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Gerard Butler: From New York to LAX!

Gerard Butler: From New York to LAX!

Gerard Butler keeps it cool and casual as he arrives at LAX Airport on Wednesday (May 8) in Los Angeles.

The 43-year-old Scottish actor was in good spirits as he drank a bottle of water and made his way through the terminal.

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The night before, Gerard posed for photographs at The Great Gatsby screening after party held at The Lambs Club in New York City.

Earlier in the week, Gerard looked dapper dressed head-to-toe in Dolce at the 2013 Met Ball.

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# 4

Hoping Gerry had a nice time at the great Gatsby premiere.

# 6

He looks beautiful. Lovely man.

# 7
He has indeed moved on @ 05/09/2013 at 10:15 am

This is on several gossip sites, including Celeb-chy, and Page Six.
” …
Anyway, while Miranda’s been enjoying the NYC party circuit, she’s run into Gerard Butler several times. He too was at the MET Gala. And on Tuesday night, Spittle showed up at The Great Gatsby screening where, according to Page Six, he and Miranda were talking very closely, an extension, ahem, of a conversation they were having the night before, and photographed doing so. When they found out that there were pictures, I’m told Spittle made a deal with photographers to get rid of those shots in exchange for some other ones to be arranged at a later date. He apparently promised it would be worth their while.

My question – why would he convince the photogs to delete the photos? What’s the big deal of the two of them talking? Oh wait, who are we talking about here? Miranda Kerr, who has been flirting and cheating on Orlando for a long while. She was just rumored to have had something going on with Leo. So now she’s moved on to Butler? Bleh these people make my head, and stomach, spin.

# 8

He’s looking good in these pics, I wonder if its cool in LA. Since he’s wearing a leather jacket

# 9

Popcorn? Check. Beverage? Check. All ready to kick back and laugh at the avalanche of biddie crazy. Bring it!

Nice pictures of a nice looking man …. Let’s hope work is coming up – NOT a new girlfriend ;-)

DailyTroll @ 05/09/2013 at 11:03 am

@Kristen: If that’s how you spend your time amusing yourself then you must be the Queen Biddie, but more likely Head Troll.

dargabriel @ 05/09/2013 at 11:11 am

Very Nice To See The Butler Back Where He Belongs In California, Butler Its Time For Another Test Now. Show These People you’re Not Smoking So They Can Get Off Their High Horse. Unleashing Is Necessary. Who Ever You Are,Writing To Me, You Know Much And You See What The Blind Do Not. My Heart Goes Out To The Boy Who Passed Away. So Many Say How Butler Loooovvveeesss New York So Much, I Disagree And Always Have, Obviously i’m Right, You Who Thinks He Does Is Off Base, He doesn’t Even Stay And When He Does Visit, He Stays In Hotels, He Belongs Here For The Now And Has Since Arriving Many Yrs Ago, He Knows Where His Heart Is. And People I Do Not Talk To Myself, you’re All High On Drugs, That wasn’t Me, For Dar Only, Maybe Its Someone Who Is Very Important, I Happen To Know, Ha,Ha. I Am Always Dargabriel, So Stick It, Oh And Believe Whatever Your Conscious Tells You In This Very Materialized WorlD, Thats All This Is. I Am, The I Am. Another Test Around The Corner, This Will Be Dificult, i’m Asking For A Very Wimpy Individual To Return, I Do Wish Light Upon Men Who don’t Want To Grow Up. Hi To The Nice People And Goodbye To The Rotten Ones, Butler Likes The Term A Bad Apple. Another Beautiful Day In The Forest. dargabriel

young and restless @ 05/09/2013 at 11:12 am

RIP Mrs. Chancellor.

thor's day @ 05/09/2013 at 11:13 am

wonder how many times he has made that deal, I guess the paparazzi have a load of Butler stories that have never seen the light of day and what could he possibly offer that is better than flirting with a married recently ex-Victoria Secret model unless he starts dating like a mad man.

Ruh roh Butler didn’t Miranda get canned from VS for her attitude, never mind the married part.

I hope Olando Bloom or another pisssed off husband punches Butler’s lights out. What a waanker. Why can’t he stick to chasing after the Katy Perrys of this world? They’re old enough, hot, single and up for it. Oh yeah, I remember he’s too much of an arrsehole to do something as sensible as that. What a shiitehead.

@DailyTroll Aw honey lamb, everyone who calls you out for what you are isn’t a troll. But you keep telling yourself that if it makes you feel less like the old fat lonely housewife biddie that you are, cookie snookums.

Poor @Kristen @ 05/09/2013 at 12:13 pm

@Kristen: Money says you are a fat lonely housewife, age 25 – 30, who is either terribly insecure and enjoys bullying people to prop up her low self esteem or you are an narcissist – and watch carefully to what happens to narcissists, your hero is a classic one. But the beauty of being a narcissist is you never see your flaws, until it is too late.

He has indeed moved on @ 05/09/2013 at 12:14 pm

@Yuck: I agree. Hey Butler. How about staying clear of married women (and respecting their children in the process), and honoring your “relationship” that you have spoken about, no matter what the heck it is.
Doesn’t matter who came on to who. She is married – end of story.

Lainey says @ 05/09/2013 at 12:15 pm

@Yuck: Miranda is up for it and Orlando does not seem to mind.

@Kristen: Hi, LOL. Your nasty mouth always gives you away. Do you ever leave this forum or do you just sit here posting 24/7 with your Cheetos and boxed wine. Here you are posting again, cookie snookums, so I guess YOU are called out, honey lamb.

…..those conversations could be anything.

Miranda could be in an upcoming movie…..people need to stop

The same thing was just done with him, Jennifer and her fianceee (look how quick of a thunder and lightening boomerang the paps put to that conversation).

All that gossip……Gerard has been blessed and he is glad to be with friends

Maybe Gerard was respectful and did not want problems in Miranda’s and Orlando’s home (thus no pics…..b/c it would have brought problems..probably).

Leo and Gerard: Miranda from now on let us know what model is decent and who is not… avoid crazy

Miranda/Jennifer: Gerard you look good….stay healthy and we are glad…………..because we were concerned about you

Those conversations could have been anything……..

@Lainey says

I wouldn’t be so sure about that, and even if that were the case, it’s not the first time Butler has gone after a married woman and it probably won’t be the last. It’s only a matter of time before he runs up against an irate husband who does mind, and minds very much and Butler will not come away unscathed. Once a Shiite always a Shitte, I say.

Life is a journey you need to enjoy from the very start right up to the end. You obviously fear getting older. You’ll be a much happier person as you progress through life if you change your attitude.

He has indeed moved on @ 05/09/2013 at 12:30 pm

@NiceToSee: Yes it could have been a normal conversation. But the fact that he flat-out bribed the paps to delete the photos makes it all very skeevy, and more of an issue than if they had just simply smiled for a photo.

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What’s in his left hand…a baseball? Wonder if he saw “42″?

Lainey, or whatever her name is, is out for Gerry ever since he rebuffed her advances on him one time. She wanted an interview and came on to him and he walked off telling her he’d be back and never did. She’ll never let him forget it so I don’t trust anything she says.

As far as the conversations he was having with Kerr, that’s possible but that’s all it takes for that betch to twist a tall tale out of it for her own amusement. I don’t think anything was brewing and how would she know? Her “sources”?

I’m not a fan of Miranda Kerr anyway. There’s something about her that irks me for some reason. Hope Gerry has nothing to do with her for many reasons.

@Kristen: You’re the only sitting in the theater, darlin’.

What's Missing @ 05/09/2013 at 12:55 pm

@He has indeed moved on “This is on several gossip sites:” That is why it is called gossip. It starts in one place and the others pick up on it. Obviously, we all know how that works here on JJ. One poster makes a statement about GB. Other posters start repeating it so much that people take it for a true fact.

It may very well been all innocent but telling photographers to delete sparks suspicioun butler really needs to learn to keep distance from married women as it makes him look awful, people don’t really honour their relationships in showbiz because they lack morals and loyalty! His relationship with madalina ran its course they hardly saw each other and her behaviour didn’t really earn fans! Looking at Miranda Orlando relationship it looks not right it must get incredibly lonely travelling, being on your own most of the time I just feel sorry for the kids!

Sometimes I think it’s not worth having relationship with celebs as nothing is normal for them and bringing kids into that environment you have to have a solid marriage who take their commitments seriously

I don’t believe in ever being seriously angry with someone over choices they make for themselves…such as not granting someone an interview, etc. Each of us decides what is best for us in our lives and you can’t blame someone if they don’t do what you think or hope they would. Always remember that everything happens for a reason!

What's Missing @ 05/09/2013 at 1:18 pm

@dargabriel: I am posting with all intentional kindness to you. I do not mean to offend. May I suggest, if you don’t like being in the spotlight and being put on the spot, that you stop posting that you are GB’s twin flame. This is very contradicting. By saying you are GB’s twin flame, you are putting a small spotlight (JJ) on yourself and you are putting your own self on the spot. It is easy to see how people might think that you are trying to draw a spotlight of attention to yourself. If you truly believe you are GB’s twin flame then there is no need to try to convince others by posting it here. Personally I have no problem with you thinking what you think, as doesn’t effect my life in anyway. If it brings you a little happiness, contentment and hope into your life, then good for you.

