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Gerard Butler: Cathouse Nightclub Night Out!

Gerard Butler: Cathouse Nightclub Night Out!

Gerard Butler grins while walking back to his car after leaving a Cathouse nightclub on Monday (April 23) in Los Angeles.

The day before, the 42-year-old Scottish actor watched the Los Angeles Lakers take on the Oklahoma City Thunder at Staples Center.

Later this year, Gerard will be hitting the big screen for his new movie, Of Men and Mavericks.

During filming, Gerry experienced a traumatic surfing mishap. He was pounded by 12- to 16-ft. waves and held underwater until a safety worker on a jet ski rescued him.

Of Men and Mavericks comes to theaters on October 26!

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# 1

Does he still have fans or is everyone over him like I am? Gross, old looking man. No talent and stupid films.

Swannie

# 2

Feel like slapping him. Overrated, talentless idiot

# 3

Yup, everyone is over him! LOL
How old is this news??? Four nearly five months. Yawn

# 4

@Swansong:

Funny you should ask. Used to be a fan but because he has become more of a tabloid king than an actor, with no really appealing films including this one which sounds like another borefest, I just gave up.

# 5

The tide has finally turned! Loving it! As his looks go so will his fans.

Swannie

# 6

@Swansong: I think his fanbase had definately shrunk . it seems instead of being remembered for his movies he’ll be remembred for is clubbing and being a “player”. oh well (shrugs).

# 7

Monday night to a night club huh? Geeeeeee oh what a surprise… Sheeeeeesh… if only he would put that kind of time to good use. I hope he got laid so it was worth it…

# 8

look at the pic it’s like he has 4 eyes!! LOL… the papas don;t even take the time to ajust their camera’s when they’re takking hsi pic.

# 9

I meant the paps!!

food 4 thought @ 04/24/2012 at 9:47 am

What a stupid thread title. Why not just call it what it is. “Gerard Butler leaving yet another bar.” It’s highly misleading to bleat about the surfing mishap yet again. Done and over. Same pants from Sunday. He changed the shirt and hat, though.

Wow what a negative fest – You guys act like he is not entitled to a life. Seems like all of you just thrive on coming on here to bash him – What a shame. There are other people out there doing far worse. Get a grip.

angelsrock @ 04/24/2012 at 9:51 am

I carried this over from the last thread.

@curious cat:

I know, CC. I really don’t know what to do about it. I may just ignore it for awhile and then I will probably just change my moniker. I hope that most posters know I’m not disrespectful and snarky. I am NOT into attacking posters no matter what their opinion is. I will thumbs down a post if it is cruel and disgusting though. What is the saying? “Immitation is a form of flattery”. Maybe this poster wants to me more like me. LOL

Whatshedonenow @ 04/24/2012 at 9:52 am

Taking into consideration all the negative stories which are coming to  light about Butler’s treatment of women.

Also looking at the company he’s drawn to and likes to keep in his free time. 

Let me just throw something out there. Could it be that Mr Butler is  essentially just not a very nice man? Just a thought.

angelsrock @ 04/24/2012 at 9:54 am

If you think about it; the amount of posters here on JJ is very small indeed. There are just about 20 regulars and then a few who pop in on a new thread. MOST fans do not even visit sites like this. Many of my friends and family really like him as an actor. They know nothing of his personal life because MOST people/fans don’t give a hoot.

I’m convinced this is to piss people off.
~K

angelsrock @ 04/24/2012 at 9:57 am

To add to my previous post: It seems the opposite ends of the spectrum are *usually* the ones to visit gossip sites: the die-hard fans on one end and the ones who literally can’t stand him on the other.

food 4 thought @ 04/24/2012 at 9:57 am

@Whatshedonenow: He’s a master schmoozer. Very charming when he wants to promote himself, or get something from someone. This is my impression, anyway. I’m sure, like any addict, he is a gifted manipulator.

It’s amazing how many of the regular negative posters continue their hateful rants and how they continue to go on and on about how they’re no longer a fan, blah, blah, blah, but yet…HERE THEY ARE….still posting away! Still haven’t gotten a life, still whining about the same old crap! It’s hilarious and also very telling!
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Probably it’s no more then one or two posters. I see Manny is among them and probably could own a couple of those monikers to support her sour grapes fettish.

“Gerard Butler: Nightclub Guy!” <– Really? Gheeze even they're havin' trouble comin' up with openers! LOL
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Good thing is, they are promoting Of Men And Miracles (my title) which does come out this year! Wishing him much luck and success with it. I can't wait to see it. It IS something different isn't it? It is. He picked a winner this time!
~K

voiceofreason @ 04/24/2012 at 10:10 am

@angelsrock: It’s actually more like five regulars, with the rest being the socks of the main two posters. And there are generally just the two of them, 24/7.

@Herewego:
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Seriously??? Yeah Butler’s antics are all my fault too…
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Your old “you need to get a life” reasoning is tired… about three years behind the curve you really need to catch up darling. Did it ever dawn on you that some of us might like Butler but do not support the stupid things he does?
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Nothing is more frustrating than watching someone who has talent p!ss a career away IMO…
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BTW I don’t sock… like you again and again and again and again… If you don’t like what is posted here, why don’t you leave??? OMG is this a fansite and we have all been under some delusion???

@Herewego:
Right, she’s here to rile folks into fighting with her. She bullies people for attention.
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Kind of a pathetic existence, huh? Anyway, we all have a right to be here, myself included.
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But you’re right, there are not that many. Mostly socks of the few die-hard. Only they forget to change their tone. It is so obvious! LOL
~K
who wonders where he’s staying out there which could explain his need to get out and about when ‘night fever’ flares up who is more and more convinced this is all just to piss people off and he could have come and gone in 20 minutes… who knows!

@Herewego:
OMG!! I bet you’re right. I think you are! Makes perfect sense. Then she comes in as her and picks on people for being here and she’s here all the time!
~K
who thinks she’s the most demented poster here, the biggest loser for certain

@Manny:

If you are frustrated because you feel he’s not living up to your expectations of him, find someone else. But I would suspect you’re not that kind of “fan”. You lust after the guy and don’t give a hoot about anything else about him. Identifing with your feelings will help you heal your “frustration”, Manny.
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Everyone knows you’re a bully first and you like to diss people. Kissing up doesn’t work for you anymore so give that up. You only coward behind other monikers so you stay on the good side of the ones here that fail to see you for who you truly are.
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But some of us aren’t fooled and I also believe that there are many others seeing the real you too.

She critisizes others for being “phannies” and coming here to defend him but yet she is here constantly dissing on Butler and any other poster who disagrees with her view. It’s all for attention and a fight. No one here believes he’s a saint but having an open mind and giving someone the benefit of the doubt isn’t in her vocabulary. Of course, she’s perfect so can you blame her?

I find it hard to believe that Butler is off the booze given his redness of face,wildness of eye and dirtyness of clothing.

@chris:
And then he just might have the flu?
~K

He’s still gorgeous, period. Troubled, but gorgeous. Happy/sad, glad.mad but gorgeous.
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So glad he’s wearing all his hats. More of a change of hats than pants! (blushing) He’s more hats than personalities but his kind of crazy is my kind of crazy. He’s brilliant. Too smart for his own good.
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I bet his I.Q. is way past 400. I’d love to know what it is? Hummm, Maybe some day?
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They say way smart people have more trouble falling in love then their counter-parts. Hummm, wonder why? Always thinking about what’ll go wrong! (shakes head)
~K

NIGHTCLUB GAY

“EXCLUSIVE: Emmett/Furla Films has stepped up and committed to fully finance Motor City, the Albert Hughes-directed action film that stars Gerard Butler as a man who is double crossed, and seeks revenge on the guy who put him behind bars and took his woman. Gary Oldman is aboard to play the villain, and Amber Heard the woman.
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The film, which has a budget north of $40 million, is now set to begin production in September through EFF and Silver Pictures. Joel Silver and Andrew Rona are producing for Silver Pictures, while Randall Emmett and George Furla board as producers for EFF, along with their funding partners, Envision Entertainment’s Stepan Martirosyan and Remington Chase. Brandon Grimes is coproducer. Warner Bros will distribute domestically, while foreign rights will be sold at Cannes by Mark Damon and Foresight.”
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‘Okay, this could be why he’s all smiles lately! And in major party mode? A $40M budget is a big deal. Working with Gary, even bigger. I’m impressed. Okay, he can write the children’s book as a way to relax!
~K

I used to thinking he was quite attractive but now I just wonder what was I thinking…

And, surprise surprise.. it’s the freakin’ “We love to hate Manny” club. Aren’t you guys TIRED of perpetuating this sh*t? Really? In my little corner of the world, if there’s someone I don’t like, I just ignore them. They don’t exist to me. You guys, socks and all, get far too much enjoyment out of dramatising this massive rivalry or whatever the h3ll it is. I just wish you knew how utterly pathetic you sound. PLEASE get a new hobby – this thread is about Gerard Butler, not your playground spats. Thanks.

angelsrock @ 04/24/2012 at 10:49 am

@voiceofreason:

Yes, I never even took that into consideration. Socks; that’s another enigma to me. I just don’t get that at all.

Can'tGetEnough @ 04/24/2012 at 10:58 am

@GFW: GFW hater? Not at all. I don’t hate anyone. Really! It was a sarcastic chuckle and response to Manny’s post because obviously you would have found the new thread on your own and from what I see above the vile ones have unfortunately found it. Always amazes me how they arrive and bash away on a new thread and then disappear (for the most part).
You have a nice day too!

Can'tGetEnough @ 04/24/2012 at 11:01 am

More photos here of GB arriving last night and at the gym yesterday:

http://www.isopix.be/view_main.aspx?MODE=HP&PG=1&INIT=1&SRC=gerard+butler&DDLB_CATALOG=1

UGH! That’s all that I have to say. No amount of common sense will help either Gerry or his enabling fans. They will continue with the madness until they get tired of reliving ground hog day over and over again. When they do eventually get tired of it, they will finally grasp the lesson they were supposed to learn from it and move on with their lives.

Can'tGetEnough @ 04/24/2012 at 11:18 am

K. Rimando ‏ @s0rry4party1ng
Celebrity. And Gerard Butler. @ STK
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http://instagr.am/p/JzoYV8CL6v/

I don’t make personal attacks on other posters. Having said that, most of Mr. Butler’s fans don’t come around, or if they do they don’t stay long because of all the vitriol and mud-slinging. As for those who like to carp on about Mr. Butler’s fading career, I got this from IMDB – seems to me that his career is doing just fine.

2014 How to Train Your Dragon 2 (pre-production)
Stoick the Vast (voice)

2014 Manhunt (pre-production)

2013 Brilliant (pre-production)

2013 Thunder Run (pre-production)
Colonel Eric Schwartz

2012 Hunter Killer (pre-production)
Capt. Joe Glass

2012 Motor City (rumored) (pre-production)

2013 Untitled Farrelly/Wessler Project (post-production)
Chaun

2012 Playing the Field (post-production)
George

2012 Of Men and Mavericks (post-production)
Frosty Hesson

mustang sally @ 04/24/2012 at 12:02 pm

Nice selection of hats lately . . . and those stylish pants are very cool. He does have a lot of projects on his list. That’s great! Here’s hoping he continues to tap into his acting excellence from back in the day (yes that’s right) . . . of course we saw it most recently in MGP (and I’ve heard also in Coriolanus) but I’m referring to the consistency he seemed to exhibit in his early days before he had HW in his eyes . . . as in OMK, TJ, DF. Fingers crossed that he delivers in OMAM and PTF since hopefully those will have a wider audience than MGP. He’s my favorite actor and when I watch his films I want to continue to see that spark . . . but as long as he’s happy with his choices then as a supporter I am happy for him.

Thanks for posting JJ . Love him .

@GFW
CCE plays both sides of the fence. she acts nice but is really a beetch. so i am not surprised she likes Manny.

LMWeick SC @ 04/24/2012 at 1:24 pm

This guy has slept with half the girls in Perthshire. If he were female he would get called all sorts of names.

Glad to see Gerry sticking to his gym routine! He’s a good weight and build right now.
~K
who thinks PyschoB is depressing and overly negative sour and disparaging who can’t see a man truly trying… really, do most addicts go to gyms? Do most addicts rise before 9am? Are they on-line and checking emails and reading MSN news? No.

Leprechaun? More like Grumpy Dwarf! LOL Must have been a fun shoot! Hope he was paid well.
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Anymore L’Oreal ads? His skin looks good, dewy. Like he’s discovered Israeli deep sea salts. Shh… tell no one.
~K

big snort @ 04/24/2012 at 2:22 pm

@GFW: And how would YOU know what time he gets up, and whether he’s online? Give me a break. Oh I forgot, he lives in your head.

Why did post #32 get (as I write this) 11 negatives? LOL Makes no sense.
~K
who thinks it’s personal, but, shh, tell no one ;o)

@GFW:
“Israeli deep sea salts.”
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You mean Dead Sea minerals from Israel
These products are amazing. They make your skin healthy and gorgeous. He might be using it because he got a goody bag last year when he did a fundraiser sponsored by Deep Sea Minerals or Deep Sea Beauty, so he might be continuing to buy the product from their boutiques in NYC or LA. I think Moran Atias is their spokes model.

angelina jolie is a wh@re @ 04/24/2012 at 2:38 pm

look–the old man goes clubbing again.

@Info:
Yes! That’s the stuff! (beaming) I hope so. The synergy with the products is pretty amazing.
~K
sensing things are taking an upward momentum for Gerry, (a/k/a Grumpy Dwarf LOL) caught arriving or leaving a night club or not–hey sport fishing is just that–for throwbacks, who has a solid Dwarf pack behind him keeping him facing in the proper direction… forward

Just a hunch is all. Can’t I have them?
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Think there is more to the guy than what he shows us??? Than meets th eye? So much of this (‘clubbing’) is for to keep the real him safe, hidden, protected. He’s a freshwater pearl. Shh, tell no one. ;o)
~K

malibumillie @ 04/24/2012 at 3:05 pm

@Herewego: Good Golly Miss Molly, Herewego again indeed. Getting too tedious.

Another bully or the same bully under another name. What planet you been on HerrVeGo. All kinds of posters here have differing opinions on Mr. Butler, many agree with Manny on many points, not all, not all the time but does that makes us all the devil incarnate. You just don’t seem to like the fact anyone disagrees with you. I hear the sounds of marching black boots. The reason a lot of the sane regulars left are people like you. You accuse people of being bullies yet you are the worst culprit.

Is Gerry’s career so sad he needs self appointed people like you to do his PR on this board and bully people on his behalf? Are you trying to impress him or something. LMFAO.

Seriously get a sense of humor before it’s too and do some reading on the 1st amendment.

Have fun going round and round with GFW. Nice tag team. You two should get a show on Fox News.

She’s taken over this thread 2. No fault in being a fan & posting on a gossip thread. Until it looks as though the celebrity is all the fan thinks of. No life outside of this celebrity, that is unattainable to said fan. That’s when it becomes quite sad. Wishing Gerry a healthy, happy life.

No, they “leave” (read: lurk) because they don’t want to talk about Butler, they want to spar back and forth liking to see posters do battle, i.e. The Hunger Games.
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SO people get tired of that and split (lurk or really split) till such time the board returns to talking about Butler.
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Then when it does people like you come in to jump on anyone who wants to talk Butler (with anyone or likes me) or is positive not wrist-cutting negative!
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Is there a part of emotions are contagious you just don’t get?
~K
who wonders when the Robbie Williams benefit soccer game is?

@Zoey:
Zoey, sock of Mammy, I mean, Manny… get real! We all have lives. Have a nice day.
~K
who thinks you are a prime example why the board shuts down and it “appears” only one is posting! Are you daft or what?

party hardy 4 ever @ 04/24/2012 at 3:20 pm

Man trying to make my first post here twice and in moderation twice. I guess party hardy types not welcome here. Or is Vi ag ra a bad word? Did I stumble into a convent?

@GFW:

Soccer Aid is on 27th May.

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I see it didn’t take long for this thread to descend into a playground spat.

@GFW:

I’m not Manny. If u have a life, prove it then. Do something productive with ur time. Not trying to bully U. I find it sad, truly. It’s ur life tho’.

@Zoey:
Nice try Mammy, I mean, Manny… usin’ text speak tryin’ to hide behind? You H8 it when we see through you, huh?
~K
who’s nothing to prove, get it? Have a nice day!
@niknoks:
Great! Humm, not as close as I thought… no worries… the bee is busy…
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This made my day…
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“Gerard Butler as a man who is double crossed, and seeks revenge on the guy who put him behind bars and took his woman. Gary Oldman is aboard to play the villain, and Amber Heard the woman.”
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No one takes Butler’s woman! And double cross him? Good LORD the man will send his dying days paying you back! Looks good! Hey, Butler will be working with Oldman! Mozart to my ears!
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Gerry is the good guy! Yay!! Looks like he won’t have to die again. Anyone see the last scene in Coriolanus? Beautiful in the way he **spoilers** takes out Ralph with the knife silently, sensually. Death beautiful? This one is! His acting was spectacular.
~K

That’s spend. (sighs) Rushing from work, you know, in that life I live? Shhh, tell no one.
~K
who is beaming Gerry is signed on for a $40M flick! Okay, “flick” is a term my brother uses but hey… so what!

@GFW:

” Anyone see the last scene in Coriolanus? Beautiful in the way he **spoilers** takes out Ralph with the knife silently, sensually. Death beautiful? This one is! His acting was spectacular.”
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I don’t think that was too much of a spoiler, the ending has been the same for about 400 years… ;p

The aging poofta hits another club! What else is new? I wonder if he smells as bad as he looks, ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwww! Only Freddy would know. Poor Freddy needs to be rescued.

voiceofreason @ 04/24/2012 at 3:53 pm

@Zoey: Well said. This is one of the saddest things I have ever seen on the interwebs, and it appears from reading the older threads that it’s been going on for years. So incredibly sad.

@niknoks:
LOL! Really. But many here might not have seen it?
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I’d never seen the play nor read the book or script, so was very surprised at how it ended. Even the why was great discussion. I had lots of questions. It’s, ah, gulp, kinda deep. (slinking away)
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The quietness of Gerry in that film is menacing.
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You know I have to admit that during when that was filmed there was stuff and nonsense (that seems like paddy-cakes these days) with Gerry and I was dumb enough to think that this could have effected or affected his work on the film. I WAS WRONG. I had to apologize after I saw it to readers.
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When the man shows up to work, you get him 115% for real. THIS movie proved that. It’s such a respectable piece of work. Something to be so truly proud of. As good as his last film?
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Even if it wasn’t a blockbuster hit, this being his last piece of work speaks volumes about his capabilities, talent and skill! He’s amazing. The first scene is him… quiet, plotting, sharping his knife. Unforgettable! Chilling? Yep. Kind of a Cool Hand Luke vibe to it.
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The stills from the movie capture him in character very well.
~K

@GFW:

Ok GFW, I’m Manny. It’s also ok 2 spend all of your time on something that u will never reap any rewards from. I hope u feel better now. What a waste of 5 minutes of my time.

@voiceofreason:
I know, Mammy, I mean, Manny needs a life beyond JJ doesn’t she? It is so incredibly sad. What’s even sadder is when she morphs into these creepy people to defend herself! No, that’s not sad… No, yes it is. Sad.
Have a nice day.
~K
@Clamsie:
Still hanging on to him being gay? Really? Really? Why? You know he’s not. Dig away if it makes your day.
~K

@Zoey:
I’d rather spend it promoting/discussing is career and recovery than poster jabbing like most here like to do! Have a nice day.
~K
who is proud Gerry landed an acting gig with the stellar fine actor Gary Oldman!!

Gossipgirl @ 04/24/2012 at 4:07 pm

I guess instead of acting, Butler’s career is now officially poon trolling.

angelsrock @ 04/24/2012 at 4:12 pm

@niknoks:

I know. And it was going so well for awhile earlier today. Will you be anywhere near the venue for the Soccer Aid festivities, Nik?

@angelsrock:

I won’t, I would love to go as it’s my home town and being played at Old Trafford the home of my beloved United but the OH and I both have to be at work the next day, so I will have to settle for watching on the telly.

angelsrock @ 04/24/2012 at 4:26 pm

@niknoks:

That’s a shame; looks like a fun and worthwhile event!! Well, at least you get it on the telly.

realitycheck @ 04/24/2012 at 4:48 pm

@GFW: He better watch out Mr. Oldman has a habit of scene stealing then again Coriolanus illustrated that Butler can up his game in the company of serious actors.

Can'tGetEnough @ 04/24/2012 at 4:54 pm

@GFW:
“You see that too? She rarely offers opinions but when she does they’re negative. I guess her thing is collecting + signs next to her name with her links is her thing?”
Really GFW? My opinions are always negative?? Seriously? I’m one of the most positive people here. I read your posts and I don’t agree with them all, and I could easily rip into you (whether you cared or not) like some other posters do, but do I ever? NO. Remember I posted once awhile back about me respecting your posts and you respecting mine? You’ve snapped at me quite a few times over the months and I never fired back at you. So Manny and I make a joke and you get all bent out of shape?
And just so you know, I don’t lie, I was NEVER caught socking because I NEVER have, I’m not sitting here for hours using other monikers to say nasty things, and when I’m gone from here it’s because I have a LIFE and things to do.
Enjoy the rest of your day GFW.

@Herewego:
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Why do you constantly have to turn every Butler thread into a thread about me? It is amazing how I’M the center of your universe here. People aren’t even talking about me and you bring me up. If anyone needs a little psyche spring clean my dear, it would be you.
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If I were other posters I’d be p!ssed you do this again and again and again in every thread…
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I don’t sock. Ask JJ. I have nothing to hide…

Justventing! @ 04/24/2012 at 5:31 pm

Does it annoy anybody else that Gerry’s character’s love interest in Motor City is only 26 and that she is also suppose to be a love interest to Gary Oldman’s character? And I thought Jessica Biel was too young to play Gerry’s wife in PTF!
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Give me a freaking break! HOLLYWOOD, USE AGE APPROPRIATE ACTRESSES. This is a story of REAL life, not the surreal life of Hollyweird!
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There are so many beautiful and talented women out there! It’s annoying and shameful that HW doesn’t see women much over the age of thirty as valid love interests unless they’re a twenty to thirty year age gap between her and her leading man! Maybe it’s a money issue and the younger starlettes don’t demand bigger paychecks!
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Plain to see Motor City’s target audience are the 18 to 35 year old males with a few hopeful fifty somethings thrown in for good measure!
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No wonder actresses in HW start getting plastic surgery in their late twenties! Then they eff up their faces and look like carnival characters and can’t get work at all! I’m SO glad I’m not in the business!

@Gossipgirl:

It just pizzes you off that you’ll never be one of the “poon” he trolls! LMFAO!

@GFW
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You have posted 34 of the 77 posts on this thread. Of your 34 posts 25% of them were about me. For someone who criticizes others for not keeping it all about Butler, you ARE one of the worst offenders. Numbers don’t lie.

@Herewego: Gerry likes all kinds of poon. If she waits around long enough he will get to her eventually.

Swannie

@Manny:

I don’t see anyone talking that much about you. Nobody gives that big a crap. You are the only one who way overestimates your importance around here, of coure except for your sockers. You’re just a legend in your own mind, Manny.

MadHatter @ 04/24/2012 at 5:50 pm

@Manny: Don’t waste your time, Manny…no point.

@niknoks: Oh Nik, so glad to hear you liked Coriolanus. I will have to wait for the dvd when it comes out. Sorry you can’t attend the game but like Angel says you get to watch it on tv.
@angel good to hear from the real Angelsrock.

@MadHatter:

Good advice! Wasting your life hating is pointless!

@lolita:

I did really enjoy Coriolanus, it was exceptionally well directed and well acted, it is very easy to tell if actors aren’t familiar with Shakespeare when they deliver their lines and almost all the actors (GB included) were bang on the money. It was no surprise it was BAFTA nominated.
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Sending positive thoughts, good vibes and prayers to you and yours.

mustang sally @ 04/24/2012 at 6:17 pm

#76: Great post . . . valid points.

May God Bless yoou all! @ 04/24/2012 at 6:27 pm

I keep asking that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, may give you the Spirit of wisdom and revelation, so that you may know him better. Ephesians 1:17

@niknoks:Thanks Nik, I am feeling better, the meds seem to be working, but I hate all the blood tests, but as long as I am getting better I’ll take the tests.
You must be getting so excited about your blessed day coming up so soon. How’s that pup doing?

C'mon already!!! @ 04/24/2012 at 6:48 pm

@Justventing!:
I guess you’re in your late 40s or early 50s and furious about not being considered a viable female anymore, ha? Well, you’re not. No one in real life would want to screw you, so STFU already and stop venting. That’s why HW doesn’t use women your age for leading ladies. Gerry doesn’t go out with women your age, and he wouldn’t be in love scenes with women your age. Stop your nonsense. It’s not annoying or shameful that HW wants to show youthful hot women. People go to see movies with beautiful women and sexy masculine men in them. No one wants to see movies of old women with dried up vadges trying to have hot sex with a hot dudes.
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Oh and please get a grip. I don’t know any actress that got plastic surgery in her late 20s. That’s a bunch of crock. They start getting procedures in their early 40’s, but they still can’t get the lead roles anymore. Look at Julia Roberts and Demi More. Both are beautiful but they have to come to terms with not playing lead sexy roles anymore. Angelina Jolie and Gwyneth Paltrow are at the cusp. This is the last leg of their leading lady era. In a couple of years they will move into the realm of the older-woman roles.

@Herewego:
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Wow all your posts except one mentioned or were about me… Seems it is your problem doll. Post #18, 24, 25, 77 I got a breather and you picked on someone else, 80, 83… Oops….
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@MadHatter:
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I know. My bad. :)

@C’mon already!!!:
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How about early 20s… Megan Fox, Lindsay Lohan are a few…

C'mon already!!! @ 04/24/2012 at 6:57 pm

@mustang sally:
There is no valid point in her rant. She is ranting about reality. Make peace with it. Reality is not the nonsense you profess. Reality is this. I don’t know a man that doesn’t want a younger woman, unless he is messed up in the head and not a true alpha male. Men want a younger women, and the younger the better if they can get it. When they can’t get it or their immediate community frowns on them, they settle for someone close to their age, but always wanting that younger women deep down inside. That’s why they run to po.rn magazines and websites so they can pretend they are with that hot young female, or worse they cheat with a woman much younger than their beetch wife that talks back, nags, and complains all day long because she is going through menopause. They don’t fantasies about being with their menopausal cellulite-filled thighs woman. They get their true sexuality satisfied outside their boring marriage. Time to face reality and shut up!

TrollAlert @ 04/24/2012 at 7:22 pm

Oh, F/uck. The B/itch is BAAAAACKKKK!

mustang sally @ 04/24/2012 at 7:23 pm

#91: You sound a bit angry. Hope your day gets better . . . mine is GREAT!

Rabid Burns @ 04/24/2012 at 8:02 pm

GFW bored again with no real work in sight
negative thumbing with her Hide My IP program all day and all night
whilst she spins online fantasies about her Gerard
meanwhile he’s out living his life trying to avoid the likes of her
the crowd hovers they know they should just ignore
but they are waiting for the breakdown they know the score
because the fantasy bubble is going to burst
and the lonely negative thumber shall take it the worst
while shouts of we told you so we tried
ring out as she sobs and cries
you didn’t listen we tried
they said, this is what happens when you hide

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/24/2012 at 8:12 pm

@C’mon already!!!:
You’re only truth in your tirade is: “I don’t know a man”
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Have a nice night Hags Central.
~K

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/24/2012 at 8:16 pm

@Rabid Burns:
Obsessed much with only yourself to touch?
Have a nice night as I’ll be off this site.
~K
who thinks that was THE scariest post I’ve ever read… I mean that

@Rabid Burns:

So very true
Wish I could be as poetic as you
You think these Gerard Butler threads are bad
The Brange threads are even more sad
I need to get on with writing an article about this place
But then I’d probably have to carry around mace

TrollAlert @ 04/24/2012 at 8:36 pm

@GerrysFascinatingWoman: Good one! *high five*

angelsrock @ 04/24/2012 at 8:41 pm

@realitycheck:

I fell in love with Gary Oldman in Dracula. What an amazing performance!! He is one heck of an actor and does play the heck out of the antagonist. He played the villain in The Professional with Natalie Portman with such extreme evil coldness. He gives me shivers.

@angelsrock: I too fell in love with GO in Dracula! I loved his little sunglasses perched on his nose! He’s not a handsome man but he has a sex appeal about him. He was kind of like a phantomistic character in that, dangerous and romantic at the same time! I also loved him in Immortal Beloved! What a tear jerker that one was! I wish Gerry would get a role like that! Wish he’d do Burns!
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I’m happy to see them working together at last!

Farfooksakes @ 04/24/2012 at 9:19 pm

@mustang sally:

I think it must be a guy sitting in prison somewhere on pediphile charges. That’s OK. Some guy named Bubba probably has already made him his betch and that’s enough to make anyone bitter!

He looks happy. He looks healthy. Isn’t it a shame that people who hate can only enjoy themselves when they can be negative and destroy others without even a care as to what that can do to the person(s) they have put down.

realitycheck @ 04/24/2012 at 9:21 pm

@angelsrock:
There is a chilling but cool scene in The Professional -Oldman’s character looks up to the ceiling whilst he chews on some pill or pills, and the camera pans in for a close up of his face from the ceiling, the way he chewed and swallowed that pill was an event, getting crazy revved up for the events to follow. Love that scene. I have not seen the Director’s cut yet though. Vastly different movie apparently.

realitycheck @ 04/24/2012 at 9:26 pm

@Lizzie: Immortal Beloved – the scene at the piano.

Dracula – “I have crossed oceans of time…to find you”.

AmICynical? @ 04/24/2012 at 9:37 pm

Can someone please clue him in that the Charlie Chaplin shoes are not attractive?

Dyckwarts for President @ 04/24/2012 at 9:37 pm

He is such an old fool – he is the OLD GUY AT THE CLUB that we younger women just laugh at!!

@Dyckwarts for President:
Hon, you’re not a younger women; let’s be honest here. You’re just as old and spent as the rest of them here. Gerard won’t touch you either. Keep dreaming and beetching and barking and snapping at everyone. It won’t make one bit of difference. You’re not in his league and that’s that.

