inability to have a chance with him. It’s as clear as day. And the only reason you are mad with me is because I expose your nonsense, which makes you look like the real vulture you are, and you can’t post your vitriol in peace.

“A lot of you truly overestimate the importance of this site.”
It’s no less important then any other site on the Internet. Everybody can read it from anywhere in the world.

@British Cows:

The following is a list of British “cows”‘

Jane Seymour (the actress)
Kate Winslet
Catherine Zeta-Jones
The late and great Dame Elizabeth Taylor
The legendary Scarlett O’Hara, Vivian Leigh

Just to name a few.

Stop with this silly stuff. If this is a gossip site, then gossip. I know thirteen year olds that act more mature.

British Cows is Reviews, and about 90% of the socks, as well. So obvious.

Maybe Gerry needs one of those conference calls things where people can ask him selected questions like in days of yore? Get a bonding session with seasoned fans and Admins regarding his backsliding? Rejuvenate them? Dunno, something could be done for his waning fan-base?

wahwahwahwahwahwah @ 04/19/2012 at 9:11 pm

@Reviews: You are funny you think every single poster who disagrees with you is one poster? No wonder you were not making much sense.
@Duh: Okay that explains a lot.

did you know @ 04/19/2012 at 9:12 pm

Most of the socking here is done by either Eve or Manny, although I don’t think the cows is one of them.

did you know @ 04/19/2012 at 9:21 pm

PotMeetKettle = wahwahwahwahwahwah = Whatshedonenow
She always talks about Pots & kettle – so obvious.

radarlove @ 04/19/2012 at 9:23 pm

Speaking of the drop dead gorgeous Catherine Zeta Jones, tonight is another screening of Playing the Field in LA. After the latest set of reshoots. Pretty quick edit. Hope we hear something tonight.

If it doesn’t go well then what?

The Noise in The Walls @ 04/19/2012 at 9:36 pm

Good to see you out and about!! :)..I pray that you are well :)..Probably a check with the Dr..especially with all the upcoming projects :)..I hope so..anyway…Best to you…!! Keep on..keeping..on dude :)

@did you know:
Hi GFW… Or should we call you Seasoned Fan… Or Manny=Beth… Or Manny=oh please…
You must think everyone here is stupid Kathy…

Reviews=oldbutnotdead @ 04/19/2012 at 10:02 pm

Reviews is Oldbutnotdead at WO.
Didn’t she get caught socking over here and left?

You don’t like the points I make so now you accuse me of socking. After all you can’t fight with rational thinking, can you? Obsession is a sickness that affects the mind. That’s why I don’t take you too seriously, especially when you accuse me of being OBND. Way too funny.
LOL, and let’s guess who you are behind your sock. A sock calling someone else a sock. Talk about pots and pans…..

justsayin'too @ 04/19/2012 at 10:44 pm

of all things, why did JJ have to have him going into a medical building. The STD jokes are gonna happen, but now the Huffington Post has an article in it’s weird news about the port-a pottie. The paps are going to try to catch him in ANY situation they can that they can spin into something outrageous. This is how Lindsey Lohans decline began in the press. Come on Butler, I believe you are a smart man and can turn this thing around.

did you know @ 04/19/2012 at 11:24 pm


AzianFlower @ 04/19/2012 at 11:58 pm

ew all the brits you mentioned are pear-shaped…the ‘dumpiest’ body type that no one wants: men, women NO ONE.
yuck! jennifer love heweiitt looks like she walks around with a dirty nappy – yuck yuck yuckkkkkie

A Friend.... @ 04/20/2012 at 12:00 am

He may be relapsing into partying and stupid behavior … but I can tell you he is not drinking and hasn’t in years.

DARGABRIEL @ 04/20/2012 at 12:00 am

I will say, Mr. Butler is simply going to medical building for insurance purposes only. Stay happy please Gerard, please be strong. CHOLITA thank you so very much for your powerful post, Bobby is in much pain, I know I’m his prescription to feeling better, he tells me he earned his pain, I really don’t think he should suffer for my essence. This madness makes me want to push back harder. I wish everything could be positive and loving. Universal power is being misused, I feel. To be set free would be grand,you feel me? Poor Bobby, but this man is tuff and beautiful. I wished Mr. Butler would find a great lady soon. Cholita I know you’re aware of much universal, I certainly hope GB stays strong through life’s tests and really hope he doesn’t lose it. I love you with my flaming heart, peace and light. Forever, dargabriel

Seeing Doc for DyckWarts Mayb? @ 04/20/2012 at 12:02 am

Ew is he seeing his doctor after being with a p0rno star??
Really gross and Nasty nasty –
After rolling around with Lilo? Coachella porto potty hookup?
Did you know SYPHILLIS is on the rise again?
His peepy has seen the insides of more mouths than we can probably count.

Seeing Doc for DyckWarts Mayb? @ 04/20/2012 at 12:04 am

I used to loathe oldbutshouldbedead on here. she used to start more fights on this board than anyone. a true psychofan.

DARGABRIEL @ 04/20/2012 at 12:22 am

My gosh ppl he is protected and just great.

Can'tGetEnough @ 04/20/2012 at 1:01 am

Short video of GB getting out of the car, basically what you see in the pics above. Not very good quality!

Was Gerard ‘seeing’ the fitness girl Alisa when he made those comments to the press about wanting a woman who he can throw around or something like that?? I forget the exact words but it was going back awhile and i remember we hashed it out on here. Any GALS or WO stalkers on here remember?
Hearing about Gerard in the porto potty and getting head from a girl in one is just gross.

Interesting! @ 04/20/2012 at 1:08 am

what do you mean “a woman who he can throw around”?
As in skinny?

The video from today. He doesn’t seem in pain, but who knows for sure?
Maybe he had someone drop him off so that he and Alan can continue in one car later on. Or, maybe whoever it was drove to find parking while Gerry went in with Alan.

malibumillie @ 04/20/2012 at 3:28 am

@Can’tGetEnough: Someone else filming the cute Irish guy from TMZ trying to get a comment from Gerry. Sounds like GB didn’t bite so no TMZ segment most likely. Kardashian for Mayor? Yikes.

Irish Gal loves Italian Guy @ 04/20/2012 at 4:23 am

Is Gerard still seeing Jenae? or did he call the whole thing off?

Doctor Doolittle @ 04/20/2012 at 8:36 am

@DARGABRIEL: I think Cholita’s post is missing…er…can’t find it

Nothing new @ 04/20/2012 at 9:22 am

@Well…: Gerry says what is of the moment. He changes his enthusiasm and interests with the wind. Like his women. This type of person indirectly like to keep people guessing and that way the focus is on them. Foot in mouth?including other stuff. Usually. But with his looks and profession, he comes across lovable.

Wearing athletic pants and a button down collared shirt? Is he 10? Must have not consulted his ladies for his fashion sense. Probably too stubborn. Scorpio men are sizzle and stubborn.

Whatshedonenow @ 04/20/2012 at 9:49 am

PotMeetKettle = wahwahwahwahwahwah = Whatshedonenow
She always talks about Pots & kettle – so obvious.

I have no need to sock. I go under one moniker. Unlike the few- and you know who – gerry zealots, who   feel the need to sock to make racist, ignorant, ridiculously naive and immature comments in their feeble, simple minded attempt  to attack posters  who  disagrees with them about their deity.

Morning JJers! Happy happy Friday. Can you smell the weekend in the air???
Just a giggle I saw this morning…
BTW JJers, if you see anyone using the “[moniker]=[moniker]” 99.99% of the time it is GFW trying to stir the pot. Know she is irritated by the neg thumbs and wants to try and turn the board on it’s ear.
I wouldn’t even bother replying unless you want to say “Hi” and wave to GFW…
In other news…….. I am absolutely loving the spring blossoms and plan to spend most of tomorrow in the garden, YIPPEE!!! Just love the smell of spring. ♥
That just made me laugh, I’m picturing Butler trying to putter around a garden… with skantilly clad models that is…………… oh nevermind, something would get plowed, it just wouldn’t be the ground… oh well…

Did he ever date this one? @ 04/20/2012 at 11:43 am

nice & quiet on JJ so Kola Boof is playing her celeb cards on Twitter again

You ******* WISH you could get Gerard Butler & Djimon Hounsou…I’ve had them. They both claim I’m beautiful. @SagalEmpress: @IAmInvalid

Clearly two men who are not as fussy as most in Hollywood. Kimora looks better now though after losing weight/surgery.

To everyone out there we should all be concerned. I hope it’s not true that he came out of the dr’s office with a. l.oad of prescriptions. I. Am concerned

PsychoB is LittleRedMorphette on IMDb.
Ill-effective here, she’s moved back to scold anyone holding on by a gossamer’s thread with her dismal contagion that Gerry’s at death’s door instead of believe he is enabled with enough will-power, spiritual hunger and self-control his handle life as he sees fit, whether we like it or not.

Yeah, like he’d be holding them in his hand? Right. Contagion, nothing more. That he’s on the road to ruin, knowing not what he’s doing as pronounced by jealous emotional, psychological, verbals on-line abusers.

Ted wasn’t full of his usual snark because he, like Lainey and others, see what they’ve said for so very, very has taken its toll and are welled with shame, as they should be. Also enough is enough and all that does not sell their copy or bring hits to their sites. Not to mention, only the most heartless and base humans would emotionally abuse a man when he is in recovery.

#1 – you have to have a soul to have a conscience both of which Laimey and Terd C have proven they don’t have; and

#2 – Neither Laimey or Terd C give a flying eff how poor little Butler is feeling.

DARGABRIEL @ 04/20/2012 at 1:33 pm

@Doctor Doolittle: she’ll post again, hopefully today. Weird stiff happens to ppls posts on this place. Anywys have a great weekend. Love, dargariel

British Cows @ 04/20/2012 at 1:38 pm

are posting again about how they have been such good cows and how they don’t deserve to be singled out for their hatred. British, they hate everyone. Didn’t they hate the Irish and the Scots for centuries? It’s payback time.

Just stop! @ 04/20/2012 at 1:47 pm

“To everyone out there we should all be concerned. I hope it’s not true that he came out of the dr’s office with a. l.oad of prescriptions. I. Am concerned”
Fact – Paper prescriptions aren’t necessary anymore and too easily misinterpretated. If he needed any medications for anything, they’re called directly to the pharmacy from the office and delivered discretely to your door.

Just stop! @ 04/20/2012 at 1:49 pm

@British Cows:

What is wrong with you? Nevermind. Who the eff cares!

Just stop! @ 04/20/2012 at 1:55 pm

I don’t think there’s such a word as “misinterpretated” but again, who the eff cares!

God’s speed Gerry. Don’t give in to anxiety.

Just stop! @ 04/20/2012 at 4:50 pm

@Manny: You say both Ted C and Lainey have no soul. I agree. However, I’ve heard you side with Lainey and laugh at her mean spirited blather. What does that make you?

@Just stop!:
Someone with a sense of humor! :)))

Just stop! @ 04/20/2012 at 5:22 pm


Wrong answer! It makes you no better. Stop being a hypocrite.
Guesses on more than one site has person 1 as Butler, person 2 as Aniston and person 3 as Jolie.

Seasoned fan.. @ 04/20/2012 at 5:41 pm

I am not GFW.
Ted & Lainey were never funny.
Check your soul.