This conversation got more coverage than his entire “relationship”. I guess everyone knew it would last all of two seconds.

It seems to me @ 05/09/2013 at 1:22 pm

Why does almost everyone take as fact something that a writer with an obvious agenda writes? How does Lainey know anything? Does anyone stop to think that asking paparazzi to delete photos is more likely than not going to make a bigger payday for the paparazzi if they refuse? Think about it.

What's Missing @ 05/09/2013 at 1:22 pm

@thursday: Who is angry and who didn’t grant an interview?

The fact that MG was restricted on travelling to the states was a huge problem! She only stayed in Shreveport because of the commercial work permit, then some odd modelling jobs and the festival not be nasty but I don’t think her career is going to go anywhere! Long distance relationships rarely work in the celeb world no chance! He knew right from the begining where it would lead hence all the nice stuff he said about her and photo ops for favours sake

…”standing close in conversation for 20 min. She was smiling.” But isn’t this what people do when they are speaking to each other…whether single or married? Unless GB and MK were seen in public in a more intimate way, which I doubt, I don’t think there is anything to this…other than HW gossip.

This has gotta hurt. The Romanian wasn’t even a blip on the radar here. It’s like she never existed. The Superficial covered it too, and said this:

“Keep in mind, the last high-profile celebrity Gerard Butler banged was Jessica Biel…”

The Big Picture @ 05/09/2013 at 1:53 pm

@One more:

And? So they were at the same premiere and they’re in separate pictures, so what? He posed with Carole Alt too btw and they were in the same picture. Carole is far more his type than Miranda, tall, skinny, model type and he and Carole seemed to be holding each other.

I was laughing so hard when I read that DListed article: bone 3 times! He’s 43 and I doubt he can bone that fast at his age. Probably why Maddie went and had a threesome with her and another shirtless guy in a disco in Milan. She needed to feel young again!

With all the injuries this man has had over the years, I doubt his body and even that part of him works like when he was in his 20ies! If they’re going to make up stories, at least they should do their research first so the story will sound plausible.

They’re doing the same thing about Jennifer Aniston and him now, saying he’s the reason why her wedding is on hold!

I guess if Anne Hathaway divorces now, it will be his fault?

The Big Picture @ 05/09/2013 at 1:59 pm


I think you nailed it! I don’t believe MG’s claim she auditioned for a movie role opposite Gerry as I don’t think he wants to work with her. He doesn’t work with GF and this is why Jennifer Aniston could not have been one.

I guess it’s not only Lainey who make up stories but MG too. I believe him to be professional enough to do his research before working with somebody who might make him look like a fool and MG obviously lied her way into the Dom Hemingway role from her own words. The producers must have been hitting their heads against the wall wondering why they even picked her up for the part.

Lighten up @ 05/09/2013 at 2:03 pm

@The Big Picture: I don’t think these articles are meant to be taken seriously. They are written with humor and are amusing. I think everyone needs to lighten up around here and have a laugh, and not see every article written as the gospel. It’s gossip. No need to get defensive.

The Big Picture @ 05/09/2013 at 2:09 pm


All they actually did, Jessica Biel and him, was hang around each other talking like co-stars do on a movie set. They went out to buy cupcakes together for the crew and they took a motorcycle ride. No proof they banged at all.

They were acting like normal co-stars who happen to play a married couple who might get back together. Personally I would have liked for the rumor to be true as I could have seen them together but there is absolutely no proof that there was more. They were in full view of the locals and if there had been something going on, there would have been report of them together.

He had a woman staying with him in Shreveport too in 2011 ., somebody far more discreet than MG and he threw a party too for the 4th of July and I think it was the same caterer who was hired last year. The locals seemed to have met that woman and to have liked her. I haven’t heard so far any positive comments about MG in Shreveport and I don’t believe every woman there was jealous of her or that all the men were gay enough to hate her! Some of the tweets about why some left the party early were also made by men, even the caterer himself does not seem to have liked her too much.

Jessica had just broken up with Justin and she found a friend on the set, somebody she was working with and that is what I think happened between her and Gerry, nothing more. People who have worked with him have said he can be very friendly to his co-stars both men and women.

The Big Picture @ 05/09/2013 at 2:10 pm

@Lighten up:

I’m not defensive. I’m just commenting on how they are ridiculous!

#37: I was just speaking in general terms about choices people make. If I ever spoke with GB I have a long list of questions, lol, and the responses, if any, wouldn’t be written down or recorded…they would remain in the moment.

@The Big Picture:
“He had a woman staying with him in Shreveport too in 2011 ., somebody far more discreet than MG and he threw a party too for the 4th of July and I think it was the same caterer who was hired last year.”
I was following Gerry back then and there was no woman staying with him in Shreveport. There was no July 4 party, either. PFK shot in the spring of 2011 – April & May. He was long gone before the summer.

What's Missing @ 05/09/2013 at 3:22 pm

@thursday: Wow then that really did come out of left field! No wonder it didn’t seem to connect with anything being posted.

of this much I'm sure @ 05/09/2013 at 3:22 pm

@The Big Picture:

That’s the 2nd time you’ve tried to make the point here on JJ that the brunette ‘…she’s not famous or anything, I don’t think she’s just happening to be there and I don’t think she’s there for Anne. There is a picture of Gerry arriving or leaving (hard to tell) and that brunette is right next to him. She’s in several pictures close to him actually. She’s obviously in her mid-30ies”… You’ve also done it on Celebitchy. Are you HER PR? She’s obviously a PR flak either for the event, Dolce & Gabbana or Butler. She may be with him, but she’s not “WITH HIM”.
In the same video he elbowed Joshua Jackson and spoke to Jimmy Fallon. Is he having an affair with them as well? He wasn’t whispering in AH’s ear, you saw stills of the nanosecond it took to kiss her cheek.
GB and MK have known each other for years. He probably knows every model of any renown in New York. It’s possible they did the mambo in the past, but like most of the women he may or may not have shagged, they are friends.
Don’t believe everything you read.

I think Butler has tried to shag every well known model in New York and LA. He’s such a creep.

Mark my words the way that man carries on, he’s gonna get caught out big time on day. There’s something really off key about his attitude towards women. You mark my words.

geraldine @ 05/09/2013 at 3:38 pm

@The Big Picture: You’re full of it!

geraldine @ 05/09/2013 at 3:39 pm

@ The Big Picture

And here’s the proof you’re full of it.

Lainey says @ 05/09/2013 at 3:47 pm

@Boo Hoo: Same old phanny response, anyone who criticizes Gerry must be a woman rebuffed by him. Stop drinking the koolaid, he is not all that and a bag of chips to many many women., Besides Lainey has a husband who is good looking, age appropriate and funny. She don’t need no Spittle. She just calls em like she sees ‘em.

#53: Awww I remember that thread…too cute!!!

A lot of celebs who’ve had bad rep when it comes to young women have been badly caught out recently in the UK. So Mr Butler better watch himself.

thor's day @ 05/09/2013 at 3:54 pm

@The Big Picture: You people are naive, Gerry wheels and deals with the paparazzi all the time and so do all the celebrities that use the paparazzi He is very well known for not liking his picture taken with his dates, and this kind of bargain is common. It just so happens someone still spilled the beans without the photo.

He only posed for the photo ops with MG because they were getting paid for the “exclusive” story from Vanity Fair Italia and the proof lies in the fact that people saw her avoiding cameras at the airport saying you make money off this, even though the people trying to take photos were fans of Gerry and trying to explain it. Clearly her and Gerry or at least she had a deal with the photos from Oslo.

So when Butler whines about the paparazzi, it is tedious.

@Lainey says:

No, no koolaid for you, just some of Lainey’s bitter sour grapes. Who gives a shite what her husband looks like? I don’t even particularly care what her reasons are (since she won’t share them) but there is no denying that she loathes Butler and wouldn’t say a nice thing about him if he saved a boatload of nuns and baby seals from burning building. And she’s got a bully-pulpit from which to tell the world and convince some squishy minded people to do the same. Pfffft… you can consider yourself better than a so-called “phannie” but you’re just as bad for believing whatever Lainey spews as gospel.

@Lainey says:
Lainey was rebuffed by Gerry at one point. She always talks about Gerry like a woman scorned. Look at the language she uses with other male celebrities she hates. She has something against him.
Now, that does not mean that she’s lying about Gerry and Miranda.
For all the skeptics out there, I just have one thing to say.
Remember the Brandi incident?
We all called it a lie when reports came out that he asked people to stop taking photos of them.
And as it turns out, it was completely TRUE.
Miranda has been cheating on Bloom for years. She is a hot mess.
He was photographed with many models and women that night. There is no reason to ask someone to stop taking photos UNLESS there’s something fishy going on.