DearHags/Observations/LOL @ 04/24/2012 at 10:07 pm

You really FEAR aging don’t you? That’s why you’re so vile towards older women….Hon, age is coming to get you, too. WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO????? (go insane, probably.)

Younger women @ 04/24/2012 at 10:10 pm

http://www.zimbio.com/photos/Alexandra+Edenborough/The+Book+of+Eli+Premiere/pVyVyN9GIst

Gary Oldman and his years younger wife. She is so beautiful.
That’s what men want.

Farfooksakes @ 04/24/2012 at 10:35 pm

@Younger women:

I don’t think men just want youth. Gary’s been married four times. He was married to Uma Thurman and then had a relationship after her with Isabella Rosalini who is six years older then he is. I’d heard she was the love of his life but refused to marry him because of his addictions He is now reported sober. If you look at his new wife, who does she look like?

Hmmm.. comment awaiting moderation? Apologies if this posts twice, because I’m going to do it again, just in case JJ cans it.
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@Younger women & Farfooksakes
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Doesn’t Gary just look like the cat that got the cream here?
http://www.zimbio.com/photos/Alexandra+Edenborough/15th+Annual+Screen+Actors+Guild+Awards+Arrivals/e7jVHfV4lVz
She is incredibly beautiful. Wow.
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Maybe then, if we follow this logic, Gerard will end up with someone who resembles Monica Belluci? :P
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Just kidding. Who of us knows, except Gerard? :)

C'mon already!!! @ 04/24/2012 at 11:02 pm

@Younger women:
yep, that’s what men want. it’s true.
@Farfooksakes:
lol after trying out all kinds of women, many his age or older, Gary Oldman just figured out younger women fit better with older men. They are easy to get along with, and have lots of zest for life. They don’t try to control or hold a beetch grudge, and even if they get sassy, they snap out of it quickly because they look up to the man. Younger women don’t have much baggage – fewer failed relationships, no divorces, no ex-husbands, no children – just beauty, great figure, and lots of sexual vitality. What man doesn’t want that, especially if he is famous, rich, hot, and has everything going for him? Sorry, older women should face facts and not get upset by the truth.

C'mon already!!! @ 04/24/2012 at 11:07 pm

I don’t think younger women hate older women; there is no reason to. But I think the opposite is true. Older women are jealous of younger women. Please consult any fairy tale. It’s always the evil older woman jealous of the beautiful younger one. Just trying to set the record straight.

realitycheck @ 04/24/2012 at 11:09 pm

@Farfooksakes: True some men want more than just youth or beauty. Some men like brains and class too.

I have heard the same things as you have about Isabella and Gary. His first wife was also a little older, they too met on set. Current wife also seems smart and classy. British too. Cue the mad cow troll.

@C’mon Already!!!
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I’m not sure you can make accurate sweeping judgements regarding age. I think it depends on the woman. I do agree that, given the choice, men would likely choose a younger woman over an older woman if the two were side by side and the personalities and circumstances were similar – but I think that’s mostly societal conditioning. It seems to be that, if he has this hot, younger woman on his arm, it makes him appear more manly and more sexually attractive, and thus rises him in the esteem of other men. I think it’s why quite a few men choose younger women when they have mid-life crises – they need to prove to themselves and others that they are still a certain way.
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All JMHO though. I’ve been known to be wrong before! :P

Oh, Gerry, I really like you. I think you are handsome, friendly, a great story teller, you have such beautiful eyes and when you are dressed in a tuxedo… oh dear, no one can beat you. But then, whenever I see a fourty-two-year-old man going to nightclubs I can’t help feeling a little disappointed. Not long ago you had to check yourself into rehab and God knows what you’d been up to. Although I am aware that this is your life and you are surely entitled of choosing how you want to live it, I just wish you could slow down a bit. Stay home, spend more time with your family (especially your mother) because I believe they are the ones really worth spending time with. Well, anyway. I wish you all the best… always.

DearHags/Observations/LOL @ 04/24/2012 at 11:25 pm

@C’mon already!!!: You’re right…most young women don’t hate older women. Most have respect and admiration for talented, successful, BEAUTIFUL older women; it makes them feel they have something to look forward to in their more “mature” days.
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But YOU, on the other hand, have a hateful obsession with older women, and gleefully try to put them in their place. What’s WRONG with you?

@Swansong:

so, this is JJ gerard butler fan site? whatta bunch of croaning old spiteful bitty’s. LOL…thanks for the entertainment. every one is entitled to their opinion. yes sir, especially when no one knows who you are.

C'mon already!!! @ 04/25/2012 at 12:20 am

@Uh..:

“I think that’s mostly societal conditioning.”

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LOL, it’s not social conditioning. It’s biological. Men are BIOLOGICALLY attracted to beautiful women. And youth radiates beauty better than middle or old age. Centuries ago there was no organized social conditioning, men just knew what to do, and men always chose younger women – much younger in fact. So men being attracted to younger women and wanting to marry younger women is biological, not the result of social conditioning.
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And actually, it’s the other way around. In recent decades men have been socially conditioned NOT to date much younger women than themselves. But, that left men very dissatisfied and not fully reaching their potential. That’s why you see so many unhappy men trapped in marriages and they cheat, one way or the other. These men mentally cheat on their women with po.rn and other means, or when the opportunity arises will cheat on their wives with a younger woman. It looks like all the social conditioning in the world hasn’t even begun to make a dent in changing male’s sexuality. Male sexuality still runs the show one way or the other.

@C’mon already!!!: As a woman, I watch porn and male strippers, etc. so that I can fantasize that my old geezer of a husband looked like, and had the energy of, those hot young studs. So…it goes both ways, I suppose!

C'mon already!!! @ 04/25/2012 at 1:17 am

@IAgree!:
Of course it goes both ways. Women cheat mentally on their husbands all the time when the husband fails to sexually excite her. As men get older they let themselves go just as much as women do. They get comfortable in the relationship. They don’t try as hard to excite their aging wife and she starts mentally cheating on him. This happens often, especially when the woman is pretty and her man is actually out of her league. If a man wants to KEEP a hot wife or girlfriend, it’s not enough to just be a “provider”. He has to be a hot LOVER as well to keep her coming back for more. But even unattractive women cheat or fantasize in their minds about other men when her own man ceases to excite her. So it definitely goes both ways.

Postwatcher @ 04/25/2012 at 1:18 am

Gross. He wore the same pants two days in a row. Hobo loser!

C'mon already!!! @ 04/25/2012 at 1:36 am

@C’mon already!!!: What do you think all the older women are doing here? They are mentally cheating on their husbands with Gerard. LOL!

someone had to say it @ 04/25/2012 at 1:59 am

http://los-angeles.socialdiva.com/out-about/cat-house-vip-club/

Guess he went from dancing cheerleaders to dancing kittens.

*double ba/rf with a giant eww on top*

dude sure can pick the clubs.

fan no more @ 04/25/2012 at 2:17 am

Sorry girls but I am starting to get a major creepy vibe from Grampa Butler now, he’s kinda getting that pervy leery Jack Nicholson thing going on. Wish he’d quit playing the player. Well it’s been 4 years. Time to fold up the lawn chair and head to greener pastures. Don’t think Butler cares either way about me when there is fresh meat sitting at the end of a bar somewhere or some stripper dangling her pasties in his face. What a wild ride but its been but it has come to a complete stop and I must exit stage right.

someone had to say it @ 04/25/2012 at 2:28 am

maybe gerry would be better off time spent at Tribeca

not hoping to Try Becca

In The Know @ 04/25/2012 at 2:41 am

@someone had to say it:
Dancing Kittens. He likes young women is why.
He likes them submissive and he dominates.

Dyckwarts for President @ 04/25/2012 at 2:57 am

@Honesty:
No dear – YOU are the old one. I’m 23 and at student at UVA.
Unless you are 16, YOU are the old one!

Blonde in Memphis @ 04/25/2012 at 3:00 am

@In The Know:
Well, he seems to go for lates 20s 30s up to below 41.
Brandi has been ‘outed’ as 41…so…
Janea is how old? Probably 40.
Alicia is in her early 30s,
Jeannia is probably 40
Laurie Cholewa is in her early 30s….
Bianca was in her early 30s…
So he isn’t a pedo – but he does go for younger than his old a^^ that is for sure.
He likes LEGS tall with legs. That much I can tell when I look at his ‘roster’.

Grandpa Butler @ 04/25/2012 at 3:01 am

Old guy in the club LOLOLOL

@fan no more:
“I am starting to get a major creepy vibe from Grampa Butler now’
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Well, it’s not like you are younger than him.

Actually... @ 04/25/2012 at 3:14 am

@Blonde in Memphis: Brandi has been “outed” as being born in 1968. If true…she’s a year older than Butler…..

Actually... @ 04/25/2012 at 3:25 am

@Blonde in Memphis: Jeannia is 42, like Butler, and Alicia is in her mid 30′s. I agree with your point….he’s not ALWAYS a dirt bag. Just most of the time….haha….

In The Know @ 04/25/2012 at 3:33 am

@Blonde in Memphis:
Correction! When he met them most of them weren’t in their 30s. They were in their 20s.
Bianca was 24 he was 38.
Jasmine was 28 he was 39
Alicia was 30 (+ or -) he was 39-40
Laurie was 28 he was almost 41
And of course there are many others that you don’t know about. But there are many rumors about picking up young chicks, so you don’t really need me to tell you. Trust me; he had many, many more women than what we have mentioned here.
Brand and Jenea are both close to 40. More like 38-39 (+ or -).
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It depends on the situation and his mood at the time, but he can definitely do older if she looks good enough at the moment. If she is slim and slender like Brandi, or has muscular curves like Jenea, and her hair and makeup are done, he can definitely be enticed at a party to take a woman like that to bed. It doesn’t matter how old she is. All she has to be is sexually pleasing to his eye. However, if he is looking for a GF he goes with younger, such as the women we mentioned above.

angelsrock @ 04/25/2012 at 6:26 am

@realitycheck:

I know exactly what scene you are talking about!!!! I’ll have to look into the director’s cut for The Professional. I’m pretty sure my son has the DVD. I wonder if it’s one of the “extra’s on there.

Sad State of Things @ 04/25/2012 at 8:07 am

What’s next for this guy? Stumbling out of a hotel with 3 flushed and bleary-eyed young “escorts”???

I thought he was trying to be taken seriously as an actor???

party hardy 4 ever @ 04/25/2012 at 8:33 am

@Sad State of Things: You mean this didn’t work for Charlie Sheen? Winning?

@In The Know:
“It doesn’t matter how old she is.”
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Nailed. Knew it. Actually Gerry’s best friends in his life are mature women.
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What real men want: 1) Intelligence; 2) Loyalty; 3) Humor; 4) Looks.
~K

Correction, that should read age-appropriate and emotionally mature that meet his match because he is so much more than meets the eye.
~K
who thinks Gerry at his best is yet to come

@Sad State of Things
Your right he’s mentioned in interviews in the past time and time again that he wants to play really memorable roles and not just chic-flicks, then why not focus more on his career. He’s becoming more well-known for his bad boy image than his acting.

Question for In The Know @ 04/25/2012 at 10:15 am

In The Know:
“He likes young women is why. He likes them submissive and he dominates.”
He must be very insecure, then. If you are indeed in the know, does he get that this behavior is costing him his fanbase?

@seneca:
That clip IS phenomenal. One cannot look at that and not see where his career is headed.
~K

@Question for In The Know:
Question is, is this person in bed with him? In the room? How does the one in the know, know such intimate behavior?
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It’s crap and nonsense for gossip sites to fuel fantasies for the bodice ripping crowd!
~K

@seneca: So great. AND, how about the accent? Bring it back!!!!! I could listen to that voice all day and night.

(Firstly, this post is NOT addressing to Gerry’s REAL fans but the idiots who KEEP RUNNING AROUND here, also shame for myself for writing there but someone should make “The Idiots” finaly SHUT UP!!!)

SO, IF YOU WANT TO BASH, INSULT AND GRUDGE GERARD BUTLER, YOU CAN BUY I NOTEBOOK, NAME IT “MY WORST SPELLS ADDRESSED TO GERARD BUTLER” AND, THERE, WRITE WHATEVER COMES IN YOUR “MIND”. AT THE OTHER HAND IF YOU DON’T EVEN CARE AND DON’T GIVE A F*CK ABOUT HIM THEN, SIMPLY, DO NOOOT COME HERE! AT YOUR MINDS, IT PROBABLY IS A WASTE OF TIME EVEN LOOKING AT HIM.
ALSO, WHY DO YOU SPENT YOUR QUALITY TIME SEARCHIGN FOR HIM OR AT TLEAST CLICKING AT HIS THREADS, WHEREVER THEY CAN BE FOUND? HE IS AN ADULT, A CLEVER ENOUGH MAN TO ARRANGE HIS LIFE AND I AM VERY SURE THAT HE DOESN’T GIVE A F*CK ABOUT WHAT YOUR SILLY OPINION ABOUT HIS OWN LIFE IS. YOU ARE JUST JEALOUS ABOUT HOW SUCCESSFUL HE IS. IF YOU ARE A MAN THEN YOU ARE JEALOUS BECAUSE OF HIS GOOD LOOKS EVEN IN HIS 42( PERSONAL PINION BUT AN OPINION) AND THE FACT THAT HE GETS WHEVER WOMAN HE WANTS. AND IF YOU ARE A WOMAN AND YOUS TILL KEEP BASHING HIM , THEN I AM VERY SORRY FOR YOU. YOU JUST HAVE A LACK OF TASTE OR HAVE ALREADY PERSUADE YOURSELF THAT YOU WILL NEVER GOING TO MEET HIM (SOMETHING THAT IS NOT TRUE BECAUSE EVERY DREAM CAN COME TRUE ONE DAY!!!) AND YOU TRY TO GET OVER HIM BY SAYING THAT HE IS AN ”OVERRATED TALENTLESS IDIOT”.

“”"THANKS”"”

Don’t know why, but i can’t stand this guy!

Whatshedonenow @ 04/25/2012 at 11:13 am

Daphne

This isn’t a fan site. All opinions are welcome. Get upset if you like. But you are not like everything you read about the man on this site.

George Clooney’s Obama Fundraiser Dinner: How To Attend

04/19/12 06:09 PM ET AP

WASHINGTON — George Cooney has a starring role in a new Obama campaign sweepstakes.
The actor is holding a high-end fundraiser for President Barack Obama at his Los Angeles home next month and the president’s re-election campaign is offering supporters a chance to join Obama and Clooney at the event.
Deputy campaign manager Julianna Smoot says in an email that Clooney is saving seats at the May 10 fundraiser for two supporters and their guests. The campaign is seeking donations of at least $3 for the contest, similar to past sweepstakes offering donors a chance to have dinner with Obama.
Clooney recently met with Obama at the White House to discuss the humanitarian crisis in Sudan and South Sudan.
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Feel Gerry should get extended an invite, if he hasn’t already. My gut tells me Obama saw his excellent embodiment and portrayal of Sam in Machine Gun Preacher with it having such an impact it (along with other forces) drove him to dispatch US troops to hunt down Kony.
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Want George to have Gerry at his side with Sam there too.
~K

@Whatshedonenow:
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Why do I picture Daphne jumping up and down and stomping out of the room after that little tirade??? LMAO
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Funny how “real fans” as she calls them think they have the right to sanctimonious preaching on an open board on a non-fansite just shows how deluded and entitled this little missie can be.
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Someone should help Daphne find her way back to the safety of GALS where moderation lives and is well received. As for her little temper tantrum…. PFFFFFFFTTTTTT…

@GFW:
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Gerry will have to pay to attend just like all the others. If Gerry coughs up the cash he can go… It is a FUNDRAISER after all. Sheeeesh…

Those obsessed fan-types get hysterical if they see anything negative about their object of worship. It must interfere with their fantasy life. Quite amusing, really, but I don’t know why they don’t just head on over to the fan sites, instead of demanding that everyone else change their opinion. I sincerely hope these people are teens, for their sake, lol.

A fundraiser at his home. Kinda get the sense the table’s just so large, get it?
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The piece/ad is for the two-seats for ‘regular folks who can donate at least $3. Have a nice day.
~K
who thinks Gerry could have donated already but would like to see him seated next to George who’d be seated next to Obama

On Gerry’s behalf…
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Why must you always try to make me over?
Take me as I am or let me go
White lilies never grow on stalks of clover
Take me as I am or let me go.
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You’re trying to reshape me in a moment
In the image of someone you used to know
I won’t be a stand-in for an old love
Take me as I am or let me go.
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You’ve tried to change me ever since you’ve met me
Take me as I am or let me go.
If you cannot overlook my faults, forget me
Take me as I am or let me go.
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You’re trying to reshape me in a mold, love
In the image of someone you used to know
But I won’t be a stand-in for an old love
Take me as I am or let me go.
~Bob Dylan

DaphneFromFassyAGAINButler @ 04/25/2012 at 12:32 pm

@Whatshedonenow: I didn’t say so! But for God’s sake, PLEEEEEASE, stop bashing him, even for one time, only in one thread is there someone to say ”You know. Gerry, is OK a talented actor (and singer)…”… And if this isn’t a fansite then it is NOT a “hate-site” either, SO if you want me and the rest of the fans to stop supporting him (something that will never happen) then the haters should also stop insulting him. That would be more fair than only tell me to stop doing what I am doing OK?!?!?

Hotcougarsrule! @ 04/25/2012 at 12:36 pm

@C’mon already!!!:

You young women can HAVE the old goats! We more mature and hot women will take the young, firm, ripped guys you leave behind since you all prefer the old fogies! Besides, a woman needs a man at least ten to twenty years younger so he won’t die ten to twenty years before she does!
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A woman doesn’t reach her sexial peak until about age forty or so. I’d burn Butler down to the ground if he was in my bed! He’d be ruined for anyone!
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He might like to look at the eye candy but he better be careful about touching! The young one’s are looking for a sugar daddy or a baby daddy.
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Older women just want a good time and some fun! They’ve lived their lives maybe raising kids and put up with a nagging husband. Done with that! Time for some adventure and excitement.
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Also, If a man gets careless with the young ones and knocks one of them up, he’ll be paying through his nose the rest of his life!
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Yes, I’m an older gal and a Zumba instructor. I had a twenty something man talking and flirting with me the other day right next to his twenty something gf at the movies! She was getting pizzed at him! It was hilarious! I even caused another man, closer to my age, to run in to a trash can craning his neck to stare at me!
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You need to take your half baked, backward, neanderthal, ideals and shove ‘em because you don’t have a clue what you’re talking about!
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So, yeah, young women can have the insecure, old fuddy duddies, who need their ego stroked, that stay at home, just cook my food, fetch my slippers, change my diaper, drooling, flabby, pot gut, balding, odd noises out of every ora fice, funny smelling, can’t get it up anymore unless with pills, and give me a bj geezers. Ewww! Leave the hot, exciting, fun and confident young ones to us older women! We thank you so much! LMAO!

lorna_watt from twitter @ 04/25/2012 at 1:08 pm

@gerard Butler I have a friend who slept with you many years ago, she said you weren’t very good.!!

DaphneFromFassyAGAINButler @ 04/25/2012 at 1:17 pm

@Hotcougarsrule!: LoL…Your post is pretty informative, nice, really nice!!! LoL But to sum up, do mean that Gerry belongs to the older side and he prefers younger women? And that younger women prefer older men too? Am I right?! xD

Obama Mamma @ 04/25/2012 at 1:20 pm

@Manny: @GFW:
Gerry is not a US citizen so he can’t donate to Obama Mamma anything. It’s time to get informed GFW, or maybe working for the government got your mind stupefied. The government does this to everyone.
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Plus, I don’t think he really cares about politics – US or Scottish. He has too much going on in his own life to care, and he usually minds his own business anyway. It’s all of us that are not minding our own business and are sticking our noses in his. GFW, mind your own business!!!

Hotcougarsrule!=Eve @ 04/25/2012 at 1:28 pm

What’s the matter, Eve? Can’t handle the heat?
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Hot cougar my azz? More like a 70-year old……

Where is Gerry?

Is that you, Alan?

Gerard Butler will be working with Gary Oldman in Motor City.
~K

One must be a citizen to donate to a presidential candidate? May I see that in writing please? Thank you and have a nice day.
~K

PS, So that means George couldn’t invite him to his Obama dinner too? Of course he can! Again, have a nice day.
~K
who hopes he gets the invite because I think Obama saw the film and Gerry’s incredible performance had an impact on the man… :o)

@Obama Mamma:
I think Gerry cares a great deal about politics (Scottish and in the U.S.A.) and but, as an actor, must remain silent for the most part. Then there was the red carpet thing on gay marriage years back (cough) but of course you remember that, right?
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Feel he reads on-line news sites and is very on top of current events. Have a nice day.
~K

Sorry, did you tell me to mind my own business about Gerry on a gossip site? Really? That’s so funny! ha-Ha-HA
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Oh, and I do not work for the government? Whatever gave you that impression? Not a real question.
~K

Interesting! @ 04/25/2012 at 2:24 pm

@GFW:
“red carpet thing on gay marriage years back ”
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What red carpet thing on gay marriage years back? Tell us.
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@GFW:
Motor City is going to be a great project.

@Interesting!:
There are folks here that can do that better than I.
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Sean Penn won or was presenting speaking about gay marriage from the podium.
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Gerry was asked a follow-up question on the red carpet and was very genuine, sincere and authentic. Someone’ll find it!
~K

@GFW:

GB has also spoken more than once about his support for Scottish independence, which will be a massive poIiticaI issue over here in the next 18 months or so.

@niknoks:
Right. Kind of feel as Gerry matures it’ll be tougher and tougher for him to keep a lid on his generous gentle kindness of his big as Texas heart as well as his genuine liberal-minded, fair, open and fair self. Which is another thing that simply goes against his natural grain, silence!
~K

TheDoctorIsIn @ 04/25/2012 at 2:46 pm

Can’t believe none of you yentas has picked up on Lindsey Lohan’s heart’s desire to have Butler as Richard Burton to her Liz. (chuckle) Won’t it be amusing to see those two in mad, drunken passion…art imitates life?

It’s an insult to the talented iconic extremely intelligent passionate beauty to have LL named to play her. I said as much when it was ‘announced’ here.
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I can think of several better actresses more striking in resemblance to play her but then again this is is a made for TV movie. Gerry? LOL LL is lucky to get hired to do anything (IMO).
~K

Obama Mamma @ 04/25/2012 at 3:02 pm

@niknoks: @GFW:
Excuse me; all he said on Scottish independence is one thing in one publication that sounded almost as an AFTERTHOUGHT. When asked about it he said, and I am paraphrasing, ‘I don’t see why not….we are different.’ He never said more than this about the issue. Never explained his position or anything else. So I don’t see on what you base your claim that he was very vocal about Scottish Independence. You often claim misinformation when it suits your argument.
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Now I am not saying he doesn’t care about Scotland. I think he is not into politics all that much. He is not in Scotland to hear the news on everyday basis, he doesn’t live there and it doesn’t affect him as much. And, he is not a US citizen to take action in the US, even though US politics could affect him. I remember him saying thing like, and I am paraphrasing again, ‘my mom told me this is happening (in Scotland) and I thought I would help’, or something of that nature. So it appears he hears news from his family. He doesn’t read the British or Scottish newspapers online to see everything that’s going on there. That indicates a cursory superficial interest in politics. That’s what I am basing my opinion on. I am not basing it on what I want to believe like GFW or you do. If you have direct information please post it, but don’t spread misleading inaccuracies.

someone had to say it @ 04/25/2012 at 3:04 pm

Oh yippee, the hopey changey hate the rich and tax those that work hard democrats are here.

Some of us would just like a job and not sit on a website all day, oops I forgot that’s right you are “working”. Probably both in public service.

You both are the types to retire at 55 with fully funded paid pensions supplied by those who actually work.

Just remember ladies? just because you were born doesn’t mean the world owes you anything. It’s called a hand up not a hand out.

@Obama Mamma:
Again to refresh your memory you said, “Gerry is not a US citizen so he can’t donate to Obama Mamma anything.”
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Since you seem to know so much may I please see (in print [read: not yours]) where a non-citizen is not allowed to donate to a presidential candidate? Thank you and have a nice day.
~K

Obama Mamma @ 04/25/2012 at 3:16 pm

@Interesting!:
“What red carpet thing on gay marriage years back? Tell us.”
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I don’t think GFW knows what she is talking about as unusual. I don’t think he ever said anything about gay marriage on the red carpet. She must have dreamed it in her mind. Unless, there is a clip proving he spoke about gay marriage, don’t pay too much attention to it. I really don’t think he cares much about politics by the looks of it.

NoLindsanity4Gerry @ 04/25/2012 at 3:20 pm

So, Lindsay Lohan ACTUALLY thinks Butler would want to do a Lifetime cable tv movie with her? FAT CHANCE! But she can dream, I guess….

@Obama Mamma:
Yes I do. Why? I saw it. :o)
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No worries, it’ll get found. Have a nice day.
~K

Democracy will cease to exist when you take away from those who are willing to work and give it to those who WILL not.

loosely translated.. thomas jefferson i think?…..

personally i’m moving to greece have my retirement paid for by germany……

@Obama Mamma:
You say he doesn’t care (about politics or current events — you know living in the U.S.A. for how long) by the looks of it? Really? You base what you ‘know’ about Gerry from what you see (on gossip sites)? Really? Jesus in a camper van, REALLY? Not a real question. Have a nice day.
~K

Obama Mamma @ 04/25/2012 at 3:31 pm

@GFW:
Your party choses to keep you deaf, dumb, and stupid. They never inform you of anything, do they? Sure they like to keep you ignorant so you’ll continue to vote for them. Only stupid people vote for your party. Informed people don’t. .
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OK, let me teach you some stuff. You obviously don’t know much about the law. As a noncitizen of the US, Gerry cannot contribute to any political party. In fact, it’s against the law for Obama Mamma to take his money. In the last election Obama Mamma had many outside interest groups and private people sending him contributions. He took them even though it is against the law. He even got money from terrorists because they thought his polices will weaken the USA, which they have, BTW. The other party just chose not to audit him. This time around I don’t think they will keep quiet as they did 4 years ago. Everyone wanted to give him a chance as the first black president. It’s not happening this time around. People are done with giving him chances. His policies are not in step with most people in the USA. Did you hear he ate dog meat in Indonesia? Well, of course he would. He didn’t grow up in the USA and doesn’t have our values. He is a foreigner in the strongest sense of the word. Just because he was born in the USA should not qualify someone to be president when they weren’t even raised here and have many practices that are not in line with the rest of America. Obama Mamma is out. He thinks if he goes to Jimmy Falan to peddle for votes from young people who are inexperienced about the world yet, he can win like he did in 2008.

No Go!!!! Get ready for a change.

@Obama Mamma:
No thank you. Have a nice day.
~K

Can'tGetEnough @ 04/25/2012 at 3:36 pm

Good Afternoon JJer’s! Here’s a tweet from last night. GB out at Agency Nightclub in Hollywood:

Juliet Cornwell ‏ @JulesCornwell
Ok most exciting #LA spot yet: gerrard butler #agencyLA
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And the Lohan thing:
http://www.eonline.com/news/lindsay_lohan_ill_be_great_elizabeth/311420

@Obama Mamma:

I’m not sure how I am spreading inaccuracies, I said GB had voiced his support for Scottish independence a few times, which he has. I never rated his enthusiasm.
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The first time I recall was the Big Issue interview where his response was admittedly tepid with “I don’t see why not.”
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The second quote was repeated in many articles and I’m not sure where it originated from. ” “I can’t see any reason why Scotland shouldn’t be independent. It’s a different country with different attitudes, people and outlook, so why not?”
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As for me basing my opinion on what I would want him to believe? How would you know? I don’t think I have ever discussed my position on Scottish independence on here. That would be you making assumptions about me, would it not?

Obama Mamma @ 04/25/2012 at 3:41 pm

Why am I not surprised GFW is a Democrat? She is exactly the kind of voter they like. Uninformed and can’t think for herself.

PS, You’re a rude little (read: I doubt it) cuss. Obama’s Mamma is 25 times the woman you’ll ever grow into. But that won’t stop me from telling you, again to have a nice day, and please –again– proof in print (not yours) ‘k?

PS, Oh wait! This was why LL stayed clean wasn’t? The lure? Guess knew she could make some money (and some more press) if she got this part? I won’t watch it, it makes no difference. Just think it demented she would actually think Gerry Butler would play Richard to her Liz? (shakes head)

Can'tGetEnough @ 04/25/2012 at 3:58 pm

Good grief Lohan! So you shared the same make up artist and hair stylist as Elizabeth Taylor and that means you know Liz very well? Run Butler RUN!

http://thecelebritycafe.com/feature/2012/04/lindsay-lohan-responds-rosie-odonnell-comments-wants-gerard-butler-play-richard-burt

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 04/25/2012 at 4:01 pm

@Obama Mamma:

Dad? Is that you? :)

mustang sally @ 04/25/2012 at 4:09 pm

The possibility of GB and Gary Oldman working together is excellent news! GO has such a presence as well . . . he embodies each character he portrays and makes it his own. I hope this is true . . . what an incredible movie they would make.

LL looks like she can start when Liz was in her prime, and most feisty, in mid-40′s by the looks her!
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This is hilarious, and kinda sad too. LL said, “I know that I know Liz Taylor very well, and I share the same makeup artist and the same hair stylist. We’ve worked with a lot of the same people.”
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Really? (blink-blink) And this makes you know her? What an insult to Liz. (Wait, I hear her groaning from her grave as she’ll spinning within it!) Someone take her off the talk circuit before the thing gets canned. How do you spell simply stuck on yourself?
~K

@mustang sally:
Couldn’t agree more. He did more acting sitting in a chair saying nothing in Tinker, Tailor, Solider, Spy than all the other talent signed on to play with him! Stillness is his secret. Shh, tell no one.
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Getting selected for Motor City (and the good guy) to work opposite the humongous talent of Oldman is a dream come true of mine. Told you his best work is in his future!
~K

Obama Mamma @ 04/25/2012 at 4:30 pm

@Anastasia Beaverhausen:
LOL! If I sound like your dad I take it as a compliment.