I heard he is getting those STD’S burned off! o_O

Irish Gal loves Italian Guy @ 04/20/2012 at 5:52 pm

Ew! Like warts?? He is getting warts burned off???
Where did you hear this???
And yes, I do think he did Kola Boof years ago maybe she was attractive when she was younger?? No idea. But she admitted being Osama Bin Laden’s mistress = trash upon trash.

Brit Cows @ 04/20/2012 at 5:54 pm

wish their Gerard would look at them – but NO.
He prefers tight and lean LA women with long long legs and washboard bellies and white teeth. You can tell! I plan to be next.
Too bad Brits!

Katherine Hynes‏
SPOTTED: Actor Gerald Butler at CVS. I’m sure his ears r still ringing w/my screeching @ my daughter “STOP STARING ! STOP STARING!”.
1:40 PM – 20

@Seasoned fan..:
Hi GFW… *waves*
As for Laimey and Terd, Terd has never been amusing but every once in a while Laimey makes me giggle like MichaelK at Dlisted.
As for “Just Stop” – Hi Sweet! *waves*

CVS is a pharmacy.

GettinghisValtrex... @ 04/20/2012 at 6:44 pm

…but who’s name is it actually filled under? Celebs use fake names for embarrassing prescriptions…..

Yes cvs has a pharmacy,no doubt to pickup medicine.

The soul is the internal being of a person. Eyes are the windows to the soul. Here lately his look like he has the DND button on.
No Manny, A seasoned fan is not me but a long-time reader “ACR”. I sign. I do. Other than calling you out as a psychopathic sociopath on the other thread, quite obviously too, because you always fail to fight for yourself -the double you- giving it away. I’ve no idea who the last poster is you claim I am? I think you may have a hate fan club? I’m simply just not here as much as you (like) to think I am posing in spurts (blushes). Have a nice night.
As for Gerry? Hope he gets back peak health soon! Meds at CVS? LOL I love ‘seeing’ him doing normal stuff like that! I do. (sigh) He’s an old soul.

LMAO… So now you are recruiting your two readers……… I can’t stop laughing…

CVS is a popular and discreet pharmacy all over LA and the US. They are famed for their discretion and speed with which they can fill a prescription because they are able to keep such huge huge stock of medications – never have to ‘send out’ for them.
I so wonder what he was picking up…

BTW GFW…. You socked as Beth=Manny one the end of one thread and then forgot to change your moniker and posted as Beth=Manny and signed it on the next…….

British Cows @ 04/20/2012 at 7:13 pm

@Brit Cows:
I second that.

“He prefers tight and lean LA women with long long legs and washboard bellies and white teeth. ”


The morning after pill???

I think I must have missed this. Anyone who has a link to this interview or whatever it was? Would love to read it. ;)

Just Stop” is not “Sweet” in case you want to know that.

“Was Gerard ‘seeing’ the fitness girl Alisa when he made those comments to the press about wanting a woman who he can throw around or something like that?? I forget the exact words but it was going back awhile and i remember we hashed it out on here. Any GALS or WO stalkers on here remember?”
What interview it is from? when did he say that? Can you elaborate?

just a thought @ 04/20/2012 at 7:23 pm

In a way I would rather he was picking up Valtrex at CVS. I hope he hasn’t talked a doctor into giving him more pain meds. If he’s off the wagon, he’s going to start making up injuries to get doctors to give him more opiates.

Have a nice night.

Think (for the hearing impaired and obtuse) I said that! Have a nice night. Please, find someone else to litter the forum with your “talk to me no matter what” B.S. okay? Have a nice night.
who thinks you’re jealous a reader (a male by the way) is here to support me, huh? (beaming) *waves* to ACR :o) who, btw, really knows stuff (shhh… tell no one)

No? Really? ;o) LOL (now, rubs chin… for what for?) [read: none of our business]

It seems that our dear Gerry has lost some fans. At least here on JJ. If this had been a year ago there would have been MUCH more posts by now. The damage has been done I guess. I think a lot of GB fans had a rude awakening this year. They’ve seen what the real Gerard Butler is like and things will never be quite the same again. To year after year hear rumours about his antics is one thing, to get them confirmed is another. The spell has been broken.

And he couldn’t be happier I suspect? It’s a spell he cast for to grant so many their fantasy. Heartbreaks change us all, him too.
A stretch of a question for a bitter fan I know, but do you ever think some of this is due to things beyond his control?
Think this is why Ted, et al. are backing off. I do.
I’m just glad he’s wise enough to stay connected to his soul and its own words, and those who’ve gotten close enough to know it.
He can be as scared as the rest of us. Mortality. Work. Image. Pressure. Aging. Soul convictions.
You mean the spell others placed upon him for to numb them from moving on with their lives? Oh, he figured that out years ago!
He knows he became their shot of heroin for immense pleasure and numbing.Their emotional satisfaction takes place in the world of fantasy.
~K, fascinating who thinks his new book should be called “Diving Into The Wreck”

To gfw, it is our business if we want gerry to be well mentallyically. and physically.

@Heads Up:
Who is it then? GFW socking again?

bystander @ 04/20/2012 at 8:17 pm

Unlike the pictures chosen by JJ the video of this visit didn’t to me show Gerry looking unsteady or vacant. I think he looks more well rested and fresh faced than usual.
The fact that he’s accompanied by Alan and driven by another however means it wasn’t a run of the mill appointment. I hope this is a positive sign.

@GFW: No one is forcing him to f/ck around like a rabbit! He was addicted to painkillers because without them he couldn’t f/ck. He could only do one position and he hated that. F/cking is his number one priority. It starts there and it ends there. If it’s anything he’s addicted to it’s sex. That’s where he should start. He wouldn’t even have had to deal with the pain med addiction if it wasn’t for his unnatural obsession with sex.

May God Bless yoou all! @ 04/20/2012 at 8:50 pm

“In everything we have won more than a victory because of Christ who loves us.” Romans 8:37

Waxy Moon @ 04/20/2012 at 9:07 pm

Nothing wrong with loving s/ex. It’s the absolute non monogamy that makes it sad. S/ex with a person u care about is a whole lot better.

The worst thing he ever did was move to the u.s.

You’ve corrupted one too many stars of ours.

Whatshedonenow @ 04/20/2012 at 9:37 pm

If that Coachella rumour is true my estimation of Angelina  Jolie has just gone stratospheric.  Again if that bit of gossip is true, and only if it’s true, why are some men – and I stress some men – so disparaging and cruel about women who they have been intimate with, it’s disgusting. They should be grateful any women would allow them anywhere near their private bits and pieces, particularly men with that kind of pathetic attitude.

TheUglyTruth @ 04/20/2012 at 9:42 pm

Ewww….Kola’s bragging about her starf/uuking again. If Butler actually told her she’s beautiful…I question his sanity. How COULD he have even gotten an e/rection for that BEAST of a woman? Seriously…..

@Waxy Moon: I agree with what you say. What I meant was his promiscuous lifestyle, the sleeping around with different women, never having a real girlfriend and so on. It’s seems that it’s always about the g/enitals and never about the woman.

gerry come back @ 04/20/2012 at 10:03 pm

god, he used to be so hot a few yrs ago

British Cows @ 04/20/2012 at 11:00 pm

“why are some men – and I stress some men – so disparaging and cruel about women who they have been intimate with, it’s disgusting. They should be grateful any women would allow them anywhere near their private bits and pieces, ”
Dummy! I hate to burst you bubble but someone has to – the stupidest person on the board. It’s not men that should be grateful. On the contrary, it’s women that should be grateful a man chooses her and not another woman, and especially if it’s a famous, hot, rich, sexy man doing the choosing. He is doing the woman a favor, not the other way around. So if she showed him some respect and appreciation, and not open her big filthy mouth nagging and yapping or acting like she is worth more than she is, maybe the man wouldn’t discard her as fast. But in your case, you should not only be grateful, you should worship a man that wants to fuuck you, as you have nothing to offer – not looks, brains, or personality. You have 0 assets, so why would any man want you, let alone a man that has a lot going for him? So take your damn private bits and pieces and go to a nunnery because you don’t have a prayer in Hell you stupid stalker.

British Cows @ 04/20/2012 at 11:11 pm

I heard you’re one of the British Cows too, but what you said was right on. There is still hope for you yet. “If Butler actually told her she’s beautiful…I question his sanity. How COULD he have even gotten an e/rection for that BEAST of a woman? Seriously…..”
I am with you on that one. If that’s his taste he is crazy, not just lacking good taste. Carry on……

he looks less greasy than usual. Must be right after the weekly shower.

TheUglyTruth @ 04/20/2012 at 11:29 pm

@British Cows: Why would anyone think I’m British? Because a few of the posters I concur with on certain issues are British? Weird. I’m Swedish, actually (but live in North America. I’ve stated this more than once). A size 4/6 (not a cow, sorry!) and my teeth? Very white!

TheUglyTruth @ 04/20/2012 at 11:30 pm

@British Cows: Oh…you’re “Whats Up” or something similar. I remember you…..

Whatshedonenow @ 04/20/2012 at 11:40 pm


Nah. From your post. I definately think I’m on the right track.

British Cows @ 04/20/2012 at 11:59 pm

I am not the other poster you mentioned. I copied some of his/her concepts. That poster referred to the British posters in some derogatory way and I just picked up on it. I think there is another person who picked up on my stuff too lol. I guess the British posters are not as popular as they think they are. But I was surprised by Bystander’s moment of lucidity tonight. She actually made sense and had a good post.
Did you use to be “So Swedish”?

British Cows @ 04/21/2012 at 12:00 am

I am not the other poster you mentioned. I copied some of his/her concepts. That poster referred to the British posters in some derogatory way and I just picked up on it. I think there is another person who picked up on my stuff too lol. I guess the British posters are not as popular as they think they are. But I was surprised by Bystander’s moment of lucidity tonight. She actually made sense and had a good post.
Did you use to be “So Swedish”?

He's dating someone @ 04/21/2012 at 12:08 am
“This B+/A- list actor was overheard talking about his womanizing ways at Coachella. After sneaking drinks all night, he revealed that one of his solid A list co-stars was horrible in bed and he had to imagine she was another one of his co-stars who wouldn’t put out… “I’ve been with fat b*tches, ugly b*tches and drunk b*tches, but she was the worst lay! I had to flip her over and think of (former co-star #2)!” [Hollywood Dame]

Womanizing Actor:
Bad in Bed Co-Star:
Co-Star #2:
Womanizing Actor: Gerard Butler
Bad in Bed Co-Star: Jennifer Aniston
Co-Star #2: Kathryn Heigl

Butler seems the type & Aniston seems like she wouldn’t be any good in the sack. I can’t stand Heigl, but she is hot and wouldn’t put out.
This is hilarious. Someone else posted it earlier today but I just had to repost it. It is just like Gerard’s speech too. I heard he talks like that. He is very derogatory towards women and gays. A major womanizer.

TheUglyTruth @ 04/21/2012 at 12:13 am

@British Cows: No. I’ve only been posting here a few weeks…. :)

TheUglyTruth @ 04/21/2012 at 12:17 am

@He’s dating someone: More people, and even a second website, guessed that woman # 2 was Jolie. She’s more his type than Heigl, no?

