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Gerard Butler - Met Ball 2012

Gerard Butler - Met Ball 2012

Gerard Butler walks the red carpet at the 2012 Met Ball held at the Metropolitan Museum of Art on Monday (May 7) in New York City.

The 42-year-old Scottish stud suited up in Alexander McQueen.

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Gerard is in the Big Apple after spending time in Los Angeles, where he recently attended a birthday bash for hotelier Jason Pomeranc. Other celebs, including Tom Welling, Michelle Trachtenberg, and Gabriel Aubry, came out for the party held at Caulfield’s inside the Thompson Hotel in Beverly Hills.

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# 2

he looks nice. he wen’t on a date with my cousin’s friend like 5 years ago. lol

# 4

the tie is too small..

# 5

I love to see gerry all cleaned up and looking charming he sure cleans up well !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! looking good gerry

# 6

Didnt even notice tie was too small and your cousins friend was lucky kiki

# 7
curious cat @ 05/07/2012 at 10:15 pm

Something told me today as I posted on the last that there would be a new thread in hours if not minutes. Attila-Leo still wears a tux well, no matter how many fans criticize his usual schlepping around on the streets garb.

I have an idea I got an invitation to this ball—I am not joking!–but it may have been Metropolitan some other ball in New York. It’s a very metropolitan place, New York! I will be in nearby cities and may well end up in NYC on my forthcoming trip this week but it’s too late to make that ball even if it was the right invitation. Drat it.

Honestly, if you are 1) a journalist, however obscure and 2) make an effort to support the arts, however small, and if it’s a fundraiser they will scratch the woodwork and even the humblest of us can get invited to these things if we fork over some moolah. Where I live, I am actually listed as a supporter of a certain classical music organization along with a European Prince and Princess. I often wonder how much P & P donate compared to my neglible contributions. But we get equal status on their list of donors. LOL. Maybe it includes anyone who gives more than $1 a year. I don’t know.

It would be strange to end up at an event like that and find GB there. If I’d known and it was the right ball I would have tried to make it if the cost wasn’t prohibitive just so I could ask him some questions and give a full report here, peeps. : ) Have a great week.

# 8
curious cat @ 05/07/2012 at 10:18 pm

Kiki, tell us a bit more without revealing confidences.Your cousin’s friend lives where? NYC? LA? Scotland? This board likes details, Kiki.

# 9

Looking good gerry.

I had gut feeling he would be there.

He cleans up well, but he looks sad in those pics, imo.

@kiki:
yeah tell us some details. what happened between them? did they go out only once?

The Noise In The Walls @ 05/07/2012 at 10:57 pm

No one rocks a tux like Gerry!! Lookin GOOD..:)..Hope he has a good time in the Big Apple..

curious cat @ 05/07/2012 at 11:05 pm

@The Noise In The Walls: ‘

HEY, you;ve been around awhile. We were talking about oldtimers on this board and your name has been here awhile even if you haven’t. Greetings.

He does anything he can for charity. But he given us great eye candy. He is rocking that suit. British designer too.

someone had to say it @ 05/08/2012 at 12:14 am

Yet another vapid shallow event for shallow vapid people to attend

Flaunting their meaningless lives in their fancy clothes, puffed up like peacocks on display for insecure people to admire,

Can’t stand these events where celebrities fawn all over each other, as if they are above all us commoners

Gerard no doubt chasing tail, spinning his near death experience for the hundredth time, trying to avoid all the starlets he bedded and didn’t call back.

age showing @ 05/08/2012 at 12:37 am

His face is weird here, pudgy and puffy back to the 2008 TUT time.

Flavofthemin @ 05/08/2012 at 12:38 am

@Cara: Sure. Anything. Going to lavish parties to get some more candy in the name of charity. Do not put him in any legit sphere of giving. Mgp was to push his boundaries as an actor only. He spends way too much in nightclubs to really understand selfless sacrifice..

@someone had to say it: I agree completely. These people have nothing better to do than get dressed up, pose for pics, and promote themselves over and over again. What is the point, except self-promotion?

Flavofthemin @ 05/08/2012 at 12:48 am

Honestly, does anyone truly believe this type of celeb would pay 25k for this event. Maybe when he was climbing to get into the in crowd. Wintours probably wanted him there.

Discount charity

Especially in these times when millions of U.S. citizens are out of work. So I wish GB the best. Time to mix with the elite.

@1007 give us some details.

Very handsome! :-)

Ciao, lovelies!

Emma

GerrysDaisyDuck @ 05/08/2012 at 7:35 am

Kind of feel anytime celebrities lends their names, and hard earned cash, to charity events, whichever they are, it’s a good thing. But that’s just me.
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Gerry looks proud and glad to be there, not to mention very handsome as if he smells really good. Hope he enjoyed himself!
~K

Can'tGetEnough @ 05/08/2012 at 8:25 am

All of the pics compiled here and some close-ups too, courtesy of GALS:

http://gbgalsgallery.com/v/partiesetc/2012/costume050712/

GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck @ 05/08/2012 at 9:04 am

@Can’tGetEnough:
Impossible conversations is right! How? But it’s about the energy, the camaraderie and joint efforts to help out!
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Lovin’ the one with the dude with he radio (?) about his neck. No, I really do.
~K

GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck @ 05/08/2012 at 9:14 am

Another thing, good to see him with Adrien even if Adrien look like he’s been on a bad road for 5 years! Lord, seems like the good life is the worst thing for ya! Three words: John Lennon, Imagine. Someone write a screenplay and script so Adrien can play John’s last week (and Gerry Harry Nilsson) please so he can bring back the night the music died, for real this time–and they both win Oscars? Thank you.
~K

Flavofthemin @ 05/08/2012 at 9:18 am

@GerrysDaisyDuck: If this party was called the Donald Duck Ball, gb would attend.

GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck @ 05/08/2012 at 9:22 am

@Flavofthemin:
And that bothers you why?
~K

Flavofthemin @ 05/08/2012 at 9:27 am

@GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck: good looking and tux. Narcistic.

Truth hurts.

GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck @ 05/08/2012 at 9:35 am

@Flavofthemin:
Eh? Not picking you up? How’s that answer my question?
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Think the only truth that hurts is you haven’t the 25K to donate, spend, use to your own devises, so you’re bitter, smug and resentful of those who can. How’s that for a truth that hurts?
~K
who thinks Adrien looks like he’s been on five years of bad road who hopes his next film does well who thinks he was awesome as Salvador Dali in Midnight in Paris

Handsome man. It’s a fund-raiser, so what’s so terrible about it? At least it isn’t public fawning on TV like the Oscars.

Did you see Matthew Fox got arrested for DUI. I remember a time on here when some posters were holding him up as an example of what GB should be. Seems we Gerry fans have the last laugh.

curious cat @ 05/08/2012 at 10:21 am

Sorry, folks, I apologize. I saw coverage on TV and this is clearly NOT the event I was invited to. The fashion biggie. I don’t want to mispresent myslf, even on an anonymous board. Onward.

GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck @ 05/08/2012 at 10:44 am

Feel it necessary to remember these events keep tons of people employed! The list is so long it’s impossible to compile. It is also very good for the economy in general, which is making a comeback.
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And it is good for networking, reuniting with old friends and a chance to make new or meet some of those stars you’ve always wanted to, and of course, the charity.
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It’s also keeping Gerry out of a club for a night so that should make some happy!
~K

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/08/2012 at 10:48 am

CC, CGE, lolita and GFW, I left you a post on the last thread. Gawd I have to say, he really really rocks a suit. And how much do you love that old dude with the radio(?) around his neck in that pic with Gerard B.?? Love it. Have a great day JJer’s. :)

Another ball and Prince Butler without his Cinderella.

@radarlove
Seems Gerry did have a “Cinderella” last night.

http://www.corbisimages.com/Search#g=%22Gerard+Butler%22&cat=19&p=1&sort=2

Gotta admit, he looks nice, not hot like he used too, but he looks good cleaned up!

He's dating someone @ 05/08/2012 at 12:40 pm

so Gerry had a date last night lol
Corbis wouldn’t let you see the pictures

@He’s dating someone:
she is ugly and looks like one of the house wives. Scroll down to see her. looks 40+ nothing special, but at least she is blonde for a change.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2141334/Met-Gala-2012-Emma-Stone-damsel-distress-frock-rips-Ball-party.html

@FYI:

Maybe you’re looking at a different photo but there is only one with GB and the woman with him looks nice but definitely not blonde, it’s more light brown with maybe some lowlights.

GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck @ 05/08/2012 at 1:07 pm

Name in photo caption as his “companion”. Must be a something going on between them to bring her to an industry event. That’s a big deal. [read: wife potential] No wonder she’s smiling from ear to ear.
~K

Any guesses as. To who this miight be? She looks familiar. She is very attractive a real women for a change.

@niknoks:
Yes, her hair is more brown than I thought.
There are other pictures but you can’t view them.
Maybe someone else knows how to get them

Companion means just what it says it doesn’t say girlfriend just yet. Besides this woman came out of nowhere. I think he new her for a while.

lol, WO thinks she is married to someone else becuase they think they saw her in other pictures from earlier this year with another man.
Crazy women, how do they know it’s her?
I guess, anything to make themselves feel better.
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@cupccake:
She looks older than most of his previous women I suppose, so maybe not a date after all.

GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck @ 05/08/2012 at 1:42 pm

It must be an engagement ring then? Or pre-engagement? Face it, companion is not a guest. Companion suggests history. She meets type as well. Tall, lean, not pale in skin, hair or eyes. Well dressed, poised, elegant and comfortable in the environment… and beside him marking a first in years.
~K

hoboalicious @ 05/08/2012 at 1:44 pm

Could that be the Chopra girl? It doesn’t really look like her. Sorry, but I don’t like that dress at all.

He's dating someone @ 05/08/2012 at 1:46 pm

@GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck:
So now you think Gerry is engaged?
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Hard to believe, no?

GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck @ 05/08/2012 at 1:49 pm

No, don’t think for one moment he’s engaged. That was a sample of how contagion works!
Cheers!
~K

realitycheck @ 05/08/2012 at 1:54 pm

since y’all are so snarky about Mr. Butler’s women really he should avoid all the tanned white girls because that = leather skin, much like he’s getting, when they hit 40 unless of course that’s tan in a bottle or spray tanning. Now the girls with natural melatonin, go for it.

GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck @ 05/08/2012 at 1:56 pm

@cupccake:
Of course he knew her for a while to show up at a ball! Not the kind of first date place at all!
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Reported by press as companion, not guest. It is what it is, his companion for the evening. But then she’s off and about comfortable in that environment, what I call a “smart party” while he chums with Adrien, etc. How perfect… what a lucky lass indeed.
~K
thinkin’ by the smile on her face she is well aware of that!

It’s Roshi Kamdar

realitycheck @ 05/08/2012 at 1:59 pm

Mystery solved, next topic. What party next oh Butler.

no one puts baby in the corner @ 05/08/2012 at 2:00 pm

looks like gerry was playing seek and find with her bo.obs before they arrived, top of her dress seriously askewed and fugly.

yep, she looks like a cheeto tanned/ italian/ possibly brazilian/ po.rn queen. definately his type.

no one puts baby in the corner @ 05/08/2012 at 2:11 pm

ok iranian and married to an opera singer, i was close, lol.

still a fug dress though!

Bright and Cheerful @ 05/08/2012 at 2:11 pm

She is a friend of opera singer Vittorio Grigolo who is also shown with Gerry.

jump to conclusion too soon @ 05/08/2012 at 2:12 pm

How do you know if the media got the “companion” part right? Could she be an acquaintance stopping by for a chat when they started snapping photos of them? All the rest of the time G was alone in the pics.

Roshi Kamdar (she is Iranian) is married to tenor opera singer Vittorio Grigolo (?) wsho used to be in the pop group Il Divo. She used to be a real estate agent in LA and gave it up when she got married. – So I understand.

GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck @ 05/08/2012 at 2:18 pm

@Bright and Cheerful:
But she’s listed as his companion! And… she gets to feel the benefit! No wonder she’s smiling ear to ear!
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Imagine it… the night is just starting. Dressed to the 9′s, on her dime or his, head to toe in luxury, sparkling jewels, hair, make-up perfect, glittering skin, arrives like a princess, meets and greets Hollywood’s elite, has photo taken with the best dressed man there, is able to hold her own at a (very) “smart party” with the best part most likely hasn’t a clue about this place! Hell, who wouldn’t be high on the night!
~K

hoboalicious @ 05/08/2012 at 2:23 pm

She’s married. Another diversionary tactic. There’s nothing to see here, people.

GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck @ 05/08/2012 at 2:24 pm

LOL… Rat’s, I was likin’ my fairy tale! So why is she listed as his “companion”? Hollywood, and it’s games, are strange… as in very.
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Well, she’s a stunner for certain and (if married) he’d be lucky to have her, and my guess is so is Vittorio. She’s someone to stand up straight beside! Hope he had fun! I do. He looked like he did. His come hither look in one shot is my new desktop. (fanning face) LOL
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Doesn’t Gerry have a Persian project on the stove? Is she a consultant perhaps? Lent for the night for to pick her pretty brain, after the “smart party” of course.
~K
who knows a thing or two about Iranian women and they LOVE this kind of event and circumstances… never met one who wasn’t addicted to luxury

Bright and Cheerful @ 05/08/2012 at 2:26 pm
GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck @ 05/08/2012 at 2:29 pm

I hated “The Vow” **spoilers ahead** she never remembers who he is but they fall in love again (we’re fed), but prefer to see it pimped in the margins rather than the lung cancer CFC drive. Sorry, just needed to say that. Being shamed, or made to feel guilty, into giving is a turned off to me.
~K
who sees a Fassbender dot with Gerry with (the name) McQueen (designer) and thinks he isn’t spray painted tan it’s the over development or lighting as the others show a more wholesome palette

GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck @ 05/08/2012 at 2:32 pm

@Bright and Cheerful:
It’s almost too glamorous. Know what I mean? Seriously how much of the $25K goes to the charity after paying for the event? No wonder they ask for $25K so at least something gets to the intended! Cheese and crackers!
~K

God Bless yoou all! @ 05/08/2012 at 3:03 pm

“Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope.” Romans 5:3-4 (

@GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck:
“So why is she listed as his “companion”? ”
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Another instance of not believing everything we read, get it? You, me, Niknoks, CC,and a few others have been saying this forever and are called in denial or Phannies. Here is just another example of that.

I rest my case!

@GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck:
Good point. This is a very expensive event; just the venue costs a fortune. So no wonder they are asking for $25,000. Trust me it’s peanuts for some of these people. It’s a very “affordable” event lol.

@FYI:
“she is ugly and looks like one of the house wives…… looks 40+ nothing special”
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I knew right away she can’t be his date. Too old for him. I agree she looks 40+. But she is pretty for a 40+, and definitely much prettier than the 40+ that hang out here. Obviously, she is better quality than most 40+ year olds. She is well pampered, although the gray/silver doesn’t look good for her skin color. She would have done much better with warm colors, like dark blue or deep burgundy for example.
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@GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck:
I agree, Persian women are somewhat old fashioned and very feminine and they love luxuries. There is a huge community of Persians in exile in LA and many are into real estate. I would say she is well off on her own, not necessarily through her husband.

and here we go again... @ 05/08/2012 at 3:48 pm

A lovely woman, married to someone else, happens to be in the same shot as Gerard Butler. Instantly they are dating, long-term, engaged, planning to be married, consulting on his next film. Maybe she’s already had tea with his mumsy. Do some of you even read what convoluted fantastical rubbish you write? At least it’s good for a laugh. And FYI she’s lovely, and her dress is too. GB should be thrilled that an attractive and respectable woman would be willing to be photo’d with him, given his current reputation.

The Noise in The Walls @ 05/08/2012 at 3:56 pm

No Kidding “here We Go Again”..#83..all Gerry has to do is walk next to any woman and instantly they are an item?..Who flippin cares?..I’m only scanning here to see if there are any worthy film projects coming up..
btw, thanks for the “greetings” Curious Cat :)..Yeah I scan here from time to time..Have a great week JJer’s..

curious cat @ 05/08/2012 at 3:56 pm

@Reviews:

Well said, Reviews and thank you. I try not to take this board seriously but it flipped my wig when someone calle me “in denial” because I said I didn’t buy the porta-pottie story, so ladies, don’t get so upset and lose your bloomers over it, we don’t know that it happened, there was no solid evidence and btw, why should we even care, dignify the rumor or skewer this actor over a rumor? If he is really another Charlie Sheen or Tiger Woods it will come out in time. Stars bake their own cakes.

I’m no paragon meself and try not to skewer people for mistakes in judgment. I’ve made my share. I do have a problem with John Edwards, a presidential aspirant in my country who screwed and had a baby with a campaign worker while his wife was dying of cancer,denied the whole thing, paid the mistress out of campaign donor funds and still smirks around insisting he did nothing wrong even while he is on trial and go go to prison. His wife divorced him in the the midst of her agony.

Butler so far is small potatoes in the world of wrongdoing that we have no proof he even does.Thats not dennial. It’s simply stick to the facts.

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Workinoffice @ 05/08/2012 at 4:03 pm

The More famous gets compd to be there.

curious cat @ 05/08/2012 at 4:08 pm

@Workinoffice:
I get the message. I have many times been comped, not for being famous, but for being a journo expected to promote them. Some of us don’t take payoffs.

GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck @ 05/08/2012 at 4:09 pm

@LOL:
Sorry, don’t think she’s “too old for him” at all. When he turns serious, she’ll be age appropriate… in my opinion anyways. He needs someone he can talk to. Share a history with. Not someone who was in nappies when he was filming Attila.
~K

To lol and fyi I can’t believe you think this women is ugly. She is very attractive and carrie herself well. I never assumed they were dating just wanted to know who she was that’s all.

GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck @ 05/08/2012 at 4:11 pm

@and here we go again…:
Too cowardly to address me, why? Hey, I took the bait planted by the press!
Have a nice day.
~K

GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck @ 05/08/2012 at 4:15 pm

My guess is Gerry could just be waking up… right about now. A long night after coming in from the west coast, to be up all night (for the most part) smiling, which is exhausting. Talking with his mates, and all. Then having them over to that soulful loft of his… okay, I’m making myself jealous.
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Just think, however fun, those events are stressful but I think he, getting invited, was happy tired at the end of it… how to top it? Such a star-studded even!
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Maybe he and Adrien are hanging out in town or will hit the streets tonight? He is a good friend of his in the industry as said on the Howard Stern show. I liked his list of others too. ;o)
~K

Whatshedonenow @ 05/08/2012 at 4:19 pm

Not sure if he is actually with her. But if he  is ….OMG!  I’m in shock  he finally takes a woman out in public.   Even though he’s not really showing the poor girl any gentlemanly protective affection. Oh well it’s a start. Baby steps eh…

She’s a lovely  looking woman….If he is with her.

At  last the man finally  sees the light, and realises  no one gives a two  shi/tes  if he squires his women around, out in public. 

Guess someone’s been reading this site. Hmmmmmm.

justsayin'too @ 05/08/2012 at 4:24 pm

I think she is pretty. But it seems the paps got it wrong since she is married to the opera singer. She was standing near him so they jump on it as if she was “with” him. Hopefully, Mr. B will get up the courage soon to take a date out in public, I think most of his fans would be happy for him to be seen with an attractive woman. The problem is he seems to like very unattractive women if his past hook-ups are any indication. LOL

Whatshedonenow @ 05/08/2012 at 4:27 pm

Oh I thought the body language was a bit odd. Oh well, we live in hope.

GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck @ 05/08/2012 at 4:29 pm

Okay, I’ve peaked my own interest. When and how and under what circumstances did Gerry meet Adrien? How long have they known each other? Will they ever work together? If so, in what kind of movie? What are their common denominators or interests? Does Adrien get him well? If so, how long did that take? What did Gerry think of The Pianist? Do they talk ‘shop’ or is it about male bonding? Do you think they’re watching movies on his fancy-smancy home system? If so, what? Old movie or something new? Have they both dates with them or is it time for brothers and kindred spirits? Is he even hanging out with Adrien? If not, why not? Did he fly back west? How’d he escape LAX under radar? DamnItRose, I want to know something! (enter pounding on desk emoticon)
~K
wondering why no rants on his being: 1) near booze; 2) availability to score/do drugs; 3) the seedier part of NYC (where Shame was shot) for a ‘fix’ –cos you know so many think he’s a sex addict; 4) that Adrien could be considered ‘bad company’

GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck @ 05/08/2012 at 4:33 pm

@Whatshedonenow:
Don’t bet on it in the way you think, but it is for to see if anyone says too much. Not me of course, I know nothing! :o)
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Body language? Eh? From one photo?! Heavens. Really?
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Hey, remember the shots with BC and him when they used to date? The body language always showed them non-aligned.
~K

The woman in the photo is Roshi Kamdar, married to Vittorio Grigolo. Roshi and her husband came to the Met Gala together. Gerry and Vittorio are in photographs together. The woman’s husband was at the event and photographed with Gerry.
http://www.gettyimages.com/detail/news-photo/gerard-butler-and-vittorio-grigolo-attends-the-after-party-news-photo/144023933

@cupccake:
No, I didn’t say she is ugly; just nothing special.
I did say she is attractive for a 40 + woman. I think I was honest.

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@GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck:
You don’t know what kind of woman Gerry will end with, so to say she is going to be age appropriate is more like your wishful thinking. I think she will be at least 15 years younger, which will be like 27. That’s not a very young woman, is it? And that’s if he settles down now, at age 42. Let’s say he settled down at age 45, she will be around 30. That’s definitely not a child.
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Being that GB is a celebrity and not your average Joe, why should he settle down with a 45-years old? Who are you kidding, yourself? Any younger woman will take him. Now, if he were your average Joe, maybe then I’ll believe it, since an average Joe can’t do better. However, women are falling all over Gerry left and right, women much younger than himself, so why would he choose a woman in her 40s? I don’t know many men that will, so why would you think Gerry is any different? Just food for thought.

Whatshedonenow @ 05/08/2012 at 4:35 pm

GFW

Because are still in shock over the mistaken thought that he might have taken a woman out in public.

Food for Thought @ 05/08/2012 at 5:16 pm

@LOL:
“Just food for thought.’
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Brace yourself. GFW often thinks she knows every move Gerry will make, and every feeling he feels. For instance, a few weeks ago she was arguing with someone that Gerry doesn’t mind being called gay. The other person told her that he would mind if he isn’t really gay because it has to do with his identity. No one wants to be thought of something they are not. It’s just human nature. GFW continued to insist that he wouldn’t mind.
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Fast forward 2 weeks and someone asks GFW if she is a lesbian by any chance. She insisted she isn’t and became very defensive, angry, and insulting. Wow, what a hypocrite. How could she claim he wouldn’t mind when she herself minds? Maybe she doesn’t know herself as well as she thought she did and that question caught her by surprise? Either way, she is not qualified to be analyzing anyone. She should first know herself – her personality – her feelings and motives – before she starts to make assertions about other people’s personalities. Or maybe she puts Gerry on a higher pedestal, giving him some tans-human powers, when she herself acts in a very humanly manner. Or maybe she is just a dreamer. She knows jack
sh!t about the guy, and most of her evaluations and conclusions about the man are totally wrong. But mind you, you can’t tell her she is wrong. She‘ll just lash out and attack because she doesn’t know how to accept criticism with politeness and explain her position in a civilized manner. She can’t play nice.
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So I wouldn’t take at face value anything GFW says about Gerry. She doesn’t known what kind of woman he’ll end up with, just like she doesn’t know if Gerry wouldn’t mind if the tabloids alleged he was gay. I know GFW didn’t like being called gay, so I would assume most people wouldn’t like it either if they weren’t gay. That makes more sense than GFW musings and know-it-all attitude. I also think none of us knows for sure who he’ll end up with in the end, but your assessment that she will probably be younger than him because he is such an eligible bachelor could definitely be the case. He is really not in the status of most other men, so we can’t expect him to make a predictable choice. But again, no one is sure. For all we know he could end up with a girl that isn’t even his “type“. Maybe he’ll end up with a short blonde girl, and not a tall brunette. That’s also a possibility. Time will tell.

WhatTheF? @ 05/08/2012 at 5:17 pm

@LOL: Why do u ALWAYS act like the ONLY thing men measure a woman’s worth on is her age? You are absolutely OBSESSED with age (and only when it comes to women!)
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WHY?
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And don’t even bother with the “you must be an old hag, Butler wouldn’t touch you anyway”. I’ve heard it before from you…directed at anyone who dares challange you…..

Well lol daniel craig 45 rachael weiz 42, jennifer anniston 42 justin theroux 40 not average joes age appropiate it can happen.

GerrysFamousWoman @ 05/08/2012 at 5:27 pm

I stand behind my personal opion, that I’ve a right to have, that Gerry would not mind being calld gay. Why? He does not consider it a slur or something bad. Have a nice day.
~K

I'll say it instead @ 05/08/2012 at 5:35 pm

@WhatTheF?:
“you must be an old hag, Butler wouldn’t touch you anyway”. ”
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Yes, that’s what you probably are. Everyone is old on the Butler thread. You are all old so you think old is the way he’ll go.
So transparent. LOL has you all nailed.

WhatTheF? @ 05/08/2012 at 5:40 pm

@I’ll say it instead: Yeah…….31 is REALLY old. Now, TRY to answer my question in an intelligent fashion. Or are you capable of that? I guess I shouldn’t hold my breath….

byebyebye @ 05/08/2012 at 5:52 pm

There are no comments on these GB threads that is very inciteful anymore. Just like the man.

Just the lure of a photograph- smokin’ in the tux.

GerrysFamousWoman @ 05/08/2012 at 6:10 pm

@WhatTheF?:
Exactly. This is the same woman I replied to in another thread. This place, and her addition for her object of desire is an IV drip as relief from her boring life. This “cougarsrule“.
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Her emotional satisfaction takes place in her head that she controls in a place of fantasy. That way she feels power and control. This cocoon-like compartment – this place – is like alchol for a drunk. Her binge posts bring her closer to her obsession – Gerry. Fantasy has become her drug of choice. She does not like me.
~K

@I’ll say it instead:
“LOL has you all nailed.’
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I do.
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@WhatTheF?:
Correction! I said 30 is not a young girl and I think he will end up with a women in her late 20s early 30s category. I never said 31 is old, unless you think I was implying it which only makes you very touchy on the subject. BTW, to someone in her late 40s early 50s, I am sure 31 seems verrrrrry young lol.

@FYI: That’s one of his friends’ wives. On GALS they have her name which is Roshi and she’s married to Vittorio Gringalo. Isn’t that the same guy who was having him try his cape? If that’s the case, Gerry is not on a date but came with Vittorio and Roshi.

@FYI: She’s not his date but the wife of his friend Vittorio Gringalo. Her name is Roshi. Go on GALS they give her name there. I doubt Vittorio would allow his wife to go solo on a date with Gerry so my guess Vittorio is also there and could be the guy with the cape.

@Bright and Cheerful: Yes and they give her name as that of her husband in there. She’s married.

After all the nastiness when he brought BC to the EJ Party, I think he has learned to keep the real GF out of sights. This one is safe as she’s the wife of his friend and I think the friend came to the Met Gala too, the guy with the cape. She’s beautiful in any case and I hope he learned his lesson about playing around with married women.

@Bright and Cheerful: Sorry but she’s not a friend of Vittorio but his wife. They say so on GALS and the ring on her finger is not an engagement ring but a wedding band as in some cultures there is no engagement ring given.

readupthread @ 05/08/2012 at 6:27 pm

@Met Him: This has been mentioned several times on this thread already. Her identity was posted here hours ago…

@Bright and Cheerful: I was right. Vittorio is the man who allows Gerry to wear his cape at some point.

Yes, Gerry bought the rights to The Septembers of Shiraz which was written by an Iranian writer.

I don’t picture Gerry getting engaged anytime soon. Why would he when he can get the milk for free?

WhatTheF? @ 05/08/2012 at 6:29 pm

@LOL: Fool! I’m 31, so u don’t have me “nailed” as a “hag” or anything else. Once AGAIN, answer my original question, if u even can. Or are u too much of a simple minded dummy?

@GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck: Well said. If he keeps showing up with 20-something, eventually somebody who’s not into actors will ask the girl if she took her grandfather to that event! There’s nothing more pathetic than a guy who can be his own GF’s father due to their age differences.

Btw, most women over 30 now take such good care of themselves by exercising, protecting their skin from the sun, eating the right food that some of them actually look hotter than some 20-something who hasn’t slept for the last 24 hours.