Obama Mamma @ 04/25/2012 at 4:33 pm

@GFW:
“Yes I do. Why? I saw it. :o)
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No worries, it’ll get found. Have a nice day.”
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Well where is it then??? I thought you were going to look for it. Instead you have been posting more cr@p. Either put up or shut up!

angelsrock @ 04/25/2012 at 4:37 pm

Correction! When he met them most of them weren’t in their 30s. They were in their 20s.
Bianca was 24 he was 38.
Jasmine was 28 he was 39
Alicia was 30 (+ or -) he was 39-40
Laurie was 28 he was almost 41
And of course there are many others that you don’t know about. But there are many rumors about picking up young chicks, so you don’t really need me to tell you. Trust me; he had many, many more women than what we have mentioned here.
Brand and Jenea are both close to 40. More like 38-39 (+ or -).
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So get your facts straight before going off. Not counting Jeannia or Jenas (the p0rn star) – the other women were still younger by YEARS when he got with them.
Shows his emotional development as retarded to me.

Gerry's Fooked Up Wife @ 04/25/2012 at 4:39 pm

Brandi was born in 1968. That is her birth age which puts her as OLDER than Gerry.
She was after she tweeted a pic of her drivers license after getting a new one which she summarily deleted I was told.

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 04/25/2012 at 4:40 pm

@Obama Mamma:

He’s just very much right wing. I felt like I was reading one of his emails. Haha Carry on……just checking in. Looks like Gerard B. is still living it up. Hi CGE, Autumn, Joie, angel, Toronto and others! I hope everyone is well. :-D

@Obama Mamma:
Someone will find it, or not. I saw it. It exists.
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What’s your issue? Gerry’s a liberal open-minded fair and just open-minded man who promotes equal rights for gays? You can’t stretch you mind to even consider that?
~K

@seneca:
Thanks! Hadn’t heard about that. Okay then, maybe not!
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Just know since he showed up in Washington, DC at his Inaugural we know he supported Obama (then and might even more-so now) so would make a great guest for George, which IS at the heart of the matter… nothing else.
~K

Obama Mamma @ 04/25/2012 at 4:57 pm

@niknoks:
“I said GB had voiced his support for Scottish independence a few times, which he has.”
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I only heard it that one time. If it was repeated in other publications it’s still just one time, as the others are just copying from the source.
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“The second quote was repeated in many articles and I’m not sure where it originated from. ” “I can’t see any reason why Scotland shouldn’t be independent. It’s a different country with different attitudes, people and outlook, so why not?”
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Actually, that’s the one and only quotes which I paraphrased with ‘I can’t see why not’. I don’t recall him saying anything different or further on the subject. And yes, it was extremely tepid and lukewarm, as if he is not 100% sure it’s a good move, but he knows it’s what most people want. I think the reason he isn’t sure it’s a good thing for Scotland is because he is not living there for over 10 years, thus he is not that informed about issues and he knows it. But he knows that the Scottish people have always thought of themselves as different from the rest of the British Isles, and Scottish independence is not a new issue anyway. In a way it’s been going on for centuries.
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Again, I don’t really think he is that much into politics. LA is such a world far removed from reality most of the time, and he is busy with his projects, his women, and his pursuit of good times anyway. I prefer him that way anyway. I don’t think he should get involved in issues. His job is to entertain and get good business deals for himself like the good businessman he is. Leave politics to the politicians. He is intelligent enough to know that, and is sticking to it I see.

@Obama Mamma:

Well because you only heard it one time, it doesn’t mean it was said one time. Like I said there was the tepid one in the Big Issue and the other more elongated one in a separate interview.
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Scottish Independence has been an issue for centuries but is about to become a massive issue as there is going to be a referendum in 2014 and it has nothing to do with the Scots seeing themselves as being different from the rest of the British Isles, it’s about them not being governed by Westminster.

Obama Mamma @ 04/25/2012 at 5:20 pm

@GFW:
“Just know since he showed up in Washington, DC at his Inaugural we know he supported Obama (then and might even more-so now) ‘
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LOL! Many people showed up at the inauguration who weren’t necessarily big supporters, specifically because it was a historic election. They wanted to be part of history. In addition, we know how much Gerry likes to see and experience everything and he always goes where the party is at. What do you think Coachella was all about for him? Namely, going where the happening party is and having a good time. Thus, going to DC didn’t necessarily mean he is a big Obama supporter, even though he did speak well of the man in an interview with JA at TBH promotional tour. Anyway, judging by the way the economy is now and how HW is suffering, I wouldn’t be so sure he is an even bigger supporter of this failed president now. I don’t think Gerry is a fool. He is a great businessman. He doesn’t need government handouts or works for some government agency. In fact, government policies impede people like him.
LOL!!! The government wouldn’t even care if the man drowned. The EPA was happier to have him drown before it would let jet skis go out and rescue him.
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The government needs to be shrunk by 66%. It’s good for nothing. It just makes useless laws and regulations to collect fines.
That’s why Obama Mamma must go!

Obama Mamma @ 04/25/2012 at 5:38 pm

@niknoks:
I still stand by my point. As far as I know, GB spoke about Scottish independence only one time. If you know of other places, please provide a link.
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“it has nothing to do with the Scots seeing themselves as being different from the rest of the British Isles, it’s about them not being governed by Westminster.”
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LOL! Why do you think the Scotts don’t want to be governed by Westminster? Because they see themselves as other type of people, separate and different from the rest of the people that live on the British Isles. It’s exactly what Gerry said in his quote, “I can’t see any reason why Scotland shouldn’t be independent. It’s a different country with different attitudes, people and outlook, so why not?”
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And it’s exactly the same reason the French in Quebec want independence from the rest of Canada. It’s all the same underlining reasons for most groups that want independence.
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With Scotland though, I think it will not be able to sustain itself as an in depended country. It’s not producing enough to stand on its own 2 feet. And besides, would it rather be under the thumb of Brussels? Westminster is better than Brussels with its own opposing interests. I think they have a lot to think about, and I believe Gerry himself is not well informed on it all that much right now, which is why he gave that lukewarm answer. Let’s wait and see. Whatever their decision is going to be, I wish the people of Scotland well.

psychcentral @ 04/25/2012 at 5:58 pm

Much research has been conducted about who engages in celebrity worship and what drives that compulsion. Celebrity worship for purely entertainment purposes likely reflects an extroverted personality and most likely a healthy past time for most people. This type of celebrity worship involves harmless behaviors such as reading and learning about a celebrity. Intense personal attitudes towards celebrities however, reflect traits of neuroticism. The most extreme descriptions of celebrity worship exhibit borderline pathological behavior and traits of psychoticism. This type of celebrity worship may involve empathy with a celebrity’s failures and successes, obsessions with details of a celebrity’s life, and over-identification with the celebrity.

Face the Music @ 04/25/2012 at 6:02 pm

Gerry likes hot young women.

Face the Music @ 04/25/2012 at 6:06 pm

LL will be great for him. She needs a savior and he needs to grow up. maybe they will be good for each other.

centralia @ 04/25/2012 at 6:06 pm

@Face the Music: What guy doesn’t?

Politics101 @ 04/25/2012 at 6:10 pm

Just a brief note about the limits of political contributions (you can check it out by going to the Federal Election Commission website fec.gov): individuals can contribute up to $2,500 per election in federal contests and $30,800 per calendar year to party committees. These limits apply to US citizens and also to foreigners with permanent green cards (i.e. permanent residents are treated as citizens in this case).

So, Gerry could contribute to the Obama (or even the Romney) campaign – assuming he has a permanent green card.
S

Face the Music @ 04/25/2012 at 6:11 pm

@centralia:
right! LOL!

May God Bless yoou all! @ 04/25/2012 at 6:13 pm

“May God give you more and more grace and peace as you grow in your knowledge of God and Jesus our Lord.” 2 Peter 1:2

Obama Mamma @ 04/25/2012 at 6:16 pm

@seneca:
Thank you!!!
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“The justices affirmed a ruling by a three-judge federal panel that upheld the ban adopted by Congress to keep foreigners from financially influencing U.S. elections.”
“President Barack Obama and fellow Democrats in Congress criticized that ruling while Republicans praised it.

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/25/2012 at 6:18 pm

@Obama Mamma:
I take it you didn’t see the ‘thumbs up’ photo of him at the Gala?
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Question. Why does it bug you Hags, I mean, ObamaHater (since you change your moniker each day), that Gerry isn’t a right-wing dude? Really? I’m surprised that it kind of ticks you off. I find it amusing you’re maxing out your character per post trying to convince us to switch teams!
~K

elections @ 04/25/2012 at 6:19 pm

@Politics101:
I don’t think Green card holders can contribute, just like they can’t vote.

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/25/2012 at 6:22 pm

@Politics101:
Good to know! I’ve no idea but he is very permanent here! Property owner, etc. Property taxpayer, etc! Yay!! Thank you! I just hope he gets an invite from George. That’s all. Want him there. Now as it is “next month” my guess is it’ll only be press once it’s over!
~K

@Obama Mamma:

“LOL! Why do you think the Scotts don’t want to be governed by Westminster? Because they see themselves as other type of people, separate and different from the rest of the people that live on the British Isles.”
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I don’t know why you keep referring to the British Isles. Scotland will still be a part of the British Isles regardless. Scotland is not going anywhere. The Scottish do not want to be governed by the English in Westminster.
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As for the Scottish not being able to sustain itself as it doesn’t produce enough? Why don’t you have a quick google and find out where all the oil is.

Politics101 @ 04/25/2012 at 6:34 pm

A little more clarity on the political contributions of foreign nationals (please check the FEC site): foreign nationals are prohibited from making any contributions to US federal campaigns, BUT permanent residents are not. This is a very important distinction that presumes (I believe) that permanent residents pay taxes and generally contribute and participate in what happens in the US, so they get to at least be a part of the election process even if they can’t vote. And, it makes great sense that foreign nationals who do not reside in the US should not be allowed to influence our elections.
S

@Obama Mamma:
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I’ve had problems posting the links without them going into moderation, so I’m trying them separately.
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http://www.gbgalsgallery.com/v/magazines/mgp/bigissue/

Obama Mamma @ 04/25/2012 at 6:45 pm

@niknoks:
“Scotland will still be a part of the British Isles regardless. Scotland is not going anywhere. ”
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Silly, of course it can’t go anywhere. But the fact still remains that the Scottish people don’t want to be governed by the English because they have always saw themselves different from everyone else that lives in that section of the world, especially the English, in spite of sharing common genetics. If you don’t think so then what do you think Gerry’s quote was all about? He practically said it. That’s why he doesn’t support English teams even.
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I still think that there is a major issue with Scotland being able to sustain itself as a standalone country and might end under the thumb of Brussels. And the fact still remains that Scotland is a poor state compare to others in Europe. If they have all this oil why don’t they do anything with it? It doesn’t bode well for them.

@Obama Mamma:

“If they have all this oil why don’t they do anything with it? It doesn’t bode well for them.”
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They do, but the profits go into the ‘Westminster’ kitty. If Scotland gained independence they would take ownership of the maritime boundaries and the oil and it’s profits would solely be theirs.

Obama Mamma @ 04/25/2012 at 6:58 pm

@GerrysFascinatingWoman:
Calm yourself. You don’t know he has a green card. Don’t go making up stories like you usually do. You can own property in the USA without having a green card.
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@niknoks:
Thanks. I will check out these links later on.

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/25/2012 at 7:13 pm

@Obama Mamma:
I’m very calm Hags Central. I am. It does not matter either way if he has a green card or not. My ex was a foreigner and had one.
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Just want him at George’s dinner, get it? That’s all. That’s what started this.
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Might as well face it he’s a liberal, and that bugs you, which delights me.
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I think he can’t stand Republicans at all. Would have HATED Rick Santorum and despises Romney. I think, venturing a guess here, that he and Alan and all his inner-loop friends are all like-minded, and want Obama reelected.
~K

angelsrock @ 04/25/2012 at 7:15 pm

@angelsrock:

Dear Poser, can you please explain to me why you use this moniker? I really would like an honest answer if you can find it in you to be honest.

Thank you, Angelsrock

angelsrock @ 04/25/2012 at 7:19 pm

@Anastasia Beaverhausen:

Hello, Anastasia and all JJ’ers!!! Hope you had a good Hump Day. Now we can drift into the weekend.

Does Gerry begin work on “Olympus” next week?

SOME PEOPLE HAVE BEEN HERE ALL DAY!!!!!!

go to a movie, take a walk, clean your house, shave your legs, find a hobby, do a crossword,

BACK AWAY FROM THE COMPUTER FOR FU.CKS SAKE!!!!!

Whatshedonenow @ 04/25/2012 at 7:54 pm

Daphne

No one is saying you should stop supporting him. But why get so upset if some people have a different opinion about him. It’s just an opinion. Why is it such a big deal if some people think he behaves like an egotistical selfish misogynist tw at and say so.

another day @ 04/25/2012 at 9:00 pm

another nightclub for Butler
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I think Obama makes a better slow jammer than President
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Seriously non stately imo, the USA looks like a joke on the world stage when its top dog wants to rap his policies

@another day: Naw, the dude you guys had just BEFORE Obama, the dumb-azz Texan BUSH, made your country a joke to some. Starting wars left, right and centre and causing/starting your financial crisis….
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I take it you want more of the same? If so, VOTE ROMNEY!!!! (and step back in time to the very policies that got you into this mess…)
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Anyhow…how did this thread turn political? Back to Butler, please!

Evening JJers! Shout out to AnaB, the REAL Angelsrock, CGE, NIKnoks, Toronto, CGE, JoieDeVivre, Lolita and anyone I missed here!

Wow took a short break and he’s back clubbing! Still a handsome git, but the older guy in the club scene is wearing thin! Cathouse is a typical LA club – dark, great music, just a little sleazy (ok a lot sleazy)!

Being Scottish, independence would be a great coup especially after all of the bloodshed from the centuries. Folks in my family still talk about stories from Bannockburn, The Bruce, plus all of my ancestors who died there – it’s like Ancestry.com on steroids!

Scotland is different AND the OIL is their revenue; Niknoks thanks for clarifying the issues with one of the posters. The other side of my family is Irish in Northern Ireland, Antrim : so my people are all fighters trying to get out from under British rule. Sorry for my SOAPBOX!

Still love our Gerry! I just contacted that Gals group for a 6′ x 6′ banner from LAC that a friend gave me as a gift – she works in a theatre and knows I like GB – asked me if I could use some new wallpaper – LOL! Hubby asked with a smirk if I wanted to use it as the canopy over our bed – NOPE was my answer. I’m donating it to their silent auction – rolled up in my basement is no good.

Hope you are well – haven’t read the other GB threads. More civility here I hope. Wishing everyone well, good health, good cheer and many laughs.

Autumn

suspiro…..suspiro……esta cancion va dedicada a mi adora alma gemela,a mi dulce amorcito…..THE PLATTERS….y…..ONLY YOU…….Only you can make this world seem right
Only you can make the darkness bright
Only you and you alone
Can thrill me like you do
And fill my heart with love for only you

Only you can make this change in me
For it’s true, you are my destiny
When you hold my hand
I understand the magic that you do
You’re my dream come true
My one and only you

Only you can make this change in me
For it’s true, you are my destiny
When you hold my hand
I understand the magic that you do
You’re my dream come true
My one and only you

(One and only you)

es tan romantica esta cancion,tan linda,que me imagino bailar en una sola loseta con mi adorado amor,bien pegados,cara a cara y sin temores,beso a beso……en noche de luna llena……..ayayai……me desmayo…….amorcito agarrame que soy toda tuya……risas…risas…..AMOR…AMOR…..P.A.S.I.O,N…….miau…miau……adios.

@Really?:

