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Gerard Butler Hits Hotelier's Birthday Bash

Gerard Butler Hits Hotelier's Birthday Bash

Gerard Butler smiles while leaving a restaurant after having dinner on Thursday (May 3) in Beverly Hills, Calif.

Last week, the 42-year-old actor helped celebrate pal Jason Pomeranc‘s birthday at Caulfield’s restaurant inside Jason‘s Thompson Hotel.

Gabriel Aubry, Tom Welling, Michelle Trachtenberg, and Entourage‘s Jerry Ferrara and Emmanuelle Chriqui, also came out for the bash.

The group gathered for drinks and hors d’oeuvres around 8 p.m. before sitting for a festive dinner, followed by cake and champagne until 2 a.m.!

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# 1
The Noise In The Walls @ 05/04/2012 at 3:30 pm

This looks recent…I believe he’s still in LA..Nice shot Gerry !!

# 2
food 4 thought @ 05/04/2012 at 3:31 pm

That’s not a smile. That’s “get out of my way, mate, before I step on you”.

# 3
GerrysMesmerizingWoman @ 05/04/2012 at 3:49 pm

I love khaki and white together. It’s so English Patient. It’s appropriate anywhere. He looks terrific! Looks like he had a good time.
~K

# 4
Ocean view @ 05/04/2012 at 4:29 pm

Agree GMW ! Gerry in khaki and white looks great …….Gerry in ANYTHING looks great …though it has been said Gerry in NOTHING is probably just as impressive!!!!!!

# 5

He looks great bottom line.

# 6
GerrysMesmerizingWoman @ 05/04/2012 at 4:53 pm

@Ocean view:
Blushing! Stop that! Hell, I can see him with my eyes closed. Kidding.
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LOL Yeah, it’s like what is the count of that cotton? It looks like silk!
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He looks like he smells like ginger, Bergamot, amber and a drop of Sandalwood.
~K

# 7

His eyes look funny. Don’t his eyes look strange? Kind of “stepfordy”? “Gerry, don’t mess with your face, boy, or the wolfgirl gonna getcha!

# 8

I hope Gerbear’s not hitting the Botox! GADS! He seems to look different in the daytime then when he goes out at night! “Age gracefully, Gerbear, gracefully!”

Maybe he’s using loreal products lol.

Well, it looks like Clamsie was right about one thing. Hunter Killer appears to be off the table.

GerrysMysteryWoman @ 05/04/2012 at 6:48 pm

His shy side is so adorable. I love his sloppy gait. He walks like a lug! LOL No, he was nice, very nice. Played along and was a sweetie.
~K

mustang sally @ 05/04/2012 at 9:01 pm

Nice pics . . . he’s looking goood . . . great smile!!

@GerrysMysteryWoman:
“Played along and was a sweetie”
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When he’s out playing he’s not in a hurry, that’s when he doesn’t mind being pleasant to the paps. However, when he is on a mission, watch out. You better get out of his way like he looked in the last thread lol
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@Can’tGetEnough:
X17online makes it sound like those pix from last night are from the birthday bash. The birthday bash was last Thursday night. Last night he went out and those are indeed the photos from last night, but last night wasn’t to celebrate pal Jason Pomeranc‘s birthday. Last night was just dinner with friends or whatever.
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But I have to say he looked great last night. I also liked him in the last thread, but last night he looked exceptionally well, and none of that silliness of his trousers tucked inside his boot business. He looked seriously manly last night. LOL, I hope Bystander and Toronto are satisfied with his look this time around.
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On another note, I wonder why JJ only posted one picture when so many exist? JJ did the same thing in last thread. It’s a bit curious. JJ usually posts a series of photos. Maybe a new policy to save funds.

Can'tGetEnough @ 05/04/2012 at 10:13 pm

@Reviews: Yea I noticed that they got that wrong. They probably picked it up from JJ’s headline above!

Tweetiebird @ 05/04/2012 at 10:22 pm

The purchase of photos taken by paps puts money in their pocket, thus gives them more incentive to bug people for more. It’s all such a strange business. Gerry has a good friend who is friends with Jared who puts up pap pics and Gerry hates paps. It’s the circle of life!

Exactly! JJ has both events separate, but in the headlines it confused them.. JJ mentions that last week he went to the birthday bash for Jason Pomeranc and that last night he was all ” smiles while leaving a restaurant after having dinner on Thursday (May 3) in Beverly Hills, Calif”
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It’s another example of how the tabs should not be taken at face value. Not everything they report is accurate. Just thought I should make a point of that since we argue so much here about so much hearsay.

@Reviews: Hi there! I haven’t posted on JJ in weeks and weeks (sick of being bashed by 2 certain posters; they know who they are). I don’t know what you’re talking about….therefore I haven’t commented on Gerry’s look. Are you confusing me with Tonto, perhaps?
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While I’m here, hello to my friends CGE, NikNoks, Angelsrock, JDV, Manny, Autumn…I know I’m forgetting a few!

gerry looks great but has anyone noticed the tan pants they are getting a lot of wear still think hes handsome and glad to see that cute little smile love to all the posters tonight

@Toronto:
Didn’t you post something in the last thread about Gerry not having a butt. You apparently didn’t like the way his pants were falling on his hips. I figured maybe you prefer these pants instead?
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Who’s bashing you? Did I miss something? And if they are bashing you, so what? Everyone is bashing everyone else almost. Just ignore it.

Gerry from 2009 while filming LAC
http://gbgalsgallery.com/v/partiesetc/2009/UFC80809/ufc08094.jpg.html
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I don’t know how they can make such a claim. They don’t know for sure that the project is off the table. It could just be delayed
http://www.ineedmyfix.com/2012/05/04/gerard-butler-will-no-longer-hunt-nor-kill-for-relativity/
but I can’t say I am crazy about Antoine Fuqua partnering with GB on any project. I hope it ain’t so.

That’s the latest I guess regarding his schedule
“Millennium/Nu Image’s feature film Olympus has Fallen starring Gerard Butler will shoot July 2, 2012 to August 19, 2012 in Bossier City and Shreveport. “
http://louisianaentertainment.gov/index.php/film/production-hotline/
There is a lot of filming going on in the state of LA this year. Better there than in CA with all its regulations.
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The Russian site got the birthday night confused with last night. I guess just copying headlines
http://gbutler.ru/news/hits-hoteliers-birthday-bash/

GB talking about Coriolanus with scenes from the movie. Really good. He was totally hot in that film.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h-iF6uQqiyc&feature=uploademail
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CHROPDFC1_U&feature=plcp

Skylar Peak won. It’s the guy GB supported in Malibu. Here he talks about his friendship with GB
http://www.theinertia.com/surf/skylar-peak-surfs-into-malibu-city-council/
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I swear those tabs just copy from each other the same cr@p. They use the same phots that seem to support their claims, and they have an article. So ridiculous.
http://sociool.com/gerard-butler-is-such-a-mess-jennifer-aniston-charlize-are-trying-to-help-him

@Reviews:
“Didn’t you post something in the last thread about Gerry not having a butt. You apparently didn’t like the way his pants were falling on his hips.”
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That was bystander, not Toronto.

@fyi:
That was Tonto and Bystander. Reviews must have mistaken Tonto for Toronto.

@Toronto – sorry for the confusion.
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Speaking about GB’s butt, here he talks about his physiques and butt among other things. LOL! He says he had Jennifer Lopez azz for “300”.

This interview was probably his best look. He had so much passion back then, much more than today. His enthusiasm seems a lot more reserved these days. That passion and enthusiasm made him very attractive on top of his handsomeness.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ySjA86Bq68s
lol, Conan is taller than even GB. I think he is like 6-4.
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http://gbutler.ru/photos/gerard-butler-photo-gallery-hq-part-2/
Scroll toward the bottom there is a great picture of GB from Attila

I remember the story about these two fans. He told them to stop following him and get a life. So funny.
http://georgieleahy.tumblr.com/post/22257450681/blast-from-the-past-d-the-day-gerard-butler-got
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This is one of GB’s best fan videos. The lady that puts them together is very talented.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=endscreen&v=8jwKbjTdU1A&NR=1

fun MGP photos with MM
http://mediagallery.usatoday.com/When-photo-shoots-go-wild/G2751,A10228
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Annoyance with George Clooney for being nominated for best actor, and an open letter to Ryan Kavanaugh from GB’s fans
http://weetiger3.livejournal.com/tag/gerard%20butler
I wonder if GB is aware of his fans lashing out on Ryan Kavanaugh?

hunter killer @ 05/05/2012 at 1:21 am

won’t be the last film pulled from Butler. karma has arrived. word of advice Gerry, watch who you tag,swag and shag in HW. you never know who’s watching.

Reviews, I did comment about Butler’s lack of posterior in the last thread. But, it wasn’t meant as a real complaint, just an observation. A lot of men are lean in that area. It was just the way his pants sagged in the back that made it look like his azz was nonexistent. He’s still a gorgeous guy and lets face it no one is perfect. It doesn’t detract from his looks, just makes him more human and like a regular guy. Too often we see these celebs as perfect beings without any flaws. It makes him that much more attractive to know he isn’t so perfect. I can’t speak for Bystander only myself. If you took my comment negatively, it wasn’t intended that way.

Erica Taylor‏
I’ve never been as happy as tonight: seeing Gerard Butler and his gorgeous Indian gf, Priyanka Chopra. #multiracialcouplesftw
11:53 PM – 4 May
http://twitter.com/Ericurry

bystander @ 05/05/2012 at 4:00 am

@Reviews: post 34.
Unfortunately hindsight showed that despite Lionsgate’s prime time mainstream tv advertising, poster and press campaigns, and publicity over here from TIFF etc, MGP bombed in UK too. The limited cinemas who aired it soon dropped it. So maybe Kavanaugh just made an astute business decision and the unrealistic potential award rumours came from Gerry’s camp?
Fundamentally MGP, at that time, was not a commercial subject . Well, not here anyway, where Gerry isn’t that well known and the Christian storyline, albeit with violence and action, wouldn’t appeal to a wide demographic. A re-release, or later release, this spring might have jumped on the political bandwagon, but was November really a Relativity/Lionsgate free choice? Or a Siegel/Butler vanity idea?

It’s also important to remember the critics did not like MGP. It only got a 28% approval rate on RT. The majority of critics did not like it. The failure of MGP at the box-office was not Kavanagh’s fault. He was trying to get theatres to accept a small, independent, and critically panned movie. He had an uphill battle during a season when all the studios were competing for screen time with their best products (in time for awards).
It is also important to note that Gerry has remained personal friends and business partners with Kavanagh. So perhaps this was not some giant betrayal of Kavanagh against the poor, unwitting Gerry. Maybe, just maybe, his fans have no clue what was really going on behind the scenes. Fans of Gerry’s, who are openly skewering Kavanagh, are likely not helping Gerry at all, only embarrassing him.

I thought prynka chopra and gerry were just friends? Maybe this is the mystery brunette that he was with. At agency?

Why not think Gerry dropped Hunter Killer, as he clearly has better projects in mind, like Motor City and even Manhunt….nobody thought about that of course, as we have Relativity fans here it seems….ridiculous haters grab every chance to make it his fault….

@bw:
ridiculous phannies grab every chance to make nothing his fault

@Reviews: R, thank you for bringing the Malibu report here. It is nice to hear kind words about Gerry for a change. He looks guite hndsome in his white shirt and tan pants, nice leisurely look. Thanks again.

GerrysMysteryWoman @ 05/05/2012 at 7:54 am

@MGP:
Well said. I agree with the part about relentless degrading of anyone Gerry works with/for when a project gets review. Too many like-kind projects out there… something different is needed. Two words: Beautiful Joe. Two more words: Gerry – Spielberg.
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Sometimes deals fall though. It happens. Again, feel the industry is struggling. So many other ways to see and have the movie experience than in theaters. It seems spectacles are the trend?
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Me, I prefer more reality-based thought provoking independent films but am not above fantasy si-fi blockbusters either, so feel they have their place. Seems these big-buck budgets weigh in on other projects perhaps?
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Yes, feel the Malibu report (and similar ones) counter the others who seem to be a small part of a smear campaign. Just feel whatever is behind it, isn’t really worth it — and this too shall pass.
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Gerry will rebound because he’s well respected beyond that and Of Men and Mavericks appears to be an awesome something new coming up!
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Then Playing The Field is a different fare as well. So 2012 could be a very successful year for Gerry. Feel he’s learning to stand on his own two feet again, be his own man, and I respect that. I respect what guides him.
~K

GerrysMysteryWoman @ 05/05/2012 at 7:59 am

@Reviews:
@GerrysMysteryWoman:
“Played along and was a sweetie”
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When he’s out playing he’s not in a hurry, that’s when he doesn’t mind being pleasant to the paps. However, when he is on a mission, watch out. You better get out of his way like he looked in the last thread lol”
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Yes, like all of us, no? Seriously, this was me yesterday rushing to the bus stop. Interruptions are always challenging, especially to emotional men on private calls we have no idea what the topic was about.
~K

GerrysMysteryWoman @ 05/05/2012 at 8:06 am

Discussion question. What happens to people when they go to Hollywood?
~K
who thinks it’s not where you’ve been that’s important but where you’re heading that counts!

GerrysDaisyDuck @ 05/05/2012 at 8:18 am

Answer? A classes society? A plastic society? A golden I.V. drip? Fur-covered cuffs? Sin City? Addiction Central? Home of the rich and shameless. A promise of onward to forever?
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The Devil is great at highlighting all the negativity. It is an expert. It reads here. It tells you lies. The weak grow to believe it. It loves that. Then you become its.
~K
who wonders how a small town lad with a heart of 24K gold can hold on there and if he’s really cut out to so as only in front of the camera and could he be thinking the same thing as that short video shows a man clearly feed up with it all but has obligations along with loving the business side it to keep him in the thick of it and every time I see the sun go down I think of him

Can'tGetEnough @ 05/05/2012 at 8:32 am

Good Morning JJers! Looks like GB was at the Coldplay concert last night. Also, according to the ladies at WO and Priyanka Chopra’s Twitter, she IS in LA so perhaps they went to the concert together or were seen talking there? Who knows??
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Zeynep Ongoren ‏ @zeynepongoren
Waiting for Coldplay with Gerard Butler.. Life doesn’t get much better than this.

Can'tGetEnough @ 05/05/2012 at 8:43 am

Short video of GB and friends leaving Coldplay after party last night:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p2Bzzw6_fcQ

GerrysDaisyDuck @ 05/05/2012 at 8:56 am

I love Coldplay. Glad he got to hear their new stuff and some of his old favorites as well! Nice evening for anyone! Very cool, thanks for sharing!
~K

Can'tGetEnough @ 05/05/2012 at 9:00 am

@GerrysDaisyDuck: I love Coldplay too! I heard they were playing there last night and I wondered if GB would go. Glad he did!

GerrysDaisyDuck @ 05/05/2012 at 9:07 am

Yeah, have all their stuff (but the new release). Used their lyrics a lot in my old story. (sigh) “When you’re tooooo in love to let it gooooo… stuck in reverse…” LOL
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Wonder what she was handing him that put that lovely smile on his face?
~K
who loved the hat and good to see his soft green scarf again… like Folk Implosion sings, “E.Z.L.A. cold like the desert at night”

Heck with Gerard, I want to see pics of Gabriel Aubry. he’s
one hot dude

AmICynical? @ 05/05/2012 at 9:45 am

Gerry, get out of Hollywood. Ewan moved his family to Hollywood but he has that to fall back on and be normal. What does Gerry have? A bunch of hangeroners, wannabes and playboy losers…for f@ck’s sake. I keep hoping he will turn things around for himself and get real.I am sick and tired of this fascination he has with being American and fitting in. If he’s dating Priyanka or whoever else that will get him out of Hollywood…all the better I say.

In time and space
My soul and thy
A light would be

Was written
For millennia
That in the sacred fire of passion
we will consume

Sun of the Desert
Burning sand
Your presence is water
Life-preserving

wild dove
In the blue of the soul
Your love is light
That illuminates and blinds

Was written
and god knows
The snake magic of love
Would make us gods

It is written
Before time
That life is worth only
When love touches us
………………………hermosa melodia de MARCUS VIANA…….llamada …maktub….ya estaba escrito………..besitos………adios.

Whatshedonenow @ 05/05/2012 at 10:35 am

He ain’t leaving HW, he’ll hang on in there as long as he can. He loves the glamour, attention and the fakery.   I remember a quote from someone who knew him in Scotland. They basically said he was just shallow. I think that’s true.  Just look at his so – called close friends. If you saw them in a bar you’d run a mile because they look so mean and sleazy. 

As for that Chopra chick, she is beautiful, but as fake as fake can be. So maybe they’re well suited. Shame, the guy is turning out to be one big fat disappointment.

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/05/2012 at 10:54 am

Happy Saturday JJer’s!

@Joie: Regarding your post to me on the last thread: Thank you! You are so sweet and positive. I bet you are so fun to hang with. That was a great story btw. It’s never too late to find your passion. I would love to see his work!

Gerard B. looks great! I don’t believe those are the same pants as in the last thread. lol

I wasn’t sure who Priyanka Chopra was, so I looked her up. She is beautiful! I have a great hair stylist who gives me these wonderful hair treatments that have been passed down in her family in India for years. It’s amazing. I would love to go to India one day and get all the info on their spirituality/health/beauty secrets. Well, I was just checking in. I hope everyone has a great weekend!

defydh9 from twitter @ 05/05/2012 at 11:04 am

I drank a beer with Gerald Butler tonight after a Cold Play concert, I figure this was random enough to tweet about.

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/05/2012 at 11:25 am

Oh ya! @GFW: I agree with Emma. Keira Knightley’s over-acting was almost overwhelming in “A Dangerous Method”. Honestly, I was most impressed by Viggo’s performance as Freud. I do also agree that Jung and Freud’s friendship ended due to their egos. But also because of Freud’s close minded-way of thinking regarding his theories.

more about Hunter Killer.
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“Over at Relativity, director Antoine Fuqua now has one less deadline to worry about. His Hunter Killer, which had been scheduled for a December 21, 2012 opening, has now been pulled off the schedule altogether. Gerard Butler has been lined up to play a submarine captain Joe Glass since last fall, while Sam Worthington‘s been circling the part of a Navy SEAL. The story sees the characters teaming up to rescue the president of Russia, who’s been taken prisoner in a military coup, in an attempt to stop World War III.”
http://www.slashfilm.com/release-dates-warner-bros-moves-the-seventh-son-beautiful-creatures-robot-frank-dated-hunter-killer-bumped/
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It doesn’t look like it was Gerry’s fault. It’s more like Relativity can’t get its act together.
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At first I thought Antoine Fuqua was working with Avi Learner and Mellenium, but from this article it looks like he’s more associated with Relativity. Who knows? I don’t like both Relativity and Antoine Fuqua. I hope Gerry has the least amount of business with either one of them.

Ciao, lovelies!!!

:-) Ana, thank you for confirming my assessment of Keira’s acting in “A Dangerous Method”. I love Viggo’s performance as well.

I just watched Shame, Kathy… Grrr! Difficult film to watch, but I thought I would, since it’s the talk of the Butler threads… :-P The ending is open, but maybe Fassie’s character got his wake up call. Sometimes, we get these strange events – mostly tragic – that propel us forward. Mine was 7th of January this year – I fell down the stairs and survived with some bruises and swellings – I still have the bruises on my left leg to show for the fall… Things pretty much started to get better for me after that moment and I am now realizing my lesson – “be present!”… “Sides, if all goes well, my people say that a fall will forecast a wedding, so I’ll get married… LOL

Gerry looks good… Re comment no 59 – Beer does not constitute alcohol in my book… I don’t drink any kind of alcohol, but if I were to drink, I would choose beer… I blame it on Annette Benning’s performance in “Being Julia”.

Hugs, lovelies! Have a wonderful time wherever you are!