Lainey says @ 05/09/2013 at 4:08 pm

@And YOU?: She has shared her reasons for disliking him but never mind, your phanny sensitivity wouldn’t believe it anyway so no point telling you to look it up. I was a Lainey doubter myself but she has proven to be right on the money so many times, to the last detail in some instances, you can’ dismiss her – she sure beats the psychics hanging around here. Twinflames???

dargabriel @ 05/09/2013 at 4:09 pm

To Missing, I Need To Clarify Being In The Spot Light Of Fake Individuals isn’t My Cup Of Tea, i’m In The Spot Light At My Job, But Not The Same. And I won’t Stop Posting. I Hope you’re Having A Gorgeous Day. Cameras Take A Piece Of Your Soul, Gerard Knows This. Take Care. Love,dargabriel

Lainey says @ 05/09/2013 at 4:12 pm

@WRONG!: She hates Paris Hilton too does that mean she was rebuffed by Ebola? Michael D skewers Gerry all the time, though I guess his piece on Miranda and Gerry today was hilarious and somewhat complimentary, Did Gerry rebuff one of his passes. Perez Hilton runs hot and cold, Does that mean they have a love hate relationship? So are all the people who are nice to Gerry people who were not rebuffed by Gerry.

Think about how lame and knee jerk your reasoning is. You may disagree with Lainey but you really have to do better that trotting out that old phanny line of reasoning.

@Lainey says:

I’m not a “Phanny” by any stretch of the imagination and I sure as hell don’t give any credence to all of the “twin flame” business any more than I’m one of those that has to protect “the beauty of his soul”, but Lainey’s hatred of the man borders on the pathological.
(and FYI, I’ve been around long enough to remember something about a press line at Cannes or TIFF but it was vague then and it’s vague now and never seemed to justify the level of animosity.)

@Lainey says:
Read my post again idiot.
I think Lainey got brutally knocked back by Gerard. Hence the bitterness.
But I think she’s right about Kerr and him.
Just because you’re middle aged, unattractive and not Gerard’s type, maybe you’re defending the line of reasoning that she never came on to Gerard, because like her, you’re not his type and would also get rejected.
Next time, read a person’s post carefully before you respond.

@Lainey says:
” She hates Paris Hilton too does that mean she was rebuffed by Ebola”
Notice how I said, LOOK AT THE LANGUAGE she uses.
I never said she didn’t hate other celebrities. You’re just too simple to read between he lines on how she posts when she’s talking about Gerard.
You are a troll who doesn’t read anyone’s posts but starts hitting the reply button to get your little wet panties in a twist over Gerard.
Fu.cking hate these obsessive Gerard fans.

Lainey is not a woman scorned. She has been happily married for over ten years. Lainey and her husband run her site. Her husband writes many of the articles.

naomi = most naive award @ 05/09/2013 at 4:29 pm

@naomi: congratulations

Haven’t posted in a while, but this is crazy talk about the butler. He can’t have a conversation with another of the opposite sex without you jumping all over him. Okay, think of it this way, the next time, if any of you ever go out of doors, and happen to go to a store, parking lot, standing in line. Maybe look at a man shopping in the same store, you are being filmed. Before you even park your car, every move you make is being taped, every expression, every move, every item you pick up, put down is on film. Try to remember that next time and try to remember what the butler must feel like living in a fish bowl. Now don’t give me that garbage about how he asked for it and it comes with the territory, Just thing for a moment what that must feel like. Only difference is you aren’t in the tabloids the next week.
If you are wondering why the threads are garbage, go back and read the garbage you write and what you dwell on. Out of here.

” Cameras Take A Piece Of Your Soul, Gerard Knows This. Take Care. Love,dargabriel”
LMFAO! You take the cake, Dar! You’re talking about a man who makes his fortune behind a camera!

@Lainey says:
The phannies hate Lainey because she posts snarky articles about them. Lainey got wind of the GB fan conventions and she’s posted about them. She’s also written about all the hate Gerry’s fans send her in emails because Lainey doesn’t worship their boy. Lainey has called the phannies out on their several times on her blog and makes fun of them. That’s the real reason the phannies hate her.

@ Nuts

But he has asked for it. He’s spent most of his life dreaming about it and now he’s getting it with both barrels.

To the troll who can’t even choose a moniker,
It’s the phannies who are naive. They think anyone who doesn’t like Gerry is either jealous of him or has been rejected by him. That’s why Lainey mocks you people. Your stupidity is hilarious.

naomi = most naive award @ 05/09/2013 at 4:45 pm

calm down.
stop defending some useless human being who makes her living spreading lies about people.
i never said everyone that doesn’t like Gerry was rejected by him.
Michael K is awesome and wrote it better than Lainey ever could.
You’re just pissed because you’re on her payroll

naomi = most naive award @ 05/09/2013 at 4:51 pm

I never said she was wrong about Kerr and Gerry.
I never said that Lainey was wrong about anything that she writes about Gerry.
A lot of her site is full of lies, but some of her posts are true and have proven to be true. But she does post a lot of lies too.
But her getting rejected by Gerry is a well known fact from years back. Deal with it idiots.
She’s scorned and always salivates at the mouth as soon as she has dirt on him.
Idiots. Too many idiots on this board.

naomi = most naive award @ 05/09/2013 at 4:51 pm

I never said she was wrong about Kerr and Gerry.
I never said that Lainey was wrong about anything that she writes about Gerry.
A lot of her site is full of lies, but some of her posts are true and have proven to be true. But she does post a lot of lies too.
But her getting rejected by Gerry is a well known fact from years back. Deal with it idiots.
She’s scorned and always salivates at the mouth as soon as she has dirt on him.
Idiots. Too many idiots on this board.

@naomi: I hate her because she’s a low class betch and nothing more. I hate her if she didn’t know who he was! She’s a very angry person and like someone else said, nothing more then a bully. I don’t believe a word she says.

I don’t care if you or anyone like him. That’s your prerogative. I can’t stand someone who makes up crap and bashes someone else for really no reason other then to try to defame them. She sounds just like a woman scorned and nothing more.

@naomi = most naive award:
I’m on Lainey’s payroll now?! lmao
This is why Lainey makes fun of you guys. You make it too easy. The guys at Indie Wire make fun of Gerry’s fans, too. I guess I must be on their payroll, now.

@naomi = most naive award:
“But her getting rejected by Gerry is a well known fact from years back.”
You wouldn’t know a fact if it hit you upside the head. Lainey was married before Gerry ever became known in the U.S. Her husband attends these events with her. They work together. If you don’t like the woman or don’t agree with her opinion, that’s fine. But lying about her to justify it just makes you look childish.

naomi = most naive award @ 05/09/2013 at 5:07 pm

You being on her payroll was meant as a joke. Clearly, you are not.
This proves my point entirely.
You cannot distinguish between a joke and a serious statement.
So, how can you, with you’re already proven limited intellect, understand the nuances of Lainey’s ramblings about Gerard?
You can’t.
You are simple and eat everything that is fed to you.
Thank you for helping me prove my point.

@naomi: Who’s “Indie Wire”? Never heard of them.

Can’t we all just ”get along”???? : )

naomi = most naive award @ 05/09/2013 at 5:14 pm

“Her husband attends these events with her. They work together. If you don’t like the woman or don’t agree with her opinion, that’s fine. But lying about her to justify it just makes you look childish.”
So you BELIEVE everything that Lainey writes about herself.
This woman who makes a living posting rumors on her site?
But, you won’t BELIEVE that she hit on Gerard and got rejected?
HAHAHA!!! You are an idiot.
So with your logic, Lainey is a gossip hound, but we’re supposed to believe that she never hit on Gerry?
You don’t win the most naive award, you’re about to the win the ‘stupidest poster on JJ’ award.

@naomi = most naive award:
You don’t like it when someone presents you with facts so you go on a rampage and call them names. Impressive.

Most gossip sites take the pisss out of the phannies because they are crazy enablers.

@The Big Picture: You tell sooo many lame see-through tall tales lol. Kinda pathetic. Do you just write stuff up for fun or are you here on this board trying to promote yourself?

Either way, get a life, you are realllllly transparent.

@He has indeed moved on: “But the fact that he flat-out bribed the paps to delete the photos makes it all very skeevy,”

We don’t know that he did or that he was even with MK. Can we really believe anything that is reported on those gossip sites?

Link Or It Didn't Happen @ 05/09/2013 at 5:29 pm

@naomi = most naive award:

“But her getting rejected by Gerry is a well known fact from years back.”

??????? A well known FACT????

This site is so full of argumentative posters, you take the fun out of gossip!!!!


Ur a loser

@ failure

Why? Because I am not delusional like you and the other pathetic phannies?

Let's make a contest @ 05/09/2013 at 5:42 pm

Let’s make a contest of soulmates for Gerard Butler. Please send your photo, your story to … @… :)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

I don’t know much about MK…but she seems to have a fun-loving personality…her and GB look cute together whether friends or whatever.


Cause u live on just jared to insult. U must have a pathetic life.

@Yuck:” He’s such a creep.”

It takes one to know one!

@Yuck: What a disgusting, horrible person you are!

Have any of you noticed when Gerry is near Karolina Kurkova how he hugs he and talks to her all the time and she is married also. Do you remember when Gerry was on the beach with Jeanina and her husband and here younger sister how he tried to wave off the paps so as not to harass the young lady and make something out of it.
Has Miranda been caught cheating on Orlando or is it just gossip. Since Gerry attended many VS events, I am sure he is friends with many of them and he probably has dated some of them too.
Look at the names Lainey calls Jessica Simpson and Jennifer B. and she calls Gwynnith P names also. She lives for the snark effect on her site.