In politics, there is what is called a delayed effect. A lot of the issues with terrorism and the economy started with Bill Clinton.

~~~~~~~~~~

There will never be a President that both parties and all people with be completely happy with. No use in going on and on about it on a GB thread.

esta cancion estan sexy…….con ANITA WARD……..RING MY BELL…I’m glad you’re home
Now did you really miss me
I guess you did by the look in your eyes (look in your eyes, look in your eyes)
Well lay back and relax while I put away the dishes (put away the dishes)
Then you and me can rock-a-bell…

You can ring my be-e-ell, ring my bell
You can ring my be-e-ell, ring my bell
You can ring my be-e-ell, ring my bell
You can ring my be-e-ell, ring my bell

The night is young and full of possibilities
Well come on and let yourself be free
My love for you, so long than I’ve been savin’
Tonight was made for me and you

You can ring my be-e-ell, ring my bell
You can ring my be-e-ell, ring my bell
You can ring my be-e-ell, ring my bell
You can ring my be-e-ell, ring my bell

you can ring my bell, you can ring my bell
(ding, dong, ding, do-ong, ring it)
you can ring my bell, you can ring my bell
(ding, dong, ding, do-ong, ring it!)
you can ring my bell, anytime, anyway
(ring it, ring it, ring it, ring it ahh!)
you can ring my bell, anytime, anyway
(ding, dong, ding, do-ong)

you can ring my bell, you can ring my bell
(ding, dong, ding, do-ong)
you can ring my bell, you can ring my bell
(ding, dong, ding, do-ong, ring it!)
you can ring my bell, anytime, anyway
(ring it, ring it, ring it, ring it ahh!)
you can ring my bell, anytime, anyway
(ding, dong, ding, do-ong)
…………………………………………………..AAAAAY…..ring my bell……..

LINDSAY LOHAN WILL WIN OSCAR @ 04/25/2012 at 11:00 pm

she will!

LINDSAY LOHAN WILL WIN OSCAR @ 04/25/2012 at 11:02 pm

she will!
****

@LINDSAY LOHAN WILL WIN OSCAR: Not for a Lifetime cable tv movie she won’t…..LOL!

Observations @ 04/25/2012 at 11:07 pm

@Boo: Gerry’s not here. He’s busy b/anging a hot, young model…..get used to it!

@Observations:
Thanks for telling me. I was thinking in that direction but didn’t dare let my mind wonder there. Now that you said it yourself, I feel better now knowing that Gerry is being free to be himself, as it should be.

@Observations and @Boo
WRONG. He’s at an improv show in LA.

Obama Mamma @ 04/26/2012 at 12:24 am

@GerrysFascinatingWoman:
I notice you call everyone that doesn’t agree with you hags central, whatever that means. You called three deferent posters yesterday hags central. It just shows you are CLULESS.
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The fact you want him at George’s dinner, means nothing to anyone. It’s BS. It’s not up to you who Gerry supports. Get out of his personal business. I can almost tell you for sure that since George is such a radical and needs every penny to collect to ensure Obama Mamma’s reelection, he reached out to everyone in HW, including Gerry. If Gerry was so interested in Obama Mamma, I am sure he would have attended. Gerry is either not all that interested in politics, or just simply isn’t all that into Obama Mamma as you think! In fact, the number of HW actors supporting Obama Mamma is dwindling this year. It seems a lot of people are disillusioned with him. Face facts!!!
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Finally, I never said here Gerry wasn’t a liberal; he probably is. I was just implying that even if he is a liberal, which most people from Europe are, he can’t vote or donate to any political party because lack of citizenship. And anyway, if he ever supported Obama Mamma before, I think now he might be less than enthusiastic about him, like the rest of HW feels right now. There are a lot of people in HW at this time that are not very happy with Obama Mamma’s performance. In addition to all that, I just don’t think he is all that much into politics from what little he said over the years about politics. He never stays home long enough to watch politics so I doubt he is really informed. He is busy with his projects, his women, and his pursuit of good times to really care. He‘s always running to some club or party, stays until the wee hours of the night, and probably sleeps half the next day. If I was living his life, I wouldn’t have cared much either. So again calm yourself, and stop pretending you know him because you don’t know jack sh!t.

You’re just obssessed with him.

@Obama Mamma:
I agree with you that Gerry isn’t into politics. When he was asked about the Occupy Wall Street protests that were happening all over the country he had absolutely no opinion. He made the excuse that it was because he was in Santa Cruz filming. LOL! That was a pretty lame answer considering there were Occupy Wall Street protests in Santa Cruz! It would be hard not to know about it. Everyone in the country had strong opinions for or against it. Gerry seemed completely clueless.

@Obama Mamma:
“He is busy with his projects, his women, and his pursuit of good times to really care. He‘s always running to some club or party, stays until the wee hours of the night, and probably sleeps half the next day.”
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I agree with this, too, and I think it’s unfortunate. To be 42 years old and show so little interest in the wider world around him seems very shallow to me.

Obama Mamma @ 04/26/2012 at 1:31 am

@mallory:
Don’t hold it against him. He minds his own business for better or worse. He focuses on himself and his desires – his needs, his businesses, his women, his projects. I wish other HW stars did the same. I don’t find them an authority on anything besides acting and maybe the inner workings of HW. They are not particularly educated or well-informed on anything. I can’t take any political advice or direction from actors. That said, I like Gerry and his work. He is a good actor and appears to be a good person as well, regardless of his shenanigans which I try not to hold against him.
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I can understand him not being involved with US politics. First, he isn’t a citizen so he has no real right to get involved. Second, maybe Alan told him to stay away from issues for fear of alienating a segment of his fans. I think they are both good businessmen and they know that staying neutral is the best thing for his career. For all we know he could have very strong feelings on certain things, but being the diplomatic person he is, he knows how to handle tough questions and reply in ways that don’t look like he has opinions. It’s like Gerry going to Serbia and telling them he wants to move there lol. He tells everyone what they want to hear. So while I agree with you that it’s almost impossible to believe he had no inclination of the “Occupy Wall Street” movement going on in his vicinity while shooting OMAM, it’s possible he is either really preoccupied with his personal life, doesn’t feel right to get involved in US politics, or he just doesn’t want to take sides and upset the people he is against. Whatever his true reason(s) is, I can’t say I blame him.

DARGABRIEL @ 04/26/2012 at 2:08 am

Hello to all. Noghtclubs are for the birds and known as meat markets. Mr. Butler really should be maturing in some ways, that’s not to say he can’t bring the child out in himself, like eating cocoa puffs or climbing on monkey bars, some my favorites, its very fun. My roomate treats me like a little girl, haha its cool being so little and childlike, but there are boundries to being childlike, that doesmt include strip clubs,bars, or meat markets. So grow up Butler and bring the little boy out. Hi Cholita, jaja, I love jaja. I’ve been naughty, but it’s fun. I really hope GB meets someone that will bring him positive light. I hope everyone here is doing well. Cholita I’m thinking about you often and send my loving,sensual vibes yoi way. Tale care much peace. Love, dargabriel

DARGABRIEL @ 04/26/2012 at 2:16 am

Oops lots of typos, haha Droid razor is hard to speed type on. Good night.

bystander @ 04/26/2012 at 4:25 am

Hi angels. Niknoks, autumn, curious cat, joie, manny, gfw, reviews and all the other regulars.
Gosh these boards get repetitive dont they? A stream of nightclub, concert and eatery appearances and possible projects from Gerry, and going over the same old ground and infighting on here.
How are you all?

angelsrock @ 04/26/2012 at 6:21 am

@bystander:

Yep, same ol’, same ol’ bystander. I think he gets back to work next week and that is a good thing. He needs a good hobby and a good woman.

AustinCityLimits @ 04/26/2012 at 6:31 am

Nightclubs and other hot spots, restaurants, etc., pay celebrities to be there on certain nights. These appearances are arranged by their agents, and the celebrity can make anywhere from 10K to 100K, depending on the size and popularity of the club or restaurant. This is how these places drum up their best business. And most of them put out notices that whoever is going to be there and that is why the paparazzi is always around. Everything is planned and known of before hand. It is these kind of “appearances” that the Kardashians and Paris Hilton makes the majority of their money. So, it is a conceivable notion that Gerry is being paid to go to (at least) some of these places that he is seen on such a frequent basis. Celebrities are drawing cards for this kind of thing, and in all probability, Gerry is being paid well for his appearances at these clubs.

angelsrock @ 04/26/2012 at 6:39 am

@AustinCityLimits:

This could be the case. He may draw in patrons due to his bachelor status and his rep for being a party boy. He loves to hit the dance floor and belt out a song or two. Amazing that some celebs are making money this way. Wow!!

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/26/2012 at 7:17 am

I hope “they” use this photo as the movie poster for Of Men and Miracles, I mean, Of Men and Mavericks…
http://gbgalsgallery.com/d/151407-3/OMAM_fb_im1.jpg
~K
who thinks Gerry looks so proud of himself that this picture captures the essence of spirit of the movie and bond between mentor and he who is being mentored to… and the fact I just love it!!

Can'tGetEnough @ 04/26/2012 at 7:54 am

Good Morning JJers! Here are a few tweets from last night:

Taylor Young ‏ @taylorxyoung 8 hours ago
Gerard Butler is in the Groundlings audience. THIS IS GROUNDLINGS!!
http://www.groundlings.com/shows/show-details.aspx?showID=4
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Kyle Copeland ‏ @kylemcope 7 hours ago
Just sat next to Gerard Butler at a comedy club for the last hour.

Can'tGetEnough @ 04/26/2012 at 7:55 am

Of Men And Mavericks FB page:

http://www.facebook.com/OfMenAndMavericks

Can'tGetEnough @ 04/26/2012 at 7:59 am

And a fan pic from last night:

Pablo Rossil ‏ @pablorossil 5 hours ago
THIS! IS! THE PHANTOM OF THE OPERA!
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http://twitter.com/#!/pablorossil/status/195374885923602432/photo/1

curious cat @ 04/26/2012 at 8:30 am

@angelsrock: I swore I wouldn’t come here agan and saw your plea. What seemed like a plea anyway. I think I would say stick by the moniker you chose. If you intend t o continue to post on the site, I think you need to establish who you are. If someone uses your moniker, complain to the site. And keep doing what you;re doing, denying the fake posts. They go away pretty quickly if you keep insisting. The website has our email addresses,you can establish what isn;t you. And ask us for help. People who have been around here long enough learn what to expect from people. I am sorry for railing at you not knowing it was someone else. But I really railed at that person. Not you.

I read once Paris Hilton was paid a huge amount of money to come to a Miami club back a few years. It’s done. Just to have the “………. was here.” status brings in folks!
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Gerry at a comedy club? Terrific news! Laughter is good medicine. Now as for the photo… kind of caught him in-between!
~K
who loves that wild hair as it is befitting of who he is these past few years who thinks he feels the people around him won’t let him become who he wants to… they want the same him

Gerry being at This Is Groundings is very interesting because it is in how they work, off-the-cuff, by the seat-of-their-pants or what other cliche we can think of. I can see where this might be of high interest and very appealing to Gerry. Why? It’s unpredictable.
~K
hopin’ had more fun that in that photo and think he did who thinks he’s such a sweetheart to fulfill fans requests for photos really into it or not…

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/26/2012 at 10:01 am

@curious cat:
Or she could simply sign? The imposter would be less inclined to use her signature.
~K

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/26/2012 at 10:04 am

PS, I would report ALL posts not yours explaining to those behind the scenes (and they are there) what’s going on showing them your email so they know and, if they are so inclined, they can delete the demented souls imitations of you. Question is, why you?

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/26/2012 at 10:34 am

@mallory:
“I agree with you that Gerry isn’t into politics. When he was asked about the Occupy Wall Street protests that were happening all over the country he had absolutely no opinion.”
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That didn’t mean he didn’t have one, you dolt! He did. But he’s wise enough to keep his political aspirations, beyond the red carpet thing, within his inner-loop.
~K

fantasma del amor te envio esta cancion especial para ti………….realmente es tan caliente esta letra………agarrate fuerte muchacho…….Caliente,caliente eo,caliente,caliente oa,
caliente,caliente eo,caliente,caliente oa

Hace tiempo que mi cuerpo anda loco anda suelto
y no lo puedo frenar(aaaa y no lo puedes frenar
Por las noches me despierto abrazada a la almohada
y con deseos de amar(aaaa y con deseos de amar

Sera que ya es primavera(caliente caliente)nose
Sera que ya no me besas(caliente caliente)nose
Sera que tienes a otra que tus fuerzas agotan
y llegas harto de amar

Caliente caliente eo,caliente caliente oa
caliente caliente eo,caliente caliente oa

Hace tiempo que mi cuerpo está desierto de besos
tu me quieres matar(aaaa el la quiere matar)
Premio para el caballero que me bese
primero no se arrepentira(aaaa no se arrepentira)
Sera que ya es primavera(caliente caliente)nose
Sera que ya no me besas(caliente caliente)nose
Sera que tienes a otra que tus fuerzas agotan
y llegas harto de amar.
Sera que ya es primavera(caliente caliente)nose
Sera que ya no me besas(caliente caliente)nose
Sera que tienes a otra que tus fuerzas agotan
y llegas harto de amar.Sera que ya es primavera
(caliente caliente)nose.Sera que ya no me besas
(caliente caliente)nose.Sera que tienes
a otra que tus fuerzas agotan y llegas harto de amar
Sera que ya es primavera(caliente caliente)nose
Sera que ya no me besas(caliente caliente)nose
Sera que tienes a otra que tus fuerzas agotan
y llegas harto de amar.Caliente,caliente eo
caliente,caliente oa,caliente,caliente eo
caliente,caliente oa.
………RAFFAELLA CARRA ……con CALIENTE…CALIENTE……..besitos.besitos …..adios…..risas.risas……

@GerrysFascinatingWoman:
Great photo of Gerry and his co star. I’m looking forward to this film a lot as it sounds really inspiring and very moving indeed.
I am happy Gerry made this movie as it is about second chances and broken men who begin again.
They start from scratch.

@CHOLITA: Why do you write songs? you love music?

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/26/2012 at 10:55 am

@Amanda:
I just made it my desktop I like it that much! Let them ask! Everyone should make it their desktop photo!
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You can see his body/mind/soul strength, feel those radiate from the photo from inside outward! It’s that prevalent. It is.

The two men walking from the sea. The ocean with its own mind. Its own strengths. And Jay and Frosty both respect the ocean.
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This movie must be promoted well. I feel it’s going to be a maverick of a film! Or should be. Plus it’ll be hitting theaters when it’s cold (on this coast) and be a welcome relief to see beautiful California.
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I’m very excited about this. Of course his NDE will be focus of chat while filming but with each rendering of the tale we hope he realizes how lucky he truly is and how he is meant to be here, be here now.
~K, promoter of what’s best in Gerry and proud supporter of his career and the man within… by any means necessary… hoping this could be his Oscar role!!

angelsrock @ 04/26/2012 at 11:14 am

@curious cat:

No worries, cc. It’s just a minor annoyance, kind of like a fly buzzing around.

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/26/2012 at 11:15 am

Just posted this on IMDb (sorry more Gerry stuff [wink])
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Re: Oct 2012 release
by you
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I think this movie released when it’s cold out (for most of the U.S.A.) is a great idea. And close to Oscar time as well, which is even better.
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I get really good vibrations (LOL Okay, had to say that) about this film! What will be the soundtrack? How will they promote it? What will be its rating? When will the trailer be ready!?
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GFW
~K
who loves that photo and feel this could be one of his most important films because it’s a poor student who doesn’t over-take its master

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/26/2012 at 11:18 am

New York Times is a big deal. It is. Could this be it? Could be!!
http://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2012/03/01/t-magazine/04riders-interactive.html
~K

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/26/2012 at 11:20 am

OMG!!! “Riders on the Storm” is THE perfect song for this!!!
~K
who wants to hear Gerry sing it (swooning)

@CHOLITA: I love your songs and you Cholitа.

May God Bless yoou all! @ 04/26/2012 at 11:46 am

All Scripture is inspired by God and is useful to teach us what is true and to make us realize what is wrong in our lives. It corrects us when we are wrong and teaches us to do what is right. God uses it to prepare and equip his people to do every good work. 2 Timothy 3:16-17

malibumillie @ 04/26/2012 at 11:59 am

@AustinCityLimits: Gee didn’t realize GB was so hard up for cash.

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/26/2012 at 12:13 pm

@malibumillie:
He’s not being paid (I don’t think) to attend bars in Hollywood. I doubt he’s strapped for anything, but in his car seat when driving!
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It’s her speculation is all, which is fine. Sorry, I’m just not buying that as why he gets night fever and hits clubs despite my ‘sample’ which I was not indicating he did it.
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Feel it is what it is, night fever. Why bother with dissecting it? Kind of falls into that young, rich, handsome, single and bored with money to burn so he hits night spots like a million or so others (in the same club with him) do.
~K

did anyone see these from his Dracula 200o days?
http://gbgalsgallery.com/v/premieres/d2k/d2kg2.jpg.html
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In 2009 Gerard Butler was named Glasgow Film Office’s Ambassador. He shares with GFO a strong passion for raising the profile of Glasgow and demonstrating its capability as a production base, citing his own experiences of filming here as evidence.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GGKeF1gxi40

Gérard Butler~Soldier of Love
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RWozqs1-zXU
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Gerard Butler – o mio babbino caro
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4SwjAAopIp0&feature=plcp
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Both very nice!

angelsrock @ 04/26/2012 at 1:41 pm

@GerrysFascinatingWoman:

Great article. Thanks, gfw.

You can really see him here – he wasn’t doing well at all. We all thought he was tired from promoting, but it’s a lot more than that.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BteEmsXIltQ&feature=youtu.be
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So many cute videos lately using his recent pictures and outings
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mTlcFUOVc24

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/26/2012 at 1:53 pm

“To learn the personality of a particular wave is to become intimate with the contours of a landscape, to map that landscape and make it yours.”
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That’s from the article. It appears both directors put a lot into authenticity. To me this sets this film apart from the aforementioned samples.
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And, yes, filming in December was dangerous but Gerry did not do anything wrong. The ocean rules. Just so glad he didn’t perish. But that was not meant to be. He’s more to do. More films with messages to make!
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I wonder if say, Johnny Weston were to get a wave of attention, sorry had to say that, what advice Gerry would give him now seasoned, seared, and possibly soured by Hollywood?
~K

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/26/2012 at 1:54 pm

@Reviews:
Oh Lord I just nearly spit out my salad! (coughing) Heavens! [read: just snagged it for the blog] (blushing)
~K

Thunder Run to start filming SOON
http://louisianaentertainment.gov/index.php/film/production-hotline/

“Freedom Films’ feature film Thunder Run starring Gerard Butler, Sam Worthington, and Matthew McConaughey will shoot May 1, 2012 to July 15, 2012 in Baton Rouge. ”
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Is Gerry going down there on day one? Let’s wait and see where & when he’ll turn up next.

@heknowsit:
Sorry, I didn’t see that you posted the same vid already.
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@GerrysFascinatingWoman:
LOL! Be Careful!

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/26/2012 at 2:04 pm

Think these three hunks might enjoy each others company while filming. -
Wonder what all scenes they’ll be in together, if at all?
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Really think him and Sam will hit it off well with Gerry and they’ll be fast mates.
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Matt is in another place, married and all that (which is great) plus another Scorpio, so that can go either way, but they DO know each other from working back when Matt was being groomed for stardom. Now all three are equal (or I think so) at least talent wise.
~K

@@boo:
You think he’ll turn up in Jordan??

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/26/2012 at 2:07 pm

@Reviews:
No worries. I have a thing for men in khaki’s of any sort. Love the combo of white and British khaki. My favorite skirt is a khaki skirt. It’s like anything goes with it… dressed in 2 seconds! LOL
~K
who thinks Gerry, whose doctor visit hopefully got him well, is finally getting back to what he loves to do… work!

@Reviews: yessss as a birthday gift for Muna Khalaf from her aunt, gerry and taylor kinney

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/26/2012 at 2:14 pm

There’s a strong possibility he’s up in the air I suspect, or not.
~K

@@boo:
Do you really think he knows Muna Khalaf or her aunt?

@Reviews: he knows. now. lol.

angelsrock @ 04/26/2012 at 2:42 pm

@Reviews:

Is this the film that will be done with all CGI technology like Polar Express and Jolie’s Beowulf? Do they really have to act out the scenes or do they just do the voices?

@@boo:
I think the birthday present from Aunt was tickets to the comedy club where she met Butler.

@angelsrock:
I don’t know. Where did you hear that?

angelsrock @ 04/26/2012 at 2:51 pm

@Reviews:

I’m not sure where I read that. But I think it was discussed here once before. I hope that I am wrong. I really don’t like the look of those. I’d much rather it be live action.

Hollywood Gossiper @ 04/26/2012 at 3:11 pm

@angelsrock: It is supposed to be mainly CGI but I think they did need the actors, there was an article about the technology they use, same as Avatar so not just voice work.

correction @ 04/26/2012 at 3:35 pm

@Reviews: That photo was taken last summer, when he was so thin. Not recent – look how the pants are too big for him.

The Lakers @ 04/26/2012 at 4:57 pm

@He’s dating someone
You’re right. Jenea Alt was at the game and tried to speak to Gerry. She went because she knew he would be there since he always goes.

angelsrock @ 04/26/2012 at 5:27 pm

@Hollywood Gossiper:

Thanks for the info HG! But in Avatar they did have live action too. I wonder how this movie will work.

@Reviews: Both very nice videos, I love that opera song even though I don’t know what the words are. She has a lovely voice. Thank you.

@angelsrock: Angel, seems like some good reviews for OMAM so far. I hope it’s a big hit for Gerry and all involved.

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/26/2012 at 6:20 pm

@FYI:
You know that’s great for BlackBerry! He can help improve sales!
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One suggestion was corporate and the governments were its biggest customers now since so many are into Droids or iPhones because BlackBerry’s are more secure. Maybe that’s why he likes it!
~K

@lolita:
Hi Lolita.
“O mio babbino caro” (“Oh My Beloved Father”) is a very famous piece of Opera. It’s often featured in movies because of its beauty. Often, most people that are not into Opera will point out how much they enjoy this particular aria.
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Literal translation:
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Oh my dear papa,
I love him, he is handsome, handsome.
I want to go to Porta Rossa
To buy the ring!

Yes, yes, I want to go there!
And if my love were in vain,
I would go to the Ponte Vecchio
And throw myself in the Arno!

I am anguished and tormented!
Oh God, I’d like to die!
Papa, have pity, have pity!
Papa, have pity, have pity!
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/O_mio_babbino_caro

@Reviews: Thank you, I get the meaning to the song, it is beautiful.

@GerrysFascinatingWoman:
“BlackBerry’s are more secure. Maybe that’s why he likes it!”
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I think you might be on to something.

Joie de Vivre @ 04/26/2012 at 7:07 pm

Greetings everybody! Hope this finds each of you in a good place in your lives, and enjoying the springtime. Hope Butler is well and taking care. He is such an enigma, that man. There is so much to learn on this thread as I skimmed through. Never knew the details and logistics of the “politics” of Britain before, especially regarding Scotland. Who knew one could learn so much on a JJ Gerard Butler thread….LOL! I say that because I trust niknoks and I believe she knows the facts. Nik, good luck with the weeks ahead…sure to be memorable. Anyway, it is enjoyable to catch up and see some of the sane regulars make a post or two. Hey Ana B., loved your quip, “Dad?…”. And Angelsrock, you stand strong sista! That moniker is yours. Besides we know you through your posts and we know when fake AR is lurking. Big hello to Autumn, lolita, bystander, CGE, Toronto, God Bless, GFW, CCat, Reviews, gosh, sorry if I missed someone. Everybody stay safe and kind! Positive thoughts and prayers to all. ♥

Joie de Vivre @ 04/26/2012 at 7:11 pm

@lolita: Here is Jackie Evancho performing “O Mio Babbino Caro” for her AGT audition. Shivers. (Hope it goes through properly). Love and hugs, lolita! ♥

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SKhmFSV-XB0

@Joie de Vivre: Hi, Joie, glad to hear from you. How was HB’s B’day, I know he loved the quilt. Take care and Blessings♥

Joie de Vivre @ 04/26/2012 at 7:22 pm

@lolita: The birthday was awesome, he’s still beaming and he was surprised. He doesn’t have the quilt yet. The frame is at the “quilt frame” hospital being repaired. Soon. Would love to show you a photo of the front, but he needs to see if before anybody else. Thanks for asking love. Hope you’re feeling good and strong. Been praying for you. ♥

@Joie de Vivre: OMG, Joie, what a powerful voice from such a tiny little girl. Sometimes even when you don’t know the words to a song, it can make you feel so many emotions by the way it is sung. Thank you dear.

Joie de Vivre @ 04/26/2012 at 7:25 pm

One more thing, for Hockey Fans….C-A-P-S, CAPS, CAPS, CAPS…. For HB, the Caps knocking the Stanley Cup defending Boston Bruins out of the playoffs is better than a quilt right now…. LOL!! Let’s GO CAPS!!!! WOOT-WOOT! Hey, we’re due around here (WDC) for a little professional sports excitement.

@Joie de Vivre: Joie, doing much better. At the highest level of the medicine I can take but it is working and soon they will be reducing the amount. Thanks for your prayers and well wishes.

Joie de Vivre @ 04/26/2012 at 7:32 pm

@lolita: Good news! Always, lolita.

Joie, did you see the picture GFW posted of Gerry in the water with his co-star, good grief my big brute looks good even wet. That was a great pic.

Joie de Vivre @ 04/26/2012 at 7:41 pm

Oh yes! Thanks, GFW. I agree, and I think anybody looks their best when emerging from the sea…. but that’s just me. LOL! :)

@Joie de Vivre:
thanks for the chat Joie, got to go, have a wonderful evening.

Whatshedonenow @ 04/26/2012 at 7:48 pm

Just perusing some of the most hotly anticipated movies for the next twelve months. There are some potentially really strong films coming out.  So far there are no mentions for any of GB films in the critic’s previews.  But he might surprise even me if he sticks to using his Scottish accent. We’ll see. Always happy to be wrong about his acting skills.

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/26/2012 at 8:06 pm

@lolita:
@Joie de Vivre:
It would make an awesome poster for the film. Said as much at IMDb at the Of Men and Mavericks message board. :o)
~K
who likes the water sign in the water as the tumbled pearl emerged from its shell…

British Cows @ 04/26/2012 at 8:45 pm

@Whatshedonenow:
Please…his acting skills are great and his movies will be announced for the upcoming year. Stop being so negative all the time. Do you ever have a good happy day in your personal life, or do you see everything always in cynical negative terms? Let me share a secret with you. People don’t like befriending and spending time with people that always see everything in negative ways. Change your attitude, change your luck…….and have a better personal life.

@bystander: Hey Bystander! Glad to see you on here! I took a break but it seems a warmer vibe here now. Busy with work! WA Caps are in the playoffs – rock the RED! WA Redskins just got Robert Griffin III in the Draft. Working with guys has made me be attuned to sports – at least the guys now know good shoe and purse labels – what a trade off.

The OMAM photo of Gerry is very nice! Gotta love a man in an O’Neill wetsuit.

Hope you have a great week!
Autumn

@Joie de Vivre: Hey GF! Nice to see the Caps in the playoffs and we got Griffin in the NFL draft. Sorry i got on my soapbox about Scottish independence. Glad HB’s birthday was a success and hope the quilt comes back well from the framer! Hope we get to meet up soon! I think you’re just terrific!

Hugs, Autumn

Whatshedonenow @ 04/26/2012 at 9:07 pm

Britishcow (the open minded poster)

Actually I was just pointing out a fact. And I am very fortune to have some wonderful friends thank you very much.

@lolita: Hey there sweetpea! Glad to hear the meds are doing the trick and I hope you continue to feel better day by day. Stay strong and just keep the image of GB in the wetsuit in your mind’s eye – it could work wonders and lead to some really juicy daydreams! You are in my thoughts!

Autumn

British Cows @ 04/26/2012 at 9:15 pm

@Whatshedonenow:
It’s obvious you have an unhappy personal life which is the only reason you sound so negative and nasty all the time.

Joie de Vivre @ 04/26/2012 at 9:17 pm

@Autumn: Hello my friend. No worries, because your soapbox always teaches me something. YES! CAPS!! HB’s favorite sport. He calls it the heavy metal of sports. Griffin, good news. I never like discussing my Redskins too much pre-season, to avoid any jinx. But in this case, (yesss). Hope you are well. My sister owns the frame so that is why it isn’t finished. Perfectionist. I would have thrown a quilting bee if I knew…LOL! Butler has a busy schedule ahead and we’ll have another premier before we know it. ♥ OMAM in Oct. with all of us locals who want to connect, right? I’m in. Love and hugs, Autumn! XXO

@British Cows:
“do you see everything always in cynical negative terms?”
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Your moniker is “British Cows” and you accuse someone else of seeing the world cynical negative terms? Take your own advice and “stop being so negative all the time. Change your attitude, change your luck.” :D

Actually... @ 04/26/2012 at 9:22 pm

@British Cows: YOU calling someone else out for being negative and nasty is hilarious! OH. THE. IRONY!

bystander @ 04/26/2012 at 9:32 pm

@Autumn: thanks Autumn. Hope you have a great week too.
Hope your playoffs are good, but what sport are talking about? My local ‘sometimes I support them’ football (soccer) team had a troubled season and just avoided relegation. I guess I’m one of those dreadful fairweather fans, cos I loved last season when they were promoted via their playoffsm! Just changed to an all female team at work, no more dissection of the sport results on Monday mornings.
Lost my mum recently , so jj remains a welcome distraction on the daily commute, or like now, in the middle of the night when my mind is too full to sleep. I read all viewpoints as long as personal insults arent traded. It’s nice to see that Mr B is having such a fun time between projects, and networking hard. Fingers crossed for his ‘sobriety’.

Joie de Vivre @ 04/26/2012 at 9:38 pm

@bystander: Hello bystander, with all due respect, please accept my heartfelt condolences over the loss of your mother. My prayer is that you will find joy and comfort in her memory that you will always cherish. God bless you, friend. XXO

Joie de Vivre @ 04/26/2012 at 9:44 pm

@bystander: Butting in again on your post to Autumn… the game is ice hockey and yes, fingers crossed that Butler’s being a good boy, as far as his health and wellness are concerned. Hope you find good restful sleep soon. ♥

@Joie de Vivre: Headed to bed and saw your post! You, me, and the real Angelsrock for OMAM in Oct – totally doable! Quilts are so beautiful! I hope we get to see yours.
Huge hug – have a great week!
Autumn

bystander @ 04/26/2012 at 9:50 pm

@Joie de Vivre: thanks autumn. As soon as i posted I realised I was sharing a bit too much personal information, but so much goes through your mind when you can’t sleep. It’s 2:45 am here and I’ve been surfing the net for over an hour, so I think I’d better try now, oops. Enjoy your evening folks. Nightie night.

Joie de Vivre @ 04/26/2012 at 9:55 pm

@GerrysFascinatingWoman: One never knows but I think it might work. The story of Jay and Rick (Frosty) is supposed to be about Rick’s mentoring of Jay and how Jay took the Mavericks so seriously that he “engineered” his attempts. Obviously, I read that scenario somewhere today while catching up. But it makes sense. I’ll bet they have thousands of photos of that filming to choose from.

@bystander: Sorry Bystander – the WA Caps are hockey going for the Stanley Cup (a huge silver trophy)! I love real football – I’m a Glasgow Celtics fan and like the Manchester United. American football is our WA DC Redskins. I was in Edinburgh last may and got to see the Intl. Rugby matches which I find fascinating – tough sport with big burly men with no pads.

Most importantly, I am so sorry about the loss of your mom. Words cannot express my sympathy and I wish you much comfort as the days move forward. Glad to know that you found us here and I, like you, embrace the kind, thoughtful people here as well. Here’s to wishing you a restful sleep when it comes and a pleasant morning commute each day! Consider me a friend here and I am hopeful that your days become happier.

Let’s all hope GB finds his center soon. Good news on all of the projects! So many films, so little time!

Huge hug – have a pleasant Friday! With much kindness – Autumn

@Joie de Vivre: You never butt in – just enhanced the conversation. I wish I could offer more solace to Bystander – I know what it’s like not to sleep sometimes for days. Be good my friend – people thumbing down our conversations. Good lord we’ve exhausted all the new GB info and some of us need an outlet. Just pass over and not read it – I don’t read every post and don’t thumb just silly.

Autumn

British Cows @ 04/26/2012 at 10:05 pm

@:-): @Actually…:
LOL! The object of this thread is Gerard Butler. I am NOT negative in my RL or where Gerry is concerned. I am only negative in regards to posters that attack and hammer everything connecting to him and the fans that like him and see things in positive light where he is concerned. SO GET YOUR FACTS STRAIGHT. These British cows constantly put him down for good and bad alike, so he could never win. They always see him in sinister terms. This leads me to believe one thing and one thing only: They are simply unhappy in their personal life. They are unsatisfied, unimaginative, cynical, skeptical, malcontents. No ifs or buts about it.
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British Cows @ 04/26/2012 at 10:09 pm

@:-):
“Change your attitude change your luck” – I meant by it that if “Whatshedonenow” changed her attitude her luck would change too, and happier better things will come her way so that maybe it will help her stop being so negative and unhappy.

Joie de Vivre @ 04/26/2012 at 10:10 pm

Just sharing with my best cyber friends. OMAM will make it real. You are so cool. Love and hugs to you Autumn a

Joie de Vivre @ 04/26/2012 at 10:17 pm

@Autumn: My last post was meant for you, Autumn…LOL!! Fingers are always moving before the brain. LIFE IS GOOD!!! EVERYBODY, positive thoughts and prayers coming your way. XXO

yepitsalissa from twitter @ 04/26/2012 at 10:37 pm

Saw Gerard Butler @ groundlings show last night wearing SWEAT PANTS! REALLY?! Put some real pants on if you want me to fantasize about you!

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 04/26/2012 at 10:54 pm

@bystander:

I want you to know that I understand what you are going through. I also want to tell you to allow yourself to not feel “normal” as long as needed. Cry whenever you feel like it, don’t be afraid to tell people to give you space and just pretty much behave in whatever way you need to, for as long as you need to. You will always have your moments, but it gets easier, I promise you. And as much as you miss her, know that she is happy and she is watching over you.

Hi Miss Autumn, Miss Joie and well, everyone here! So so nice to see the conversing that is taking place this evening. For the most part. Sooo I haven’t looked at the Gerard B. pic that you are all referring to. I will check it out as soon as I post this. :-D Have a great weekend all!

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 04/26/2012 at 10:58 pm

@Autumn:

I’m not understanding the thumbs down either. I’ve decided from here on out, when I come on, I’m only going to thumbs up posts that I like and just move on from posts I don’t agree with. Thumbs down=negativity. :)

LOL. How funny that someone thinks being negative toward a whole country and generalizing about a whole country is better then criticizing the actual actions of a celeb. someone is really nutsy. keep locking yourself in your house and living on the web. the real worlds a better place without you.

@PsychoB:
you hate GB so much, don’t you?
lol you’ll never have him or a man like him and it’s killing you, isn’t it? fuucking nut case.

@British Cows:
So …..