Emma

@Can’tGetEnough:
What a sweet video of GB leaving Coldplay party. I love the outfit he wore as well. No slobbery there.
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So it looks like they were 2 1/2 couples.
The couple upfront driving the car.
Ariel with his lady, went all the way in the back seat
Gerry without a date seating in the middle seat. No Priyanka Chopra in sight. What was that all about?
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Anyone recognize the couple in the front seat? A real gorgeous couple.

malibumillie @ 05/05/2012 at 12:49 pm

@Tweetiebird: I think that is a bit of a naive impression, Gerry doesn’t hate it as much as you think or his team doesn’t especially when it is very obvious his team ordered the photo op and frankly I don’t thank Jared posts any pictures that aren’t approved by Team Gerry as the fansites call it. People have seen Jared leave out certain photos from the same series because other sites don’t care.

He does not have a movie coming out until fall so he has to keep his face and name out there where and when he can or that seems to always be the ” Team Gerry” credo. As others have noted most people didn’t see MGP or Coriolanus so the wider movie going audience haven’t seen a Butler movie since The Bounty Hunter in March 2010. Not sure How to Train Your Dragon counts.

malibumillie @ 05/05/2012 at 12:55 pm

@hunter killer:Why do you say the film was pulled from Gerry given Relativity’s poor performance in general of late not just MGP and given their rather shaky financial situation sounds to me like Gerry and Antoine Fuqua ran from a sinking submarine.

malibumillie @ 05/05/2012 at 1:04 pm

@Reviews: Given she is hiding from the camera, she could be his date and the driver is the third wheel, ha. Or she does’t want to camera to catch her for some other reason, married perhaps to someone else?

God Bless yoou all! @ 05/05/2012 at 1:32 pm

Ephesians 2:8-9 reminds us, “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith – and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God – not by works, so that no one can boast.”

Indians are very strict with their culture. I doubt G and PC could ever be a couple. Friends, yes.

@Emma:
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“…Beer does not constitute alcohol in my book…”
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Seriously??? Here is a description of beer for you…
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“Beer is an alcoholic beverage made from malted grains, hops, yeast, and water. Beer contains alcohol. Glucose is the main sugar that is converted to alcohol. Many reactions take place inside the yeast that convert the glucose molecules to ethyl alcohol and carbon dioxide.”
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Hope that helps…..
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@GerrysDaisyDuck:
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Here is a better sock for you GerrysCrazyDope…

@My2cents:
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IMO Piggy Chops either is trying to make some Bollywood actor jealous like she did last time or trying to make herself seem desirable to Bollywood by using Butler. Piggy Chops would give her hair extensions to be Aishwarya Rai…

@Manny:

Totally agree! I think she uses him when she needs the PR. JMO. But you’re all wrong about GerrysDaisyDuck new sock. It should be GerrysScaryStalkerChick! She’s giving him the wrong “bird”!

Famous last words of an alcoholic in denial are, “I can have a few beers and it doesn’t count”.

Whatshedonenow @ 05/05/2012 at 3:46 pm

He is obviously with one of those poor misguided girls in the video of him leaving the Coldplay concert. But the way he’s carrying on, it’s as if he’s embarrassed to be seen with them. 

He’s like a stupid, thick, vain,  ignorant, teenage jock who’s porking a plain fat girl he really likes, but doesn’t want anyone to know.  Ridiculously immature.  He has no basic manners when it comes to taking women out in public. Pathetic. Absolutely pathetic.

The tweet about Gerry and PC came through from another Indian apparently. I think it was a little name dropping PR stunt to get attention. I get a bad vibe every time I hear her name in relationship to Gerry. Next the Mumbai press with have the story soon.

@Whatshedonenow:

I don’t seriously think either of the girls was with him. However, that’s not to say the one he might be with, as it was apparently a date night, they picked up around the corner waiting somewhere out of site of the paps because Gerry didn’t have to get in and go clear over to the other side of the car. The seat next to him beside the door was left empty. It would have made better sense if he was the odd man out, to have climbed all the way in the back by himself. He’s so clever.

@My2cents: I agree I think there was probably a mystery brunette waiting around the corner for them!!!

boredstiff @ 05/05/2012 at 4:37 pm

@Whatshedonenow: I totally agree, although I have a little bit of a different take. I think he has such an inflated sense of where he stands on the HW totem pole, he thinks everyone would actually care if he was seen with someone on a date. In his mind, there would probably be a “media frenzy” and it would hurt his “career.” He’s very immature, and I also think his ego is huge, and he doesn’t have a very reality-based view of where is career is at the moment.

Whatshedonenow @ 05/05/2012 at 4:47 pm

@ boredstiff

Totally agree. No one would care apart from a few silly neurotic fans. He needs to get over himself. Big time.

sunny afternoon @ 05/05/2012 at 4:52 pm

The blonde in the front seat is Amy, Gerry’s assistant (she also passes something to Gerry in the car). You can see her face for a brief moment as she turns back around. Wasn’t there a tweet that Gerry set Amy up with her new boyfriend? I think Gerry is friends with both Amy and her new BF, so it makes sense they would all go out together. The other couple was Ariel and a brunette. Her reddish brown hair looks the same as a woman we’ve seen Ariel with before.

boredstiff @ 05/05/2012 at 4:54 pm

@Whatshedonenow: You mean his two remaining fans that spend all day red-arrowing anyone who dares to say anythng negative about their idol? LOL

Whatshedonenow @ 05/05/2012 at 5:03 pm

@ boredstiff

Exactly.

Whatshedonenow @ 05/05/2012 at 5:11 pm

@ My2cents

I know what you’re saying about it being so clever, but to me that says distrubingly sly, sneaky and untrustworthy. Very,very,very bad character traits.

For god’s sake folks. He’s got his friends and you got yours. get a life !

Whatshedonenow @ 05/05/2012 at 5:37 pm

@Living

We all have lives. We’re Just stating the obivious. He treats his chicks disrespectly. That’s obvious.

boredstiff @ 05/05/2012 at 5:48 pm

@Living: We’re just passing the time with mindless celebrity drivel, much like yourself. That’s what gossip blogs are for. Unless you are one of the stalkers, that is.

British Cows @ 05/05/2012 at 6:01 pm

The Brits are at it again. Passing judgment and putting him down, making up stories about things they know nothing about. Obviously, most of them don’t have a satisfying love life, otherwise why be here ranting and raving, snickering and mocking, skewering and spitting at him with no direct proof? Not getting any and not happy with what they have is why. It can’t be any other explanation, and telling them to go find their own love life and make their own fortunes in life is like speaking to the walls. They understand none of it. They only thing they like doing is sitting here pretending they have insight. It’s laughable if not pathetic. I feel sorry for you.

boredstiff @ 05/05/2012 at 6:34 pm

@British Cows: Looks like you have a spectacular life yourself, phannie. Do you bring out the nasty sock to keep the boring threads going? Anything to talk about your idol day and night, huh?

malibumillie @ 05/05/2012 at 7:21 pm

who are the losers negative thumbing normal posts, is it a full moon why yes a supermoon in fact so the loons are in full lunacy

@malibumillie:
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If you notice GFW’s posts keep going up w up thumbs and everyone else is down thumbs… Doesn’t take much to figure it out… Just shows how much GFW depends on this for validation. I just chalk it up to her insecurity. Kind of sad…

Can someone explain to me why the fawning sycophants don’t just hang with the others over at WO or Gals, and stop trying to beat up on those who refuse to drink the Koolaid? Are they trying to change this into a fan forum?

Miriam - UK @ 05/05/2012 at 8:18 pm

Why on earth has he been wearing (perhaps the same) beige trousers for the past two weeks? Eeeek!!

fashionista @ 05/05/2012 at 8:31 pm

@Miriam – UK: I noticed that, too. I wish someone would tell him to button up his shirts. He’s starting to look like a bad Vegas lounge act.

I understand his right to privacy but to hide your dates really? Very immature. I am a fan of his, but as I said before this will all come out eventually who he date or where he goes. I understand it’s annoying to have the paps on your every move.face it like a man.

@Manny:
“Just shows how much GFW depends on this for validation. ”
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You no different yourself. You practically live here, although silently at times. There was a time you depended on your friendships here and used it to validate your empty lonely life, so don’t kid yourself or us. This place is your only source of socializing it seems.

@sunny afternoon:
So that’s Amy, Gerry’s assistant? I didn’t recognize her. Her hair is a little bit longer than it used to be. But if it’s indeed Amy, then it’s possible she and the guy next to her are driving Gerry in his car. That SUV looks like it’s Gerry’s SUV. The guy driving could possibly be her BF whom Alicia, Gerry’s trainer, was being informed about on her twitter a couple of months ago.
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I remember a couple of months ago a guy tweeted Alicia that Gerry set up his assistant with one of his buddies. So this could be the guy. He’s pretty attractive, I have to say. Good for her and good for Gerry for playing cupid. It’s a very nice thing to do for another person.

@Sweet:
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Yeah right whatever. What does it say about you that I am the only thing that brings your ass here???

Whatshedonenow @ 05/06/2012 at 12:38 am

I am beginning to think Sweets, GFW and British cow are all the same person.  They’re all totally barking.  Or should I say she is totally barking.

He used to be soo hot esp in Dear Frankie. what happened

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/06/2012 at 2:07 am

Girls….. I have to admit, I’m beginning to wonder why you come here if Gerard offends you so. I’m basically in the middle here. By that, I mean I don’t understand the constant defending of his behavior, nor do I understand why someone would come back here for months or years if his actions and other posters, etc upset you like they do. Neither one makes much sense to me. I will tell that I’m…… pretty much “whatever” on the topic. For a while, I didn’t like what the rumors were doing to his fans. I like him, however, I don’t know him personally. So whatever he does, does not affect me personally. There is absolutely no way for anyone on a website to make an accurate distinction of who he is. Like whatsoever. So either, accept the rumors and the people who post here…….or leave. It’s that simple. I can’t sleep tonight, missing my mother like crazy and its storming like crazy. Anyhow, have a great Sunday everyone! :)

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/06/2012 at 2:15 am

Yikes, sorry, I meant, accept that the rumors about him are just that…..rumors. None of us here that do not know Gerard B. personally know the exact truth. Anyhow….again, have a great Sunday all. ;)

Odd that he is never seen driving himself anywhere these days. Someone on the last thread mentioned a DUI but surely it would be difficult to keep that secret.

@oh: what happened ? Dear Frankie was nearly 10 years ago…he is older. but he is still sexy !!

GerrysDaisyDuckChick @ 05/06/2012 at 6:59 am

I’m looking forward to Of Men and Mavericks in that it will appeal to a more diverse audience than “phannies”… whatever they are? To surfers of all ages, men and woman? An authentic movie dedicated to them?
To folk who mentor? To folk who have a love of watching surfers surf?
To Californians in general? To people who movies general? To people who have set the rungs high from their lust for being the best at surfing?
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Mostly its greatest appeal is by being different, period. An alternative fare in an ever increasing need for “spectacular” made by CGI: horror, science fiction, fantasy and the mix of all three. This is real. A true story. True stories are very interesting. I feel these are the goals and along with telling Jay’s amazing tale authentically.
~K

GerrysDaisyDuckChick @ 05/06/2012 at 7:10 am

@Anastasia Beaverhausen:
“Oh ya! @GFW: I agree with Emma. Keira Knightley’s over-acting was almost overwhelming in “A Dangerous Method”. Honestly, I was most impressed by Viggo’s performance as Freud. I do also agree that Jung and Freud’s friendship ended due to their egos. But also because of Freud’s close minded-way of thinking regarding his theories.”
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When did the break come Carl and Sigmund between them (for you)? Care to share? Do you feel Sabina played a part in it? If so, how? What made Freud turn that photo face down then lock all those letters in a box? What’s your thoughts? What’s your opinion of Carl’s ‘creaking bookcase’ scene? And Freud’s reaction?
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who understands how when Carl said his wife was his house and Sabina was the perfume in the air knowing he married for money, safety, structure but not for love… and the scene at the end with Sabina, pregnant as he professes his complete love for her was so well done thinking the films subject matter kept it from being better received (esp) here in the U.S.A.

angelsrock @ 05/06/2012 at 8:24 am

@?:

Not to worry. There were some recent pics of him climbing into the driver’s seat.

Anastasia, I, too, don’t get the bashing and the rehashing, especially the negative stuff. Ok, so some people don’t find him sexy or attractive, but why take the time and energy to repeat that over and over again. I would not even dream of going to stars’ websites that I can’t stand and bomb the site with my negative opinions. And some posters speak as if they personally witness the info passed on in tweets and hearsay or spin tales from the snippets of pictures and videos. It seems to really bother people that we really have no clue what’s going on in Gerry’s life or mind and that we are not privileged to the motives for his actions.

I guess I’m stuck in the middle with you. I don’t bash and I don’t resort to sitting him on the pedestal. I’ve always like his projected personality, I find him sexy as heck, and I like his acting.

Once again... @ 05/06/2012 at 8:37 am

@angelsrock: This is a gossip blog, NOT a fangirlz site. People are entitled to post their opinions, good or bad. The fan sites are the place to go if all you want to hear is how wonderful he is.

@angelsrock: Angel and Ana B., right there with you ladies. I don’t think the dear Lord judges Gerry has harsh as some posters who come here. We all have flaws in which we have to deal with on a daily basis, that is what life is all about.
Have a great day JJr’s to all♥

GerrysDaisyDuckChick @ 05/06/2012 at 8:39 am

They do it to invite people in for debate by taking shots at Gerry with their “reality” to get people to open up because, for some reason, he has not lived up to their expectations, whatever they were. Said as much in the other thread. Then anyone who can shed some light on it is a “phannie” or delusional, or whatever while he’s out having the time of his life head-set dancing and creating future work!
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The A Dangerous Method topic can very well be Gerry-related because perhaps many actors find their way into acting driven by some childhood trauma with a need to please or show ‘them’ something? That they had it in them all along? And also how Sigmund and Carl saw things differently like his fans? Sigmund wanted only to says “this is your problem” with Carl saying, “Agreed, but this is how you manage or cure it.” We’re two teams. Me on one side; them on the other.
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Yet, what price success? Is/was it worth it? Is it still worth it for Gerry in particular? Has he touched on all his messages? No. Think these latest film projects are his latest issue with ‘them’.
~K

Loonytoons @ 05/06/2012 at 8:52 am

@Whatshedonenow: Actually, I don’t think it’s GFW. I think it’s the nasty piece of work that fights with her all the time, and spends 24/7 on here. Same one who also spent all day yesterday red arrowing. Actually, I think this one accounts for about 60-70% of the posts. If you read go back and read old threads, you will see who it is.

Whatshedonenow @ 05/06/2012 at 8:53 am

Angelrock

Have to say, I wouldn’t go to a gossip site about a celeb and expect post after post of fawning nonsense about him or her, there are things called fansites for that. I EXPECT a gossip site to have differing opinions about a star- any star, not just GB. This is not a personal website for those who love GB and can’t be bothered to join his crazy fansite. If some can’t take people being negative or taking the p//iss out, as well as being positive about their beloved celeb…well that’s just tough, it’s the nature of the site. There’s nothing to wonder about.

Loonytoons @ 05/06/2012 at 9:06 am

@Whatshedonenow: Watch British Cows show up now, LOL.

Whatshedonenow @ 05/06/2012 at 9:26 am

Maybe another reason why the views are so polarised on this site about GB is because overly defensive  fans  who come to this site and constantly go on and on and on about how wonderful he is, and if someone dares to make a objective comment about him  which they don’t like, they then go absolutely ballistic and start abusing the poster, or make blatantly passive aggressive snide remarks about the poster.

And they wonder why a proper civil discourse about GB and his work can’t ensue.

 It is patently obvious GB is a long, long, long way from  the sickly pretty  picture perfect image  that  some here constantly love  to paint of him. Some just comment on it that’s all.

Come to think of it @ 05/06/2012 at 9:56 am

Always love to see what this man is up to. How many of these haters would love to live his life for one week. Although I think the press puts more into it than what there is, I feel he is more of a lonely soul than anything else.

@Whatshedonenow: I have a question for you without handing me my head. Do you like any of the works Gerry has done and I am not talking about his personal life that is none of my business. Have you enjoyed any of his movies any if not why?

Badmoonrising @ 05/06/2012 at 10:23 am

@Anastasia Beaverhausen:
I think some who seem to hate him come here to make their comments about it and if you don’t like Gerry anymore, OK, but I think it’s more to pound on the ones who still like him.
To each their own and whatever someone wants to believe or not believe, it’s their own personal business. I say, just don’t attack someone for their feelings.
Debate about it if you will, but there is no reason to get nasty. Name calling and berating other posters is just juvenile.
I’m with you in the middle. I don’t try to make excuses for behavior that I deem immature but I take it as I see it.
I think hiding his dates/relationships is silly. He didn’t use to but if he thinks it protects the woman, let the woman decide. If he thinks it keeps the paps and tabs from getting more fuel for their fodder, OK but he needs to decide if it’s better to be upfront with it or let them make up stuff which could be far worse. JMHO.

By the way, I don’t think that’s Amy.

Badmoonrising @ 05/06/2012 at 10:26 am

@?:

I think the thread just before this one of him getting coffee showed him getting in the drivers seat of the Range Rover.

@lolita:
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Morning Lolly. Hope you are doing well…
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Came looking to see if anyone was around for some discussion but a tumbleweed just blew by and not even crickets can be heard… wow… GFW nd her ilk have decimated this place…
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RockNRolla will always be my favorite Gerry flick. Adored him in The Jury and Dear Frankie. Thought he stunk up the place with Booty Hunter and hated Hilary Swank enough in PSILY to actually not stomach that movie at all… I don’t know what whatshedonenow thinks but that’s my take.
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Tis a shame how the JJ threads for Butler have petered out to nothingness isn’t it? Moderation definitely is a double edged sword… Seems trying to convert JJ to a fansite has killed the thread. Since this is the place for negative as well as positive input, isn’t it a shame that the avid fans have killed off any discussion at all.
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Missing the fun of the past as opposed to this wasteland… Bummer…
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Take care my friend…

Badmoonrising @ 05/06/2012 at 10:35 am

@Once again…:

That’s the problem with you. People who come here do go to the fan sites but you’re limited on your opinions there. You can’t voice honestly how you feel about some things and some of us don’t always think he craps rainbows.
So we come here to voice both approval, question some behavior or disapproval. But some of you attack if someone disagrees with your overly harsh appraisal of something he’s allegedly done or said or when you blatantly make things up.
We have the right to disagree and so do you, but don’t bash the poster.
Then there are a couple of you who come back with slurs and name calling. That’s uncalled for. People like that need to grow up. It shows that they don’t get along well with others in their real life either and come here to just pick a fight and beat up on others behind a computer screen. It shows the kind of personality they truly are, IMO.

Badmoonrising @ 05/06/2012 at 10:38 am

@Once again…:
“This is a gossip blog, NOT a fangirlz site. ”

This is what I’m talking about. It’s you either are or you aren’t here. If you’re not hating on him, you’re “fangirls” or “phannies”. That’s overthetop and doesn’t make any sense. Why don’t you explain it the rest of us.

Put and Call @ 05/06/2012 at 10:42 am

Chirp Chirp…

Loonytoons @ 05/06/2012 at 10:50 am

@Whatshedonenow: Can you see who it is now?

@Anastasia Beaverhausen:

It seems I’ve found a sensible post in the quagmire.
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In my opinion the haters and the ‘phannies’ are just two sides of the same coin, both equally obsessed, both claim to have insight into GB’s private life, both claim to know how Hollywood ‘works’ and both sides actually know precisely jack sh*t.
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@Manny:
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I think it’s the obsessed that have ruined GB threads, both the posters that defend him 24/7 and the people who hate on him 24/7. Just because people are coming from a negative perspective it doesn’t mean they aren’t equally obsessed and way too invested in everything GB does.
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I think it’s disingenuous to suggest the problems here are one sided. This place used to be a laugh, you could have a bit of banter, take the p*ss, criticise GB when he needed it, defend him when you wanted to but you can’t do that any more, as you will get attacked from one side or another, but it’s both sides that are the problem.

Badmoonrising @ 05/06/2012 at 10:59 am

I understand where the fansites are coming from. When you have a “fan” site, it’s for support of the celeb, not a place to show disrespect or speak badly of the celeb. Someone who see a celeb and likes them and decides to visit their fan site expects nice things to be said. That’s why I don’t understand any fan site that would allow bad things to be said because that’s NOT the place to do it. Makes a newbie coming on question why all the negativity.
This place is a good place to discuss things you shouldn’t on a fan site but some here don’t want that. They want to not only berate but also argue and beat up on people who don’t want to do that. That’s not fair.
I see that someone mentioned this isn’t a fun place to be anymore. Why is that? Is it only fun when you can bully other posters and berate Gerry? That’s rather one sided. This should be a neutral zone, not a Gerry “anti-fan” site either.