@Boo Hoo:

‘As pretty much every comments section piece on every piece we’ve ever written on Gerard Butler attests, the Scottish actor has a fervent female fan base who’ll ride to his defense at even the faintest breath of criticism directed towards him.’

@Tanya: “What a disgusting, horrible person you are!”

It takes one to know one!

@Lainey says:” She has shared her reasons for disliking him”

Then will you please share them with us?

@Olga: I’m not the one making accusations about people.

Can I just point out? @ 05/09/2013 at 6:00 pm

Yuck = Clamsie

NO. yuck=Olga. Fact.

@Helen: Post 106 is not me.

a question @ 05/09/2013 at 6:09 pm

“NO. yuck=Olga. Fact”

Can I just ask how you know this?.

Post 107 is Helen

I am not Olga.

a question @ 05/09/2013 at 6:12 pm

@Helen: “Post 106 is not me.”

Can I just ask how YOU know this?.

@Greta: I am not Olga.

@Greta: I am not Olga.

@Tanya: “I am not Olga”

Who are you??

May I point out @ 05/09/2013 at 6:16 pm

@Can I just point out?:

@a question: Because I didn’t post it that’s how. Some idiot appears to be playing stupid games.

Tutto il mondo e’ paese!

@HG: More to the point, who are you? It’s obvious you have some kind of mental problem by all these silly posts.

@Helen: stop spreading lies!

@Tanya: I’m one of your socks…

I’m off, you are are one sad person!

JS = Yuck

Just to say @ 05/09/2013 at 6:24 pm

Nighty night girl(s).

Who are YOU?

This thread is a mess.

@JS: I am not spreading lies.

@Fail: There appears to be a nutter on today.

in my opinion @ 05/09/2013 at 6:30 pm

I’m Gerryfan

@Helen: ” I am not spreading lies.”

And how do you know this?

That is certainly NOT me. And lies are being spread by that hack The Big Picture.


There r not nutters on just jared everyday? Oh u r adorable. Yuck is the worst out of all of them.

SouthernBelle @ 05/09/2013 at 6:53 pm

Where is Tino when we need him?

I am not Clamsie, or JS. I just post my opinions about GB, and his crazy phannies. I couldn’t give two shitts if they don’t like me. It’s completely understandable in fact because I don’t like them. I think most of them are sickos. If GB was convicted for a heinous crime they’d still make excuses for him. In fact they’d blame the victim, and call him or her every name under the sun. That’s how sick they are.

Lighten up @ 05/09/2013 at 6:57 pm

I gotta agree with Yuck on that one. Doesn’t matter what he does, they will make excuses, no matter how heinous.

Failure, Tanya and GFW are prime examples of GB’s sicko fan club.

Smart Girl @ 05/09/2013 at 7:01 pm

No one cares about Gerard Butler anymore.
This dude is a HAS BEEN.
He had a chance after 300 to be ‘something’….
Instead he chose cr/ap roles, easy roles thinking that ‘quantity’ meant ‘quality’…
Again…people in Hollywood (not you psycho fans) actually do still call him “the guy from 300″ because he has done nothing notable SINCE. OHF is still a meh attempt and others are saying Channings turn in White House trumps Gerard’s. He missed the ship, he’s through. After Playing for Keeps, no one outside of HIMSELF will actually cast him in ANYTHING worth anything.
He should start looking to television or stage.
He should really do more for you guys – his fans – and less for the bubble-headed girls he ‘keeps’ hidden and the ‘one’ he flaunted as ‘public’. It is because of you that he even gets ‘play’ here. It is because of his (fake) love life that he gets gossip pages, not for his acting or movie roles.
And it’s not a ‘big deal’ if Gerard is at your event either. He will turn up at the opening of an envelope.
Not to mention that this is the only website that cared that this geezer showed up to the MET thing = his people pay JJ.
Bad publicist, agents and media team. Should be fired.


U r a prime example of someone that has NOTHING better to do than to insult others on a gossip site. How sad are u???

@ Failure

You know. You and phannies and supporters like you, are the types of women who’d have relationships with men on death row – who are most definitely guilty – because you think they’re hot. That’s how sick you are. And you’d call people like me every name under the sun for criticising you doing it. That’s how stupid and shallow you are.

@can’t we:

Can’t we all just ”get along”???? : )

I guesssss NOT : (

Good night everyone (sigh)

@naomi = most naive award: a well known fact. Not. Lainey dislikes Gerry because of a whole different reason. Again its not that hard to know why, she has it on her own blog. Instead of stating something is fact how about you link your “well known fact” before you tell someone to deal with it because you end up looking like a fool. You guys state something and 2 threads later call it a “well known fact”
Falling out with mother because of MG
Redheaded ex
Lainey being rejected by Gerry
Gerry going every sunday to church

Absolutely none of them has any link that has been offered as proof. Yet you insist that any bad story that is reported on is false. And this story about Kerr might be false but there is more proof of it than ANY of your phannie “well known facts”

Phantasies @ 05/09/2013 at 7:47 pm

Lainey has written about several experiences on her blog as to why she feels as she does. They are all there for those who care to actually read them, instead of making sht up.

u r happily married? @ 05/09/2013 at 7:51 pm

why you are here and how happily married r u if here?

Get Off It @ 05/09/2013 at 7:52 pm

There is no “long lost love” in Paisley “redhead with big t!ts.” It’s a fable. It was something cooked up by UK women to make British/Scot/UK women feel better: those women wanting in their hearts to believe that Gerard actually wants to be with one of them – when nothing could be further from the truth. He will date ANYTHING BUT a Brit/Scot/UK woman.
Someone totally made something u, twisting something he mightve said in an interview and it grew legs.

No thanks. @ 05/09/2013 at 7:53 pm

Lainey is Asian. If she hit on him she is sh!t out of luck he is NOT interested.

Get Off It @ 05/09/2013 at 7:53 pm

There is no “long lost love” in Paisley “redhead with big t!ts.” It’s a fable. It was something cooked up by UK women to make British/Scot/UK women feel better: those women wanting in their hearts to believe that Gerard actually wants to be with one of them – when nothing could be further from the truth. He will date ANYTHING BUT a Brit/Scot/UK woman.
Someone totally made something u, twisting something he might’ve said in an interview and it grew legs.

@ u r happily married?

Why are you here?

Tino, come back @ 05/09/2013 at 8:15 pm

We need more words of wisdom from you, Tino.

I would venture to say that SOME, myself, post here because they are a fan of GB and his career…knowing full well they are way out of his league whether they are single, married (happily or otherwise) or divorced.

you write trash @ 05/09/2013 at 8:36 pm

@Smart Girl: Smart girl? Wonder you know how to read. GB is hardly a has been and JJ is hardly an indication of how popular he is. Just read the posts and you already know that the educated mass is 5th grade to say nothing of the hatred spewing out their mouths. Very disturbed posts for sure.
I doubt whether you have even seen any of his movies since 300. OHF is doing very well and Channings movie won’t be out til next month. So exactly what are you basing your trash on?
No gb doesn’t pay JJ.. You do dummy, every time you click that button on here.
BTW, what is wrong with stage or tv for that matter, lots of actors are doing it now.. Smart

Gabardine Jacket @ 05/09/2013 at 8:36 pm

@thursday: LOl I think you mean he is way out of OUR league. No chance, but still a fan. There are sickos who think they ARE. Visit his Facebook page and peep the madness.

@you write trash:
You sound like a re/tarded eigth grader.

Funny, I consider him way out of my league, and most intelligent, sophisticated women would not be silly enough to give him the time of day. But if you are shallow, I suppose you are talking about looks. Then he is still not in the ballpark, my dear, because he ain’t aging well, and he’s not ‘all that’ anymore.

you write trash @ 05/09/2013 at 8:41 pm

@Um…: Thank you, I am in 7th grade. I take that as a compliment. And the word is mentally challenged. Retarded is passe and rude.

#154: Ha! Yes, that’s it! But either way really…he’s in the big league…fans are not.

Gerard's Smelly Socks @ 05/09/2013 at 8:57 pm

@you white trash:
Just jumping in but do you realize that a re/tarded 8th grader has the mentality of a 2 and half year old? i don’t think poster was paying you a compliment.

There are many that are way out of His league. Don’t sell yourself short.

#160: no one should ever do that!!! Everyone is fabulous in their own way…no matter who they are or what they do!!!

Prancing Pony @ 05/09/2013 at 9:12 pm

@Marie: and for #161 ITAWY :)

Old People Posting Here @ 05/09/2013 at 9:13 pm

You are all pretty stupid.
When you say someone is “Out of Your League” you mean they are waaaaaay BETTER THAN YOU; that you could never get with them because they are 1) better looking than you 2) richer than you or 3) more famous etc etc. They are OUT OF YOUR LEAGUE.
Remember the movie? “She’s Out of Your League?” the one about the ugly little nerd who was in love with the popular cheerleader and everyone kept telling him, forget it man, she’s waaay out of your league! Then he got her in the end??
When you say, “I’m out of his league” you mean that HE could never get YOU…that YOU are hotter. Hahahaha yeah ok.
Which we all know is a hot lie because any one of you would drop trou in a second if this man showed up in your bedroom late one night and just wanted a “quickie.”

If Gerry really is spiritual then he would believe we are all one and we are all the same. That just because he is a movie star does not make him any better or any worse than any of us. But as always the “if” has to be put in front of that statement.