As I said many many moons ago… Any damp hole will do. :P

He's dating someone @ 04/21/2012 at 12:54 am

Jolie makes sense as she is indeed his type. However, Jolie was almost 10 years ago, do you think he is still obsessing over not having her still, 10 years later? Maybe!!!! He is a Scorpio and they obsess over everything for years later, especially if they wanted something and couldn’t have it. But aside from his Scorpio ways, Heigl might be more in line because she was much more recent and he runs into her around his neighborhood at Los Feliz at least once or twice a month. So if he was thinking about a woman he couldn’t have, it could be her. Also, she was just right before JA so if he had to compare JA to a woman he was really curious about , maybe it could be Heigl as she was only a few months/year before JA.
I don’t believe he had sex in the porta-potty, but this type of speech I believe could have come out of his mouth. It sounds like things I heard regarding him.
That said, let’s remember this is only gossip and we have no proof this is true. Yet, it sounds awfully like something he would say. Either way, it’s a hilarious blind. These crazy Hollywooders, eh?

Sadly, I find this blind totally believable. He’s a tool, and Aniston probably didn’t want to mess up her hair. Bet they were done in 20 seconds.

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TheUglyTruth @ 04/21/2012 at 1:12 am

@He’s dating someone: The co-star who wouldn’t put out could be several women, actually. He still bumps into Jolie at functions and maybe that reminds him of what he couldn’t have?
Heck….I’m STRAIGHT and I’d do her if she’d let me! I can totally see him still lusting after her. But…I don’t think he obsesses. He was just bragging to show off for whoever he was talking to at Coachella….and talk of Jolie impresses most, I’d say.

He's dating someone @ 04/21/2012 at 1:37 am

Heck….I’m STRAIGHT and I’d do her if she’d let me!
LOL! Yeah she is hot but i wouldn’t do her. Too many bugs. But I think your assessment might be quite accurate. Still lusting over Jolie could be right. He is such a character.

Well, since there is no fresh news, let’s post other things.
He didn’t look so good in this interview. Look at his eyes – they look tired and puffy, if not overly dilated. I remember when I first saw this interview I thought he looked so weird. He definitely wasn’t alright then. We thought he was too skinny, but I think it’s the effects of the drug addiction’s look. I can’t believe he let himself sink into addiction again. Thank God he doesn’t look like that now. He looks much better. Here’s hoping the drug addiction is truly behind him.
Hey, maybe he was talking about Jessica Biel and not JA???? She comes off cold too.
I have a question and hoping somebody can answer this. Having a bit of a hard time understanding how Hollywood works. I understand that Gerry hates the paparazzi and frankely I don’t know how he stands the constant intrusion on his life,[ then again, is he ever in the his home?]. BUT, the youtube above with him going to the doctor or wherever, there is a camera truck or at least it looks like something out of the side of the van, Alan is by it when the video starts and seems he wouldn’t mind holding Gerry back to give them a chance for some more pictures. Question is and sorry it takes me so long to get to the point…How did the paparazzi know he was there? How do they know his every move? Does somebody like Alan call them or are there so many paparazzi in Hollywood that they just appear on every corner? I mean this place looks like its an alley way. So how do they know?

Two handlers + one doctor = one rectal exam in Butlergebra,

The circumference of his Coriolanus, however, still = direct to DVD.

If Gerrypi = 12 Thai hookers and a full release ball waxing, how much Oxycontin must he take to stop the burning?

Quiz on Wednesday.

bystander @ 04/21/2012 at 3:59 am

I’m sure there could be other Coachella candidates for this blind, although I suspect Gerry could talk very misogynisitcally about women. But since when has JA been solid A list? On that scale Gerry would rank higher than A-/B+, lol.

I really like the way he looked here – nice hair.
This was only 4 months before the Malibu interview. Maybe he wasn’t drugging yet.

He’s getting his porta-potty body checked out. His peen’s burning and he needs to renew his Valtrex prescription. He can’t drive himself because he’s got more than 12 pts on his license and a DUI that hasn’t been revealed to the public yet. Come on, has anyone seen him driving since his rehab? You fangirls don’t know the half of what’s going on with Gerry.

“I’m sure there could be other Coachella candidates for this blind, although I suspect Gerry could talk very misogynisitcally about women.’
Yup, this could be anybody or no one at all. Just made up sh!t. Who’s really to know? That’s why it really shouldn’t be taken seriously. But either way, Gerry is a womanizer. I don’t think most people can refute that and womanizers are usually misogynists, so I can definitely see him talking like that. But he is no different than any other misogynist I know, and I know a lot of them. Sigh.

OHHH geez.
Ladies: I hate to burst your fun time…but this is NOT your GERARD.
And I am NOT a fan of his, just have to stop it before it gets more ridiculous.
It’s NOT GERARD BUTLER in the blind.

Pink Tank and Penis @ 04/21/2012 at 4:39 am

The male star is younger than Gerard.

Really..... @ 04/21/2012 at 4:44 am

Then who is it, how would you know, and why would you care if you’re not a fan of his?

Meds for Dyckwarts @ 04/21/2012 at 4:47 am

Funny how every page is covered with Hidden messages.
You people are your own worst enemies.

bystander @ 04/21/2012 at 4:49 am

@He’s dating someone: post 159: even I, a supposed ‘hater’ (athough I still maintain I’m just realistic, considering every post or news item on its own merit) can see the flaws in your argument.
Alan, his long time friend, manager, business partner and damage limitation guy is gay. So not anti gay!
I still suspect Gerry sees women as falling into two distinct camps- those who are usable/f*ckable/expendable, and those who are on a pedastel,worthy of respect such as his mother, those who he admires professionally and personally.
Not sure where his loyal middle aged fans would fit. Maybe ‘usable’?

TheUglyTruth @ 04/21/2012 at 6:02 am

I’m pretty sure the blind IS about Butler (although, of course, one can never be 100% certain) The key words for me? “womanizer” (because DUH) and “sneaking drinks” (because of his known alcoholism). I wouldn’t concern myself over the A-list, B-list labels. That’s relative and a matter of a blogger’s opinion….

He was a whole lot more handsome and much more talented before he went to the u.s.

No offence to anyone but when our stars go to the other side of the pond.. they come back all exploited. He’ll become half his worth when the paps are done with him.

Ocean view @ 04/21/2012 at 6:30 am

I love the video of him talking -because we can’t hear him it s even more obvious how animated and energetic he is when he s talking!!! Looks great !

Yellow Peen @ 04/21/2012 at 6:54 am

No…it’s not him. We know who it is.

TheUglyTruth @ 04/21/2012 at 7:18 am

@Yellow Peen: Then why don’t you correct me and tell us who you think it is???????????????????

GerrickKennedy from twitter @ 04/21/2012 at 7:51 am

That awkward moment when you spot a fresh outta rehab celeb hammered in VIP @ coachella

@GerrickKennedy from twitter:
That’s interesting. Gerrick Kennedy works for the LA Times.

@M – Uk:

It’s not like we forced any uk celebrity to move to the u.s. They did it out of their own free will and because the WANTED to move here.

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I think it was Jared Leto, myself. He’s a notorious womanizer. Not sure who the women are, but he was flirting like mad with Scarlett Johannsen back when she was married, so perhaps she’s who he was pretending the bad lay was?
Any other opinions?
By the way, the reason that I don’t think it is Gerard is because the quote said that the person had slept with fat ones, ugly ones and drunk ones – and Gerard may have slept with drunk ones, but everyone is extremely familiar with his penchant for skinny models. Just my opinion anyway.
I’m gonna post this at that other blog and see if anyone agrees….

TheUglyTruth @ 04/21/2012 at 10:33 am

@Uh..: But why would Jared Leto have to “sneak drinks”?? Is he suppose to be on the wagon or something?

Stupidisasstupidsays @ 04/21/2012 at 10:38 am

@He’s dating someone:
“He is very derogatory towards women and gays. ”
This comment proves how ignorant you are. His business partner, manager and long time friend, Alan, is very much gay.

I have no idea, but by the same token, that can be used to say it wasn’t Gerard – there were a heap of accounts published that said he was sober at Coachella. He’s already said that if he starts to drink he can’t stop at just a couple, and I’m pretty sure the tabloids would have picked up on it if he got smashed.
Look, I’m only trying to make a guess, and I just don’t think it was Gerard. I’m not saying I’m right – I’m just stating my opinion on things that have been reported previously. There is more than one womanizer in Hollywood – Gerard can’t claim that title all by himself, though it seems that every time a blind calls out a womanizer, it’s always Gerard that is guessed.
And I just found an article from 2007 where Jared claimed he was going teetotal to show fans that they didn’t need to get smashed to have a good time. Something about “being responsible rockers”. So if that’s true, he WOULD have to sneak drinks if he didn’t want to ruin his image.

Stupidisasstupidsays @ 04/21/2012 at 10:47 am

@Grey: The paps know the places where celebs frequent. There is also a photo of P. Diddy in that very same place. They just park in certain areas of the city, perhaps from a tip from someone within an establishment but usually celebs use fake names to make reservations and appointments. That “clinic” is probably Quest Diagnostics which is a company that works with insurance companies to get pre employement physicals and such for insurance clearances. I have a friend who works there. Celebs are common.

He was driving the Range Rover with his parents going to dinner recently. His Mum was in the front seat and his Dad and Ariel were in the backseat.
You say some pretty outrageous stuff! You should be ashamed but as my name implies……..

Just realised that I said I had no idea about why Jared would sneak drinks, and then I answered it at the end of my post – should have proof-read before posting! There was a five minute gap between paragraphs two and three where I thought I’d use my best friend, Mr Google. Sorry if that was confusing!

TheUglyTruth @ 04/21/2012 at 10:50 am

@Uh..: I actually thought it could be Jared, too…but I’m still leaning towards Butler. Several eyewitness accounts have him wasted at coachella. And the fat and ugly girl referrences could be from his more distant past….nowadays, he does seem to prefer slim, pretty women. BUT, then again…he has a rep for sleeping with anything…
Anyway, regardless of who said it….it was a crude, rude thing to say….

I absolutely agree – it shows a complete disrespect for women. Whoever said it needs to grow up and consider how they’d feel if other men were talking about their sisters or mother or girlfriend like that – I’m pretty sure they wouldn’t like it in the least! They need to understand that the women that they disrespect are sisters and daughters and partners to other men who would probably hunt them down, remove their test*cles with a blunt spoon and shove them down their throat if they ever found out this dude had disrespected a loved one like that. I know my Dad would, anyway!

Check out the photos of Bosworth and Theron on top of the page, plaid is IN, Butler is just a trendsetter.

@twitter: Way too coincidental. Sounds like a set up. Cannot trust twitter or the media. Gerry really pissed off someone.

Stupidisasstupidsays @ 04/21/2012 at 11:23 am

I don’t ever remember Gerry going to Coachella in the past. Since he admitted his stint in rehab, he should have passed it up this year for sure! No matter how good he might have been, nothing good will come out of it and people will make their ascertains. He probably was offered a vip invite and advised not to go and knowing Butler, that just made him more inclined to attend. If I was his PA/manager/PR and that invite or any, that I thought would not be good for him to attend showed up, I’d pitch it in the can. Sometimes you gotta take the bull by the horns!

Jared Leto was another womanizer at Coachella but he doesn’t need to sneak drinks.