@readupthread: I only came in today to read so I didn’t know this when I posted this.

March Hare @ 05/08/2012 at 6:48 pm

#95 FYI – “When and how and under what circumstances did Gerry meet Adrien?”

Gerry was in “Harrison’s Flowers” – 2000 with Adrien Brody. I do not know if that’s where they first met, however.

GerrysDaisyDuck @ 05/08/2012 at 7:00 pm

@March Hare:
(slaps head remembering) Oh, that’s right! Lovely to know, or presume, he’s known Adrien for all that time. Great news. Thanks!
~K
who thinks Gerry, if so inclined, would be good with a camera :o)@Met Him:
I wouldn’t go that far as to say he’ll look like their grandfather. And 30 isn’t at all “old”. I think I’d, if possible, would like to say 30 for 10 years easy. We are idea at that age.
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Just feel Gerry was this lanky awkward guy in his teens who now is not so accepts the opposite of that benefit with lots of gusto. But (my personal opinion) is he’s a trust deficit for women higher than the national debt but not for all women…. no, not all at all.
~K

I'll say it instead @ 05/08/2012 at 7:04 pm

@LOL:
She is not 31. “WhatTheF?” is Eve or “cougarsrule“. Same thing anyway, Niether is 31. Bank on it.
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@GerrysFamousWoman:
“This “cougarsrule“.
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LOL! WhatTheF? = cougarsrule. She morphed again. You could tell from the incoherent anger she displays. She is probably laughing at you for not realizing it. Just be careful next time. Learn to detect that silly lady who should be hanging out with her old hubby instead of lusting after Butler.

WhatTheF? @ 05/08/2012 at 7:15 pm

@I’ll say it instead: Ha! Nope. I’m not Eve or Cougarsrule. Why would you think that? WHY? And I’m not displaying any anger. Just asking for a question to be answered. Please quote me on what I said that’s “incoherent.”
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The only other moniker I’ve used around here is “Actually…” I’ve also posted on here as WhatTheF? a few times before, long before Cougarsrule started posting.
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Goodness, you’re stupid.

GerrysLaceReader @ 05/08/2012 at 7:30 pm

@I’ll say it instead:
LOL, you have to read me right.
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Yes, this obsessed fan is here daily with a set of monikers. This one she’s used before. Another who does it as well Hags Central. Eventually both of them ‘out’ themselves through their prejudices, compulsions, likes, dislikes, etc. Leopards, btw, never change their stripes, I mean, spots! I’d put up what I wrote back to her as cougarsrule but, well, won’t. [read: your welcome]
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Seriously, an entire post directed at me? Really? Why? I’ve a right to my speculations same as others.
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See, after the initial thread is created, the randoms come in, dump, praise, move on. The ‘regulars’ tend to come in later after all that. They wait for some, who? I’ve no idea to say whatever. What? I’ve no idea before they surface. Then at that time, the ‘regulars’ tend to either encourage or discourage, depending. They all want the ‘date’ recap. So could be waiting taking that bait hook, line and sinker.
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Anyways, I wanted to see him “:soon” and did past all expectations, which I don’t actually have but for him to look less tense more worthy.
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No jeans, tee-shirt and hands full of those things he carries which would have been just fine. Instead we’re blessed something swoon worthy at a high-end well-covered serious but terrific event that was joyful! Love those eyes the color of the sand and the sea…
~K

WhatTheF? @ 05/08/2012 at 7:42 pm

@GerrysLaceReader: GFW, what on earth did I say to make u think I’m Cougarsrule? I’m not an obsessed fan, and I’m certainly not here daily. You’re an older woman, and today I’ve been trying to get LOL to answer me as to why she is so ageist. I’m sticking up for older women and u are accusing me of false things. Why?

GerrysLaceReader @ 05/08/2012 at 7:43 pm

@WhatTheF?:
Yeah, we’re all ‘stupid’ because we can’t figure out who you were last month, right? Have a nice night.
~K
who thinks the trouble with socking is people lose their identity but that eventually the them in them comes out but I’m still me… just me :o) Daisy Duck … no not Daisy, but ~K (beaming) who is off now for to cultivate my mystery

WhatTheF? @ 05/08/2012 at 7:56 pm

@GerrysLaceReader: WHAT? Just who was I last month…..and why do you think so? Why the venom at me, Kathy? What did I do to you? I haven’t even addressed you in my posts. Back up why you think I’m this person you can’t stand. You CONSTANTLY ask other for proof/links when they say something you disagree with. So, pony up the proof…..
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Wow. Manny is right about you. You post here more than anyone in history, attack others for imagined reasons (why me?!) And you have the NERVE to call others obsessed! LOLOLOL! You’re crazy! But, with all the thumbs down you get….I take it you already know that….
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Cheers!

GerrysLaceReader @ 05/08/2012 at 8:00 pm

@WhatTheF?:
Have a nice night, sock. Whoever you are. You see how this backfires everyone. Whatever. Bye… I’ve better things to do, like refold my sock drawer.
~K

WhatTheF? @ 05/08/2012 at 8:17 pm

@GerrysLaceReader: I openly admitted to my two monikers! A true “socker” doesn’t do that. Even YOU have said it’s not socking if you state who you are. You use SEVERAL monikers yourself! On any given day! Who are you to insult me? You’ve started an arguement with me for no reason at all. SMH!
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Anyways. If anyone is being “backfired” on…it’s YOU. Nobody on JJ likes you, LOL…why don’t you just stick to your CRAPTASTIC Butler blog….

GerrysLaceReader @ 05/08/2012 at 8:23 pm

@WhatTheF?:
Of course no one likes me. [read: like I care] Do you really think that bothers me? But how does anyone know you just have your “two” monikers? The fact so many fill in the “Name” field, with anything indicates the fact that they, as they are, cowards and cannot express themselves as themselves. Never mind. I do not need to be here. Trust me, I do not. Have nice night. Yes, I’ve my blog. ;o)
~K

Actually this was Gerry’s “cinderella” last night.

http://pic.twitter.com/Rr3CBVwt

baby is stuck in the corner @ 05/08/2012 at 8:31 pm

@NYC: she’s a stunner way to gb, quick marry her and have a dozen kids so i can watch the phannies implode!

Evening JJers! He looks fantastic here! No wonder GQ gave him the #1 spot for men last evening at the Met Gala – the look is classic and perfect (everything is symmetrical).

Nice to see him mingling with single/married friends and their girlfriends/wives. He appears to be alone once again, but it was nice to hope there for a little while that he finally brought a date. I don’t believe he had a “cinderella” since it appears that one photo is in the press room.

Let’s continue to hope for the best. Have a wonderful Wednesday! Stay sane, happy and healthy.

Best to everyone,
Autumn

@NYC: He’s being interviewed by her – notice the mike in his face.

@Autumn
See pic above – - – she was his date.

@reporter
See the “oh sh!t i’ve just been caught”look on his face.
She is the same brunette he met at the club in LA a few threads ago.

cloneconvention @ 05/08/2012 at 9:01 pm

Geez, all these women are interchangeable. We may not know who he ends up with, but I think we definitely know what she’ll look like, lol.

Rubytuesday @ 05/08/2012 at 9:12 pm

@LOL:

Your so called “food for thought” is ridiculous. You don’t know what you’re talking about. The beautiful and very sexy Chris Hemsworth (Thor) is married to a woman seven years older then he is. She is 37 and expecting their first child. He’s thirty. Now put that in your food and think about it.

cloneconvention @ 05/08/2012 at 9:20 pm

It looks just like Janae.

Rubytuesday @ 05/08/2012 at 9:28 pm

@I’ll say it instead:

No one here, young or old expects to hook up with Butler. What kind of delusional planet are you living on? Maybe it’s you and LOL that believes you have some chance with an unobtainable movie star but I don’t! You need to get a grip on reality. You’re going to get older too unless you should accidently step out in front of a Mack truck! And what a waste that would be? Make sure you’re walking with LOL too or perhaps you’re one in the same! LMFAO!
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And by the way, I’m 32, not exactly old but your ideas are stupid.
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@Met Him:

And you are just a simple minded fool. You are a prime and sad example of what our culture is creating, a society of shallow minded simpletons.

@cloneconvention

No it’s not her,(BTW he never was with Janae).

Rubytuesday @ 05/08/2012 at 9:33 pm

@NYC:

I watched the entire event on live streaming and he walked in alone. If that woman had been with him, she would have been on the red carpet with him because it’s obvious she’s wearing a designer dress and that’s what the evening is all about.
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Obviously you’re trying to get something started and get some phannies upset. I think you’ll all be gravely disappointed when the only ones who “emplode” around here are you!

cloneconvention @ 05/08/2012 at 9:36 pm

@NYC: Okay, I’ll bite, since you seem to be presenting yourself as someone who knows. Is it Pri Chopra?

Rubytuesday @ 05/08/2012 at 9:38 pm

@cloneconvention:

Not PC. She’s in LA recording an album.

I'll say it instead @ 05/08/2012 at 9:39 pm

@Rubytuesday:
Angry much?
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32? My azz. More like 52 so stuff it idiot. No one cares about your dreams of dating a younger man at your age. You’re done so go sit in the corner.
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BTW, how many monikers are you using tonight? GFW is right; you’re morphing and morphing.
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I guess nothing else better to do for the idle than to morph.

Rubytuesday @ 05/08/2012 at 9:40 pm

I wish Gerry would get a good girlfriend and take her to a few events to shut some of these trolls up. They have no life other then to invent rumors.

@RubyTuesday
Just because they didn’t arrive together doesn’t mean “they were not together”.It’s well known that he keeps his private life private…or in this case tries to.

Rubytuesday @ 05/08/2012 at 9:43 pm

@I’ll say it instead:

What are you, twelve? You sound like it. Grow the eff up. I don’t care what you believe and you wouldn’t like me angry. Trust me. Now go play in the freeway like good little troll.

Rubytuesday @ 05/08/2012 at 9:46 pm

@NYC:
Oh so he’s just standing there shooting the breeze with his date in front of the cameras in the press area but he likes to stay private?
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Gerry might have a date there and if he does, she’s off somewhere else, I would suspect, out of site. Where’s Alan? His spouse is a designer? They’ve got to be there somewhere out of site too. Maybe his date is with them. But that woman is not a date.

I'll say it instead @ 05/08/2012 at 9:49 pm

@Rubytuesday:
“I watched the entire event on live streaming”
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LOL, so you don’t have any illusions about hooking up with an “unobtainable movie star”, eh???
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Yet you watched the whole thing last night like the idle old f/art you are. If that’s not the epitome of obsessed, I don’t know what is. I didn’t watch it because I couldn’t care less, and because I had real plans. I wasn’t sitting here spying on Gerard.
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LOL! “What kind of delusional planet are you living on?” You can’t even see your own pathetic self.
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Morphing and morphing is what you’re good at, isn’t it? Go sit with your old man and shut up for a change.

Rubytuesday=Eve @ 05/08/2012 at 9:51 pm

I can smell her a mile away lol

Rubytuesday @ 05/08/2012 at 9:52 pm

Seems there is nothing here tonight but the shallow minded idiots and trolls. Nobody to engage in an intelligent and enlightening exchange. It’s a waste of a perfectly good moniker but alas, I must bid this place farewell. Ciao!

@Rubytuesday

She is the same brunette that has been mentioned for weeks.
I don’t think Alan was there,he and Gerry aren’t joined at the hip.

Really..... @ 05/08/2012 at 9:56 pm

@I’ll say it instead – she says you can’t get her angry but she is angry as hell. That’s when she usually sends people to play in the freeway like a good little girl.
By the way, there are many freeways in LA. Just so you know.

Rubytuesday @ 05/08/2012 at 9:56 pm

@Rubytuesday=Eve: Why, because I’m the most intelligent poster on the board? Nighty night now!
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@I’ll say it instead: Yeah, watching a red carpet event and seeing two minutes of Gerry was my thrill for the evening and all part of my elaborate plan to snag him.
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I enjoy watching other movie stars besides Gerry and TV sucks. You should try it sometime. It might take you away from obsessing over Gerry so much.

Rubytuesday=Eve @ 05/08/2012 at 9:59 pm

“It’s a waste of a perfectly good moniker but alas, I must bid this place farewell. Ciao!”
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Exactly like I thought. Every time she posts she uses a different moniker. So sad. A total nutcase.

@Rubytuesday: Hey girl! Guess what. You’re me! And we are both “Eve” too! And some “Cougar” woman, too. This would be funny if it wasn’t so pathetic!
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And what’s hilarious is that LOL and I’ll Say it Instead are one and the same! LOL/Observations/Hags actually creates socks so that she can talk to, and support, herself…..

I'll say it instead @ 05/08/2012 at 10:33 pm

@Rubytuesday:
“I enjoy watching other movie stars besides Gerry and TV sucks. You should try it sometime.”
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See? I was right. You are idle just as I said. And worse, with nothing else better to do, you come here to kill some time before you go back to sit with your old man on your rockers. You’re “know it all” attitude gives you away each and every time, and fighting with GFW doesn’t help shield who you are. You have never escaped detection.
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“I’m the most intelligent poster on the board”
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More like the biggest aggressive idiot on the board.

Gerry never ceases to amaze me. Who would take a picture with a homeless man and be happy and smile about it? Very few stars would take the time to do that. Many of them are too self-important (too hot for themself type of a thing). Gerry has a sweetens about him that’s really genuine; it’s not fake. I doubt his detractors understand his lack of haughtiness. They think he is exactly the opposite and they are wrong.
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http://www.wireimage.com/image/144023511?r=144023561,144023511,144023649,144023605,144023600,144023554,144023551,144023512,144023509&st=Search

Rubytuesday=Eve @ 05/08/2012 at 10:46 pm

@WhatTheF?:
That’s right you are Eve too.

WhatTheF? = Rubytuesday = Eve and you are many more monikers too. What’s the big deal? You’re not foolin’ anyone, know what I mean?
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You’re so stupid you don’t even know how transparent you are. You are the only one who gets upset at LOL’s diatribes; you fall for it every time. Everyone else just ignores. Maybe LOL hits too close to home for you???

anglesrock @ 05/08/2012 at 11:10 pm

@azalea:

I like Olympus Has Fallen much better than White House Down.
Oh well, the script is none-stop action from start to finish. Should be a fun ride.

Many more pictures with Radio Man.
Those are my favorite pictures from last night. I don’t know; something about them is very touching.
http://gbutler.ru/photos/the-after-party-for-the-costume-ball-in-new-york-city-may-07-2012/
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http://hqcelebrity.org/thumbnails.php?album=24

@nyc stop creating something that’s not there. If that brunette was his date which I don’t think it was he has bad taste. That is not a good photo of her.I like the iranian chick better. Yet she is married. It seems all the good. Ones are taken.

LOL! I think mick jagger is in the background of one of the pictures.
http://gbutler.ru/photos/met-ball-2012-part-2/
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LOL! So apparently Radio Man is not homeless. Thank God! I was getting sad watching that old gentleman with Gerry.
Here is his website. Apparently he loves Celebs lol
http://www.craigradiomanschwartz.com/

Very handsome man with sad eyes.

interrupting @ 05/08/2012 at 11:28 pm

Sorry to come on here tonight. Just a vintage fan remembering the good old days. Best GB moment on film. Snapping his tightie whities in Wrath of Gods. What a moment that was. Will anything ever be that much of a hoot again?

Looked at the russian site again I think that all of us here are better looking than this chic. I wish he would start filming so we get to see him on film when does mgp and corialanus come out on dvd?.

@Rubytuesday=Eve: This is my LAST post on the subject, because this is getting mind-numbingly stupid and boring. YOU are the idiot. Because if I was as”transparent” as you say, you’d know who I really am (I’ve admitted the WhatTheF? is a sock name). And you don’t have a CLUE! This is hilarious! Eve, interestingly enough, actually hates me. Big time. I don’t tow her Butler line, I guess.
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So sit on that and spin a bit, my dear. REAL HARD. You have no clue who I am. Who’s stupid now?

@interrupting: I’d bet the current crop of posters don’t even know of what you speak, Where the H are Cora, Stella, RedO, Vegas, Aunt Bee, Alphaba, Tom, etc. etc? Today is no fun on here.I have left out a bunch of people. Sorry, but I can’t remember right now. Miss you all.

@beth: I left out Sukar. One of my favorite old posters.
she brought a really differnet perspective on things, being a muslim. After the revolution in Egypt she disappeared. Hope she is fine.

@interrupting: Those early days of finding Gerard are gone for many. We still love him, but the original thrill is sadly gone. Nothing compares to that first dose of Gerard Butler. I remember spending hours just trying to find out who that magnificent human being was.

@Reviews: so, ‘White house down’ is the rival project and is already casting, with a release deal and date, whilst Gerry’s ‘White house taken’ is still touting for deals to get it going.

Looks like this one may also end up a non starter. Never good when two projects address the same subject. Who’s ever seen ‘Tale of the mummy’?

@bystander: G was in about one minute at the start of that movie. When he died, I shut it off.

Sorry not convinced about the mystery brunette. I still say were all better looking than her.

The Real Realitycheck @ 05/09/2012 at 12:41 am

Dear cupccake…if that lady pictured with Gerry is indeed his squeeze of the moment, she is a very beautiful, typical cookie cutter GB woman. I would hope for him to have someone to love him. It doesn’t matter who is better looking if he chose her. Time to hang it up.

I go away for 5 months, come back and not much has changed.

Rubytuesday @ 05/09/2012 at 12:43 am

@Rubytuesday=Eve:

“You are the only one who gets upset at LOL’s diatribes; you fall for it every time. Everyone else just ignores. ”
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Why is just responding to your stupid posts getting upset? I’m not upset, amused perhaps, but not upset. But it appears you’re telling me here that the stuff LOL is saying is just troll fodder and she doesn’t believe it and neither do you and I’m suppose to be ignoring it anyway? Well, consider it done!

Looking good Gerry. Turning it on for the cameras. On some level he must be amused to be the Paisley lad at a fashion affair :)
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Please, can we have a moratorium on calling each other stupid? We need to play the say something nice about the poster above you game. I’ll start, the poster above me has excellent taste in men lol.

Rubytuesday @ 05/09/2012 at 12:51 am

@WhatTheF?: My question is who is Eve? I’ve only been on here for a couple of months, part of that lurking really and then under one other moniker and when someone stole it, I decided it was best to never keep the same one. Seems if you get too fond of one that happens.
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I see some like to accuse posters of being other ones, socking and the like. Makes them feel less guilty about doing it themselves I suspect.
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I even got accused of arguing with a GFW and I have no idea who that is! LOLOL!
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It’s obvious they’re all the same person. The same childish rants, the same boring philosophies and bull. Yawn city!
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But Butler looks fine! Good to see him in “The City”.
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Have a good one!

I see the Eve’s are back insisting they are not her.
Thou protest too much!

Was that Radio Man or the Ghost of Christmas Future?

Well reality check then stay away.

@oy: You come here very seldom now, Oy, but I’m happy to have even these crumbs of humour. I remember you were serious about GB in your post once and that was one of the most impressive description of the man for me. Thanks, Oy.

@goodgravy:
I’ll play. Not sure it will last, but I like your idea.
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The poster above me (Aha….) has a great appreciation for humour, and enjoys Oy’s posts as much as I do. :)
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I really have nothing to say on this latest thread topic, other than than Gerard looks gorgeous in a tux. But we all knew that!

Have a great day/night, everyone.

@NYC:
I think so too.I saw more pictures from the Gala on some site and it appears this one was sitting near him at the table.She is more like his type and Im almost sure this was his date..shes gorgeous..a model for sure

DaphneFromFassbenerAgainButler @ 05/09/2012 at 5:32 am

Did you notice that he wears the same outfit he wor at the 2010 Golden Globes Award, where he went with my beloved Jennifer Aniston. It’ the same pants and the same jacket. Even the sam tie!!! Now I love him even more!!! He’s like he wears the clothes he really likes and not what stylists make him to wear. Deffinitely NOT a metrosexual… :P

mahtabazimi: So how many models is Gerard Butler going to TRY to hit on tonight? # MetGala

GerrysLaceReader @ 05/09/2012 at 7:19 am

Other than (extreme) enjoyment of the visual stimulation by the incredible influx of outstanding spectacularly beautiful women buzzing about like butterflies, I feel it might be hard to ‘hit’ on anyone while at the ball. Just sayin’.
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But men think of sex, what? Every three minutes or maybe every six if they are older, so I imagine his mind could have been full of delightful scenarios.
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Then of course their is, after the gala, after the after-parties with him still on west coast time wide-eyed able to chat, exchange brief conversations (almost like speed dating) to select a succulent and ripe fruit of choice for his evening’s dessert, or not. :o) Ah, these women hardly know what they have. Most of them, their dating pool is so deep, Gerry’s just another conquest for them.
~K
wondering how long it took to pull this thing together for a night of decadence for several thousand beautiful people?

GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck @ 05/09/2012 at 9:12 am

@casandra:
“I saw more pictures from the Gala on some site and it appears this one was sitting near him at the table.She is more like his type and Im almost sure this was his date..shes gorgeous..a model for sure”
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A man might fantasize about loving a Victoria’s Secret model but soon enough the wings get in the way and it’s not much fun eating across the table from a woman who drinks a glass of water and a celery stick.
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A man may have a fantasy of falling love with a Victoria’s Secret model, but that might not be the ideal for him even if he can attain the fantasy. The ideal might be a very different kind of woman.
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We need to reach for our ideal. Ideal isn’t about perfection but about what is best for us. It can change with time and circumstance but when it comes to love out ideal and our fantasy isn’t the same.
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But many times our fantasies shouldn’t become real because they’re neither ideal or real, or ideal for us.
~K

Can'tGetEnough @ 05/09/2012 at 9:22 am

Good Morning JJers! Short video (not good quality unfortunately) of GB greeting Jessica Chastain:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dtw1FtB91hg&feature=youtu.be
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Have a great day!

GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck @ 05/09/2012 at 9:24 am

“Roland Emmerich’s White House Down will roll out in theaters Nov. 1, 2013 — the date previously held by the director’s sci-fi epic Singularity, which was halted in preproduction last year.”
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What a great birthday gift!
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So is it White House Taken (which I prefer) or White House Down (which sounds too close to Black Hawk Down) who likes the original title choice.
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I love when DCA, WDC or however you wish to call our Nation’s Capital is a primary character in a film. I go to see them all. This thriller sounds very exciting. The script/screenplay writer has a great history of good films!
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Yay for Gerry!
~K a/k/a Daisy :o)
who wonders what ‘the message’ is in this one???

GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck @ 05/09/2012 at 9:29 am

@Can’tGetEnough:
That is darling! Gerry being Gerry, in perpetual motion, and looking like a fish out of water a tad nervous which is darling. I love that about him. She’s such a beauty too.
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Love his walking backwards. I do. Damn the man is so different than any other. I just love that about him. So he waits patiently for her. Gets his kiss and hug in. Then sees the camera and waves! He has eyes like an eagle!
~K

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/09/2012 at 9:32 am

@Can’tGetEnough:

You know, I think I’m developing a little crush on Radioman. Gerard who? j/k ;)

angelsrock @ 05/09/2012 at 9:33 am

@bystander:

I’m confused; I thought they were the same movie, just different titles.

GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck @ 05/09/2012 at 9:55 am

@Can’tGetEnough:
“More on Radioman! He’s quite the celeb himself:”
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You got to love NYC for its . Glad the old chap had a blast!
~K
wondering if he stuck around or flew back west??

GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck @ 05/09/2012 at 10:04 am

… it’s diversity! Heavens! (read: rushing, rushing, rushing)
~K
who’ll say that it’s the constant socking that is keeping people (I think) from participating more… once the sock gets pissed she reveals who she is and everyone feels like schmuck for talking to it

Can'tGetEnough @ 05/09/2012 at 10:19 am

@Anastasia Beaverhausen: LOL I’m with you A.B. LOL I think JJ ought to start a thread for Radioman!! =)
BTW, I did read your post on the previous thread and I’m glad to see you here this morning. You know, it doesn’t always have to be about GB. When he’s not around for a bit, the conversations usually go to something off topic. I don’t mind that and I enjoy reading those posts. I’ve actually learned quite a few things from some of the posters here!
Have a terrific day!! =)

Can'tGetEnough @ 05/09/2012 at 10:31 am

@GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck: I think Jessica is gorgeous and she appears to be genuinely nice! Did you see how she rubbed and patted his back? In that “happy to see you and glad you’re doing well” kinda way. Loved it.
You’re right, he’s so fidgety. Can’t stand still for a minute and he was even biting his nail. LOL

lucy westenra @ 05/09/2012 at 10:40 am

See more photos of Gerry at the Metropolitan: http://gb-gerryparasempre.blogspot.com.br/2012/05/so-ele-mesmo-gerard-butler-posa-com.html

Gerry is a beautiful man with a heart of gold!

GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck @ 05/09/2012 at 10:40 am

@Can’tGetEnough:
Yes, very Jack Russell, not Golden Retriever for certain!
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Oh, I did catch that too. (sigh) He’s like a big kid in many ways. I adore that child-like excitement and enthusiasm that he seems to stream. Make sense?
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Also feel he is star-struck by her and VERY happy for her (final) success! Plus they worked together in a fantastic film!!
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He is a darling. A gem. A rough-cut diamond for certain. I’m besotted, can you tell? (wink)
~K

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/09/2012 at 10:44 am

@Can’tGetEnough:

Right??! We totally need a Radioman thread. Well, I was pretty discouraged about this place the other day, but you girls were right, I can’t take it so seriously. I just felt like no matter what, some will want to pick a fight or be rude. But oh well, that’s just a lack of class on their part. I tend to gravitate towards people and things that are smart, witty, funny and make me laugh. And there are plenty here that do that. I also can’t get over how great Gerard B. looks in a tux. Yowzer. And every women that i saw in pics at the Met Gala and near Gerard were beautiful. Thank goodness I don’t have a very busy day today and I’m off to a spa appointment. Thanks for being so great. ;) Have a great Tuesday!

@GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck: I was just pointing out that the brunette woman was more probable to be his date thats all.I dont understand the red arrows. …Is it because I said she is beautiful?Or because I said she might be his date?Whatever… we dont know for sure but I guess he had many women spooning over him like always

GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck @ 05/09/2012 at 10:45 am

@lucy westenra:
24K gold, soft, easily scarred, and as big as Texas!
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In one of those photos it looks like his tux is that mid-night, way past mid-night just before dawn dark navy blue??
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I like that looking back photo. (major swoon mode) It’s my photo of the day (today) at the blog as we have daily lug photos to discuss the look, vibe, year, project, etc with readers. LOL Oh, and a on-going story! :o)
~K

GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck @ 05/09/2012 at 10:49 am

@casandra:
Some people simply thumb down any and every post. Notice that. It makes no difference. Then again, these are women who use him as their go to guy for objectification, so dislike any mention of who he is (could be, might be) dating… at all.
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They all want him happy, just don’t want to see who makes him happy. Make sense?
~K

Do you people realize how boring your posts are? OMG, what a waste of time. Bye bye.

@reading: I don’t think you can dismiss it all as boring. I think it depends on what you are interested in and soon you get to know who to read and who to skip.
I enjoy the photos and film news some posters bring on a regular basis.
I don’t want to read posters who endlessly analyze his supposed taste in women and their take on his personality and thoughts. Yeah, that is boring.

@well this is a site where we can talk about anything good or bad.

@cupccake: Correct. My point to “reading”is just to read what interests her/him and skip the other stuff.

mustang sally @ 05/09/2012 at 12:07 pm

GB looked fabulous yet again! Another great site to see in addition to all the ‘beautiful people’ was the Ukrainian Institute of America (host to an after party from what I read). National Historic Landmarks are such a treasure . . . the architecture is beautifully unique . . . classic . . . timeless.

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/09/2012 at 12:08 pm

My thought on it, is if you find the posts boring then do what you think will make it more fun and interesting. Stating that the posts are boring, is boring in and of itself.

Another ugly older woman not with Gerry. That one is even worse than the Persian lady who at least had some class and was not as old as the curly hair brunette. Although I am willing to bet the house either one of them will do him in a heartbeat. Once you get to that age, it becomes about proving you still got it. Oh well, maybe they should find some Italian Stallion play toy who’s hot to trot and doesn’t mind doing older rich women. I don’t think it’s Gerry’s shtick.

@GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck:

White House Down is not Gerry’s film. White House Taken is the new name changed from Olympus Has Fallen. That’s Gerry’s film.

@casandra:

That woman is a socialite in Italy and she’s married.

@LOL:

Yawn……….

@GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck: Oh Kathy, you spelled “LOL” and have let the genie out of the bottle…

@Aha….:

More like Beetlejuice.

Can'tGetEnough @ 05/09/2012 at 12:51 pm

Humpday is correct! This is courtesy of the ladies at WO:

“The lady in black is Afef Jnifen, married to Marco Tronchetti Provera, one of the richest Italians. She is a well known TV personality, ex-model, very high class…
Probably she is interviewing Gerry on the red carpet for some Italian show….
Her photo is on Billy Farell’s site, but they didn’t name her…”

GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck @ 05/09/2012 at 12:57 pm

@Humpday:
Thank you for the clarification!
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I’m kind of like, hum, The Bricklayer got canned (and a good bit of it took place in WDC), which is a shame (that it got the ax), but that’s beside the point. It is their loss because that had franchise written all over it as that book was terrific with a sequel easy enough to come. It seems, or I’m reading too much into it (which is entirely probable and most likely, likely), Gerry wants to film in DC?
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I like the idea/concept of this film. With finger (and toes) crossed, with any luck Obama will get reelected, so who’s to play him? The White House (and I’ve never been in it) but it is a fascinating building with tons of secrets of its own. Hope they make the White House a character too!
~K, boring to some, but not to others

@Aha….:
I don’t come out when someone mentions LOL. I am hardly here unless there is news. What a simple minded person you are, like most of the people posting here. The people posting here are the indication of the dumbing down of our society.

GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck @ 05/09/2012 at 1:03 pm

@Can’tGetEnough:
Wonder if he spoke Italian to her? Heard he can speak it rather well, and read it too. Not sure where I learned that. Who needs to say, I don’t want to see what makes him happy either… as I’m besotted for certain. I’d be dead lyin’ if I said it mattered not.
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That said, he lives a separate masculine life (and I do too) and is back having his smit together [read: thank you] so they can have their privacy, I respect that. I respect him. He’s a brilliant man. I also know he must stay on the down low for so he has several he might ‘date’ at once?
~K
who wonders if anyone could have a choice of being just friends, say for a lifetime (like in One Day) would that be okay or would you rather risk it all to have it all knowing how he lives could make that very challenging?

GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck @ 05/09/2012 at 1:08 pm

@Aha….:
“Oh Kathy, you spelled “LOL” and have let the genie out of the bottle…”
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A tad tooooo cryptic for me. Care to explain? And is their a sincere reason to use my given name?
~K

But I do think Jessica Chastain is a very sweet wonderful person. They would make a great couple. Not only a nice person, but she is also beautiful and the right age for him. He seemed a bit anxious as he waited for her to finish her phone call. Not too proud and self-important to wait around for her to give him some attention. Maybe he has an interest in her and was hoping to run into her so they could catch up and he could ask her out. He certainly appeared very interested in speaking to her. They would definitely make a great couple. I can’t wait if this is true.
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Now I dare you to thumb me down for saying JC would make the right partner for him. It would only mean you are beyond jealous of the idea of him with JC, like you are of any young beautiful lady in his life. The only time you are not beetching as much (although still beetching) is if the woman is over 40. Then you begrudgingly accept it. But the moment he is seen with a younger woman, the nails come out and all of a sudden she is ugly, she is too skinny, she is a tranny, etc. How a young beautiful model is ugly while a 45-year old is beautiful? Jealousy, that’s how. None of you has any integrity. A bunch of jealous old fuglies.

Aren’t you tired of spamming and talking sh!t again? How could you know anything about him, ha?

WTF do you mean he lives a separate masculine life and you do too? Have you been who/ring yourself? That’s a revelation.

GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck @ 05/09/2012 at 1:23 pm

@@Kathy:
Excuse me? I’m not going to dignify that with an answer. Are you okay? And just why is replying, when I do it, called “spamming”?? A real question.
~K

GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck @ 05/09/2012 at 1:25 pm

@LOL:
“Now I dare you to thumb me down for saying JC would make the right partner for him. ”
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No. He doesn’t think he deserves her type. Besides she’s another actress and that’s too much light so nothing can grow.
~K
who thinks the only one really jealous of anyone here is….
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God Bless yoou all! @ 05/09/2012 at 1:32 pm

“Understand this, my dear brothers and sisters: You must all be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry. Human anger does not produce the righteousness God desires.” James 1:19-20

@GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck: Your real name sounds much more human for me than GFW. :) But if you have anything against it…well, I won’t use it.

@GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck:
Use your head. Why would I be jealous of a bunch of old ladies?
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Sounds to me like you can’t stomach him with someone so perfect like JC so you say he feels he doesn’t deserve someone like her. LMAO at your comment. Since when are you a psychoanalyst?
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Poor thing you must be in pain watching him mingling with all of those people and you are nowhere in his universe. The only thing left for you to do is comment on his thread every day.
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lol, I don’t think there was ever a day that I posted on JJ that you weren’t a fixture here. Don’t you have other interests? Obviously not, since you are so steeped in Gerry you actually start to imagine the young being jealous of the old. Please give it a rest.

@GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck:
“And just why is replying, when I do it, called “spamming”??’
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You reply to anything and everything. Isn’t your employer getting shortchanged?

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/09/2012 at 1:51 pm

@Anastasia Beaverhausen:

I’m cracking up. Happy WEDNESDAY! Not Tuesday. This week has been crazy. ;-)~

@Aha….:
What looks like a duck, walks like a duck, and acts like a duck is a duck.

GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck @ 05/09/2012 at 1:53 pm

@Aha….:
Thank you. (smile) It isn’t like I haven’t used it or it isn’t my real name, but feel so exposed somehow when I see my name here like that. Hard to explain. I mean, your moniker is what? “Aha….” know what I mean? Why aren’t you or many others using real names?
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I would love to see this enlarged! I love it. LOVE it. Did I say I love it? I do.
http://gbgalsgallery.com/d/151821-3/cost050712022.jpg
~K

Just to clarify jc is married.

GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck @ 05/09/2012 at 1:58 pm

Off topic. Did anyone see how Marc Jacobs was dressed?
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If not, the brilliant genius designer had on white boxers, “pilgrim” like shoes and socks with bare legs under a long back lace bedroom robe?
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Bless his heart, now I admire his spunk, his openness about his sexuality, but feel he could have (if so inclined) put on a tux to come to a gala, a ball. Any thoughts or am I too harsh?
~K

GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck @ 05/09/2012 at 2:03 pm

A visual… Marc at the Met Ball…
http://www.justjared.com/photo-gallery/2659123/marc-jacobs-ryan-murphy-met-ball-2012-01/
“No profession, no amount of money is worth denying who you are.” Someone just told me, and I wholeheartedly back them up.
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Yet could he have been craving attention? Why such exposure? I don’t understand the outfit? His partner is dressed befitting protocol.
~K

GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck @ 05/09/2012 at 2:05 pm

@@Kathy:
Manny. I knew that was you. How’s that cold? Still got you in a fog? Have a nice day.
~K
who’s at lunch btw (munch, munch, munch)

Marcrc jacobs is a great designer he feels he can get away with that at this type of event.

jacob

GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck @ 05/09/2012 at 2:09 pm

@@Kathy:
And Daisy was so cute, bright, cheerful and very supportive on Donald too. She had a life of her own, was playful, sexy, loyal, attractive, together, very intelligent, imaginative (blushing) and was just mostly happy as Donald could be a tad grumpy sometimes. And happy without him. She had hobbies and was girly too. :o)
~K, quack, quack, quack *giggles*

GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck @ 05/09/2012 at 2:14 pm

@LOL:
Women past 30 know stuff. By then, like most men, (and this does not include you) have known romantic love. You don’t know what love is. My guess is you avoid sex too.
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Why do you hate women so much? What’s your core trauma? No I’m no psychoanalyst! But you must have been emotionally abandoned. You’re, as they say, not right. Abused or what? It is very obvious you’ve real issues. But they are mostly with women… because you don’t know a thing about men.
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All you say is concept, not reality. You avoid all contact with men, most likely scared stiff. There’s a difference, you know, between concept and reality. Especially if you think all men only want 20-somethings. They don’t. Have a nice day.
~K

GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck @ 05/09/2012 at 2:16 pm

@cupccake:
Oh, no doubt about it. His designs are very stream-lined and (well were) classic. I just thought it a bit over the top is all.
~K
who’s glad he’s secure enough to step out like that!

buenas tardes a todos,que guapo esta el señor BUTLER ,los chicos gallo siempre alborotan al gallinero …..ja.ja.ja…….como le gusta llamar la atencion……oh!!!…..yo soy una chica gallo mas tranquila, es esa cuestion,je,je,je,,,,,,suerte señor BUTLER y feliz dia…..encontre una linda cancion para hoy se llama THE SWEETEST TABOO y la canta SADE….If i tell you
if i tell you now
will you keep on
will you keep on loving me
if i tell you
if i tell you how i feel
will you keep bringing out the best in me
You give me, you give me the sweetest taboo
you give me, you’re giving me the sweetest taboo
too good for me
There’s a quiet storm
and it never felt like this before
there’s a quiet storm
that is you
there’s a quiet storm
and it never felt this hot before
giving me something that’s taboo
(sometimes i think you’re just too good for me)
You give me the sweetest taboo
that’s why i’m in love with you (with you)
you give me the sweetest taboo
too good for me
(sometimes i think you’re just too good for me)
I’d do anything for you, i’d stand out in the rain
anything you want me to do, don’t let it slip away
There’s a quiet storm
and it never felt like this before
there’s a quiet storm
i think it’s you
there’s a quiet storm
and i never felt this hot before
giving me something that’s taboo
You give me the (you give me, you give me the)
sweetest taboo
that’s why i’m in love with you (with you)
you give me, keep giving me the sweetest taboo
too good for me
You’ve got the biggest heart
sometimes i think you’re just too good for me
every day is christmas, and every night is new year’s eve
Will you keep on loving me
will you keep on, will you keep on
bringing out the best in me………………suspiro……AMOR…AMOR…AMOR…..P.A.S.I.O.N……..besitos,muchos besitos………..adios.

DARGABRIEL @ 05/09/2012 at 3:11 pm

Nice happy Butler, cool NY suits him very well, starstruck, even better. Butler lights the way for many, lots of opportunity for him. Hopefully he finds his middle ground, somewhere in this grand universe, find the love, only if and when butler says. Good day Cholita, nice song, funny, I was just listening to sade the other day, I’m taught, thats how it works, through messages and messagers, my daughter had found my sade CD for me and played some beautiful songs from it. Interesting tune you chose, taboo, any meaning to that message? Or not,hehe. GB says 2 Weeks ago he was taking a much needed break, so don’t believe everything you read, remember this is a true magician working behind the scenes,lol. One final question why do men become so possesive? Makes me wanna run away and hide,haha. Peace out. Dargabriel, p.s. Cholita, its ok to enjoy human touch,no?

GerrysDaisyDuck @ 05/09/2012 at 3:22 pm

President Obama just came out strongly in support of marriage rights for gay couples!
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He’s made many a person happy today! I bet even Gerry! :o)
~K

@cupccake: JC is not married. GB clearly has the hots for her. Just look at the pics of them together after the GG’s. He was all over her. I thought for sure they were seeing each other then, just seeing their chemistry.

Jessica C. is 35.

@Um…no:

GB has the “hots” for many women he knows. That’s just Gerry but it doesn’t mean he’d date her. Gerry loves women.

@LOL:

I’m thinking YOU’D like to do Jessica! You seem to have the hots for her yourself!

@GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck:
“Why do you hate women so much? What’s your core trauma? No I’m no psychoanalyst! But you must have been emotionally abandoned. You’re, as they say, not right. Abused or what? It is very obvious you’ve real issues. ”
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LOL!!! Why would I have emotional issues just because I state facts of how most men like younger women, or that I think women your age shouldn’t be lusting like schoolgirls after a hot movie star? You don’t have a man in RL is that why? Bingo.
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“All you say is concept, not reality. You avoid all contact with men, most likely scared stiff. There’s a difference, you know, between concept and reality. Especially if you think all men only want 20-somethings. They don’t.”
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Oh, but what you say is reality? Never laughed harder in my life. Since when do you know anything about anything, ha? Your assessment of Gerard’s sexuality is totally off. You don’t know the meaning of reality if you believe most men think the older the woman the better. LMAO! Most men will kill to date a girl 20-years younger and that’s a fact. Gerry is no different. Why shouldn’t he be interested in Jessica Chastain? She is beautiful and young and nice. His body language around her spoke volumes. Supposedly he is cocky with women but he displayed no cockiness around her. If anything he looked like he had butterflies in his stomach as he waited to speak to her. I don’t think I ever seen him behaving like this with anyone before. But I have seen men behaving like this with a woman they are interested in. Men usually have very little patience, but when it comes to women they are interested in, they have all the patience in the world.
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FYI, I have a BF so I know men a lot better than you, being the lonely cat woman you are. I know what attractive, well off, successful men think about women, unlike you who only know what losers want. But I guarantee you; even the losers would rather date a woman younger than older. And we both know Gerard is no loser so in his case everything I said is amplified. BTW. What happened? Did your hubby leave you for someone younger so you can’t stand Gerry with a younger woman? LOL! Continue psychoanalyzing your mumbo jumbo. It seems like the only thing you can do.

GerrysDaisyDuck @ 05/09/2012 at 4:04 pm

@LOL:
I’ll take a pass. But know your “BF” is Gerry and your only “relationship” is taking place right here on-line, and inside your head. Cheers! Have a nice day.
~K

@Humpday: I’ve never seen him get quite as excited to see someone, as he gets when he sees her. And I meant the party after the Oscars, not GG’s.

@Humpday:
Poor thing, you must be really jealous of Jessica Chastain. You can’t understand or accept that I think she is so wonderful because you’re JEALOUS. LMAO! You just proved me right. I was waiting for one of you nasty beetches to take the bait and you did.
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How old are you 47? Divorced or never married, but now living the fantasy of having Gerard as your BF? That seems like the demographics around here. Of course, if Gerard is your imaginary BF how dare I say he should date JC? How dare I give your man away to Jessica? Hahahaha….

@LOL:

“FYI, I have a BF so I know men a lot better than you, ”

LMFAO! So you think having a boyfriend qualifies you to know men? Come back around when you’ve had several BF’s and a husband or two and then we’ll talk. Until then, you know little about men and if you are basing your so called “fact” from one BF and that’s the consensus of him, I feel for you because he’s going to trade YOU in for a younger model soon himself and won’t that be poetic justice!
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You are right about one thing….most men DO want a young women ..to hit it and quit it. Life long partners….no way.
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I have one older bro, an ex husband, a current beau and two sons. I think I’m pretty intuned to the male mystic….er, excuse me….mystique. LOLOL!

I think LOL is laughing her a.ss off at all of you. Obviously she is bating and some are buying.

@LOL:

Don’t you see you are making a fool of yourself here? You’re posts are so out there that either you’re just joking around to bait people or you are one of the dumbest, most naive people on the planet. I don’t think YOU even believe the stuff you say!
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I’ll take your bait anyday and send your sorry azz packing, troll!

@???:

Hello, LOL! Not falling for it.

Humpday=Eve @ 05/09/2012 at 4:13 pm

You morphed again.

GerrysDaisyDuck @ 05/09/2012 at 4:13 pm

PS, I have said before (here) the ex who btw was handsome, successful, intelligent, educated, funny, sensual Persian who was a soul mate, and still is my very good friend, did not leave for another woman, younger or whatever, that you feel you need to justify your judgments and “knowledge” about men for so you can cope. Have a nice day.
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And as Gerry would say (if he knew), “He should have fought for you!” (And before you jump to conclusions, because you have NO life experience but for those text books you keep your nose in when not here, where you think you know it all about men (and you do not in any way shape or form), no I did not leave him for another man). Go on then, go back to your books Ms. Bookworm woman hater jealous of anyone who knows true love (who could be in love now for all you know) because for certain you don’t have clue what it is… nor ever will the way things are goin’.

@LOL:

JC is 35! In your book, that’s too old for Gerry!

Humpday=Eve @ 05/09/2012 at 4:17 pm

@LOL:
She is not 47, more like 67. She has an old man she hits constantly to keep him in line. Her husband is the classic battered male.

@Humpday=Eve:

Hello, LOL. Still not falling for it! Come out and fight like a girl so this woman can beat your azz in to the ground! LOLOL!

Simpleton TROLL!

@Humpday=Eve:

LMFAO! You’re starting to panic now and pulling out the crap you know nothing about! How about this….you’re a sorry sack of sht, sitting behind a computer, hating on women all day because YOU CAN’T GET LAID! How’s that grab ya!

LOL is a fat, beer bellied male, grease ridden T shirt, slobbering fool sitting in his parent’s basement, looking at porn and trolling web sites where women frequent because he’s a looser with Cheeto stains on his fingers as well as his peen! He’d even like to do G! So lonely and so sorry and so LOL!

I took the bait so how did you like pulling an effing shark out of the water, you stupid, immature, dimwitted twit! Who’s LOLing now!

@Um…no:
You are very perceptive! We practically said the same thing at the same time. This means that some of us can see clearly and some of us have no problems facing reality head on. We don’t live in a world of theory or illusions.
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That said, you have to be blind not to feel Gerry’s nervousness as he was waiting for her to acknowledge him. It’s an interesting display on his part and I have never seen him behave like this before. Most people who met him say he is very confident and even cocky a little, but with JC he wasn’t as sure of himself. He was a bit anxious while he waited to speak to her. She too was extremely warn to him. Anyway, maybe she is the woman that can tame him (if GFW and Humpday allow it of course as they are both in an imaginary relationship with the unsuspecting bloke). I can’t see anything bad with it if he marries her.
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Now thumb me down for daring to give away your Gerard to Jessica Chastain.

Humpday=Eve @ 05/09/2012 at 4:31 pm

@Humpday:
Why so angry? Eve, your colors are showing luv…..
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“JC is 35! In your book, that’s too old for Gerry!”
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Eve used to repeat everything she heard like a parakeet.
Singing like a parakeet Eve?
How is your hubby, did you hit him yet today?

@LOL:

Jessica is too old for him, per your half baked notions.

@LOL: It really jumped out at me in the pics from the AA after-party. He just lit up around her and was more physically demonstrative than I have ever seen him be toward anyone. It just jumped off the page. I didn’t know much about him, so I Googled, because I really did think they must be in a relationship at the time it was so electric between them. What color hair do you think their kids would have, lol?

Humpday=Eve @ 05/09/2012 at 4:37 pm

Eve is starting to lose her cool. She always takes the bait and ends up all bent out of shape while LOL is laughing her a.ss off. Eve, what an idiot. Joke is on you.
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You are the only one that always gets bent all out of shape while everyone ignores LOL
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When are you going to learn, you silly old woman? Isn’t it time to hit old hubby again, poor thing.

You’re loosing, Hags! Per you, Jessica is too old for him.

GerrysDaisyDuck @ 05/09/2012 at 4:40 pm

@LOL:
Lord child, and I mean that literally, if you only knew what you so don’t know and never ever will. Have fun with the JC thing. If it floats your boat! An driven actress, however beautiful, etc, will not be someone he’d be interested in for the long-haul as a partner (key word here), partner of the heart. Again, go back to 2009 when he says, “Yeah, she’s a regular girl.” during press junket.That is what he wants,needs, desires, longs for… someone grounded. Not competition.
~K

GerrysDaisyDuck @ 05/09/2012 at 4:44 pm

@Um…no:
And she patted him on the back like a mom to a son.
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Seriously, get over it. He’s so happy for her success.She’s a box office success now after paying her dues. He loves when people, good ones, get their just dues. The man’s a sweetheart!
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Fact it. I mean nominated for two Oscars in one year! And he was in one film with her! She’s a pro. No, Gerry’s where he is celebrating the Obama gay rights thing, trust me. And the last person on his mind is JC.
~K

@Um…no:
“What color hair do you think their kids would have, lol?’
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Yes I agree she would make a nice match for him.
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Hair color probably light brown.
Eye color green or hazel.
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And unlike some of his hookups, she is very feminine. And, this one is no hookup, this one could be the ONE. You can see he treats her with a lot more respect. That’s why he seems so uneasy around her. He just doesn’t want to make a mistake or make her unhappy in anyway.
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Truth be told, his mom would approve of her too. I hope he has enough fortitude to go for it and not let his fear of opening up to a woman take over him again.

GerrysDaisyDuck @ 05/09/2012 at 4:50 pm

That’s face it. LOL
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She’s pro as in Julliard graduate. He admired working with her in Coriolanus. Did you see how RL spoke about her at Berlin Press Conference? She beamed but so graceful. No, Gerry needs a down home girl one he can relax with. LOL She’s simply not it. But nice try rousing the posters…
~K
saying pleasant evening to all…

I apologize I thought she was married. It would be great if he dated jessica

@LOL: LOL, I see the kids as all having flaming red hair. Agreed on the eyes, though. I think his mother would approve, also. She is very accomplished, and family oriented. I believe she brought her mother (or grandmother) with her to the Oscars. They would make a lovely couple, actually.

@GerrysDaisyDuck:
“An driven actress, however beautiful, etc, will not be someone he’d be interested in for the long-haul as a partner (key word here), partner of the heart.”
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Never say never!
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True he said he won’t date an actress but he meant someone very famous like Angie because then it will be like a production just to get out of the house. He was referring to how he doesn’t know how Angie and Brad do it being both superstars. So that’s why I think Jessica who isn’t that famous, if he felt she had many of the qualities he is looking for, he might compromise for her. Hence I say, never say never.
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Yes, I agree his most ideal woman is a regular girl, not someone that will be in competition with him or someone who will focus too much on her career. But I think Jessica is hardly competition. She isn’t that famous and I bet you if a good man came her way she might be very open to a good old- fashion relationship. So why not Gerard?

I think he is like that with women that he respects and admires.

@GerrysDaisyDuck:
Why are you so against them dating and acting like he is yours to give away? It’s not up to you if they start dating. We were only mentioning how they looked the other night together and how it might be a good idea for him to date her. If it ever transpires, no one knows.
Lighten up!!! You haven’t lost Gerard to Jessica Chastain yet.

@Um…no:
I agree.
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@cupccake:
Yes, you can tell he admires her. His behavior speaks volumes.

News flash! @ 05/09/2012 at 5:05 pm

no one was ever as obsessed with Eve as Manny.

LOL/Hags is Manny. No doubt about it!

I wonder why that “NYC” character wasted so much time trying to convince everyone that the woman in the black dress was the “mystery brunette” of the last several weeks, when she was so easily identifiable as a media person. Sometimes I wonder if his PR isn’t on here trying to throw everyone off course at times.

News flash! @ 05/09/2012 at 5:54 pm

@GerrysDaisyDuck:
“nice try rousing the posters”
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She sure succeeded in riling you up. Can’t handle Gerard seeing a woman with potential, ha Cathy?

radarlove @ 05/09/2012 at 6:12 pm

@LOL: Who would have or who has a problem with JC and GB possibly hooking up if she is in fact single right now? I have no clue what her love life status is at the moment. Figment of your fixated imagination if you ask me.

Frankly though I think Butler is intimidated by the women who he knows are TOO GOOD for him. The proof is in that video, arguably.

According to Wiki, her precise age is not known. But still younger than the G man, for the ageists.

“Chastain has not revealed her age to the media, which has led to contradictory accounts of her age by various newspapers and periodicals. In an April 30, 1998, article about a stage production in which Chastain was starring, Metroactive magazine identified her as a 21-year-old.[15] In a September 26, 2011, article, The Daily Telegraph stated that she was 30 years old: “‘I don’t like revealing how old I am,’ the 30-year-old tells me…”[23] Other sources that state she was 30 years old at the time are a June 13, 2011, article in People magazine,[11] a November 21, 2011, article in Mail Online,[24] and a comment by Gary Oldman in a Time Magazine article published on April 18, 2012.[3] The Associated Press gives her birthdate as March 24, 1977.[25]

Ah can she get any more perfect

“Chastain owns a three-legged dog named Chaplin”.

radarlove @ 05/09/2012 at 6:14 pm

@LOL: Apologies I spoke too soon, some people can’t admit that theoretically JC and GB would make a nice couple.

radarlove @ 05/09/2012 at 6:16 pm

@Um…no: More likely certain people love to rile people up but yeah, at least wait until Gerard is standing with a real mystery brunette. But I am sure they get their kicks even if shortlived.

@radarlove:
Thanks for the information about JC, very interesting.
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“Frankly though I think Butler is intimidated by the women who he knows are TOO GOOD for him. The proof is in that video, arguably.”
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I think so too, but let’s be honest he needs to be intimated from time to time. It might do him some good. If he wants her bad enough (or another woman of high caliber) he needs to step up to the plate, get his confidence about him in their presence, and act like a real man and treat her right. Otherwise, he will continue to hook up with losers and hos who are no challenge at all, and eventually bedding them becomes a bore. That might be fun for a while but if he ever wanted to have real love and maybe start a family, those hos aren’t going to do it. Now, I don’t know JC’s character but she appears like a very good catch for him. If he is ready for such a commitment, only he knows when that will be.

@radarlove:
“some people can’t admit that theoretically JC and GB would make a nice couple.”
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That’s more than obvious and apparent from the red thumbs some of us got for expressing what’s evident. But alas when you get those red thumbs you know some people are just burning inside with jealousy and I like seeing it. It amuses me to no end how jealous and angry some people get. They will never accept him with any women. Even an ugly one, they will turn on her eventually, let alone a beautiful one. Those people lack any honesty or integrity. At least they should admit they are jealous.

@GerrysVeryOwnDaisyDuck:
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Good Lord GFW… I’ve been working almost nonstop for two days and the post couldn’t possibly be mine since I was at work.
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Seems I’m not the only one who has noticed how you conduct your work day.
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@@Kathy:
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I was thinking more like Gerry’s Limp **** not Duck… Flacid is an excellent descriptioin of GFW…

@News flash!:
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Hi GFW… Socking again I see… You aren’t very create tadpole. Yawn…

@Humpday:
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Humpday=Eve is a GFW socking technique. She has already been busted for it.
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@GerrysDaisyDuck:
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I see you were finally honest about your life Kathy. Good for you. *goalie arms*
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“# 252 GerrysDaisyDuck @ 05/09/2012 at 4:04 pm
I’ll take a pass. But know my “BF” is Gerry and my only “relationship” is taking place right here on-line, and inside my head. Cheers! Have a nice day.
~K”

sunny afternoon @ 05/09/2012 at 7:09 pm

@Um…no:
The “NYC” idiot is a well known troll around here who gets caught lying on the regular. She was “NYC Model” last time (aka Brooke/Georgia). I’m sure Gerry’s PR people are smarter than to come on here and lie about a woman who was so easy to identify as a married media professional. I give his PR more credit than that. Our little troll, however, is one of the dumbest and worst liars ever to own a keyboard.

@sunny afternoon: Thanks for the info.

mmmmm…….SADE otra vez con YOUR LOVE IS KING………your love is king,
crown you in my heart.
your love is king,
never need to part.
your kisses ring,
round and round and round my head.
touching the very part of me.
it’s making my soul sing.
tearing the very heart of me.
i’m crying out for more.
Your love is king,
crown you in my heart.
your love is king.
you’re the ruler of my heart.
your kisses ring,
round and round and round my head.
touching the very part of me.
it’s making my soul sing.
i’m crying out for more.
your love is king.
I’m coming up, i’m coming.
you’re making me dance, inside.
Your love is king,
crown you in my heart.
your love is king,
never need to part.
your kisses ring,
round and round and round my head.
touching the very part of me.
it’s making my soul sing.
tearing the very heart of me.
i’m crying out for more.
Touching the very part of me.
it’s making my soul sing.
i’m crying out for more.
your love is king.
This is no blind faith
this is no sad and sorry dream.
this is no blind faith
your love…
your love is real… gotta crown me with your heart,
never, never need to part,
touch me.
never letting go,
never letting go,
never going to give it up.
i’m coming,
you’re making me dance…………………..AMOR….AMOR…..sutiles son los caminos del amor…….verdad………………adios.

Go ahead, just call me EVE! @ 05/09/2012 at 8:13 pm

@LOL: Are you going to commit suicide when you hit 40? Just curious. Do tell me, how will you handle it? I mean, life is over then, right? Or will you just stop having a love life/sex life and go sit in a corner, like you’re telling us to?
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Will you take your own advice?

angelsrock @ 05/09/2012 at 8:22 pm

@Um…no:

Can someone direct me to the pics that um..no is referring to here?
Thanks.