Prancing Pony @ 05/09/2013 at 9:24 pm

@Old People Posting Here: “Which we all know is a hot lie because any one of you would drop trou in a second if this man showed up in your bedroom late one night and just wanted a “quickie.”
Um, speaking for myself only, the answer would be no.

@Old People Posting Here:

Ha! Believe what you will.

Brainiacs @ 05/09/2013 at 9:26 pm

I think most people would say a “movie star” is usually beneath the large percentage of the population for many reasons. They just think they are superior because people tell them they are all day, and they equate money with superiority. Most celebrities are trash.

you write trash @ 05/09/2013 at 9:28 pm

@Gerard’s Smelly Socks: I saw what you wrote on my name. Shame on you bad person. You are so wrong and know nothing. My friends and I read all about the stars and we think Gerry is hot. I am top of my class and my little brother has Down’s and has more brains in his big toe than the pigs on this place. You should be shamed.

Still here LOL? @ 05/09/2013 at 9:33 pm

You really never leave, do you? The @Old People moniker gives you away. Don’t you think it’s time you address your fear of aging? And btw, just because you have no self esteem, you shouldn’t project that onto others. Not only would I never drop trou for GB, I would happily call the cops if he showed up in the middle of the night. Get real. But I guess we know what kind of a person you are now, not that there was ever any doubt. ROFLMAO

@thursday: I totally agree with you and I am just a fan of his work love his movies(some of them) but not afraid to say I have a soft spot for a hot handsome Scottish mess ;)

@you write trash:

Yes. He most certainly does. God bless him.


I’d say you are way more concerned about what the Fannies think and do then they are about what any of the people think or say here. Including you. I say you better take your Prozac and and lie down before you have a brain hemorrhage. Really it’s going to be OK.

Look on the bright side, maybe one of them will toddle over and read your comments and get really insulted.. One can only hope right?

Remember what the Bible says, “those that were first will be last and those that were last will be first in heaven.”
I’d rather be last here on earth for the short amount of time we are here and be first or at least in the upper top half, for all eternity.

Butler has a history of not caring about whether a woman is married or not if he finds them attractive. Back in 2005 when he didn’t have his own place in LA yet and was staying at the Sunset Marquee hotel, a woman was seen sneaking in and out of his room at odd hours. Someone who worked there made a post on one of the GB sites and told her story. Gerry was having an affair with a hot shot producer’s wife. She even posted a picture of the wife. The face was blurred but we could see that the picture had been taken at a movie premiere. I think it was for The Constant Gardener but I’m certainly not sure about that one. The post was up for a couple of hours and then deleted by the admin without explanation. Gerard doesn’t really stop at anything and he really does think that he’s God’s gift to women.

@you write trash, One question when you put the “Pigs in this place” down, I would think you are also referring to yourself. As you are posting here. I believe this is still a free country and not every one is going to agree, that being said the intelligent thing to do is not call people names and show your rudeness. Mr Butler seems to be open and honest to the point it gets him into trouble. He helps a lot of people too. He graduated with an honors law degree. He’s worked hard to get to where he is. In a way I feel sorry for him because he still has a fear of being hurt, as he was by his father. For that reason I think he has the emotions of a 14 year old who still has a fear of being left alone.

You need to turn up the volume, I can’t hear your “Oh Poor Gerry” sympathy violin yet…
Re/tarded 8th Grader still has me laughing…. bless you.

Miranda doesn’t really seem to be his type even though she’s tall, brunette and a model. Maybe it’s because she’s got blue eyes and pale skin.

What's Missing @ 05/09/2013 at 10:48 pm

@Karen: “he still has a fear of being hurt, as he was by his father ” How would you know that? Are you close confident of GB’s?

@What’s Missing:
I think Karen is our bedtime fairy tale reader for the evening.

What's Missing @ 05/09/2013 at 11:08 pm

@Manny: Well, Karen’s post does have the same tone as GFW and we all know that GFW is a fiction writer. Maybe she is a reader on GFW’s blog.

Hi gorls. Just want to say I enjoyed all the recent pics. Gerry looks really good . Keep them coming.

Sorry. I meant girls.

ButlerforPres @ 05/09/2013 at 11:29 pm

@NiceToSee: Butler hit on Miranda before she got married. She avoided him then. Now after her fling with Leo, I wouldn’t be surprise that she hooked up with Butler. Orlando and she are not looking very committed.

@monroe: Every model/actress is his type! As long as they look like the Hollywood accepted ideal, he is willing. He is a follower manipulated by mainstream Hollywood.

I’m out of his league. The guys I go for are honest, compassionate, decent, trustworthy and classy. Gerry has none of those traits. He’s a phony and opportunist (with women). He elevates “cad” to a whole new level. The fact that he can’t cobble a long relationship together and mean it is scary. Now that he seems to have added married women to his radar, I think of him as scummy.

Face it girls, he’s got problems. He’s flawed in a major way. The only women he’s attracted to are the ones he can’t have like Miranda.

“The fact that he can’t cobble a long relationship together and mean it is scary.”
Him and Leo seem far too interested in keeping their shlongs occupied than devoting real time and love to one woman.
But both are getting very, very, very old for this sort of behavior.
I still think Gerry is going to blow everyone’s mind one day and marry someone. She’ll be too young, too hot, and probably a model, but they’ll dote on each other and fans will lose their collective . JMO.

gerard is gay
the stans who post here are his buttkissers

lei and gb are single
they lick each other’s you know whatter

lei should say leo
they are gay lovers

Sockalina @ 05/10/2013 at 1:26 am

@serpent: I don’t think he’ll ever marry. Hasn’t got it in him to commit or to love someone more than himself. He’s nothing but a player.

he’s gay
playing games to cover it up
he’s not getting action with women
its just showbiz to get attention
he’s not that good looking
why would anyone want him?

I agree that he’s a player. And until he finds someone that he’s comfortable enough with to settle down with, he’ll keep playing the field.
What male wouldn’t in his position?
But, we never thought he’d go public with a 24 year old lingerie model, and he not only went public but actually acknowledged her as his GF.
These are baby steps but he’s moving in that direction.
Listen to him on Stern.
Even he says that the ‘game’ is gets very old and stops being fun.
It’s like people get bored in marriages, he’s having the opposite problem.
I’m no phannie.
The woman isn’t going to be a middle aged average looking woman. She’ll be ridiculously hot but at least he’ll love her for real. JMO.

Ya, I did hear the Stern interview. He told Stern he wasn’t going to marry.

Actually, he told Stern he wasn’t going to marry Madalina.
When asked, Gerry said, “nah, you know me”.
That question was specifically about Maddie. Later in the interview, Stern again asks Gerry if he’s got in him to ‘settle down’ and Gerry responded with “I can, I can, I can”, and then added, “it’s hard for me to say those words”.
He is commitment phobic but I don’t think he’s given up on the idea of marriage all together. Again, JMO.

God Bless yoou all! @ 05/10/2013 at 1:52 am

“And don’t sin by letting anger control you. Don’t let the sun go down while you are still angry.” – Ephesians 4:26

Gabardine Jacket @ 05/10/2013 at 2:02 am

I’m no Gerard stan, clip.
Speak for yourself

Watermelon @ 05/10/2013 at 2:05 am

When he finally does marry, he will make that woman MISERABLE.
Like Jon Hamm does to Jennifer Westfeldt. She’ll be so in love with being the “Mrs.” that she’ll hold on too tight and turn a blind eye.

Watermelon @ 05/10/2013 at 2:07 am

The women Gerard thinks are “hot” — the losers here, don’t.
So she’ll get torn to shreds like all the rest.

Plausible but for her sake, I hope not. No man, money or fame is worth that.

either you are gay or you worship him as your hero
you’re a buttkisser nonetheless

“So she’ll get torn to shreds like all the rest.”
Goes without saying, unfortunately.

watermelon is probably right
he would make women miserable
he doesn’t seem like the romantic type of guy
he’s gay

Sockalina @ 05/10/2013 at 2:20 am

@Watermelon: I never heard that about Hamm’s live-in. I thought they were madly in love.

@Lou The Queen Of Socks @ 05/10/2013 at 2:46 am

Ding-dong, ding-dong… Time to make your entrance!

Watermelon @ 05/10/2013 at 3:15 am

I am sure he loves her.
In his mind, I am sure his love for her as a person has nothing to do with sampling “side” items…
I agree with serpent, no man is worth that. unfortunately, for many women here married to actors and rich athletes…it’s worth turning a blind eye to keep the name and status (ie. Vanessa Bryant).

Watermelon @ 05/10/2013 at 3:16 am

You think Gerard is gay?

@Watermelon @ 05/10/2013 at 3:37 am

@Watermelon: Please don’t engage this TROLL. He/she comes onto EVERY thread with page after page or “He’s gay”, “He’s gay, “He walks like a gay man”, “He’s gay” .
Same s/hite, different day. video of Gerry at gas station

Prancing Pony @ 05/10/2013 at 4:38 am

@serpent: “He is a commitment phobic but I don’t think he’s given up on the idea of marriage all together.” – ITAWY. Maybe it’s a case of timing…when you meet the right person everything changes. JMO.