@Badmoonrising:
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Healthy discussion has always been a joy here. Sometimes it gets rough but passionate opinions can do that. There has been a trend of polarization here of late that smacks of power rather than discussion and some who need to be right and defend Gerry at all costs have definitely been felt here.
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What I don’t understand is why, when they have their fansites, do they feel they have the right to moderate others. This GOSSIP site was set up and left open for free discussion and yet they try to control what is not theirs to control. Probably why I like others feel disdain from time to time for them… They definitely don’t live by the creed “live and let live.”
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I don’t go to their fansites and barrel my way into to say sometimes the man acts like an ass, so why do they try to moderate an open forum where those of us that don’t share their devotion can go to discuss and share OUR opinions?

@niknoks:
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I agree with you. I miss the fun. This place has become a quagmire…

@Manny: Manny, doing much better thanks for asking. I loved R&R, get the giggles everytime I see him dance in it. I finally saw TBH, did not care at all for it, probably because I am not a big fan JA, like her in friends only. I just don’t think she has it as a good actress. By the looks of her recent films a lot of people feel the same as me.
Gerry on the other end can act when he puts his mind into it. I have not seen the Jury, but i did see some bits and pieces of it. I can’t wait to see of OMAM, I like stories based on real life people. I will have to wait for the dvd on Coriolanus but that is another I want to see.
Even though this is a gossip site the reasons most of us come here is because we have seen Gerry’s movies. If we didn’t know him as an actor from his movies we would never know to come to debate why we like of dislike him. I try and be open minded when i come here and not be too harsh. We can get our point across without being mean spirited but that is just my observations and opinions.
I hope you have a wonderful Sunday, Manny, I am off to enjoy the day and bright sunshine we are having here in WNY.

Badmoonrising @ 05/06/2012 at 11:06 am

@niknoks:

You are spot on about the obsession going both ways. Some want it black or white with no gray areas. I’m gray and that means I give the benefit of the doubt when something is ambiguous rather then see it all to be negative. If that makes sense.

The other thing that isn’t necessary are those who come here to just bash people, verbally bashing older fans or British fans, etc. That’s someone who is sick and it has nothing to do with GB at all. Those are the most obsessed because I feel they actually hate other fans. Actually it’s just troll behavior and nothing more and to be ignored.

@Badmoonrising:
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What you have missed over the past year is when they fans tried to control the tempo here it brought out those who don’t like to be moderated. It has been ugly.
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I for one can’t seem to quit Butler, I don’t know if it is his eyes or his escapades but I don’t fawn over the guy and I don’t approve of some of the sh!t he does. I have been told over and over again that I’m a hater and don’t have a life, must be fat and old, etc. which is far from the truth as it is with many many others.
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If you don’t spin his drug addiction as a positive, then you’re a hater. If you show concern because he runs head on into drug-filled destinations and you doubt he is staying sober, you’re a hater. If he f*cks a p*rn star and you don’t say he wouldn’t ever do that or she deserved it, you’re a hater. Hell if he stands next to a woman and you don’t take the party line of she is only good for a one-night stand and to used you’re a hater.
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I used to enjoy the fun banter between posters on a lark or even at Butler’s expense because it was a sense of okay this guy is cute but he is fallible but we’re just funning and enjoying each others company. That’s why I get what niknoks is saying.

@lolita:
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Love you Lolly. Keep well. ♥

Badmoonrising @ 05/06/2012 at 11:20 am

@Manny:

I hear what you are saying but healthy discussion isn’t bashing each other. I think discussion can and should be passionate but the rough part troubles me.
I agree with you that there is someone here who is overthetop believes anything you say that might hint of negative, is on you like a duck on a junebug but I only see one person who’s that way and I think we both know who that is.
Everyone else who seems more on a positive attitude doesn’t say much bad about him. It’s the old “if you don’t have anything good to say, don’t say anything” for a few here and there’s nothing wrong with that.
This is a gossip site for discussing what Butler is doing or allegedly doing out in his world. But there are some that sound like broken records always rehashing past bad stuff and trying to get things started up again that have already gone under the bridge and been discussed. Why?
I go to the fansites and if I see something not so perfect about him, I’ll voice it but I know how to do it. It’s called being tactful. I won’t be disrespectful about it or disrespect another posters
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You are entitled to your opinions, as anyone here is, but some of the ones here who seem to love to hate him don’t feel anyone else is entitled to theirs.

I don’t understand why some feel it should be a crap fest. You seldom say anything nice about him yourself. My question is if this is a place for open discussion, both the neg and positive, why are you and some others ALWAYS negative? How come you don’t give him credit when credit is due?

Why cut someone down personally that doesn’t share you view and that goes both ways. Name calling and bullying is juvenile, period, and isn’t fun for anyone except the ones delivering it.

I don’t think there is anything fun or to be gained by being mean to people.

@Badmoonrising:
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I would totally agree. It has been polarizing in both directions. One sets off the other and vice versa.
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There was a stretch here where a Butler thread could generate several hundred posts in 24 hours and where having a giggle was more important than who he was porking or what he was wearing. People talked openly about their opinions on his movies and upcoming projects. There were 50-60 regulars and not just a handful like now. No one was right and no one was wrong. Was a fun time…

Loonytoons @ 05/06/2012 at 11:30 am

Let the arrows be your guide as to who is trying to control who here.

@Badmoonrising:
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I’m not always negative but thanks for lumping me in… sheeeesh…
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I was quite upset that he would head into Oscar parties a day after rehab. I had my ass eaten, tar and feathered, ripped in all directions for doubting his commitment to his rehad and sobriety. I got the party line over and over that he is stronger than any addiction and he wouldn’t jeopardize it.
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Then I made the mistake of sharing a personal experience I had in the hospital with a cocaine addict dying recently. Boy did that upset the status quo that I showed concern that maybe Butler wasn’t taking his addiction issues seriously. Next idiots were demanding all my credentials, saying I wasn’t a nurse, was using goggle to try and discredit me, called me all sorts of things and one even wished me dead.
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I think peeps will see what they want to see. Many only see my name and expect negative so that is what they see. Funny thing is niknoks was ravaged much the same for a criticism of Butler a while back but has somehow come out of that unscathed. So maybe it is a personal thing with some here against me.
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Maybe I should ask you, why is concern for his questionable decisions seen as a negative by you?

curious cat @ 05/06/2012 at 11:40 am

@Reviews:

“It’s another example of how the tabs should not be taken at face value. Not everything they report is accurate. Just thought I should make a point of that since we argue so much here about so much hearsay”

A point I have made over and over! Thank you, Reviews .Gossip gets passed around from one tabloid and blog to another, often in slightly different versions. But the last time I said a rumor may not be true someone accused me of being “in denial.” : ) The intent of many of tab stories is not to inform but to publicize and sensationalize. I grimace when I see supposely serious information in supermarket tabs dished out as some exclusive fact revealed by an unnamed “Jen insider” or “close friend of Brad’s.”Ha ha. As if!

Some who visit here are gullible and seem to believe everything they read. We humans love to gossip, it’s fun and it’s been going on probably since the birth of humanity, but gossip should be taken with a cup or two of salt, not just a pinch.

We have the internet spreading gossip faster and farther than ever before but humor nature hasn’t changed much. I love a story about King David Kalakaua of Hawaii in the late 19th century. He used to throw private parties, including prominent citizens and often celebrities visiting the islands. There were rumors that these affairs included all kinds of decadent practices including group s.ex. People who attended denied this, said they were just normal parties where guests ate, drank, danced, talked, listened to music. At least one historian has written that the rumors seemed to have been spread by people who were miffed because they weren’t invited to the parties!

Badmoonrising @ 05/06/2012 at 11:43 am

@Manny:

“If you don’t spin his drug addiction as a positive, then you’re a hater. If you show concern because he runs head on into drug-filled destinations and you doubt he is staying sober, you’re a hater. If he f*cks a p*rn star and you don’t say he wouldn’t ever do that or she deserved it, you’re a hater. Hell if he stands next to a woman and you don’t take the party line of she is only good for a one-night stand and to used you’re a hater.”

It’s not talking about these things that make anyone a hater. It’s when it’s ALL you talk about that does. Does he do anything right? Sure he does so why is that never a topic of discussion? And when it is, why do some come here and try to throw a wrench in it?

I’m going to give you my take on what you said in the above paragragh. His addictions, drug or otherwise…..No doubt Butler has addictions and an addictive personality. That’s a given but many people do. It is a disease. I agree he should NOT be going in to places that have easy accessibility to substances he’s been addicted to. However, he always seems to be a person who puts himself in to certain things where he has personal conflct. He tests himself and his fears. He may be able to resist temptations most of the time. I’ll give him the benefit of the doubt that he can go to places and obstain up until he ends up back in rehab or gets a dui. Then I’ll question his ability to obstain.

The porn star thing, I’ve got doubts. No one really knows who or even if for sure there is anything to that story. There could even be some of it that is true and the rest is over exageration. It sort of died out anyway. The fact that you have decided whoever it was is a porn star tells me you want to put a negative spin on it. You don’t know that for a fact and neither do I. No name was mentioned by any reliable source.

I don’t really believe Gerry goes out to just pick up women. That’s extremely risky and he’s smart enough to know that. He likes to flilrt and maybe come on to women, get phone numbers, etc. I do believe that. I don’t believe he’s the notorious womanizer that you believe he is. I do believe he sets himself up for that title though.

There are all kinds of “contacts” in HW for celebs to get what they want sexually that is kept on the downlow. He doesn’t have to go to clubs to get anything he needs. He can use the cell phone. I think he just likes the constant distraction and looking at beautiful women.

See, my opinion has been stated. I believe he’s not as bad as you think he is and that’s my opinion. I don’t believe he’s a saint but I try to see both the good and the bad in the guy.

If for some reason all I begin to see is bad, I j ust won’t bother coming here any more. It’s a waste of life to do that. That’s what I don’t understand why some come here just to state the negative all the time. Those, to me, are the true obsessed. They can’t like him but they can’t let him go either. Doesn’t make sense to me.

Badmoonrising @ 05/06/2012 at 11:49 am

@Manny:

Sorry, maybe it’s a stretch to say you are always neg but when you do say something positive you usually you follow it up with ten more neg things to off set it. It’s like you afraid of your feelings for him and are trying to convince yourself he’s something you don’t like.

Butler is a passionate and complicated man. Then he can be boring and very predictable at times. He attracts fans that are a lot like him in many ways. That’s why his threads here are so long. He brings that out in others.

Dallas-Dalls. Again.

@Badmoonrising:
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See you are lumping me in again. You are seeing what you want to see. The guy is fallible. It’s a shame there isn’t anything else to talk about him other than just him. He is not working right now and projects are circling and we don’t know what is real or not real when it comes to his work. He just lost a project but we don’t have confirmation on others.
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When it is just the man himself and his behavior to talk about it is going to get personal. Peeps have their own opinions about what is right and wrong albeit they are not Butler’s.
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Do I think his going to Oscar parties a day out of rehab was smart or the right thing to do, NO. Do I think he should go to Coachella which has a whole set of challenges for someone fresh out of rehab, NO. Did I enjoy a few jokes at his expense about the porta potty dive, YOU BETCHA. Do I think he should wear some pants other than these, YES. Do I think he looks relaxed even when scowling above, YES. Do I think he had a beer with the guy in the tweet earlier, WHO KNOWS.
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I want him to make some good movies that we get to see. I finally saw MGP, although it wasn’t the best movie I’ve seen lately I enjoyed it. Coriolanus will have to wait for rental.

Badmoonrising @ 05/06/2012 at 12:00 pm

@Manny:

“Maybe I should ask you, why is concern for his questionable decisions seen as a negative by you?”
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I don’t see legitmate concern as a negative. What I see as negative is bashing and trashing and blowing it out of proportion. That, to me, isn’t showing concern. It’s having fun at the expense of someone else’s weaknesses.

@Badmoonrising:
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Who is bashing and trashing and blowing things out of proportion? And conversely what about those who refuse to recognize those weaknesses?
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@word:
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Believe me BMR is NOT Curious Cat…

Badmoonrising @ 05/06/2012 at 12:16 pm

@Manny:

“He just lost a project but we don’t have confirmation on others.”
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See, this is you putting a negative spin on things, Manny. This is why I lump you with the haters.

First, if you care that much about his movie making, lurk at GALS and you’d find out what his next confirmed films are. Stop believing what you hear in the tabloids and gossip news. If you choose to believe that unverified crap then what does that make you?

He did not LOSE a project. Losing a project to me would be one he was confirmed on and he was dropped and is moving on with someone else in his place. Hunter Killer has been dropped or put on hold for now in it’s entirety. You know as well as I do, this happens all the time and has nothing to do personally with Gerry.

Confirmed for now is “Olympus, Motor City and Brilliant” for shooting this year per him and his people.

Of course there are two coming out this year, “Of Men and Mavs” and “Playing the Field” at this point.

@Badmoonrising:
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““He just lost a project but we don’t have confirmation on others.”
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See, this is you putting a negative spin on things, Manny. This is why I lump you with the haters.”
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I think you have made some really interesting and valid points today but I think you are starting to split hairs a little now.
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For whatever reason Hunter Killer is not going ahead, GB’s lost it, probably through no fault of his own as movie projects fall through all the time, especially in a bad economy.

Badmoonrising @ 05/06/2012 at 12:26 pm

@Manny:

Several here, including you, seem to take the negative press and run with it before you know the truth. Manny, be honest with yourself. You LOVE to bash and trash people! You get a kick out of it. Stop acting like you are this concerned, Butler fan who just wants the best for him because you have a funny way of showing your “love and concern”.

People who enjoy preying on weaknesses in people might just be a tad bit jealous. It makes them feel better about they’re own short comings, don’t you think?

And if there are a few here who refuse to see his weaknesses or his bad side, so true and that’s their problem. And again, they will attack those who refuse to see their side too. It’s the obsessed that niknoks was talking about.

Then there you go, you and a couple of others, trying to “identify” who I am. The reason you want identification is so you can attack and make it personal. This should not be a personal thing. It’s a gossip site, remember?

Badmoonrising @ 05/06/2012 at 12:40 pm

@niknoks:

He lost it and so did everyone else involved in it. You know as well as I do that Manny was making inferences that he failed at something.

A movie project getting put back or dropped isn’t the fault of the actors or anyone in particular. That kind of thing happens all the time. If it was all about Butler, they would have just went on with it and replaced him.

It could have been about Butler too because of his scheduling conflicts and rather then replace him, put it on holld to do it later? You could look at it that way too!

I’m not splitting straws. I’m calling it the way I see it and the way I see it is being fair.. You can say he lost it but that’s a general term. You can’t loose anything you never had in the first place, right?

That’s why Gerry holds off signing on until the last minute sometimes. You know old noncommital Gerry! He conducts his professional life just like he does his personal. Why sign on the dotted line when something better might come along?

@Badmoonrising:
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Awwww agenda girl…
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@niknoks:
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Funny stating a fact by you is fact and by me is it taking a shot at him. Oh well… How’s the pup doing? My neighbor just had her Malinois Rita in surgery for a torn knee. She was playing with the horses and zigged when she should have zagged.

Whatshedonenow @ 05/06/2012 at 12:48 pm

@Lolita 

Before GB went to HW he was beginning to make some really interesting film and TV dramas- as Manny pointed out the Jury was very good as was Dear Frankie also 300 was a seminal film in regards to special effects and CGI and his fight scene was a true classic.  And Rock n Rolla was also a really strong film, which showcased a lot of great British talent.

The best moves he’s made subsequent to his arrival in HW was HTTYD and Corolanius. 

If you notice in all the films I mentioned  he uses a British accent. He is at his best when he sticks to doing that.

At the moment he is not capable of doing a really good American accent. Despite him saying he really  works at it. Obviously he doesn’t work hard enough, and it shows.

As been said a thousand times before if he focussed less on partying and womanising and concentrated more on his acting skills and finding a mixture of good commercial and independent projects  he would have a career he’d be truly proud of.

Again as I said before all he has do is follow the example of his fellow celts – McGregor, McAvoy and now Fassbender all have chosen well, all have made mistakes with some of their choices,  but all are or remain  extremely highly regarded actors- unlike Butler. 

He is still in position to salvage his professional reputation, and be regarded as a fine actor,  instead of yet another stereotypical stupid, shallow, selfish, sleazy, womanising,  immature celeb who happens to make films to finance his narcissistic lifestyle. 

anglesrock @ 05/06/2012 at 1:00 pm

@Badmoonrising

“See, my opinion has been stated. I believe he’s not as bad as you think he is and that’s my opinion. I don’t believe he’s a saint but I try to see both the good and the bad in the guy.”

“If for some reason all I begin to see is bad, I j ust won’t bother coming here any more. It’s a waste of life to do that. That’s what I don’t understand why some come here just to state the negative all the time. Those, to me, are the true obsessed. They can’t like him but they can’t let him go either. Doesn’t make sense to me.”

This is exactly my point of view, too, Badmoonrising. And the name-calling is what is turning this place into a ghost-town. I find myself visiting here less and less. Discussion, disagreement, and personal opinions are great, but when posters resort to ridiculous childish name-calling, it becomes a middle school classroom.

Gerry didn’t “lose” the movie “Hunter Killer.” For now, it’s being dropped. The same director is directing him in “Olympus Has Fallen.” Did you really think he could film 5 or 6 movies before December of 2012?? This happens all the time with other actors and other movies. It’s all about money and timing for everyone involved. And yet some here have to insinuate that it was Gerry’s fault and that he was the one being dropped.

Badmoonrising @ 05/06/2012 at 1:04 pm

@Whatshedonenow:

Gerry has been called one of the hardest working actors in HW. He wouldn’t have to work half that hard just to supply himself with the lifestyle.

And as far as an accent, Sean Connery never developed a good American accent either and he did fine. I think Gerry’s accent is pretty good considering. I love the Scottish accent the best but living and working mostly in the US is going to affect it.

HW doesn’t care what his personal life choices are as long as he’s not a felon murdering rapist or pedophile. You know as well as I do actors can even break the law and go to jail and still work. HW is a hot bed of sin and debachery anyway so compared to what has gone on there, Gerry’s an angel!

There are other actors out there way more notorious for partying and womanizing then GB. Ralph Fiennes could probably tell you first hand about his induction in to the Mile High Club with a flight attendant one time. Is it true? The woman and several other attendants verified it. Did it hurt his career? Not that I can tell.

Whatshedonenow @ 05/06/2012 at 1:07 pm

Actually now his career is on the wane, this is a perfect opportunity for him to do more interesting roles. More good TV dramas and Indie film as well as good supporting roles. The pressure is now off.

Badmoonrising @ 05/06/2012 at 1:09 pm

@anglesrock:

I agree and when the place just becomes a toxic environment then you just want to leave it alone. It becomes this no win situation and it shouldn’e be about anyone winning or loosing. It’s just an open forum for opinion and discussion, the good, the bad and the ugly.

curious cat @ 05/06/2012 at 1:14 pm

@all

I read through the rest of the pages since I commented on Reviews remarks above.Some very good comments by several posters expressing different points of view. Many of them I agree with.

btw, obviously I meant “human nature” in my post above, not “humor nature.” (Although we have that too, I guess!)

Bottom line, everyone who comes here has some kind of interest in this actor or we wouldn’t be here. To me, most posters who appear negative are more disappointed than being HATERS.. A lot of fans started out thinking he was one of the best movie actors to come along in awhile,as well as a really interesting personality, and have been dismayed by various things, his choices of roles, public comments, public behavior, smoking, the way he dresses, etc. etc. Having missed both MGP and Coriolanus, which didn’t show in my state, let alone in my town, I haven’t seen him on the screen for awhile. Without constant sightings at parties, clubs, Starbucks, banks, gas stations, etc. he would probably be out of sight and mind. How many actors have prompted questions like, “Whatever happened to…?” The personal gossip can be titillating but after a few years of not much else,a lot of it becomes same-old same-old. I looked forward to MGP and Coriolanus; after all, one is Shakespeare and one a controversial, important topic with real world repercussions, not just mindless box office fodder.It’s good to read others’ opinions about these films.