Who Cares? @ 05/09/2012 at 8:39 pm

@Go ahead, just call me EVE!:
What an idiot! Apparently, LOL means so much to you, and her assertions worry you so much you bother addressing her. Who cares what she thinks about older women or how she would deal with getting older? You commenting to her only prove that what she says bothers you in some way. That’s why she keeps saying what she does all the time. Some of you take the bait because you are simple minded. You really need to get busy doing something else.

Go ahead, just call me EVE! @ 05/09/2012 at 8:57 pm

@Who Cares?: More insults! Thanks! NOT. Yes, hateful ageism bothers me. So? If I call this hater out, that’s my prerogative. Sure, it’s feeding a troll, but I’m genuinely curious about what her answer would be.

Who Cares? @ 05/09/2012 at 10:01 pm

@Go ahead, just call me EVE!:
She won’t answer you. She is having fun at your express while you take her very seriously. And besides what would you care about what her answer would be? Are you that empty headed?
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Meanwhile GB is having dinner whith someone new in NYC. I thought you might want to know that since this is the reason we are here.
https://twitter.com/#!/JulieVAD

Who Cares? @ 05/09/2012 at 10:04 pm

This is the place
http://emmgroupinc.com/restaurants/catch/
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Is it a date or just someone who saw him there?

@angelsrock: I tried to send you a couple of links, but I’m in moderation. Not sure what the link policy is, but oh well. Just Google the Vanity Fair party. That’s where the pics were taken I believe.

Go ahead, just call me EVE! @ 05/09/2012 at 10:23 pm

@Who Cares?: I’m not empty headed, nor do I take LOL “very seriously.” But, you’re right, I shouldn’t address her. Trolls love to have their egos stroked….

Just Sayin @ 05/09/2012 at 11:52 pm

@Who Cares?: Her preceding tweet has her taking a pic of her dessert. You can also find her image if you google. Don’t think she would be a GB date.

@who cares I have a couple of assumptions. First the person that tweeted she was having dinner with gerry was at the same restaurant as him. Maybe he having dinner with someone he met at the gala. This person that tweeted this probably will not get second date if she is indeed his date. He likes to keep thing private. Remember these are only assumptions.

Who Cares? @ 05/09/2012 at 11:59 pm

@cupccake:

Correct; these are only assumptions but you’re closer to the truth than you know.
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She is a mag editor for Elle. She has a music video shot by the mag. it’s funny and somewhat cute I suppose.
http://ny.racked.com/archives/2012/03/01/heres_a_music_video_shot_in_the_elle_offices.php#more

Who Cares? @ 05/10/2012 at 12:01 am

@Just Sayin:
Agreed, she wouldn’t be his type.
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I wonder why he’s meeting with her?
Or maybe she just saw him there?

old people rock @ 05/10/2012 at 12:38 am

i post this cause ger loves the black keys and i hate ageism….enjoy :)

http://www.fuse.tv/2012/04/australian-lady-plays-black-keys-lonely-boy-spoons-deb-spoons-perry

Although, he is good in stature. He does NOT take care of those close to him, Lolida, Stella, whatever his puppy dog name is…He has completely abandoned her to someone else. This, is a true testment to character. I still believe he can do what he wants, when he wants, how he wants. I have issues with this. He has chosen to travel the world, without any consequence to her (his dog) none, what so ever. Yep, he gave her up, but in the her eyes, she feels completly abandoned.

mtommasiello from twitter @ 05/10/2012 at 3:24 am

word from inside the @ standard ny is that gerard butler is at #LeBain with @ sebastianpuga @ChefSez @24hourparty and @ HSummers17

sebastianpuga from twitter @ 05/10/2012 at 4:04 am

Le Bain dance party right now with @djdexterlove @24hourparty @ChefSez @djdexterlove @ TonyAdams_ @djkeiichiro

angelsrock @ 05/10/2012 at 5:48 am

@Um…no:

Thanks. I’ll give that a try. I haven’t had much to play here lately. RL is a biotch right now.

Thanks to everyone for the links and scoops from the Met Ball. I agree that Gerry looked “excited” to see Chastain. He really did; it was really cute to see his reaction when she came into sight. I think they’d make a very nice couple.

angelsrock @ 05/10/2012 at 5:54 am

@angelsrock:

I meant to say I haven’t had much TIME to play here.

Everyone have a good day. Mine’s going to be very long and I’m already dragging. Peace out!!

bystander @ 05/10/2012 at 5:59 am

Old link, but refreshing to read for a sceptic like me. Not about the scarily obsessive screaming fans, but about a younger Gerry’s friendliness. The only thing I can wish those fans is improved emotional health!

Joie de Vivre @ 05/10/2012 at 6:36 am

@bystander: That has to be one of the best laughs I’ve had in years. I love the line “this all ending in restraining orders.” HAHA!!! LOL!!! Maybe some post here…Thank you for a hilarious jump start to my day, bystander. Hope you are well.

Joie de Vivre @ 05/10/2012 at 6:40 am

@angelsrock: Angel, take care and know you are in my positive thoughts and prayers. ♥ My best wishes as you work through these things in your life. HUGS!

Joie de Vivre @ 05/10/2012 at 6:46 am

There are an abundance of words which can be said about this man, but when he rocks a tux like this…..tantalizing is the one that comes to mind right now. Loved the little vid of he and Jessica. I agree with those who say they would make a lovely pair. Hope everyone is well and happy. Shout out to all my favs here. Stay safe and be kind everybody!

bystander @ 05/10/2012 at 7:08 am

@Joie de Vivre: thanks joie, still fumbling along. Have a good day too, wherever you are.

Can'tGetEnough @ 05/10/2012 at 7:54 am

Good Morning JJer’s! Seems as though the woman GB had dinner with last night, who is the Editor of Elle Magazine, might be an old friend as she referred to him as “Gerr Bear” in her tweet. Looks like he was out partying last night as well!
Got lots to do today to get ready for my daughter’s graduation on Saturday, so I’ll leave you with this lovely pic:

https://twitter.com/#!/kath44/status/198467088271155200/photo/1
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and this:
http://lovegerardbutler.tumblr.com/
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Have a great day!

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/10/2012 at 7:59 am

Actually am I the only one that thinks Jessica Chastain and Michael Fassbenber would be great together? Talk about having talented, beautiful ginger babies. ;)

http:hestyle.blog.hu/2012/05/09/ajanlo_megjelent_a_legjabb_elle_man#more4498254

buenos dias,encontre una divertida letra de la ORQUESTA MONDRAGON…..y se llama CAPERUSITA FEROZ…..wow….es una caperusita un poco calentona …uy!!!.pobre lobo…..ja,ja,ja……Hello my love I’m the wolf
I want you near me to hear you better
Hello my love I’m your wolf
I want you near me to look better
Hello my love I’m the wolf
I want you near me to hear you better
Hello my love I’m your wolf
I want you near me to look better

If you loved me with your claws your embrace
If your teeth I want your kiss

Hello my love I’m the wolf
I want you near me to speak better
Hello my love I’m your wolf
I want you near me to smell you better
Hello my love I’m the wolf
I want you near me to speak better
Hello my love I’m your wolf
I want you near me to smell you better

What I want is your body so brutal
And what I love is your strength of animal

If you loved me with your claws your embrace
If your teeth I want your kiss

Hello my love I’m the wolf
I bought you a ring, a cake and a yoyo
Hello my love I’m your wolf
I dance with you a nice rock & roll
Hello my love I’m the wolf
I bought you a ring, a cake and a yoyo
Hello my love I’m your wolf
I dance with you a nice rock & roll

I just want an endless night
In both we can devour
…………………..risas…..risas……….fantasma de amor …..te adoro……besitos….adios.

angelsrock @ 05/10/2012 at 11:08 am

@Joie de Vivre:

Thanks! I guess you could say I’m going through a bit of a valley here lately. Not too much good news coming this way lately.

angelsrock @ 05/10/2012 at 11:45 am

@GQ:

Why would someone thumb you down for linking something positive for us? Maybe it was a mistake and they hit the wrong. Thanks, GQ. The man sports a suit and tux to the max!!

White House Down and White House Taken… maybe the next James Bond will be White House Shaken not Stirred…

I hope everyone is having a good day.

Inmyhumbleopinion @ 05/10/2012 at 4:40 pm

Although I consider myself a fan of Butler, I have never attended one of his conventions, traveled to a premiere or movie set.

I have never “followed” or supported a celebrity, especially an actor, in my life until I saw Gerard Butler. I am not sure of the special attraction that drives me to search out information on him or go out of my way to see his movies, but I do not consider myself in poor emotional health.
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Nor do I consider those who do all those things in poor emotional health and it baffles me and pizzes me off a bit when others, especially those who come here on a gossip thread about Gerard Butler, and suggest that other fans suffer from this.
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It’s ironic that men, and some women, can fawn over sports figures and teams by wearing cheese heads, big wobbly rubber foam hands and sporting face paint and jerseys with the numbers of their fav player, collecting signed footballs, jerseys, photos and other fan memorabilia and no one considers them “emotionally unhealthy”.
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Then when they cheat on their wives, beat up their girlfriends, do illegal sht, and get arrested, their follows of the ever faithful continue to support them and make excuses for their behavior.
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Whereas here, if Gerry goes to parties and clubs, does things a rich, single guy would do, and his fans see that for what it is, again they are slagged for being crazy stalkers.
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So I ask you, is a man who thinks Tiger Wood’s personal business is his own but he’s the greatest golfer make him an enabler?
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Then some sports fans will travel thousands of miles to pay thousand of dollars for tickets to see the “big game” or get a glimpse of their “idol” up close. Still, that’s considered just a healthy pastime of fandom.
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What is it about our society that dictates that when a woman feels passion and excitement over a handsome and talented celebrity and feels the desire to follow and support him, “emotional instability”? And when a man does it over a team/player, there’s nothing wrong with it and NO ONE laughs or makes fun of him!
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Those of you who come here, thinking you are hiding your own worship of Gerard Butler by slagging off fan sites and the fans that love him, are just fooling yourselves. You are the most in denial, in my opinion, and the most obsessed because you won’t allow yourself to feel the emotion or the desire. You are inhibited and confused and terrified that you will become one of the “emotionally unstable” that support and follow Gerry, an actor, and run the risk of getting too out of control yourselves!
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The reason I feel that some see something wrong with it is because he does stir things inside of you that you don’t understand and can’t articulate or translate in to reality. It scares the crap out of you!
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Instead, maybe, you should go with it and stop fighting it by attacking and ridiculing those who accept it and take it for what it is.
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Next time you watch a group of men gathered at a bar, glued to the tube, making comments about their favorite players and getting emotionally strung out, sometimes to the point of coming to fisticuffs with each other, then ask yourself how “emotionally stable” their behavior is.
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Is their emotion and passion any different then a Gerry phannie? In my humble opinion, I don’t think so.

DARGABRIEL @ 05/10/2012 at 5:21 pm

I feel GB gets a very bad rap at times. He’s a much better boy then most think. He will always be admired by the ladies and really loves them. I hope mr. b is very happy, I know he isn’t quite balanced yet and yearns for this, once he finds this, he will shine in the cosmos like the brightest star. I am a northern star, sending much light,love, and peace, although I’ve been crusified by ppl here, I only strike, when attacked,self defense for this fire snake. Peace, dargabriel

bystander @ 05/10/2012 at 5:35 pm

@Inmyhumbleopinion: as your comment is directed in part toward me, I’ll attempt an answer.

Yes, I do think there’s a difference between men supporting a sports team and Gerry’s ‘tarts’ described in the article. It’s a question of social norms, although I recognise the pub scenario you describe and can’t condone such violence.. Unless those sports fans take a trip to their sports hero’s town to marvel at looking at the same view as they had seen, its not the same degree of fanaticism , more a tribal thing for the sports fans.

Many Gerry fans I’m sure can share the excitement of watching his work or appearances without going to such extremes. I’ve been within a few feet, admired his presence and physicality, iistened to what he said and behaved as I would toward anyone else. But little Gerry dolls covered in chocolate? Sniffing the crotch of Gerrys loincloth? Lining up to kiss his mother? Screaming at his video? Coach trips around his former neighbourhood? I find this creepy. Thankfully it was some time ago.

Inmyhumbleopinion @ 05/10/2012 at 6:31 pm

@bystander:

So you believe men are entitled to express their fan ship any way they want but women are restricted? So the women love a movie that their idol was in and took spiritual joy in being in that environment where it all took place. So what? He’s their idol just like a history buff might go to a museum or tour a castle and take in it’s essence.
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I’ll admit, I always wanted to travel to Europe long before I knew about Gerry. And when I got the opportunity and visited Scotland, I made it a point to go to the University of Glasgow and walked those hallowed grounds. It was beautiful and very awe inspiring. I even stood on the very steps of the Stair Building where the law school is. So what?
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Having said that, however, there is a girl who’s a fan of Gerrys from here in the US who decided to attend the University because of Gerry. Now that’s a bit weird to me. There are many fine schools here in the US and other places, but I found it a bit over the top. Perhaps she thought she’d find a nice Scottish boy like Gerry. Who knows.
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What man that’s had a chance to go in to a famous stadium where some of their idols have played and not reveled at the atmosphere of it, touched the turf and thought of how their champions played on those grounds? Even Gerry could tell you how that feels with his beloved Celtics. I’ve never seen a face so lit up as his when he played in that game!
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I don’t think there is anything wrong with it or emotionally imbalanced about what they did. How many men would sniff the crotch of the panties of Megan Fox or Sofia Vergara if given the opportunity?
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You have a very sexist attitude in that men are more entitled and accepted in their behavior of their fan ship then women are.
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What I would deem “creepy” is someone who secretly seeks out a celebrity’s whereabouts or home and hangs out and stalks them.
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Your judgment of those ladies suggest that maybe you are a bit narrow minded and a tad anal retentive. And rather then to just say “to each his own” you and a few others here hide your own obsession with GB by ragging on those who fully admit to it and show it proudly. Isn’t that really what this is about?
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Obviously, Gerry and his Mom were flattered beyond words. It’s all harmless fun and I think some of you here need to lighten up.
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That was the first time I had heard of that “convention”. I’m sure Gerry is not the only celebrity that has enthusiastic fans though. I’ll bet many other celebs could tell some stories.

someone had to say it @ 05/10/2012 at 6:47 pm

holy cr/ap some one likes to preach to the choir, good thing JJ caps @ 5000

love the thread moms who tell us what to think and say and
what to accept as ok and what is not not,

gimme a fuuckin break

sunny afternoon @ 05/10/2012 at 6:52 pm

Drawing an equivalency between violent sports fans and obsessive women is accurate only in the sense that both are wrong.
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The vast majority of sports fans do not become violent over their favorite athletes, just as the majority of Gerry fans do not want to sniff his undies.
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Violent sports fans and Gerry’s obsessive phannies are in the extreme of fandom and both need psychological help. Both cross serious boundaries in their quest to be connected to a complete stranger. Both have lost their way in determining the difference between their fantasy and reality.

@sunny afternoon: Well put. And writing pages of cra/p to convince everyone you’re not obsessed, and that they should be just like you, is really healthy. If you thought it was normal, why would you care?

@sunny afternoon:
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*standing ovation*
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Love the rationalizing über fans will go to to paint themselves as not obsessed.
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Gerry was here for Sundance and I couldn’t be bothered to even drive 45 minutes to catch a glimpse… I’m so happy to know what a high I can get now just looking at the same mountain range that he gazed upon…. *sigh*
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ROTF…

Hollywod Gossiper @ 05/10/2012 at 7:32 pm

Forgive me in advance for riffing in a somewhat unfocused manner.

Team sports are said to be the civilized replacement of wars, and I believe one of the founding motivations for the Olympics Games. Make sport not war.

The Super Bowl is just the Roman gladiatorial spectacles for the modern times, just less bloody. Athletes are the de facto modern day warriors [as perhaps are actors that portray warriors or famous athletes or other heroes].

The art of the battle meets the art of spectacle in a civilized format. The innate human need to belong to a group, to defend that group’s territory, to defeat your enemy, back to the very basic tribalism and drive to survive of early man. All spun together, contained into games of sport.

Though yes soccer hooligans are not necessarily about the sport, those are violent yobs who just use soccer as an excuse to get their dose of the old ultraviolence as Alex in Clockwork Orange would say though really all sports are distractions that help work out pent up testosterone, whether you are playing or spectating. You have never lived until you’ve watched parents at their kid’s games. Especially at the most competitive levels. It can really really ugly and we are talking the moms too. I’ve been caught up in it too, I am not innocent.

. All the rituals attached to the sporting event designed to make you feel like part of the collective, like Borg, us vs them, from the cheerleaders and the cheers, to the tailgate parties, to wearing of the team caps and jerseys. Sounds a lot like many religions actually but that’s a whole other topic. Trekkies and people who collect everything imaginable and unimaginable go to conventions.

Fandoms are not really that different whether the object of the fan is a sports team, an athlete, a singer, a politician, or an actor. A large component of fandom is belonging to a group where you have something in common. Therefore not surprising that fans get territorial over the object of their fandom whether it is a football team, Jesus Christ, Barack Obama, Justin Bieber or Gerard Butler. With all things in life, there are ranges of fanaticism and like they say about ex-smokers, no one is more vocal than a disappointed ex-fan.

Anyone ever seen the movie called Big Fan? It is just an example that men can go just as nutsy as women. http://www.flixster.com/movie/big-fan/ Good little movie, funny yet poignant.

PS I am sure the TMZ bus has GB’s LA house on their Star Map. Of course I would go on the TMZ bus hoping the Irish guy is working as tour guide who cares where the bus goes. Oh I sound like a fan there. Judge not lest ye be judged.

@Hollywod Gossiper: You forgot the second “o” in Hollywood when you changed socks.

bystander @ 05/10/2012 at 7:52 pm

@Inmyhumbleopinion: no. I’m not sexist, just using your very examples. The link I posted was to an article which mocked ‘Gerry’s tarts’ so it’s author also may not see things as you do.
Well written sunny aft.

I found myself impressed with a younger Gerry’s involvement with fans, especially as he seemed to be embarrassed by the conventions and extreme followers on Graham Norton. Didn’t one if his early directors comment that he’d never known anyone work do hard to make his career happen, or am I mistaken?

Inmyhumbleopinion @ 05/10/2012 at 7:54 pm

First of all, just because I’m defending the rights of some fans to express their fandom any way they want, does not mean that I would do it. I wouldn’t stand up and cheer and flap about if I won a million dollars and Lord knows I need the money. I’m just not as emotionally expressive as some with my feelings and would be a poor contestant on “Let’s Make A Deal”.
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Some of you seem very threatened by the extremes other fans go to and you come here CONSTANTLY to waste your time critisizing them and Gerry when he’s not living up to your standards. That, to me, is emotionally unheathly.

Hollywood Gossiper @ 05/10/2012 at 7:54 pm

@dsm: It’s called a typing error and not using my usual browser. Sorry to disappoint you but thanks for the headsup. All corrected now.

Inmyhumbleopinion @ 05/10/2012 at 8:02 pm

@bystander:
Then if you are not sexist, you are the worst kind of female and that is one who sets placidly back and just accepts the status quo, unless you enjoy a double standard.
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I remember his Graham Norton appearance and some of his “extreme fans” were in the audience and he didn’t seem to mind pointing them out. Doesn’t sound like he’s that embarrassed to me.
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I’m sorry, but your last sentence didn’t make any sense to me.

@Inmyhumbleopinion:
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Threatened??? Try humored, appalled, speechless…
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So healthy to you is coming to a gossip site and trying to tell peeps who they are and their motivations for how and why they post….
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You seem to be suffering from your overinflated sense of importance…

Joie de Vivre @ 05/10/2012 at 8:05 pm

There is a thick line between being a fan and being a fanatic. Butler has set his very gaze upon the same billboards, highway directional signs, airport entrances and exits and security zones, wonders of the world, crazy roadside attractions, advertisements, parking spaces, mountain ranges and peaks, vistas over a river most anywhere, grand bodies of water, traffic lights, taxi interiors, stop signs….he’s just a human like everybody else. The link bystander shared was hilarious as much for the subject matter as for the story telling. Brilliant, funny stuff….”tartmobiles”…seriously, how can one not laugh at that? With all due respect to everyone who dwells on any ledge of fandom or fanaticism, please learn to laugh at yourselves. I laugh at myself every time I take the time to read and post here and click on the links. Believe me, Butler is probably not the heathen nor the saint he is made out to be by extremists everywhere. And, he has mastered the art of laughing at himself in front of millions. A hot mess indeed who has us all fascinated.

HollywoodGossiper=Gossiphound=Canadia (on WO).

@Inmyhumbleopinion
He didn’t point anyone out. Moira started shouting out and drew attention to herself,so Gerry had to admit to knowing who she was.
He was totally embarressed by it and even Graham Norton thought it was weird when she could remember certain things that Gerry himself couldn’t remember.

Tellittothehand @ 05/10/2012 at 8:09 pm

It took a while but I see Manny got her troll patrol all emailed and thumbs poised! Good job! LMFAO!

Tellittothehand @ 05/10/2012 at 8:16 pm

@Manny:

Yeah, threatened because no one comes on a gossip board just to insult and bully people unless they feel threatened. And I’ll give you a couple more words, “insecure” and “childish”.
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Leave people to their lives, if they are not hurting you. Find some fulfillment in your own lives instead of having to cut down, judge, critisize, and berate others for your own amusement.

@INFO:
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There is a point where Butler actually rolls his eyes at someone off camera with that “Oh God” expression before he recovered and turned it into a positive. The joke literally was at Butler’s expense during that embarrassing convention discussion. You could tell he was extremely uncomfortable.
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@Tellittothehand:
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I believe you mean my “minions” don’t you… Sheeesh you are quite paranoid aren’t you…

Tellittothehand @ 05/10/2012 at 8:17 pm

@Manny:

Yeah, minions is good too and the only one’s paranoid around here are you and your “minions”.

@Tellittothehand:
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How Sweet are you… Oh joy…

@Tellittothehand:
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You have a better imagination than GFW. You should write fantasy too. Cheers!

angelsrock @ 05/10/2012 at 8:28 pm

@INFO:

That was an extremely awkward moment for Gerry indeed. I found it appalling that she actually yelled out from the audience. He handled it quite well. Bravo to him. He was smiling and laughed it off, but I wonder what he was actually thinking.

Tellittothehand @ 05/10/2012 at 8:41 pm

I don’t think Gerry minded her yelling out at all. He knew she was there already, as he usually does. He was surprised at her correcting him but I think some of you take it a little too seriously.
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Seems some of you don’t understand the concept of the “groupie”. The term is used with rock bands and the fans that following them on tour and the same applies to other celebs. More power to them.

@Joie de Vivre: Well said and I enjoyed your post. Hope all is well with you!

Autumn

DARGABRIEL @ 05/10/2012 at 8:48 pm

Look Gerard does have a heart. Wow, its like a constant cat fight in this place, I wonder if you all could be cordial. My hats off to Moira for having the guts to shout out, I’m glad she did, just sayin. Everyone is human and just because GB is Mr. Hollywood doent make him any better,only richer,hehe, which also creates more issues,challenges for him with women, who only want his assets or recognition. I wouldnt trade my beautiful life for that madness for anything. Love,dargabriel

@Tellittothehand

Oh he did mind,he was quite p!ssed off actually.
Yep he knew she would be there,Moira’s always there.

I’ve heard it all now.
“Gerry’s Groupie’s”—– pmsl.

Tellittothehand @ 05/10/2012 at 8:58 pm

@INFO:

How do you know he was “pissed off”. Now I HAVE heard everything! You should change your moniker from “INFO” to “CONJECTURE”.

@Tellittothehand

No thanks, I’ll stick to this one.
You however change yours on a daily basis.

Tellittothehand @ 05/10/2012 at 9:03 pm

I wonder where “Sybil” is tonight.

Tellittothehand @ 05/10/2012 at 9:04 pm

@INFO:

So sue me.

@angelsrock:
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I agree Butler handled it marvelously. If Butler could have been anywhere else at that moment he would have IMO. I think I did the majority of cringing for him… Poor bloke.

Tellittothehand @ 05/10/2012 at 9:05 pm

Some people around here have no sense of humor, that is when they become the joke themselves.

@Tellittothehand:
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Have you lost track of your marbles again Sybil???

Tellittothehand @ 05/10/2012 at 9:10 pm

I think some of you are a little jealous of ol’ Moira. I say if she’s not hurting anyone, so what. If she’s making a fool of herself, so what. If Gerry doesn’t want her around, he could say something but I don’t think he cares. I’ve seen him talking to her and kissing her on the mouth. They’re like old friends.

@Tellittothehand

No, I’ll just keep laughing at you instead…ever thought of doing stand up.

BTW who the he|| is “Sybil”? Is she one of G’sG’s??????
(love it.) LOL

Tellittothehand @ 05/10/2012 at 9:12 pm

@Manny:

You’re bombing tonight, Manny. Better just slink off the stage and chalk it up to poor material.

@INFO:
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So if she is comparing the ubers to Dead Heads maybe we should come up with names for them… Suggestions???

@Tellittothehand:
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*knee slap*. Aren’t you the cheeky one. *golf clap*

God Bless yoou all! @ 05/10/2012 at 9:23 pm

“We must keep our eyes on Jesus, who leads us and makes our faith complete.” Hebrews 12:2

(The meaning of Groupie)

#1 A young woman,often under age,who seeks to achieve status by having sex with a celebrity.

#2 The individual or group of individuals involved in obsessive adoration of celebrity’s.Behaviours are juvinille and influenced by crush-like emotions or lustfull sentiments and often infringe the rights of the figure experiencing the attentions of a frenzied fanatic.

(#2=Gerry’sGroupie’s)

Tellittothehand @ 05/10/2012 at 10:26 pm

@INFO:

You should have read down the page further.

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A Groupie…

A person, either male or female, who enjoys one’s talent enough to create the desire to form a relationship with them, whether it be a friendship, casual relationship, or romantic relationship. These girls often proved to be muses and inspirations for the musicians, due to the combination of loyal fan and friend.
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The term gained a negative connotation when those who were jealous of and/or didn’t agree with the groupie lifestyle started using the word with a negative connotation.

………………….◕ ‿‿ ◕ …………………..♥ ♥ ♥……….adios.

Whatshedonenow @ 05/11/2012 at 12:12 am

Inmyhumbleopinion

In your eyes it may seem like constant criticism because from your posts you seem like an ardent fan. To others it just making observations about the behaviour of one of many celebrities on this site. 

An Insider!! @ 05/11/2012 at 2:30 am

The Graham Norton Show pre records a lot of extended material. Guests veto anything they don’t want to appear and know in advance questioning. When talk conveniently turned to Conventions and surprise surprise there just happened to be a Mod from that specific site already interacting did the penny not drop people??? Anyone with a brain realised her participation was not so random and actually encouraged!!! I’ll give her kudos for at least being honest about Convention numbers. It made for one of the funniest moments in the show.

@Tellittothehand

Why should I have read any further …..when #2 fits Gerry’s Groupies perfectly.
As for what you wrote “friendship, casual relationship or romantic relationship” …..keep dreaming because that’s never going to happen in reality.

@An Insider
Hello Moira..

Gerry was late turning up for that recording.

bystander @ 05/11/2012 at 4:23 am

@An Insider!!: of course it does. That particular show was more like 2hrs in recording and both Butler and Gillan were heavily cut. Gerry because he rambled a couple of old stories out in a disengaged unfunny delivery, and Gillan because she answered a series of questions with ‘don’t know’. Gallagher and Freeman were both amusing and uncut.

But even chopping a lot of Gerry didn’t disguise his reaction. Wasn’t there also a US chat show once where he shouted ‘get a life’ to his stalkers in the audience? Genuine question, it might be my imagination as I can’t now find it!

bystander @ 05/11/2012 at 4:28 am

@INFO: yes, but only because he came directly from the Coriolanus premiere. I got the impression he may have regretted the tight booking. He was the only guest who came back on stage to enjoy watching Gallagher record his song, but also the only one to dash out through the studio side doors and not go backstage st the end of the recording. . Had a seedy nightclub rush go to, I recall.

An Insider!! @ 05/11/2012 at 4:29 am

It’s not Moira change the record! Your theory proves nothing just highlights yet again you lot really have no idea.

sarabray from twitter @ 05/11/2012 at 4:35 am

An Aussie lass now living over here in NYC also hooked up with Gerard Butler last night. He was scouring the bar at Acme ’til close to 5am.

YaisaNicole from twitter @ 05/11/2012 at 4:36 am

What a night club hopping through NYC almost lost @ theivoryjay saw Trey songz and Gerard Butler. To end with an African singing cab driver

@An Insider

What do you mean by “you lot” ??