@ Newbe

Is that your pathetic attempt at being cutting? Not very impressive, but then again you are a phannie, I can’t expect too much from a dowsy woman who thinks GB is amazing.

Watermelon @ 05/10/2013 at 5:55 am

@@Watermelon: Ok, haven’t been here in long while so playing catch up.
@Prancing Pony:
I think he is looking for a good “match”. I think we all are? I even think that he “thought” Madalina was or could be “it”…but that went cold as soon as Butler touched ground in LAX after promoing OHF, all it takes is a tall Beyonce or Adriana Lima lookalike to walk by him and it’s Maddie who ol
It also depends on how maturely he handles that “right” relationship, determine if it even lasts. If he’s not ready to accept that kind of commitment, no matter how badly he wants something real, ain’t gonna happen.
It’s also obvious that he is using the wrong criteria to look for a partner. Tall? Check. Strong facial features and cheekbones? Check. Takes clothes off for a living? Check? Has a better body and is fitter than he is? Check.

Watermelon @ 05/10/2013 at 5:58 am

…I should add “powerful looking” (his words)? Check. LOL

“It’s also obvious that he is using the wrong criteria to look for a partner. ”
Well said.
We are all superficial on some level, but most people are willing to be more broad minded when it comes to matters of the heart.
Madalina really screwed with his mind, IMO.
Because physically, he could not have built a more attractive woman (by his standards) if he tried.
But like everyone, she has her own mind and issues. Couple that with his own demons and the physical lust fades quickly.
I have a feeling he is starting to get sick of the revolving door hook ups himself.
My bet is, if he finds the one, he’ll settle. I don’t see him ******** it up.

Gerry’s back in LA and it is not because, Ms. Dar, he does not like NYC. He does. It’s an intellectual capital of the world. He is an intellectual warrior so to speak. It’s got an energy that suits him. All is well. His next producing project is being filmed there. I suspect he’ll be back.
He needs to lead where he his.
Blog? This came from it…
“…we don’t really change, we learn to perform better. The kindest form of management is the truth.

Surround yourself with people who can take you there, to performing better. People who see what you see and see what you miss.”
who is not Karen
who thinks the less he acts their is a chance he’ll lose confidence in that much how when unemployed we secretly need the money but like being off but if he wants to take a break I stand behind that too as only he knows what serves him best
who thinks his best work is ahead of him because he’s honed a lot of life lessons this past year and knows about love’s endurance
who thinks everyone was standing close because it was crowded and she could have a soft voice and he needed to hear her and some people will say anything to get read including Ms Sour Grapes Lainey who met type but her sourness kept her from bleeping on his radar years and years ago and she still holds a grudge for it

This place does not speak to your heart. Why are you here? What is here you must see?
in staff retreat again today
who has to get shakin’ to bounce
who can’t wait to see The Great Gatsby this weekend
who still manages her soft place to land even if its got a few lumps in its mattress ;o)

10 May 2013
Ghene deal breaker between MĂDĂLINA and GERARD BUTLER! See that would be dumped actor!

Madalina Ghenea and Gerard Butler are a couple no more, said sources close to romance. But if the media speculated that the deal breaker would be infidelities actor who can hardly resist a beautiful woman, well the situation seems to be fixed is wrong.

Gerard believes that Madalina was the one who cheated and furious actress from Romania when he saw her in the company of her former boyfriend, footballer Marco Borriello. Genoa and beautiful Romanian striker spent together in a week- end in mid-March, in a club in Italy. A photograph of them circling Madalina Borriello was published by a famous Italian journalist, Selvaggia Lucarelli on his Twitter account. He wrote the explanation Photo: ‘People’ Plastic ‘(No club name) do nothing but talk about Madalina Ghenea and Boriello who were intimate last night. Photograph I found. ”
Images that our olteanca dance club athlete and that seemed extremely close him out of his mind Scottish actor.
The press in Italy and overseas speculate that is the reason for the tear, but everyone expects a formal response from both.

Thanks @somebodyelse

Peter Pan @ 05/10/2013 at 6:48 am

@Somebodyelse: Honestly, I suspect Gerard cheated first and MG thought by being seen with her ex, Ger would drop everything and run back. Unfortunately for her, she is dumb and gave him ammo to make this her fault. They were rocky in November and after Thailand. He hides his hook-ups well.

He got bored of her. She is naive and dumb. He will never have a trusting relationship because he picks twits that are all apperance. Her career is done. He threw her away.

Peter Pan @ 05/10/2013 at 7:00 am

Also, he showed her a pic on his cell publically to get her mad. She is stupid. He was dumping her after his premier. He had to show he was capable in having a relationship for OHF. Now that is done, he is done.

Come on, it was all planned out. Talk well about her until the movie takes off and then adios.

Tinkerbell @ 05/10/2013 at 7:01 am

@Peter Pan:
Why is it so hard for you to believe the he was ‘in deep like’ with Madalina and she was the one cheated?
Face it. He got dumped for a younger, hotter guy.
Some fans don’t want to accept that because it means that he really cared about Madalina.

Peter Pan @ 05/10/2013 at 7:15 am

@Tinkerbell: ok, Gerry may have been crazy about her initially. But his behavior is not respectful to any potential wife. Red flags all over the place. He comes from a place of hiding and distrust. She is stupid and became more insecure. A smart woman would have a mature understanding of each other. Also, if he was crazy about her, no man would want their woman months away from him. They were glued to the hip initially. He gave her the Oscar parties as a token. He was done way before the club pic came out.

Right! Gerry said he was in deep LIKE. It was Madalina that said he was her true love, her first real love, she is in love with him, she loves him sooooo much. Your theory doesn’t make sense when she was the one who was in love, and Gerry wasn’t. Madalina got dumped. Gerry’s had one foot out the door during this whole relationship.

if she cheated on him, i think its a good move actually.
he’s gay anyway so it doesn’t really matter that she cheated because it did it first by being gay.

@Tinkerbell: He was partying with Mel and Leo in Miami and did not see her again until Oscar weekend. Is that a man in love? Nope. “Deep like” is insulting to any woman who says she is in love.

Our Gerry says he stays friends with some of his ex gfs. Not this one. Love is forgiveness and respect. He loves himself more.

@apple: whatever the rights or wrongs, facts or suppositions, he’s a much debased public figure when he returns to skirt sniffing, married women, club hook ups and modelising and trying to keep it quiet. A complete slime ball who deserves no respect. He needs someone to take his heart and put it through the mangle to make him grow up and realise the sun doesnt shine out of his a*se.

he talks to women all the time and most of you here take it to mean he’s cheating and you get all excited and proud about it
mg should not be limited to gb as the only man in her life after all he himself is gay to begin with. she is young and has a life and shouldn’t waste it being exclusive with a gay. they can be friends. they don’t have to sleep with each other.

girl needs to get out there and make friends with a lot of guys, even the gay ones. they come in handy when you need them.

MG cheat! She had too much to lose.

Who thinks this theory flies?

Whatever. He got out. Gave her some pr and ran.

HIS EGO IS BRUISED @ 05/10/2013 at 7:35 am

Gerry was into Madalina in a big way – last year!
After Thailand, he seemed more interested in spending time by himself and his friends.
But he has tried to help her out a lot since they’ve been together. The commercial, taking her on the red carpet and so forth.
So as repayment, she cheats on him with Marco???, who, no offence to the Gerard fans on here, is way hotter and way younger.
He knows that he looks like the middle aged idiot who tried to tell the world that his 24 year old lingerie model GF was, “perfect”. NO Gerard she wasn’t. And you got played.
I feel sorry for his next GF because he is going to rethink everything before introducing her to the world.
He got bitten by a viper and he knows that everyone is laughing at him.
You can’t take Leo’s sloppy seconds, and try and present her to the world as “perfect”, only to be over yourself, without becoming a laughing stock.

nah she’s young, she has more to lose by tying herself down to a 50 year old loser.
he has way more experience than she has.
it’s not really fair to expect her to be exclusive to him, to not have other relationships besides him.
i bet she doesn’t date a lot of different men. she’s probably picky and i don’t really blame her for being that way if she is.

wasn’t marco there first before mg?
how is that cheating then?

that should say
wasn’t marco there first before gb?
doesn’t that make gb the interloper?

HIS EGO IS BRUISED @ 05/10/2013 at 7:45 am

It was obvious too from her TV interview that something bad had happened between them.
You do not cry when shown clips of your uber hot and famous boyfriend saying incredible things about you.
Most women in the world would love to have him say such things about them NOT cry.
You cry if you know it’s over.
More so, if you fcked up.
The Rome stroll was the last straw for them.
Before, he played along.
Something happened in Rome and he kicked her to the curb.

in the rome pics he doesn’t look sincere
she is the better person

Let's make a contest # 92 @ 05/10/2013 at 7:45 am

# 92
The announcement of Gerard Butler soulmates’ contest is true and we willl communicate here more details with email address next week.

Meanwhile please think of the photo and a story you would like to present yourself to Gerry. More information is to follow soon!

Please do not be discouraged by the tough competition. Gerard believes in as many soulmates as possible. Watch this interview:

personally the only reason he ran down to rome is because he wanted to be there when history was being made, she was his tour guide

kinda like when he stayed behind for the storm last year. same thing.