I don’t see anything wrong with using this forum for other topics either, even if GB was the catalyst for it. As several people pointed out, this is not a fansite. People have introduced some widely different subjects here and I’ve learned a thing or two. Right now I am especially crunched in RL and not around much but it’s fun to see news and smart discussion, not just fighting and bashing.

Badmoonrising @ 05/06/2012 at 1:16 pm

@Whatshedonenow:

You mean on the “wax” don’t you? I think his star is actually risen.

Whatshedonenow @ 05/06/2012 at 1:25 pm

@Badmoonrising.

Ok so why isn’t he getting the big commercial or Oscar worthy roles then? I am interested to see your reply to that. And he only makes one or two films a year, with a couple of commercials thrown in. Have you been on a film set? I wouldn’t call sitting around for hours on end extremely taxing. It’s not as if one is working in the Gulag. And most actors with half a brain would agree with that. In regards to Connery, he hardly ever veers away from using his own accent. As for Fiennes totally agree he has a womanising reputation, but he is regarded as an excellent actor– which is most definately not the case for Butler. Those are just hardcore facts. Sorry if you don’t like them

Badmoonrising @ 05/06/2012 at 1:26 pm

@Jane:

Gerry had a choice to save the President of Russia or the United States. He chose wisely, IMO.

Whatshedonenow @ 05/06/2012 at 1:36 pm

Badmoonrising

Nope. I’m afraid it’s well and truly on the wane. His reputation now officially proceeds him. That’s another fact.

@Badmoonrising:
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Oh Lord did you really say that???
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@Whatshedonenow:
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The girl has an agenda. She wants to “Hater Bash” anyone she deems a hater. She is no different than the peeps she is criticizing…
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Trying to reason with her makes her a little hysterical so be careful in how you write your sentences okay…
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Otherwise we’ll have Misery on JJ… HE DIDN’T LOSE IT!!! Move over Kathy Bates…
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How exciting… who wants to pass the popcorn…

Badmoonrising @ 05/06/2012 at 1:41 pm

@Whatshedonenow:

I think he’s doing fine commercially and winning awards isn’t everything, however, I do believe there is a lot of politics in HW and Gerry doesn’t always play by the rules of some of the powers that be but it looks like he’s more in demand now.

Plus, he’s a rather late comer to acting. He didn’t really start making films until his thirties, that I’m aware of where as Clooney, Pit and DiCaprio started out as kids. Gerry switched careers.

I think three movies a year is probably the average and any more then that is grueling. You need time to do other things, like promote the movies you’ve done, do other projects and have some down time too. It isn’t all about working yourself in to the ground.

When Gerry works, he works hard but he plays hard too. It’s his nature to be social and active. He’s a restless spirit and you can’t expect someone like him to be something he’s not just because YOU want him to be to fit your ideals. You take him or leave him alone.

Whatshedonenow @ 05/06/2012 at 1:46 pm

@ Manny

You’re right. I was kidding myself. I thought I could have a reasoned conservation. Good to see your posts though. Always sharp, funny and entertaining. Don’t you just love the negs. Wow… anyone would think this is a fansite.

Badmoonrising @ 05/06/2012 at 1:49 pm

@Manny:

Oh stop with this crap, Manny. No one is bashing any “haters” here because as you claim, that’s not what you are, right?

I’m being fair. I don’t see Butler as anything but what he is. I question his choices just like everyone does sometimes but it doesn’t make him evil.

He’s not living up to your expectations of him, so what?

You’re going in to ridiculous mode now with the Kathy Bates/Misery reference and you are just proving my point. You’re barking up the wrong tree with that one anyway and you know it!

@Whatshedonenow:

You really need to look up the difference between fact and opinion. As much as you would like it to be your opinion is not fact.

Gerry alwayz states that he works hard. Is it fact or opinion?

Badmoonrising @ 05/06/2012 at 2:04 pm

@Aha….:

Gerry does say that but I’m going on what others who have worked with him say. And not only that, they say he’s one of the nicest and easiiest and most fun actors in the business. Take it for what it’s worth but his neg reputation is in the tabloids, not the industry where it counts.

@Aha….:

It’s opinion of course, how hard you work or how hard you think you work is all relative to what you know, to the job you do and the jobs of the people around you.

@Badmoonrising:
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Seriously??? I do believe it is you that SHOUTED…. HE DIDN’T LOSE IT!!!
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He did lose out on the project just like Sam Worthington. You will only see the negative because that is what is driving you. You want to exude righteous indignation and need someone to use as your foil.
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Well, you can look somewhere else agenda girl. I’m not playing…
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@Whatshedonenow:
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I’m not sure his career is on the wane but his reputation is currently taking one helluva beating.
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Not many celebrities, even the drug addicted of the lowest have been accused of porking in a porta potty, maybe living in one but not porking. :P [Aside for BMR - that was a joke honey.]
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When even the Scottish press starts referring to a native son as a womanizer and lothario you know he needs at least PR rehab…
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As for his career, maybe it is hurting his career a bit and maybe not. I would blame some of his project choices more than his womanizing. As much as I enjoyed MGP, him turning down Sherlock Holmes to do it was not the brightest career move IMO. But it is his career to muck about with afterall.

Badmoonrising @ 05/06/2012 at 2:10 pm

Men who call Gerry a womanizer are jealous and would do the same thing if they had his looks and sexiness. Women who call him that do so because they’ll never have him.

It’s just like when jealous women see a women they’ll never be like they call her a sluut. It’s to try to make themselves feel better. Men do the same thing with women they know they have no chance with. They will cut them down.

Stable and secure people in who they are don’t need to do that. There are many very insecure and emotionally unstable people who frequent here, unfortunately. It’s just the nature of the JJ beast.

@Manny: Just my humble opinion, but I think it best not to engage, if you know what I mean. It just perpetuates the bogarting of this board by this sock, who clearly just wants to fight. Even GFW has this one figured out.

Whatshedonenow @ 05/06/2012 at 2:13 pm

Nik noks

Fact – Noun:
A thing that is indisputably the case.
Information used as evidence or as part of a report or news article.

@JMO…:
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As I told her I’m not playing any longer… She is getting a little too emotional and it is too nice of a day to let her continue down this path with me.
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Have a great day yourself. :)

Badmoonrising @ 05/06/2012 at 2:21 pm

@Manny:

It was in reference to your definition of “lose” with mine. Technically he and all involved lost the project….for now. We don’t know if he lost it forever or not. For now, it’s been put aside. End of discussion.

Stop baiting me, Manny. I don’t want to argue with you today. If you want to have a civilized, adult conversation and debate, fine. Otherwise, our discussion is over.

Take the advise of JMO on this one. She seems to believe she has it all figured out! However, no one is fighting here except you. Just MY opinion.

@Whatshedonenow:

Congratulations on copying and pasting, I think the key word is ‘indisputably’.
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Firstly, if you think that anything that is written in a tabloid or a blog is ‘indisputable’ then more fool you, (you may want to read up on the Leveson enquiry) secondly you haven’t posted any ‘news articles’ or ‘reports’ and again as much as you would probably like them to be your posts on here do not constitute news articles or reports. Lastly unverified tweets and insider and unnamed sources doesn’t constitute evidence.

@niknoks: Thanks, I liked your opinion in fact :) Another question:”Olympus has Fallen starring Gerard Butler will shoot July 2, 2012 to August 19, 2012 in Bossier City and Shreveport.” A month and 2,5 weeks. I wonder, is it enough for a big action movie?

@Aha….:
Well, he does work hard – on finding new girls to have sex with.

Badmoonrising @ 05/06/2012 at 2:31 pm

@Lakshmi:

I don’t think he’d have to work that hard, do you?

“There are many very insecure and emotionally unstable people who frequent here, unfortunately”

@niknoks:
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I think a fair assertion is that Butler has been out of the professional eye for a while… but maybe not the tabloid eye??? Just kidding… sort of…
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How’s Maggie?
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@Aha….:
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Thanks for some concrete news on Butler’s career. Since I don’t go to the fansites I appreciate the info. :)

@Lakshmi:
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At the rate that some think he goes through them I would guess he’ll have to leave LA soon until a new crop comes in… [note: joke for humor-challenged]

Badmoonrising @ 05/06/2012 at 2:40 pm

I think the length of time projected to film any movie is just a prediction and an estimate. PTF and OMAM are a case in point. Seems when a film is mostly indoors, a shorter time frame is projected versus one that has a good deal of outdoor filming due to changes in the weather.

I would assume that’s why if you project a film to be two months and go over in to three and you’ve lined up another one back to back of that one, you’re going to have scheduling conflicts. There has to be some wiggle room in your scheduling. That may have been what happened to Hunter Killer.

Personally, I didn’t like the sound of that one anyway. It seems like a rehash of Red October.

@Manny:

I agree, but tabloids reports aren’t fact, it’s not news, they make their money from embellishing stuff at best, that’s when they’re not blatantly making sh*t up. You’d think what happened with the News of the World would have opened people’s eyes a little. As people keep pointing out here, this is a gossip site, not a news site. Since when have gossip sites ever been factual.
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Maggie is a fully fledged working lady now, I’m going to start charging her rent, she never cleans up after herself, never makes her bed… she does nothing. ;-p
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She was present at the armed siege in Tottenham Court Road last week. She didn’t even make it out of her pen but that was worrying enough.

@Lakshmi: How dare you! He is not a womanizer, he said it HIMSELF! Lol Manny, I don’t go there either, the info was found in internet. :-)

@niknoks:
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I’m proud of you. Nothing is harder than supporting loved ones in their work especially when it is dangerous.
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So impressed with how smart Belgiums are. As I said my neighbor’s Rita is recovering. They have several horses and Rita has made some great friends. She even plays tug-o-war with one gelding with his lead. She will even lead them to the barn when asked. So damn smart.
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I’m surprised you don’t have Maggie taking out the rubbish… I mean it is the least she could do. ;)

@Whatshedonenow:
First I want to say thanks for responding. You have known Gerry longer than I have. I first saw him in Attila and i have to say I have never seen a finer looking man, but that is my opinion. I have not seen some of his early work so I can’t comment on his performances. I saw Dear Frankie and I loved it. I don’t understand the fuss about accents which just doesn’t apply to Gerry, I have heard people say that this actor of actress did a terrible accent. If a movie is good and entertaining to me the accent is not on my priority list in the film the story is. Since you have known him longer and seen some of his more memorable performances I can understand how you feel about the path he has taken in choosing some of his roles. I also want to say I do not feel his career is waning because I think he is choosing more parts of substance now.

angelsrock @ 05/06/2012 at 3:16 pm

@Badmoonrising:

I did read the script for Olympus and 90% of the movie is indoor action (the White House.) The movie takes place on 4th of July in D.C. so I’m sure they’ll more than likely take some actual footage of the celebrations this year in D.C. to ;use in the film. I guess when most scenes are indoors, it may take less time to make the movie.

was there @ 05/06/2012 at 3:24 pm

@Manny: Yep, I remember the “good old days” when there would be hundreds of posts in a short time, but I don’t look back with rose-colored glasses. Many of those posts were ugly. If not about GB, about each other. And I think that’s what cut down on the number of old regulars. There was a time over a year ago when posters were making dramatic exits. Many really did stay away even tho others said “you’ll be back.” But the hate just got too thick. Stupidfans and her ilk were not funny to many of us although some found her hateful remarks humorous. That was the beginning of the end of discussion.

Badmoonrising @ 05/06/2012 at 3:25 pm

@angelsrock:
I guess when you don’t have weather to work around, things can get done faster. Plus it sounds like everything is done in one location so not much moving sets except maybe just room to room.

I’d love to watch a film shoot on set. Seems fascinating!

off topic @ 05/06/2012 at 3:30 pm

I was just going over some movies to get my lineup for my popcorn and movie Sunday, and was reminded of a couple of other actors who were hotter than he/ll in their day, but their careers just died out. Does anyone remember Brad Johnson in “Always”? I think he does a film now and again on the Sci-Fi channel, and maybe Lifetime. What a hunk he was. He should have been a bigger star.

goodgravy @ 05/06/2012 at 3:54 pm

I don’t think Gerry gives a flip what anyone thinks. In some areas that is an asset, in others a downfall.
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Do you really think Gerry is wringing his hands if I, some random woman on the internet, dislikes his outfit? Please.
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As far as Gerry’s colleagues saying he’s a nice guy, I wouldn’t expect less. He could be the scourge of Satan and his co-stars would sing his praises. Hollywood is as fake as they come. I’m sure he is overall a nice fellow, but everyone has their shadow side.

@was there:
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Well the good old days I was referring to was about two years ago…long before stupidfans… the days of oy and Giggles… some times I would be laughing so hard I had to get up and walk away because I just couldn’t stop laughing. Peeps were witty and didn’t take anything seriously. The “what woman is his girlfriend” group was what killed it… apparently long before your time…
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@off topic:
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ITAWY… I always wondered what happened to him… He was kind of a one-hit-wonder… although I thought he was sexy as hell in Always. Wished I had seen that on the big screen I bet it was a treat.

The only film that I thought could be an end to Gerry’s career is TBH. The horse hockey attached to that film and promotion was a joke. Why he played along as long as he did still amazes me. He is so head strong on so many things he does I just don’t know why he let himself be used like that. I wanted to kick him so hard in the butt that he would be wearing it as a backpack. I think he learned a lesson from it. I also am glad that he might be ending his association with Relativity because they did nothiing to promote him or MGP. Sometimes I think Gerry might be to loyal to the wrong people.

Badmoonrising @ 05/06/2012 at 3:57 pm

@off topic:

His film credits just stop at 2008. He lives in Colorado with his wife and has eight kids! Perhaps his interests changed to something else. He used to be a rodeo rider.
Remember Kelly Reno who played Alec in The Black Stallion? He also lives in Colorado now and is an over the road truck driver. He had a bad accident and left acting and never went back.
I think some just find it too much to deal with maybe and opt for the simpler life.
Both of these actors were raised on horse ranches so maybe that’s their passion.

Today has been a nice day of conversations both pro and con about our favorite Scotsman. Good to see that we are all capable of it when we want to be.
Have a great rest of our Sunday to all here!!

Badmoonrising @ 05/06/2012 at 4:02 pm

@lolita:

Have you ever seen “Yes Man” with Jim Carrey? You’ll rethink how bad TBH is when you see that and Carrey is a professional comedian!

Badmoonrising @ 05/06/2012 at 4:05 pm

When you grow up in the business or are raised by parents who are in the business, you learn early on who to trust and not. Gerry might be at a disadvantage as to where to place his confidence. He does tend to be loyal to a fault.

I remember too! @ 05/06/2012 at 4:05 pm

@manny

Some of the best funny stuff on gossip blogs were created here, it came from gossiphound, cubedweller, CJ, Fritz , Merlin, Oy, Spanky, Mr. Giggles, Stinkylouise, Cynical but not, Trying to figure it out, Nuts,Cora, Melifera, Tonto, as well as you manny.

I hope they are all well, and obviously they have found the cure for Butlerdom.

@Badmoonrising: Before I leave, no I haven’t seen that one. I think the last movie I saw with Jim Carey was where he couldn’t tell a lie, saw it on TV. Not a big fan of his, I think he is to goofy.

Badmoonrising @ 05/06/2012 at 4:11 pm

@goodgravy:

I think he does care what some people think, especially his fans and his Mum. That’s where it matters most anyway. You can’t please everyone.

@I remember too!:
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That’s the time. Apple Bob and BloAss… Everyone was just having a good time and didn’t stress about who he was dating and would rib Butler to giggle and nothing was a hidden agenda… These days peeps act like it is life or death if Butler is misunderstood or does something ridiculous and gets called on it…

Badmoonrising @ 05/06/2012 at 4:15 pm

@lolita:

Well then you’ve seen “Yes Man” because they’re similar really. I loved him in The Mask, The Cable Guy and Dumb and Dumber, which he’s planning on doing a sequel. Mr. Popper’s Penquins was lame too. Even the penquins were animated. It was bad!

Nice talking to you!

@I remember too!: RedOctober-Anna has been heer for two years and disappeared after the rehab or p0rn star thing.

off topic @ 05/06/2012 at 4:21 pm

@Badmoonrising: I think I had heard that he had a bunch of kids, and he’s also quite religious. Alot of his other films have religious themes to them. I can see not wanting to stick around in HW if you are a person of faith. It would be quite disheartening.

@Badmoonrising:
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Lolly was referring to Liar Liar I believe. Carrey’s best movie by far was Doing Time on Maple Drive for TV IMO.

bystander @ 05/06/2012 at 4:26 pm

@Manny: you make me miss those days too, even though Mr B was completely unknown to me back then!
A sense of humour is always what’s missing here. When posters who declare themselves in the middle round on someone for using the word ‘lost’ in relation to s project, its all too serious, obsessive and pedantic.

Badmoonrising @ 05/06/2012 at 4:35 pm

@off topic:

True and also it might be a situation where he was getting work on his good looks. I don’t remember too much about his acting. Only remember seeing him in Always. He would be in his fifties now. Sometimes people just want to grow old and live their lives without the pressure of trying to stay fake young in HW.

was there @ 05/06/2012 at 4:35 pm

Manny: I must have gotten here right at the end of the really funny days. I remember my reaction the first few times I read some of the hysterical stuff. I darned near spit my drink on the keyboard…it was so unexpected. And, the odd thing is, the funniest stuff was often at GB’s expense, but it was just that “funny.” Not the mean spirited stuff that evolved. Too bad.

Badmoonrising @ 05/06/2012 at 4:41 pm

@bystander:

You say you missed those days but I didn’t see your name mentioned or included as one of the old regulars. Who were you back then?

interesting post @ 05/06/2012 at 4:43 pm

Posted on WO in January – interesting take on the Aniston/BH mess.
http://weiner1proboardscom.proboards.com/index.cgi?board=newnews&action=display&thread=2553&page=4

bystander @ 05/06/2012 at 4:45 pm

Just realised I remember Brad Johnson too! From the firefighting film with Holly Hunter? Great film, but I always had the impressionhr was more of a model than a serious actor?
Thinking of an actor who got too egotistic for his talent and blew his career, what about Coster? His downfall was to think he could produce, direct and star with only a modicum of talent.

Hope Gb snags some projects with top flight directors , and his next self-produced projects are more successful than MGP. I don’t hold out much hope for OMAM outside the States though. Surfing , like born again Christianity, just doesn’t have a mass appeal ring about it for the European market

@bystander:
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I agree but later she made it clear she is nowhere in the middle.
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@was there:
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I’m glad you got to taste some of the hilarious days. One of the funniest threads was when Butler stepped out onto the balcony shirtless in Rio.
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Somewhere, somehow it all became all too serious. I’m wondering if it was because Butler’s escapades became a little too public. It was when all of a sudden peeps were rushing to Butler’s honor (okay I’m giggling typing Butler’s honor) but then it turned way too serious. I even I stooped low and gave peeps some shots. It isn’t a forgive and forget crowd here any longer. I guess that is why I don’t really care who he is with, not worth the time and effort for me and I could care less about bantering about it…

@Badmoonrising:
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She posted that she wasn’t around then but liked the sound of what it was like. Please reread and stop baiting…

Whatshedonenow @ 05/06/2012 at 4:53 pm

Niknoks

I think I know a little bit more about the Leveson Inquiry than you. You’ll have to trust me on that one. And facts in the media are merely a spit difference from opinion. Also from your response I definately know you are not that aware of the truths, half truths, downright lies and a mixture of all three, that all merge together within the industry. When it comes to bad boy celebs think the worst and you’ll probably still be no where near how bad they are, or have been. There is never, ever, ever any smoke without an awful lot of fire.

God Bless yoou all! @ 05/06/2012 at 4:56 pm

35 Then Jesus declared, “I am the bread of life. Whoever comes to me will never go hungry, and whoever believes in me will never be thirsty.

@Whatshedonenow:
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Now I’m curious… are you in the industry? Just curious because I find this PR wheeling and dealing quite fascinating…

off topic @ 05/06/2012 at 5:05 pm

@bystander: Yep, that’s the one. Love Holly Hunter, also. I think Costner got a big head, which is never a good thing, because there’s always someone younger and better looking waiting in the wings. He did have his window of hotness there for a short while, though. You don’t have much time in HW to make your mark, or you’re out.