@bystander
Yes it was the Coriolanus premiere that made him run late…..but then Gerry’s always late.LOL

An Insider!! @ 05/11/2012 at 4:45 am

@INFO:

All those quick to judge and mock

bystander @ 05/11/2012 at 6:46 am

@An Insider!!: trouble with that logic is that all who post ‘he looks good in a tux’ etc are passing judgement. So unless this site becomes simply a place to post news links (cue an outcry of ‘I won’t believe that without photographic proof’) then it could not exist.
I’m sure all the other celebrity threads don’t encounter attempts by fans to stifle to conform to their viewpoint.

GerrysLaceReader @ 05/11/2012 at 6:48 am

Glad to hear he’s still on the east coast!
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Wonder what he’s going to do or give him mum for Mother’s Day? Or will he create an e-card, with a vintage feel, on his iPhone then send it to her or post it on her FB account, if she has one!
~K

bystander @ 05/11/2012 at 7:22 am

@GerrysLaceReader: Britain’s
Mothers Day was in March, and Gerry’s mum is British, so the moment may have passed!

GerrysLaceReader @ 05/11/2012 at 7:24 am

Hum… well, maybe he can double up cos she’s the best mum ever!
~K

bystander @ 05/11/2012 at 7:59 am

@GerrysLaceReader: great idea, she’s a lucky lady!

Can'tGetEnough @ 05/11/2012 at 8:16 am

Good Morning JJer’s! GB was out having a good time last night!

Amanda Rose Smear ‏ @amandarose10011
@DaLTONnyc: Jon stamos and Gerard butler were @AvenueNY tonight till the wee hours. All I can think of is that scene from step brothers.

One in a Minion @ 05/11/2012 at 8:41 am

Trolling for strange until 5 am. Just pathetic. And gross. His mom must be so proud.

@sarabray from twitter: I started out as a Phannie and am not ashamed to say so. But now getting serious concerns about his standards and hygiene. I am amazed that anyone ever links his name with the likes of Jessica Chastain, or any of the women seen at the gala – or anyone with any self- respect at all!

One in a Minion @ 05/11/2012 at 9:07 am

Wake up,GFW. That’s what he was up to last night. Not attending the fundraiser with Obama and Clooney, as you had so hoped and fantasized about. He was trolling for random sexual encounters in the clubs ’til 5 am.

angelsrock @ 05/11/2012 at 10:00 am

@One in a Minion:

The last time I was in NYC my group closed down the bar at 4 am and then found a place to eat. It’s not so strange and pathetic while in NYC!!! It’s a great town for the night life.

not impressed @ 05/11/2012 at 10:21 am

The only place I have ever heard of Michael Fassbender is on here. So, I looked him up. Blaaaaaa. Maybe you have to see him in a film to get it, but he sure isn’t very hot just to look at.

If I were to cheat on Gerry, it wouldn’t be with him, but it might be with Matthew (Darcyliscious) (AKA MI5 Agent Tom Quinn) Mcfadyen.

@not impressed: Loved Pride and Prejudice.

One in a Minion @ 05/11/2012 at 10:43 am

@angelsrock: Agreed. I’ve done it. In my 20′s. Let’s get real, however. He’s in the clubs in every city he happens to be in. Every single night. Without fail. Sorry, you will never convince me this is normal behavior. Especially for someone his age.

@not impressed: Know what you mean. Thank gawd for BBC America and PBS. Hugh Laurie even shows up on the older MI5s.But agent Quinn is a stoic stud.

@bystander:
“Wasn’t there also a US chat show once where he shouted ‘get a life’ to his stalkers in the audience?”
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His shout out “get a life” was directed to the paps following him to his car one evening in LA. He was with Derek Hough and some friends.

Here’s the video….

http://youtu.be/eDOTAYZM_L8

@not impressed:

After Gerry my choice would be Mr. Darcy too! Hubba!

@angelsrock:

Yes, there’s a lot of places serving late suppers in NYC until the wee hours, especially for the clubbers and the all the people who work late in the clubs, shows and restaurants. It’s one of the greatest cities in the world! I love it!

I like the concept of the dinner club theme that they’re bringing back which used to be popular back in the old days. The Darby is one of them.

@TGIF #403

Don’t you mean “Groupie’s”. LOL

LSMICHB

The night life in nyc is the best. I still go clubbing once in a while.

The Real Truth @ 05/11/2012 at 1:11 pm

@Tellittothehand:
“I think some of you are a little jealous of ol’ Moira. I say if she’s not hurting anyone, so what. If she’s making a fool of herself, so what. If Gerry doesn’t want her around, he could say something but I don’t think he cares. I’ve seen him talking to her and kissing her on the mouth. They’re like old friends.”
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LOL, Hags Central said the same thing about Moira. She said the beetches here were jealous of her because she got access to him and they couldn’t.
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The beetches hate to hear the truth, don’t they?
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Give it to them harder; Stick it to them deeper; Twisted inside of them faster. Drive these beetches crazy!!!

The Real Truth @ 05/11/2012 at 1:16 pm

@INFO:
“(The meaning of Groupie)
#2 The individual or group of individuals involved in obsessive adoration of celebrity’s.Behaviours are juvinille and influenced by crush-like emotions or lustfull sentiments and often infringe the rights of the figure experiencing the attentions of a frenzied fanatic.”
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Doesn’t it describe all the beetches here? God, if anyone mentions GB looking good with a certain woman, don’t you all get nasty and disgusting tearing her down and calling her a tranny? Look at yourselves you bunch of beetchy hypocrites.

GerrysLaceReader @ 05/11/2012 at 1:18 pm

@The Real Truth:
So that includes you too, right? You’re here. Have a nice day.
~K

The Real Truth @ 05/11/2012 at 1:22 pm

@An Insider!!:
“The Graham Norton Show pre records a lot of extended material. Guests veto anything they don’t want to appear and know in advance questioning. ”
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What you said is 100% true. But notice the beetches not willing to accept facts. Bystander the only one that admitted some of what you said. She got negged for it.

@The Real Truth

You are correct SOME people here do exactly that….those are the ones who go under #3 (that someone else posted).The ones who believe that he’s their best friend , that they are having some kind of relationship (casual or romantic) with him,and as I said they can all keep dreaming,because in reality its never gonna happen.

GerrysLaceReader @ 05/11/2012 at 1:25 pm

@One in a Minion:
I took note of that. That he wasn’t invited. Intimidated much? Poor insecure George. Kind of sad really.
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Think Gerry is still on west coast time so 5 am is really his usual 2am when he retires. He’s a night owl sometimes and a morning lark sometimes. I just like he’s home in his soulful nest. Hope he’s sunning himself on his rooftop right about now… lovely out this way today!
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Oh, and you’ve no idea what he was doing at the club… but it suits you to think that, right? Could have been friends with the owners or talking about a project with mates or any number of things. He seems to like the atmosphere of the lounges. It isn’t like he sits a the bar like most chumps, you know? Have a nice day.
~K
who knows he’d never be trolling for you… you’re too toxic-mouth… his peen might get burnt if it touched it… and all men like their peens in women’s mouths, no? Yes! ooOOoo-la-la

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/11/2012 at 1:26 pm

This boring ****** just wanted to say hello to my favs on here. *waves* Yes the nightlife in NYC is a blast, love the late night restaurants (Blue Ribbon is great). But if you’re out and about at 5am, you’re most likely not sober. It’s his life however, not ours. Got a fun weekend planned and lots of painting to do. Have a great one!

The Real Truth @ 05/11/2012 at 1:30 pm

@GerrysLaceReader:
No, it doesn’t include me. I can’t wait for him to find real happiness and get married. Can you say the same about yourself, or is he your only lifeline to romance, meaning he is your imaginary BF and through him you live your romantic fantasies?
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I got you nailed, didn’t I?

GerrysLaceReader @ 05/11/2012 at 1:34 pm

@Anastasia Beaverhausen:
Stop it! Don’t let them get to you! A.B. Change the topic move it back to Gerry. Seen any good movies lately?
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Good example…
It appears Gerry is dying to make a film in DC or about DC. Maybe even come to DC (again) and hang out for a few months and see Old Town, Annapolis, or site-see? ;o) Humm (pinches chin) maybe I will get to meet watch my lug work from a safe distance after all hidden by Aspen trees one of these days?
~K

@Anastasia Beaverhausen:

While I think it’s it’s downright idiotic for GB to be hitting club after club after club so soon after rehab, as a general rule being out all night doesn’t mean you’re drinking. I think you can go out, have a good time and stay out until the small hours and be 100% sober. I’ve been to many a lock-in/all-nighter and not touched a drop, similarly we’ve had people round our house for dinner parties and they’ve still been going when the sun comes up.

@GerrysLaceReader:
“Think Gerry is still on west coast time so 5 am is really his usual 2am when he retires. ”
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You might be on to something.
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But still he should take it easy, the night owl that he is, lol.
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@niknoks:
I believe he was sober. But who knows for sure. I think he makes sure he makes the best of it when he is NYC. He makes sure to “milk” his nights to the limit and hit all the hot spots. It’s easier than in LA where you have to drive distances. In NYC it’s only a short walk or taxi drive away so you can actually hit 3 or 4 places in a span of 3 or 4 hours.

@GerrysLaceReader:
“I will get to meet watch my lug work from a safe distance after all hidden by Aspen trees one of these days? ”
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Didn’t you say you met him once?

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/11/2012 at 1:55 pm

@GerrysLaceReader:

And @niknoks: No one’s getting to me luv, promise. Maybe I’m just going off of my own past experience, which isn’t so innocent. I’ve got nothing but love for Gerard B.

I recently watched W.E. which was pretty good I must admit. If you haven’t seen it, you should check it out. ;)

I’m just not wild about some of the people posting lately. With the exception of you girls of course. :-D

@Anastasia Beaverhausen: The more reality-based posters are not wild about you delusional fangirz, either. Feeling’s mutual, dearie.

GerrysLaceReader @ 05/11/2012 at 2:34 pm

@Anastasia Beaverhausen:
Okay good. Saw it twice on the big screen. I loved it! Again, like attracts like. And we need what’s missing in the other so we always need each other. @Reviews:
Why should he take it easy? He’s not working is he? How do you not know he takes it easy all day? Going to the gym, being on-line, reading, talking on the phone, eating and staying in touch with friends, and lovers. He seems to get night fever! No, I have never met him.
~K

DARGABRIEL @ 05/11/2012 at 2:45 pm

Omygosh Obama is here in Reno, right in the open piblic, no fear, nice. What a treat.

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/11/2012 at 2:47 pm

@Likewise:

I’m a delusional fangirl how? See it’s idiots like you that make me want to ban this place for good.

DARGABRIEL @ 05/11/2012 at 2:50 pm

Oops, sorry about the typo. Obama rocks, he’s the man. What an honor
It would for Butler toeet this man. Love,dargabriel

GerrysLaceReader @ 05/11/2012 at 2:52 pm

I do not really care what the call (his new movie) as long as Gerry is on-board and feels he has something to say within the confines of the script.
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Never do I believe my lug signs on for anything, now, for just a payday. I stand behind this man, whom I have never met, his decisions. I respect them. Never once do I feel he is dialing anything in for to feed his lifestyle. When I sense that, I’ll be open about that like I have been open (everywhere, not only here) about everything which is why I have my patronage of long-term readers (and those few who get me here and aren’t afraid to show it).
~K
who didn’t format that last comment well and would love for Gerry to spend time in the DC area researching its secret and mysterious hollows like the Library of Congress (because [I think] he likes old, old books) wondering what all happened to the last DaVinci Code installment that used the streets as part of the puzzle?

angelsrock @ 05/11/2012 at 3:00 pm

@One in a Minion:

A celebritity’s life for the most part is nothing like ours.

@Anastasia Beaverhausen: If you’re only “wild” about the likes of GFW, then that’s exactly what you are.

And why is it that you girls always have to resort to name-calling? I’m an “idiot” because I handed your insult back to you? Grow up.

God Bless yoou all! @ 05/11/2012 at 3:36 pm

“Three things will last forever—faith, hope, and love—and the greatest of these is love.” 1 Corinthians 13:13

GerrysLaceReader @ 05/11/2012 at 3:37 pm

Why do you care who she enjoys talking to?
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Feel Gerry had depth no one knows but his inner circle. He might have entered a re-birthing stage of his life again, as in growing a new growth ring like a tree. That he lurches forward getting too far ahead that it is too hard to maintain, so hits speed-bumps that topple him from holding onto all his inner game successes.The harder he works them more detached he can become?
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He has a lot of mind noises. Feel the near death experience brought many scary thoughts back he might have felt he’d expunged? A lot is riding on his shoulders many are clueless about. So his fears are easily triggered just now maybe? He’s fears of not letting people down. There is always a look around his eyes like he wants to say something.
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Here’s the catch, and it’s a good one! Gerry falls forward never backward. It appears after rehab in his heart of hearts he feels it’s time to begin living a meaningful existence again, yet must keep a bit of, what one favorite poet of mine calls ‘dung’ in his life. He can’t live a pure rose-water existence because it isn’t who he is.
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I’m certain he’s the kind of man that the more you get to know him, the more you love him.
~K

@INFO:

“The ones who believe that he’s their best friend , that they are having some kind of relationship (casual or romantic) with him,and as I said they can all keep dreaming,because in reality its never gonna happen.”
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There are many types of relationships and many of Gerry’s fans have a relationship with him and a connection and a bond. He recognizes many of them. You don’t have to be romantic or constantly in his life to have a relationship with him.

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@Anastasia Beaverhausen:

That’s exactly what they want you to do. And it’s exactly their attitude that keeps me coming back. If everything here was sunshine and lollypops, I’d never come around.

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/11/2012 at 3:38 pm

@Likewise:

It’s not my fault that you come across as a simpleton. And no, I don’t think I will act like a grown up right now. You and many others don’t and I’m just about in the mood right now to lower myself to your level, so get over it. I like quite a few on here. niknoks, GFW, Toronto, Angel, Autumn, JDV, CGE, CC to name more than a few. I used to have an issue with GFW, but I don’t now, so what? I find it ludicrous to go round and round with her, when she is who she is and at least she’s honest. Unlike you, who is using a sock to attack. You think you are realist because you only want to see the negative about Gerard B. I’ve stated before that I don’t candy coat, but I don’t come on here just to bash and insult either. Talk about being childish. I mainly come on here because I love speaking to intelligent adults from all over the world about movies, books, what have you. Just love speaking to my friends and loved ones in RL about such things. If you think this place is boring or crazy, then get the h/ell off of here.

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/11/2012 at 3:41 pm

*Just LIKE I love speaking to my friends and loved ones in RL about such things.

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/11/2012 at 3:42 pm

@TGIF:

Well, have fun with that. But keep me out of it.

@angelsrock:
“A celebritity’s life for the most part is nothing like ours.”
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I couldn’t take the demands the public puts on you. Everything you do in your private life can be exploited. They probably envy normal people sometimes being able to fail, fall, get sick, heal, and love under the radar. I’m sure they get a sense of nothing being off limits to them too and their reality becomes something quite different. Things that gave them a thrill when they first tasted fame and fortune become more mundane and the adrealine junkies keep striving to find that “high” again with more far out exploits and pleasures. That’s when trouble happens.
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I couldn’t keep up with the hectic pace of it. I’d be saying, “What day is this and where am I?”

GerrysLaceReader @ 05/11/2012 at 3:53 pm

@Reviews:
“Didn’t you say you met him once?”
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No, I have never said I’ve ever met him.
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That said, life is built on wishes.
~K

@TGIF

Yes he recognizes many of them….but not for the reasons you think.

@Anastasia Beaverhausen:

I think you misinterpreted my meaning. I was on your side meaning don’t let the negative, toxic posters run off the ones who are positive and up beat. That was all. You don’t have in engage with any of them but if you go away, you are doing what they want. You can be here, ignore what they say and say what you feel. You go away, you’re doing exactly what they want, but whatever. I wasn’t being snarky. Sorry.

@INFO:
And not for the reason you think either. The reason you think is coming from your own jealousies. You don’t know what he thinks so you need to cut it with the constant conjectures. You’re silly.

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/11/2012 at 4:05 pm

@TGIF:

I apologize, I did misinterpret what you wrote. On the defense here, as you can most likely tell. lol I don’t get why. It’s like they can’t stand normal, intelligent conversations. Like it drives them mad. But you are right. I know how this place can get with the trolls. It just bothers me more on certain days. I do find it pretty hysterical that if any of us were to ever come face to face, they (the trolls) would most likely go hide in a corner.

Well, I need to get my weekend started. I need a good laugh today, so will go do what I can to make that happen. Have a wonderful weekend. :-D

Just because I don’t agree with you ….does not mean I’m jealous.

But any friendships/relationships that you (or others) think you have with Gerry are all in your own heads. Now I’m not saying that,that is wrong….each to their own….whatever floats your boat as long as you can see the difference between FANTASY and REALITY.

Some of Gerry’s fans (Groupie’s) go way over the top….Moira isn’t the worst, believe me…there was one far worse who turned up in Shreveport,last year during PTF.

@Anastasia Beaverhausen:

I feel ya! Seems no place on the internet is safe, except maybe for personally run websites. I think a good definition for a troll is someone who is so miserable in their own lives, they can’t stand anyone who isn’t as miserable as they are, no matter what the subject matter is. It’s all about bursting their bubble. Have a good weekend yourself.

POST 441

Is in reply to @TGIF #439

@INFO:

I can’t make excuses for people behaving badly and there are fans that go too far but you can’t lump everyone together who doesn’t subscribe to your philosophies or in to a group with the crazies.

And I don’t feel personally that I have any relationship with Gerry except when I buy a ticket to his movies or support him as a fan.

He knows we are out there and he’s appreciative. He’s not snickering behind closed doors after his fans like you seem to paint him. I’m not sure why you want to believe that but whatever.

If you think he’s that kind of an a hole, then why do you bother? Stop trying to convince other people of something that you have no concrete proof or facts to back you up.

Like I said before, it makes you sound silly.

GerrysLaceReader @ 05/11/2012 at 4:28 pm

“It’s all about bursting their bubble.”
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And that is what the daily moniker changer wishes to do. It seems there is nothing wrong with her, it’s all everyone else. She is the one who wants him “happy” with someone, just none of us. Could this be this is a fear of hers? That someone who knows him well, could be well-suited for him? This, in her heart, she knows can never be her? She hasn’t the positivity to off-set his well-known melancholy. So she tries to “show us” the “real” him and who (she thinks) he “really” would want, need, desire, require.
~K

@INFO:

And by the way, you ARE jealous. You’re jealous of those who dare to dream and go after it, even if it’s just meeting their favorite celebrity. If it isn’t your cup of tea, so be it, but stop trying to jerk the rug out of other people’s fun and fantasy.

Like has been mentioned, it’s nothing more then troll behavior and if that’s what you want to be identified as on the internet, just keep it up because you’re doing a great job acting like one.

@Can’tGetEnough:

Looks like he was wearing a three piece suit! Must have been at an event earlier or he needs to do a wash and all he has to wear are his suits! We’ll know when we see him on his bicycle in a pinstripe Versace!

He looks like he had a blast. The picture could have been better.

@TGIF

Jealous of what exactly???

@Can’tGetEnough:
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Oh God. Wasn’t that the movie poster for “White Men Can’t Dance?”
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@TGIF:
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If you want fun and fantasy take it to a fansite. INFO has as much right to post what she feel as you do. Doesn’t make her JEALOUS at all. Just makes her a little more sane in my book. But that’s just me. I find those kind of wants and desires are far more rewarding in applying to real life not pinned on a celebrity. To each their own…
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Cheers!

@INFO:

Jealous of people who have dreams and aspirations and go after them. That would include G and many of his fans.

@Manny:

Are you her mommie now? And it is jealousy. Some are very jealous of those who find happiness in whatever brings them joy and because some have no joy in their lives but tearing down others, they come here. That’s pretty sad to me.

GerrysLaceReader @ 05/11/2012 at 5:06 pm

What’s he doin’ dancin’? Doin’ what? The dog wooly-bully? Wait, but she’s not? No, kidding aside, he does look like he’s in his element! And well dressed too. I like that. I love men in vests!
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Seems to be sinking his teeth into the big apple! Not that it matters, but when that photo was snapped I was sawin’ wood or listening to a bird that chirp at 3am. This one guy last night, and I did awaken, was singing this song over and over. Just him. It was so cute. So clear. Lovely. I’ll never forget it.
~K

GerrysLaceReader @ 05/11/2012 at 5:11 pm

@TGIF:
But engaging them in that type of conversation is almost guaranteed to bring you down, sour your spirit, hurt your feelings. Don’t do it. Talk around them. In other words starve them. Speak about what you want to, Gerry-related or not, either people want to talk about those things or not. Meet your need. Put yourself first. The bubble bursting brigade have each other!
~K

@TGIF

People can have dreams and aspirations …I’m not disputing that.
I myself have plenty.
My point was that certain fans,need to separate fact from fiction /
fantasy from reality.Some of his fans do make themselves known for the wrong reasons.
We will just have to agree to disagree.
(But one thing we can agree on is he’s a hottie for sure.)

I have to go now and sign off tomorrow’s edition for printing, hope you all have a good evening….just don’t waste too much time dreaming and let real life pass you by.

GerrysLaceReader @ 05/11/2012 at 5:21 pm

It suits the name-changing person, as a coping mechanism, that we have no lives, all live in a fantasy world, daydreaming in our heads, barely living out here (or there were we all are) — and only God knows how the rents get paid, food bought, paycheck earned, house/apartments cleaned, movies and entertainment enjoyed! But make no mistake about it, SHE is firmly grounded in reality while spending as much, if not more, time here as anyone else. Right. <– *sarcasm*
~K

angelsrock @ 05/11/2012 at 5:25 pm

@TGIF:

I agree; I don’t think it’s the life that I’d want either. Isn’t that why we love to “follow” celebs. Most of them just don’t have a normal life. It’s a guilty pleasure of mine to follow the crazy life of Gerard Butler which is nothing like mine I can assure you. I’m living the pretty standard middle class suburbia lifestyle. And don’t get me wrong; it fits me just fine. But Gerry and his antics make me smile!

@GerrysLaceReader:
“Why should he take it easy? He’s not working is he? How do you not know he takes it easy all day? Going to the gym, being on-line, reading, talking on the phone, eating and staying in touch with friends, and lovers. He seems to get night fever! No, I have never met him.”
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Maybe he does all that you described but that doesn’t change the fact that he likes to go to clubs and make the most of it while he’s in NYC, probably because it’s easier to club hop in NYC than it is in LA. So I really don’t see how your statement is relevant to the comment I made about him liking to go clubbing.
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Besides, why do you always think anything we say about him or any observation we make about his behavior is derogatory? It’s not. I think you often misunderstand the meaning of other posters when all they do is make an observation, not implying anything negative.

angelsrock @ 05/11/2012 at 5:30 pm

Gerry’s out dancing and partying, having a great time,not hurting a soul, and we’re here analyzing it. LOL

@GerrysLaceReader:
“No, I have never said I’ve ever met him.”
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I must have mixed you up with someone else who said she met him once when she was with .net or GALS. Maybe it was Swannie.

Re: Pic from last night @ 05/11/2012 at 5:40 pm

Is GB doing the dutty wine????

GerrysLaceReader @ 05/11/2012 at 6:01 pm

@Reviews:
But, and correct me if I’m wrong, you said he should take it easy implying he does not. All I did was offer how he might? Not defaulting to negative, seems you are (IMO).
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Gerry isn’t a couch potato. Face it. I think he likes his downtime but is simply wired to be active! And there is nothing wrong with that. This is his life, his choices, and if he so chooses to crash at sunrise, so be it. I’m not judging.
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For the time being he’s in-between projects, and out of L.A. (goalie arms) He dresses entirely different out this way than there. (goalie arms) If he wants to lay on his rooftop and get a moon tan, so be it. If he wants to hit the dance floor after what could have been something more professional, so be it, and btw (Manny) he can dance [and you know it] and if he can dance he can fusk ‘k?) [blush] then fine.
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My point is why judge him for doing what comes naturally [now] (to the single handsome rich funny intelligent beyond measure witty fun-loving lug who is not in any kind of really intense relationship)? Don’t get that.
~K

GerrysLaceReader @ 05/11/2012 at 6:22 pm

@Manny:
“If you want fun and fantasy take it to a fansite.”
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Are you serious? Really? Says who? You? Why? What’s wrong with anyone being allowed to say anything here? Have a nice night.
~K

It was Mother’s Day on the 18th of March in the UK, so I’m sure Gerry’s Mom has already celebrated it.

I don’t think he’ll be going home yet but he might pay Scotland and his family a visit in a couple of weeks time when he is in the UK for SoccerAid.

@GerrysLaceReader:
“But, and correct me if I’m wrong, you said he should take it easy implying he does not. ”
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Some of us are worried he might relapse into unfavorable behavior so that’s what I meant he should take it easy, meaning less clubbing. That said, I also said that he might do lots of clubbing in NYC because it’s a great clubbing scene and very easy to hop from place to place. After all, there is nothing like the NYC club scene anywhere else.
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“My point is why judge him ”
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Trust me; I am one of the few here that doesn’t judges him harshly. If I thought he did something wrong, I will first expect to get direct proof. Haven’t I been saying this all along? And again, with that said, I have a right to my opinion that over doing anything, including clubbing, is not a good idea. That’s what I meant taking it easy. I don’t think pointing out the obvious is judging. Common sense should prevail before worship.

@TGIF:
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You are a little crackers aren’t you…you call me a mommy after you were scolding and lecturing about how everyone is jealous because they don’t pin their dreams and aspirations on Butler… oh wait.. Fun and fantasy. Get real…
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Just look to the sky and sigh girl. Gerry is looking at the same sky… OMG…

I dunno. Some people here say they see posters who think they are in some kind of spiritual relationship with Gerry. I read here a lot and have never seen any sign of that. I mean, come on, those people would have to be not only delusional but certifiable.I think the nut cases are those who read weird stuff into others posts for some reason known only to them. You can’t convince me that half the people here are living in some kind of dream world. That’s just BS.

@yikes: I would guess it makes them feel superior to voice their “stable “lol comments and put others down even tho there’s nothing real to put them down for. “Get a life” is right.

Whatshedonenow @ 05/11/2012 at 7:27 pm

He looks a bit squiffy in that picture.  He certainly does a good impression of someone who’s not teetotal.  Does this guy ever stay home?  And where is poor pug Lolita? He’s dumped her hasn’t he. 

that’s a good question where is lolita?

GerrysLaceReader @ 05/11/2012 at 7:48 pm

@Manny:
And your most favorite thing to do, between you and your alter ego socks (of which their are many), is to make anyone who hangs onto original (fantasy believes — you do not need SO happily married but still HERE) feel our beliefs, dreams and desires (as single women) are undeserving, wrong, misplaced and worthless so you create an atmosphere of doubt that no one could be with him that serves you.
~K

More than a bit squiffy @ 05/11/2012 at 8:15 pm

@Whatshedonenow: And, she’s a Brazilian model. I’m stunned. (not).

GerrysLaceReader @ 05/11/2012 at 8:20 pm

@Whatshedonenow:
Why does it concern you that Gerry isn’t tucked away at home? If he did what you wanted, you’d have to object toss darts at? Judge? Scrutinize? What do you want? What is he not doing you wished he was? Why is what he does bother to you so much?
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How do you know he does not do all his homebody bonding connecting things during the day, while we work, then (when we are crashing) he goes out?
~K

Whatshedonenow @ 05/11/2012 at 8:56 pm

Gerryslacereade

So font of all knowledge of GB–do you know what he’s done with – or to – Lolita then? I am worried for her. Last time she was spotted with him, she looked fat and befuddled.

Whatshedonenow @ 05/11/2012 at 9:04 pm

I think Lolita has become so fat and depressed, because she’s always being abandoned by her owner, she can no longer leave the house. Poor pug :(

@Manny:

Wrong. I was defending other fans’ rights to do what they like, since they’re not here to defend themselves against accusations of being emotionally unhealthy. Yet what’s interesting is the writer of that article was along on the trip with the “tarts”. I find that fascinating.

I never said that I would go to some extremes some fans do myself but I defend their right to do it. I’ve never been to Vegas, for instance, even though this year was tempting since they have pretty a good lineup of entertainment. I have to admit, however, I don’t feel I fit in with that crowd but more power to them.

I don’t understand the mindset of some of you here who feel you have to ridicule and make fun of some of Gerry’s fans and constantly argue with people here that don’t agree with your views, other then you just enjoy it.

Why don’t you just let them do their thing? It’s not hurting you. You have your opinions, they have theirs and it’s not going to change the world one way or the other.