@Uh..: No if you seen some of the chicks Gbuts been filmed chatting up, some of the older TMZ footage, he ain’t always about the skinny models.. Also what a misogynist man considers fat may not be what normal people consider fat. And then it would also exclude Jared Leto as a subject because I think he has higher standards than the Butler. Ah Jeannia has the secrets on both these dudes. And come to think about it Jared Leto has never been close to A list as an actor. He’s more well known for his band right now.

Stupidisasstupidsays @ 04/21/2012 at 11:47 am

@fashho: Why just because he’s seen “chatting up” a woman, he’s hitting on her? Just asking? If he came on to women as much as you think, wouldn’t there be tweets everywhere about it? I’ve heard of him getting phone numbers but I think it’s the old “Take her number and walk away” tactic he uses when a woman is hitting on him! Just something to appease. Women use this tactic to get rid of pesky hanger on males all the time!

Stupidisasstupidsays @ 04/21/2012 at 11:56 am

@fashho: I’ve known several truly misogynist males and trust me, GB is not misogynist. Misogynist males treat all females in a subservient and rude manner, even their own Mothers and sisters! Usually it’s because they have a misogynist male role model growing up. Men who are raised by single Mothers are usually very much the opposite.
I sometimes wonder how different GB would have been had his own father never come back in to this life, though. Seems thats when he started acting out crazy.
You’d be shocked at what a true misogynist thinks of women! You’d be disgusted and wouldn’t even feel safe around one!

justsayin'too @ 04/21/2012 at 11:59 am

I realize Alan is gay and married to his partner, but that did not keep Gerard from telling a tacky gay joke in one of his interviews. I can’t remember which one but I think it was a Jay Leno clip but I could be wrong. If anyone can remember, can you post the link? I was kind of surprised he would tell it in an interview, but I realize Scottish humor is very bawdy. I don’t think he is too discriminating in his sex partners. I think he likes the public to think he goes for tall, skinny model types but he said himself he likes to keep people guessing. We will probably be shocked with the person he settles down with IF that ever happens. I just hope he gets clean and healthy and gets back to doing some good films. For someone who says they want to keep their private life private, he makes it worse opening it up to all this speculation about porn stars and potty fuuks. As I said before, come on GB focus, focus, focus!!!!

@Stupidisasstupidsays: If I must state the obvious, I think it is indicative of what many people have stated here as an opinion over the years including the gossip columnists mentioned earlier on this thread, that Gerry hauls out the models for show but when he is horny any hole within reason will do. In fact that works for most men, let’s be real. I know though that the model types who are all out to grab of piece of the Butler get nauseous or they would if they ate food at the thought but hey, men have cheated on the most beautiful women in the world for $20 blowjob with a *****. See Grant, Hugh.

If he allowed the cameras to catch him “chatting up” these less than model looking chicks, imagine what he’s doing when the cameras are not around..This is the same guy who gets angry with paps if they catch anything he doesn’t want them to, why put out the effort getting phone numbers from slags if you are the one and only Gerard Butler.

And when you are under the influence of drugs, whether in his earlier life or lately your judgment is impaired. Also make sense if he is a sex addict which I am beginning to think he is. The definition of an addiction is when your habit starts to interfere with the normal function of your life. Hooking up with a big mouth reality star like Glanville really shows a severe lack of judgment.

Some people are saying sex addiction lead to the pain killer addiction. I think that’s a bit simplistic he does overdo it when it comes to getting ready for films and does seem injury prone. But if you have a sex addiction, you lose your standards if you had any to begin with. You don’t care at all about the person providing the relief, just the relief, like any junkie getting the high. Just my opinion. Mind you getting paid help is the easier way to ensure quality and satisfaction, right Mr. Sheen?

Well the day is young time to live it.

He's interesting @ 04/21/2012 at 12:52 pm

It’s always interesting to read the comments on here. Just for giggles and grins, I checked out the fan sites. WO is still gushing but I think they make their best comments in private chat. Butler’s Pantry is having an interesting discussion about whether or not his PR team wants this image for him to deflect gay rumors. The others are a bit quiet but still believing in their Butler. Love him, hate him or just find him fascinated, Gerard does spur a lot of discussion!

Stupidisasstupidsays @ 04/21/2012 at 1:09 pm

Hauls out the models? So Bianca was just for show? He dated her for two years. How about Laurie Cholewa? She is a TV personality. I’ve never seen him hauling out models just for show. I’ve never seen him with a model on his arm anywhere as arm candy. I’ve seen him around them and other people too.
And how do you know what he does when he’s “horney”? I think it’s a bit risky to run around picking up strange women to feed a sex addiction like Ducovney (sp) would do and even he was married.
Do you understand what an “addictive” personality involves? The addict becomes dependent upon their “drug of choice” to get through the day! Substance “abuse” is a lesser form of it, more of just a craving to get the “high” and I’m more inclined to believe GB falls in to that catagory. But addiction is a strong word.
I don’t think he “allows” cameras to catch him doing anything. He seems to have a rabid hatred of photogs. However, I’ve seen Gerry in photos with every woman he’s admitted to having a relationship with, Jeannia (at fashion week events and at a Broadway show), of course lots of him with Bianca, and Laurie walking around Paris, seen on holiday at a resort and on the set of MGP.
In fact, Jeannia was with him at some event a year or so back and I believe she was engaged/married and newly pregnant but just went so he’d have a date, or so I heard! Gerry couldn’t get a date? How shocking! He had to ask an old gf! Such a womanizing sex addict you’d think her beau/baby daddy would object! They’re still good friends. In fact, she was on the beach with him just about as pregnant as you can look while he was practicing his surfing.
I do believe anyone else he’s rumored to have been with is all speculation and just rumor.
Too, and this is just my speculation, during the time he was smoking again last year, supposedly hooked up with some unsavory women and doing pain killers like candy, Bianca was pregnant. I think he still carries a torch for her, but that’s just my take on it.
Jeannia was also pregnant at the time and he could have been feeling a bit like they were the ones who got away and poor Gerry! I think perhaps Jeannia is such a good friend to G that she sort of came along to support him for a while during that time. She may have had little Lolita too and since she was getting close to giving birth, brought her home. That’s what friends do.
Some of you people have very vivid imaginations and have got Gerry all wrong!
If ever he gives me a viable indication that he is at all what some of you say, I’ll drop him like a hot potato. But I won’t hang around this site and diss him. I won’t bother wasting anymore time on him. Until then, I’ll remain a supporter.

Stupidisasstupidsays @ 04/21/2012 at 1:11 pm

@fashho: My last post was directed at you. Sorry.

Stupidisasstupidsays @ 04/21/2012 at 1:16 pm

I would HATE being famous! Living life in a fish bowl would be maddening! I feel for him sometimes and hope he doesn’t let it get to him.

Can'tGetEnough @ 04/21/2012 at 1:31 pm

Good Afternoon JJers! Hope you’re all having a good weekend. GB sighting last night at STK Los Angeles:

Gerri ‏ @Gerri4Africa
Good seeing you last night @Gerard_Butler!!!! #STK #Hollywood

Whatshedonenow @ 04/21/2012 at 1:33 pm

I do think he’s a manwh*re. And I wouldn’t surprised if he is a sex addiction. Of course I could be wrong, but I doubt it. I’ve heard too many things about the guy to think that label is unfair. Also he has no problem putting himself in the firing line of the paps when he’s in dire need of some damage limitation PR. So I don’t think he has that much of a rabid hatered of the paps, and if he does that would make him a bit thick and a hypocrite.

Can'tGetEnough @ 04/21/2012 at 1:33 pm

And another courtesy of JJ himself:

Just Jared ‏
Sweaty Gerard Butler gym sighting for the week? Check.

He's dating someone @ 04/21/2012 at 2:02 pm

You didn’t understand me. I am not saying I think he is derogatory towards gays. I am saying I heard he is. Supposedly, he makes lots of jokes about women and gays. I heard from people that know some of his buddies. If it’s true or not, who knows? Also, if he is a misogynist who knows? There is gossip he is, and we assume he is because of his alleged womanizing, but again 100% proof we don’t have.
Regarding his manager, it’s true he is gay, but why would that stop Gerry from joking with his buddies and making funny gay comments? He has a mother too, does that stop him from womanizing or making misogynist comments? But again we don’t know if this is true, it’s just gossip. However, usually womanizing and misogyny go hand in hand, and that mindset also can’t relate very well to gay sex. It doesn’t mean he doesn’t like gays though. Gerry makes fun or jokes over everything so why not about sexual stuff as well?
Regarding the fuuckable and not fucckable, we heard that before. Supposedly he has 2 categories for women – those he thinks are pretty enough to fuuck, and those he thinks are not. However, his mother and other woman he respects are not part of this rating. The rating was something he and his buddies devised years ago for rating how hot/fuuckable a woman is. But a lot of men have these 2 mental categories in their head, they just don’t tell their woman. This is strictly part of male talk, discussed only with the buddies.
His fans are not part of these 2 categories either. I don’t think he messes with his real fans. These women look up to him and support him, he wouldn’t risk that. He might hook up here and there with young girls who get star struck when they see him, or women he meets at parties that have some involvement in show biz, and as long as they are not famous and look sexy, he will do them. His 2 main criteria are looking sexy and not being famous. The girl he was dancing dirty dancing with at Coachella is his perfect type of pick up, I think. She is a good example of what he likes. She is the type of woman that might interest him for a fling.

He's dating someone @ 04/21/2012 at 2:12 pm

“No if you seen some of the chicks Gbuts been filmed chatting up, some of the older TMZ footage, he ain’t always about the skinny models.. Also what a misogynist man considers fat may not be what normal people consider fat. ”
Yup! He had all kinds of women. I think he enjoys telling his buddies how he sampled everyhting lol. And what a misogynist man considers fat may not be what normal people consider fat – true.

He's dating someone @ 04/21/2012 at 2:21 pm

“Gerry hauls out the models for show but when he is horny any hole within reason will do. In fact that works for most men, let’s be real.”
I only agree with this statement. Everything else you said is purely speculation. We don’t really know what he does in private, but it’s rational to think that he doesn’t only fuucks impeccable looking women. That’s absurd. He fuucks all types within reason, as you say. But that leave Kola Boof, would he fuuck her? I don’t think she is within reason at all.

Can'tGetEnough @ 04/21/2012 at 2:26 pm

Zach Schwartz™  ‏ @soles2clean
We saw Gerard butler at the club Thursday night.! #almostforgot

Stupidisasstupidsays=Eve @ 04/21/2012 at 2:32 pm

Eve “the know it all” is back attacking everyone, thinking only she knows everything about the Butler. Everyone she doesn’t agree with she attacks. As of yet she hasn’t said one worthy thing. Stupidisasstupidsays, Eve.

trismac from twitter @ 04/21/2012 at 2:34 pm

totally forgot. i met gerard butler last night. he needs to take a shower and shave. he looked homeless. 1 day ago

Miriam - UK @ 04/21/2012 at 2:46 pm

Thats not what I said at all!!