Being negative and cynical about a celebrity means you have no life.
Being negative and cynical about Britain, women, and anonymous posters on a gossip board means you do have a life.
Ha, ha, ha!
Thanks for the laugh! :D

esta noche de media luna,tan sensual,me da ganas de bailar esta cancion tan sexy,amorcito esto es para ti……LADY MARMALADE…..de CRISTINA AGUILERA………ey sister, go sister, soul sister, go sister
Hey sister, go sister, soul sister, go sister
Hey sister, go sister, soul sister, go sister
Hey sister, go sister, soul sister, go sister

Gitchi gitchi yaya dada
Gitchi gitchi yaya here
Mocha chocolata, yaya
Where d’you think you’re sleeping tonight? Oh

Voulez-vous coucher avec moi, ce soir?
Voulez-vous coucher avec moi?
Voulez-vous coucher avec moi?
Voulez-vous coucher avec moi?

Now come on and share all your deep fantasies
I’m asking, not telling you, please
Show me all night you can do me right
Take me where I wanna be
(And I’ll be singing)

Gitchi gitchi yaya dada
Gitchi gitchi yaya here
Mocha chocolata, yaya
Where d’you think you’re sleeping tonight? Oh

Voulez-vous coucher avec moi, ce soir?
Voulez-vous coucher avec moi?
Voulez-vous coucher avec moi?
Voulez-vous coucher avec moi? Oh
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Mocha chocolata, ha
Cliche, cet soir
Wrong, wrong, that’s right
Bring it on, daddy, it’s the bedroom fight
Gonna head for your drawers, and pull em off fast
Gotta keep up if you think you can last
Gonna get wet, are you ready yet?
On your marks, get set

Voulez-vous coucher avec moi, ce soir?
Voulez-vous coucher avec moi?
Voulez-vous coucher avec moi?
Voulez-vous coucher avec moi? Oh

Voulez-vous coucher avec moi, ce soir?
Voulez-vous coucher avec moi? (Oh)

Voulez-vous coucher avec moi?
Voulez-vous coucher avec moi? (Avec moi, avec moi)

Voulez-vous coucher avec moi, ce soir?
Voulez-vous coucher avec moi? (Avec moi, avec moi)
Voulez-vous coucher avec moi?
Voulez-vous coucher avec moi?
(Where d’you think you’re sleeping tonight?) Oh

Voulez-vous coucher avec moi, ce soir? (He-hey le soir, hey)
Voulez-vous coucher avec moi? (coucher, coucher)
Voulez-vous coucher avec moi? (Yeah)
Voulez-vous coucher avec moi? Oh

Voulez-vous coucher avec moi, ce soir?
Voulez-vous coucher avec moi?
Voulez-vous coucher avec moi?
Voulez-vous coucher avec moi?……..de doux rêves, des baisers, des baisers d’amour ……. ……. bye.

British Cows @ 04/27/2012 at 12:37 am

@:-):
I am putting down those that themselves put others down. Attacking the people that continually do the attacking is right in my book, and calling a spade a spade. I am sick and tired of constant GB bashing coming out of these women. It’s obvious they have no life and are just complete and utter losers in their personal lives.
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In my book anyone that constantly puts down and repeats the same diatribes over and over again, surly has something wrong with them. Go wrap your head around that. I don’t think you can because you are a moral relativist.
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And most of these women are from the UK BTW. This means something. It means that this kind of behavior is prevalent in their society, which is why you see their tabloids steeped in mean-spirited gossip, hearsay, and innuendo, worse than any American publication. Sorry, these are just the facts.

@British Cows:
“In my book anyone that constantly puts down and repeats the same diatribes over and over again, surly has something wrong with them.”
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Oh child, you’re making this too easy! :D

British Cows @ 04/27/2012 at 1:17 am

@:-):
blah, blah, blah…..when you don’t have a meaningful reply…….
what did I expect? I should have known I am dealing with an idiot.
Carry on!

Brenda S. @ 04/27/2012 at 1:33 am

@British Cows, :-) is right. You are ASSUMING all posters from the UK are all the same. There are plenty of negativity on these threads and they are coming from US posters as well. Get over it girl. Your obsessed with the UK.

British Cows @ 04/27/2012 at 1:53 am

@Brenda S.:
I totally agree that there some posters from the US that behave the same way. However, save those which we all know about, and which usually like to taunt GFW and fight with her to no end, most of the mean-spirited ones are form the UK. I can’t say all, but I can definitely say most. And in case you haven’t noticed, I didn’t post anything negative in almost a week. It’s just that “Whatshedonenow” got me started again. And…. “Bystander” hasn’t said anything negative or snarky in a long time and I am starting to enjoy her posts. So actually I am not assuming all posters from the UK are all the same. I know what’s going on here.

@CHOLITA: CHOLITA FOREVER…

Cheyanne_Lent from twitter @ 04/27/2012 at 3:38 am

Totally saw hottie Gerard Butler at @ runyoncanyon_la today. Whew all I could think about was his abs in 300! Glad I said Hi :) #dreamy #sexy

MunaKhalaf from twitter @ 04/27/2012 at 3:44 am

@MazajFM SO excited!! Best birthday gift ever. Meeting Gerard Butler and Taylor Kinny NOW!! Best present from aunt and love her husband. 15 hours ago

Haneensaker1 from twitter @ 04/27/2012 at 3:49 am

OMG can’t believe we are meeting #gerardbutler and #taylorkinny # munas18thbirthday # dreamcometrue @MazajFM 15 hours ago

bystander @ 04/27/2012 at 4:09 am

@British Cows: Hi BC.. Think sometimes British posters humour is misunderstood too. We have a sarcastic, sardonic, self deprecating humour. I know in the past I’ve tried to post humourous ‘tongue in cheek’ comments that haven’t come across at all. Sometimes though, I just lose patience with Mr B’s antics and wish he’d wise up.

Who is taylor kinny?

angelsrock @ 04/27/2012 at 6:34 am

@Joie de Vivre:

Joie and Autumn, I still love you even though you are Redskins fans. Go Ravens!!! LOL
I am a Caps fan and I’m so happy for them!!!!

Glad to hear from you two!! Have a great weekend!!!

@Autumn, thank you so much for your well wishes, greatly appreciated. Also love to read your posts. He is a great visual to see in my minds eye.
@Bystander. My heartfelt sympathy for your loss of your Mum. People here who understand loss will understand it’s good to let some feelings go, it helps to heal.
@Joie, love your sense of humor, quilting bee.
@Angel, good day to you.
@GFW, thank you for the pic, he looked awesome.
Too all the JJr’s have a wonderful Friday♥♥

Can'tGetEnough @ 04/27/2012 at 8:45 am

Good Morning JJers! GB was hanging at Runyon Canyon yesterday! Here’s another tweet and a FB pic:

Mariana Knabben ‏ @MaryKnabben 10 hours ago
Celebrity sightseeing of the day: Gerald Butler @ Runyon Canyon!
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http://www.facebook.com/people/Christine-Mure/629093050

Can'tGetEnough @ 04/27/2012 at 8:49 am

A younger Gerard Butler in Little White Lies:

http://gbutler.ru/photos/little-white-lies-1998/

Can'tGetEnough @ 04/27/2012 at 8:59 am

Catching up and reading the posts from last night, so I wanted to send a hello out to Joie, Lolita, Autumn, bystander and A.B!!
Joie, I’m glad the hubby was surprised and enjoyed his birthday. I know he is going to LOVE that quilt. Can’t wait to hear about his reaction!! =) Lolita, I’m glad to hear your meds are working for you and I hope you continue to do well!! Always nice to see you here Autumn and I hope you’re doing well too and I’m so sorry about your mother bystander. I KNOW how you feel. Hugs!! A.B forget the thumbs and get back on here more often. I miss your posts! =)

Hope all of you ladies and all of the JJer’s have a great Friday!!

Can'tGetEnough @ 04/27/2012 at 9:06 am

@GerrysFascinatingWoman: GFW, the pic you posted at #254 is perfect and I made it my desktop as well! Never mind how sexy he looks with the wet hair and in the wet suit. Something even better about that glance to the side with the sun on his face. Thanks again for posting it.

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/27/2012 at 9:10 am

@Can’tGetEnough:
I hope it gets selected for the movie poster!
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It simply says it all doesn’t it? They’re both kind of looking in different directions exiting the sea. Him the past; Jay the future!
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I put it up in a IMDb Men of Mavericks tread topic… hey, who knows… anything is possible!
~K

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/27/2012 at 9:16 am

@Can’tGetEnough:
I never saw that movie. (slinking away) Is it any good? He looks very handsome as I love men in camouflage colors. Guess it’s worth it just to watch him! Wonder if Neflix has it?
~K

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/27/2012 at 9:17 am

No, not available. (sad face pout)
~K

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/27/2012 at 9:28 am

@Can’tGetEnough:
Good to know he’s found some better things to do within the LA city limits! Place looks awesome… a sight for poor city eyes… and nothing like Jordan! ;o)
~K

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/27/2012 at 9:29 am

“Show me all night you can do me right’<– This'll show up in my story! (blushing) LOL
~K

bystander @ 04/27/2012 at 9:30 am

@GerrysFascinatingWoman: I think you will find it was a 1990s UK tv series, like Lucy Sullivan, Young Persons, Unsuitable Job, not available on dvd. Luckily The Jury does sometimes come up on ebay.

Kinney is an actor, model and. @ 04/27/2012 at 9:42 am

@cupccake: MunaKhalaf @MazajFM @ ladygaga meeting your boyfriend, wish u were with him! #best18thbirthdaygift

Joie de Vivre @ 04/27/2012 at 9:53 am

@Can’tGetEnough: @GerrysFascinatingWoman: Yes, the more I look at that photo, the more I like it. There’s something about a man so compassionate about his work. OMAM is something to look forward to. It was good catching up with so many last night. Wish this thread were that way more often. Upbeat and enjoyable. Well, I’m jumping on the bandwagon too….changing the desktop photo. Have a splendid day you two. (Hope this doesn’t end up posting twice. First one went into moderation).

Joie de Vivre @ 04/27/2012 at 9:59 am

@bystander: Hello you! Little WHite Lies does look good. I’ve wanted to see it for a while. I brought it up here before and got ignored. Is that Tara Fitzgerald? The Jury is always available on Amazon here. Hope you have a lovely weekend. All my best wishes to you, friend.

Joie de Vivre @ 04/27/2012 at 10:02 am

@angelsrock: And I still love you even though you are a Ravens fan. LOL! They play each other this season in WDC in Dec. It will be interesting to see how both teams are doing when we finally meet up for OMAM in Oct. Have a splendid day, Angel. Be safe in this wind we are having today. LET’S GO CAPS!!!

Joie de Vivre @ 04/27/2012 at 10:05 am

@lolita: Very nice chat last night. It’s been a while since so many of us managed to be on at the same time. Miss those times here. Enjoy the day and weekend and stay safe. Hugs, lolita! ♥

Joie de Vivre @ 04/27/2012 at 10:09 am

@Anastasia Beaverhausen: Gosh, just missed you last night. Positive thoughts to you with your studies. Aren’t you coming down to the wire for this semester? Here’s to many more upbeat evenings of chatting and posting here. Hope you are well and happy, Ana B.! And hope our Butler keeps his boots on the right path. Good things on the horizon.

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/27/2012 at 10:35 am

@bystander:
Went to IMDb and found that out. Would like to see it though. Watching his early stuff is real fun. We discussed One More Kiss for days at the blog. Interesting to see mannerisms still around. The him that is, well, him!
~K

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/27/2012 at 10:36 am

PS, YouTube has two LONG clips of Little White Lies… I’ll watch those! My guess is since I found them under Gerard Butler it’s mostly his part in it? ;o) (sigh)

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/27/2012 at 11:06 am

I’m on a desperate search for Shadowlands with Anthony Hopkins staring as C.S. Lewis. Amazon has a UK version/format but nothing for us stateside! Eh? I’m perplexed Netflix doesn’t have it either. Saw the PBS version with Claire Bloom as Joy. Sorry… off topic! I just love how Lewis fell for a fan!
~K
who thinks Gerry is hot in olive

Taylor Kinney is pretty hot. Kind of looks like GB if you squint. He’s Lady Gaga’s boyfriend or was at one time. He’s on one of those vampire tv shows I think. I don’t watch them so I/m not sure.

@question?: sorry to disappoint you, but I don’t want a man like Gerry. my late husband served his country and loved his child more than anything. my current man is a fireman. both put their lives on the line. I’m not interested I’m someone who waste their lives away like Gerry.

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/27/2012 at 11:37 am

@PsychoB:
How is Gerry wasting his life away?
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I have a lot of respect for firemen!
~K

Gee, thumbs down for answering who is taylor kinney? I didn’t know either, so I looked him up and figured others didn’t know either. Sorry to have bugged someone.

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/27/2012 at 12:19 pm

@Can’tGetEnough:
Indeed! Funny how all this works, huh? Real or imagined? Who cares. And all positive stuff. Now, unless they can find something better to draw us in, this wins (for now) hands-down with the sun behind them forming a beautiful backdrop. Early morning exit from the mighty churning ocean as you see them carry their boards through the low tidal surf.
~K

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/27/2012 at 12:26 pm

Gerry looks very happy in that photos. Feel it was a good shoot, whatever just transpired. Gerry is brimming full of confidence and it shows! He’s at ease with a lot of energy radiating from the picture from within by both of them.
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Now, it is Gerry’s film but about the younger surfer and his relationship, so hopefully they’ll keep that in mind.
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This is big for Wesson! He’s a tall lad too. Just love this photo. They promote O’Neil too! And the hand-made boards as well! Just think it a different kind of movie and, trust me, Hollywood sorely needs diversity!
~K
who has never seen Gerry look more healthy than in this picture where he looks big, strong, and wise with lion’s eyes ;o)

Can'tGetEnough @ 04/27/2012 at 12:35 pm

The photo is beautiful and authentic. A billion times better than the Playing The Field photo-shopped pic of Butler with the women! Hope they come up with something better for PTF, but this one for OMAM is perfect.

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/27/2012 at 12:48 pm

@Can’tGetEnough:
Those at Playing The Field need me! LOL
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I think that was a prototype or teaser tryout poster? Don’t feel it read the film well at all distancing a huge portion (men) from wanting to see a film about soccer, which should draw them in!
~K

anyone knows how to watch “One More Kiss ” online? I heard there is a way to watch it on the Internet not in short Youtube videos.

mustang sally @ 04/27/2012 at 1:09 pm

Excellent pic for OMAM . . . from what we know of the story it truly does capture its essence . . . it has all the components and the best part is that it’s authentic, as CGE #394 noted. Now let’s talk about his sexy hair (lol) . . . can’t wait to see it in this film and also in PTF. Is it true he may be cutting it soon for all his upcoming action movies? Probably. Having all those gorgeous curls clipped will be epic . . . . especially if he goes to a buzz cut. Gasp! This is something that should be captured on film (e.g. Elvis’ famous haircut). Although he can pull off long and short hair and looks gorgeous either way!

God Bless yoou all! @ 04/27/2012 at 2:20 pm

“Heal me, O Lord, and I will be healed; save me and I will be saved, for you are the one I praise.” Jeremiah 17:14

Can'tGetEnough @ 04/27/2012 at 3:05 pm

OMG, has anyone ever seen this? I hadn’t! LOL Check out GB! Too funny!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KNcvQpjGSDA

mustang sally @ 04/27/2012 at 3:24 pm

THAT was hilarious!! GB sure had some smooth moves goin’ on . . . and check out that tongue action (lol). Too funny for sure!

@Can’tGetEnough: CGE, thanks for all the pics and well wishes. That video is hysterical, that was when he was on SNL. He is such a squirrel, good grief he must be a goof ball in real life. I’m glad he doesn’t always take himself so seriously thay he can be so at ease doing silly stuff too.
Still loving that ocean pic. so glad GFW found it.

@?:
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Yawn… When isn’t he being spotted with a random brunette…

I told you that they always arrived and left separately.The truth will come out soon…you’ll see.(It’s a biggie…LOL).

didgeridoo @ 04/27/2012 at 7:26 pm

@?:
This part makes me laugh …
“While they spent most of the night inseparable”
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They said he arrived at the club at 1:00am and left at 2:30am. How is that most of the night? LOL!
He chatted up some random while he was out at a club. Big whoop!
E! is desperate for a story.

@didgeridoo

She wasn’t some random.

Please …. no one reply to Georgia/Brooke.
If you talk to her, she’ll spam the thread with her delusions all day long.

@warning:
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Kind of like GFW…

Isitjustme? @ 04/27/2012 at 7:59 pm

@didgeridoo:

It took him an hour and a half to talk her in to hooking up with him in a nearby hotel? Didn’t say she left at the same time though. LOL! Butler, are you loosing your touch? I think that’s a new record!

Isitjustme? @ 04/27/2012 at 8:00 pm

@Manny:

Good one!

Isitjustme? @ 04/27/2012 at 8:03 pm

It was Patti Stanger. He’s in need of her services.

@Isitjustme?
1: They’ve known each other for years.
2:They did leave at the same time …..different exits as always.Didn’t go to a hotel though.

Isitjustme? @ 04/27/2012 at 8:08 pm

@warning:

Yeah, and there’s always this big “truth” that will come out soon. The big “wait and see”! I keep waiting for the big truth along with Dar’s prediction of his uniting with his twin flame!

Interesting comment under that Eonline article. Haven’t heard this before.

“Gerard Butler is a happy gay man. Why must you force every instance in which he speaks to a woman into a “new GF?” He lives with a lawyer in LA with whom he has been with for a number of years. He can’t come out because it would ruin his career. Leave him alone!”

Read more: http://au.eonline.com/news/marc_malkin/new_couple_alert_gerard_butler_spotted/312185#ixzz1tHww1uon

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/27/2012 at 8:12 pm

Just need to follow-up to say it appears our Machine Gun Preacher star (Gerard Butler) did not make George’s dinner table list for to break bread with President Obama.
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My take on it is this: George wants all the attention. George did not star in the film which carried such an impact for Obama to take action, Gerry did. He did. It is far better than any Oscar. This is brilliant news because it shows the world that Joseph Kony can and will be defeated. The film tears at the heartstrings and I think that such films play a vital role in social change. I like that Obama is involved I think it is great news. A confidence boost for Gerry too.
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What’s disheartening George prefers the likes of dim-witted LL at his table rather than brilliant funny and engaging Gerry? Had him (George) nailed as the competitive (jealous) type all along. Oh well…
~K

Isitjustme? @ 04/27/2012 at 8:13 pm

Now they’ve known each other for years! Before, they had just met around Christmas of 2010. Need to keep those “facts” straight. They probably do know each other. They’ve probably done “business” before.

leslie 51 @ 04/27/2012 at 8:13 pm

@Question

Link for One More Kiss full movie. Click bottom right hand of screen to enlarge to full screen.

http://www.veoh.com/watch/v1109300a5SkhbSx

Isitjustme? @ 04/27/2012 at 8:19 pm

@:

Hey, every gossip site has a “brooke” OK? You believe anything that’s written on them, you’re a fool.
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On the gay issue, however, that’s something I’ll never believe. I have NO doubt Gerry’s straight. I’ve never once seen him gawk and stare at a guy like I’ve seen him do with a hot woman! The proof is in the pudding.

@Isitjustme?

2010 to 2012 is a couple of years isn’t it?

They will always be drawn to each other no matter what happens….and yes one day it will be known why.

Isitjustme? @ 04/27/2012 at 8:22 pm

Why all the hate on the Patti Stanger comment?

Isitjustme? @ 04/27/2012 at 8:26 pm

Sixteen months could hardly be called “years”. Someone needs to brush up on their math or try to remember they’re own lies!

didgeridoo @ 04/27/2012 at 8:28 pm

@warning:
Don’t worry, I never feed trolls. She was one of the worst trolls we ever had.

Anyone want a crock of shite being served at table one? GFW is serving…

Isitjustme? @ 04/27/2012 at 8:32 pm

I like Dar’s “predictions” much better. She even talks to him and taunts him with her new beau. Trying the “jealousy” thing. Seems her cosmic connections and chakras are out of wack lately.

@Manny:
I have to admit, that post reached new levels of crazy-balls, even for GFW!

@Isitjustme?

That is when the person pretending to be her started posting here. Yes she was in Uruguay but they already knew each other.They have known each other longer than 16months…believe me.

@Lisa:
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Like Clooney even spares a second to think about Butler…
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Clooney is so jealous because Clooney can make any film he wants and get backing from the studios, Clooney can literally buy and sell Butler three to four times over (read he has a sh!tload of money), Clooney has enough respect on the world scale to speak to Congress about atrocities being committed in Darfur, Clooney has the respect of his film peers (read Oscars and nominations) Clooney has enough pull with the entertainment industry to initiate a telethon for Katrina and have all the networks give him free airtime, and Clooney had his invitation accepted to host a fundraiser for the President of the United States.
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Yeah that stacks up to a lot of jealousy on Clooney’s part… Where does GFW get this crap? From a porta potty???

Isitjustme? @ 04/27/2012 at 8:57 pm

I think GFW is confusing the fund raiser dinner at Clooney’s house with the state dinner at the Whitehouse.

get your facts straight @ 04/27/2012 at 9:00 pm

@GerrysFascinatingWoman:
Lindsay Lohan is NOT sitting at Clooney’s table at the White House Correspondent’s Dinner. Time Magazine invited George and Leon Panetta to sit at their table. Fox News invited Lindsay Lohan and Kim Kardashian to sit at their table. To be invited, Gerry would have to be asked by a White House correspondant to sit at their table as their guest. Get it now?
If you’re getting this confused with Clooney’s private Obama fundraising dinner, the guest list hasn’t been released.

Isitjustme? @ 04/27/2012 at 9:06 pm

I’d forgotten how funny “White Pete” was! My sides are hurting! “I’ll be in permanant orbit around Uranus!” LMFAO!

DARGABRIEL @ 04/27/2012 at 9:13 pm

Haha, ive all the power over my chakras. Infact they’re great. I do not open my heart to men, That’s not to say I can’t show compassion and healing, very necessary to heal my Bobby, hes had the wind knocked out of his sails, but now hes as good as new, thanks to my light. I send all my light to you all. Butler will learn much about unconditional love for all. He will unite with his beloved, only when he learns madness isnt the answer. He will win an award with mavericks, its in the plan. As I’ve said his entire being is in the spiritual fathers hands. Hi Cholita, much love your way, please don’t be disapointed. I send many constricting hugs your way and some hen pecks. Love,dargabriel

Isitjustme? @ 04/27/2012 at 9:17 pm

@DARGABRIEL:

Does Bobby know about Gerry?

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/27/2012 at 9:20 pm

@get your facts straight:
“If you’re getting this confused with Clooney’s private Obama fundraising dinner, the guest list hasn’t been released.”
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I suspect I am.
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Yay! Good to know. (fingers crossed) I don’t follow all all this stuff, not really. Found out about it in an off-hand way. My response was based on seeing a blip in the free local daily paper so jumped to (the wrong) conclusions!
~K
who doubts it will be released until after!! Still thinkin’ George is the man who wants the men who matter on both sides of him!!

DARGABRIEL @ 04/27/2012 at 9:41 pm

@Isitjustme?: Bobby knows about my Gabriel, Bobby always says to me, I hope my flights are good, I can say Bobby knows Gabriels power, but love is the only exception, so be it and godspeed. Its nocw to see you. Love,dargabriel aka Archeia Hope

@leslie 51:
Thank you so much regarding One Last kiss.
I knew someone would come through with an answer.

Obama Mamma @ 04/27/2012 at 10:07 pm

@get your facts straight:
To be invited, Gerry would have to be asked by a White House correspondant to sit at their table as their guest. Get it now?”
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Right, and the HW wouldn’t ask Gerry anyway because he can’t vote and it doesn’t want to waste a good seat on someone that can’t vote.
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Fox did good to ask LL and KK to sit at its table and poke fun of the event. With voters like these, Obama Mamma doesn’t need to try too hard to lie. They couldn’t tell the diffrence anyway. lol

Isitjustme? @ 04/27/2012 at 10:23 pm

@??:

He’s there an hour and a half hanging around some “mystery brunette” and suddenly this is newsworthy? Must be a slow week in HW. I’m sure this woman is the future Mrs. and will have his children and they’ll look back one day and say it all started at the Agency Night Club on “lady’s night”. I’m outta here!

@Obama Mamma:
“Fox did good to ask LL and KK to sit at its table and poke fun of the event. With voters like these, Obama Mamma doesn’t need to try too hard to lie. They couldn’t tell the diffrence anyway. lol”
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Why would they want to “poke fun” at the event?

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 04/27/2012 at 10:38 pm

@Can’tGetEnough:

Thank you darling! I really love your posts as well! You are so sweet and informative. :)

So am I the only one that reads Cholita’s posts and then gets the song she posted in your head? I’ve been singing “Lady Marmalade” for the last 15 minutes.

@Miss Joie, yes! It’s crunch time. Then I start my summer semester in May. I love it though. Inching closer and closer to my goal. :) If you can, post a pic of the quilt you made for your lucky man. I would love to see it!

@Brooke, look, if Gerard B. comes out with a serious someone in his life, I personally will be ecstatic for him. I know there are others that feel the same way. So why don’t you leave it to him to make it public? And I don’t mean gossip magazines stating he was with a women for an hour and a half at a bar. Just let it go. It’s not your place.

Okay off to see “The Raven”. GFW, I look forward to your take on the film version of Edgar Allen Poe’s famous tale.

Have an amazing evening JJ’ers!

TheUglyTruth @ 04/27/2012 at 10:41 pm

Seriously! When DOESN’T Butler have some sort of “mystery brunette” at his side? HELLO! It’ll be news if a period of time goes by and he doesn’t…..

Well we know what he wants with “brunettes”. He’ll take a blond home to meet Mum!

TheUglyTruth @ 04/27/2012 at 10:46 pm

@Blondie: Funny. Usually, it’s the opposite…but, in this case, you may be right.

@Brooke: Drawn to each for years? She must loves his plundering ways.

They are it for each other? Is that the big news? Superficial people stick together I’m sure.

Obama Mamma @ 04/28/2012 at 12:31 am

@I’msoblue:
I mean how low can you go with LL and KK? Truth be told, the Obama Mamma administration doesn’t really like Fox News, but it has to invite all the media including Fox. People like Loony Clooney isn’t going to sit in the Fox table, not that he is such a big prize. So all that’s left are marginal HW types, such as LL and KK. I don’t think Fox news takes this event seriously anyway. They are just having fun poking fun at themselves and this idiotic event by inviting women like LL and KK, since everyone is always criticizing Fox for hiring sexy attractive women to be its anchors. So Fox is staying true to itself by inviting bimbos.
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Every year this whole even is a joke to begin with, with most of the media being leftist anyway. So when it’s a conservative president, they are really nasty to him and HW never shows up. But when it’s a radical leftist president, they are giddy and gleeful, and all of HW shows up acting like they are important and well-informed, lol. I am sorry but people like LL and KK are not well-informed about anything besides their vage lol. But I am happy Fox asked them because it pokes fun at the event; they are the epitome of Obama Mamma’s quintessential voters – young and uninformed.

malibumillie @ 04/28/2012 at 12:40 am

@Isitjustme?:
“I think GFW is confusing the fund raiser dinner at Clooney’s house with the state dinner at the Whitehouse.”

Neither of which Butler will be invited to. No biggie.

Obama Mamma @ 04/28/2012 at 12:42 am

@GerrysFascinatingWoman:
“If you’re getting this confused with Clooney’s private Obama fundraising dinner, the guest list hasn’t been released.”
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Trust me. Loony Clooney asked everyone with Money in HW to attend, and that includes Gerry. Obama Mamma needs lots of help this time around, and Loony Clooney is trying very hard for him. If Gerry doesn’t show up, it means he couldn’t give a rat’s azz about US politics and about Obama Mamma. If he shows up to Loony Clooney’s fundraiser, then you know where he stands and how he feels about Obama Mamma. It can’t be any more conclusive than that.

food 4 thought @ 04/28/2012 at 1:13 am

Monday night, Cathouse. Tuesday night, Agency. Wednesday, the Groundlings. Thursday, he stayed in to condition his hair, do laundry, and rearrange his sock drawer.

someone had to say it @ 04/28/2012 at 1:57 am

@food 4 thought: so that makes Thursdays his date nights with “Charles” then?

I heard Gerard is dating a French model named Chloe. Apparently they have been dating for quite some time now. I can’t say that it’s 100% true but that’s what I heard. I come from the same town as Chloe.

Ariel speaking about Jewel of the Sahara
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=grr00ueU4Qw
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One of the people that worked on this movie is Erica Vilardi who was seen lunching with him last year and people here on JJ called her LA Lunch Girl thinking she was a date. LOL!
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I think it’s where Gerry met Ori Pfeiffer – another friend that he hangs out with sometimes.
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Ariel speaks about Gerry being scared to get near the Camel and fake having sex with it. It’s funny the way he tells it.
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Gerry made lots of lasting friendships from this short film. I don’t think he stays in touch with many actors after a film is finished like he does with the actors of Jewel
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WOW! Talk about HOT. But I don’t think I like his 500 calories per day diet.
http://blog.leatherup.com/2012/04/27/gerard-butler-on-his-motorcycle-photos/

@Anna:
what’s Chloe’s last name?

miss moller @ 04/28/2012 at 3:45 am

@Reviews:
Erica used to be married to Ariel. She is not the girl that was photographed with Gerry and his mother and stepdad a couple of years ago.

I don’t know if this is a current picture but it’s about his sightings in LA this week
http://runyoncanyon-losangeles.com/?p=2686
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=538dPIwvrn8

@miss moller:
I am not talking about the girl in NYC that was photographed with his mum and dad. We called her NYC lunch girl. There was another girl last year he was having lunch with and we called her LA lunch girl and it’s erica.
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And BTW, Erica was never married to Ariel. Olga was married to Ariel.

miss moller @ 04/28/2012 at 4:06 am

@Reviews:
A few years ago her full name was Erica Vilardi Vromen. I’ll see if I can find something online to back this up.

miss moller @ 04/28/2012 at 4:13 am

…and http://radaris.com/p/Erica/Vromen/

Ariel is listed as a relative. For a time her name was Vromen (or Uromen as it is spelled originally). She was married to him.

BTW, sorry if my English doesn’t make sense some time.

@miss moller:
So Ariel was married twice?
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Why was Gerry meeting with her for lunch alone last year?
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How come you are doing a people search on her?
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We don’t really know if this is the right Ariel.
Look here, there are 3 of them with about the right age
http://www.peoplefinders.com/search/searchpreview.aspx?searchtype=people-name&fn=Ariel &ln=Vromen &mn=&city=Los Angeles&state=CA&age=&dobmm=02&dobdd=&doby=
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Jewel was in 2002, I doubt he was with Erika at the time, then moved over to olga and now again to Erika. Something doesn’t add up I think.

miss moller @ 04/28/2012 at 4:31 am

@Reviews:
I was doing a people search on her because I was trying to find proof they were married so I could post it here. I heard about Erica and Ariel having been married once through another GB fan.

@miss moller:
Maybe he got remarried to Erika after first meeting in 2002, who knows?
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Anyway, thanks for the info. It’s very interesting.

LOL! So Ariel is married yet he runs out with GB at all hours of the night going to parties and nightclubs? So weird!!!

miss moller @ 04/28/2012 at 4:42 am

@Reviews:
No, no… I don’t think they’re married anymore.

@miss moller:
OK, I did some research and the woman with GB last year was
Erica Vilardi-Espinosa. She is a model.
scroll 2/3 of the way down and you will see her picture. I can’t seem to find any public info on her. Maybe you can?
http://radaris.com/ng/pb/Erica/Vilardi/social#750191050
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So maybe she got remarried after Ariel???
Maybe Ariel was married twice???

Here her name is Erica N Vilardi Espinosa
just like Erica N Vronem.
And her age is 36, which is about right because last year they were saying she was a 35-year old model and a friend of GB.
http://wink.com/people/nm/Erica%20Vilardi/

@Reviews:
Where can I find the pics of GB and Erica?

Can'tGetEnough @ 04/28/2012 at 6:51 am

Good Morning JJers!

Here’s a tweet from last night. I’m not sure of the location:
jenj1248 ‏ @jenj1248
gerard Butler called me a pus/sy for not doing shots Lmao! Hope u boys had fun!!Im gonna hit the pillow. Big day with the musically talented
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Another:
dawn durmis ‏ @DawnDurmis 9 hours ago
Just hanging with my pal Gerard Butler in LA

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/28/2012 at 7:10 am

Red Bend? That’s a new one on me?
~K
who’ll see The Raven tomorrow (it’s closer) but Monsieur Lazhar today who thinks what they’re trying to establish in The Raven is Poe was killed by a fan who is a tad bit upset it wasn’t filmed in Richmond, VA where he worked and wrote and lived, went to school, partied and fell in love with Jane, a married woman, (To Helen) who lived on Grace Street whose ghost is still seen and his museum is or Baltimore, MD where he’s buried and was found dead…
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/To_Helen
wanting to say Hollywood Cemetery (this is Shockoe Cemetery where he used to live and the museum is) is one of the coolest ever and resting place of 5 U.S. Presidents

Here we go again @ 04/28/2012 at 7:46 am

@Reviews: Chloe Mortaud was Missr France. Now a runway model. She looks like another dark hair dark skin leggy beauty. If he has not banged her yet, he probably wants to.

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/28/2012 at 8:08 am

@???:
I’m kinda like this, so spare me for being a bit ‘old school’, anyone trolling into a bar at 1am with his mates is on a mission or it’s what is referred to as a booty call, i.e. sport fishing (not looking for a keeper) which is a throwback (eventually).
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Feel this “mystery brunette” was planted there or he knows her and had her there waiting for him as some kind of ego trip? LOL (eye roll)
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And the hour or so of being all cozy in the VIP section (another eye roll) and inseparable then splitting separately is so on repeat, shuffle, all these days. Can’t they reword it somehow? If it isn’t a lie, it can be told a 1,001 different ways!
~K
who wants to see Margaret (the movie) really badly so will do that today as well whose a big Matt and Mark fan who thinks the theme of the film mesmerizing and very today

Here we go again @ 04/28/2012 at 8:19 am

Is E! attempting to rebuild his rep by stating he may have a relationship and he drinks water and soda when out?

Yes he never drank alcohol the past few years but come on. If he did not have those looks he is just a hot mess.

@Reviews:

Is it possible the marriage/s to a citizen existed for the purpose of staying in the country?

@GFW

Yes he does know her and they had arranged to meet there.As I’ve said they always arrive and leave separately ….so the paps don’t see them together.

Flavofthemin @ 04/28/2012 at 9:10 am

@Brooke: Ok. He has not done it yet with this one. When he does, next.

Аnonymous @ 04/28/2012 at 9:44 am

A friend of mine is a longtime pal of Gerry (they grew up together in Scotland) and says Butler is a notorious pussyhound. Will pretty much sleep with any woman who will have him. Is not at all selective about it. For all his addictions it seems like sex is the biggest one.

@Anna:
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If that is true please tell her to ALWAYS wear a condom with him. If Butler was a car he would have been traded in years ago for high mileage…
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With how often butler dips his wick he is missing a big moneymaker… he should be the spokesperson for Trojan. Can’t figure out why Alan and Butler haven’t figured that out. He could ink a pretty pricey deal especially with his reputation with the press.
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May be we should work on some some jingle for Mr. Tingle…
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“Glove it to love it….”

malibumillie @ 04/28/2012 at 10:17 am

@Brooke: Why bother going out at all then, why not just go somewhere private in the first place. Crappy way to live. Convenient for someone who is not capable of monogamy.

malibumillie @ 04/28/2012 at 10:21 am

Of courrse what is funny is why are they just noticing this routine by the Butler now, pretty sure it has been going on for a long time, when he either hooks up with a random or meets up with a FWB, like all the other actors who are either single or cheat on their girlfriend or wife but suddenly this ends up as a gossip item now. Curious.

Curious George @ 04/28/2012 at 11:09 am

@Аnonymous: How come you are cutting and pasting posts from other sites? This is a post on Data Lounge from several weeks ago. Verbatim.

Chloe Laslier is the name of the french model he’s dating.