@Whatshedonenow:

Are you this way in your real life, nagging and questioning everything and everybody about the way they choose to live their lives? People must see you coming and duck in to alleys.

For all you know, Lolita is with him. Just because you don’t see her doesn’t mean anything. Last time I saw her she was running on the beach with him in Malibu, I believe. He’s got plenty of people to take care of her if he is on the move too much. Movie stars can’t always take their dogs and other pets with them everywhere they go.

I think Alan takes her some because he has a dog named Petey too. She probably has a great playmate with him.

rachelcanada from twitter @ 05/11/2012 at 10:01 pm

Gerard Butler just walked into the Waverly Inn. #dying

Whatshedonenow @ 05/11/2012 at 10:24 pm

TGIF

I think you are taking the mystery of missing Lolita a little too seriously. That’s the problem with some ardent GB fans, they have a serious sense of humour bypass when it comes to their deity.

❁◕ ‿ ◕❁,,,,,,,como me encanta esta carita,es como yo…..je,je,je… dejo esta cancion de la ORQUESTA MONDRAGON llamada BESAME TONTA,la letra es muy especial y se la dedico a mi dulce amorcito,te amo mucho………. Triste estoy
Triste estoy.. sin tu amor
Sin tu amor
No me importa nada lo que soy

Tu dudes me mata
Tu olvido me rompe el corazon
Me quema tu ausensia
Todo en mi es delirio y frenesí

Solo estoy
Solo estoy sin tu amor
Solo estoy
Solo estoy sin tu amor

Soy capaz de dejarlo todo..
Por tu amor
Por tu amor
Se me llena el alma de dolor

Tu dudes me mata
Tu olvido me rompe el corazon
Me quema tu ausensia
Todo en mi es delirio y frenesí

Besame, besame tonta
Besame, besame tonta
Besame, besame tonta
Besame, besame tonta

Sin tus besos la vida me aburre
Con tus besos da gusto vivir
En tus brazon aprendi a besar mejor
En tus brazos quisiera morir

Besame, besame cholita
Besame, besame cholita

Si me besas con esa boquita
Bajare a todo el cielo hasta mi
Un besito sera paraiso que..
Al infierno me condene a mi

Besame, besame tonta (x5)…………es que a veces me pongo muy terca con mi amorcito y el tiene que realmente seducirme para robarme un beso,siempre me hago la dificil con el y el se vuelve asi como dice la cancion,,,,,lo adoro……dargabriel querida amiga espero que tengas un lindo dia de la madre junto a tus seres queridos,bendiciones para ti y mucho amor besitos,besitos……..sr.butler feliz fin de semana e igualmente que su mami tenga un lindo dia,llamela………..besitos y adios…….ruso feliz fin de semana………adios.❁◕ ‿ ◕❁

justsayin'too @ 05/11/2012 at 11:03 pm

I’ve been away for awhile and dropped back in to see GB still partying hard. He looks wasted but that is just my opinion.

food 4 thought @ 05/11/2012 at 11:47 pm

Two very different perceptions. Predictably, the fan girls see a fun-loving guy out enjoying his life, living it up, enjoying his “hotness” and his well-paid celebrity lifestyle. All the women he can shake a stick at, music, great food, parties every night.
Then there is what I see. I see a video of a man jumping out of his skin at the Met (the one with Chastain). There is nothing normal about a man his age acting that jittery and wound-up, to the point that he’s gnawing on his hands. I see a twitter photo of a man looking ragged and strung-out, still dancing in a club in the middle of the night, with a model half his age. He is NOT fine, people. He is partying at a pace that would flatten a teenager. And as far as work is concerned, all I see going on is a lot of announcements and spin, nobody actually doing any work. See what you want. Tell yourselves “he’s fine, that’s just our Gerry, what do you want him to do, stay home and knit?” I say light a candle for the guy, if you really care about him.

@food4 thought you bring up some valid points. This guy is milking it for all he can. He will slow down eventually. It5 the young fans that say he is doing fine and maybe he is but he will know when it’s time to slow down.

@interesting I! Interested where was he when he was buttoning his shirt?

bystander @ 05/12/2012 at 2:18 am

@cupccake: looks like an old picture from last year around tiff time. Brown Rupert bear slim cut suit, pink shirt, lollipop head thin Gerry. He’s buttoning his jacket, looks dishevelled from an earlier function.
He wouldn’t fit that suit this year.

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/12/2012 at 2:23 am

Of course Gerard wasn’t sober in that pic. Adorable girl in the pic with him tho’. Let’s cut to the chase. He’s still out partying like a rockstar. But again, it’s his life, to do with what he will. There’s nothing that we, on a gossip site can do about it. Here, I will try and give him a cyber slap *whack!* Do you think he felt it? I doubt it. Had a great night myself with friends that tried their best to give me belly laughs. And a few boys that tried their best too. ;)

Well, this Mothers Day weekend (the first without my mom) is kicking me in the azz, so anyhow, off to paint into the wee hours…..

just thinking @ 05/12/2012 at 2:24 am

So if I almost died while surfing a few months back, I don’t think I would be so grateful to be alive that I would party and shag and dance my face off nearly every night for the next few months or so,

or would I?

“He might have entered a re-birthing stage of his life again”

That would explain all the vag!nas he’s been trying to get into.

GerrysLaceReader @ 05/12/2012 at 7:32 am

Those photos of the MET night gala are really easy on the eyes. Thanks for sharing them again! I adore this picture (below). It’s good to find a larger version of it but still with watermark hoping that with any luck it’ll show up without it?
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There is a message here, what do you see? What does it say to you? I’m on the road to ruin I don’t know what I’m doin? OR I’m okay, you’re okay?
[removed link to see if post will upload but it's the thumbs up one]
@just thinking:
Easy answer. I would same like him.
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Feel Gerry who has obligations and has to answer to others in his work life, that it is perhaps only in his private life, is he allowed to make his own decisions.
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That he has a lot of pressures in his life (in general) on a daily basis we’ve no idea about. So once, he’s finished with his day possibly being in email (with friends and colleagues) and on line (keeping up with current events) or by phone or Skype having conference calls or meetings or watching TV, movies, reading his Kindle, after sunset, a good meal, he heads out to let off steam and entertain himself? Included with that possibly find a ‘date’ for the night, or not. I don’t think he’s the feen for sex some prefer to think.
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There’s the half full vs half empty view of everything.
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For instance: Gerry caught dancing can be viewed as sloppy and drunk or simply gleeful and enjoying themselves. It isn’t like he yanked the phone demanding it be deleted, right?
@Whatshedonenow:
Gerry has family here in the states. He’s young nieces as well. My guess is he still loves little Lolita very very much and she him.. When seen together this shows through.
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My take on this is she’s happy, well-loved and living a very good life with his family, and she’s his and only his on demand. Their bond is unbreakable. She knows who is her owner, him.
~K

GerrysLaceReader @ 05/12/2012 at 7:38 am

What Gerry was doin….
http://youtu.be/K6P7g_qz2OU
~K

GerrysLaceReader @ 05/12/2012 at 7:47 am

A line from a song describes some here, “Guilty feet have no rhythm.” No sense of humor either. Gerry has both, in abundance. He embraces his inner child and this appears to bother many. Why? He’s enough burdens weighing him down, why when he chooses to dump some, so many criticize him for that beats the hell out of me!
~K, daydream believer ;o) who agrees with Neil Finn to those who try to steal so many’s people’s joy, “If I think it then it’s true.” It is. Choose your thought carefully. They create your life. And a movie is coming out with the terrific Paul Dano called Ruby Sparks, have a look. Have a great day!! who would love to see the new sea otters but’ll be too crowded :o(

Tweet from last night …
The “Double Seven” is a nightclub in NYC.
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The Double Seven‏
Another rocking night with GERRARD BUTLER china chow @djcash @JeffreyJah
10:35 PM – 11 May 12
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https://twitter.com/DoubleSevenNYC

FckWhatYouHeard: Gerard Butler hooked up with @theycallmeMOSH last night…cuz she was wearing SIBLING RIVALRY!!! @SibRivalryNYC. 14 hours ago

◕ ‿‿ ◕……buenos dias a todos,escuchando una hermosa melodia de jose delgado llamada freegull,el sonido de la guitarra es extraordinario,me encanta,mi alma vibra con esta clase de musica,ahora les dejo a BAJO FONDO con NARANJO EN FLOR ….hermoso tango….Primero hay que saber sufrir,
después amar, después partir
y al fin andar sin pensamiento.
Perfume de naranjo en flor,
promesas vanas de un amor
que se escaparon con el viento.

Después, qué importa del después
Toda mi vida es el ayer
que me detiene en el pasado
Eterna y vieja juventud
que me ha dejado acobardado
como un pájaro sin luz.

Dolor de vieja arboleda,
canción de esquina,
con un pedazo de vida,
naranjo en flor……..naranjo en flor……naranjo en f,l.o.r…….tan sensual musica,………mmmm…..love…love…..passion……besitos…besitos….adios ❁◕ ‿ ◕❁

DirtyOldMenareGROSS @ 05/12/2012 at 10:18 am

If comment #498 is true, I’m DONE being a fan of Butler’s…finally. Julia Moshy (theycallmemoshy) is 19-20 years old. BARF! What’s wrong with him? I get that he likes younger…..but OVER 20 years younger????

GerrysFamousWoman @ 05/12/2012 at 10:21 am

And also whatever the name changer thinks about us is also taking place in her head. See how that works?
~K

@:-D: She appears to be 19/20 years old, if she is the one with a FB page!!

grahamclark: ‘I bet Gerard Butler leaves pubes everywhere.’

DirtyOldMenareGROSS @ 05/12/2012 at 10:38 am

@:-D: Hilarious!!!!!

(◡‿◡✿) esta hermosa melodia de Gotan Project & Astor Piazzola……es puro arte del fino para los sentidos,emocion,emocion,hasta las lagrimas y el corazon en baile total,la melodia se llama……..ADIOS NONINO………..PURA PASION………..me imagino el fondo musical de alguna pelicula del señor butler……ay!!!!…..suspiro….suspiro………d (◕‿ — )b…….

@DirtyOldMenareGROSS: Stupid posters who rant on and don’t know what they are talking about are gross. I hope you get sued some day.

@DirtyOldMenareGROSS: If you think that was hilarious, it proves my point that you are the GROSS one. Ick.

DirtyOldMenareGROSS @ 05/12/2012 at 11:43 am

@hmv: First of all, I didn’t rant, I commented on a posted tweet.
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How can you say I don’t know what I’m talking about…..if what I’m talking about is my opinion? I know my opinions VERY well, thanks…
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Lastly, what should I be sued over? My opinion that dirty old men are gross? LOL! in regards to the tweet, I said “IF” it was true…yadda, yadda…I never claimed to know facts….so get off your high horse!

glaswegian @ 05/12/2012 at 11:49 am

@just thinking: posts “So if I almost died while surfing a few months back, I don’t think I would be so grateful to be alive that I would party and shag and dance my face off nearly every night for the next few months or so,

or would I?”

Except he’s been living this way for most of his life including before this “near death” experience. Which is fine but just don’t say this “near death” experience has actually changed him at all.

@DirtyOldMenareGROSS was only repeating what that girls friend said on twitter….that he’d hooked up with her.They weren’t making that up themselves….so if it isn’t true then its the friend to blame.
However,the phrase “hooking up ” can mean many different things ….. it doesn’t necessarily mean that he had sex with her.

@@hmv: What I found more disturbing is how that supposed hookup and her clubbing pals are tweeting about slipping pills into each other’s drinks. Nice class of people GB hangs out with. I’m sure he doesn’t stick around long enough to get to know them, though.

People relax any women. With afb page that hooks up with gerry butler will not be getting a second date with him because ther bragging about it. Besides hooking up with gerry butler is exactly what it means makin out and having sex. If you guys don’t know that by now you need to wake up.

GerrysFamousWoman @ 05/12/2012 at 12:41 pm

Since when does anyone who posts trash tongue talk on FB get believed. Let’s see how long it stays up. The wall note, not Gerry. LOL
~K

Joie de Vivre @ 05/12/2012 at 1:10 pm

Off topic: To all the mothers, stepmothers, grandmothers, aunties, big sisters who had to step in, significant women in a young person’s life, no matter where you are, Happy Mother’s Day weekend! God bless and keep you! Women tend to be the mortar which hold the bricks of our families together. Be kind to one another! ♥

GerrysFamousWoman @ 05/12/2012 at 1:19 pm

@Anastasia Beaverhausen:
Are you aauming he is drinking from a snapshot of him caught in action? Is that really fair?
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Hell, if you caught anyone mid~something one could say that! Really do not think he drinks. Think he might party till exhaustion though. Just trust he’s clean. Partying is hard enough on his body. I’d like him to lay low but who has influence? The benefit of doing less. He appears to like to stick to a certain image. Just not too sure if is the real him.
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Any changes need to start with him. Benefit him. But it seems he isn’t enough. It has to be his idea as well. It must be for his benefit. Maybe he’s trying to piss people off by doing the opposite? It seems a bit excessive but it is his life. And the poster said he’s done this for so long. He needs to get to work!
~K

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/12/2012 at 1:55 pm

@GerrysFamousWoman:

He looks typsy to me. But you know how I feel about photo assumption. So I could be wrong. And maybe not alcohol? Who knows girl. What I can say for sure is that he was shaking what his Momma gave him. Which I plan to do tonight. Haha Once I get this painting done of course. ;)

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/12/2012 at 2:01 pm

How strange is it that every time I mention my momma somehow, Carly Simon’s “You’re So Vein” comes on my iPad. It’s like the 3rd time. My mom used to dance around the living room all the time to that song in the 70′s. Okay enough with my sad stories. Hey GFW, don’t forget to mention more movies that are must watch’s for me. ;)

GerrysFamousWoman @ 05/12/2012 at 2:37 pm

What did you like most about W.E.? Which story intrigued more? Loved all her belongings in the museum and how they flashed back. My favorite part were the letters, and why she needed to read them. And his reason on why he didn’t exhibit them, and his having her read them the way he did.
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It was an interesting take on Wallis, well, both Wallis and Wally. I loved Wally’s transformation.
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That’s supposed to be assuming, I was on my phone! Shh, tell no one. I honestly don’t think he’s drinking. Just want him clean is all. Maybe he works out by day and builds up his feel good meter!? When we look good, we do want to be out there and seen. It’s only natural.
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YET are we at three clubs in as many nights? If so, that’s a bit excessive, even for him. He could have nightmares and flashbacks from his NDE that triggered PTSD if he isn’t completely zonked, physically so he drops off into a deep sleep. But lack of sleep is very dangerous. So this could be his security they won’t happen?
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Again the west vs east coast time change too. And NYC IS a city that doesn’t sleep. But he’s not missing much by cooling it a tad. I feel he might not be as happy as he appears. Maybe worried?
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But at least he isn’t jet-setting and crisscrossing the globe. What I do know, is that lifestyle ages one quicker. I would hate to see him give himself a heart-attack or something just stretching the taffy of his life too thin. And if he wonders why his friends don’t stop him, he needs to wonder why he can’t say no as well? He needs a woman in his life past what he has now even if that is a healthy relationship. Needs to be responsible for hearts: his and hers. It just seems he’s given up on something and I can’t make it.
~K

Beentheredonethat @ 05/12/2012 at 2:37 pm

Most of these places that tweet G’s presence do so to draw in patronage, especially women. They are also in the Chelsea/Meatpacking neighborhood. He can duck in and out of most of these places on foot easily in one night and then walk home. The Double Seven is a very nice place that caters to the older crowd versus the young twenty somethings.
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@party boy:

And just because they tweet one of their friends had a hook up doesn’t mean it actually happened, especially if they’re all drinking and slipping each other mickey’s. Some people take things way too serious around here and then invent their own stories for amusement. Must lead pretty dull lives.

See how he explains why he is still single, he is secretive about his private life – he doesn’t let many people in. (???) So he didn’t really answer the question, just deflected it. He has been getting away with it for years lol.
http://gbgalsgallery.com/v/magazines/ps/cosmoukps/gerrycosmouk.jpg.html

Beentheredonethat @ 05/12/2012 at 2:39 pm

@DirtyOldMenareGROSS:

Opinions are like a holes……everyone got one. Some just stink more then others.

GerrysFamousWoman @ 05/12/2012 at 2:58 pm

@Reviews:
Extremely secretive. And I suspect his inner circle respect that too. Really feel this site is read for any loose-lips that could occur in dagger draw debates or prodding with barbs! Not that I know any, I don’t, but do feel we’re read, and closely.
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I just want to allow him a chance to catch up again. Don’t want to go ‘mom’ on him or anything like that because I don’t look at him from that angle. Getting mad is ill effective, same with threats. But I am worried, officially now.
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So, hey, you out there (kidding, of course) get word to him to scale it down for his own good (and mine) <- again I'm kidding. I'm saying this as one of those 'friends' (even though I'm not) when he says, "Where"s his friends? Why would they let me walk in front of an oncoming train?" <– he has never said this that I'm aware of.
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I'm trying to be one of those friends and say, "You could be putting your in danger Gerry. Please focus on the strategies that have worked in the past. Stop beating yourself up. You've always seemed to understand completely what's required of you. So when you get off balance into the mania zone you know it first. You don't take meds, but if you did, I'd suggest it might be time for a tweak? Besides your mom is worried too. We care. Many people care. But you have to care. All change starts with you. And lastly, stop trying to do to them what they did to you. It never works and all it does is create more shame. And trust me, you don't need to hear just one last song before you leave. Call me because audio works better than reading." (Kidding! I am)
~K

@Anastasia Beaverhausen: Surely you meant You’re So VAIN.

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/12/2012 at 4:26 pm

@what?:

OMG I did. Painting at the same time that I am typing on my phone. Okay thank you, I needed that laugh. Well, I guess if she made that song for a really veiny person, then that would have fit right?

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/12/2012 at 4:33 pm

@GerrysFamousWoman:

I suppose I like that Madonna tried to tell their side of the story. Wallis and King Edward VII have ever really been known for their scandalous affair and their ties to Hitler. It is a pretty controversial subject. I also loved that it had Richard Coyle in it (even though he played an azz). He is one of my favorites because of the UK tv show “Coupling”. Wish I could elaborate more, but I have to finish up my painting and start getting dressed for my night out with the girls. I will write more tomorrow. :-D

Whatshedonenow @ 05/12/2012 at 4:40 pm

King Edward VII was a nazi sympathiser.

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/12/2012 at 4:48 pm

@Whatshedonenow:

I agree, that’s always what I believed as well. But I find it interesting to get different sides to a story. There’s always 3 as they say right? Ok, gotta run. I hope the subject is discussed however. *waves*

@Whatshedonenow: Highly unlikely, as he died in 1910.

@Whatshedonenow: I suggest that you all get your Edwards sorted out, as well as your half-baked opinions on British history.

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/12/2012 at 5:04 pm

@?:

Yes, forgive us. Edward VIII, Prince of Wales, Duke of Cornwall and Duke of Windsor. Better? Geesh.

God Bless yoou all! @ 05/12/2012 at 5:36 pm

“You God, are my God, earnestly I seek you; I thirst for you, my whole being longs for you, in a dry and parched land where there is no water.” Psalm 63:1,

GerrysFamousWoman @ 05/12/2012 at 5:37 pm

@?:
Seriously, what’s with your tone? Remember for everything a reason, so it’s a good thing Edward became totally consumed by his love for Wallis he abdicated, no? None would like to even consider the consequences had he remained and became king.
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But the movie isn’t about that. It’s about how they had to move away and perhaps part of her joy was the limelight? She’s now burdened with a man she can’t slough off like all the others. That and there’s a possibility their fairytale had bumps on the road but, addicted to luxury, she stuck by him. The movie is told from Wallis’ point of view with Wally romanticizing it stuck in a dead-end marriage. But when like attracts like, magic happens!
~K

Whatshedonenow @ 05/12/2012 at 7:33 pm

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Oops..my mistake only skimmed.

Whatshedonenow @ 05/12/2012 at 7:42 pm

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But at the moment the general consensus is that Edward VIII had nazi sympathies. That is not half baked.

damage control @ 05/12/2012 at 8:17 pm

Dancing Brazilian model’s twitter acct is gone.

damage control2 @ 05/12/2012 at 8:22 pm

Moshy has vanished as well.

DirtyOldMenareGROSS @ 05/12/2012 at 8:31 pm

@damage control2: julia Moshy’s twitter account is still there. It’s protected though, but it was earlier as well…..

(◡‿◡✿) esta cancion se la dedico a mi querido fantasma del amor,para que vibre de emocion al escuchar esto …..Apocalyptica – Nothing else matters,bella melodia para los sentidos…..^_^…….besitos,besitos adios.

Just Sayin' @ 05/12/2012 at 8:59 pm

My Bierstube (Philly) tweeted that guest bartenders tonight (7:42 PM) are Tina Fey and Gerard Butler.

@just sayin where is that place you just mentioned. I just got in from seeing the avengers. Not bad.

@Anastasia Beaverhausen: Hey AnaB! the Blue Ribbon is one of my favorites – their roast chicken is to die for! My brother-in-law introduced us to the place and it’s must go to when we are in NYC from WDC.

Clubbing in NYC is better after midnight – I just can’t party like I used to – I remember the days of the Limelight, Danceteria – some other crazy places.

Hope you passed your tests. Enjoy the weekend!
Autumn

Edward VIII was also a wastrel and womaniser, who preferred to spend his time on yachts and hanging around about parties, at the expense of hard work. Sound familar?

Many of Edward’s contacts inded had dodgy connections. Those behind the scenes knew what was going on and many were relieved when he departed. It wasn’t a ‘great love story’. He was a weak, unpleasant man behind a charming exterior. She saw a career opportunity. Sound familiar?

(Gerard/Naomi/Blood Diamonds, by the way?)

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GerrysFamousWoman @ 05/13/2012 at 8:20 am

I like Jonathan’s his intro quote, “If you can find a path with no obstacles it probably doesn’t lead ANYWHERE.”
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While it seems Gerry is still relishing taking on as many nightclubs in as many nights, I will say it is a city that never sleeps and its effect must affect those ‘newly’ back in its sway.
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And with Gerry’s curious personality, being a man of excesses, and intensity, and passion for all things, I suspect it could run its course to the opposite where he decide his loft rooftop dining table filled with a small gathering of friends, for stimulating conversation beneath the canopy of stars, is just as hip, cool and stimulating as the busy streets below as they discuss, what is myth?
~K

For all the moms out there have a great mother’s day.

angelsrock @ 05/13/2012 at 9:02 am

Happy Mothers Day to all the amazing JJ moms!! Hope your day is full of whatever YOU enjoy the most!!

Happy Mother’s Day to all the women who touch our lives for better.

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/13/2012 at 11:12 am

@Autumn:

Happy Mothers Day all! Hi Autumn! Yes, the Blue Ribbon is amazing. I love their salmon salad! Oh and FYI folks, just to show how not innocent the NYC party scene can be, one of my best friends who lives in NYC called me two minutes ago and told me she is at an after hours party with a famous male celeb still partying it up. But I will not say who. I don’t call people out. But everyone have a wonderful Momma’s Day!!

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/13/2012 at 11:17 am

@Anastasia Beaverhausen:

It’s not Gerard however.

@Anastasia Beaverhausen: Love the NYC scene. Hope you have a great day!

I’m off to tour a historic private garden in Virginia’s piedmont that is open 1 Sunday a year – and today is the day! Waiting for hubby to finish the last 2 holes of golf so we can head out and walk the 10 acres in quiet.

Happy Mom’s Day all!
Autumn

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/13/2012 at 11:54 am

@Autumn:

Oh that sounds fun! And peaceful. Playing golf sounds fun too. My clubs are very very rusty at this point. As well as my golf swing. Haha Enjoy your day. It’s all about you! :-D

God Bless yoou all! @ 05/13/2012 at 3:19 pm

Happy Mother’s day to all the ladies here. Whether you are a mother, mentor children or care for them in any way shape or form, you qualify. God bless you!

http://www.faithclipart.com/video/mothers-day-video.html

Can'tGetEnough @ 05/13/2012 at 3:37 pm

Good Afternoon JJer’s! Hope everyone is having a great weekend. Found this over on WO. GB was having a good time with his friend Eric Lewis last night to celebrate Eric’s birthday. Here’s a photo:
http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10102004709343280&set=p.10102004709343280&type=1&theater
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Happy Mother’s Day to you all!

GerrysFamousWoman @ 05/13/2012 at 5:05 pm

He does have a million friends like I’ve heard. How does he come know these folks? Not a real question. Just glad he has them and isn’t lonely.
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Will say he’s not the life of this party (by this shot) but hope it was fun! Good to see him dress differently out this way. Guess something about (what’s left of the NYC –as I just saw Marvels The Avengers ;o) inspires him to dress better!
~K

Mother – a small word that moves the whole world.
Happy mother’s day to the women here that I can’t forget (even when I’m not here)

Thumbs down?????
Oh well, my mistake thought you’d want to see the pics from last night.Especially the 1st one______#HOT.

Can'tGetEnough @ 05/13/2012 at 6:07 pm

Another of GB with Eric Lewis and Josh Groban:

http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10150781496767455&set=a.80725542454.94806.542502454&type=3&theater
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@ONLY ME: GREAT photos, thanks for posting!!

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/13/2012 at 6:22 pm

@ONLY ME:

You get thumbs down on here for the silliest of reasons. I’ve learned to ignore it. Great pictures! Looks like a fun time.

@Can’tGetEnough

You’e welcome….It was a great night.

@Anastasia Beaverhausen

Yeah it was fun_________Eric really rocked out.

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/13/2012 at 6:31 pm

@ONLY ME:

It looks like it! Thanks for sharing. ;)

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/13/2012 at 7:05 pm

I also want to apologise for even mentioning my post about my bestie and said A-lister earlier. My point was that I hear about this all the time, also experienced it quite a few times and it can be a wild time in the NYC party scene. I love my best friend, we’ve been friends since the 9th grade. But I lived that lifestyle with her for quite a while and realised it wasn’t for me, and I get her to come to Texas to spend time with me and family for the most part. It’s fun, but not good for someone right out of rehab was my point.

Observations @ 05/13/2012 at 7:08 pm

@GerrysFamousWoman:

“Will say he’s not the life of this party (by this shot)”
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Definitely, he wasn’t the life of the party by any of these shots. The only reason he was not the life of the party last night is because he doesn’t like house parties. Unless it’s some rich billionaire who has an estate or some island home in remote locales. There were too many people there it seems, and very hard to maneuverer, not to mention lots of sleazy women throwing themselves at him which becomes old after a while. Well, at least they were young. But, even young women throwing themselves at him loses its excitement after a while. But really, you can tell it wasn’t his cup of tea. I guess after you hang out with the super-rich, someone like Eric, who’s successful no doubt, is not on the caliber GB is used to. A decent apartment in Manhattan, albeit expensive, is nothing like the mansions he’s been to or he himself owns. He looked clusterphobic, tired, bored, a bit annoyed, and somewhat moody. I hope most people didn’t notice he wasn’t that into it. He probably hit the clubs afterwards or went to one of Modra’s places. It doesn’t look like he picked up anyone there, unless he came with the blonde who seems to be hovering around him a lot.

@Observations

Sleazy women???

Excuse me….hope you don’t mean me.
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He was neither bored, annoyed or moody.It was a fun night,there are more pics out there.
He didn’t go with the blonde…she is one of Eric’s really close friends.

Observations @ 05/13/2012 at 7:24 pm

@ONLY ME:
I have to see your picture to decide whether or not you are sleazy. I am going only by what i see from these pictures.
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Sorry, but he did look bored and not into it. if you ever seen him at parties before, you’d know the difference.

Observations @ 05/13/2012 at 7:26 pm

@ONLY ME:
LOL! How do you know which blonde I mean? There were a few of them.

My picture is there.
Who are you to “decide” whether anyone is sleazy?
All of the girls are gorgeous in their own way…jealous much?

He wasn’t bored. As I said there are other pics of him having fun….maybe the PR company didn’t put them up for a reason.Or maybe he waited until they’d gone before he let his hair down.

BTW…..I’ve seen him out at parties plenty of times

Really..... @ 05/13/2012 at 7:36 pm

@from WO:
In the last picture you posted he really doesn’t look that happy. I wonder why.
Here is another one where he seems disconcerted.
http://redhot-society.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/DSCN0881.jpg

@ONLY ME: Looks like a fabulous party! Thank you so much sharing the photos! Josh Groban was there too. The kitchen photo is interesting – would love to know what some of those delicious looking items were!

Glad you had fun!