It was entirely his decision of moving to the U.S but had he not made that obvious career-boosting move, the chances of seeing those depressing, pitiful pictures shown above would have been very slim! Seriously, look at these pictures he looks undeniably miserable. Like I said before he was a better actor and a lot more good looking when he was in U.K. The Hollywood lifestyle’s taken a toll on him for the worst (admittedly not where money’s considered). I think if he moved back here he could save his career, because at this rate all I can predict is a huge car crash. He’s not very sensible as it is (going to Coachella – where there’s cheap sex, drugs and alcohol on a silver platter isn’t the most wisest of moves for someone barely out of rehab), then there’s the paps who are just waiting for him to mess up big time.

This ‘Hollywood Lifestyle’ really makes my stomach turn,

British Cows @ 04/21/2012 at 3:01 pm

@Miriam – UK:
“Like I said before he was a better actor and a lot more good looking when he was in U.K.”
Or sure he was so much better looking when his teeth were crooked ……LMAO.
No, he looked much better as of a year ago than any time he was in the UK. The last year though wasn’t a good year for him financially. MGP lost big bucks and I think that took its toll on his nor only psychologically but physically as well.
In interview after interview he mentioned how the American lifestyle fits him well and that he and America are a good fit. But you Brits want him to stay a stage actor and do Shakespeare and British TV dramas and remain a starving artist forever. No, the man is a true capitalist in the strictest HW sense. It’s all about the money, not just the art. And if you can marry both of these together you have an even bigger winner. Why be in any business or have a career if you can’t make money doing it? British mindset makes no sense. He is exactly where he is supposed to be as an actor and as a person who likes the American lifestyle.
This is when he was doing a little bit better, about 2 years ago. Listen carefully to what he says.

British Cows @ 04/21/2012 at 3:05 pm

@Miriam – UK:
“Like I said before he was a better actor and a lot more good looking when he was in U.K.”
Or sure he was so much better looking when his teeth were crooked ……LMAO.
No, he looked much better as of a year ago than any time he was in the UK. The last year though wasn’t a good year for him financially. MGP lost big bucks and I think that took its toll on him not only psychologically but physically as well.
In interview after interview he mentioned how the American lifestyle fits him well and that he and America are a good fit. But you Brits want him to stay a stage actor and do Shakespeare and British TV dramas and remain a starving artist forever. No, the man is a true capitalist in the strictest HW sense. It’s all about the money, not just the art. And if you can marry both of these together you have an even bigger winner. Why be in any business or have a career if you can’t make money doing it? British mindset makes no sense. He is exactly where he is supposed to be as an actor, and as a person who likes the American lifestyle.

British Cows @ 04/21/2012 at 3:14 pm

sorry for the double post, I thought the first one didn’t make it. JJ is very slow to post for some reason.
Here is the interview follow up to that men’s journal interview. Gerry tells Jay Leno that some of the questions asked took him by surprise and he didn’t know how to answer them so the interviewer may have embellished d some of his answers. Gerry sounds to me like a person with more common sense than we give him credit for.. Most of us believe he is just a thoughtless brood.
This especially applies to the British cows that hammer him all the time.

Miriam - UK @ 04/21/2012 at 3:39 pm

Haha!!! Why be in any business or career if you can’t make money doing it? Are you having me on?! I’d rather be working in Mcdonald’s with minimum wage than be a celebrity earning millions of dollars if it made me an ounce more happier. Besides I didn’t say he should stop making movies in hollywood.

Look at James McAvoy he’s settled down, he’s happily married with a son, makes his odd movie here and there yet he’s still a very successful and talented actor, and i think living here in the U.K. has got him where he is. I just think if he was living mostly here this whole ‘Disgusting Cheap Love Rat’ reputation would have been avoided. And for the ‘He is exactly where he is supposed to be’ comment .. the picture above is more embarrassing than a mug shot of a police officer!
‘The American Lifestyle’ isn’t for him, it just cheapens everything about him not mentioning that he doesn’t look the least bit happy or healthy for that matter. He’s not going to admit that America doesn’t suit him well as that would cost him fans. We should ask him in 10 years time when he’s making low-budget television movies. That’s where he’s heading!

He's dating someone = Manny @ 04/21/2012 at 3:41 pm

And @Whatshedonenow: is PsychoB
And @British Cows: is Hags Central/LOL/Observations
Same old crap, different monikers!

Miriam - UK @ 04/21/2012 at 3:45 pm

Unfortunately my speakers aren’t working so I can’t watch those links!

She's back.... @ 04/21/2012 at 3:50 pm

@He’s dating someone = Manny:
and you are Eve.
Same old crap, different monikers!

@Miriam – UK:

He started all his bad behavior in Scotland long before he moved to the US.

He’s not become a citizen of the US and owns some land in the highlands where he says he wants to end up eventually. Nothing wrong with that.

She's back = Manny @ 04/21/2012 at 3:56 pm

Blah, blah blah! Whatever.

British Cows @ 04/21/2012 at 4:50 pm

@ Eve
Idiot you accuse me of socking because you either have crooked teeth yourself, or they have all fallen out by now. Is that why you hate it so much when I say having straight white teeth and a beautiful smile is a strong part of beauty? I mean why else do you think Butler fixed his smile? Crooked teeth are not accepted in the states, especially for a hot movie star; you should know that. In fact, anyone that can afford it has their teeth straightened and whitened if they need to. Stop living in the Stone Age with the rest of the Brits. They have no concept for beauty, which is why anyone that looks like he/she is half way decent is considered gorgeous in their book lol. And, cleanliness….not much going for them there either. Butler changed a lot since he moved to the States. He has totally embraced the lifestyle and the culture. It happens to many Brits. They come here and they never want to go back to the UK or Europe to live ever again. In fact, they can’t stand the mentality of the “old” country. America is all about the new and rebirth.

Miriam - UK @ 04/21/2012 at 5:04 pm

What a pathetic stereotype.. ‘All brits have bad teeth’. You don’t have anything better to say so you go off the subject. A typical Yank! Doesn’t want to listen to anyone elses opinion.

America is all about the new and rebirth and FATNESS! Yeah I didnt want to stoop to your level but there. And brits have no concept of beauty?? Even if that was true atleast we have a thing called class !!

from the us @ 04/21/2012 at 5:10 pm

@British Cows: OMG, you are delusional. I live in the US and have visited the UK many times. Fat people? Ever go to your local Wal-Mart? At malls in both the UK and Germany, I have never seen the number of out of shape women as in just one Wally World. It’s awful.

TheUglyTruth @ 04/21/2012 at 5:11 pm

Oh my. Do you guys know how ridiculous it looks that almost half the comments on this thread are hidden? Even a lot of unoffensive ones! So dumb. What are we, a bunch of feuding 3rd graders? Don’t people get that if a comment is hidden…it only makes other readers want to click on it to see what it is?

Whatshedonenow @ 04/21/2012 at 5:39 pm

There are amazing people and places  in both  the US and the UK. Oh and you  do realise that you are including GB’s mother when you continually rant on about how horrible we British women are. 

Have to say though,  when it comes to the HW lifestyle,  the  most successful and grounded foreign and American actors don’t spend much time wallowing in it. They do the work and business  get the h*ll
 out as quickly as possible, because they’re bright enough to know how toxic it is. 

In fact any sane person can see the HW partying lifestyle is something that should never be taken seriously or participated in for too long a time. So I guess Mr Butler’s faculties aren’t – perhaps – what they used to be. Maybe he’s just a bit barking.

socking101 @ 04/21/2012 at 5:39 pm

@He’s dating someone = Manny: Close, but British Cows, Stupidis, and He’s dating is not Manny, it’s all Reviews. No doubt about it. Can’t hide the writing style and formatting. 90% or more of the posts are all Reviews.

British Cows @ 04/21/2012 at 5:59 pm

@Miriam – UK:
The cows are coming, the cows are coming….oh, I mean the British are coming, the British are coming…. with their usual criticism of the “yanks”. You guys are so jealous of America it shows every time you disparage Gerard. You mock him for seeming to “live it” up in America. For having money, status, fame, and yes beautiful women that look hot and take care of themselves. You can’t stand all his success, you have to take him down a peg or two in order to put him back in his place. And God forbid if it goes too much to his head. When you disparage Gerard, you are really disparaging America through him. God forbid if someone was successful and made it on his own without needing Ol’ England to help him make it. There is a term for that when the Brits like to tear you down when you get too big or too successful. I don’t remember what it’s called, but they know what it is. I smoked you out; the true meaning of why you keep hammering him, as if you have something at stake in his demise. It’s as plain as day. If he fails, you can say America is no good. It all boils down to envy. America envy and beautiful women envy. Everything you can’t be.
BTW, I never see fat people in my Wal-Mart. Another typical British misnomer.

Oh,ComeOn! @ 04/21/2012 at 6:13 pm

I’m American….and can’t deny that there are A LOT of overweight people here. It’s a national epidemic. But it’s ridiculous to say fat people all shop at Walmart. They shop everywhere….just like anyone else.

May God Bless yoou all! @ 04/21/2012 at 7:24 pm

“Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows.” James 1:17

Miriam - UK @ 04/21/2012 at 7:49 pm

@British Cows

I don’t have anything against America, all I said was the ‘Hollywood Lifestyle’ corrupts anything even remotely innocent.

You talk about ‘Money, Status and Fame’ HA! I agree on the money.. American actors make more money than british actors, but where the fame and status is concerned the Americans have no respect for celebrities privacy they do all they can to taint their images. Most celebs there only become famous because of their vile behaviour, drug abuse, embarassing sexual antics and mostly because of false rumours cough-Lindsay Lohan-cough.
When theres nothing bad to say about any celeb thats the worst because that lets the filthy American paps think they can fabricate pathetic stories out of thin air just to make headlines. Even the majority (Not all, just the majority) of Gerard’s American fans want to see him crash and burn just to make them feel better about themselves and thats just pathetic. And saying that Gerard is “Living It” is so politically incorrect. If your idea of fun is binge drinking, snorting cocaine and having cheap, dirty, unprotected sex that just shows how shallow you are.

Anyway back to the subject… Gerard’s better of in the U.K. we appreciate him for his talent we dont live of his failure and if your going to go on a meaningless rant like the pathetic excuse of a human you are then you might aswell not reply.

And we dont have Wal-Marts in the U.K their just for fat people (joke)

@Miriam – UK: Not all Gerry’s fans in the US want to see him crash and burn. I first saw him in Attila and have been a fan since then. I will never believe all the trash that is said about him. Gerry is his own man who makes his own decisions in life. He chooses where he wants to live and work. I am not putting the UK down by any means because I have met some of the nicest people who post here from there. It is not the country that makes a person it is the person themselves.

Miriam - UK @ 04/21/2012 at 8:22 pm

I did specify the majority NOT ALL of his American fans .. And like I said before I have nothing against Americans the few handful I’ve met are splendid too and many of my friends are multicultural. I was simply talking about the Hollywood Lifestyle

@Miriam – UK: He knows the Hollywood lifestyle is not something you model yourself after. I also know you were not putting all American fans in the same boat. He is a very talented actor and a businessman. Please don’t sell him short because he works and lives in HW.
I have a question for you, how many movie offers that he has received resently have come from the UK. You go where the work takes you. I see your concern for him and I understand it. No one that really likes Gerry wants to see him fail in life or career.

Goodnight Miriam, thanks for the chat.

You people are all so stupid.
Gerard is laughing at you all.
British WOMEN are just as fat as our men and women are. So what does that say?
Gerard only goes for thin. Sorry, he does not do fat at all.
He prefers tall over short, thin over fat, lean over soft, legs over t*ts.
The proof is in the damn pudding. Are you people blind and stupid?
Maybe you are.
The blind item is not gerard though it sounds like him. The male star is YOUNGER.