…. the Romanian papers are grasping at straws to try and explain the breakup. They don’t know anything. All they have is one photo of MG dancing with two men – an ex and another man. That’s it. Long before that was Gerry and his hand-on-b.oob photo in Mexico with a woman who wasn’t MG. If we’re just going to go by pictures, Gerry’s was more inappropriate than hers. I think Gerry couldn’t wait for the OHF sell job to be over, so he could drop the Romanian and be a free man again.

didn’t he stay behind with the leo for the sandy
ok peeps
you been warned

Madalina was DUMPED @ 05/10/2013 at 7:55 am

She pulled the same “act” all of us model types who are tall and attractive think we can do: subtlety REMIND the guy that there a gazillion other guys that want us (I am a married model in NYC/Italy etc)…unfortunately, this immature attempt at eliciting an emotional response from a guy usually BACKFIRES. He was already getting tired of her – coupled with her flirting and he sees hot chick somewhere BAM its overrrr.

dumping her is an emotional it not?
he’s pissed off. so he dumps her….emotional response.
what a jerk
you’re supposed to forgive those things. and act like nothing happened.

Somebodyelse @ 05/10/2013 at 8:01 am

I remember that a couple of days ago, someone posted on previous thread that someone saw Gerry and said he was furious:
“Alex Vasey
What do you do if you walk pass an angry Gerard butler on the phone at time square, I’ve seen that motherf/ucker in 300!!”
Maybe he was furious when he heard about what she said in her interview (“if this relationship is over, I ask everyone in advance to be the same as before and not scold me, not be upset with me”), and that means she recognize it’s her fault, or maybe he found out about that night MG spent in an Italian club with her former BF, that took place before he spent some time with her public in Rome, everybody but him knew about that (BTW, not good for his image), no man would like to be in this position.

maybe he is furious because leo stood him up for a ride home because leo dumped him
it happens

HIS EGO IS BRUISED @ 05/10/2013 at 8:04 am

That is the best theory I’ve heard so far.
I think he didn’t know about Marco until recently.
He feels like an old fool, who’s been had.
He told everyone that she was a good person. He wanted people to look beyond the cliche of the middle aged man with the young model. Only to be made a joke of by his little Maddie.
Wait for the fallout because it could take years.
NEVER cross a Scorpio.
This trick doesn’t know what’s coming to her.

Yes we know for a fact he “stays friends” with his ex-girls.
-We saw or heard of Laurie C traveling with him two full years after last being seen in Miami with him;
- Last year we read the report of him hanging with the fitness girl Alicia in Austin Tx THREE full years after he was reportedly boning her;
- Jeannia didnt we see him on the beach with her and her sister in 2011 maybe FIVE years after they were “supposedly” an item?
Not sure what criteria he uses to keep “some” around and “lose” others but he definitely does keep his black book. I have a feeling clingy Maddie is going to be a dumped for GOOD like Brandi “one-night-stand, who the fµck are you” Glanville and Selita Ebanks.

Maddie stans are pathetic @ 05/10/2013 at 8:08 am

Doesnt matter what for – it was probably because she fcked up and started BLABBING to the press about sh*t she wasn’t authroized to talk about,.
Dumb girl. She was sooo in love and talking fcking BABIES – and you think she dumped HIM?!
get over it.

he’s defintely dumpable
so many can come up with a list as to why….
maybe you should go take a bath
it will put things in perspective
he’s gay

how can she not be authorized not to talk about her own life. its her own life. she can say anything she wants to about it. or not. he’s not the boss.

Maddie Is This YOU? @ 05/10/2013 at 8:16 am

If you are Maddie herself I will feel sorry for you.
No actually not if she was blabbing about having his babies, she wasn’t thinking of dumping him anytime soon, so try again.

@cheating: He is bi. He probably is trying hard to show he is hetro. Not working. He goes on Most vacations with Freddy.

yes but when you are dating a FAMOUS CELEBRITY there is a protocol. Comes with the job.
SEE: Any of george clooney’s exes.

Why don’t you brilliant detectives start paying attention to facts, instead of making up fantasies in your head? He started spending huge amounts of time away from her after the filming of OHF was over last fall. Kind of looks like the fun wore off while she was staying with him ijn Shreve, right? The time apart got longer and longer and more and more frequent. After the premiere, boom, done. This isn’t a sudden dumping because someone cheated. He just got tired of her, because the physical attraction wore off (like it always does) and there was nothing left to build on after that. That’s what happens when you choose partners based on looks only.

@Joshua: What proof do you have that he is bi??? Men coming forward to say that they sµcked his d!ck?? You have no proof. We have plenty of proof of him and women’s parts, see LOL’s post on page 10

maddie has her own sag card
whether you like it or not she is a celebrity to trying to be
gb can’t control her and he’s not her boss
are you saying he’s her boss?

Please, Gerry wasn’t angry a few days ago because of the Marco photo. That pic hit the press a couple of months ago. If he’s angry about anything it’s probably because Clingy is trying to beg her way back into his life. He’s probably getting frustrated that she won’t take the hint that he’s moved on to greener pastures. Jenae Alt did the same thing — kept pestering him and phoning him after he dumped her. MG better be careful. He’s likely to change his phone number again if she doesn’t p/iss off.

Shut Down Maddie Stans @ 05/10/2013 at 8:24 am

@FFS: BRAVO!!!!!

ButlerforPres @ 05/10/2013 at 8:26 am

Anyone here feel sorry for Butler? Hands?

No gb cannot control mg. But she is not very tactful, therefore she shouldn’t open her mouth or use social media. She is not very good at it.

Shut Down Maddie Stans @ 05/10/2013 at 8:26 am

@Krista: Both Jenae and Maddie are taken out of his Black Book and onto his BLACK LIST. Bothering and harrassing him – that’s why Maddie got all teary eyed when talking about him…she really is sad and whiny and we were in love…and he is like ugh GO AWAY MAD.
Truth: he hit it and he QUIT IT.

regarding talking
if you were real fans of gb you wouldn’t talk about him or his life. you would just sit down shut up and pay tribute at the theatre and then go home smelling like popcorn.

Truth: he hit it and he QUIT IT.
this is proof he is gay and why young girls mean nothing to him
he should have learned that young girls are going to pissed at him
if he doesn’t want to deal with that then he needs to work on older women, but they are too smart and will realize he is in fact gay.

@cheating: WRONG. Are you 95? This is 2013: the era of the internet/technology. WAKE UP.
If you don’t like the trappings of being a celebrity, ALL OF THE TRAPPINGS…become a school teacher, m’kay?

ButlerforPres @ 05/10/2013 at 8:32 am

@cheating: Sorry his private superficial life affects his public professional life. Most of the choices he makes going into a film is based on his ego and who he wants to associate with hoping he can piggyback on their successes. A true leader!

i doubt she was bothering and harassing him. they went on vacation together for crying out loud. he held her hand in rome just recently. he wanted everyone to see that they were together. he was eager to be shone in the street getting a public hug from her and he was being so desperate for camera attention that and his pushiness that she had to use a purse as a wall between them because he was too showy/pushy.

@LOL: TBH, Laurie, Alicia and Jeannia are in their 30s and are with other men. Gerard doesn’t “fear” them because they act their age, and are not available, most likely.
So…he stays friends with them.
The others, who go crazy, act like chits, cry on the news about LOVE and babies, meet him in hotels and leave their husbands for him (Jenae), while psychotically trying to get him or try to boost their reality tv profile (Brandi “one night stand” G funny), he will cut them off.

@FFS: They both got what they wanted. She got attention and more photos for her Facebook page, and he had a live-in partner while he was filming. It’s as simple as that.

@cheating: Are you saying Maddie didn’t like all of his public affection? But how does that make him gay?

sounds like you are cheating
you are a fan who has gone far beyond the acceptable limits of movie fan. you have made this a personal thing. i bet you would snoop at his home if you had the chance and get arrested. that’s news i would make popcorn for.

@cheating: LOL…NO. I live in Australia lol. Brisbane. Try again.

@butlerfor pres

I agree with the rest of your comment
he just doesn’t strike me as a leader though. he’s more of a follower.

Somebodyelse @ 05/10/2013 at 8:45 am

@Maddie stans are pathetic: If the night in that italian club with Marco is true, then the facts are that she cheated GB (even if they didn’t had a physical contact, but she should never supposed to be around a former one by her own), or at least if that wasn’t true, almost everyone else thinks it was (I didn’t, always thought that photo was an old one). So GB most probably thinks she cheated on him and afterward he dumped her, and she’s feeling guilty about that, otherwise she wouldn’t have cried in her recent interview sawing his nice words about her in his interviews. So the conclusion is, yes, he dumped her but she (probably) cheated him, so they are both in bad positions, (I don’t know what’s worse), he suffered at least for his bruised ego, if not heartbroken, and she suffers because she lost him, due to her own mistakes, as she really loves that man. I feel sorry for both of them.

Somebodyelse @ 05/10/2013 at 8:46 am


Nah she didn’t cheat. If that is what Gerard is saying its an excuse just to get rid of her. Truth is, he was tired of her. The chick barely spoke English (and not good what she did speak)…the “relationship” was built on physical attraction and thats it. Lust is easily disguised as LOVE in the first 6 months…after that, reality sets in and it’s “do i like this person.” For Gerry the answer was NO.

maddie is the more affectionate of the two. that is just the way that she is. however, that doesn’t give a man the right to take liberties and make something more out of it than is really there. he was trying to give her a full body hug out in the street in public when she meant to just give a normal hug. he was being inappropriate. he was taking liberties, he was making inappropriate advances and he did this in broad daylight and on film. yet his body language was stiff. maddie is more natural and genuine. he’s gay.