@Whatshedonenow:

So the premise of that last post was…. ‘I know more than you, but I can’t say why…’ What a joke, anyone could write that about anything. It doesn’t mean sh*t and it certainly doesn’t make you look informed. Your general attitude that anyone who doesn’t agree with you is just less informed, especially when you can’t back it up, is laughable.
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You’re no different to the Brooke/Georgia’s of this place, ‘I know stuff, but I can’t tell you what or how’.
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Next time, don’t waste your time responding unless you have an argument more worthy than that of a primary school child.

Badmoonrising @ 05/06/2012 at 5:19 pm

@Manny:

“She posted that she wasn’t around then but liked the sound of what it was like. Please reread and stop baiting…”
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Whaaat????

Her post….

“you make me miss those days too, even though Mr B was completely unknown to me back then!”
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Where did she say she wasn’t around then in this post? How could she miss “those days too” if she wasn’t around to miss them? LOL! I took it that saying he was completely unknown to her back then meant she didn’t know as much about him as she does now or thinks she does.
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Manny, you’re stretching. I think it is YOU who needs to reread what she wrote. Are you loosing it?

hotpatooties from twitter @ 05/06/2012 at 5:35 pm

Gerard Butler just walked past me. p.s #LAtweets

castortroyamv from twitter @ 05/06/2012 at 5:40 pm

My sister told me Gerard Butler hit on her friend at Coachella. We could have gotten Gerard Butler to appear in @ BattleGeekPlus! :O

bystander @ 05/06/2012 at 6:17 pm

@Badmoonrising: I wasn’t anyone back then . I owned one gb dvd but didn’t have a clue who he was until last year. Does no-one on here get tongue in cheek? Does it always have to be interpreted as negativity or deception?
Like joie I only took a shine to gb a little over a year ago, although I’ve now I’ve seen all his frequently available back catalogue and interview clipd, the magic has started to wear thin with his more recent choices and behaviours.

bystander @ 05/06/2012 at 6:26 pm

@Manny: thank you manny (212). Just read the later retort. Have made mental note to remain deadly serious and spell things out in simplistic terms. It’s worse here than you think!

Whatshedonenow @ 05/06/2012 at 6:32 pm

Manny

Been around the media  for a vert long time. I’ve also been posting here for a while,  so I hope you know by now I wouldn’t b/s you. All I know is that some  news is  factual incorrect, and  some gossip is factual correct. 

I know I’ll get slagged off for making these comments but that’s fine. I’d rather people think I am making it up.  Ironically it suits me just fine. 

Niknoks 

Well, I obviously hit a nerve there.  If you don’t believe me that’s ok. From you response I know you are upset, I can understand your cynicism. But I’ve been posting here longer than you,  but I play my cards very close to my chest. Also you know I have no problem standing my ground on this site – alone if I have to.  

I am aware of how the media works and from your posts, I know you are not.  

@bystander: I think you beat me by six months. I’ve been a movie buff all my life, but didn’t know who he was until six months ago, and that’s only because I saw the article about his surfing accident, and then Googled. It may be because I had only seen 300 in bits and pieces, not all at once, and I’m also not a big romcom fan. I will not usually watch movies with Aniston, and don’t really care for Heigl, so that pretty much rules everything out, lol.

@Whatshedonenow:
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My best friend from college is in the PR world and she says it is quite the spin game. I giggle at some of the examples she shares and what is truth and what has added spin to it. She also talked how the deflection spin is used quite regularly. Good simple example is Kim LardAssian and filing for divorce and when the public pushed back she was off to Haiti. My friend laughed because that spin was so obvious a 5th Grader could figure it out. As she said a Kris Jenner special.
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It’s all about perception and what scenario you can create in HW.
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Niknoks has a level head and is quite analytical. I can see her point as well as yours. Many come here saying I’m this or that and eventually they are found to be frauds. The worst thing you can say here is “trust me” IMO. Case in point, GFW uses those words constantly…

@interesting post:
I just spent a lot of time reading the WO that you posted. Was walking around in a daze and so many, many things fell into place that were so questionable before. Feel like my eyes are wide open and thanks to you for posting, I now have more respect and admiration for Gerard Butler than ever before. Also a much better understanding of what he must go through on a near daily basis. WOW that is something else and I thought politics was the dirtiest business. I see him as a very wise man as well and with more integrity that I ever gave him credit for….shame on me. Will never see JA in any good light. Thanks again.

@Whatshedonenow:

Here we are again with the things you ‘know’, no nerves were hit, you don’t have that ability sweetheart, I don’t take this place seriously enough for anyone to hit a nerve here, I found your post amusing, kind of why I called it a joke. I find it amusing that you expect anyone to believe you or trust what you say when you aren’t prepared to back it up.
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Again, the ‘I know more than you do’ and the ‘I’ve been here longer than you’ rebuttal is childish, why say anything at all if you can’t back it up.
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The ‘I know more but I won’t say what’ line just sounds like a cop out.

Whatshedonenow @ 05/06/2012 at 7:02 pm

Manny

I know what you are saying. It’s just when Niknoks start taking about the Leveson Inquiry, as if she was totally across it. I thought whoa there lady…don’t think that’s quite your area of expertise.

You come across like a know it all, and real condescending to other posters, why don’t you lighten up a little. Same with badmoonrising. I like bystander,manny and whatshedonenow. They tell it like it is, while YOU niknoks, you think your sh!t don’t stink and are always correcting people like some kind of moderator. Take a break for awhile PLEASE.

Whatshedonenow @ 05/06/2012 at 7:09 pm

@ Manny

But you’re friend is so right about the PR game. In fact sometimes the stunts they pull and the blatant lies they sometimes tell to the public are absolutely outrageous.

@@niknoks:

Aww, are you not brave enough to say that under your regular moniker? It’s okay sweetheart, I don’t bite. :-)

Whatshedonenow @ 05/06/2012 at 7:12 pm

Niknoks

Ok. I think you made your point. You are upset.

Happy Sunday JJers! Nice photo and bedamned the pants! He probably likes him and has several pair – I do that if I like them and they fit well. I buy 3 or 4 pair in the same color. Who cares about his pants anyway? He’s still a handsome devil even in a ballcap.

Glad to see him out and about. Hoping he starts work soon so we can get some snippets of photos. We need more than Starbucks and dinner sightings; however, they will do just fine for the time being.

Also, glad to read some of the fine posts here and see the varying opinions. Have a lovely week all! Stay sane, happy and healthy.

Autumn

@Whatshedonenow:

Okay, if it makes you feel better, I am upset, I will be crying myself to sleep tonight under the weight of your informed argument…. ;-p

ha ha ha this is my moniker dumba/s/s

I always put an @before the name I am addressing.

Keep going you are sounding more snot/ty by the minute.

Whatshedonenow @ 05/06/2012 at 7:26 pm

Niknoks

I am absolutely sure you’ll get a good night’s sleep. We don’t get on. That’s fine. I generally avoid getting into it with you, even though you like to stick the knife in sometimes, because you make some really good points. But I had to say something this time. And I will again if I think you are way off base.

@Whatshedonenow: & @niknoks:
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Aw Gee ladies… I like you both… Can’t we all be friends and smile? Such a lovely day and all… Pretty please… :)))

Whatshedonenow @ 05/06/2012 at 7:32 pm

I’m trying Manny. Believe me I am trying. And I will continue to try. But if Nik Noks posts something I disagree with. I will put forward my view.

@Whatshedonenow:
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No one is asking for anything less IMO. Agree to disagree I say…

@Whatshedonenow:

Back atcha…. ;-)
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My issue with you isn’t so much your opinions, although I don’t agree with them, it’s the way you present them as fact, the way you accuse people of being uninformed if they don’t agree with you and then refuse to back it up.
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Just because someone doesn’t work in a particular field it doesn’t mean they aren’t informed about other subjects. Dear Lord, the stuff I have read from people on here about drug addiction since GB’s rehab stint, there has been a ridiculous amount that I haven’t agreed with & I’ve made no secret this is what I do for a living but it doesn’t mean I can sit here and present my opinion as an expert one or as ‘fact’ and it doesn’t mean other people’s opinions are any less valid.
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When Manny discusses medical stuff she backs it up with knowledge, when Toronto discussed her/his addiction issues they backed it up, we’ve had a lawyer who has done the same. Can you not see how it looks from the outside looking in when you make bold judgement statements and then aren’t prepared to back them up?

@niknoks
My aren’t you the hypocrite. You come on here pontificating and bemoaning all the board attacks and yet you have no problems attacking and belittling people yourself. You are part of the problem here. You can’t be civil with anyone who disagrees with you.
You’ve got a real hard-on for Whatshedonenow, don’t you? You stalk and harass her posts just like Sweets does with Manny. You’re just the same. You’re picking fights on this board just like all the people you routinely condemn. You’re one of the biggest hypocrites here.

Whatshedonenow @ 05/06/2012 at 8:00 pm

Niknoks

I can see your point. But that is your choice. I don’t know much about the medical profession, so I don’t talk about it a lot. But I do know about the media, and sometimes I post comments which I believe to be facts and sometimes I post opinions. But I do it my way, not your way. If you don’t like it fine, you can doubt it, try to debunk, dismiss it, whatever you like, but I do it my way. Not your way.

@Lisa:
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I really disagree with you. Niknoks has not been belittling at all. She has been skeptical which is her right. Niknoks is nothing like Sweet at all IMO.
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In fact niknoks last post was very clear and not insulting IMO. We just have two string women with differing opinions.

@Manny:
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Strong women… Damn autocorrect…

curious cat @ 05/06/2012 at 9:08 pm

@I remember too!:

and manny and bystander and others who commented on the golden old days. Bystander, I feel as if you were here from when I was.Only two years?

I go way back too on this thread, maybe 5 years? Manny, we’ve known each other that long, haven’t we? It’s fun to be reminded of all those “old timer” names. and wonder how they are and what they’re doing, whether they are still posting comments somewhere. Even though we know them only by monikers and personalities. Why they left we don’t always know. Some sites have a way of becoming a home away from home. Social networking. A relatively new phenomenon.

My name wasn’t mentioned here (ahem!) (but no worries, my feelings aren’t hurt! :) I was seldom funny anyway. And funny was the topic of discussion. In any case, when you think of names it’s hard not to leave a few out.

Holy moses, watch the Oscar and other award winners struggling not to forget anybody to thank. And they have notes and teleprompters.

It’s damn near impossible to list all the people who have come and gone and had fun here, like yes, Red October, and a slew of people like Stinky Louise and them. I recall asking SL what the name meant, why would anyone call herself that and she said it’s the nick name of a very powerfully scented rose, which I think she was involved in growing or which grew in her area. Who knew?How do we pick a moniker?

My favorite post was the one in which somebody, I wish I knew who–I always suspected Oy because she is such a clever comic she probably is really Kathy Griffith or Conan O’Brien or works for them and comes here for material., But nobody admitted to this stunt, which was a mock casting call list for an ensemble movie with a bunch of us and described our characters, our strengths and foibles, and probable age and appearance with such wit and insight you knew somebody was paying ATTENTION even to our subtext!

If anyone has that list I’d still love to have it because it was funny as heck and I wish I’d saved it.

I know I am doing another long post people will probably hate. But it seems an appropriate time to mention that sometimes “newbies” come to this site and feel there is some kind of “clicque” here. There isn’t. Nobody needs to feel left out. Some of us have just been around the track together for a few years and kind of know what to expect from eah other. Nobody should feel intimidated on a gossip board.

curious cat @ 05/06/2012 at 9:21 pm

One more comment. I decided not to add this personal bit to my last post. I am super busy because I am about to fly 5,000 miles to see my daughter graduate from medical school. I have learned she is getting some kind of honor or award. As a student, she has already published articles and papers and been on medical missions to Haiti and Costa Rica. Some here will care, others won’t. But I am stoked. Over and out.

curious cat @ 05/06/2012 at 9:26 pm

@Grey: I meant to mention that article that was so complicated, but it reminds us that this is a big and rough industry and it IS an industry.

I’ve been researching country music and Nashville is another HW type business. People write naive comments about why certain performers do this and that and they have no clue how much is controlled by executives in suits and money men in meetings and the sales and ratings and the number of plays on the radio. How it can dictate who gets to do what.

@curious cat: Congratulations and have a safe trip!

@curious cat: CCat, travel safe! Good luck and congratulations to your daughter – med school is quite a coup! You should be very proud! Enjoy yourself!

Malama pono!
Autumn

so glad someone else sees niknoks as the snotty hypocrite she is.

@manny you dissappoint me, why kiss up to her now? She had no trouble throwing you under the bus awhile back. What’s next burying the hatchet with GFW?

curious cat @ 05/06/2012 at 11:46 pm

Thanks, Autumn and JustMe! I am high as a kite but there is always that terrifying scramble trying to get things done and remember to pack everything you will need and not forget anything.

And I have work to finish up here since I will be gone three weeks. Seeing family and friends too.

Back to that link about TBH and the Aniston/Butler business. That was VERY interesting. I still don’t exactly understand what went on. I’m not that savvy about the inner workings of HW but gather she was deal making to bring GB into a commitment for a series of films together and a well-timed romance scheduled to peak and end according to schedule to sell the films. They were first supposed to be making Goree Girls, which is a hell of a story. If you haven’t read it look it up. It probably would have been butchered anyway but it didn’t happen for reasons that were vague and next thing they were talking about Bounty Hunter.

I would want more substantiation than an anonymous post from someone who quotes an anonymous friend on a GB fansite to know what really happened, but you read and listen to these stories and you start forming more informed opinions.

As some of you know, I’ve gotten involved in country music in the past few years, am fond of Brooks & Dunn, and remember all the hullabaloo when they announced the breakup of their band after 20 years in which they won numerous awards and earned among other things a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame. People were gossiping all over, speculating on the reasons behind the breakup, personal fights, a gay involvement, some of them ludicrous.

A neighbor of mine, a musician, said you never know, maybe their sales were down (everyone ‘s sales were down in the bad economy) and executives decided if they shocked the music world with a split-up, people would rush to their last concerts, they’d take two or three years off doing other things and then have a big reunion tour. and be marketable again. Who knows? Bands break up all the time.

I just read an article about the band Rascal Flatts, which said the three guys in it hardly ever saw or talked to each other outside of recording and performances. Everything they did was planned and decided by execs of the record label in boardroom meetings. Finally the guys decided they wanted more control, got together and demanded changes.

There is always The Official Story, yes?

@@Lisa:
I ignored Manny’s post. We’ve all seen her scamper after niknoks like a puppy.
No one on here is above anyone else in behavior. With the exception of a few trolls, most people here proclaim they are moderate fans and hate the fighting. A few posts after that they’re fighting away with someone, belittling and dismissing them as “childish”, acting superior and giving away the fact that they are anything BUT moderate when it comes to Mr. B. I’ve seen this same pattern time and again by the fan girls and “haters” alike. Both sides do the same damn thing, but they can’t see it. The same fights every week between the same posters, each declaring their superior intelligence and maturity as compared to the other. They both do it. It’s all ego and one-upmanship. No one here has clean hands. The truly moderate and civil fans aren’t here anymore. They’ve left.

I have a huge fact for our professed counselor of addicts, she would never make excuses for any addict like she does Gerry. Another fact I have is that Gerry is an addict. Why does she conveniently forget all the facts about addiction shes made a career with?

That was an interesting article about tbh and the inner workings of hollywood.

@pysychoB @ 05/07/2012 at 1:11 am

Well said! There is a whole community of excuses and enablers here.

@Lisa, at least we can admit we’ve “gossiped” about Butler and have formed some interesting opinions about his escapades without putting on the airs and graces of our resident experts.

I am so sick of his thumb crazy defenders trying to turn JJ into another fan site. His fans are embarassing themselves.

@this stupid board @ 05/07/2012 at 1:14 am

My last comment, I thought stupidfans was hilarious. I loved how she riled up the phangurls. We could use a dozen like her to get some of these idiots out of here.

I know most of the posters here are probably nice decent people on the whole if you met them in the checkout line at the grocery store, but gossip sites have tendency to bring out the worst in all of us. Opinions, everyone’s got one. However, I have to agree with Niknoks when she said the haters and the phannies are two sides of the same coin. I think she pretty much nailed it. We’re all here with varying degrees of opinions on the Butler. The middle ground, tries to stay out of the fray for the most part and while they may like some posters and are able to disagrees amicably, others prefer a passionate exchange and get a charge out of setting others straight so to speak. They can’t seem to help themselves when their opinions are being challenged.

Part of the gossip site agenda is to get people to share their opinions. You might say we here at JJ’s Butler threads are highly successful in that regard. We’re all different human beings from age to cultural differences, experiences and education. Badmoonrising, had a couple good points. Why do people have to be mean spirited and nasty to other posters with differing opinions? ……..Because they can! You can call them on it all you wants to, but it may not change their opinions. It won’t change who they are as people and the added anonymity here allows them the freedom to be overly honest. The best thing to do is (as I’ve said many times before) ignore, ignore, ignore……. scroll on by. You aren’t going to change a gossip site into a fan site. If you like hanging out here, you can ignore what you don’t agree with or continue arguing and name calling or you can find another place to hang out. Myself, I just use the scroll button on my computer. It’s just not worth the stress to be always right about my opinions on a anonymous site. JMO ;)

bystander @ 05/07/2012 at 2:20 am

@curious cat, just picked up your posts 245/246. It’s 7am here.

Many congratulations to your daughter, hope you all have a super time. Mine just graduated with her masters and faculty prize a couple of weeks back. Nothing as noble as medicine but made a wonderful interlude from the regret of my mothers death and funeral. Mum had been so proud if her. She made a great choice in studying for the masters after Cambridge and went straight into the world of work, which in these troubled times is fantastic.

I really have only been here since February last year though! Spent my commuting time , when I should have been learning songs for a panto I was in that month, discovering POTO, ahem .

leslie 51 @ 05/07/2012 at 3:12 am

@interesting post

If that info about Aniston/TBH is true I think it could explain Gerry’s seemingly brief public displays of affection, that were out of the norm for him, with violin girl and Laurie Cholewa around the time of TBH promotion. It possibly wasn’t convincing enough that he denied a relationship with JA during interviews etc. He possibly felt he needed some reiinforcement with photographic evidence of dalliances with other women to help shoot down the Aniston/Butler ‘fauxmance’ BS. It must have been a very difficult time for him if true. The only thing that makes me doubt these ‘revelations’ a bit is the obvious hatred and bitterness this ‘Patty’ displays for Jennifer Aniston. It almost seems pathological IMO. If you keep reading that thread there are a couple more posts by the same person in the same vein e.g. scroll down this link where she again re-iterates how JA is reviled and how ‘countless others hate her as much as I do’

http://weiner1proboardscom.proboards.com/index.cgi?board=newnews&action=display&thread=2553&page=6

bystander @ 05/07/2012 at 4:13 am

@leslie 51: that’s what i thought when I read the WO post a couple if months ago. A BIG if, as the story’s logic escaped me and seemed to be fueled, or at least biased, by extreme fan vitreol. I’m sure some outrageous dealing goes on in HW but this seemed too skewed toward st Gerry to be all true.

@leslie 51:
I’m sure that game-playing happens in Hollywood, but I never would have thought that Jennifer Aniston would be that big of a game player. Who decided she was worthy of that much power? Do studios really put hundreds of millions of dollars behind an actress that is really only famous for her ex and his new partner (well, new as of eight(?) years ago), and an old sitcom? As a business person, it doesn’t make a whole lot of sense to me, but then again, I’m not in THAT business – thank goodness!
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I went back and read a bit of that thread, especially that original post by Patty, and I agree that it seems fairly skewed. Patty said her account of the situation was from a sacked employee, and I don’t know many sacked people that don’t harbour some sort of grudge or try to make themselves feel better by slagging off the employer. And then she also has her own very strong bias against Aniston and for Gerard. I mean, I’m not a great fan of the woman – I don’t particularly like her work, but I don’t know her so I can’t say if I like or dislike her with any accuracy. It always surprises me when people say they can’t stand (or ‘hate’, which gets used a lot online) a person they’ve never even met, but that might just be me. Anyway, maybe a fraction of that story is true, but good luck trying to pick which bits!
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And, is it just me (I’ve only been following Gerard for a little bit – been back and looked at some past stories), or is the whole “pashing randoms” thing Gerard’s go-to move when things go a bit pear-shaped?… Gay rumours circulating? Pash a woman in public. Co-star trying to manipulate you into a faux-mance? Pash a (different) woman in public. Just get out of rehab? Grind up against some random woman in public (there may or may not have been some pashing in there – who knows!). It’s his answer for everything! :P
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Side point: If Gerard was trying to detract from the Aniston rumours, why did he slip up with that finger-in-the-butt-crack photo? I saw that and cringed. And then I laughed. And then I cringed again! Was the general consensus that that was a stunt too? Or optical illusion? Or something else? Just wondering…..