Miriam - UK @ 04/21/2012 at 9:39 pm

I’m not selling him short Hollywood has already done that, gradually he will only be known for his “Bad Boy” reputation rather than his work.
For example the half-wit that commented before me is more concerned about who Gerard dates rather than Gerard himself, and sweety you know very well America’s notorious for its obesity. 33% of American adults are obese whereas the uk has 23% America has the highest number of obese people in the world so get your facts straight please.

Anyway I think its safe to say us Brits are more concerned about his well-being

British Cows @ 04/21/2012 at 10:02 pm

It’s obvious the Brits have succumbed to all kinds of notorious American stereotypes, which proves that deep down inside they don’t like Americans, and that mostly stems from their jealousy of America’s success. The nitwit that posted before me just unconsciously tipped her hand. Case closed.
Oh and BTW, even Gerard’s parents seem to like America; they live here at least 5 months out of the year. But of course they are not envious of America, and American success. They come here to share in it, not ridicule it.

Tiresome troll @ 04/21/2012 at 10:12 pm

@StFU: Either state your case or shut your trap. Cough up some proof who this blind is about, or crawl back under your bridge and stop insulting people. You don’t know anything more than any other poster here.

Power of the Thumb @ 04/21/2012 at 10:17 pm

Children Ignore British Cows she loves stirring you up, you are taking the bait it is not even worth arguing her ridiculous premise, why give it that much credence, making this thread more silly than usual.

Use the power of the thumb. It has worked in the past. Once British Cow who is likely a very frustrated American Cow doesn’t get attention she’ll stop or at least seek it in yet another fashion. Yes some people really need to get a more enriched life.

Miriam - UK @ 04/21/2012 at 10:46 pm

Oh Just grow up will you? It’s all about opinions just because you dont agree with something you don’t have to start a pathetic, meaningless rant. Stop looking for arguments you silly child your acting as if you just discovered the internet, just jog on.

Miriam - UK @ 04/21/2012 at 10:48 pm

Oh I do apologize that was aimed at the American Cow

Can'tGetEnough @ 04/21/2012 at 11:02 pm

Photo and short article here:
Gerard Butler braved the freezing cold and headed to the GenArt MUSE afterparty during the Coachella Valley Music and Arts Festival in Indio, Calif. – and he had artistic ambitions.

Arriving at the Ciroc vodka-sponsored soiree with a group of pals, the actor excitedly jumped at the opportunity to contribute to the Paul Frank mural that featured many intricate designs by other various partygoers. He painted a portion of the wall, which will be donated to GenArt.

“He selected what he called the “sexiest” part of the mural to sign,” an onlooker tells PEOPLE. “It featured a woman’s leg as the guitar strings.”,,20587675,00.html

esta cancion es de ROY ORBISON llamada YOU GOT IT……..linda cancion…..Everytime I look into your lovely eyes
I see a love that money just can’t buy

One look from you
I drift away
I pray that you
Are here to stay

Anything you want, you got it
Anything you need, you got it
Anything at all, you got it

Everytime I hold you I begin to understand
Everything about you tells me I’m your man

I live my life
To be with you
No one can do
The things you do

Anything you want, you got it
Anything you need, you got it
Anything at all, you got it

I’m glad to give
My love to you
I know you feel
The way I do

Anything you want, you got it
Anything you need, you got it
Anything at all
You got it

que linda cancion tan sensual que voz tiene esta dama se llama NINA SIMONE y canta FEELING GOOD……..AY QUE EMOCION….Birds flyin’ high you know how i feel
sun in the sky you know how i feel
breeze driftin’ on by you know how i feel
its a new dawn, its a new day, its a new life for me
yeah, its a new dawn its a new day its a new life for me ooooooooh
and i’m feeling good
Fish in the sea, you know how i feel
river runnin’ free you know how i feel
blossom on the tree you know how i feel
its a new dawn, its a new day, its a new life for me
and i’m feelin good
Dragonfly out in the sun you know what i mean dont you know
butterflies all havin’ fun you know what i mean
sleepin’ peace when day is done that’s what i mean
and this old world is a new world and a bold world for me
Stars when you shine you know how i feel
scent of the crime you know how i feel
your freedom is mine, and i know how i feel
its a new dawn, its a new day, its a new life for me
(free styling)
oh i’m feeling goooooooooooood……………….WOW……EXCELENTE…..que interpretacion tan profunda ,realmente ,se siente la esencia de la letra,pasion y emocion al cantar….señor butler que tenga una linda noche,sueñe con los angelitos,dargabriel buenas noches,dulces sueños angelicales…….y yo me abrazare fuertemente a mi almohada ,imaginando que estoy con mi amorcito……te amo….adios.

from ImDB.... @ 04/22/2012 at 3:03 am

You people are all so stupid.
Gerard is laughing at you all.
British WOMEN are just as fat as our men and women are. So what does that say?
Gerard only goes for thin. Sorry, he does not do fat at all.
He prefers tall over short, thin over fat, lean over soft, legs over t*ts.
The proof is in the damn pudding. Are you people blind and stupid?
Of COURSE he called THE LEG the sexiest part of a woman’s body – that is just what he is into! Have you seen the legs on Bianca, Brandi, Alicia, Janea and Laurie Cholewa (my fave) – among his other longer term ‘s/ex partners’? (not talking about the BJ bathroom girls who are just a warm mouth). The long term FWBS all have longer legs than I have but I don’t care as I am not his fan to get with him – I have a life and a loving partner unlike his psycho fans here on JJ.

such quality @ 04/22/2012 at 3:15 am

posting this thread makes one wonder if humans have stopped evolving altogether and mutated into mindless gum flapping trolls.

angelsrock @ 04/22/2012 at 4:40 am

@such quality:
pot meet kettle

bystander @ 04/22/2012 at 5:10 am

In an effort to try to stimulate some reasoned, intelligent discussion on here, I’m sharing a couple of pieces I came across in The Guardian.

The first gives insight into the emotional difficulties of having a relationship with an addictive personality.

The second is a review of a book I’d love to read: of a HW s*x fixer, used to procure sexual partners to suit A listers tastes, and to cover up stars true sexuality. Just shows that the notion of having friends/associates to procure a string of girls , whether for sex or show, is the type of thing HW has been doing for decades to deceive the public.

I am not going to suggest outright that either if these scenarios apply to Gerry, but I thought it might get some more thoughtful conversation about possibilities and impossibilities going:

I haven’t posted here for a while and reading over the last couple of threads you’ll understand why. So much in-fighting and nastiness between posters…come on ladies,sort it out.
Anyway back to Gerry. It seems that Gerry has been in some kind of self destruct mode, since June of last year (the drugs,Brandi,Jenae and so on).What happened to make him go like this? Wasn’t that around the time when he split up with someone?.
Whatever it was I hope he manages to sort him self out soon and gets things back on track,he has a busy few months ahead of him it seems.
Have a good day JJer’s.

bystander @ 04/22/2012 at 7:27 am

@LauraB: bianca git married at the end of May 2011?

There was no break up last summer. That was another one of Georgia/Brooke’s lies. She dreamed up a fantasy romance between her and Gerry last spring and when it became obvious G was being photographed with other women, she came back on in June and claimed they had a tragic break up. She even said G started smoking again because he was heartbroken over HER! It was another one of Georgia/Brookes’s delusional rants. Ignore it.

Kookie-Kutter Looks @ 04/22/2012 at 7:50 am

You can not dictate your brain what it’s attracted to.
That said, men date for two reasons. It is up to women to be one or the other.
Feel Gerry’s into throwbacks now. Trouble is he shouldn’t feel guilty for that or shamed by fans. When he gets to that place again where he’s satisfied with his work feeling secure and respected, he’ll turn his timer back on. So for now he’s a compartmentalized life. Men, women, women friends to meet emotional, intellectual, physical needs. He’s wise enough to know he might not be someone who’s into committing. As long as he’s upfront about it, like George, and women are fine with it (even if they think they can change the game with sex – and they cannot especially with a man who has it lined up for him to bowl down)
I respect that.
Also feel once he feels better (on many levels) and gets his head (back) on straight and gets back to work feeling in control of his life again with has a better grasp of his future goals and aspirations, that will also help the commitment-phoebe wants something more again.
Until then, he’s not committing any crimes. He’s not breaking any laws. He’s not forcing anyone to do anything against their will. Trying to convince him to do something against his own time-line gets anyone, including his mother (or friends) only creates tension and he’ll distance to protect himself.
As long as he’s happy with how his life has turned out so far, so am I. Just feel (somehow) he’s recalibrating. Love takes time to find, otherwise we’d all be in love, right?!
Talking is no use, he’s thinking how to act.
who thinks that’s a super photo in that article and when it’s true love… it won’t be type and that’s how he’ll know it’s true!

DARGABRIEL @ 04/22/2012 at 11:11 am

@CHOLITA: Oh GOD I love you, my heart be still. Thank you so much for having me in your thoughts. Today is a beautiful day. Light is very present. I hope Mr. B relizes the true meaning of love for all ppl, I open my heart to many walks of life, I would like to see more of this from Gerard, there is much more splendor to life then a click, such a cliche, I search for the real, below the surface. Bobby is feeling better one step closer to my light, I can olny hope Gabriel is doing a loving job of healing. Gosh I cannot help but think I know you somehow, lol. My best to all of JJ and GB in his search and chess game. P.S a message no more bad jokes OG, no longer humorous. Cholita I can say there is an equal sign in life. I now send my light and love tenfold like fireworks in the sky. Love,dargabriel

Interesting articles bystander. I remember as a teenager when my mom who had fallen in love with my dad to the music of Johnny Mathis found out he was gay. She was so shocked that Johnny might have been “singing those wonderful love songs to a man.” Since my folks were products of the 50s & the Leave It To Beaver set, it was not really a surprise to me that my mom was surprised Mathis is gay.
Makes you glad that we have come as far as we have to be accepting of non-mainstream lifestyles of the 50s because that included women staying at home cooking and cleaning too.
Seems even when I am not here I’m here. Thanks to the fans that keep my name alive when I’m not here…
Had a fabulous day in the yard yesterday. Got all the flowerbeds weeded and new flowers planted and even managed to get the shrubs trimmed. Salt Lake experienced a great day in near 80F and so being outside was wonderful. I hope others experienced such a nice spring day. :)

Onewho'sbeenthere @ 04/22/2012 at 12:02 pm


Very interesting links! Thanks for those. I want to read the book too.
As far as living with someone who has addictive tendancies, with what I know now after spending many years living with an alcoholic, it’s not worth the pain and suffering. I stayed too long and it eventually robbed me of my spirit, which I’m now trying to retrieve.
Simply put, when an addict will not change their behavior or get help, they love their addication more then they do you OR even themselves. Then it’s time to move on and leave them to their own devices.
You can be supportive and strong willed for just so long and soon you realize you can’t fulfill your own dreams and desires because you are constantly distracted and turning your energies towards the addict.
You become drained and emotionally bankrupt after a while until finally, the resentment you feel towards the person, even if you truly loved them, kills that love and you turn cold towards them.
They say true love never dies but it can be killed and addiction can kill everything in it’s path, even love.