Autumn

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/13/2012 at 7:39 pm

@ONLY ME:

Girl don’t even bother. Jealousy is a HUGE issue on these threads. Not will all, but with a select few.

question? @ 05/13/2012 at 7:41 pm

What does Only Me means?

It is a little strange for a moniker.

@ONLY ME: Please don’t fret over what people say here – sometimes they just spout or spew for the helluva it. I’m sure you’re as lovely in person as your photo. Glad to see him with real people, appeared to be drinking water, and if the few photos were he appears less than happy – I think he was tired of having his photo taken and just wanted to mingle & enjoy people.

Have a lovely week and sharing your photos with us was extremely kind.
Autumn

Observations @ 05/13/2012 at 7:48 pm

@ONLY ME:
“As I said there are other pics of him having fun….maybe the PR company didn’t put them up for a reason.Or maybe he waited until they’d gone before he let his hair down.”
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Not jealous at all. Just calling BS. Judging from these pictures he isn’t having a good time. Anyway, how would you know he was having a good time, were you around him the whole evening?

@Autumn
Thanks : )
Hope you have a good week also.

Observations @ 05/13/2012 at 7:55 pm

@Autumn:
“sharing your photos with us was extremely kind’
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You don’t understand. These are not her photos. These are public photos posted by a website that reviews all the society functions in Manhattan. That’s where she got them from. Who knows if she was even there.

@Anastasia Beaverhausen
Thanks : )
I know what you mean.Some just like to argue for arguments sake …..Party Poopers…LOL.
Have a nice evening.

@only me those women were very attractive. Thankyou for posting..gerry looks like he was civilized. He can be that way.

Be Careful @ 05/13/2012 at 8:04 pm

@Observations: She dropped the bait in posts 562 and 563 and when no one asked her about the party, she went after your comment about the sleazy women to get the conversation rolling. Her writing style and format is indicative of another poster who pops up every so often claiming to know something about Butler. Don’t fall for it. It’s much easier to claim that you were there when you see pics of a house party than to claim you were there at a Hollywood event.
It is best to ignore her. She wasn’t at the party and she doesn’t know anything and if she was, she wouldn’t be on a Gerard Butler gossip site spilling ANY sort of information about him.

@Observations
I never said they were my photo’s.I wouldn’t share my photo’s (sorry girls) but I wouldn’t betray anyones privacy. The PR company had rights to take and share those.Maybe other people from last night might share theirs…then you’ll see what fun he had.

Have a nice evening.

@Be Careful
I actually replied to both CGE and AnaB before I got called “sleazy”, and had to point out that I am most definitely not.
I’m not here to argue with anyone.
Hope you have a good evening.
N

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/13/2012 at 8:17 pm

@Anastasia Beaverhausen:

Edit: Not WITH all. Who cares if she came on to share some photos? Some of you get out of control with your questioning and it IS due to jealousy.

Observations @ 05/13/2012 at 8:23 pm

@ONLY ME:
“I never said they were my photo’s’
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Excuse me! You implied they were yours simply by virtue of accepting thankyous for them.
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If you weren’t implying they were yours you should have corrected Autumn, Anastasia Beaverhausen, and CCE when they congratulated you for them. Failing to correct info or omitting info is tantamount to obscuring the truth if not outright lying.
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Even if you were there, I don’t know to what ends or what game you are playing by making sure you tell us anonymously you were there. And calling yourself “Only Me” gives me some ideas about who you are.

@Observations: Who are you trying to school? I KNOW PR photos – she guided us to the site. Get over yourself!
Just say thanks and move on! The lack of courtesy and disrespect shown to people who come on here is appalling.

I post very little here because of this silliness. Life is short and there are far important things than a JJ site. My being kind to Only Me was sent to her not you. I don’t need your input nor did I ask for it. Perhaps that’s something you can understand.

A

Observations @ 05/13/2012 at 8:27 pm

@Be Careful:
LOL! I totally agree with your observations; we are thinking along the same lines.
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“she went after your comment about the sleazy women to get the conversation rolling.”
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Right. She wanted to make sure we knew she was there last night and that she isn’t sleazy. That’s why I started to engage her. My question is why does she want us to know she was there?
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I don’t think she has the same writing style of that other one. This one is someone else or the second one after the first one disappeared. Actually she does sound like the second one, not the first one. I hope you understand what I mean lol.

DearObservations/LOL/Hags @ 05/13/2012 at 8:28 pm

Why do you GET OFF on being such a f/uuking b/iaatch? Go see a shrink. Maybe you’ll feel better…..
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@ONLY ME….ignore Observations. She rips into everybody. It’s a sad display of her mental illness……She’ll NEVER meet G.B. and is insanely jealous of anyone that has or can. This silly twit once (or maybe more than once) showed up at a resteraunt in a booty shorts and a bikini top because she thought Butler might show up….she’s pathetic….
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And she has the nerve to talk about “sleazy”!!! LOLOLOL!!!!

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/13/2012 at 8:29 pm

@Autumn:

I think I’ve stated this before, but……I adore you. I hope your Mother’s Day was wonderful with your hubs. :)

@Anastasia Beaverhausen: Hey Ana B! Hope your painting was good therapy and you enjoyed the day. The garden was beautiful and ten acres of roses, perennials, etc., was lovely.

I’m out for the rest of the night. Geez, you can’t even be nice to people here anymore without causing a fire fight of words. It’s so tiring. It’s a guilty pleasure for some of us, but I get tired of the poison pen.

Have a great week! Stay sane, happy and healthy.
Autumn

@Anastasia Beaverhausen: Thanks GF! It was really a lovely day. You know I’ve met GB a few times – two charity events, in a city where he was filming, and at a Starbucks in NYC. He’s a nice pleasant, funny chap. Very self-deprecating – my hubs even says for a celeb that he’s very down to earth. He’s also a Scot like me. My people are highlanders and he’s a Glaswegian – I like my Scotsmen as much as my Macallan.

Usually I am much kinder, but the acidic responses to a person who shared photos from what ever site is just silly. Have some work to finish before tomorrow. Have a great week!

Autumn

Observations @ 05/13/2012 at 8:38 pm

@Autumn:
“Who are you trying to school? I KNOW PR photos ”
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LOL! I think you are embarrassed by your own stupidity because you did comment to her “Have a lovely week and sharing your photos with us was extremely kind,” which prompted me to point out to you these are not her pictures. In addition, she even had the audacity to thank you for thanking her for sharing “her pictures” with us. Really Autumn, who are you kidding? Not me! At least admit you weren’t thinking before sticking your nose.

@Observations
This will be my last post to you.
I said “Thanks” to Autumn and AnaB for their kind words…not every one here is as bitter as you thank goodness.I think the heading of the photo’s and the PR let you know that they are not mine but the #REDHOTPRSOCIETY’s .

Autumn,AnaB and CGE I wish you all the best.
N

Observations @ 05/13/2012 at 8:41 pm

@Anastasia Beaverhausen:
I agree; sometimes people are jealous but what’s to be jealous of here? It’s not like she said she is dating Gerard. All she said was that she was at a party and linked a website with photos from last night. Why would people be jealous of that?
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No were not jealous we just don’t want to be played.

suggestion @ 05/13/2012 at 8:42 pm

Can we, as a group of adults, stop with the “jealousy” B.S.?
Can we not admit that someone can disagree with your opinion without playing the jealousy card? It’s a childish response.

Observations @ 05/13/2012 at 8:42 pm

@DearObservations/LOL/Hags:
I think you are getting me mixed up with someone else luv.

DearObservations/LOL/Hags=Eve @ 05/13/2012 at 8:44 pm

Her trademark is in her message.

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/13/2012 at 8:44 pm

@Autumn:

I feel the same way. It’s becoming more and more difficult for me to enjoy coming here. I was a mess last night, just miss my mother so much, but with friends and loved ones, and painting, I feel so much better today. (bystander, you’re in my thoughts as well). I’m almost done with my painting. And guess what? I will try and post a pic of it. :) If anything, I will create an email to somehow share with a few so I can continue to converse with you. Please have a wonderful evening. :)

ONLY ME=Toronto @ 05/13/2012 at 8:48 pm

ONLY ME sounds so much like her.

angelsrock @ 05/13/2012 at 8:49 pm

@ONLY ME:

Thanks for finding these. Is that Josh Groban in some of the pics?
Gerry looks good. His jacket looks like it may be corduroy, a bit heavy for this time of year.

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/13/2012 at 8:51 pm

@suggestion:

Because that’s obvious that’s what it is. I don’t get it. It’s like high school all over again. That’s what it reminds me of. It’s not simply disagreeing. It’s the tone. Again, it’s obvious envy.

@Autumn: Well I trust your word and that makes me like Gerard B. even more.

We are all human and everyone has a right to speak their mind. No doubt. But the attacks on the girls (or what comes across as attacking) just makes me lose my temper. I’m English, Indian and Irish, so I can let my temper and feistiness get the best of me at times. Oh well, let’s just go enjoy our Sunday. Much love…..xoxo

angelsrock @ 05/13/2012 at 8:51 pm

@ONLY ME:

It’s rather strange some of the posts that get thumbs down. Just ignore it. I am very thankful for the pics you provided. I also loved the first one!!!!

@Observations: Why don’t you take a deep inhale, count to 10, and turn your thoughts to something more positive & productive rather than calling out people on a gossip site for things that don’t make a bit of sense in the real world!

If anyone is showing stupidity and should be embarrassed by their behavior, you might want to walk into any mirrored room in your abode and take a good long look. Your name calling people that you don’t know is getting old. My stupidity was addressing you in the first place. Frankly, I haven’t been embarrassed since I was 18 – maturity and living a full life gives one a better grasp on the world so no need to feel anything but happy.

If you are indeed the trifecta of LOL/HAGS Central/Observations, you have to be incredibly obtuse. Everyone at this site dislikes you immensely if you haven’t clued into that – everyone thinks you’re annoying. If you are this annoying on a gossip site – what must you be in real life, in the real world.

Let’s just call it a draw and go to our separate corners. You ignore my threads and I’ll ignore yours. I never addressed you before nor will I again. Try to be kinder.

Autumn

DearObservations/LOL/Hags @ 05/13/2012 at 8:51 pm

@DearObservations/LOL/Hags=Eve: I think you are getting me mixed up with someone else luv.
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And why does anyone who calls you out get accused of being “Eve”? And if a comment truly is from “Eve”, does it somehow make it less valid? On this thread alone, more than one person, including GFW, told you off. Is Kathy “Eve” as well? But go ahead….think “Eve” is your only enemy on here, if that makes you feel better. I couldn’t care less..
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Oh, BTW….Observations=Be Careful

@angelsrock: Hey Angel! Nice to see you here tonight. Hope you are feeling better and the meds are working their magic. I keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

Gerry looked great in the corduroy jacket and I noticed Josh Groban too – mixed bag of guests – typical NY Saturday night :)

Have a great week my friend!
Autumn

@Be Careful:
Exactly.
It’s amazing to me how quickly a couple of people fell for her scam. That’s why she keeps coming back. There’s always a sucker around here.

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/13/2012 at 9:01 pm

@Lisa:

She posted pics! Scamming? Really? Of good lord. I’m out. Too ridiculous for me.

@Anastasia Beaverhausen: AnaB, I’m sorry about your missing your mum! They, our mums, have an impact on our lives that is unbelievable. I bet you were lucky like me and had a feisty, fun, loving woman who taught you some great lessons. Think only of the wonderful moments shared. We are lucky that we had great mums!

Stay happy!
Autumn

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/13/2012 at 9:06 pm

@Autumn:

Thanks hon. I was doing so well (!) until Mothers Day started getting closer. Haha She was very very feisty and strong. A tiny, beautiful being. Well I’m going to go now, it’s getting to be too much on here for me for now. Mwah!

angelsrock @ 05/13/2012 at 9:07 pm

@Autumn:

Hi Autumn. I wonder if you have me confused with someone else. I’ve been healthy as an ox lately. I did post a few days ago about being in the doldrums with a lot of bad news in my life right now, but my health is good. (Knock on wood) It’s tough not to respond to some of the negs sometimes, isn’t it? Who knows if Only Me was at the party. But why waylay for the attack?? The pics were great and it looked like a great party with lots of nice looking people. I won’t read anything else into it. Gerry looks great in most of the shots. Nice of him to go and support his buddy.

angelsrock @ 05/13/2012 at 9:10 pm

Have a great week, AnaB and Autumn. Thanks for your positive rational and fun posts. It seems we are outnumbered most days.

And Only Me, thanks again for the links to the pics!!

Ihighlydoubtit @ 05/13/2012 at 9:12 pm

@Autumn:

Marinated quail or pheasant eggs in the jar and caviar. I’m sure @ONLY ME: can give you a run down of the rest.

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/13/2012 at 9:13 pm

@angelsrock:

You too Angel! 💜

Ihighlydoubtit @ 05/13/2012 at 9:17 pm

@ONLY ME:

I recognized several models there. Can you tell me who they were?

Observations @ 05/13/2012 at 9:17 pm

@Autumn:
LMAO! What an idiot. First, I am not these other posters. Second, anyone who stops posting here because they are disliked is an idiot. It’s someone without a backbone. Someone kind of like you. I am not here because I am liked or not liked. I am here because I enjoy posting, especially posting my mind. If that upsets you than you are a big, huge, idiot for letting a gossip site bother you. Maybe your life is so empty you need this place to validate you. Why else would you let an Internet site shake you up? Now who is disturbed and needs to see a shrink?
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Regarding being kind. My first post to you was not harsh at all. I only pointed out to you that these are not her pictures in case you didn’t know. You went on the defensive, which to me means maybe you didn’t realize it and you felt stupid. All you had to do was say you knew these weren’t her pictures and that you were only thanking her. But you were nasty, much nastier than I ever was to you in the comments that followed. So before you lecture me, look at yourself. I think you are in great need of some honest critique.

@Ihighlydoubtit
You probably know who I am then.
Goodnight peeps.

Ihighlydoubtit @ 05/13/2012 at 9:26 pm

The links to the photos have been over at WO since around one today.

@DearObservations/LOL/Hags:
I don’t think LOL has a problem posting as LOL. I don’t think she needs to hide as Observations. JMO.

Ihighlydoubtit @ 05/13/2012 at 9:28 pm

@ONLY ME:

I was there too, so you probably know who I am.

@Ihighlydoubtit
I put the same link over there aswell. Don’t know if they’ve deleted it.

Ihighlydoubtit @ 05/13/2012 at 9:36 pm

@ONLY ME:

Long after I posted one on another site.

@Ihighlydoubtit
#616 You said you recognised several models there(from the pix) then in post #621 you said that you were also there.Which is it?

Maybe you were both there.

Which site did you post on as both Gals AND WO had pics from people who were at the party FB pages not posted from anyone who was actually there themselves.

Had to laugh at the inane ramblings of some thinking they or visiting this site shakes me up! To validate my life and to show backbone, I travel to war torn countries all over the world on missions to help. I’ve been wounded in the line of duty, did triage on people who’ve stumbled into land mines, rescued women and children from situations far from your imagining, escaped numerous life & death situations while saving other people.

My life is validation through deeds not words. As far as seeing a shrink, my team has to see someone each time we return so we aren’t affected by what we’ve experienced.

The cup of my life runs over – nothing empty here – I remain happy, positive and kind. The only honest critique I value or require is that from my wonderful husband, warm loving family and a multitude of kind friends and trusted colleagues from around the globe.

I simply don’t like the gleeful joy some experience from pouncing on the most minute insignificant details that people share here then twist it & try to discredit people. Who cares who the damn photos belong to or who posts them – I’m just glad they’re there for people to enjoy.

Remain calm and carry on!
Autumn

@Ihighlydoubtit
So are you A: only4mc @WO who posted a photo from Aldo Alvarez’s FB page or B:elenoire @WO who posted a photo from Charna Weissman’s FB page.
OR GBPhanatic /ScotsmanStuart @Gals who posted the same photo’s.

Observations @ 05/13/2012 at 10:15 pm

Gb lady love = ho
Gb fans = superficial young wannabes, or mid age mid life crisis types
Gb time spent more in transit and clubs than working

Oh wait, that is his work.

I do not think he pays for any of it.

Observations @ 05/13/2012 at 10:19 pm

@Observations:
Why don’t you get your own moniker? Like stealing too much perhaps?

Just one minute @ 05/13/2012 at 10:30 pm

@Autumn:
“I travel to war torn countries all over the world on missions to help. I’ve been wounded in the line of duty, did triage on people who’ve stumbled into land mines, rescued women and children from situations far from your imagining, escaped numerous life & death situations while saving other people.”
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Really??? And aren’t you the same person who always complains and says you can’t wait until you are able to retire already? You clearly not doing what you do as a charity. It’s a job for you that you get paid for, just like any other job, so stop your self-righteousness. If you didn’t get paid for it you wouldn’t be doing it. I am tired of hearing how you are a martyr for doing what you do.

@Observations:
That’s Eve; she likes stealing other people’s monikers. Ignore her.

Seems people don’t like it when they get called out for posting other peoples photos as their own like @Ihighlydoubtit

No. The moniker stealer around here is Observations/LOL (which is YOU!!!!) you steal “Angelrocks” moniker regularly. We all know it.

@@FYI:
Delusional? Time to go back to your rocker.

@FYI: Oh, come on! That’s the best you can do? Lamest comeback I’ve EVER heard.

@iHIGHLYDOUBTIT 624
YOU POSTED A PHOTO OF SOMEONE ELSE’S FACEBOOK.
YOU WERE NOT THERE EITHER.
TOO MUCH CONTRADICTION BETWEEN YOUR POSTS.

Observations @ 05/13/2012 at 11:23 pm

Monikers are not bound. I made my observations so that is what I called the post. You people are so nuts. Fighting about stealing.

@YES: Who CARES who was actually at the party or not? It’s the pics we’re interested in, no? If someone says they were at the same party as Butler and they are not believed, they’re a crazy liar. If they ARE believed, then they are a ****** star-f/uuker who’s probably just stalking GBut. They can’t win around here.
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Why am I not surprised?

Who is that? She’s very pretty isn’t she?

@Observations @ 05/13/2012 at 11:37 pm

@Observations: If monikers are not bound, explain you comment #629! Hypocrite! STFU and go to bed…..

Observations @ 05/14/2012 at 12:02 am

@@Observations:
I am the original Observations. The other one is just impersonating me.
Comment #629 is me but #637 is not me, and yes, she is stealing my moniker.

@Observations @ 05/14/2012 at 12:07 am

@Observations: I’m big enough to admit when I’m wrong. Sorry. I also think moniker stealing sucks.

@Observations:
The other observations is Eve. She likes stealing other people’s monikers.
@Observations, post 640, is also her. She likes to give orders. Pay no mind. She is even more annoying than GFW.
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For the record, I think it was a good idea that you tried to find out if “Only Me” is legit. I don’t know why certain people jumped on you. Probably foolish women buying everything posted on a gossip site.

@@Observations:
Sorry, as I was wrong about you too. I thought you were also the same moniker stealer who stole Observation’s moniker.
My apologies.

this place @ 05/14/2012 at 12:44 am

is just nuts tonight, sunday evenings use to be fun here, once.

(^▽^) good moning to all!!!………ja,ja,ja el dia amanecio muy soleado……a pesar que ya es invierno,hay sol……INTI…INTI….gracias por darnos alegria hoy….señor butler muy buenos dias (#^.^#) espero que ayer haya descansado un poco,para recuperar energia,siento que es un trabajador incansable,pero a veces exagera un poco,a cuidarse mas,mucho trabajo por delante viene,es pelicula thunder run ,presiento que es muy buena,saquele el jugo al guion,suerte con este proyecto que es prometedor……..bueno ahora les dejo una hermosa melodia de ESCORPIONS…….llamada …. Still Loving You………….- (T▽T)/

━━━(゜∀゜)━━━!!!!!..me, it needs time
To win back your love again
I will be there, I will be there
Love, only love
Can bring back your love someday
I will be there, I will be there

I’ll fight, babe, I’ll fight
To win back your love again
I will be there, I will be there
Love, only love
Can break down the wall someday
I will be there, I will be there

If we’d go again
All the way from the start
I would try to change
The things that killed our love
Your pride has built a wall, so strong
That I can’t get through
Is there really no chance
To start once again
I’m loving you

Try, baby try
To trust in my love again
I will be there, I will be there
Love, our love
Just shouldn’t be thrown away
I will be there, I will be there

If we’d go again
All the way from the start
I would try to change
The things that killed our love
Your pride has built a wall, so strong
That I can’t get through
Is there really no chance
To start once again

If we’d go again
All the way from the start
I would try to change
The things that killed our love
Yes, I’ve hurt your pride, and I know
What you’ve been through
You should give me a chance
This can’t be the end
I’m still loving you
I’m still loving you, I need your love
I’m still loving you……………………. (屮゜Д゜)屮 OH YEAH! xD……amor….amor…..pasion……beistos…..adios.

GerrysDaisyDuck @ 05/14/2012 at 9:38 am

How’s this for “annoying”?
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Someone, him, needs to set the partying treadmill switch to off or he’s going to end up in a New York City ER caused by one extreme creating another. Seriously, does this guy have his obit written and clearly visible on his laptop? if not he, if not careful, is headed that way.
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Who, not me, wants to log on here to read something like, “Trouble actor Gerard Butler was found…” I dare not complete the sentence. Message: Could I be any more serious? Is this the type of extreme outreach he needs or is crying out for? There I said it.
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I worry about him all the time, more than I’d admit. I just feel so helpless. I don’t know what to do because he probably wouldn’t listen anyway because he doesn’t know me! It’s not sexy to say, look, you’re heading in a dangerous way but it is what someone who cares would to. Someone who sees it and says it.
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I do care deeply for him and it frightens me that something could happen to him. I don’t want anything to happen to him, it scares me alot. More than I would admit too actually.
~K

cubedweller @ 05/14/2012 at 10:03 am

@GerrysDaisyDuck: GFW, you are far from alone in being deeply concerned about Gerard Butler’s current lifestyle, and his future. He is on a self-destructive path, and has been for some time. But only he can change that path. Only he can reach out for real help, or make a decision to change his life. It’s very difficult to watch this play out, I know. His family cannot help him, his real friends, whoever they might be, can only stand by helplessly, and his loving fans can only fret and worry. It is HIS life, and only HE can turn things around. For your own sake, you need to let him go. There is nothing you, or anyone else can do. I say this to you with genuine kindness.
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I don’t come around here much anymore, because I can’t stand the fighting, and I can’t watch this drama any more. But I took a stop by this am and saw your post. Seriously, GFW, find something more uplifting to do than focusing on this man. Don’t let him bring you down. Peace.

Can'tGetEnough @ 05/14/2012 at 10:24 am

@GerrysDaisyDuck:
“Who, not me, wants to log on here to read something like, “Trouble actor Gerard Butler was found…”
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Don’t even think it! I know how you feel though, but what can anyone do? It’s his life and I’m hoping that what we are ‘seeing’ in the tweets and pics is far from what is really going on with him. I hope he’s in control of things, I really do. It would be such a shame if something happened to him.
If he’s just going out to these clubs and parties and hanging out with friends and not drinking or doing drugs, then great! It’s what he wants to do to keep busy. I certainly couldn’t live that lifestyle, I’d be exhausted in two days, but if he can handle it without hurting himself in anyway, then it’s his life to live as such.
Cube said it well. If he is on a destructive path, only he can change it. Let’s keep our fingers crossed that he isn’t!! It’s all we can really do.

Can'tGetEnough @ 05/14/2012 at 10:33 am

More pics from Eric’s birthday party. You may have to sign into your FB account to view. Looks like they went to a club after the house party. I believe someone at WO said it was SL?

http://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.3097764252288.38452831.1509574187&type=1

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/14/2012 at 10:36 am

He’s the type of man that needs to find a good strong woman that he’s madly in love with, that will keep him in line. And he won’t find her at the places he frequents. No offense to anyone who hangs at those types of places. Don’t worry yourself sick GFW luvie. Take cubedwellers advice.

Can'tGetEnough @ 05/14/2012 at 10:43 am

@Anastasia Beaverhausen: Hi A.B. How are you today? I understand how you felt about Mother’s Day. Lost my mother too and even though I’m a mother and my kids spoil me, it’s always a hard day. I always feel down and I was glad when the day was over. Hate to say that, but it’s how I feel.
Hope your week is off to a good start! =) Have a great day!

angelsrock @ 05/14/2012 at 10:47 am

@Anastasia Beaverhausen:

We all have a wee bit too much concern for this fella at times. I do hope he settles down soon or I”m afraid of the potentially bad results.
What is he looking for, I wonder.

I still believe this man to be troubled and quite alone, no matter how happy he may look at these venues. I hope he can figure out what will make him happy.

I do believe him to be a nice guy who likes to please. He certainly does seem a bit lost these days though. I think work is the best thing for him. I am so confused about what his next project actually is, though.

He is scheduled to play in that charity soccer match next week. I guess his next film starts some time after that.

Be kind to others and have a nice day, JJ’ers!

Observations @ 05/14/2012 at 11:25 am

See, I was right. Not only didn’t he look right Saturday night at Eric’s Birthday, he also hit the clubs afterwards just as I said he probably did in my first post yesterday. Now, I don’t know if he is in trouble. This could be totally innocent. He just likes to party, but still it’s excessive and anything excessive is not good.
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Anyway, he’s probably on his way back to LA. He stayed in NYC after the Mets so he could attend Eric’s birthday party. In LA I hope he stays put until he starts filming, but I know he’ll be on his way soon to the UK for soccer and to the Cannes Film Festival. So it’s going to be a long summer until he actually starts shooting. By some of these comments here today, I don’t think his fans could take much more.

Notworried @ 05/14/2012 at 12:05 pm

I think Gerry’s just one of those people who have an extreme amount of nervous energy and his outlet for it is socializing or working.
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He seems like he’s afraid he’ll miss something or that something different or new he’s looking for will pass him by. Whatever it is, he’ll never really be satisfied because there is always something else around the next corner. He likes to eat up life.
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I do believe he has a steadfast loyalty to people and things he likes or loves. But I don’t feel the answer is a woman to tie him down. That could prove much worse. He’s always commented about how he’d like a family except for the “husband” part. A man will tell you a lot about himself if you take the time to listen.
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Only Gerry can decide when he wants to slow down or change his life. I feel someone could affect his life maybe but he ultimately is in charge. He would need somebody who inspires him or that he looks up to, not just lusts after. That might make the difference. He would have to have an extreme amount of respect for her as well and her opinions. He’d need to have a bit of “fear” of her, like he does his Mum.
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I don’t think Gerry has much respect for his sexual conquests. Those wear thin too fast and he knows they’re shallow and superficial relationships.
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And I don’t think he looks tired. I think actually he looks a little disgruntled about something. He’s not his usual, jovial and playful self. Maybe he’s got a lot on his mind. He did put on those funny glasses once but the photog was not following Gerry Butler around all night to catch his antics. The night was about Eric.
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That being said maybe Gerry just didn’t want to steal away his limelight. Gerry has a way of doing that without even trying.

Gerard’s Phannies @ 05/14/2012 at 12:14 pm

@Notworried:
And you believe in the tooth fairy too? None of your assessment makes any sense. He looks spent. It’s time to slow down.

Notworried @ 05/14/2012 at 12:21 pm

@Gerard’s Phannies:

I’ve seen people who are on their last legs and he’s far from it. He looked worse last year when he was back to smoking again. That was the worse I’d ever seen him and I WAS worried then.
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Why do you have to go on the attack to make your opinion? You’re entitled to your opinion but why do you and some others feel it necessary to not only disagree with someone but berate them for their ideas? Is this just another negative thing for you to latch on to? Get a life!

true enough but @ 05/14/2012 at 12:24 pm

@Notworried: If he hadn’t checked himself into rehab then everyone would be less concerned or not concerned at all. Because something made even Mr. Party Animal pause for once even to the point of supposedly not telling his friends, maybe so they couldn’t talk him out of it?

Interesting blind reveal on CDAN. Demi Lovato, fresh out of rehab was out with her boyfriend at the time, Wilmer Valderama [he being part of Gerry's circle of LA buddies and like yuk Demi why that sleazy Z lister] ] and he was overheard to say, “oh one drink won’t hurt you, baby.” Friends like that who needs enemies.

Notworried @ 05/14/2012 at 12:25 pm

@Observations:

“See, I was right. Not only didn’t he look right Saturday night at Eric’s Birthday, he also hit the clubs afterwards”
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I believe the whole party moved to the club. Did you not see the limos and everyone loading up the cars? Eric was taking one his keyboards. You’re making a mountain out of mole hill AS USUAL.