@>>: Isn’t she a dirty blonde?

http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-eg2kCx3tpEU/TcGf5_48gYI/AAAAAAAABks/OB2I9VYwExQ/s1600/toni-garrn1.jpg

Though yeah true models are willing to change their hair color friequently.

@>>:
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LMAO… You act like that is a prize… Maybe you should say Chloe is name of the woman he is currently f*cking around on…

Remember gerry’s idea of dating is not the same for you and me. How do you know its the brunette. He has been seeing. Remember coachella brunette and what about the brunette he was seen with in nyc. Just posing the question.

@cupcake They have been friends for awhile and have an open relationship, but I know for a fact she was with him at coachella. There are pictures of them together and she was with him in NYC before coachella.

@>>:
doesn’t she live in NYC?
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How do you know Chloe Laslier is who he is dating?

@Reviews She did but recently moved to LA.

I just know LOL

@Question:
Check out JJ threads from January-March 2011. It’s entitled “Gerard Butler lunch with a mystery women” or “lunch with a friend.” Her picture is plastered all over the thread. They were together in LA having lunch and went for a walk afterwards. Her name is Erica Vilardi Espinosa. Some peeps even posted her FB.

I hate to say it symbol girl I do agree with manny on this one. They are friens with benefits. No such thing as an open relationship.

@>>: Open relationship= NO relationship or in other words he can still do him!!!! Yea we’ll be waiting on those wedding invites!!!!! 2013, 2014, etc

@>>:
I believe you because about a year and a half ago a friend of mine told me something was going on between them when he was living in NYC forabout 3 months. And she is also Ariel’s friend as well. The reason I asked what’s her last name is because I wanted to know if it’s the same Chloe.
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They must be having an open relationships then???

I mean it can’t be that they have a real relationship because in these year and a half / two years, he had so many other women. And just recently had Brandi and Jenea so it can’t be serious. Also he never takes her to red-carpet events and that’s a big indication that in his mind she isn’t that important.
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The girl wearing the long white dress dancing dirty dancing with him could be Chloe, no?
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Or is it possible the woman holding his hand at GG Awards is not Jenea at all?

coachella girl and chloe girl are not the same girl.

It'sakarmathing @ 04/28/2012 at 1:33 pm

I come here to see what’s new and all we got are people pulling up random models that he’s never been seen with, long time gf’s who obviously are very tolerant of him dirty dancing with other women, and old comments from people claiming to know a friend of a friend of a friend. It never changes around here! It always come back to the same thing, a BIG nothing!
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Butler could fix all of this. If he’d just take a “woman” out on a date in public once in a while, someone at least over thirty and allow photos to be made, it would keep all the gay and womanizer speculation at bay.
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So does he date? But maybe he doesn’t “date”. I think he hides any dating, and certainly any relationships, to get back at the paps for what he may feel ruined his long term relationships with women he cared about. That’s not what ruins them though. Some women may bail because of the media and paps but a woman who trusts him and is emotionally stable and secure with how she is, won’t bail on him.
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Maybe he needs to find a woman who is tougher and doesn’t pay all that crap any attention? Maybe he is a lousy BF. Maybe he just prefers to pick up randoms for sex in clubs and that’s the end of it? No strings. Who knows. All the speculation does get old though.
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There was an interview last year, can’t remember when or with whom, when asked if he was dating, he hesitated and responded oddly with “uhhhhhmmm, yes” as if he was unsure how to answer, afraid to answer wrong. This told me he had either lied to his Mum about dating and didn’t want to reveal he wasn’t dating OR he was dating someone exclusive and didn’t want to pizz her off. Who knows! It was a simple question that could have been answered “Yes, I date.” Everyone’s happy! He’s his own worst enemy sometimes! Why he’s not fed “canned responses” by his PR is beyond me!
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I was listening to Steve Harvey talk about men changing and he claims ALL men will change for the right woman. I say you can’t change a leopard’s spots, but that’s just me.
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I say a man who has been in many relationships/marriages, who finally settles down with one does so not because of the woman but because HE decides too when he finally figures out that what he was doing before doesn’t WORK and he tires of it!
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Maybe a woman would come along that makes him feel like his “search” is over, perhaps but some men, especially those with addictive personalities, are always on the prowl for a better thing just around the corner and that “high” they get from the newness of something. They never come to the reality that all things evolve and go through stages of change and if all you want is that initial “thrill” then eventually you’re going to wear yourself out constantly seeking it.
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At least Gerry’s smart enough not to get married. He knows himself well and he knows he’s fickle and there’s always another model, mystery brunette just around the corner.
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I think he’s full of crap when he says he doesn’t have time right now to give to a serious relationship. A good partner would enhance his life, not take from it. Someone who loves him would be a help mate more then someone who demands his attention. He either hasn’t found the right woman to give him that OR it’s a smokescreen for hiding what he really wants and that’s just to be free to run around with randoms.
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Despite how Mr. Butler looks, living a fast and hard life and partying and clubbing will take it’s toll on him by fifty. He’ll not be doing the club scene as well as he is now. He’ll only score the women looking for a sugar daddy. Most of his friends will probably be settled and spending time with SO’s or staying at home and he’ll be looked upon as a dirty old man. I hope that doesn’t happen.
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I’m not saying he needs to get married, however, eventually he’s going to need to take a different direction in his life, cool it on the frequent club scene, kind of like Clooney. He’ll need to get a passion other then acting and women and focus on that. It needs to be something he wakes up in the morning and says, “I want to make a difference there!” And he goes to bed at night thinking about how he can change things and it moves him emotionally, not when he’s going to get laid next.
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When he does that, he’ll draw the right kind of women to him as well. He’s already having trouble in that area. They’re either very young and gold digging or they’re scorned and needy.
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The women GB is attracting to him now, especially in the clubs, are out for one thing and one thing only, hooking a rich celeb. I’m afraid he’ll get too careless one of these days and end up with a little “surprise” on his doorstep and become a baby daddy. Then that WILL slow him down for sure!
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You draw to you what you put out in to the universe. That’s what karma is all about. I care about Gerry, although I sometimes wonder why, and I want to see him excell and have the best possible life and be all he can be.

modelizer @ 04/28/2012 at 1:34 pm

if she was with him in South America she was doing the dirty blonde thing & that picture I posted was her

@modelizer
The picture you posted is Not her that’s a model name Toni Garrn

dr. ruthless @ 04/28/2012 at 1:46 pm

@It’sakarmathing: I think he is a sex addict and like any addiction unless you understand why you act the way you do, what emotional blackhole you are trying to fill, you can’t change. There are normal sex drives and then there are sex addicts.

Wackatroll @ 04/28/2012 at 1:49 pm

Here’s the thing. If anyone who comes here who knows anything for a fact about Butler’s dating, there’s no reason not to spill it! I’m sure JJ would love to be the first to reveal it. Just posting “teasers” and speculation is just baiting the other posters here to get attention, IMO. You need to put your money where your mouth is and say what you know or shut up and take your troll self elsewhere.

It'sakarmathing @ 04/28/2012 at 2:00 pm

@dr. ruthless:

That’s true, if he is a sex addict. Sexual addiction is such a new thing, however, and not completely understood. It would have to be something that drives the “addict” to require it to get through the day, something he requires to feel validated and better about himself not just desired recreationally. There’s a fine line there.
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If it’s an addiction, there will never be satisfaction achieved. That thrill of the first “high” from it will never be replicated. That’s what an addict fails to realize. The addict needs to redirect his energy and get his fulfillment in achieving other goals and getting his validation from other more meaningful endeavors.

@cupccake:
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There are things like an open relationship only Chloe doesn’t know she is in one… Poor girl…

It'sakarmathing @ 04/28/2012 at 2:07 pm

@dr. ruthless:

Also, people have different sex drives. It’s one of the things that causes a lot of the break ups with people, sexual incompatibility. It’s important to be on the same level sexually or a relationship will faulter. Love does not always cure all, in that regard. Sex isn’t everything to a relationship but it’s important. Having said that, being sexually compatible with someone and lacking compatibility elsewhere doesn’t work either. There has to be a balance maintained.
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He could have hot sex with a woman but lacks the deep emotional attachment and love required to be in a long term relationship. The stars and planets have to align, so to speak. It’s not always easy.

@It’sakarmathing:
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Don’t say “sun and stars align..” because we will end up with an Astrology discussion for pages and pages…

It'sakarmathing @ 04/28/2012 at 2:11 pm

The problem with an open relationship is not in the ones who are in it but the “other” people who are pulled in to it. People who are in a committed relationship who agree or allow it to be sexually open run the risk of their extracurricular encounters becoming too emotionally involved with regards to the other people involved. It’s risky business at best and not to mention really dangerous these days with all the diseases. You could bring the gift that keeps on giving back home to the one you love. Not good!

It'sakarmathing @ 04/28/2012 at 2:13 pm

@Manny:

You don’t believe in astro-logic?

@Wackatroll
I wish I could tell you everything….but I can’t. I can tell you that they were once together but broke up.They are not together (as in dating / a relationship) now ,but she still cares about him…a lot and they still meet up.There is a big reason as to why…and yep I think one day it will come out and I think it will be soon.That is all I’m going to say.

@It’sakarmathing:
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LMAO… No but by the Powers of Greyskull…
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@Brooke:
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That is more than pathetic… He left and she waits with parted legs for him… Nothing like settling for less than a prostitute would charge… IF any of that is true do your friend some good and walk onto a busy freeway… What kind of a person uses a friends misfortune as a ploy on a gossip site??? Disgusting person you are…

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 04/28/2012 at 2:32 pm

@Brooke:

Not really wanting to get far into this. Got my stuff going on, but from your comment, my first thought was that a child is involved. Whether it is that or something else, it is wrong, wrong, wrong for you to be posting it on a gossip site. If its even the truth, that is.

It’s like I’ve come back and the board has travelled back in time 6 months. The troll is back under a couple of different names looking for attention and stirring up sh*t, sadly it looks like it’s working.

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 04/28/2012 at 2:51 pm

@niknoks:

So I take it this has been going on a long time? Well no more responses from me. I just find it strange to come on a gossip site and divulge really personal info or make up crazy lies about the celebrity for which the thread is based. But I guess that’s the way of the world these days. Have a great Saturday!

God Bless yoou all! @ 04/28/2012 at 2:58 pm

“Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.” Ephesians 4:2-3

@Anastasia Beaverhausen:

She’s been here under several different names, either the girlfriend or a friend of the girlfriend, gets caught in several lies, goes away for a while and comes back with the same cr*p, making out that she ‘knows stuff’ but can’t tell us. I think since I’ve been on this board this is the forth or fifth time she has been back. It’s all a little predictable.

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 04/28/2012 at 3:12 pm

@niknoks:

Ah ok. Thanks for the heads up. :)

@GFW: Intersting info on E.A.P.! I liked the movie, but got to run, will write more when I can.

Can'tGetEnough @ 04/28/2012 at 3:16 pm

@Anastasia Beaverhausen: Hi A.B.! This is nothing new. She did this same thing last summer. She weaves a tale and adds something new with each post. If no one responds or if the topic changes, she’ll throw another link out there or a comment as to “why am I getting thumbs down”, etc. to try and get some unsuspecting poor soul to finally respond. If you notice, the same article about the “mystery brunette” was posted by ? and then another by ?? and then another by ???. Her wording is always the same. She claims to know, almost like she is standing right next to GB. She claims to know how they feel about each other, where and when they meet up, etc. She is very bizarre, but the purpose is to bait everyone here on the board.
No matter how much you engage her, no matter how many times you ask her for information, you will never get it….because she has none. It’s only to get the fans riled up and thinking something is going to happen. If you go back and read the posts last summer, something big was going to happen. She couldn’t tell us what, but we should just wait and see. Nothing ever did. This is now part 2 of the fairy tale. Believe me, if Gerard Butler has something he wants to share with his fans, then HE will when he is ready. The best way to get rid of her is to completely ignore her or this will go on for MONTHS, with her claiming to “know”. The more everyone responds, the more she thrives.

For the rest of the JJer’s, I know you are tempted to keep asking her, but trust me, you will NOT get any info from her. She will always say she can’t tell you, but then add another new ‘tidbit’ to the tale to hold your attention. If there is some really big news out there like he’s getting engaged or getting married or has a child somewhere, then eventually, it will come out or he will come clean with it.
I know it’s fun to gossip about his personal life, we all do it, but IMO, the best way to deal with this problem person is to ignore 100% or the board will be consumed by it eventually.

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 04/28/2012 at 3:20 pm

Grrr in too much of a hurry to be writing on here today I think. But yes it’s about a serial killer using Edgar Allen Poes poems as the basis of his murders. Good flick.

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 04/28/2012 at 3:38 pm

@Can’tGetEnough:

@GFW: Or theeeee murders. LOL man I’m sorry, this is what happens when my ADD mind tries to do too much at once.

Hi CGE! Thanks! You are very right. That’s wild. I actually wondered if maybe Jared gets someone to post as Brooke to get hits. A passing thought really. Because at first I was like “ohhh I’m going to go back on see what is being said now”. lol Then of course I realised how awful it is for someone to be posting such things. Well, I really wish I could chit chat more, but I will be back on soon. Thanks again! :-D

@It’sakarmathing:
Well said. I have said it myself before. I believe sexual compatibility is 50% of a relationship. Then you have emotional and mental compatibilities comprising the other 50%. Unfortunately, sex is a big reason why couples breakup. If one partner doesn’t get their sexual needs fulfilled within the relationship they start dreaming and fantasizing about having someone else satisfying them. And then from fantasy all it takes is one step further to try to live that fantasy with a co-worker, a neighbor, or someone within their circle, and before you know it they are getting their sexual needs fulfilled outside the relationship. Cheating on partner is the number ONE indication that sex with the partner is not satisfying. Once that happens, it’s only a matter of time before it ends. In contrast, if the sex is very satisfying, but you are not that mentally or emotionally compatible, you won’t break up as fast. Also, sexual fulfillment has a lot to do with emotional fulfillment, and they are greatly intertwined. So I would restate that sexual and emotional compatibility make up 70% of the relationship, with mental compatibility making up the other 30%.
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A few months back I wrote that he needs someone who can satisfy him sexually as well as engage him mentally and emotionally, and it doesn’t mean she has to let him walk all over her. She needs to have standards or otherwise she will find herself in the trash with the rest of his castaways. He has to give her exclusivity and security while she gives him her trust and availability. These are mostly sexual and emotional aspects that need to be in place before there is a mental connection.
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A FWB relationship is not the path to getting there. There is no exclusivity, no trust, no expectations, no security, and no unfettered availability.

@It’sakarmathing:
But I don’t agree with sexual addiction. That’s nonsense. It’s a term made up to label any man that likes a lot of sex. Well, most men like a lot of sex, and if they can get away with it more than the average man, they will. Your average Joe Shmo living in a little town can’t get away with it like Gerard Butler can living in HW with women falling all over him. Take Joe Shmo out of his little town, get him in shape give him a great job or career, and look how a subdued Joe Shmo turns into a sexual fiend.
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Gerard does what he wants because he can, and because he has less scrutiny from friends and relative. He has a lot more power and freedom than the average Joe Shmo, and he can do almost anything he wants so long as he’s not committing a crime. In fact, he can push the envelope much closer than the average man can. He doesn’t have to conform to society like most men do. When Bill Clinton was asked why he did Monica Lewinsky he said “Because I could.” In fact he pushed the envelope so close to the edge that another quarter inch and he would be impeached.
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Bottom line is all powerful men, whether their power comes from riches, position, or fame, can be called sex addicts. That’s why I think the term is nonsense.

dr. ruthless @ 04/28/2012 at 4:13 pm

@It’sakarmathing: As a married person and hoping to stay that way, I have to ask those out in the singles dating scene – does anyone ever insist on full scope STD testing before they even consider sex or at least once you think you are getting serious, because condoms only do so much if you want to enjoy the full range of sexual activity, and one should! but I would not trust anyone to tell me the truth about their status. I’ve seen too many cases where people hide this information.

Of course both parties should do the testing at the same time, since monogamy seems more passe than ever, I’d want that done every six months. If he is not willing to do it he’s hiding something or not worth my time.

It'sakarmathing @ 04/28/2012 at 4:18 pm

@Reviews:
“Unfortunately, sex is a big reason why couples breakup. ”
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You are correct, however, it’s not the number one reason. Money is the top reason sited for divorce. Infidelity is second and sexual incompatibility is third.

@Brookeisbaaack @ 04/28/2012 at 4:18 pm

@Brooke: She’s actually a man a la Miss Canada Universe Jenna Talackova? Can’t think of any other reason that would even raise an eyeborow unless someone was perhaps a chain smoking coke addicted type that’s oh maybe a bad influence? Or Mummy and Daddy will cut her out of the will?

It'sakarmathing @ 04/28/2012 at 4:23 pm

@Reviews:

“When Bill Clinton was asked why he did Monica Lewinsky he said “Because I could.”
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I don’t recall this remark, lol! All I remember is when he was asked in a press conference he said, “I did not have sexual relations with that woman.” I really don’t think a man of his position would say something like that. Gene Simmons, yes. Bill Clinton, no.

@It’sakarmathing:
Yes he said it. That was after he left office.

It'sakarmathing @ 04/28/2012 at 4:33 pm

@@Brookeisbaaack:

Come again…lol?

@It’sakarmathing:
LOL! I don’t believe what people site is the absolute truth. A lot of people feel foolish to say it’s all about the sex. There are still many people in our society afraid of being labeled a sex addict or a sluut. Underneath all breakups is sexual incompatibility. Second is infidelity because lack of sexual fulfillment leads to infidelity, with many people using money or other things to mask the original reason. When there is lack of sexual satisfaction but no infidelity, many are going to site financial reasons as opposed to sexual incapability. Let’s face it marriage is about sex and securing that sex. Not about money, though for some it’s the reason they got married, but we know how that will end eventually.

It'sakarmathing @ 04/28/2012 at 4:49 pm

@Reviews:

I see the context inwhich he said it. I found the interview with Dan Rather. It was not in a bragging sense but in a worse reason to do it sense. I remember that interview now.

@It’sakarmathing:
Unbelievable!!!
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But I have to give him points for being honest about his sexuality. I wish most men had the same courage to tell us ladies how they really feel deep inside as a man. So much misunderstandings between the sexes could be avoided.

It'sakarmathing @ 04/28/2012 at 4:59 pm

@Reviews:

“Let’s face it marriage is about sex and securing that sex. Not about money, though for some it’s the reason they got married, but we know how that will end eventually.”
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Really? You feel that’s what marriage is all about? Securing sex on demand? You don’t have to get married to assure you have sex. Why would you? That would be a pretty lack luster marriage if all your partner wanted was to have sex with you when he/she required it and you had no other life together! That’s not what you meant, is it?
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Call me old fashioned but I always believed marriage was to share a life with someone you cared about and had common interests and an intimacy beyond that of other relationships. Sex is just a part of that and so is the money. The number one siting for divorce is “irreconcilable differences” which emcompasses most reasons. Infideltiy is not a valid reason for divorce anymore because it is no longer needed as grounds. Most states are “no fault” which means you don’t really need much of a reason.

It'sakarmathing @ 04/28/2012 at 5:07 pm

@Reviews:

And guess which is the least sited reason for divorce? ABUSE! But that makes sense because many abused spouses fear divorcing could get them or their children killed, sadly!

@It’sakarmathing:
Everything you said is true, but I am not speaking about what’s on the surface. I am talking about underlining reasons; reasons that are part of the subconscious. I believe our subconscious mind fuels us. It dictates how we act and what we ultimately do.
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As for reasons of divorce, I don’t think people like to tell you exactly how they feel which is why most use “irreconcilable differences”. Why be specific if you don’t have to in order to get what you want, a divorce? Lawyers instruct you to say “irreconcilable differences” so there is no discussion, or the divorce papers have it as an option, if you are doing your own divorce, and most people just put that as a reason to get on with the process and make it as quick and painless as possible.

It'sakarmathing @ 04/28/2012 at 5:14 pm

@Reviews:

“Underneath all breakups is sexual incompatibility. ”
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I don’t believe this is true either. I’ve known people who broke up but said the sex was the best part but not a reason to stay together. As I said, it takes more then good sex to sustain a viable relationship, IMO. It is true that if there is little in common in the rest of the relationship, the sex will eventually suffer as well. It’s all linked to gether.
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And I believe that a relationship can sustain if one person becomes incapable of sexual intimacy because of a disability, if they love each other.

@It’sakarmathing: Right. Another reason why “irreconcilable differences” is used so much. Here is an extreme example of what I said: why be specific and get into a dangerous discussion with the partner? Most people just want to get it over with as soon as possible. Who cares what the reason is if you have no fault divorce?

It'sakarmathing @ 04/28/2012 at 5:19 pm

@Reviews:

I think that’s only true if both parties are in agreement. If one party is divorcing and the other one doesn’t want the divorce or there are children involved and it’s not a dangerous abusive situation, a reason from the petitioner is usually required and if it is sexual incombatibility, counseling is usally advised over a period of time first. That’s why standard, contested divorces take so long. A non contested divorce goes through pretty swiftly. It depends on the judge and the state however. But I see what you’re saying.

@It’sakarmathing:
“And I believe that a relationship can sustain if one person becomes incapable of sexual intimacy because of a disability, if they love each other.”
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Sorry, this is just fairy tales that women want to believe. I doubt many men will stay in a relationship where the wife can’t have sex. Or they might stay, but cheat without her knowing. It’s human nature and I don’t believe there is any force stronger than human nature and sex. John Edwards is a perfect example of this.

dr. ruthless @ 04/28/2012 at 5:21 pm

It is true that the issue of sex addiction is a matter of debate still in the addiction science community. Maybe Catherine Zeta Jones can tell us how sex addiction rehab worked for Michael.

I think people get too hung up on addiction being about substances that you abuse. Addictions are a far wider net Hoarding is an addiction but it’s not ingesting a chemical but the treatment protocols are very similar. The chemicals that sex releases is just another substance or chemical one can get addicted to though it is more complex than that.

The key thing is that the addiction community does agree that when you have a habit that ends up consuming your life to its detriment then you have an addiction. Ooh like many of us here.

If you are doing things that are harming your work or career, hurting family and friends or shutting them out and putting yourself into dangerous situations whether your own physical safety at risk or skirting legal lines that’s an addiction. If you know the habit is doing all this yet you are unhappy and can’t stop it you have an addiction and need help.

Let’s take the alleged revelation by a supposed friend that Mr. Butler was driven to a painkiller addiction because of sex. That’s putting your health in jeopardy. That’s a red flag because it wasn’t just to have sex but to perform sex at a same supposed high level of intensity for lack of a better paraphrase.

Now I also admit that is oversimplifying the case because chronic pain does affect all aspects of life so a painkiller addiction is not surprising. Yet he seemed able to function normally to most of the outside world but no one would question he had a painkiller addiction since his people have admitted it publicly.

Might I also suggest Reviews that if you read your posts #518 or #519 or they were as I type this, they contradict each other. You seem almost blame the females involved with Mr. Butler because they are apparently not satisfying the poor bugger and you say being FWB is no way to find happiness yet you revel in Mr. Butler’s behavior and just say boys will be boys. Double standard.

If you are a sex addict you are never satisfied that’s the point. Typical sex addicts have to continually raise the bar on the kink factor, just like junkies need more and more drugs to try and get that high. Pushing boundaries [gerbils, nuff said] getting more outrageous, and the problem is what happens when there is no more next level. Or the next level means breaking the law and use your imagination about that. What if your behavior then becomes public especially if it is skirting some scary lines?

Eventually some of these people don’t want to live that life anymore but don’t know to get back to “normal” if they ever had normal, without serious help along with a serious desire to get back to “normal”. That is not the experience of someone who has a normal healthy sex drive.

dr. ruthless @ 04/28/2012 at 5:27 pm

I would argue that Clinton like John F Kennedy could be labelled sex addicts. Putting the security of your country in jeopardy for pus sy to be blunt, how much out of control of an impulse can you be? But yes sure it happens all over the world, has happened and will happen, and that is why there are female spies to exploit that weakness and yes men don’t have to be sex addicts to be exploitable just have be be male.

BTW, women too might cheat if they are not getting sexually fulfilled or a husband is sick, but if they have children and other responsibilities they might hesitate more than men. Anyway, I think women can show more sexual devotion than man.

@It’sakarmathing:
“sexual incombatibility, counseling is usally advised over a period of time first.”
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And most people don’t want sexual counseling because if they are seeking to divorce the partner there is no love left and they want to get it over with as fast as possible. However, if one of the parties wants another chance then they will try all means necessary.
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Anyway, how all of this applies to Gerry? Remind me because I think we got off topic for a while lol

@dr. ruthless: Some people are sex addicts others just have the opportunity. From the beginning of time P/ssy has brought down empires. Adam and Eve, Abraham and Sarah. Samson and Delilah, she punked him so bad he told her where his strength was and went to sleep in her lap. Nothing is new. Our dear Butler is a good looking man, charming and the accent doesn’t hurt. Plus he’s rich..a magnet. Had he remained a small town boy he’s probably be getting some just not at this level.He’ll settle down as his star power starts to dwindle and the new hot face and bod appear..the clock is ticking on that one!

dr. ruthless @ 04/28/2012 at 5:38 pm

@Reviews: Again the double standard Reviews. When one partner has a disability or injury, that changes the dynamics regardless if that partner is male or female.. Some men and women can’t deal with it, some are able to or try for a while and then leave and others stick it out to the end. Many soldiers come home to wives who’ve moved on by the time they come back from active duty. Different people have different values, different thresholds, different sex drives.There is a woman who was born with no legs or arms but she got married and has kids. That woman and her husband are exceptions of course but it is all probably mind over matter – people lucky enough to know how to truly love someone and put aside the shallow considerations that over-occupy the rest of us.

@dr. ruthless:
“You seem almost blame the females involved with Mr. Butler because they are apparently not satisfying the poor bugger and you say being FWB is no way to find happiness yet you revel in Mr. Butler’s behavior and just say boys will be boys. Double standard.”
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I am not blaming any female. I am telling females to have standards and not agree to a FWB arrangement with him or any other man. FWB is not a true relationship. It doesn’t lead to happiness or satisfaction if you think of it as a bridge to get you those things. It’s only good when the woman doesn’t want any long-term attachments.
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As far as boys will be boys, I will not criticize him for being a man and wanting what he wants as a man. First be a man yourself and feel what he feels, then criticize him. I don’t know many men that will criticize the sexuality of other men. It’s usually women that do that when they know jack sh!t about how a man feels. Women that get along well with men are women that can put themselves in his shoes. Men that get along well with women and have good sex with them (know how to satisfy a woman sexually) are men that can put themselves in the woman’s shoes.

@dr. ruthless:
You are speaking about anomalies and I have no time for that. I am talking about the majority of people. Save the irregularities for the textbooks. Not for everyday life.

@justme:
“He’ll settle down as his star power starts to dwindle and the new hot face and bod appear..the clock is ticking on that one!”
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Truer words were never spoken on this thread so far.

It'sakarmathing @ 04/28/2012 at 5:55 pm

@Reviews:

I don’t believe it’s a fairy tale at all! A loving couple should always work on any aspect of their relationship that may be faultering before they take any drastic steps. Once you’ve cheated, you’ve broken down the trust forever and compounded the problem then. It’s best to try to fix it first then just consider going separate ways as a last resort. There is never an excuse for cheating.

@It’sakarmathing:
“A loving couple should always work on any aspect of their relationship that may be faultering before they take any drastic steps. Once you’ve cheated, you’ve broken down the trust forever and compounded the problem then. ”
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I agree. They should but many times they don’t. That’s why I said: “I doubt many men will stay in a relationship where the wife can’t have sex. Or they might stay, but cheat without her knowing. John Edwards is a perfect example of this. It’s human nature and I don’t believe there is any force stronger than human nature and sex.”

Even knowing what the right thing to do is, is not stronger than this force. Look at how many men put their children, marriages, careers, and reputation at stake when they couldn’t fight off this force or control this urge. Nuff Said!

well...... @ 04/28/2012 at 6:19 pm

Just comparing photos people have posted, I’d say Coachella dance girl and the girl hanging on his shoulder in the group picture is Chloe. If not, it’s her doppelganger. Miranda is the same type but not identical. My only other observation is that neither is what I would ID as a brunette if I was describinga ransdom someone I saw him with. I think the dirty blonde ID was more on point. My idea of a “brunette” would be the lunch girl with mom and dad a year or so ago.

@from WO:
That’s Ori pfeffer’s baby. He is the actor that played the Islamic guy at the end of the “documentary” I posted yesterday about Jewel. LOL, maybe Gerry will finally have the urge to settle down. Not holding my breath but stranger things have happened.

It'sakarmathing @ 04/28/2012 at 6:26 pm

@Reviews:

You keep talking about Edwards as if his wife was to blame for his cheating. I didn’t know she had a problem other then her cancer and it’s a low vile person who would cheat on someone who is ill. I would say, he didn’t love her in the first place. That’s sad.
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I also think you are selling men short. There are a few men that are a holes and sex is everything to them but not most. Those men will eventually pay the price by being lonely old men. Now if they’re rich, they can always buy love but then is that really love?

@well……:
But I think this picture is from 2008-09, but I am not 100% sure though. The black girl in the corner is Jasmine, I think. If it’s from 2008-09, then it means he has known her for about 5-4 years???

It'sakarmathing @ 04/28/2012 at 6:29 pm

@Reviews:

Why do you keep thinking that the key is Gerry settling down and having kids? Not everyone pulls well in double harness.

It'sakarmathing @ 04/28/2012 at 6:32 pm

@well……:

So many of Butler’s women all look the same. Cookie cutter conquests. You could line them up and not be able to tell one from the other!

It'sakarmathing @ 04/28/2012 at 6:34 pm

I’ve got a dinner date and gotta go. Been nice chatting with you.

@It’sakarmathing: Show me where I blamed his wife, will you? I think you are reading things into my posts that I never said. Al I said was that he was the perfect example of the male sexual urge that couldn’t be controlled. He should have done the right thing but didn’t. Same with Clinton who was our President and should have kept his urges in check for the sake of national security.
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Again you are not understanding me. I posted it before but will repeat for you. Most average men might not be like Gerry because they can’t. But men that have more freedom and opportunity will act like him given half the chance. So I am not selling men short, I am only pointing out the obvious.
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LOL! First you say I am bashing women and blaming them, then you say I sell men short. Which is it? And please DON’T say or read things in to my post that I didn’t say.
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This conversation is not going anywhere when you seem to think you know what I am saying when you don’t. Again, nuff said!

@It’sakarmathing:
Yes, nice chatting with you. Have a nice evening.
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Like CCG said before, we might never know anything about him anyway and if we will, only time will tell. Whether it’s Chloe or anyone else he’s dating, who really knows at this point?

well...... @ 04/28/2012 at 6:50 pm