dr. ruthless @ 04/22/2012 at 12:13 pm

@Kookie-Kutter Looks: The I can’t concentrate on my work and have a real relationship at the same time is the biggest BS ever because millions, billions of men have no problem doing it and they don’t have the money for personal assistants, drivers, air fare etc etc. It is not like he has just “arrived” in Hollywood though granted it looks like he has make up for lost ground now. His work might actually improve with some kind of stability, however you want to define it. At least be honest, I am getting older, I am terrified of it, so I am only going to be able pull all this random pus sy for so much longer so I going to get as much as I can before I can’t Or he likes that to be the appearance of what his life consists of even it is isn’t. Maybe he has a sex addiction – with addicts, the high never lasts long and often falls short. You are searching for an ultimate high that is usually illusive. The best sex comes with a partner you love and over time anyway. Heroin addicts for example spend their whole life chasing that first high which they will never relive. Your life is consumed by getting that next “high” even if it compromises your work, your health, your sanity, your finances etc. It would also make sense that his first failure as a producer on MGP was a great emotional setback perhaps including being betrayed by a so called friend in the bargain. If you believe what people post on social media it sounded like Gerry was not happy with his acting in MGP when the film ended.

dr. ruthless @ 04/22/2012 at 12:22 pm

After reading some of the above posts, I agree. A person with too many issues whether addiction or depression etc is not ready for a relationship, now that is an “excuse” that is not BS and whether if there is a conscious effort or not to avoid relationships because you know your sh it is not together then that’s perhaps a mature thing. More people now understand that you can’t save someone in trouble, they have to save themselves, you only get dragged down with them.. You might have a chance if you were already in a long term loving relationship and then a problem arises but even then you have to know when to cut and run or at least practice tough love.

Wow. I found your post quite compelling. Glad you had the strength to see it for what it was and make the best choice for yourself. :)

dr. ruthless @ 04/22/2012 at 12:29 pm

@Kookie-Kutter Looks: As Hamlet would say “Aye there’s the rub”. Does Gerard look like a happy boy to you?

My observation is he is not and happy people do not check themselves in rehab. As stated by many people, the issues that put you into rehab, whatever they may have been in his case do not resolve themselves in 3 weeks or even 3 months. Though Mr. Butler is a master of looking for the quick fix, quick fixes never work in the end. That is why they are called quick fixes.

@dr. ruthless:
That’s GFW and to her Butler is always fine and in control and absolutely nothing is ever Butler’s fault.
Trying to explain that Butler is less than perfect and flawed is a waste of time on GFW.

@bystander: I don’t think it had to do with Bianca or Jeanna or anyone else getting married. He had time to fix those relationships if he wanted to. It was reported that he cheated on Bianca with Jasmine an others and also wanted her to get involved in threesomes. . This was also around the time he started to get big so I’m sure he felt and still does as long as the well isn’t running dry he’s not going to miss any water. This is also around the time he told the reporter there were 4 special ladies who equaled 1 special person and looked in the camera and said sorry darlin.Jeanna is his good friend but she wasn’t special enough and no other woman will be for now.As Chris Rock said, a man is only as faithful as his options and his are still wide open. Maybe he’s not meant to be a settle down guy, something tells me he loves himself to much and when he’s comes out of the clouds..some young eye candy will play him!

It’s so sad @ 04/22/2012 at 12:55 pm

A lot of gays and bisexuals become that way because they were molested as young children. I personally know two men this happened to, and a former congressman. This guy too from Bystander’s article.
“He revels in detailing his voracious sexual appetite and fluid sexuality. But although he also describes being serially molested by paedophile family acquaintances and becoming a teenage rent boy while growing up in Illinois, he does not dwell on the episode, nor connect it to his later life.”

therealangelsrock @ 04/22/2012 at 12:57 pm


Not me………….again. *sigh*
Go play somewhere else, faker!! Do you enjoy being an aper?

May God Bless yoou all! @ 04/22/2012 at 1:11 pm

“I can’t do this.”
“Things will never change.”
“My life isn’t going to get better.”
“I’ll never have the confidence I need.”

Those are some depressing thoughts, aren’t they? But oh how quickly they slip into our minds and convince our hearts that they are true. We’ve all been there, but…..

“We are not of those who shrink back and are destroyed, but of those who believe and are saved.” Hebrews 10:39

@May God Bless yoou all!: Thank you, I needed to hear that today, was feeling a little down. You are the best♥

Seasoned fan.. @ 04/22/2012 at 1:30 pm

@It’s so sad:

Who are you referring to? Butler?
Don’t pay attention to that poster Manny.
She wants all the conversation.
You can hear a pin drop when K speaks.
She is under no. Such delusions.

Onewho'sbeenthere @ 04/22/2012 at 1:36 pm


Thank you. The change came in myself, not him. It was not an overnight process either. It was slow to come about because you hang in there and hold on to hope and you buy self help books and you go to therapy alone and wake up one day and realize it’s not you. That was part of the change.
But when I knew it was done, it was over and there was no doubt or looking back. All the years feel wasted but what can you do but stop wasting any more. The change in my feelings even surprised me but I think we all have a survival mechanism in us that shuts down emotional connection. I’m thankful for mine because I’d still be crying and asking why and rearranging deck chairs on a sinking ship!
I actually feel sorry for him. He had a person who loved him more then he loved himself and he was arrogant and blew it off but pity is the only feeling I have for him now.
Thanks for listening to me “vent”!

it's so sad @ 04/22/2012 at 1:39 pm

@Seasoned fan..:
No, I don’t mean Gerard. I don’t think the article applies to him at all. I was just speaking in general terms how many gays have been molested when children. That’s all.

Seasoned fan.. @ 04/22/2012 at 1:42 pm

My wife is older than I.
I travel a lot.
Met her reading K’s blog.
Mature is better.
She became addicted before we met-to pain killers too due to a high sress job.
Now she’s addicted to me.;) (lol)
That is no such delusions.
Here methods are organic.

lovechrisrock @ 04/22/2012 at 1:44 pm

@justme: Chris Rock also said you can be married and bored or single and lonely, just no happiness anywhere.

@Seasoned fan..:
The reason you can hear a pin drop is because no one is listening…
Still it is hard to give up on love. I have seen in some lives around me and it is sad to watch people lose the sense of themselves in the name of love.

Whatshedonenow @ 04/22/2012 at 1:54 pm

@ Blimey

After reading that article about the Hollywood fixer in 40s to 80s G od only knows what the current crop of HW stars get up to. They must be riddled with all kinds of nasty diseases. No way would you let any of them share the same cutlery. Yuck.

He is an idea of how Gerry is on regular everyday basis.
“I turned to see no more than two feet away was Gerard Butler. Muscled and grizzly with a salt-and-pepper beard, he radiated confidence as he flirted with two women at a nearby table and bellowed in his thick Scottish accent, “Hi, I’m Gerard.”

@Seasoned fan..:
ROTFLMAO… So you admit to reading Kathy’s p*rn??? God help you…

I agree with you. He is not into settling down with anyone at this point because he doesn’t have to. He has tons of girls falling for him.
He’s FAMOUS. Girls will have sex with him because they’re attracted to his fame and face recognition, and because he walks around with an entourage. He’s an A-type personality. That’s what has helped make him so successful. It also makes him highly sexual. The sex drive is the same drive for creativity. Driven successful men want to fuuck tons of chicks, period. From a man’s point of view, if you’re good looking, we.althy, and traveling… stay single and have your fun! He probably just gets bored with women. Part of the boredom may come from just having too much opportunity and choice. Having lots of choice, studies have shown, can cause a level of unhappiness because you can’t be satisfied. So I conclude he is probably having lots of fun, but deep inside he is not happy. Too many women falling on him, and too many choices for the need to find the one that will give him peace. This could cause issues or perpetuate old addictions. But I think he fights these addiction inclinations every day, or otherwise his career would fail.
Until he is ready to come out of that lifestyle, I doubt he’ll have a serious GF or be grieving for the “one that got away”. I don’t think he cares that Bianca or Jennia have settled down. As you said, he could have fixed any of his past relationships a long time ago if he wanted to. He is just not interested right now in anything long term.

Whatshedonenow @ 04/22/2012 at 2:07 pm

Onewho’s beenthere

Really impressive posts.

Onewho'sbeenthere @ 04/22/2012 at 2:08 pm

You have to get your own head on and like yourself before you can bring another person in to your life whether it be a spouse or a child. No one is going to make you happy or fix you. It would be selfish to expect that another person was put on the Earth to make you happy. It doesn’t work that way.
When you are young and fall in love you think that it will solve everything. You over look the warning signs and play down the bad times until they become the norm and you don’t want to just give up and then you look outside your life and you see yourself looking back in at you saying, “What the hell are you doing? What happened to you?” Then you realize you became comfortable with the pain and the unhappiness and it changed who you are!
Then one day you hear the words, not “What would I do without you?” or “You have stood by me and put up with me so long, you deserve better.” Instead you hear, “You never think of me! You don’t understand me. You’re not the woman I married!” You want to say, “You’re right, I’m not! You sucked the life out of her and I stood by and helped you do it!”

Saw this pic on WO and could not look away . . . oh those eyes . . . it’s like they have a hypnotizing effect (lol)! This is from his L’oreal commercial I believe but would love to see this sexy stare again . . . in OMAM or PTF perhaps . . . one can hold out hope.

Onewho'sbeenthere @ 04/22/2012 at 2:14 pm



@dr. ruthless:
No one is saying he’s “happy”. He’s successful and has accomplished some goals. Frankly, just so you know, no one is happy all the time. It’s impossible. It’s like no one can run forever. We’re not designed to be one thing all the time. How can you enjoy highs if never been low?
Just feel Gerry is critically aware of his situation, possibly painfully so and is working on it. But something has dawned on me in a major way and I have to listen to my gut.
@Seasoned fan..:
Why are you here and not there?
Look you know how much how A and I seem to blend over there?? Well, you’re starting to here sounding very much like me. May I request your presence back at the blog please? Thank you. Not scolding, and you’ve done nothing wrong, but please return. Why? We need to talk.
Also people, do not think for one minute this site is not read by people who pass the word up to Gerry. All of it.
~K *waving* bye-bye to jealous Mammy, I mean, Manny

Onewho'sbeenthere @ 04/22/2012 at 2:45 pm

@Manny: “Still it is hard to give up on love. I have seen in some lives around me and it is sad to watch people lose the sense of themselves in the name of love.” **

Then maybe that’s not love. One person in a relationship in love is not love. I don’t think someone who is addicted to outside stimulants is capable of experiencing honest, deep true love for another. They’re too distracted.
If they loved themselves, they’d have a sense of serenity about their life, an internal calm and confidence in who they are and would not seek out the “high” or the self affirmation that they’re OK. They wouldn’t need it.
I found that he needed that affirmation and reassurance 24/7 and one person can’t give that! They take it and swallow it up and ask for more! You can give the smallest compliment and you get back a response, “I am good looking, aren’t I? It’s about time you noticed! You’re a damn lucky woman!”
So then he’s flirting with every woman within radius right in front of you! He tells you about the women who come on to him all the time or that you should watch out because that new friend you brought home the other day is flirting with him behind your back. So you stop bringing your friends around and you feel yourself getting suspicious and you don’t like that feeling and it’s not who you are! You get a sense of isolation, too, and the addict wants that. It’s the only way they can keep you.
So then you feel like all you’re doing is creating a monster so you hold back on the flattery. You feel paralized as to what to do. Nothing makes it better, you can do nothing right. Then you realize, it’s not you that needs to make it better. It’s him!
It gets to be too much and when you need support and affirmation yourself, it’s not there. You begin to feel unworthy and jealous and trapped and all of those feelings are not you!
It’s kind of like when you’re the person who truly loves the addict, it feels like you’re playing tennis with someone who never returns the ball but critisizes your playing and expects you to keep serving them the ball and playing the game, no matter what. It all becomes one sided and exhausting and then you just wear out.
You can’t talk about their addiction either! They can always quit! You don’t know what you’re talking about! You need to not worry about it! It’s not THEIR personality that’s changed, it’s YOURS.
You have to know when to cut that loss and move on and not blame love or yourself. You did the best you could with what you had. You come away wiser for the experience and you may feel that was the one good thing you took away and you know you won’t make the same mistakes again, hopefully.