GerrysDaisyDuckChick @ 05/07/2012 at 6:36 am

@PsychoB:
Hey Ms. Coward, are you (and I may be vain) but are you talking about me? Am I the “she”? And not just with you but other cowards here?
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Are you accusing me of denying Gerry is an addict? Really? Fact. I KNOW HE IS AN ADDICT. And get this, he is a MULTIPLE addict, the hardest type to treat!!
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Another fact. What he IS, is as wise, intelligent, and self-aware enough to deal with the worst one(s) first. Comprehend that you bully? I he does. I do. Have a nice day, if possible. You and your minions authorities are not joy-driven people. You are not hope-driven people. No, not at all. And TRUST me when I say this, Gerry is NOT attracted to your types!
~K

GerrysDaisyDuckChick @ 05/07/2012 at 6:42 am

@@this stupid board:
“My last comment, I thought stupidfans was hilarious. I loved how she riled up the phangurls. We could use a dozen like her to get some of these idiots out of here.”
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First part? I doubt it. Bullying is your cowardly drug, especially if you can do it anonymously.
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Second part? You, and your kind, need to check your souls, (the deepest part) why you guys find making fun of someone is funny.
~K

GerrysDaisyDuckChick @ 05/07/2012 at 6:57 am

@leslie 51:
Yes, he refused to play along with a budding “romance” between Jen and himself. Feel he told himself, he has his boundaries and will take the consequences as they arrive. They have. He is. I respect both decisions.
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This man is far more together, with it, on his game, soulful, aware, in control, than many give him credit for. That said, about the fans/worshipers who have him lain in a manger or sitting in a high-chair or in need of a ‘go to’ guy for thinking they could be with this man somehow in real life, who bailed for any choice of intimate company? When people hit a certain low in their lives feeling rejected, discouraged, disappointed, under too much pressure (etc) or feel bent from expectations they feel they can’t live up to or under pressure to produce, provide for, fulfill fantasies, lose projects, they don’t reach for people hard to be with they may feel might judge or make life difficult (while they pull their shmit together, lick their wounds, see guidance, support, etc, they do just the opposite.
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When I’m ill (depressed, got a cold, disliking my job) I don’t go to fancy events, do you? No. We tend seek out people who’ll accept us ‘as is’ without pretense, requiring little of us. Or avert, divert, or simply stick to ourselves until such time we get better then we head out again. Or are all you guys so perfect in your real lives you suffer from nothing?
~K

for the gullible @ 05/07/2012 at 6:58 am

Jesus Christ, people, the Jennifer Aniston conspiracy theory about Gerry and MGP is 100% phannie fabricated. Their “insider” is a phannie more delusional than GFW and Georgia combined.

GerrysDaisyDuckChick @ 05/07/2012 at 7:04 am

@@Lisa:
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so glad someone else sees niknoks as the snotty hypocrite she is.

@manny you dissappoint me, why kiss up to her now? She had no trouble throwing you under the bus awhile back. What’s next burying the hatchet with GFW?”
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Manny is jealous of anyone with a joy-driven heart. She’s secretly miserable with her life. Fact. There is no burying that hatchet. That’s insecurity runs too deep. She loves to hate me. She is fascinated and deeply interested in any single thing I have to say. I entertain her you see. So she tries by barbing, indirectly, in the way she’s learned works (or used to), to get people’s attention (mainly mine). Face it. The woman spent her entire Sunday here. Speaks volumes, no?
~K

leslie 51 @ 05/07/2012 at 7:17 am

IMO that ‘finger in the butt’ pic was photoshopped – top part of finger blacked out to make it look bent towards JA’s b/umcrack. Even if not, how on earth could a finger penetrate through tightly stretched, thick denim? Plus JA did not react at all and I would think that would be nigh on impossible if a woman was prodded there unexpectedly.

Sticking with the fauxmance ‘conspiracy’ theory LOL, what if someone was really determined at that stage to keep that fauxmance story alive. What if, after Gerry rebelled with his PDAs with other women, one of the ‘conspirators’ paid some pap to take a photo from behind and manipulate and ‘shop’ it to compromise them and make it look like there was such sexual familiarity between Gerry and JA that people could not now doubt a relationship existing between the two of them, just for the purposes of the rest of TBH promos and whatever, to keep the intrigue going. Maybe that was what really got some people into theatres as IMO the movie was a complete dud otherwise. I don’t recollect that Jen was ever asked about this public ‘humiliation’ and she must have seen the pic or heard about about it IMO. Gerry was questioned in a radio interview and he said something like, however it looked, his hand would NOT have been touching her butt.

AustinCityLimits @ 05/07/2012 at 7:17 am

@for the gullible: I expect that most of what Patty wrote in her essay on WO IS true about Jennifer Aniston, because she has done the same thing, or kind of thing to other costars of hers. She did the same to Vince Vaughn, the only thing different was that she really got him to fall in love with her, and then dumped him right after the movie premiered. She had no intentions of following through with a real romance with him, but lead him on and broke his heart for real. She has done this with just about every single male costar she has acted with. This is part of her reputation in Hollywood, and why she can’t seem to get any really big names to costar with her. I would expect that everything that Patty wrote can, in some degree, be validated and proven to be correct. It’s not the ramblings of a disgruntled fan or employee, but based on facts as they present themselves in the Hollywood community. Gerry simply would not play her game and she proceeded to ruin him. She made some pretty damaging and hurtful remarks after the premiere of the movie, something that a REAL star would never do, badmouth a costar, but it was obvious from the beginning that she was out to only use Gerry for her own PR purposes, and she and her “lap dog” Huvane proceeded accordingly. And through all of this, Gerry continued to show to be a class act by never saying one bad thing about her.

@AustinCityLimits:
If she’s really done all those things, then she’s pretty silly because it will all come back and bite her on the ar$e later on. People will stop working with her – which seems to be happening now if what was previously said is true (that there is no projects in the forseeable future for her). I don’t think she can make an income on the shiny-ness of her hair or her diet tips for long. She’s making herself redundant, so I guess karma wins again!
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I don’t think Aniston ever had the power to “ruin” Gerard. He’s just done Coriolanus with Ralph Fiennes, who is IMHO one of the finest actors of our time. Aniston’s abilities can’t hold a candle to that, and if Ralph is willing to work with Gerard, then other people will also. Actually, I think Coriolanus might be the reason that Gerard suddenly has all these leading man roles in the action genre. I think that people are noticing him, like they did after 300. Let’s hope it doesn’t fade like it did back then.
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@leslie 51:
LOL – you might be right with the photo-shop thing. I know that the Scot’s have a baudy sense of humour, but I found it hard to believe that he would behave like that in public. I agree that it was suspect that there was actually a pap behind them – highly suspect, indeed! But no matter – he isn’t with Aniston, and I highly doubt he will ever act with her again, so she is no longer relevant. Yippee! :P

GerrysMesmerizingWoman @ 05/07/2012 at 9:06 am

@Uh..:

GerrysMesmerizingWoman @ 05/07/2012 at 9:52 am

It isn’t about ruining anyone, it’s about power and control and making money. But this latest smear campaign is different for the ‘married’ woman or something… which, I’m positive he regrets right about… before it happened!
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Seriously, do you think more people would have been up to see The Bounty Hunter had they thought the two were an item? Possibly. Most likely, probably. Like with Brad and Angie? You know to check out what sparkle in their eyes.
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But Gerry, cares about the real women in his life, and would not subject them to such nonsense.
~K
who got a tad “emotional” in that one response but hey, I’m worth defending! :o)

GerrysMesmerizingWoman @ 05/07/2012 at 10:01 am

Oh, and getting what you want. People like Jen are very insecure so they need validation through men or positive press or just being in the press. And Gerry was the catch of the minute. She felt would be ‘all that’ if HE was into her. Is this so hard to see?
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He said no way, she felt rejected and humiliated, so could very well have started rumors about him. Who knows? At least she’s busy now with a new guy to flounce about as if she’s finally landed a real man! (read: this is good for Gerry)
~K

GerrysMesmerizingWoman @ 05/07/2012 at 10:22 am

I don’t think it was photo-shopped. I think it was deliberate, however naughty and juvenile but they were loopy from the attention and he was pissed at her… and that he didn’t think it’d be caught. It could have been a subconscious reaction (nonverbal) to her request, saying “f you, no… you want some publicity… here take this.” Or not. LOL
~K, opinionated and passionate and open-minded not judgmental

curious cat @ 05/07/2012 at 10:55 am

@bystander:

Congratulations to your daughter and condolences on your loss. I have been through that too a few years back. I thought you had been around longer than you say you have. Maybe it’s just that the smart ones seem older and wiser and must have been here forever. : ) This site has lost some very good contributors who were driven away by personal attacks and the silly fighting.

Tonto made a point. If we met in the supermarket we would probably act like normal people and even be friends. What happens to people when they go on line anonymously?

I love humor,bawdy and otherwse, but I also love thoughtful commentary. I remember one of my first visits to this site. I had seen one of GB’s movies and there was an article about it on JJ. so I wanted to post a mini-review of the movie. Can’t recall which one. I read through a few pages of bickering and speculating about his “personal” life, wrote, “I was going to comment on the movie but nobody seems interested.” I was in the process of signing out when a post popped up, “I’d like to hear what you thought of the movie.” So I wrote a bit on it, and came back later to see what others might have said. There were another 4 or 5 pages of bickering and speculating about his you-know-what life and one comment from the person who had asked for my opinion on the movie saying thanks, I’m glad to have your opinion.I’ll keep it in mind when I see the movie.

Other than that one poster, I felt as if I hadn’t even been there. Invisible. You have to laugh.

The funny casting call that someone wrote described my character as age 28 to 35, I’m obviously older than that if I have a kid graduating from medical school unless I gave birth at 9 or 10, fairly petite (I am 5’3″ so that’s close, more like average for an Amercan woman), but the really funny thing was, “She (Curious Cat) often feels like a voice in the wilderness.” I am still LOL about that. I love it! Somebody nailed me bigtime. I still suspect Oy.

GerrysMesmerizingWoman @ 05/07/2012 at 11:25 am

@for the gullible:
I’m not delusional functioning with complete clarity, thank you!
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It’s his followers he knocked himself off the pedestal unable to live up to their personal expectations they have in place for him that are. Have a nice day.
~K

GerrysMesmerizingWoman @ 05/07/2012 at 11:37 am

Also, I’m thinkin’ F.E.A.R. (for everything a reason) that this was his way of telling some women to get on with their lives and stop using him as a crutch (while in private he lives a different life one more whole, spiritual, family-driven, generous and rewarding (even if he dates for sex as men do and should feel no shame in that).
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A man who is loving, faithful and loyal to his real friends (and they know who they are) and true with real emotional, intellectual connections with people –some that are women and some that are men– who are worthwhile and valuable to him who he cares a great amount for.
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Which leaves me wondering why do people pick on the rich? Because they can wear $500 khaki’s and you cannot?
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You pick on celebrities, like Gerry, who make a ton of money because they just wish they did do don’t so try to belittle his glamorous lifestyle wishing (some of them) they could be his chosen one but realize (now) they cannot and are not qualified so come in here to beat on him daily too make you feel you dull life is worthwhile, when you long to go to Coldplay concerts (face it, with him).
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Everyone knows he’s a ton of fun, sexy, far more together than they thin, witty and adorable but troubled so you’re scared. You guys (for the most part) have lost your go to guy for fantasy fulfillment… and I think he’s fairly content with that searching for a different audience with this new film and others!
~K

I guess we cannot really know the truth of the relationship between Gerry and JA. In interviews we saw IMO they really seemed to relate very well to each other and even to be seen to be having fun with each other. Gerry has never said one negative thing about her that I have heard. In fact I recall reading that on Jen’s birthday, one year after her birthday at Cabo which he had attended, that Gerry was having a night out with friends and he suddenly remembered it was Jen’s birthday that day and that he needed to call her. He also said in the Stern interview that, even though he wasn’t ‘in love’ with Jen, he did love her. That somehow doesn’t sound to me like there is animosity between them at all. I don’t believe that JA has the power to ‘ruin’ anyone and I could quite easily believe that she and Gerry may have remained casual friends regardless of the BS that surrounded them. I thought it was interesting also that Ellen Degeneres is a very close friend of JA and she was really nice to Gerry this time when he appeared on her show. She acted a lot differently to the first time he appeared a few years before and he seemed to rub her the wrong way when he tried to ‘snog’ her LOL.

Re the ‘conspiracy’ post at WO, anyone can search on the internet and find a detailed history of JA’s relationships, both personal and professional, and anything else about her they need to know and put their own spin on it. They can also know the very latest in what is happening behind the scenes with companies like Miramax etc and anything, financial or otherwise, about movie production in general simply by daily checking sites like Deadline Hollywood.com. Just sayin’.

@Lisa:
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Did it ever dawn on you I didn’t want to be in the middle? I like both of them and I wasn’t going to take a side. Geeeee what a thought.
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I see GFW is back at work again… Only time she spams is at her work…..
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What you don’t seem to realize is your life is passing you by. No one here seems to need validation from posters at JJ like you do. You throw out to ignore you yet you can’t ignore anyone. Did you panic this morning when you were not the center of posting yesterday? It is obvious since you are taking swats at stuff that was discussed hours ago. I see by the thumbs you did panic. You need this for validation and hoping that one day Butler might magically find you as his best supporter and fall deeply in love with you. You are no different than Moira. Which is sad.
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Gerard Butler awoke this morning, probably with someone, and started his day and is off doing whatever it is he likes and he hasn’t given you a thought.
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You need to live your life. The more I type to you the sadder I feel for you. No one, especially me, is jealous of being alone like this…

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/07/2012 at 12:11 pm

Thanks niknoks! And others that responded to me yesterday. I’ve just noticed since I have been coming on here a while now, that there are some that seem to return regularly simply to bait, bash and fight for the most part. If it were me, and that’s all I felt the need to do when coming onto this site, I would just stop coming to JJ. But that’s me. I’m definitely in the middle in regards to Gerard B. It’s not really a concern for me if others believe that. I do fully admit however, to becoming a fan girl in regards to Dave Grohl at times. lol I read something recently that Courtney Love was trying to put out through the media and oohhhhh I got p/issed. haha Anyhow, it was a sleepless night Saturday and when I came on, I became exasperated by what was being posted and that’s why I stated what I did.

@GFW: I believe that Freud and Jung started having problems with their friendship when Jung wanted to expand his theories farther than Freud was willing to go. Freud also had a problem with mysticism and wasn’t interested in opening his mind to other possibilities regarding the human mind and energy, etc. Freud also wanted to be the seen as the superior of the two. That would cause problems in any relationship. Jung wasn’t perfect, but I related to him more, because if you are going to study the human mind, you need to be open to many many possibilities. I don’t think that Sabina had anything to do with the ending of the friendship. If anything, she wanted them (Freud and Jung) to continue working together. That Freud….it was always about s/ex with that guy. Wait……. ;-)

GerrysMesmerizingWoman @ 05/07/2012 at 12:14 pm

Is that the best you got Manny? LOL ;o) Have a nice day.
~K “spamming” from work (Yay!) who does not need to use her real life, where she’s out having fun, to do so [read: oops] who needs to remind you this: every story ever written is just waiting to come true and the greatest love story of all is our own… cheers! (air kiss)

@GerrysMesmerizingWoman:
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I feel so sorry for you… I hope you find something for you that is tangible not an illusion.

GerrysMesmerizingWoman @ 05/07/2012 at 12:18 pm

@Anastasia Beaverhausen:
“@GFW: I believe that Freud and Jung started having problems with their friendship when Jung wanted to expand his theories farther than Freud was willing to go. Freud also had a problem with mysticism and wasn’t interested in opening his mind to other possibilities regarding the human mind and energy, etc. Freud also wanted to be the seen as the superior of the two. That would cause problems in any relationship. Jung wasn’t perfect, but I related to him more, because if you are going to study the human mind, you need to be open to many many possibilities. I don’t think that Sabina had anything to do with the ending of the friendship. If anything, she wanted them (Freud and Jung) to continue working together. That Freud….it was always about s/ex with that guy. Wait……. ;-)”
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Exactly! And well said by thw way.
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Also: One (Sigmund) only wanted to say, “This is why you’re so f’d up.” and that was that. Carl, on the other hand, wanted to say, “This is why you’re f’d up and here is how we can work through this.” In other words, the “talking cure” was his. Same with his word association.
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Another thing, he healed Sabina, not Sigmund. She went on to become a therapist and successful, even if she died a tragic death, but so did Sigmund. Carl is the only one who lived to a ripe, apparently happy, old age.
~K

GerrysMesmerizingWoman @ 05/07/2012 at 12:20 pm

Keep trying Manny! That does not work. Why? You don’t know me. Have a nice day.
~K

@GerrysMesmerizingWoman:
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Wether I know you or not… I have witnessed you here and what you posted. I can’t help but feel sorry for you. Your job obviously isn’t fulfilling or you wouldn’t be here for “mental health” breaks all day long. You spend your weekends at the movies, the ultimate in escapism. You are alone and that is a shame. We can all see you want to be loved and you are placing all your faith in Gerry. It’s just so sad…
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I have a serious question for you… If Butler impregnates one of his women and thus ties his life to another forever, how will you feel?

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/07/2012 at 12:30 pm

@GerrysMesmerizingWoman:

I completely agree. Jung was about finding a solution, not only a diagnosis like Freud. It really was a good film. ;-)

Mondaymonday @ 05/07/2012 at 12:43 pm

@AustinCityLimits:

“Gerry simply would not play her game and she proceeded to ruin him. She made some pretty damaging and hurtful remarks after the premiere of the movie, something that a REAL star would never do, badmouth a costar, ”

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Was that movie premiere before or after her birthday party in Cabo? You know, the one he was invited to attend along with all her other close friends and do some whale watching? For someone setting out to “ruin” someone, they sure seemed on friendly terms. Plus, Gerry’s mentioned he’s been at Courtney Cox’s house on several occasions. I think she and Jen are still close.
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And what nasty remarks did she make? Where is your source of info so that I may read it and get up to speed? I feel lost here.
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I’m no huge fan of JA but I don’t have this rabid distain for her like some of you seem to. I’m trying to figure out why some of you hate her so other then she starred in a movie with Gerry. I don’t think one way or the other about her really.
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And as far as all that supposed goings on around Gerry and her, I take it with a grain of salt. The writer of the post was obviously a JA hater. If she’d seemed more unbiased, I would have taken it more serious.