This story of the survivalist found dead in his hidden bunker makes me think of the new movie Gerry has signed on for. http://usnews.msnbc.msn.com/_news/2012/04/28/11445794-body-found-in-bunker-believed-to-be-that-of-survivalist-murder-suspect-peter-keller

That picture is too cute. Beautiful baby.

@well……: Good find. I believe the name of the movie is Manhunt. No one knows whether G is playing the bad guy or one of the FBI agents.

dr. ruthless @ 04/28/2012 at 7:37 pm

@Reviews: I wasn’t informed you are omniscient.

kidding around @ 04/28/2012 at 7:42 pm

Aww – I thought Freddie and Gerry had a baby, and were going to settle down. Wasn’t it nine months ago that they went camping?

malibumillie @ 04/28/2012 at 7:50 pm

@justme: He might be getting the same or even more especially if he took care of his looks if he stayed. If he had become a successful lawyer, he would have been a good looking big fish in small pond and he wouldn’t have to waste much time with the sneaking around etc. either. Higher quality at least on the superficial level. In Hollywood and NYC he really is a middle – big fish in a big pond so he’s also got more competition, lot bigger fishes out there, but more prey to share in a bigger pond.

@dr. ruthless:
Aren’t you acting like the know it all by calling yourself dr ruthless, as if to say dr ruth doesn’t know anything about sex but I do? I think it’s another case of the kettle calling the pot.

dr. ruthless @ 04/28/2012 at 8:01 pm

@???: I see humor is lacking here as well as open debate on topics unless certain people believe they are open for discussion. Well Butler addiction is not good for the soul, in my opinion, so have fun trying to figure him out.

@dr. ruthless:
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Reviews only wants to have a discussion on HER terms… Sorry you didn’t get the memo. :P
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I vote Reviews go back to sharing old links…
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@???:
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Aren’t you trying to tell us you are clueless using “???” as a moniker?

When he arrived at the Kimmel show, the woman he kissed was she Chloe?

@dr. ruthless:
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I hope you stick around. Not everyone is ignoring you or trying to control your input…

@Manny:
Are you back to fighting? What’s the matter, no attention from hubby on a Saturday night?

@???:
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Dear Clueless,
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He’s watching the a ball game on TV. I’ll tell him he has a clueless fan…
-Manny

Summer’s Eve @ 04/28/2012 at 8:17 pm

@???:
She isn’t married. Just a lonely old wacko.

I see our resident d0uche is back. Okay fess up JJers… Which of you has the yeast infection…

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/28/2012 at 8:26 pm

I Gerry’s addicted to anything, it’s luxury.
~K

The girl he kissed in Kimmel wasn’t a random person, she arrived with him. and she was also with him when he arrived at he Howard Stern interview.
Don’t know the nature of their relationship ? if its business or personal ?

..but she is very beautiful .

@Manny:
I don’t think there is a bigger d0uche than you on the board.

@nvn: The girl he kissed at the opening of Kimmel looks EXACTLY like chloe. How long ago was that? She was with him last fall at Stern, too?

someone had to say it @ 04/28/2012 at 9:52 pm

oh goody eve and brooke

must be our lucky day

@Uhm….:
What are you talking about Stern? There was no girl with him at Stern unless you saw something I didn’t.
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Anyone has the Kimmel clip of him kissing the girl in the bar?

mustang sally @ 04/28/2012 at 10:44 pm

Lucky Chloe . . . or whomever it was he kissed . . .

@question: I wasn’t stating that he was with anyone for the the Stern show. I was ASKING @nvn about it. She made the claim….not me. Go back and read what she said….

The Kimmel clip can be found on YouTube….

I hate to disagree with some of. You but it was a random chic. That was the whole point of the skit. It was very funny.I highly doubt he was with this chloe person. He was to busy hooking up with nicole trunfio the australia model while in nyc promoting mgp.

@Uhm….:
You’re right, it was @nvn who came up with this claim, but you made it look like you were repeating her claims. Thanks for the clarification.
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I don’t think he had anyone with him at HS Show. If people say he had someone with him, then they are just assuming, not because they saw him with someone.

Why wasn’t he at the White House Correspondents’ dinner like every other celebs? Maybe he should stay clear of the Lohan and Kadashian types. Good move on G.

The Kimmel show kiss backstage

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=INjUgzwEmi8

IMO this was so obviously staged, she hardly reacts at all. I do think it could actually be that Chloe girl as she looks very much like the photos posted here.

@British Cows @ 04/29/2012 at 1:58 am

Are you around? “dr. ruthless” is one of your British Cows – probably “Whatshedonenow”, “Bystander”, or one of the other merry wives of JJ. All they do is go off on Gerry and most all men. Probably have a very dismal sexual life themselves the poor baggars. It was fun while you posted. You made the medicine go down ever soooooooo sloooooowly…..
Loved it!

Wow! I see there has been much speculation within the last 24 hours over who Gerry is really dating. Chloe is a beautiful woman and she looks really sweet. If it’s her, good for them. Although, I can’t believe it’s that serious when he has also been seeing other women all this time. Bottom line, maybe they slept together at one point and stayed FWB since, but I doubt she is really his GF.
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Anyway, on the way home I just heard on the news that there was a woman sexually assaulted in the porta-potties of the Coachella festival last night and the police are looking for the man. Two weeks ago I mentioned that I consider Gerry a gentleman for accompanying his brunette at the time, whoever she was, to the porta –potties and waiting for her to finish, which is why people saw them returning back together and assuming the worse and reporting it to Prez Hilton from all people. I doubted very much Gerry went in there with her so they could have sex inside one of the porta-potties. One of the posters on JJ angrily retorted that women don’t need to be escorted to the bathrooms nowadays, but tonight is proof that they do. Festivals filled with tens of thousands of people could easily attract crazies and criminals as well, so I believe Gerry a gentleman for accompanying his lady friend, date, FWB, GF whatever you want to call her to the porta-potties. Gerry, you are a gentleman in my book!

Can'tGetEnough @ 04/29/2012 at 7:15 am

Good Morning JJers! Lots of speculation on the board but a good discussion overall. It’s better than anyone coming here and saying they KNOW things because more than likely, they don’t.
According to a tweet, it seems GB might be back up in Palm Springs. Could he be doing some outpatient treatment there or just attending a party??
This guy worked on PTF I think. He looks familiar:
iqbal theba ‏ @iqbaltheba
@latgirl i am coming back from a party where ur fellow Scott Gerard Butler was there.
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iqbal theba ‏ @iqbaltheba
@frankengron i am In Palm Springs

Taelyr_Shelton I danced with gerard butler today :)

Fanfatigue @ 04/29/2012 at 9:51 am

@cupccake:

I don’t think that was an appearance promoting MGP. His hair is too short. I think that was the previous year and the woman he kissed WAS outside of the back door of Kimmel with the group. She did get out of the car and I think I saw Freddie and Ariel as well. She could have been with one of them too. The woman resemble this Chloe girl but her chest seemeds way to ample to be the model unless she got a boob job.
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Gerry probably gets his friends inside VIP when he makes appearances like that, both male and female and their “dates”. But I’m not saying it might not have been another Miss Rightnow. It would be just like him to stop and kiss her and secretly gloat that no one knew. He seems to get off on hiding his women right under your noses.

Fanfatigue @ 04/29/2012 at 9:54 am

@Can’tGetEnough:

That guy is also a reg on Glee too.

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@Info:

I thought last weekend was it for Coachella this year? They bumped it up to two weekends which would have been last weekend and the weekend before. I could be wrong.

Fanfatigue @ 04/29/2012 at 10:04 am

I think Mr. B is going to continue to keep his dates/girlfriends hidden from view until, if and when, one of them becomes serious. Then he may not even show her then. After what fans put Bianca through, how could you blame him? You can only blame yourselves and you know who you are!

@Fanfatigue: Oh please. Wives and Gs’s go through that mess all the time. Look at Hugh Jackman’s wife, she doesn’t give a **** thats’s HER man. She’s a grown woman and could care less who calls her old, frumpy or anything else. Denzel’s wife has gone through it to. Thats the difference a woman and someone who wears their heart on a sleeve. I’m sure Bianca was a sweet girl but it is what it is. I wouldn’t care what anyone said about me behind a computer while I was riding in the Bentley!!!!!!!!

That may be true but lately the paps have been everywhere I am not saying it’s right but all this comes out in the end.

dontblamefans @ 04/29/2012 at 10:47 am

@Fanfatigue: If Justin Bieber, a kid, the Beatles back in the day and 99% of the rest of Hollywood that are in relationships, including heartthrobs far more famous than he is or may ever be, can deal with it, so should the Butler if he is ever wants to be serious with any woman. That’s more likely going to be the issue, wanting to keep his options open perpetually. I would think that you need to go public at some point not too far down the line to find out if any special woman can in fact handle the extraneous stuff that comes from being with someone famous unless she is famous herself because might as well find out sooner than later if they can’t handle it.

Even Warren Beatty has his public flings along with his private flings until Benning nailed him down.

What is different from Beatty’s era is the internet but the bottomline is you ignore the stuff on the internet. Not that hard. Don’t search “Gerard Butler” or your name in Google. Don’t read tabloids or gossip sites or watch entertainment news. That’s pretty easy to do and preferable. A person secure in themselves with a full life doesn’t need to.

Much of the crap comes not from fans anyway but people who never liked Butler in the first place including gossip sites and their columnists and their commenters. They will always be there.

dontblamefans @ 04/29/2012 at 10:52 am

Just me, good example, Mrs. Jackman, power to her. She is also a large part of his success as well. Mind when she and Hugh hooked up she was the bigger star. There is an adorable account of how he got the nerve to finally ask her out somewhere out in cyberspace.

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Fanfatigue @ 04/29/2012 at 11:25 am

Well I see the “you know who you are” came out in force! I do agree that anyone who is in the limelight for any reason needs to develop a tough exterior and/or avoid the internet, however, the internet is a big part of our culture now and sometimes difficult to avoid. If you have a facebook page, personal blogs, websites, or a twitter, people can come on there and say evil, nasty things to and about you. So then, tell me how you avoid that?
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And please, these aren’t “fans”. People who say bad things like that are screwed up and unstable. You can only avoid so much of it.
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Of course, I’d enjoy the hate because I’d know it was spawned from extreme jealousy. This is how you distinguish the difference between someone with an unhealty obsession for a celeb and a normal fanship. Get next to it! You know who you are!

Fanfatigue @ 04/29/2012 at 11:28 am

The fact that some of you know of Hugh Jackman’s wife, Deb, being slagged is also very telling! What’s wrong with you women? Talk about needing a life!

Coachella is still going on

Fanfatigue @ 04/29/2012 at 11:57 am

@Coachella:

Unless they extended it or it is still in your head, it ended last weekend.

Fanfatigue @ 04/29/2012 at 12:00 pm

I see some don’t like hearing the truth around this place. They like to live in their own little realities they create for themselves.

Fanfatigue @ 04/29/2012 at 12:12 pm

I’m anxious to see if filming on Thunder Run begins soon in Baton Rouge.

Is that Chloe chick even 21 years old?

dontblamefans @ 04/29/2012 at 12:19 pm

@Fanfatigue: Hey you ever heard of private settings on Facebook and Twitter or some people actually can’t be bothered with social media.

Gerry was invited to an event hosted by Hugh and Deb and the pictures were at various sites including here and the nasty comments abounded I think even here. But please the mightier than thou is not necessary. So you only focus on Gerry gossip and some of us have broader interests. Try it sometime.

dontblamefans @ 04/29/2012 at 12:28 pm

Apparently this is a prohibited word by JJ, I mean hol ier than thou not mightier.

@Fanfatigue: I’m curious about Thunder Run too but there is no info yet, though it’ll start in a day. Gerry is in LA, Matthew Mcconaughey was seen in Texas yesterday. Let’s wait…

@Fanfatigue:
Coachella is still going on. Get informed before you talk

Fanfatigue=Eve @ 04/29/2012 at 12:57 pm

the same authoritarian style and know it all wannabe

God Bless yoou all! @ 04/29/2012 at 2:51 pm

“May the favor of the Lord our God rest on us; establish the work of our hands for us—yes, establish the work of our hands.” Psalm 90:17 (NIV)

Fanfatigue @ 04/29/2012 at 4:08 pm

@dontblamefans:

You call following other celebs besides Gerry “broader interests”?

fastasma del amor nuevamente . ,te envio esta cancion para ti de mi pais …se llama PROPIEDAD PRIVADA….y la canta EVA AYLLON,gran cantante……..Para que sepan todas
que tu me perteneces
con sangre de mis venas
te marcare la frente
para que te respeten
aun con la mirada
y sepan que tu eres
mi propiedad privada
que no se atreva nadie
a mirarte con ancias
y que conserven todas
respetable distancia
porque mi pobre alma
se retuerce celos
y no quiero que nadie
respire de tu aliento
porque siendo tu dueña
no me importa mas nada
que verte solo mio
mi propiedad privada
que verte solo mio
mi propiedad privada ……..linda cancion……aqui hay otra de EVA AYLLON…..se llama NUESTRO SECRETO……
Este secreto que tienes conmigo ….
nadie lo sabra,
este secreto seguira escondido
una eternidad.

Yo te aseguro nunca dire nada
de lo que paso…
no te preocupes
que todo lo nuestro
queda entre tu y yo.

Este secreto que tienes conmigo
nadie lo sabra,
este secreto seguira escondido
una eternidad.

Yo te aseguro nunca dire nada
de lo que paso…
no te preocupes
que todo lo nuestro
queda entre tu y yo.

Nadie sabra
que tu pecho
junto al mio a latido
que disfrutamos instantes
de facinante dulzura..
nunca dire q hubo noches
que te adore..con locura
nadie sabra que en tus brazos
borracha de amor….me que dormida……..bella melodia cantada con mucha pasion………..amor..amor…amor…….adios.

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/29/2012 at 4:52 pm

Feel folks like Brooke who always sounds the same by the way, who always has the same hints by the way, who would love to tell but cannot, who likes for people to think she’s inner-loop with the inside scoop, who isn’t and doesn’t by the way, live to shake people up until they lose control and forget to hide their real emotions.
~K
who also thinks when Gerry does not want to be seen he isn’t and that says a lot about the man, so when we see him, he wants it

@GerrysFascinatingWoman:
Yep, he knows how to stay out of sight when he wants too. If we see him, there is a big chance he wants to be seen.
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He should be at the game this afternoon but can’t be spotted. Either he is staying out of sight or he’s not there. Avi Lerner is definitely there and GB usually goes with him so I’m inclined to believe he didn’t come out this afternoon.

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/29/2012 at 5:55 pm

Maybe he went instead to see The Raven? Maybe he’s a huge Poe fan who, like many of us, would see any movie about the mysterious genius poet macabre storyteller who wrote dark tales of horror sin and hopelessness whose melancholy followed him like a black dog all his life who lost ever woman he ever loved? Or not.
~K

just a thought maybe he took a getaway with chloe to palm springs.

Fannyfatique @ 04/29/2012 at 6:26 pm

@Fanfatigue: As opposed to some of the people who seem to sit here all day and all night?

lakersfan @ 04/29/2012 at 6:30 pm

@Reviews: Avi Lerner probably does not invite Gerry every time out, didn’t even look like Lerner was there, and Game 1 of a playoff series is not that exciting for some. Were a few empty courtside seats until the second quarter though Jack Nicholson was in his usual seat, looking snazzy in a suit, Beckham and Banderas as well.

@question?:
Chloe was born in 1984.
She is NOT any of the girls pictured with GB at Coachella but yes, she was there.
And yes, it is Chloe in the picture someone posted in an earlier post. I see Ronnie and Nick in the pic too.

Chloe who??So now he’s dating someone called Chloe,just because a poster here said so??Why do people jump on something and make things out of it??Why not wait until there is any proof?? If he is in Palm Springs he is probably there getting ready to go to Baton Rouge,Tuesday,reading over scripts etc before filming starts.

I forgot to say, the black girl in the picture is definitely not Jasmine.

OK, let’s get one thing straight here people: Gerard James Butler does not DATE, he F.U.C.K.S.

@GerrysFascinatingWoman:
I love Poe myself. But I doubt he went to see The Raven although a great idea for him. Actually, someone tweeted he is in Palm Springs. Maybe he went to touch base with his rehab counselor. Maybe he is getting ready for his next acting part, or maybe he is at Coachella. Supposedly there is another music festival there as well this weekend. Who knows? Your guess is as good as mine lol.
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@lakersfan:
Of course Avi doesn’t invite GB to every game. I am sure he uses his tickets to wine and dine other potential business connections, not just GB. But I figured if Avi was there and GB wasn’t sitting next to him then there is a big chance GB is not there because if he goes to the game it’s usually with Avi.

me encanta esta cancion de los GIPSY KINGS y SALSA LATINO…….muy alegre el ritmo de los gitanos moros…..palmas,palmas,guitarras,tambores,ritmo,con sabor y pasion,asi se toca…yeah…yeah…..y a bailar moviendo bien las caderas…..asi…asi….cholita ya sabes mueve bien esas caderas latinas,como el fuego……ja.ja.ja…..That love arrive this way.
Not to blame.
Horse dance in vain.
Because it is so despised
Do not mourn forgives
That love arrive this way.
Not to blame.
Love buying and selling.
Love in the past.
Bembele, Bembele, Bembele
Bembele bem Bembele

Bamboleo, Bamboleo
Bamboleo, bem, bem, bem, bem, bem
Bamboleo, Bamboleo

Volare, oh oh
Cantare, oh oh oh oh
Nel blu di blu dipinto
Felice di stare Lassu

Bamboleo, bamboleo,
For my life I prefer to live.
,Bamboleo, bamboleo
For my life I prefer to live.

Djobi Djoba
Every day I love you more
Djobi Djobi, Djobi Djoba
Every day I love you more
Djobi Djobi, Djobi Djoba
Every day I love you more
————————————————–feliz domingo sr.butler…..feliz domingo amiga dargabriel…..besitos…..besitos………feliz domingo a todos…….

@Dee:
That picture is from 2008-2009 and Jasmine was there too, so how can you claim Chloe was with him then? From what I know about their relationship, in late 2010 she was already in his life. Now I don’t know what this means? Does it mean they were just friends or were they already lovers, if they even are or were lovers?
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Now the Kimmel show was in March 2010, at least 6 months before I even heard about her from my source, so I am not even sure the girl at Kimmel was her, even though there is a slight resemblance. And my source never said they were seeing each other, just that they were friends and I also found out later that she is a very good friend of Ariel as well, so I just assumed she is part of their group.
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Speaking of their group, I also think Ronnie Madra knows her and I am getting a memory as I write this of a picture where GB, Ronnie, and two other friends of his are on bicycles with 4 ladies also on bicycles and look like they were the men’s dates. One of the girls has her face covered completely so you can’t tell who she is. I assumed she is the girl with GB and that’s why her face is covered so she is not recognized. I don’t know when this picture was taken but it is for sure in NYC and could have been from late 2010 when GB was living there for about 3 months. It’s possible the Russian site has some stills from a video Ronnie prepared for GB’s birthday this past fall, as a gift to him because he couldn’t attend his birthday party in San Fran. The video has that photograph of all of them on the bicycles, and many other pictures of Ronnie and GB’s shenanigans over the years, including many other photos from late 2010 when GB was living in NYC and hanging out in the pubs and clubs with Modra almost every night, as well as the photo from 2008 that you are discussing. If someone can find the thread on the Russian site dedicated to this video, you can get a lot more info and Chloe. Better yet, is there someone that has the video itself? I don’t think it was made public at the time, but now it might have been made public as with many other photos and videos of him his friends film. Someone may have released it, othrewise how the Russian site got info on it?

@Reviews

That picture is from 2010 and that is Chloe and not Jasmine. It’s from around the time he did that Cosmo magazine thing. Terrell Owens is in the pic with him. BTW Chloe is just a friend they have a lot of friends in common.

So where is Gerry tonight, any ideas?

hoy que hay media luna,me encanta las melodias de SARAH BRIGHTMAN les dejo ARABIANS NIGHTS,muy hermosa melodia,
Don’t you forget the echo’s of time
Won’t you regret the losing of minds
In my dreams I’m searching across the desert sands for you
Scimitar moon is guiding me close to your side

———————————————————————————————-

Voyage
Voyage
Wilderness to wilderness
I travelled from afar
On the soft wind of the the Nadq came fragrance of Araar
Splendour of a thousand suns shone glory in my path
No love more pure and rage more fierce
Could still my beating heart
Voyage
Voyage

———————————————————————————————

So should I return to trace the shadows of my chases
My steps will echo there from sand to stone
I will never let my eyelids close on empty spaces
My dreams will fill the void with tales unknown
Know the mighty infinite obscures the far horizon
The whispered road I take will never bend
Alone
And will the wind return my story to its promise
Or will my story chase me to the end

{Every time}

{Oh wind, carry my love song to my boyfriend with you}

{My duty in life is to find you, even if I live my life traveling for you}

{My cowlick will turn into chains and will tie you up to me}

——————————————————————————————–

Melodies unspoken flowing from the lotus of my heart
Ending where we start
Promises unbroken promising a never-ending fire of love beyond desire
Ending where we start

he was at someone’s birthday party

FOR FU/K SAKE ….why why is everybody so curiosiy about who he’s dating or not. Does It makes you fell better if he’s ” official” single.
Do you all think that you all have a better chance to hook up with him If he’s single…..NOT….The man is like the rest of us …we all need love in ours life and at some point wany to settle down…

@CHOLITA:
{My cowlick will turn into chains and will tie you up to me}
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Seriously? Someone thought that was a romantic notion to put in a song? Wow. At least it wasn’t navel lint or back hair, I suppose…..
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Is there not a music appreciation website you can post on instead of here? I’m not saying that you aren’t allowed to post here – everyone is – but only a couple of your posts have been about Gerard, and this is a Gerard Butler thread, after all. Just curious as to why you post lyrics all the time…..

Can'tGetEnough @ 04/30/2012 at 8:24 am

Good Morning JJer’s! Apparently that birthday party was last Thursday evening. He was definitely in Palm Springs yesterday:

GolnesaGharachedaghi ‏ @GolnesaGG
@DavidSimonian21 Just got back from Palm Springs. Kept it low key and became friends with Gerard Butler while swimming.
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@katefab I’m in a pool with Gerard Butler, some drunk Persians and a bunch of breast implants. #palmsprings Sun 29 Apr 17:59

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/30/2012 at 9:22 am

Think swimming would be good for him, of course not in a pool full of beautiful people! Seems L.A. is back in place as ‘home’ for now.
~K
who loves the photo thanking you for it!

@Can’tGetEnough:
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OMG – now the nutters will be saying she is Chloe or Brandi, no Jasmine, no Jasmine and Chloe… where’s Bianca…
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Good Lord what an exercise in futility. I see Reviews leading the charge to the monotonous cycle. Please Reviews… go back to posting old sh!t about Gerry. You’re much better at that. :)
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@SNP:
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You would think if they care that much they would hitch up their wagons and go to Palm Springs and give it a shot themselves. Any moist parted legs seems to hit the Butler radar so if he has been without for a spell he just might hit it… from behind…

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/30/2012 at 10:48 am

You know I really like that candid shot of Gerry.
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Feel somehow the real him is so much more serious and humanity-driven than he lets on by showing us his escapism side, his buccaneer lifestyle, which seems to encourages confusion. So when confused or over-stimulated he gets busy by design to get him out of the shadows of his heart where he warily measures the distance between that and his true self.
~K

Rightunderyournoses @ 04/30/2012 at 10:48 am

@Reviews:

Why would one woman cover her face in a picture? That’s seems a little ridiculous to me! No one would know who she was with anyway unless they were standing together holding hands but it’s pretty obvious she’s hiding that way. Butler probably told her to do it because they were seeing each other. Who the eff cares anymore! I’m sick off all the sneaking around and hiding. It’s an insult to fans. Let him fck who he wants too.
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@Uh..:

I don’t think you get why she posts songs here. First of all, she and Dar are one and the same and she’s sending out cryptic messages of love to Gerry. Just one of many nutjobs on this site! Hasn’t anyone caught on to that yet?

@Rightunderyournoses:
“Why would one woman cover her face in a picture? ”
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I have no idea, other than it was deliberate. But as you say, it might have been unnecessary because you wouldn’t know who was with whom, and yet she covered her face anyway????
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And why all the hiding? No one knows for sure why he hides. But that picture was at least 2 years old so who knows what was going on in his life at the time.

Rightunderyournoses @ 04/30/2012 at 11:21 am

@Reviews:

I think Mr. Butler gets off on the whole “who’s the mystery woman” thing. He probably comes here and gets a kick out of reading everyone’s speculations and assumptions and then brags about how he pulls it off right under everyone’s noses.
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I’m getting so I don’t care anymore, as if I really cared a whole lot anyway. It’s his business. But it’s almost an insult to his intelligent and long time fans just because of what a few crazies may have done in the past. The whole thing is getting quite tiring really.
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I sometimes think he uses it as an excuse to keep one from knowing about another. If he doesn’t trust us then why should we trust him? It works both ways!

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/30/2012 at 11:46 am

Kind of sense it sorta obvious that he’s not that serious in anyone emotionally (but not without emotional connections in his life that sustain him), nor ready, after leaving or still in some sort of recovery process, or in a place with his career to establish something long-range (because relationships take focus).
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So they’re all pretty much for intimate recreation to stay healthy so he can stay focused on the big picture, his career which is very important for men along with respect, money and obviously sex–which is just that for now… loveless motion without emotion.
~K

just saying 3.0 @ 04/30/2012 at 11:59 am

@Reviews: Gerry is notorious for overlap.

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/30/2012 at 12:00 pm

Right, it’s called being single, not looking, and referred to as dating. Oh, and by the way, It’s not a crime either!
~K

NurseRatched @ 04/30/2012 at 12:06 pm

He’s far too busy partying to come here. But if he did, I’m sure his first concern would be that what little fan base he has left are quite bonkers. Other than that, unless this guy comes up with a blockbuster fairly soon, his career is toast, and people will just move on to the younger and hotter guys coming up behind him. His behavior is tedious and juvenile for someone his age, and his antics are predictable. Hiding girlfriends, etc. is ridiculous. He just isn’t that important, in HW, or elsewhere. There are far bigger “stars”, and far younger, that seem to have a better idea of how to conduct themselves.

just saying 3.0 @ 04/30/2012 at 12:08 pm

@katefab I’m in a pool with Gerard Butler, some drunk Persians and a bunch of breast implants. #palmsprings Sun 29 Apr 17:59

That is funny and likely wholly true.

I think it has been said by a lot of posters that he hides because he can – no, he hides because it keeps his options open, trying to keep those overlapping women from knowing about each other. I bet when he gets annoyed at the paps that is why, he is thinking damn I am going to get angry text messages from “Angela, Pamela, Sandra and Rita, Monica, Erica, Tina, Sandra and Jessica” [Mambo No. 5 Lou Bega]

Got no problem with people playing the field as long as all parties are totally honest and sorry I get the feeling Butler is not totally honest though sure some of the women are not either. But you can’t made at others for being dishonest if you aren’t.

Rightunderyournoses @ 04/30/2012 at 12:10 pm

@GerrysFascinatingWoman:
“Kind of sense it sorta obvious that he’s not that serious in anyone emotionally ”
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Then why does he claim he’s had “serious” long term relationships in the past that nobody knew about? So who’s to say he’s not with someone now? I doubt it but who knows? During those relationships he was seen running around, clubbing, partying, etc., coming and going “solo”.
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He needs to either sht or get off the crapper. He doesn’t have to announce every person he dates or get married but stop rubbing it everyone’s faces like it’s a big game.
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It just seems like he “hides” things when he doesn’t have to and it makes things look worse that leads people to speculate about the wrong things then when in fact it may all be innocent. Then all kind of crap starts flying around like dating really young girls barely legal to gay rumors. It’s his own fault! He’s his worst enemy when it comes to bad press/media and his reputation. Soon his rep will be more famous then his acting and I hate seeing that happen!
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If he doesn’t have anyone serious, fine. If he’s dating, fine. Stop looking in the camera when he’s asked about dating and talking to some “mystery” woman. I’ve seen him do it!
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Like in one interview one time he was asked the same old worn out question about his “type”. He gave the old standard, “tall, dark, exoctic” answer followed by a quick look directly in to the camera and a “hey there”, like he was doing an acknowledged shout out to someone he was seeing that fit that description, even though he denied seeing anyone and was open to all possibilities. I picked up on it. He doesn’t fool some of us like he thinks he does.
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Like I said, it’s his business, but I’m getting a little tired of the attitude he cops about it like he’s all that and a bag of chips. Mr. B’s getting too full of himself and if there’s anything I hate in a celeb is a big head and a “I can get away with anything” mentality! JMO.

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/30/2012 at 12:19 pm

@just saying 3.0:
Not to say it isn’t possible but “drunk Persians”??? Could just be happy Persians instead! Just sayin’ they’re not known for being drunks IMO from my experience.
@Rightunderyournoses:
Kind of feel he hides things because he’s not certain about anyone. Kind of feel he hides thing because he likes a private life. Kind of feel he hides things because he doesn’t want anyone upset seeing him with anyone that he may have feelings for (not the dates) so keeps everyone away from everyone.
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He clearly can stay off radar when he wishes. Feel he’s more mature than many give him credit for too. That he plays the game well keeping his name in print doing whatever whenever.
~K

@just saying 3.0: “She (Jenae?) thought Gerard wanted to be in a relationship with her but then she found out he was involved with other girls, and hadn’t been exactly honest with her about what was going on in his life.” Yes, looks like Mambo No. 5. Love this song.

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/30/2012 at 12:39 pm

@Rightunderyournoses:
While interviewing I suspect he does have a few he strings along so as not to upset any of them might give that look to the camera so they each feel special? It’s not a crime.
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Eh? He needs to do what? sht or get off the crapper? Really? Says who? You? Really? Why do you care? What’s it to you?
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What reason are so invested/vested in his private life past and present?
~K

Rightunderyournoses @ 04/30/2012 at 12:50 pm

@GerrysFascinatingWoman:

I have no investment other then being a fan but I need a reason to be other then the guy’s good looking. I think he’s a hell of an actor but he seems to hide his light under a basket sometimes. Then when he’s not open with his personal life, people start making things up. That doesn’t mean he has to discuss everything he does but when you sneak around and duck the paps all the time, you act like you’re hiding stuff.
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You think “stringing along” women he’s dating is OK? Why would he do that? If what he’s doing is on the up and up and they know the score then why would he have to do that?
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You’re up front with your dates/hook ups and you won’t have to lie. You say what your intentions are. I get the feeling that he doesn’t do that. He gets the sex part of the relationship by picking women that are gullible and believe he’s in it to be exclusive and calls that “serious” whenever he’s in town but still wants to run around like a single guy elsewhere. Hope that’s not the case.

NurseRatched @ 04/30/2012 at 12:55 pm

OMG…LMAO…I rest my case.

Rightunderyournoses @ 04/30/2012 at 1:12 pm

If you just want a woman to be a “hook up” then tell her that. Long as both people are on the same page, and adults, go for it! And some women might go for it but many won’t, especially the decent ones.
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If he’s been in “exclusive” relationships with women enough to call them “serious” as far as being exclusive but not enough to be on the level of domestic partners or engaged, OK but don’t HIDE those so you can carry one with others.
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I’m not saying he does this but like someone else said here, his timelines and so called “relationships” seem to overlap big time! If a relationship runs it’s course, then you’re up front with the person and say so and then move on. I think anyone knows that. He’s said he’s left a woman living in his house and just didn’t come home for several weeks until she left! He’s admitted that! That’s no way to treat someone. That’s kind of a cowardly way to end something. Just sit her down and say good bye, don’t abandon her or let her catch you with another woman. That’s poor form!
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Many of the ladies he’s been with in the past are probably too much of a lady to get upset about it and say bad things. They choose the high road and remain civil and even friends with him. But as you see, as his rep is getting more notorious and his choice in women is getting more less than “ladylike”, more of them are going to come forward and call him out.
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It’s time for Mr. Butler to straighten up his act and behave like a big boy now if he wants to be taken seriously in his chosen profession. If he continues to act like a frat boy gone wild, it’s going to hurt him in the long wrong. I DON’T WANT TO SEE THAT!
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I’d like to wack him one sometimes with a rubber chicken and I hope he has someone around him that can do that once in a while. And stay the heck away from places called “Cathouse”. OMG! LOL!

sameolesameole @ 04/30/2012 at 1:14 pm

Same two people on here 24/7, debating the minutiae of someone’s life who they don’t know, and never will, whilst wasting their own. Every. Single. Day.

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/30/2012 at 1:24 pm

@Rightunderyournoses:
Settle down. Your voice reads hostile, suggestive aggressiveness. Besides you’re making a LOT of presumptions based on what you read. And with what ‘the game’ feeds you as well.
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Ever think we don’t see anything so to keep people talking? Ever think we don’t see anything so he can live his life as he sees fit? Ever think we don’t see anything so these women do not get put under the microscope by people like you? Or to spare them the box-cutter routine they all get anyways? (Not that a secure woman would give a flippin’ Perrier bottle!) But then what would the likes of you, here daily with a new moniker, have to do?
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Things get made up? So what? Like he cares?! He’s no one to answer to but God and himself! And certainly not you!
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What I don’t get is your insistence on him showing us anyone he dates?
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Again, feel like a lot of men, Gerry has a need to compartmentalize his life.
~K

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/30/2012 at 1:27 pm

@sameolesameole:
1) Nope Manny you are wrong. I haven’t been there all weekend but for one or two posts. Have a nice day.
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2) What’s it to you what I do? Or who I chat with? Have a nice day.
~K

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 04/30/2012 at 1:31 pm

Hi JJ’er’s! Well all I can honestly say is that I really don’t care who Gerard B. is dating or hump/ing on. I am however, still curious to see MGP and Coriolanus. And yes, most of us are aware of the intent of Cholita’s posts. I skip over them now though as to avoid getting the songs stuck in my head for hours.

I just came on to tell GFW that I finally watched “Shame”. And wow. First of all, Michael Fassbender and Carey Mulligan’s performances were awe-inspiring. That is a movie in which your emotions fluctuate throughout. At first, I was simply thinking “Ok, this guy is really messed up”. Then you start to feel truly sorry for Brandon and Sissy. Obviously something severe that happened during their childhoods caused these extreme emotional issues.And unless he received intense psychotherapy or something, there was no way Brandon(Fassbender) could ever have a normal, monogamous relationship with anyone, ever. There were also a couple of times that I got nervous that he was going unzip in public from a loss of control. lol I also believe that watching too much p/orn can cause desensitization. So he was just constantly making things more difficult for himself. But it was sickness, so…….. Anyhow, it really was a great film, albeit a sad one. Okay, back to work now. :-D

Ha, ha, ha……I think you are really jealous of him socializing with younger women and it shows by the way you are going after him. Now it’s Chloe, a gorgeous model, and young too. I don’t see a problem if a guy likes to date younger if it makes him feel masculine and happy. Maybe it’s because younger men usually don’t date older women and you are bitter about it? You think there should be equality. Like, if men don’t date older, then why should women be compelled to date older type of a thing. Well, that’s the way men are sexually. You’re letting your emotions get to you and that makes you so very silly. You can’t dictate nature, taste, and preference.
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Biologically, men go for younger women.
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Biologically, women go for older males.
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Deal with it and shut up.
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This is never going to stop. So get married younger and don’t stay single after your 40s because it’s hard to find a decent guy then.
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Now I wait for the barrage of insults to start from the 45+ in the crowd because they hate facing reality. Well, it won’t change the conditions on the ground, will it? It will still be the way I described it.

Rightunderyournoses – Eve! @ 04/30/2012 at 1:49 pm

Do you ever shut up?

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/30/2012 at 1:49 pm

@Anastasia Beaverhausen:
“I just came on to tell GFW that I finally watched “Shame”. And wow. First of all, Michael Fassbender and Carey Mulligan’s performances were awe-inspiring. That is a movie in which your emotions fluctuate throughout. At first, I was simply thinking “Ok, this guy is really messed up”. Then you start to feel truly sorry for Brandon and Sissy. Obviously something severe that happened during their childhoods caused these extreme emotional issues.And unless he received intense psychotherapy or something, there was no way Brandon(Fassbender) could ever have a normal, monogamous relationship with anyone, ever. There were also a couple of times that I got nervous that he was going unzip in public from a loss of control. lol I also believe that watching too much p/orn can cause desensitization. So he was just constantly making things more difficult for himself. But it was sickness, so…….. Anyhow, it really was a great film, albeit a sad one.”
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Thanks. I could get into talking about the film but this isn’t the place. IMDb is better with others who’ve seen it.
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One question though. About the ending. What was your sense?
~K

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/30/2012 at 1:52 pm

@Rightunderyournoses – Eve!:
It might be wise and less frustrating (for you) to simply skip posts that you find uninteresting? Or hears, a thought, maybe say something of interest yourself?
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Just sayin’ it makes no sense to try and discourage people from posting on a public gossip message board is all.
~K

@GerrysFascinatingWoman:
“Kind of feel he hides things because he’s not certain about anyone. Kind of feel he hides thing because he likes a private life. Kind of feel he hides things because he doesn’t want anyone upset seeing him with anyone that he may have feelings for (not the dates) so keeps everyone away from everyone.”
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I got to agree with you. You figured it out.

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/30/2012 at 1:57 pm

@LOL:
Do you ever have a different topic to yap about? Seriously. Do you have a B side of your record as my brother would say? You’ve worn Side A out!
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Get a clue, men want a woman who he can’t live without with who he feels emotionally safe and emotionally excited, who makes his life better with her in it than not, period. Men want youthful women, not necessarily young women.
~K

@Rightunderyournoses:
“I sometimes think he uses it as an excuse to keep one from knowing about another. If he doesn’t trust us then why should we trust him? It works both ways!”
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You got to be kidding me, right? Why would he trust you, you idiot? Who are to him? If he keeps his personal life private, then good for him. I would have done the same, and I do the same. I don’t tell everyone everything I do. That’s how he protects himself. I find that characteristic of his to show high intelligence, because intelligent people know that other people can hurt you if you don’t proactively protect yourself. And besides, I don’t think he cares whether or not you trust him, why should he? And besides, no, you can’t be trusted. The moment you see him with a pretty young girl you lose your exterior. You go off on her as if he is married to you and cheating on you. What a bunch of losers!

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/30/2012 at 1:58 pm

@LOL:
Sarcasm or sincerity?
~K

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 04/30/2012 at 2:00 pm

@GerrysFascinatingWoman:

Ya, there’s only so much you can write here without going into moderation I would think. To be honest, I don’t know much about IMBD except that my best friend and I go on there when we are discussing a star or movie and we to look up something quickly.

My sense is that he was going to continue doing what he had been doing. There was no way to just stop for him. He needed a lot of therapy to get to the inner source of why he thought the way he did regarding s/ex. The same with his sister and her problems.

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 04/30/2012 at 2:02 pm

Sorry, IMDb…..see. haha

Rightunderyournoses @ 04/30/2012 at 2:09 pm

@GerrysFascinatingWoman:

I make no presumptions based on anything other then his own actions. I base nothing off of hearsay or things said on this site. I’m an observer. I read body language and facial expressions. That’s all. And I’m not hostile. I really want the best for him but sometimes he makes me crazy! And I’m sure he could care less about me but I represent many of his fans out there who aren’t hooked on the allure of his hotness and want to see him excell to a level other then HW player.
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You seem to be someone here who is so blinded by your own obsession for him that you accept everything he does. All he owes me, as a fan, are good movies however but I also feel he owes his steadfast fans maintaining a good reputation in order to keep making good movies and being taken serious as a major force in HW and not just someone who may be doing it to live the lifestyle and get layed.
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AGAIN, I’m not saying that’s what he does but sometimes you have to take a step back and look at the big picture.
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What do you mean by “we don’t see anything so to keep people talking”? You’re saying it’s OK to stay so private that you cause people to make their own judgements and assumptions to draw unsolicited talk about it? You think that is the way to maintain your popularity and fame when it’s just as easy to do the right thing and use your God given skills and talents and a little common sense?
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So he hides his life to live it as he see’s fit? What does that mean? Why would he hide it other then it wouldn’t be something anyone would like? Does he hide it because it’s not very good? Is he living up to what he says about himself, and I quote….”You wouldn’t like me if you really knew me?” Don’t you think he is setting himself up?
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And as far as people “like me” putting his women under a microscope, it seems to me that when he had a serious relationship with Bianca Christian the likes of YOU was posting crap about her calling her things like a “bag of chicken bones” on the yard. You can’t deny it because you stupidly use the same moniker. You said it and then you accuse me of putting his women under a microscope! What a hypocrite you are!
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You believe by agreeing with everything he says, does or allegedly does is OK by you and you’ll be the last woman standing when he’s garnered such a negative reputation that a decent woman won’t touch him. Is that what you’re hoping for?
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Sure things get made up but he isn’t helping his case! Does he care? He better start caring! Does he only have to answer to God at the end of the day? Yes but God’s not going to pull him out of it when he ends up garnering such a bad rep that it’s irreversable! Could he do that eventually? Yes, I think he could, especially if he doesn’t turn in some good product in his chosen vocation. This isn’t an internship at a law practice. He burned that bridge down a long time ago and I totally agree with him that he did the right thing but the way he did it shows he’d rather chew off his own leg to get out of something then look himself in the face and say, “I’m done with this and moving on.” and just does that. He has a pattern of making women and things just quit him after bad behavior. Isn’t that obvious?
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He doesn’t need to show anyone who he dates but if he’s out on a date with someone and a pap catches him, big deal! We’re big girls. We can handle it. If he’s got one he wants to vacay with, go hang with her on the beach! Don’t surround yourself with your entourage and make her blend in with them like one of the guys! Be a man! The points you’re going to garner with the general population to being a stable gentleman is more worth it then breaking a few hearts of the crazy, insecure ones that only comprise a fraction of your fanship! Besides, I don’t think he’s concerned about that. I think it’s like a game to him.
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Maybe he’s sick of HW and he’s not getting out of it what he wants anymore and he’s found out the price is too high. Maybe all he wants is to hobnob with the rich and famous and pick up randoms but it’s getting harder. I don’t know and I don’t profess to know but I do know this, I’ll not support or stand by someone who hides a side from his fans that he knows will kill their adoration for him while acting up front like he’s a lovable, misunderstand rogue. Maybe that’s exactly what he is but clubbing and partying almost nightly and hiding his “dates” or relationships is causing the needles on a lot of fans’ “Gerometer” to hang towards the “manho” end of the dial.
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You’re always excusing away what men do as if it’s a “man thing” and there fore it’s OK. A boys will be boys. I don’t subscribe to that. I say you man-up.
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He doesn’t have to get married or join a monastary but I wish I wouldn’t see him so much sneaking in and out of clubs at all hours, even when he’s on a film set.

@Aha….:
I don’t think Jenea is someone he needed to be honest with. I don’t think he even took her seriously because she was cheating on her husband and a previous husband, and that doesn’t exactly bode well for you as a person. She got exactly what she deserved. Maybe it will teach her to stop playing these games – you play with fire you get burned. I don’t think another man would have done differently, unless he was a wuss and kissing the woman’s butt so she sleep with her. Gerry doesn’t exactly need a woman to sleep with him. He gets those a dime a dozen. She was just another puzz to use because she wanted to be used by a hot man like him. As GFW says, he isn’t emotionally ready for a good relationship. But I think he will one day and it’s going to be a woman that doesn’t sound like any of you on JJ.

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/30/2012 at 2:15 pm

@Anastasia Beaverhausen:
While I understand intellectually that he might venture on that same path, there was something dulled in his eyes on the bus. His lack of interest in the come-hither of the woman he’d met before.
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Maybe, and I’m an eternal optimist, he was in therapy? After the fight and what happened to his sister? A horrid wake-up call. Even HE suspected it.
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Maybe on his way to a meeting? His eyes, face, body language, all of it seriously was altered. As they say the truth is all over our faces.
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That said, I was all over this movie when it came out at IMDb, so if interested that discussion is there. IMDb has brilliance and insight.
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Had a convo with a shrink when it came out but he deleted his thread. Then I deleted my responses. These guys don’t like to be confronted.
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But in order to get to the heart of the matter of Brandon’s addiction he needs to return to the place it started, with the abuse in his childhood, same like Sissy. Many simply do not want to go there (because it’s too painful) so feel they can handle it on their own or simply deny its existence. There is a good book called Lust, Anger, Love that dives into the subject with compassion and empathy written by someone who’d know.
~K
who says we can return to our regular topic of Gerry’s private life now!

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/30/2012 at 2:17 pm

@LOL:
Thank you!
~K

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/30/2012 at 2:25 pm

@Rightunderyournoses:
You couldn’t be any further than the truth. Not blinded (or obsessed) at all, trust me. I’ve a right to be here and for you to judge me, well, you’re simply not qualified.
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I’m just a pong to all the pings here.
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I’m simply not a member of the if I can’t have him I’ll destroy him crowd is all.
~K

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/30/2012 at 2:38 pm

@Rightunderyournoses:
I’m still reading your diatribe. [read: haven't finished it yet] You’re kind of scary.
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And you’ve his quote wrong. But there is something behind it yo don’t know and don’t need to. But the fact of the matter still rests on he doesn’t owe you (or anyone) anything, And you, for some reason, feel entitled to something you’re not getting. What?
~K

@Rightunderyournoses:
You think “stringing along” women he’s dating is OK?….You’re up front with your dates/hook ups and you won’t have to lie. You say what your intentions are.”
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How do you know he does that? You assume he does that, and I am sure he does up to a certain point, but these women had to know what he is all about form the get go, and if they didn’t then they are stupid. I don’t think he promises them anything or leads them to believe he’s into a relationship with them. If you are dating someone wouldn’t you expect to be seen with him, become part of his life, meet his friends and family after a while? And wouldn’t you assume he’d want to meet yours? All the tell-tell signs are there about what you mean to him, so if you believe you mean more to him, then you are an idiot grasping at straws; hoping hope against hope to entwine him with you and he’ll never leave.

@Rightunderyournoses:
“Many of the ladies he’s been with in the past are probably too much of a lady to get upset about it and say bad things.”
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You assume too much. Many of them are no ladies.

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/30/2012 at 2:57 pm

PS, He’s no expectations to live up to for me but to be generally happy with his choices.
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And no, he’s no one else to answer to but God… and by the way, you’re not Him.
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And what’s so wrong with his reputation? He’s made some judgment errors, like we all do under stress or PSTD after a NDE, but all and all he’s living his life as fearful and doubtful as the next but one, I’m convinced, he’s hopeful will turn out as he dreamed it would!

@GerrysFascinatingWoman:
“Settle down. Your voice reads hostile, suggestive aggressiveness. Besides you’re making a LOT of presumptions based on what you read. And with what ‘the game’ feeds you as well.”
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Agree again. why is she so judgmental and with a man she doesn’t really know personally, and therefore doesn’t know what is true about him and what isn’t? Too many emotional women not using their heads and just jumping on him to jump.

Rightunderyournoses @ 04/30/2012 at 3:05 pm

@LOL:

You know, you seem intelligent but yet very naive and ignorant. You loose all credibility when you start slagging other women, putting down older women as if they’re used up and done with life. I find it difficult to believe you are female when you talk like this because no matter what your age is now, YOU will be older one day and what a sad day for you it will be under your belief system. It’s very oppressed!

And then you’re like GFW in believing men behaving badly is OK because it’s just what they do! You have no standards, do you? You’d take anything a man would dish to you because he’s enititled because he’s a man and you’re the lowly woman who is just grateful to be there!
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You need to grow up or get out in the world a little bit more! It’s painfully clear you are very retarded in your line of thinking. You believe it’s OK for Gerry or any man to treat a woman badly because she accepted it. HE SHOULDN’T BE DOING IT IN THE FIRST PLACE! A gentleman won’t take advantage of a woman who is like that nor would he allow a woman who masked her true intentions with naivete.
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I don’t care what other men do but I DO care what Gerry Butler does. There is something in him that is special and unique that if he lets it go to his head and doesn’t think with his heart (he seems he used to do this) and thinks more with his dyck, then he’s headed for disaster and he’s going to pizz it all away.
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You either have to be very young and live a very sheltered life being fed information and imput from some very sad and saorry one sided, misogynist people OR you are just a lonely misogynist male yourself! I believe you post here under many monikers too because you are easily identifiable. Either way, you’re life is not steeped in any kind of reality. You are the one that needs to get real!
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For all we know about you is that you could be incarcerated in prison for dometic abuse or rape and you just hate women in general. I think since we know nothing about you, I’ll go on that assumption based on the color and tone of your rants. How do you like it?

Rightunderyournoses @ 04/30/2012 at 3:09 pm

@LOL:

I’m not the one who mentioned that he strings women along. Your friend GFW did….

“While interviewing I suspect he does have a few he strings along”

See, even SHE believes he does that! You’re not too bright are you?

@GerrysFascinatingWoman:
“And no, he’s no one else to answer to but God… and by the way, you’re not Him.”
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That’s the healthiest attitude to have. God is the ultimate judge, no one else. We all make mistakes but there is a big difference between type of “sins”. Hurting a child or killing a human being is not on the same level as being a bad boy with the ladies.
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I don’t know GFW, I find myself agreeing with you a lot today. Anyway, got to go. I just wanted to see if there was anything new on when, what, and where he’s filming next.

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/30/2012 at 3:17 pm

@LOL:
You tell her! And we don’t know that he isn’t fairly upfront do we? I think he’s become more open about his intentions, just a hunch of course.
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Rather than break hearts he simply tries to keep things light and breezy… that fun first stage of relationships, the uncovering.
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And as a reader of emotions, words, actions, even micro-expressions, I’m positive when they get that glazed over look (one he’s very familiar with) Gerry might have some well-worded sentiments to let them know he’s not available. From then on if they wish to keep it up (pun in ended) that’s on them. Another reason to date fairly young women… they press on easier… their dating pool deeper.
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Just don’t think he’s unhappy or living in Narnia either. He’s a piece of work, but a catch all the same. And something tells me he knows both!
~K

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/30/2012 at 3:20 pm

@Rightunderyournoses:
Bad choice of words (on my part), mean date at the same time. Hey, men do it. It’s not crime!
~K

Rightunderyournoses @ 04/30/2012 at 3:21 pm

LOL/Hags/Observations, whatever you call yourself, and GFW are very similar in their backward mindset. They are both very defensive and are extremely obsessed but refuse to identify with it. Instead, they show it by coming off quite threatened by the presence of others showing interested in that object of their obsession, they just handle it differently.
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GFW strikes out at other fans defensively and LOL et al attacks with rude and verbally and mentally abusive comments about women, especially those that are older. Both hopes the rest of us will just go away. But they are still just two peas in a pod!

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/30/2012 at 3:25 pm

@Rightunderyournoses:
“And then you’re like GFW in believing men behaving badly is OK because it’s just what they do!”
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Excuse me? Where have I made this my platform? I don’t make excuses for men. But single men, such as Gerry, are allowed to date as they see fit. It’s not a crime.
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The trail he’s put on here (by you) in your relentless pursuit, of only God knows what [read: he fails you miserably] is pretty obsessive, you know. He can do no right by you! No wonder he keeps everything he does (that makes him happy) private!
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Damn, you’re one judgmental snot you are!
~K
who won’t get upset because you don’t matter enough to upset me

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/30/2012 at 3:28 pm

@Rightunderyournoses:
I’ll bite. “They are both very defensive and are extremely obsessed but refuse to identify with it.”
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What is “it”??
~K
whose defense is for Gerry to be able to keep what he wants private, well, private

Rightunderyournoses @ 04/30/2012 at 3:28 pm

@LOL:

You agree with her today because she’s the only one who thinks like you around here, otherwise, you don’t have much support. That is unless you create your own by socking.
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You and GFW hate your own sex. It’s obvious you view them as the enemy. I doubt either of you have very many, if any, female friends. Both of you are going to implode if and when he ever settles on one woman! I just wish I was the fly on the wall when that happens! LMAO!

@Rightunderyournoses:
STFU. You think you know about everything but you don’t know how or what about anything. You are just a simple dummy whose life is behind her already looking for solace within Gerard’s life.
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“And then you’re like GFW in believing men behaving badly is OK because it’s just what they do! You have no standards, do you? You’d take anything a man would dish to you because he’s enititled because he’s a man and you’re the lowly woman who is just grateful to be there!”
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Wrong!!!! I control the show so I am never taken advantage of, get it? I don’t let a man mistreat me because every man will if you give him an opportunity to do so. So my standards are much, much higher than yours, get it?
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“I don’t care what other men do but I DO care what Gerry Butler does. There is something in him that is special and unique that if he lets it go to his head and doesn’t think with his heart (he seems he used to do this) and thinks more with his dyck, then he’s headed for disaster and he’s going to pizz it all away.”
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What??? You’re not his family, wife or mother to have a say in his life. Who are to him that you don’t care about what any other man does, but you do care about what he does? Is your life that empty? Don’t you have your own worries to keep your mind occupied that you have to be occupied with his? Talk about a loser lol.
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Idiot!!! He is not thinking with his dyck. You, a stupid woman, are thinking with your emotions. He is a guy and he likes sex, so what. Let him get as much as he wants. I don’t fuucking worry about his ladies and their feelings. They need to protect themselves, just like I and every smart woman does. If I know a man wants easy breezy sex, I have a choice to make. Either do it with him and don’t complain knowing I got exactly what he was willing to give me, or say no I am not interested I want more and move on. There is no space for getting hurt. In addition, I doubt any of them got hurt, only the dummies that sound like you.

Rightunderyournoses=Eve! @ 04/30/2012 at 3:32 pm

we get it. You hate men. it’s time to step away from the computer.

Rightunderyournoses @ 04/30/2012 at 3:35 pm

@GerrysFascinatingWoman:

“Bad choice of words (on my part), mean date at the same time. Hey, men do it. It’s not crime!”
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I think the term is “two time”. But how would you feel if you were “dating” a guy, got sexually intimate with him and caught him doing the same with another woman? Would you be pizzed or would you just say “Hey, men do it, it’s not a crime?”

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/30/2012 at 3:41 pm

@Rightunderyournoses:
“That is unless you create your own by socking.”
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Is this what you do? It must. You change your moniker every.single.day.
Amazing!
~K

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/30/2012 at 3:49 pm

@Rightunderyournoses:
“I think the term is “two time”.”
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Eh? What decade are you living in the 1950′s? Men don’t need to marry for sex these days!
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Hey, got news for ya, women date multiple men too, and it’s not a crime! Again, it’s called dating, looking around, playing the field, nothing serious, trying on different shoes… those shoes need to be comfortable, get it! SAME WITH MEN.
~K

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 04/30/2012 at 3:56 pm

@GerrysFascinatingWoman:

No, that’s ok (regarding IMDb), there’s no way I have the time to figure out how to get involved with the forum there right now. I just wanted to tell ya that I saw it and what I thought about it. It is indeed a very complicated subject matter. Yes, you girls can get back to Gerard B.’s personal life now. :-D

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/30/2012 at 4:04 pm

@Anastasia Beaverhausen:
That’s fine, but briefly… the closing scene… you really feel he on the road to ruin? What’s next losing his job? Didn’t get that sense. Michael was in deed best suited for that role. He’s that director’s go to guy. Did you see Hunger? The man has no issues with full frontal nudity. I’ve yet to see him where he isn’t undressed. Even in A Dangerous Method he was. (blushing)
~K
who understands about IMDb who posts there regularly because I see a lot of movies!

@Rightunderyournoses:
“But how would you feel if you were “dating” a guy, got sexually intimate with him and caught him doing the same with another woman? Would you be pizzed or would you just say “Hey, men do it, it’s not a crime?”’
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Those ladies were not in an exclusive relationship with hGerry so the same standards don’t apply. They had a FWB relationship at best, and probably more like one-night stands and short flings. So just because you are sexually intimate with a man, doesn’t mean he owes you anything. Therefore, before you became sexually intimate with him you have to make sure what you’re getting yourself into and learn who he really is. Just because you are dating a man for a couple of weeks and have seen him half a dozen times, doesn’t mean sex should be inevitable. It’s better to tell him you don’t do casual sex and see his response. If he is out of there you know what kind of men he is. It’s not rocket science. It’s pretty straight forward.
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On the other hand, if a man had an exclusive serious relationship with a woman, you’d hope he can control himself and not cheat. However, if he cheats it’s a big indication he is not in love, so I would walk out without causing a scene or letting him see how upset and hurt I am. In fact, I’d date someone new within the next day and make sure he heard about it. See how he runs after you when he thinks you can turn it off for him so quickly. Then I’d be strong enough not to take him back, no matter how much he begs. It’s the perfect revenge. That’s what I meant being strong and controlling the show, as opposed to becoming a “victim” of men. But then again, my man knows me pretty well by now that he knows what sh!t he can get away with and what he can’t, so such issues that plague so many relationships are no something that can touch us because we both set boundaries for each other and stick to them. He set boundaries for me too and expects me to behave a certain way, and I have my boundaries for him too. And of course I keep myself looking hot and fit and that really helps curb the male roving eye. That’s why a woman of your age, 50+, isn’t going to keep a hot man like Butler all to herself. He really needs someone young and very attractive, as well as someone who can handle him and not let him get away with his usual mischiefs because so many women before her did and he got used to it. But she needs to do it with subtlety, not with your methods of hitting him upside the head as you often say. Men don’t like pychos that over react. They need women that can control the relationship in subtle feminine ways. I think it drives them crazy how you do it but they can’t quite figure it out. It’s called female mystic and I remember Butler speaking about it once in one of his interviews.
He is looking for someone to bewitch him with her mystic.

@GerrysFascinatingWoman:
“Hey, got news for ya, women date multiple men too, and it’s not a crime! ”
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That’s right. Women do it too. It all depends on what you are looking for. There is no excuse to be a “victim” if you pay attention to what you are getting into. Once in a while you might meet a man who is a total sociopath who will lie to you and make it sound like truth, but that’s not that prevalent. Most men tell you upfront, or you can figure it out pretty fast if you don’t sleep with him prematurely.
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Women fall in love with the men they sleep with; it’s a biological response. Therefore, before you sleep with a man, find out if he is really worthy of you first. There is no place to become a victim, and if you do you just set yourself up and have yourself to blame.
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OK really got to go now. Good luck knocking some sense into these women.

God Bless yoou all! @ 04/30/2012 at 4:25 pm

“O LORD, you have examined my heart and know everything about me. You know when I sit down or stand up. You know my thoughts even when I’m far away. You see me when I travel and when I rest at home. You know everything I do. You know what I am going to say even before I say it, LORD.” – Psalm 139:1-4

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/30/2012 at 4:25 pm

I get a sense the moniker changer isn’t a modern soul. And might not be in the dating circuit. Not that there’s anything wrong with that. It seems simply disapproves of how Gerry runs his life, period. And you can’t convince her otherwise.
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Nothing’s any good. Not his career choices. Not where he lives, which coast he’s on, his hats, shoes, watches, shirts, socks vs no socks, his bike, where he works out, his shorts, pants, belts, friends, sunglasses, his love-life or more like sex life.
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Not where he parties (if he actually really is or does). Where he gets his teeth worked on, his check-ups, buys gas, rents his vehicles, where Lolita is. Bottom line it reads as if Gerry simply isn’t living up to her expectations. She appears personally disappointed! I’m wondering what all she does like about him other than his striking good looks?
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She claims he’s unique, special… so she’s fond and emotionally attracted to him it appears (to be here daily), yet deep down she knows she’s no chance at all so she wants him off the market for anyone who is?
~K

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 04/30/2012 at 4:30 pm

@GerrysFascinatingWoman:

I just don’t think he was on the road to recovery at that point. The look on his face and in his eyes to me was a sense of being torn. He had realized just how toxic it addiction was, yet like you said, he would need to get to the core of the problem before any sort of recovery could truly begin. And that would entail coming to grips with what took place during his childhood. Through therapy, hypnotherapy, what have you. Wanting to stop is great……it’s the first step. I believe that’s where he was at the end of the film. That scene when he falls to the ground crying…….he was completely tortured with this addiction and also the state of his sister’s mental illness.

I’ve only ever seen M.F. in Jane Eyre, X-Men and this one. I will definitely watch Hunger and A Dangerous Method. Out of curiosity, is Michael in anything where he is humorous? He is no doubt an amazing actor, but I’ve only ever seen him in dramatic roles. I like for actors that I am impressed with to show a bit of variety with their roles.

Haha, ya he’s definitely not afraid of full frontal nudity. He really has no reason to be I suppose. ;-)

Got to run now, but will check in again soon. Thanks for the great conversation!

@GerrysFascinatingWoman:
“She claims he’s unique, special… so she’s fond and emotionally attracted to him it appears (to be here daily), yet deep down she knows she’s no chance at all so she wants him off the market for anyone who is?”
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lol she knows she has no chance in hell with him. That’s why she is so angry with him.

Rightunderyournoses @ 04/30/2012 at 4:41 pm

@LOL:

“It’s called female mystic and I remember Butler speaking about it once in one of his interviews.
He is looking for someone to bewitch him with her mystic.”
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You mean “mystique” don’t you?

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/30/2012 at 4:42 pm

@LOL:
Exactly.
@Anastasia Beaverhausen:
I think the ambiguous ending was there for a reason.
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In reading that book, the first step is admitting their is an issue that they can’t handle. In the movie, he doesn’t see there is one until his sister shows up. She holds a mirror to it. And, she’s her own issues! (blushing) She’s an exhibitionist, and he’s an under the radar sex addict.
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Be warned, Hunger is hard to watch. It’s based on a true story. He was fantastic in JE. Saw Fish Tank (more nudity) [blushes] And don’t recall any humor. It’s dry when it shows up. It’s an Island Men thing!
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Yes, quite talented… and on a role. David, a new film looks fascinating. You’ll like A Dangerous Method a lot, I did But again the topic is difficult at times but it’s also based on a true story of his friendship, and its subsequent demise over methods! He plays Carl Jung who, by the way, says all addictions are bad addictions. And this coming from a man who kept a mistress all his life! (eye roll)
~K

Rightunderyournoses @ 04/30/2012 at 4:53 pm

@LOL:

Why do you feel it so necessary to keep telling others here they have no chance with an unobtainable, obviously out of reach, celebrity? The fact that you believe any sane person here believes they would says a lot about your own mindset.
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The fact that you and GFW need to keep reiterating to someone over and over again, when you’ve exhausted all other argument, that they’re too old, not good enough and have no chance, show your own immaturity, panic and lack of touch with reality you have and just how obviously frightened you are that somebody might! By process of elimination, you start with fans and posters here since they are the only ones you feel you can affect. How out of touch with reality YOU are! It would be laughable if it wasn’t so stupid.

Rightunderyournoses @ 04/30/2012 at 4:56 pm

@GerrysFascinatingWoman:

And for what it’s worth, I’m not talking about random dating when I say “two timing”. I’m talking about someone who claims to have been in serious, long term relationships that went under the radar during periods of time when they appeared to be single and unattached to the point of flirting, fondling and gathering numbers. That’s what I’m talking about.

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 04/30/2012 at 4:59 pm

Roll. He’s on a roll with hi