Oh dear it seems Kathy is calling her marbles home… LMAO… Not scolding OMG… What your little pawn didn’t follow orders???
One friend’s excuse was staying for the kids. She married right out of high school and I don’t think she really grew into her sense of self. Her identity was couple. At gatherings her opinions always started as “**** says…” it was quite sad. When in private the two of us talked she would say I love him. Now years later I perceive her saying that as “I don’t know how to do anything else.”
Enjoying your thoughtful posts.

@Reviews: I agree. And with any celebrity there have to be trust issues. Always thinking do they really want me or who I am or what I have. Look at some of these athletes, ugly as sin and all these girls because of money. Larry King (who I love as a journalist) looks like the crypt keeper. Money! If I were with him, he’s have to hit it from the back…I couldn’t stand to look at him.Kenye West, Lil Wayne, Jamie Foxx, etc, if they didn’t have money, they would be able to bag groceries. They all look like TICKS!!!

It’s like Hollywood is a bully, and Gerry’s become its favorite target.

which means that it’s all female psyche that created these super sought after men. Without female perception, they wouldn’t have half the power they do. Females are attracted to strong powerful men with status and money, even if they were the ugliest thing. Look at Donald Trump he is 62, married to a 30-year old model that ended her career to marry him. Perception is all in the female mind. It created these super famous, super sought after men. Without massive female attention, their worth would literally be half as that. A successful marriage takes a lot more than money and hot looks. No wonder why they all end up divorced unless the men is an old geezer and isn’t looking anymore. Men like Michael Douglass or Donald Trump.

Status and money cannot buy true love or real happiness . . .

The thing is why ppl aren’t satisfied is because they don’t set themselves boundries especially celebs! Just because you can have things doesn’t mean you have to take it! Everything in life has to have a balance and only few manage to have that! Everything on earth such as nature, wildlife, climate etc operates on routine, order, cycle etc if something exceeds it’s disastrous! So as humans too much of everything always makes you sick!! In case of Gerry I think he always ends up with women who don’t respect themselves and jump into bed with him from the word ‘go’ and they’re easy & if you ever form a relationship with them you can’t trust them!!

Actually.... @ 04/22/2012 at 4:20 pm

@Reviews: Donald Trump is 65. His wife, former model Melania, is 42. He is already cheating on her with younger women (and has been for a while)….even thought Melania is 23 years younger than he is…..once a pig, always a PIG.

voiceofreason @ 04/22/2012 at 4:25 pm

@Reviews: The Donald isn’t done trading in for younger versions yet. I’d put money on it.

#298: Seriously?! I don’t follow DT and have not heard that. That IS tasteless! Never understood the point of cheating . . . either you’re in love with the person you are with or you’re not . . . or you’re in love with someone else or you’re not and just want to screw around with many. He or any married man should properly end it before moving on with whatever scenario he desires . . . they shouldn’t play around with trust and feelings. And, if youth is the main motivator for men like this it’s certainly their prerogative but then why get married at all if they continually want to go younger. Makes no sense.

@Reviews: I actually taught a class one time ab out women in literature. Our focus was on fairy tales and how boy and girls aren’t told the same stories. Think about it. In a fairy tale there are always three central people. The prince- who will save you, the older woman, jealous of the young virginal beauty. Some women spend their lives looking for that prince to save them which in turns causes a lots of domestic violence and so on. The idea that you have to have a man and if not something is wrong with you. Think about our society..a man that divorces got someone better, younger and woman that divorces..couldn’t keep a man. Women give sex to get love, men give love to get sex and the cycle continues!!!!!!

Wow, I didn’t realize Donald’s wife was 42, I thought she was younger.
But I do think he is done cheating or trading in his women, and I don’t think he is a manho on the same level of many HW actors. I think he and his first wife genuinely grew apart when he was living in Atlantic City managing one hotel, and she was still in NYC managing another one of his properties and rasing their two kids. Separation is another thing that contributes to broken marriages. Most men need constant flow of sex as well as emotional support that only a female can give, so when the wife isn’t available most of the time, they look elsewhere to satisfy their needs. Imagine Gerry traveling all the time and his wife/GF back home wherever it is. Do you think he’ll last with her for long? If he is to have a serious relationship, I think she’ll have to travel with him so they are never apart. And I don’t think it applies just to Gerry. It applies to most people – women included.
Then Donald married his second wife because he got a divorce from the first on account of the second being pregnant. He tried to make it work with her and they were together for 6 years, but it ended in divorce. The marriage wasn’t born out of love, just necessity.
As a single man he met his current wife who was a model and a NY socialite, as so many of these models are. She traveled in his circles and it makes sense she would hook up with someone like him. She was probably looking for someone just like him. Many women look for high-status men. I think when and if Gerry ever wanted to settle down, it will be a woman with a show biz background that moves in his circles. A woman looking to put aside her career to be with a high-status man and make him the center of her life. As long as they marry for love and genuine affection, I think it will work well. But if there are other ulterior motives, it will end in failure like most relationships of high profile do.

So I have to wonder if these high-status men are ever interested in having conversations and connecting with women on an emotional and intellectual level . . . or is it all just about the s.e.x. It seems that if it’s the latter it’s bound to fail.

He is at the Lakers game.

That’s part of the problem; jumping into bed with a man too fast is not going to get him to stay. Men really do need a challenge, and they do really perceive a woman being too easy if she doesn’t put up a challenge for them. And I agree that when a woman goes to bed too fast with a guy, he feels he can’t trust her. He starts thinking irrational things like ‘if she slept with me so fast, how many more did she have before me’ or ‘how quick will she cheat on me eventually if she is that easy’. Men do think like this in the back of their mind, but they don’t verbalize it or bring it out to the surface because it feels too primitive in today’s society to think like this. But the truth of the matter is human beings – men and women alike – have not change much in thousands of years and aren’t likely to in the next few tens of thousands of years. I think sticking to some of the old virtues when dating can save women a lot of heartache, if they are looking for marriage and children. Like “justme” says, “Women give sex to get love, men give love to get sex and the cycle continues!!!!!! “ It’s true for today’s society. But in the past women didn’t giver sex to get love. Men gave love to get sex. His love was shown by beings serious about marrying the woman. He didn’t look to take advantage of her sexually before he put a ring on her finger. Once he made that commitment, she then gave sex.
In today’s living it will behoove women to make their men wait before they sleep with them. Give him a chance to prove to you it’s not just sex he wants. Let him pursue you, wine and dine you and show you he wants to spend time with you, even if sex is not available yet. If he walks away because he has too many choices, or he is a celeb and women are falling all over him, it shouldn’t make him more valuable to you. You should let him walk away; don’t call him to find out why. If he misses you and wants your company again he knows how to reach you. The moment a woman sees a man being very sought after, his worth goes up in her eyes. It should be exactly the opposite. Don’t chase him.
Those women “hanging out” with Gerard if they are thinking about getting him for good, never will. Definitely not with too-easy women that don’t know how to inspire, fascinate, and attract a man to them besides having sex.

Wheres the punch line? @ 04/22/2012 at 5:28 pm

GFW wants us to think she has a “fan”. I almost spit out my pomegranate juice when I read that.

I rather he goes to a game than a bar

So Avi Lerner is with him? From millennium? It looks like he is becoming his basketball buddy. Maybe the will discuss business as well.

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/22/2012 at 6:06 pm

A few feet away from Spielberg! Yes, I’d say bonding with the movers and shakers very respectable crowd indeed.
who feels Gerry’s feeling better about himself who isn’t a fan, but a supporter, which is different :o)

Supporter… Hmmmm… Would that be bra or jockstrap???
Yippee he shaved his neck. We’re watching the OT. Looks like Butler is sitting across the court from the silver fox Mark Harman…

Double OT… Great game thusfar…

Wheres the punch line? @ 04/22/2012 at 7:57 pm


You are the epitome of self unawareness.

angelsrock @ 04/22/2012 at 8:19 pm


The pic of him inbetween takes with Zack Snyder amazed me the first time I saw it. He towers over Zack and the woman in the pic is just staring up at him. He really was the “king” in 300. No one else could have pulled that off like he did. Amazing preparation and performance for that movie. I just love that picture. Thanks for the memory, reviews!!

OMG! Look at him smile from ear to ear
and another
Here, I think the Black gentleman is his next movie’s director. It seems everyone was there this afternoon.

Is everyone having a hard time posting?

Gerry form the back
Sitting back at his seat
I have to say, at least he didn’t look like a total slob this time around, Not that it makes much difference anyway. I didn’t see anyone dressed better. Not even Ashton Kutcher who is always at every game.

whatever I post is not showing on the board.

You’re welcome; I am glad you enjoyed remembering how he was in “300”. There is no doubt; he was magnificent in that role. He embodied the KING.
He really needs another great role just about now to catapult him even higher.

Can'tGetEnough @ 04/22/2012 at 10:48 pm

All the pics of GB from the Lakers game this afternoon courtesy of GALS:

@ Can’tGetEnough
Sorry I didn’t see you posted these.

who is the blonde lady sitting next to Gerry?

TheUglyTruth @ 04/22/2012 at 11:15 pm

@question: Alana Stewart. Rod’s ex-wife…..

who thinks gerry found his latest conquest lakers’s cheerleaders

TheUglyTruth @ 04/22/2012 at 11:28 pm

Alana is 66 years old, btw….I think she looks awesome for her age! Hard to believe she’s old enough to be GBut’s mom…..

angelsrock @ 04/23/2012 at 3:20 am

Maybe the d*ckwarts meds he got from the free clinic are working after all…I mean, judging by the smiles on his face.

Where are my posts going?


“..a man that divorces got someone better, younger and woman that divorces..couldn’t keep a man.”

Why is younger better? If a man divorces a woman to go to a younger woman, it’s usually because he’s not emotionally mature or secure. He can’t relate except sexually. Besides, the majority of divorces are filed by women almost 70% of the time.

Math takes care of it. If we turn adult at 18. She is like a 6 year old with a 24 year old.
She isn’t emotionally or intellectually mature enough for him for starters. But since it is a moot point, why do you keep harping? Oh, you like to see your words in print. This place, among older woman -and I still can’t figure out why you’re even here b/c you don’t give flippin’ Snickers bar about Gerry- is THE question I’d like answered.

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