GerrysMesmerizingWoman @ 05/07/2012 at 12:49 pm

@Anastasia Beaverhausen:
Hi! Yes, glad you agree.
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It was a fascinating script. And worth re-watching beyond watching Michael. Just wished Sabina had been played by someone else or that she hadn’t over-acted in the beginning or we saw why… because the “humiliation” theme didn’t seem enough to make her that bonkers! I loved how his wife encouraged him with his “their are no accidents” with the new patient and inner voice to follow. Yet little did she know what all would happen. Yet he remained with her, was a good father and husband, she was his “house” and the others “the perfume”.
~K

GerrysMesmerizingWoman @ 05/07/2012 at 12:52 pm

Gerry needs to learn to love himself again. Trust himself and those type who hurt him most, women.
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Gerry needs to value himself again. Look inside at all the goodness within dying to spring out!
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Yet, like all of us, things must haunt him too. But that just makes him human. We all make mistakes and, even though Gerry has a troubled past it doesn’t mean he isn’t worthy of love. He deserves love more than anything. And love he shall have. Why? He’s deserving!
~K, spamming at work :o)

GerrysMesmerizingWoman @ 05/07/2012 at 12:55 pm

@Mondaymonday:
Oh, no, no, no. We’ll never see it [proof] (by Jen), are you kidding? No, word is she and her PR team were really upset when Gerry would not play along with the romance for butts in seats or to feed her frail ego. Plus, he has real women in his life he would not subject to that. Get a clue!
~K

GerrysMesmerizingWoman @ 05/07/2012 at 12:57 pm

@Anastasia Beaverhausen:
Have you seen Jane Eyre with Michael and Mia and Judy and Jamie?
~K

@Manny: You bring up an interesting issue which has crossed my mind whenever another report of his hookups comes out. How do you think he’s managed to avoid one of his randoms claiming a pregnancy, just for the sake of media attention or extortion? Birth control is never 100%…unless he’s fixed.

Mondaymonday @ 05/07/2012 at 1:08 pm

Speaking of the post on the controversy about JA and GB, I wanted a male perspective on the whole thing so I ran it by the two men in my life. They listened intently as I told the sordid tale and then when I finished and asked them what they thought, and mind you one of them is of Gerry’s generation, they broke in to peels of hearty laughter! Then the following comment was

“What an idiot he is if he didn’t just do it! I would have done it and I’d do her in a heart beat! Let’s see, my choices are be Jen Aniston’s boyfriend for a while or get ruined in HW, screw Jen Aniston or be shunned in HW! I gave him more credit then that! I’m going to have to revoke Gerry’s mancard!”

The male perspective. Gotta love it.

GerrysMesmerizingWoman @ 05/07/2012 at 1:14 pm

@question:
Not that you’re speaking to me, but where’s this claim/article in print? Think we’re all interested in that one. I suspect there are as many ‘claims’ to things with him as their are disgruntled ex’s!
~K

@question:
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Since I’ve never bedded the man I can’t speak to his habits. BJs are one sure fire way to avoid complications I guess.
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Double gloving helps a great deal because it would seem to me it would be rather hard to rupture two condoms. There is always abortion if the deed were to be done and the price was right I guess.
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There is always abstinence… Butler and abstinence in the same sentence… ROTF…
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I’m not assuming Butler does any of the above mind you. But if he wants penetration and guarantees there is always the back door…
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Again I don’t know what he does and not presuming to know…
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God I’m even grossing myself out…

Mondaymonday @ 05/07/2012 at 1:16 pm

@question:

Gerry’s the poster boy for condom use. In fact, he should do a PSA about it. Other then that, I don’t think you can get pregnant through oral.
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BC pill is 99%. I asked my gyno what about the 1%. He said that’s open for human error!
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I’ll bet Amy meets the woman at the door, clipboard in hand, waiver attached, terms and conditions to be read and sign on the dotted line before engaging with G in any sexual act. If not, she’ll call you a cab.

GerrysMesmerizingWoman @ 05/07/2012 at 1:18 pm

@Mondaymonday:
You know, how does anyone know he wasn’t in a relationship at the time of promoting/filming The Bounty Hunter? Good Lord, give the guy a break. I think had he messed with her she’d be a nut case, couldn’t handle it, and would be hounding him, like, forever!
~K

GerrysMesmerizingWoman @ 05/07/2012 at 1:21 pm

Manny, is that you speaking to yourself again? Sad. Really, you need to lower yourself to that?
~K (rolling eyes)

@Manny:

‘Double gloving’ is a bad move, I remember that from my sex-ed class 15 years ago and I believe the advice is still the same today.
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Wearing two condoms can actually cause one/both to rip or tear due to the ‘friction’.

Geez, you guys. I don’t even want to go there in terms of the details. What I meant is, usually with a “star” type, if they are hitting alot of randoms, you will usually see one pop out that tries to get publicity by claiming a pregnancy, and that hasn’t happened with him. I would think as an actor who is “active”, it would always be a risky proposition.

Mondaymonday @ 05/07/2012 at 1:26 pm

@GerrysMesmerizingWoman:

He was in a relationship during TBH with Jeannia Robinette. That’s where they met. I’m saying none of this story is true! What about that do you not get? You need to get a clue and give us all a break.

@Mondaymonday:
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Well who knows… Maybe Gerry was the celebrity claiming horrendous sex with a costar at Coachella…. I’m kidding… I think…
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@Mondaymonday:
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The pill does not prevent STDs so if Gerry is active and not protecting himself and his future partners he should be hung up by the balls. Any man stupid enough to believe a one night stand, being a celebrity, when the woman says I’m on the pill is a first rate fuktard IMO and deserves what he gets.

@niknoks:
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Good point niknoks…
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@Mondaymonday:
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Not if the partner is experienced and careful IMO. Someone who does it often it would seem to me would have the habit and defer from the habit.
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Awwwww GFW… You’re looking a little like a green eyed monster…

GerrysMesmerizingWoman @ 05/07/2012 at 1:34 pm

Okay. I’ll answer (and apologize) No. No he hasn’t avoided any random giving birth. There, happy, satisfied? And, trust me on this okay?
~K
who thinks Manny needs to stop talking to herself for company who really gets off talking about his sex life for some reason, uck

@Manny:
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Oops… Never defer from habit…

Mondaymonday @ 05/07/2012 at 1:36 pm

@question:

Yes, I see your point and I would say that a woman that would pop up and claim G was the baby daddy would have to A produce a pregnancy or B a baby then C the DNA proof. It’s not as easy as you think.

I think if Gerry sticks to pros he’ll be fine. So far, he’s either really lucky or he’s not getting as much as everyone believes.

@GerrysMesmerizingWoman:
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You don’t know anything Kathy… You haven’t been with him 24/7since his first sexual experience so you aren’t credible and are assuming like everyone else. Hell you haven’t even bedded the man in RL… Sheeeesh… BTW, the question wasn’t addressed to you Miss Butinsky…
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@question
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Sorry about GFW… She thinks she owns the place and only those that address her are anyone other than me.

@Mondaymonday: I remember when it happened to Justin Bieber (of all people). Don’t know if that gal was after money or what, but she managed to get alot of media attention for awhile. Sometimes, that’s all they want.

@GerrysMesmerizingWoman:
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We can’t talk about his sex life but you can write Gerry p*rn??? Omg you are a dingbat…

@question:
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True. What was shocking is that she would admit to sex with Bieber…. Ewwwww….

GerrysMesmerizingWoman @ 05/07/2012 at 1:49 pm

@Manny:
No, which proves you sock to have someone to talk to! LOL How pathetic, not to mention demented, twisted and the biggest one, narcissistic.
~K, hoping you enjoy talking to your favorite person, you who knows a tad bit more than you want… but storytelling isn’t the same as judging his condom (or lack thereof) use… how Droid of you… wait… that is what you are a machine, owned property of your “husband” you’re so “happy” with you spent your entire Sunday here!

GerrysMesmerizingWoman @ 05/07/2012 at 1:51 pm

@Manny:
The only one “green eyed” is you, and you know it. ;o) Have a nice day socking! You know, you remind me of my sister who’s best date is herself.
~K

@GerrysMesmerizingWoman:
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Give it a rest GFW. I have a cold. Daytime tv svcks and I was tired of basketball yesterday. Geeeewhiz mommy…
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Boy you really are a jealous little bean aren’t you?

Mondaymonday @ 05/07/2012 at 1:55 pm

The Biebs looks like a 30 year old lesbian to me.

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@Manny:

You responded to me a couple of times and I have no idea what you are responding to. I agree about the pill thing but I was responding to someone talking about pregnancy, not STDs.

Then this:
“Not if the partner is experienced and careful IMO. Someone who does it often it would seem to me would have the habit and defer from the habit.”

Sorry, but I don’t know what you are referring to.

@GerrysMesmerizingWoman:
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Lmao….. Why are you pouncing on other posters if you’re not upset they are not talking to you….

@Manny: I would be very surprised to find he had a pe/en, quite frankly…

@Mondaymonday:
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If you click on your name in the reply it takes you back to the post I was replying to.
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Glad you said what you did about Bieber cuz I was thinking the same thing… First he was always swinging his hair off his face and then the new haircut and he became quite androgynous.

Mondaymonday @ 05/07/2012 at 2:01 pm

@GerrysMesmerizingWoman:

You’re dissing your own blood? What a terrible thing to say about your own sister. Even if she’s the worst person on the planet, you never disrespect family. You don’t get along with anyone, do you?

@Mondaymonday:
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Every time I read your name is hear this… http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=4xqkUu9xIi8

Mondaymonday @ 05/07/2012 at 2:10 pm

@Manny:

It took me back to this one which was a response to GMW.

“He was in a relationship during TBH with Jeannia Robinette. That’s where they met. I’m saying none of this story is true! What about that do you not get? You need to get a clue and give us all a break.”

And you said…

“Not if the partner is experienced and careful IMO. Someone who does it often it would seem to me would have the habit and defer from the habit.”
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Sorry, still don’t get your response.
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Gerry knew Jeannia well before TBH. Remember all the Fashion Week photos of them together? She had that hideous hat in a bag and people kidded it might be a dog. Then a few weeks later TMZ had Gerry, Jeannia and two other women going into a hotel through a revolving door. They kidded that they were about to be Butlerized. That was way before TBH.

@Mondaymonday:
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Oops that was a response for question 299. Sorry about that. I’m using my iPad and not my laptop so I’m making mistakes right and left… Sorry…

GerrysMesmerizingWoman @ 05/07/2012 at 2:27 pm

Jealous of what? Quit with that, it’s makes no sense whatsoever! Jealous of your dull “marriage” (read: life) that has you locked in bored to death so you spend all your time at a Butler gossip site?? Ah, really? No.
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You’re jealous of my independence, freedom, lifestyle, availability (winks) to the man you are obsessed with, oh, and you’re obsessed with me too. Have a nice day. You should give it a rest and go get some, but you’re too narcissistic to do that, huh?
~K
who says my sister thinks anything on-line is fake and not real who is prejudice and judgmental and, yes, we do not get along… you know, like a lot of American families, who adores her brother though!

Mondaymonday @ 05/07/2012 at 2:28 pm

@well…:

Oh yeah. Forgot about that! Hated the hat! He must have known her when he dated that Kris K (arcade girl) back in Nov. 08. Or one was his west coast girl and the other east coast.

Mondaymonday @ 05/07/2012 at 2:30 pm

@Manny:

No problem. Thought I was going to have to tell you to cut back on the Dayquil!

Hollywood Gossiper @ 05/07/2012 at 2:41 pm

@niknoks: Except sometimes tabloids do report “facts” like when Tiger Wood’s house of cards came tumbling down was a combination of reporting by US Weekly and the National Enquirer right before Tiger’s little accident blew the rest of the story wide open.

The National Enquirer repeatedly had stories about Michael Jackson and his substance abuse issues, coming from former employees, that were pooh poohed by the fans as sour grapes.

Do I claim that the National Enquirer and other tabloids have it right even 50 per cent of the time probably not even that. A lot of positive stuff is fed to them by PR people, stuff that is not true either, like X is a great mother, and A& B are blissfully happy in their marriage, why they even renewed their vows after one year, and Y is totally sober after rehab, cough cough. Let’s be real, a lot of celebs or publicists use the tabloids to fight their battles, PR or otherwise, like ugly divorces etc or to get revenge on someone else and the tabloids are happy to accommodate. Many of the tabloids are owned by the same corporation or were, so they just assign different points of views, one tabloid is pro Brandi and another tabloid is pro LeeAnn for example because then they can sell magazines to both camps.

Other stuff often appears to be utter fabrication like Jennifer Aniston and Charlize Theron out to save the Butler. The sad thing is that the National Enquirer does get one thing right, if Butler were really in trouble is there anyone out there who would truly care and help, someone who wasn’t relying on him for their income or party status.

@Hollywood Gossiper:

I agree, they do get it right occasionally but more often than not they get it wrong & a lot of the time blatantly make sh*t up. People tend to remember the stuff they get right because it becomes actual news, nobody remembers the stuff they get wrong because it’s ‘tomorrow’s chip paper’.
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One thing that I have noticed and one thing you touched on, is that the majority of tabloids seem to have alliances with certain PR firms so they will promote their clients and smear their rivals. It makes them all completely unreliable in my opinion. Point in hand CAN Management over here with the (former) News of the World Dan Wooten (their ‘showbiz’ columnist) would actively promote their clients while smearing ex-clients and rivals.
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It’s why I take it all with a pinch of salt and often get accused of being in denial or naive for doing so.

@Mondaymonday:
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You make me giggle…

Hollywood Gossiper @ 05/07/2012 at 3:08 pm

Even with mainstream news sources these days, “facts” seem elusive.

GerrysMesmerizingWoman @ 05/07/2012 at 3:23 pm

Maybe facts don’t sell? Maybe all that sells is gossip. Why? Because then they’re hooked to find out if it is true or not buying hard copies at the check-out line or logging on to sites, like this one, which advertise (the CFC anti-smoking campaign, dog abuse, Crafted In America, etc) for people to click on… it’s all about money! So any PR is, well, PR!
~K

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/07/2012 at 3:35 pm

@GerrysMesmerizingWoman:

I know…. that was my exact thought. I kept waiting for her (KK) to tell some sort of horrific story and then it was like “Um, really? That’s it? Welllll okay then.”. lol I have seen “Jane Eyre” with Michael and Mia. It was the first movie I had ever watched where Fassy was one of the main characters. And it’s the one that made me sit up and say “Who is this guy? He’s really good.”.

I like all of this PR talk. I don’t know much about all of that and it’s interesting to get different takes on the subject.

@niknoks: I would like to hear more about what you do for a living and your take on addiction. I admit that I only have my experiences with myself and certain people I know, to form my opinion. I am most definitely not very well educated on the subject. But I am fascinated by it. Like I am most things regarding the human psyche. I can’t wait to start my psychology class. ;-)

I will say that I love a lot of the discussions on here. Most of which don’t include the G-man. Not that I don’t like the topics on him as well. But how much can be discussed about one person you know?

GerrysMesmerizingWoman @ 05/07/2012 at 3:43 pm

I’d like to see Gerry in a remake of Rebecca.
~K
who thinks had Gerry been the new Rochester he would have given the film an entirely deeper dimension. He’s physically imposing, striking, swoon worthy.
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But at heart of it, is his heart, his hurts, his “chains” holding him back and Gerry could present that better (I think) than Michael. His past, all that would emit from his face, eyes, body language. That man held in check and yet living a separate life visible to society with secrets!
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And not just looks. Seriously, Michael isn’t all that good looking. He does have presence, indeed. He pulled this off well. But the inner turmoil simply didn’t bubble forth when needed. He did, when you watch it again… and please give him attention deserving, emote well. He simply did it his way? It’s a timeless role. A character to be played again. It was a big part for him, it is very sad it did not do better.

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/07/2012 at 3:59 pm

@GerrysMesmerizingWoman:

I don’t really have a type aesthetically, but ya, Michael doesn’t do it for me in the looks department. But some celebs that I like, don’t. There has to be something else, presence like you say, that makes me think them swoon worthy. I’m like that in RL too. I’ve stated before that if there is a really good looking person that opens their mouth and has nothing else to offer, their looks fade immediately.

I don’t really think it’s fair to compare Gerard B. and Michael F. Every actor has their strong points and weak points. And I see one completely different than the other. That’s not a bad thing and that doesn’t mean that one is better than the other.

GerrysMesmerizingWoman @ 05/07/2012 at 4:11 pm

No, wasn’t comparing the two. Sorry if it came over like that, not my intention. I’m working, I mean spamming from work, and am posting rather quickly using (and doctoring) some dialog between me and someone else who saw the same movie. But agreed it was that sit up and take notice of Michael in Jane Eyre. The fireplace scene in particular.
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Not sure it’s looks so much as magnetism, repressed, like the Phantom. She releases it beyond measure like in the fireplace scene. He takes f’n notice of her! I was like, “Damn, who be dat?” (blink-blink) But not like, “Damn, who be dat??” (blink-blink) in Phantom of the Opera, which was altogether a different experience.
~K
who thinks we need a remake of Rebecca and Gerry should be the lead!

GerrysMesmerizingWoman @ 05/07/2012 at 4:16 pm

Need to say facts sell. They do. I was just referring to the current topic in how alluring near facts draw people in.
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And was saying Gerry would have made a great Rochester is all.
~K

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/07/2012 at 4:18 pm

@GerrysMesmerizingWoman:

Ah ok, I hear you. I have felt like that many times on here. It can be difficult to get your opinions across via…..computer, phone, what have you. I will look up “Rebecca”. I’ve never even heard of it! ;)

@Anastasia Beaverhausen: It’s hard to fathom someone who has not heard of Rebecca, one of the great classic novels and films of the 20th Century. Laurnece Olivier, George Sanders and Joan Fontaine starred in the film. It’s been on television when classics are featured, and I have the DVD. I feel sorry for you. Not to know Mrs. Danvers, Maxim DeWinter .. Manderly, on and on. Just wow. Do you live in a third world nation?

God Bless yoou all! @ 05/07/2012 at 5:12 pm

“God blesses those who are humble, for they will inherit the whole earth.” Matthew 5:5

@wow: That kind of floored me too. I have loved Rebecca since I was in junior high school. What a story and what characters. Joan was nominated for an Oscar.

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/07/2012 at 5:16 pm

@wow:

Don’t feel too bad for me. I might have seen it, but will only recognize it once I look it up. I’ve got a very busy life and just don’t think too much on such things. ;)

@Anastasia Beaverhausen: You have such a busy life you don’t know classic, Academy Award winning films,and great books, but you can spend your busy life posting on a Gerry Butler site. Now, what’s wrong with this picture?

big whoop gfw, manny, beaverhose and niknoks on here again today, boring boring boring

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/07/2012 at 5:37 pm

@lol:

Yikes okay, I’m a little shocked that I’m getting beaten down because I don’t remember an old movie that is nowhere near my age range? Yes, it takes me literally 5 minutes to skim posts and post myself. Not sure where this is coming from, but not interested in talking to people that can’t simply hold an intelligent conversation without being ridiculous and wanting to fight. I will make sure I watch the movie okay?

@Anastasia Beaverhausen: Not in your age range? Rebecca is hardly in anyone’s age range who posts here. It was made in 1938-40. It’s a classic that has spanned generations of audiences.Guess you wouldn’t know Shakespeare either cause you weren’t around in the 1500-1600s..

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/07/2012 at 5:56 pm

@sage:

Yes, but I am much more into literature than movies. I’ve only become enthralled in film in the last couple of years. I’m really not going to go back and forth here. I’m too good for that. Have a wonderful night. ;)

bystander @ 05/07/2012 at 6:00 pm

@Anastasia Beaverhausen: don’t feel bad, I’m of a more appropriate age group, but havent sat through the whole film although aware of Mandalay, Du Maurier etc. Same with Wuthering Heights, because for me its always been Jane Eyre and Gone with the Wind!

WO is currently discussing Avi Lerner, so I looked him up. He’s a prolific filmaker alright-of B movies. Never heard of/seen any of them, but from the titles many look like action or straight to dvd dross.

So is Gerrys association a step up for Avi and a step down for Gerry? It’s an association that doesn’t promise a Jane Eyre or shame, so not what I would hope he aspires to. What do you think?

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/07/2012 at 6:15 pm

@bystander:

Thank u! I’m sorry that I brought up the age situation, but I was in shock that I was being attacked for not being aware of a movie. That’s so strange to me! See, I’ve only read Wuthering Heights. It irritated me. Which film version do you suggest I watch? That’s why I love this site. For the ones that don’t only want to bicker, but converse, like normal human beings.

My honest opinion is that Gerard B. most likely worked diligently on MGP, but if he wants the recognition that he and others think he deserves, then he needs to do another dramatic role. An even tougher one. He can do it.