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 05/14/2012 at 12:26 pm

I’m in moderation? Why?
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I think he needs to see a therapist about the accident where he nearly drowned. It seems to me he’s partying frenetically to get away from his own fear and of how close he came to dying.
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I also think he needs to confront it so he can calm down and move on. Partying won’t help. It’ll just push it aside. And he might be taking the idea that he nearly died so he gets a pass to do what he wants, but that can be self-destructive.
~K

Notworried @ 05/14/2012 at 12:29 pm

@true enough but:

Why would his friends talk him out of rehab? Gerry was getting too dependent on pain killers. That’s a pretty common problem these days with a lot of people and not just celebs. And what makes you think his friends didn’t know? I’m sure they did, the ones closet to him.

Notworried @ 05/14/2012 at 12:33 pm

@GerrysFascinatingWoman:

“I think he needs to see a therapist about the accident where he nearly drowned. It seems to me he’s partying frenetically to get away from his own fear and of how close he came to dying.”
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Gerry’s been in other close calls in his life. I’m not saying this one didn’t wake him up a bit to the fragility of life, but he’s always been a guy who seems to not care about death. He’s going to live his life on his terms and stare doom in the face if he has too.
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I don’t think he’s partying any more then he used to. It’s just that with all the recent publicity about his rehab, etc., the paps follow him more around the clubs.
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The photos at Eric’s party are private ones and I think it was wonderful that he shared his evening with everyone. Eric’s good people.

Notworried @ 05/14/2012 at 12:41 pm

Some of you here think Gerry will find “the one” and settle in to this nice little comfortable and cozy life with a loving and nurturing wife and maybe a couple of kids. Do you have any idea what culture shock that would be for this guy?
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Unless his lady was willing to stay at home with the kids several evenings a week while he went out, it ain’t gonna work. Unless a lady is willing to travel to exotic locals with the guy and all of his entourage, it’s not going to work.
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I don’t think he’s good at one on one for any long period of time with anyone. He needs others around to take the pressure off of him. He may have more of a fear of intimacy then commitment. JMO.

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 05/14/2012 at 12:41 pm

It appears maybe he’s avoiding his good friends, choosing instead, to be with these other folks? Is he distancing everyone trying to get his ear to send a message? Possibly.
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But he’s not without emotional connection, and maybe that person –whomever they are– needed to use some radical technique to get his attention? Feel they matter.
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Feel many might be at their wits end and are kind of watching him set himself up for a crash and burn… to a crisp this time? It’s hard.
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As for it? He’s in control here, and it is up to him. I have faith he’ll get some help because he is the most self-aware man I’ve ever never met. Just know this… in the way things happen, in the ways of the universe, he’s gotten word.
~K
who thinks the daily name changers and psychopathic liars (who could be both) have imploded this site much like they did at IMDb by socking to were no one feels safe…but (me) and trust me, I’m fine, he’s not my I.V. drip but he does matter to me and I don’t want a repeat of last year with a different outcome so I’m speaking up… direct and clear… because he’s a fair amount of time before he has to turn up for work so use it wisely… he’s brilliant yet obtuse…

Notworried @ 05/14/2012 at 12:47 pm

@GerrysFascinatingWoman:

“And he might be taking the idea that he nearly died so he gets a pass to do what he wants, but that can be self-destructive.”
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A pass to do what he wants? He’s a free and single man! He can do what he wants as long as it doesn’t hurt anyone else but himself! He probably knows his limitations, hopefully.
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Gerry’s been pretty much behaving the same way all of his life and nothing terribly bad has befallen him. My concern is that as he gets older he won’t be able to make the connection between aging and not being able to “keep up” with the same things he did in his youth, in other words, age gracefully and accept it. That will be his ruin if he fails to realize that.
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So far though, he’s relatively young and hopefully all the really destructive behaviors he engaged in such as alcoholism and whatever substance abuse, is behind him. We all know that will kill him for sure.
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If he stays healthy and clean, he’ll be fine.

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 05/14/2012 at 12:51 pm

@Notworried:
“but he’s always been a guy who seems to not care about death.”
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Clean the wax out of your ears and remove the rose-colored glasses! News Flash: Gerard Butler is afraid of dying. Why? Most men are.
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Also, a factor, could be a mid-life crisis thing where he’s hanging with too young people trying to feel younger with adverse effects/affects? I also don’t think the parties are all that much fun, just goes cos he can.
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In his own time, in his own way, I believe he will quietly, and well planned, take his handsome self to seek the help even (I think) he knows is a must. And maybe, just maybe, he needed to hear this from them?
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Feel things that once engaged him no longer do due to some depression he’s staving off by not wishing being alone. Do it afraid, just do it.
~K

@Notworried: wow, let’s make it simple. Addicts should not be at clubs, period. There is no reason an addict should be going to clubs within the first year, so there is reason to be worried. And yes I’m talking down to you because you should learn the facts about addiction before you justify an addicts behavior.

Notworried @ 05/14/2012 at 12:57 pm

@GerrysFascinatingWoman:

How do you know he’s not in contact with a therapist? Many people who go through rehab do have a contact they can keep in touch with.
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Gerry has a deep, spiritual side to him and he counteracts it with a shallowness. It’s his facade of protection. He likes to keep some things on the surface so he doesn’t get hurt. I see it in his eyes when he’s with some women. There is no deep connection. Gerry is very animated and you’d know how he feels about someone. He only lets a few in who earns his trust to know him spiritually and soulfully, man or woman.

fusilligerry @ 05/14/2012 at 12:59 pm

Actually, I find it interesting that there has been almost zero papping, compared to his last trip to NY where there were all the pics of him and his guy friends.

And I know I’m going to get attacked by the starry-eyed fangirls, but JMO this guy has been looking really bad lately. Sometimes it’s hard to face, but when one hits middle age your body just can’t take all the partying, whether you are abusing substances or not.

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 05/14/2012 at 1:03 pm

@Notworried:
“A pass to do what he wants? He’s a free and single man! He can do what he wants as long as it doesn’t hurt anyone else but himself! He probably knows his limitations, hopefully.”
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Yes. You should to do your homework/research on how some people with certain issues handle near death experiences, then remove your rose-colored glasses.
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While you’re at it read up on why people ‘hurt themselves’ and what lies behind that. Then remove your rose-colored glasses.
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Four or was that five parties, in as many nights, whether up before noon or not, is not healthy. It’s symptomatic.
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Happy people don’t non-stop party… dodging something people do. I worry the energy is false. Who’s got that kind of energy? Unless he’s poppin’ Energy Sheets, then I stand corrected. Is he with the same people every single night? Hell, no. Why? Rest and digest. Rest and recharge.
~K
who isn’t as worried as I was at 9am (blows up bangs)

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 05/14/2012 at 1:06 pm

@Notworried:
Your right, only a select few. And what if you were one of them? What if you had his trust, his ear, possibly a part of his big as Texas heart? What would you do? Would you enable or say it afraid?
~K

Notworried @ 05/14/2012 at 1:06 pm

@PsychoB:

“Addicts” come in all different levels and substance of choice. So someone who is addicted to gambling or smoking or shopping shouldn’t go to a night club?
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I realize Gerry’s substances of choice have been alcohol and recently prescription drugs. I realize these things are available at clubs but they are available around every corner of this country! You don’t have to avoid any particular social outing to keep from being exposed to them! The only way he could avoid it, is stay home and even there, it’s a phone call away, especially if he was alone much.
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At least it seems his best and closest friends are around him to keep a good eye on him. I know they do. Plus, Gerry likes to pride himself on facing his challenges and fears and conquering them. Maybe he can with little help.
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Then maybe he doesn’t care, as he once said he didn’t care if he lived or died, but hopefully he’s past that point.
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I don’t think Gerry is fearful of death. Some people aren’t. Especially those who may be depressed or bipolar or suffer from things like that and see death as a way out or an escape. I pray he’s not that way.
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Someone who suffers from depression and anxiety disorder will seek out distractions. Being alone and quiet sometimes can make them think too much about bad things.

Whatshedonenow @ 05/14/2012 at 1:12 pm

GFW

When I questioned his extreme partying lifestyle — you slagged me off. Glad to see you have finally seen the light and realised this man is obviously not in a good place at the moment.

Notworried @ 05/14/2012 at 1:13 pm

@fusilligerry:

No need to attack you. You are correct about a lot of things. I think he does look a a bit older then his age perhaps but you can expect that’s what happens when you live a hard life in your youth.
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He can turn it around and stunt that downward progression but he has to want to do it. I don’t think Gerry loves himself enough.
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HW is a hard place to live. The demands it puts on people there is ridiculous. You become a product instead of a human being. He can be a sensitive guy sometimes and some of it may get to him and he finds himself trying to stay youthful because he feels that’s what he needs to stay in the circles. But he has a rebelious side to him that could just save his life when he tells himself he won’t bend to their silly rules and he’ll just be himself however that is.

@GerrysDaisyDuck:
Dearest Kathy,

This line – ““Troubled actor Gerard Butler was found…” – is simply hysterical! I wouldn’t worry too much about it, God watches out for fools… I should know. :-)

Hope everyone had a nice Sunday!

Anastasia B. – I am sorry for your loss, but know that your mom is watching you. My “surrogate” mom died 4 years ago and I went to her grave yesterday – I’ve felt more peace from those minutes I spent there than I have felt in the past 6 months.

Hugs to you and much love, sweetie!

Emma

Whatshedonenow @ 05/14/2012 at 1:23 pm

I’ve said it time and time again. He needs to go back home to people who genuinely care about him — his family. He has to take stock and centre himself.  I think he’s around way too many fake people who are only out for themselves and that’s a horrible place to be, no matter much money you have. That kind environment would drive even the most sane  and strong person absolutely crazy. 

At the end of the day the two most important things in life are good health and good people.  Without those you are well and truly f///uuucked. 

Notworried @ 05/14/2012 at 1:25 pm

@GerrysFascinatingWoman:

“Yes. You should to do your homework/research on how some people with certain issues handle near death experiences, then remove your rose-colored glasses.
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While you’re at it read up on why people ‘hurt themselves’ and what lies behind that. Then remove your rose-colored glasses.”

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I’m not a licensed therapist but neither are you. Gerry PUTS HIMSELF in those near death experiences for a reason! Why don’t YOU take off your blinders! The man admitted to jumping from pole to pole 46 stories up! Who does that but someone who wants to cheat death for a high or thrill?
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He has cheated and been lucky. He’s like a cat with nine lives but he’s running out of them. Partying is not his problem unless he’s doing it to acquire things he shouldn’t. Then I’ll admit it’s going to kill him then.
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He has no nine to five job he has to get up for the next morning if he needs to sleep until one.
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I don’t think he hurts himself. He seems to love to indulge in pleasure too much for that. What makes you believe he hurts himself? I don’t think he always likes himself, but many of us have that problem and we address it in our own ways.
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You are starting to get rude and judgemental with me. I think our conversation is over.
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I know you’re trying to display your abundant concern and affection for him here and make a show of it more then anything else. Like someone else said, you need to back off a bit and regroup! You’re getting too involved in someone’s life that you don’t know and doesn’t even know you exist. I’m just making an observation from an outsiders perspective.

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 05/14/2012 at 1:33 pm

@Whatshedonenow:
It wasn’t really to slag off anyone but give him a wide berth of wiggle room, room to fail, room to grow, room to pull it together on his own, but feel he’s much weaker than he posters to be. So well it became time to yank out my right oar.
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But on day, no, make that nigh five it was the straw that broke this camel girl’s back.
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What people don’t know is self-aware is just that: self-aware–and he’s one of the most self-aware men on earth–which is a plus and he could easily check himself into Rehab, which is not any fun and possibly why he does not wish to return. Therapy isn’t a bite of cake either, and yes, he’s been (I think) in therapy for many things before. He’s no stranger to self-help! I admire and respect about him. I’m calmer now. Can’t say why.
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@Notworried:
You sound like a long-term fan reiterating and regurgitating a lot of what I’ve been saying (here) for ages along with your co-conspirators (elsewhere too chicken to speak up) wishing to white-wash dangerous behavior. Behavior where he’s a danger unto himself. Only this year? I’m not tolerating it.
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But you’re are right about one thing, those eyes don’t lie. And they spoke volumes in the last set of pictures that started some sort of silly fray between posters. So much so it sent Daisy Duck into action! When you save a life, you’re responsible for it.
~K

Whatshedonenow @ 05/14/2012 at 1:35 pm

Notworried

“.. you can expect that’s what happens when you live a hard life in your youth…”

Compared to most people on this planet Butler has had a ridiculously easy life. The man has simply spent too much time living a hyper selfish, self absorbed, hedonistic life, and it has finally caught up with him. And it shows on his face… that’s all. No one with even half a brain can live that kind of life for that length of time and not have somekind of emotional, psychical and psychological damage.

Notworried @ 05/14/2012 at 1:35 pm

@GerrysFascinatingWoman:
“It appears maybe he’s avoiding his good friends, choosing instead, to be with these other folks? Is he distancing everyone trying to get his ear to send a message? Possibly.”
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What other folks? I’ve seen him around the same people he’s known for years, like Eric. Seems he’s even made a new acquaintence possible with Josh Groban! He is expanding his circles.
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The people at that party looked very classy and together. I didn’t see any hint of suspect personalities or users. They all seemed friends and friends of friends. Gerry probably brought the models! LOL!
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You’re reading way too much in to a few photos.

Notworried @ 05/14/2012 at 1:40 pm

@Whatshedonenow:

Let me rephrase that….when you live your life hard! I didn’t infer that he’d had a particularly hard or difficult life. My meaning was that he lived it hard. That will take it’s toll on a body.

fusilligerry @ 05/14/2012 at 1:41 pm

@Whatshedonenow: I’ve noticed that the celebrity-types who are the most successful in terms of staying power in the business, are those that get the he/ll out of HW, and only come in to do a job, and then leave. They also stay out of the party circuit. You will only run into trouble there, of one sort or another. Those people are hangers-on, druggies, ho’s, etc., who are only showing attention to you for what they think they will gain. They are not your friends.

You are correct in that the best place to heal is with his family. His mother will whip him into shape. I am from that part of the world, and have a Catholic mother of her age, and I know what she is capable of, lol. Of course, if I ever did what he’s doing, she would actually come and drag me home herself.

Notworried @ 05/14/2012 at 1:46 pm

@GerrysFascinatingWoman:

“You sound like a long-term fan reiterating and regurgitating a lot of what I’ve been saying (here) for ages along with your co-conspirators (elsewhere too chicken to speak up) wishing to white-wash dangerous behavior. Behavior where he’s a danger unto himself. Only this year? I’m not tolerating it.”
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What?? Let me understand what you are saying…I sound like a fan saying the same thing you have said white washing his dangerious behavior. LOL! Sounds like we’re on the same page to me!
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I’m not whitewashing all of his behavior. Suddenly you get all concerned when just a week ago the man couldn’t do anything wrong and was “healing” in your eyes. Now he’s not. I think you read stuff in to things so you can be all melodramatic. Butler’s not reading here so stop with the theatrics.

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 05/14/2012 at 1:49 pm

That’s postures to be! LOL (winces)

@Notworried:
“Gerry PUTS HIMSELF in those near death experiences for a reason! ”
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Right! Ever consider why? What’s behind it? He IS hurting himself, but others too. Mom, brother, friends, extended family, colleagues… and people he doesn’t know personally. He, like many of us, might even have a few on-line friends?
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The dangers of sleep deprivation are huge. Look that up too. Then look up why people play chicken with death feeling some sort of rush at outsmarting it, or ‘blessed’. No… he’s flesh and blood.
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This is what I’m suggesting before you make a fool out of yourself (any further) finding excuses from things he has said in the press is the worst type of research! Not from him, his words! He’s an entertainer, an actor. Do some simple homework on NDE and PTSD (for starters) to relate to why he’s acting out, out of fear. It’s isn’t funny. It’s dangerous.
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Attitude=Behavior=Consequences. Simple math with it all starting in the mind, where love begins and ends.
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He needs a forest, not a few trees. He’s no island either. He can’t do this alone. It’s bigger than him. He knows this now. Again, remain calm. Why? I couldn’t forgive myself if I did not speak up now.
~K

Notworried @ 05/14/2012 at 1:54 pm

@fusilligerry:

I don’t think he can just go back to obscurity and remain viable in his career. It doesn’t work that way. It’s out of sight out of mind in entertainment. I do agree that he needs to stay away from HW as much as he can but that lifestyle obviously draws him in. A person who loves the nightlife like he does and the party atmosphere will find it hard to resist because things are not off limits there most of the time.
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But NYC can be no better. Perhaps in Gerry’s case, settling somewhere inbetween would be better for him. Maybe he should find a house in the mountains of Colorado or Arkansas. Lead a clean, healthy life!

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/14/2012 at 1:55 pm

@Notworried:

Hey that IS my opinion, but I don’t think it’s the end all to his problems. He needs to fix himself first. Or there will never be a good woman who would ever put up with him. It’s his job to get himself together, not ours.

Hi CGE! Ya it was more the leading up to Mother’s Day that got to me. But I hope your Mother’s Day was great! I hope you got very spoiled! :)

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 05/14/2012 at 1:57 pm

No, you and I are not on the same page because you feel I was “white washing”. I wasn’t. What I said then, was then. It was true. I stand behind every single post I put here. But this is now, Monday. No more spinning for the sake of “peace, love and happiness” on a flippin’ gossip sight.
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No, Gerry’s not reading here. But bet your lunch money on it, someone is–and the message will be delivered. And they can discern real love and concern by supporters (who offer solutions btw) from doe-eyed infatuation fans who like to spin his well-being for to adhere their need. Need I post this again… so I will… I’d edit to fit you but I’ve got to get back to work!
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Dice and slice me? Hit a nerve did? Now, with your long diatribe I realize who you are from the last thread where I got your number as they say. And since you change your moniker daily (because after you come out no one will talk with you) it was only a matter of time before you started blabbing and then, well, here you are.
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Wake up lady (and I’m showing respect btw calling you that), because your relationship with Gerry only takes place in your head. Your fantasy has become a 24/7 I.V. drip. A fantasy of which has become a highly developed passionate obsession. Your fantasy has grown to the point that you can quote so much here about your object of obsession since cyber stalking him for years.
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Hell, I love him like cash and haven’t the facts you do! This escape you have created in your mind must be like taking a shot of heroin, huh? It must give you immense pleasure and excitement. This is your relief from pain and discomfort in your dull life, where you do no such thing as men, but my guess avoid all contact with them, but for Gerry (at one time since he’s fallen from your prejudiced graces)… in your mind.
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Your emotional satisfaction took place in your world of fantasy where you could maintain this fantasy for yourself with power and control that operates just when you want it to. Fantasy replaced the real world. You’ve crawled into this cocoon-like compartment to reduce your distress. Fantasy became your drug of choice, now it’s harassing me because you’re angry with yourself with an imperfection noted so you must take it out on someone, so that’s me.

~K, who is fascinating ;o) [edited to say you are fascinated too] and making this her last post… cheers!

Notworried @ 05/14/2012 at 1:59 pm

@GerrysFascinatingWoman:

Stop telling me to do “research”! You’re getting over the top and sounding silly! I’m done talking with you because you’re just getting worked up to make a show of it or get in go an argument. There is nothing you can do about anything. You are not in his circle of friends. He could care less about your analysis of him. Get a grip! You’re the one making a fool of yourself!

Anastasia Beaverhausen @ 05/14/2012 at 2:00 pm

@Emma:

Thanks doll. That’s always nice to hear. I hope your Mother’s Day was wonderful. :)

Whatshedonenow @ 05/14/2012 at 2:03 pm

fusilligerry

ITAWY

There’s nothing wrong with partying up every once in a while. But GB seems to have made partying his hobby when he’s not working. Never a good move. You should never take partying that seriously. GO HOME GB. GO HOME.

Just Me=Only Me=Notworried @ 05/14/2012 at 2:03 pm

The same psychobabble buIIsh!t and the same imaginary relationship with Gerry. Then she tells us she was there last night. Really???

Notworried @ 05/14/2012 at 2:07 pm

@Anastasia Beaverhausen:

You’re right but I’m afraid Gerry looks for someone to “fix” him. That’s a lot of responsibility to put on someone, particularly a woman who may be trying to make her own way in the world. He needs to look after Gerry first before he can look after someone else.

Notworried @ 05/14/2012 at 2:10 pm

@Just Me=Only Me=Notworried:

I thought you were gone and it was your last post, GFW! You’re not fooling anybody! You can’t leave! This place is your life! The only one that has an imaginary relationship with an unobtainable celeb is you! Get some therapy yourself before you emplode or loose your job.

fusilligerry @ 05/14/2012 at 2:11 pm

@Notworried: There are a ton of options available in terms of places to live, and still be able to get in and out of Hollywood, NYC or London easily for work. Actually, I think it would be a great idea for him to do some films or stage work in London while he works on his issues. This can’t go on the way it has. He’s becoming a laughingstock, and is becoming known only for his partying and manwhoring reputation at this point. That’s the first thing mentioned when his name comes up these days. That and 300, which was years ago now.

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 05/14/2012 at 2:11 pm

One more…

@Notworried:
“But NYC can be no better. Perhaps in Gerry’s case, settling somewhere inbetween would be better for him. Maybe he should find a house in the mountains of Colorado or Arkansas. Lead a clean, healthy life!”
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Do you see what your saying? Have you a clue? You’re saying something is wrong with Gerry. He’s not good enough as is.Where he lives is wrong. What he does is wrong. Who he’s with is wrong. You want to fix him. He’s broken. He’s not your dream guy after all! No, you want him in mountains of Oregon (which is nicer btw) so you can have your phantasy!
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No, he simply has to come to terms with some casting in his mind beyond his control, and he does like to be in control, and those whys are something else entirely. But nothing is wrong with him. Nothing is wrong with his career or what he does, his goals, dreams are all valid. He is enough. He is okay. He is kind, smart, important! LOL He’s a few mind noises, like most of us, which need managing.
~K

ONLY ME (N) @ 05/14/2012 at 2:19 pm

@ 692
It wasn’t last night,it was Saturday : )
- and yep I was there.
N

Notworried @ 05/14/2012 at 2:19 pm

@fusilligerry:

“He’s becoming a laughingstock, and is becoming known only for his partying and manwhoring reputation ”
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I don’t think that’s altogether true. A lot of the manwhoring rep he’s getting is from the tabloid press. And if every single, good looking guy in HW who partied was called a “manho” it would be half of the male population there. We’re just more aware of it with Gerry because he’s becoming more famous and we’re seeing more things about him.
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Gerry’s often talked about moving somewhere “remote”. He’s often talked about his land in Scotland where his Mum lives. I think he secretly dreams of ending up there some day living a simpler life when he gets everything he feels he needs to out of his system. I hope he can do it!
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Ever since he popped that pap, they’ve had it in for him. There is no love there.

@Notworried: You asked why would a “friend” talk someone out of rehab. Because they aren’t true friends they are sycophants – they are part of the entourage because they enjoy the status, the freebies including drugs and the access to the A list scene Or it means they have to examine their own issues if a friend admits they have a problem and they can’t deal with that so keep the party going. If their celebrity connection goes to rehab and takes the standard advice, they might get dumped and lose all that. Managers and agents often talk their clients out of much needed breaks and rehab because it will cost THEM money, never mind their money maker is a trainwreck ready to crash. Sometimes they want to keep the celebrity wrecked so they can keep stealing money from him or her. A smart manager or agent would at least get their client to rehab because an addict-client or dead client isn’t going to make you money in the long run. You can bet this happens all the time especially if that manager or agent has shiny new prospects ready to take their place. Everyone is expendable or replaceable in the entertainment industry.

I am just talking in generalities, so don’t go off on me.

God Bless yoou all! @ 05/14/2012 at 2:24 pm

“And my God will meet all your needs according to his glorious riches in Christ Jesus.” Philippians 4:19 NIV

Notworried @ 05/14/2012 at 2:35 pm

@GerrysFascinatingWoman:
“Do you see what your saying? Have you a clue? You’re saying something is wrong with Gerry. He’s not good enough as is.Where he lives is wrong. What he does is wrong. Who he’s with is wrong. You want to fix him. He’s broken. He’s not your dream guy after all! No, you want him in mountains of Oregon (which is nicer btw) so you can have your phantasy!”
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You’re loony toons! LOL! What’s my moniker there, genius? If I thought there was anything major wrong with Gerry, would I say I’m not worried about him? See, this is your problem. You talk so much and don’t listen to what anyone else is saying OR even yourself, that you end up talking yourself in to a corner confused and rattled.
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Honestly I think the guy is way better then most give him credit and capable of things more then most and doesn’t always appreciate himself. He lets some things get to him, but we all do that. He’s got a good heart but you can’t have a thin skin in his business.
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I’m saying I’m not that worried about him. And I’m not worried that he’s spiraling out of control like you seem to believe. I’m cautiously optimistic because I’m more the glass half full kind then your “glass half empty” mentality.

Notworried @ 05/14/2012 at 2:38 pm

@la lifer:

That’s not a true friend then is it?

Observations @ 05/14/2012 at 2:39 pm

@Notworried:
“The photos at Eric’s party are private ones and I think it was wonderful that he shared his evening with everyone. Eric’s good people.”
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No, those photos were not private. He hired a professional photographer and intended to share those photos in the society pages. It’s good publicity for him and a form of networking. The people that read RED HOT-SOCIETY are usually his type of clients.
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In addtion, sharing these photos with the public doesn’t make him good people either. He could very well be a good person, but not because he is sharing his photos so that people like you could see them. Please get a grip. You’re giving him more credit than due.

Observations @ 05/14/2012 at 2:41 pm

Take a look again. Red Hot just created a gateway for his pictures. It’s all business. http://redhotprsociety.tumblr.com/post/22996103667/ericlewis-performance-and-birthday

just saying 3.0 @ 05/14/2012 at 2:43 pm

@Whatshedonenow: Or maybe partying is his career and his hobby is movies?

Observations @ 05/14/2012 at 2:47 pm

So Camilla Olsen, someone Gerry might have hooked up with a long time ago (the Waverly woman), was there too. She is part of their circle. She attends many of the charity events that Gerry does. She was even in Miami last year for that Vogue fashion show in South Beach which Gerry was invited to. I wonder what their relationship is. She could be another one of his Ex’s which he stayed friendly with.

Here she is with Nick Boyle.

http://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=p.3099072364990&type=3#!/photo.php?fbid=3099072364990&set=p.3099072364990&type=3&theater

Notworried @ 05/14/2012 at 2:50 pm

@Observations:

I’m sure they served some PR purpose but that’s not the only reason he did it. A propective client is not going to hire someone from a bunch of personal birthday photos who plays music. The best PR for Eric would be in the form of a live video of him playing, wouldn’t you think?
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The only two notable celebrities there I recognized was Gerry and Josh. Gerry’s a good friend and Eric opened for Josh’s concert tour last year. It was good of him to come!
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You see the worst in everyone, don’t you? To you, they have a selfish alternative motive for everything they do. That’s sad.

GerrysFascinatingWoman @ 05/14/2012 at 2:53 pm

@la lifer:
That’s it! That says a lot! @Notworried:
You’ve it all backward. You’re not “half full” you’re white-washing some very dangerous behavior demonstrations of acting out because you can’t cope with reality. So you find every excuse possible in your “half-full” of being just a fan to post here. And obviously haven’t been reading me very long or you wouldn’t be saying what you are! LOL
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But covering up, finding a “half-full” notions/excuses (especially right now) or grease-painting his (some very scary to him) problems or trivializing them does help him but you to cope. Your only suggestion is he move to the mountains? Really?
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Bottom line is you’re not woman enough for Gerry and cannot admit it. He needs some who isn’t afraid of him, is mature, and patient but strong enough to hit him over the head with a left oar, and him her, when they need the bow-ties straightening… okay, that’s a different version. LOL And trust me, you are not that type.
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I bet, on better days at your fan-site you’re from, you’re the type, like a reader of mine, to use the word “wonderful” to describe Gerry, and often, right?
~K

Observations @ 05/14/2012 at 3:03 pm

@Notworried:

“You see the worst in everyone, don’t you? To you, they have a selfish alternative motive for everything they do. That’s sad.”
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I am just being realistic unlike you who sees imaginary things that don’t exist. Your made up fantasy is what’s sad. And besides, why is selfish bad? Aren’t you selfish and do things for selfish reasons? How else would you be alive if you didn’t? There is nothing wrong with self-promotion. Gerry wouldn’t be where he is today without it. But please let’s not call it anything else but self-promotion. Placing his “public” pictures in the society pages doesn’t make one “good people.”