@curious cat:
Hi cc. Congratulations on your daughter’s graduation from medical school. That’s a huge achievement and definitely something to be proud off.
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I remember you pointing out so many times over the years that it’s wise not believe everything we read in the tabloids. You would know as a journalist. Yet, I do remember a couple of months ago you pointing it out again and being accused of a phannie in denial. I LMAO when I read that accusation. It seems everyone with common sense, clear vision, and who refuses to jump to conclusions before proof is supplied is called in denial here. So you’re in good company. I estimate that only 90% of what’s reported in the gossip publications is actually true. The rest is either a direct lie/misinformation, or just greatly embellished, it lost most of its original flavor. Either way is spells falsehood. In my book, if something can’t be directly proven or substantiated with supporting documents that lead to its authenticity, it shouldn’t be accepted as truth. I don’t mind discussing such gossip and I think it should be done within the context of everyone knowing it’s the latest gossip, not the latest truth. What I am against is people who jump to explicit conclusions based on such gossip. I think the people that do that are doing it for emotional reasons. It somehow makes them feel better about their position in RL, like not being able to hook up with GB so they drag him down to make themselves feel better.

GerrysFamousWoman @ 05/07/2012 at 6:19 pm

Hope to see him soon!
~K

@interesting post:
Very interesting post indeed. But I am with “leslie 51” and “Bystander”. I don’t think this “Patty” person knows anything insider, and neither does her supposed friend in the business. I think her whole post, while interesting, is fueled by fan’s hatred for JA, just like they hated LC and his other GF’s. Just as I stated in my above post, I can’t take anything at face value without proof. That goes for fans postings as well as for gossip tabloids. Bottom line is we need substantiating proof before we can believe stories and reports.
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That said, I have to add that GB did appear to be resisting the BF/GF innuendos by saying over and over again that he and Jan are just good friends. Whether or not she and her team were actually putting pressure on him, is not something that we can substantiate from such claims alone. But what I can say is that GB has had a very unlucky period since TBH came out, exactly 2 years ago. It’s been one failure after another. His last success was LAC which made a lot of money, and still going strong in the DVD market. But TBH was an embarrassment. All I am hoping for is that at least he got a BIG chunk of cash for doing it. Then he had MGP, which was not easy to film and which was marred with a lot of controversy both professional and personal, and the movie failed miserably although it is based on a worthy subject. I believe GB lost money on that project and the pressure got to him so he sought solace in substances and hang out with unsavory characters that are into the same self-destructive habits. Unfortunately, Coriolanus hasn’t been a big success in the box office either, but at least it’s been received well by most critics, and now people know he can do well classical material as well. So that’s at least half the battle, and something good came out of this in the end, as always is in GB’s life. Coriolanus is another station on his way to greatness. His part was short but, oh….so noticeable. Let’s hope his newer projects will be both critically and financially successful. I am really wishing him well. I think he’s a good decent person, and a little bit of “playboying” on his part is not something we should hold against him, unless you are jealous of his freedom to have so many ladies.

@niknoks:
“It’s why I take it all with a pinch of salt and often get accused of being in denial or naive for doing so.”
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Don’t worry about it, we all do. If you are fare and want to get to the bottom of something, you are accused of being inn denial. Look on the bright side, at least they haven’t accused you of being a phannie yet. Just kidding of course.

GerrysDaisyDuckChick @ 05/07/2012 at 6:29 pm

From Netflix…
The only Alfred Hitchcock film to win an Oscar for Best Picture, this mystery stars Laurence Olivier as Maxim de Winter, a widower whose hapless second wife (Joan Fontaine) moves into his mansion only to find the memory of his first wife still governs the household. Intimidated by the home’s hostile staff, the living Mrs. de Winter begins to go mad in Hitchcock’s eerie adaptation of Daphne Du Maurier’s Gothic classic.
Genre: Classic Movies, Romantic Movies, Thrillers, Classic Thrillers
This movie is: Dark, Suspenseful, Romantic
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Yes, it is a mystery… something about the boathouse and the first wife’s death? Anyways, I think Gerry would be great in a remake, which was why I mentioned it. If we need remakes, could we at least try to make better the best!
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Not fair to harangue anyone up for having not seen it! Seriously, it was made in 1940. I happen to be a movie buff.
~K, signing off… hoping to wake up to see Gerry in jeans, white tee-shirt, sneakers, some kind of hat, holding his life-line in one hand, and something or other in his right coming or going smiling, frowning, scowling, laughing doesn’t matter….

bystander @ 05/07/2012 at 6:40 pm

@Anastasia Beaverhausen: agree with you about a dramatic (non action) role. Perhaps a ‘classic’.
My favourite Jane Eyre was the early 80s BBC series starring Timothy Dalton. Of course there has been , and can only ever be, one version if Gone with the wind. Shame, as Rhett Butler would have suited gb to a tea-just in the right side of dangerous/sleazy, with a soft heart.
As far as Wuthering Heights view, I don’t think you can ever beat the ckassic original version with Olivier, but I’m no expert. Dalton and Fiennes have done versions too. As you can tell I’m biased toward classic British actors! At times it used to look like Gerry could have been one.

@Reviews:
Sorry, I meant fair. Why not an edit button, JJ?

bystander @ 05/07/2012 at 6:48 pm

@Reviews: Yup, would help get over those embarrassing predictive text mispellings that edge off a small phone screen!

Portrait of Jenny was another good movie. Ethel Barrymore and Joseph Cotton and Jennifer Jones.
River of No Return with Marilyn Monroe and Robert Mitchum, Gerry could have played Mitchum’s part because he has that manly way about him.

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/07/2012 at 6:55 pm

@ugh:

And what would make it interesting for you my dear? I’m guessing……constant bickering or made up rumors.

Thanks Bystander. I’m partial to Ralph Fiennes, so I will look it up and give it a watch.

I’m off now…..have a great evening everyone! ;)

It’s odd how I can watch those old movies over an over like it is the first time I am seeing them. I can’t really say that about most of the current movies, they just don’t have the staying power of some of the classics.

GerrysDaisyDuckChick @ 05/07/2012 at 7:02 pm

I just read the WO “article” (really a post by a ‘guest’) and well, Jen had out Wanderlust (which flopped in a big way) this year so she wasn’t exactly “unemployed”. Besides she’s so much money she’ll never live long enough to spend it. But she’s box-office bomb, not queen.
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This ‘guest’ makes some valid, and very interesting, points. I believe she (Jen) wanted Gerry “delivered” and negotiated well getting him delivered for The Bounty Hunter, but she wanted more. And I think she wanted him, and I mean really wanted him. But Gerry was just there to act, make the money, promote the movie, and press on. Think whatever he made with this allowed him to work on Machine Gun Preacher and Coriolanus in the way wise actors do balancing fluff with labors of love.
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The problem with The Bounty Hunter wasn’t Jen or Gerry (at all) as they clicked, it was the director. It had a lot (the script and story) going for it. I recall promoting it well back then kind of seeing the “message” in the film as I believe Gerry, not only takes a deal, but does have something he wishes to ‘say’ for lack of a better word.
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Milo was a slob and who really wants to see Gerry as one? Some of it was hard on the eyes, but this isn’t Gerry’s fault!
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Fact is, you can’t have a character (Milo) climb into bed with sneakers and think no one will notice. It’s just not possible. Details matter.
~K

GerrysDaisyDuckChick @ 05/07/2012 at 7:09 pm

@lolita:
Dunno, I’ve seen a few more than once for instance: The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel was pretty amazing, and it stars veteran actors! It’s terrific being funny, witty, inspiring, thought-provoking, evocative with an stupendous script.
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But I get your point. I do. And you know why? Subtly. Not in your face sex, graphic dirty jokes, or whatever, because so much is in the complete acting allowing audience participation which is sorely lacking in most American-made films. And point is (above) with Marigold being British-made!
~K

@Anastasia Beaverhausen:
@GerrysMesmerizingWoman:
LOL! I think it’s all about sex. I think it’s an underlying reason for why so many people are fuucked up emotionally and mentally. It’s also what drives us. It’s all in pursuit of sex. The subconscious plays a BIG part in our actions and feelings on the surface.
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Men want to get as many females as possible, so they’ll do anything to get ahead in their profession, increase their power, and move up in society. A man knows females are very attracted to such men. He knows as a we.althy powerful man, he can get a much younger woman if he wants to, or many younger women. GB is a perfect example. Your average ordinate guy plays by the same needs, but he has a little bit less autonomy and freedom to do as much as GB does, so he does whatever he can within his setting and circumstances. Women have the same motives. To attract alpha males, the kind that evolution makes women most attracted to, women will dress and act in a way which they know males are attracted to. They’ll accept certain jobs or act a certain way to attract males. Women are also known for chasing men they want, and for trying to take out the competition from other females. Women are very competitive with each other when it comes to mating. Anyway, in the end, it all boils down to sex. Sex is a major drive for motives for both males and females. And all this is happening behind the scenes on the subconscious level.

@bystander:
I am with you on Gone with the Wind. One of my favorites. GB reminds me so much of both Rhett Butler and Clark Gable. He reminds me more of Gables than he does of Burton. My God, Clark Gable was hot in his day, and still is for a modern woman such as myself still in her early years. The alphaness both of them display is so distinct, it’s hard to find. It’s not alphaness like john Wayne’s alphaness, which is more in your face type. This alphaness is more the charming type. Rhett enjoyed Scarlett not just because she was so beautiful and feminine, but also because he felt she was smart and clever, on his level of wittiness, albeit a woman. He loved sparring with her. The chemistry between them was really magical. And who can forget the scene where he takes her upstairs after they argue and he has one too many? Such a sexy scene without showing us anything. We have to use our imaginations to come up with scenarios of what happens between them. Scarlet’s look of satisfaction in the morning is all we need as evidence lol. Clark Gable, that’s classic alpha.

GerrysDaisyDuckChick @ 05/07/2012 at 7:28 pm

@Reviews:
I still stick to my first opinion that Gerry wasn’t going be bought for something fake (even trying to like her if he felt no urges for her… and he did not) when he might have a potential something real out there somewhere. Hard to explain. But I will admit my sister bought it. I’m proud he didn’t allow it to happen, and feel he’ll snap back with Of Men and Mavericks and Playing The Field, because both are running on different operating systems. Different everything!
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Not too certain I agree with his substance abuse issues, lack of judgment, being connected though as you have it stated. Actually, I’m very certain I don’t. Some connection could be there but not how (I) read you. Think that near death experience and some personal disappointments propelled it more than anything else. That he wasn’t of his right mind kind of thing due to blows to the head, and heart.
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Think, whether either made money or not, Machine Gun Preacher and Coriolanus, were the right movies to make. They established him as a talent, not just a hot dude. He worked with the best. And Machine Gun Preacher had a powerful impact whether people like to acknowledge that or not. It did.
~K

@leslie 51:
“I could quite easily believe that she and Gerry may have remained casual friends regardless of the BS that surrounded them.”
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I thought so too. I don’t think there are bad feelings between them at all. And a lot of it has to do with him being so diplomatic. He has good relationships with everyone and that’s key to working and making lots of movies in HW.

bystander @ 05/07/2012 at 7:47 pm

@Reviews: but can you imagine what todays industry would make of gwtw? An American made for tv mills and boon slush fest with c listers, or a UK sanitised tv miniseries? I’d prefer the latter but I couldn’t see it getting s big budget film epic if a first time project now, unless it was a spielberg. It kind of set the standard for epics.

@GerrysDaisyDuckChick:
“I still stick to my first opinion that Gerry wasn’t going be bought for something fake.”
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I agree because I do think she wanted them to pretend they were an item and he just didn’t want to play ball. Gerry likes his freedom, and he will not be dictated to by anyone or told to pretend when his heart is not in it. What I meant by my post about the issue is that I am not sure I believe the “Patty” person account of what transpired between him and Jan. That’s all.
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Regarding the substance issue, I think he really had a very tough time after he finished filming MGP. Some pressure must have pushed him to start smoking again and abuse drugs, whatever the variety. Maybe because TBH tanked, it sent things in a downward motion. After all, he never had a flop before even if some of his movies didn’t do that well. I think the only reason he got involved with TBH is the money. She must have offered him a lot, otherwise, didn’t he know her track record? All her movies are stupid. Was it a lapse in judgment on his part, kind of the same lapse he had with Brandi? Who knows, and I don’t want to be too judgmental because I am not in his shoes feeling and thinking his life.
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Yes, I agree. Both MGP and Coriolanus weren’t a waste of time at all, and I didn’t infer they were, just that he probably lost money on MGP and that must have contributed to his recent personal troubles. But both of these projects made many people take notice of him even more. Look at how many projects he is being offered?

@GerrysDaisyDuckChick: I agree with you, Gerry needed to do those films to show his acting abilities. He lost his way for a while but he is coming back with stories to showcase his talent.
have a good night GFW.

@bystander:
ITAWY. It will never be on the same level of the 1939 movie. No way in hell. Made for lifetime TV movie more like it. In other words, sh!t!

curious cat @ 05/07/2012 at 7:58 pm

@Anastasia Beaverhausen:

“I’m like that in RL too. I’ve stated before that if there is a really good looking person that opens their mouth and has nothing else to offer, their looks fade immediately.”

Wise words, Beaver! And to take it a step farther, if a good looking man turns out to be really mean and nasty, his good looks start to seem downright ugly. Speaking of how our psyches work!

GerrysDaisyDuck @ 05/07/2012 at 7:58 pm

@bystander:
How about that! Cheers! I’ll leave now for the jeering crowd to march in! Shh, tell no one. As my brother would say, “Hang ten.” <– hoping this is the tag line for Of Men and Mavericks!
~K

bystander @ 05/07/2012 at 8:04 pm

Just read this in a report on the latest lawsuit against John travolta. Yikes!

‘Specifically, John Travolta told my client that Hollywood is controlled by homosexual Jewish men who expect favors in return for sexual activity.’

Source Daily Mail UK.

@bystander:
do you have a link to that article?
I heard J. Travolta was gay but I never believed that. Now he is lashing out against gay producers???

curious cat @ 05/07/2012 at 8:56 pm

Backtracking here several pages, there was some earlier discussion about “old days” on this site and “old timers” who no longer post, or rarely. It brought back some memories and you wonder… how long ago was THAT?

Some sites allow posters the option of communicating with another poster privately–but still anonymously–through the site. JJ doesn’t seem to have this feature.

But it’s one I like. It allows you to contact someone if you want to pursue a topic other posters aren’t interested in, or contact someone on a thread you come to late which is pretty much dead. I go to a lot of different sites on work-related topics and personal interests and hobbies…

This is the only site I post on that has anything to do with Mr. Butler, have never joined a fansite or anything.

Anyway, it’s been fun at time to find messages from someone on an old thread wanting to ask a question, give me information or respond to something I may have said about a topic a few months or even a year ago! :) Anything from news to music to travel in other places.

Unfortunately, I don’t keep up with organizing and cleaning out my inboxes very well. After the discussion here, I was reminded that I had seen some old messages between me and Manny from another site while trying to clean out my files. How long ago? When was that? When I searched again I found the correspondence goes back to November, 2009–two and a half years ago! And I know we were both posting on JJ for quite awhile before that exchange, at least a year or more.

Some of us have been here a long time–probably TOO long! :) This does not, as some people have suggested, mean we are part of some “gang.” Just been around long enough to feel we sort of know each other.

I often think this site is as much about the posters as it is about GB. If people never talked about anything else, I wouldn’t find it anywhere near as interesting as it gets. I would just like to see less bickering. :)

He looks really good. This is going to be a busy evening with all the photos and articles.
http://twitter.com/#!/WorldMcQueen/status/199667524483297280/photo/1

angelsrock @ 05/07/2012 at 9:27 pm

I am so glad that I popped in here tonight. Dayum that man should live on the red carpet!! Thanks for the links, Info and NYC!!

Watch the Met Gala Red Carpet Live
http://www.vogue.com/

@Reviews: It’s only an allegation, which means someone’s suggesting it, travolta or the masseuse.

http://m.dailymail.co.uk/mobile/tvshowbiz/article.html?articleID=2140978

New met ball thread.

Disconcerting, because when you search for gb, the result above this, and below the latest, thread has Whitney’s photo, also looking good. Just shows a red carpet appearance may not reflect what’s going on in real lives.

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/07/2012 at 10:38 pm

@curious cat:

Thanks doll! And you are very much right. Anyone can start looking downright ugly when they are indeed ugly on the inside.

Well I’ve decided that this isn’t really the place for me. After getting bashed for not knowing a movie (out of jealousy or whatever), that was too ridiculous for me. I also think i’m just not enough of a super fan for it all. So goodbye to all the greats here. I don’t want to list anyone specifically as to not to insult others that I may forget. Mwah, be as happy and positive as you can, love your family and friends, be nice to anyone that you can and don’t forget the belly laughs! :-D

Love,

Miss Beaverhausen

Take care, Ana. Always enjoyed your posts – sad to see you go, but completely understand why.

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/07/2012 at 11:29 pm

@Uh..:

Thanks Uh. I enjoy your posts as well. I will linger here when I have the time to read the posts that interest me, but will skip the mindless banter however. No one speaks to me like that in RL, I see no reason to tolerate it on here.
Take care too……;)

curious cat @ 05/08/2012 at 12:44 am

@Anastasia Beaverhausen:

Beaver…this really isn’t the place for any of us. I know that. But don’t announce giving up on it..some of us do that and come back. Ffor God’s sake, getting bashed for not knowing a movie? I Iwasn’t familiar with the movie either. And I’ve been bashed for other things. It’s stupid. some of us try to make it cordial here but it never seems to work.I’d like to give you a safe place to comment but it’s not in front of me this minute. So please come back tomorrow or the next day. There are kinder sites around.

@Anastasia Beaverhausen: Ana B, sorry to hear you are leaving, quite understandable but still sad to hear it. Loved your posts and your positive outlook on life. Take care and God Bless♥

GerrysDaisyDuck @ 05/08/2012 at 7:44 am

Why are you going to let some font on a cyber page dictate what you do? A real question. If I did that back in 2005 things would not be as they are now. I like how things are now. I’m on the map, and proud of it. ;o)
~K

Can'tGetEnough @ 05/08/2012 at 8:40 am

@Anastasia Beaverhausen: A.B, don’t leave! I had never heard of the movie either! Who gives a rat’s behind what some of these people say! So they bash you for not being familiar with a movie? Just imagine all the things YOU know, that they DON’T—-like how to treat another human being with respect, for starters!!
Some of them will grasp at anything to put others down. Ignore them. You are way better! Hope you’ll reconsider. I’d miss you and your posts! You are an asset to us all!

GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck @ 05/08/2012 at 9:20 am

@Can’tGetEnough:
Right.
@lolita:
No disrespect but I don’t agree it’s “understandable.
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Fact. If I let everyone whose tried to run me off, or steal my joy — like they’re doing you — I’d been gone long ago! Hell, no, don’t let “them” win. My guess is it’s just one person socking and jealous you’re liked so much and have a joy-driven personality.
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Face the facts, we don’t really have many here. Why look how Manny left and so did her supporter? Odd? No, reality. Do the math. It is what it is. But if you want to go, then go.
~K

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/08/2012 at 10:24 am

You girls are so sweet. GFW: you crack me up “just go then!”. haha But it’s not that I’m letting someone win or run me off. I just don’t like the negativity of things like that. I mean, really, that’s all they had to bash me on? Talk about grasping at straws. It was just so ridiculous to me. I was baffled. And it was obviously out of jealousy (and I hate saying that too). Just made me realize that no matter how nice you are on here, ignorant, immature people are going to try and fight with you. And I’m too feisty to simply ignore at times. I have enough stress going on in RL with school and still mourning my Mom. Plus, I also feel like I don’t have that much to say when it comes to Gerard B. and I know that upsets some as well. I will say that he looks damn good in a suit! He should wear one all the time. haha Okay, I will come back on, here and there. But ONLY because of the people I like on here. And I will do my best to ignore insults thrown my way. You know, in case there’s another classic that I haven’t seen. ;-)

Hollywood Gossiper @ 05/08/2012 at 11:36 am

@GerrysDaisyDuckChick: I wholly disagree that Butler and Aniston had chemistry on screen in the Booty Hunter. .They had more chemistry off screen. IMO he had more on screen chemistry with Heigl and even Swank and perhaps Michelle Monahan. The best chemistry on screen was with Lena Headley and Emily Mortimer. Oh and the chick who played Lucy Sullivan. So glad to see Emily joining the US cable TV series and looking fabulous too. Her career just keeps chugging along.

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