@Somebodyelse: This wasn’t something that happened recently. He stopped wanting to spend time with her last fall. That’s the reality. I don’t think he cared if she was with Marco or not. He was over it by then, anyway. That pic with Marco was probably a lame attempt on her part to get GB interested in her again, which is something a young woman would do.

@Let’s make a contest # 92: The only truth is that vid is when he says “I know s.hit about s.hit”. That should be on his epitaph.

i think she is nice and that is why he was attracted to her. its not just her beauty. she is too good for him. the reason she is so beautiful is because she is nice. she has both qualities of beauty that men go for.

she is the best looking woman he has ever gone out with
he is still gay.

@cheating: Absolutely right. He’s always stiff and unnatural when he’s with alleged gfs which is something I noticed years ago. He doesn’t seem to have any genuine compassion or feelings for people, it’s all clumsy “I have to pose for the cameras to create the illusion I’m straight” fakery. He’s so FOS all the time and no one should ever take him seriously on anything.

I don’t believe he was over her until Rome for good. He did spend the holidays with her and there was Oslo and the awards show. Maybe they started drifting about the time she hosted the Italia thingie because didn’t he go biking in the desert with friends instead of hanging out with her? If they were already moving apart, why was it necessary for him to pretend to be with her until “after OHF premiered”? Who the f.u.c.k does that? There’s nothing honest or real about him.

Gay all the way. It’s the only explanation for why he’s the way he is. Not that there’s anything wrong with that.

Somebodyelse @ 05/10/2013 at 9:07 am

@FFS: “This isn’t a sudden dumping because someone cheated. He just got tired of her”
That’s could also be a valid option as well, though remembering him in Rome, joyful and happy, not to mention their kisses one night before at that Gala after OHF promotion, captured by the cameras of the photo reporters, when they looked in love, I think your supposition is wrong.

Word eating shall commence

Can'tGetEnough @ 05/10/2013 at 9:12 am

Good Morning JJer’s. I’m surprised we don’t have a new thread with pics of GB at the gas station. Later perhaps.
Have a great day.
christinapascucci Dear Mom, I just ran into my future husband at a gas station. Hope you approve. #gerardbutler #romance 8h

Can'tGetEnough @ 05/10/2013 at 9:15 am

mayumi ‏@mayu888 5h
@GerardButler I’m sooooo excited that I heard you’ll come to Japan end of May !!

Can'tGetEnough @ 05/10/2013 at 9:17 am

CynGillet CYN 13h
Great time with @GerardButler @SunsetMarquisCA #memories
chloerogash15 Gerry #gerardbutler #beautiful #gorgeous #amazing #love #obsessed #celebcrush #dolceandgabbana #metball2013 1d

@Somebodyelse: That’s a lot of wishful thinking on your part. It’s called “PR”. Go back and read the comments of people that were there that day on the VF Italia page. It was a PR stunt. Sorry to ruin the fantasy you’ve got going.

Who does that? @ 05/10/2013 at 9:46 am

People in show business do that. That’s who. And he didn’t spend the “holidays” with her. He was with her for yet another photo op on NYE, and judging by his face in those pics, he wasn’t real happy about being there. If he is gay, as you say, the only thing I can say is it would be best if he didn’t attempt these fake PR relationships, and just continue on with his life and stay in the closet, if he so chooses. I don’t think the fake PR thing ever works real well and tends to backfire.

You are either one of her pervy male fans, or a troll. My guess is a troll or a JJ employee. We get your point. Now pi ss off, mmmkay? You are getting real boring. It’s over. Not sure why you keep trying to promote her here. She’s history.

Somebodyelse @ 05/10/2013 at 10:08 am

@FFS: All this PR argument is kind of boring and inconclusive. He just finished the OHF promotion (or about to finish anyway), no need to continue a supposed ‘hoax’. They were in vacations together, like Thailand, where there were no cameras, so where was PR back then? Besides, keeping this argument, you do nothing more than disregarding him, making him look like a sham. I just ask you one question: why would he fake a relationship there isn’t real? For money? He’s got plenty. For his career or fame (with MG)? Please! He’s got plenty also. For his image? With a former girlfriend of Leo, about which people say she rather ruins his image? He is already a celebrity and can have about any girl he wants that is not married. How could a relationship with MG improve his image (or increase the sales for his movies)? Get real…

Somebodyelse @ 05/10/2013 at 10:11 am

Besides, their relationship begun one year ago, long before OHF was released.

Why some of you are saying that he is gay? He is childish, I think he treats most of his “girlfriends” like s.e.x toys but it doesn’t mean he is gay. In my opinion (I know it sounds weird) he only cares about his mother and that is the only long-term relationship he has.

Somebodyelse @ 05/10/2013 at 10:30 am

If Gerry would have a relationship with a woman more than a year, kissing her in public and faking all this time (even if it was just for a couple of days), I would definitely loose respect for him, and for anyone who could be that mendacious.
I could imagine a scene, between GB and Maddie: “Oh, look, there are some paps, lets pretend to hold hands… and now you kiss me and I kiss you back, ok? but only superficial, oh, and can I put my hand on your buttocks? Excuse me, but hey, we need to do this, to foolish some people. How’s that smile? Am I looking genuine or not?” “No, put the other hand on my shoulder.” “Did the paps left? Ok, sorry for that, I had to, you know…” “You are not smiling” “Of course, no one is here any more” “Oh, you’re right” “We’ll see again, have to…” “I know, I’m sick and tired, but soon hope will be over.” “Yes, I can’t wait.” “Bye, bye, Gerry” “Bye, bye, Maddie”

@Somebodyelse: Believe what you want. I disagree. It doesn’t matter anymore. It’s over. Why is it so important to you to continue to promote a romance here? What’s your agenda? You seem to want to prove give this arrangement some legitimacy, but unless you are her, I don’t know why it’s important to you at this point. She is now a thing of the past. We may as well start debating whether he was really in a relationship with Laurie, or any of the others. Old news.

@Can’tGetEnough: So guessing he is going to Japan to promote OHF with Aaron? If that’s true, then awesome. What a life! As a person who loves travelling it makes me so envious to hear of all his adventures. The man is blessed in that way.

@nr007: And the little pug of course! Who really knows the workings of someone’s mind. GB comes across to me as insecure and out of touch with the real world. Just my opinion but that’s what I get from interviews, etc.

@Rosa: I agree. I don’t know why but that’s makes me sad.

Can'tGetEnough @ 05/10/2013 at 11:31 am

Oh hey Gerard butler…#beingsneaky #candid #sls #altitude #gerardbutler
Altitude Rooftop Pool at SLS Hotel, Beverly Hills

Somebodyelse @ 05/10/2013 at 11:38 am

@FFS: Are you paranoid or something? I didn’t promote any romance. I just told my opinion about FACTS that did happen and about I think that make sense. Cut the crap with these “wishful thinking” or “promote romance”, as I would have some advantage in this. Anyway, theoretically speaking, it’s way better to “promote a romance” than to promote a forged Gerry who would sell himself for nothing, like you do, but I don’t take personally like you these things, I don’t attack anyone who has got other opinion like you do, saying he has an agenda or other craps, I think anyone is free to post his opinion, or should be. I didn’t know that by saying/thinking Gerry had a true relationship (which lasted more than a year), after he hugged and kissed his mate several times in public, means you have an agenda. On other words, by believing what you see, by believing Gerry and his acts, someone is definitely suspicious, and having a hidden agenda, and by not believing Gerry, being paranoid and distrustful and saying, in other words, he is phoney/mercantile/not authentic (PR and stuff), that it means someone truly care for him and is a good person. What overturned values you have…

And who says it’s important to me, I just having fun, saying what I really think. I’m a Romanian native and care for MG. But if this cheating thing is true, I’ll change my mind about her, and also my position. I really wanted them to be happy, I believe in love and all this. And I like Gerry as well as a person as well, he seems to be a good person, not only a good actor.

Lesbian alert @ 05/10/2013 at 11:38 am

@Clamsie: Where have you been Clamsie, and how’s the girlfriend? Oh sorry, I mean husband. That is what you call her isn’t it?

Can'tGetEnough @ 05/10/2013 at 11:56 am

Miss that messy hair:
OwenCoyleJnr96 Owen Coyle Junior 30m
What a lovely guy @GerardButler was last year.

@Somebodyelse @ 05/10/2013 at 12:05 pm

We can all tell your Romanian, or a troll, because no one but a Romanian or a troll would still be here trying to talk about a relationship that’s OVER. Quit promoting her here, and go to her facebook page and ask her questions if you love her so much. One Romanian dates a celebrity and all the effing Romanians come out of the woodwork and act like it’s an achievement. You guys have nothing going on in that country, that’s for sure.

A fan mentions on GBs FB page along with a comment on “Vicky Green” that the GB/MG relationship is over??!!?? Anyone??!!??

dargabriel @ 05/10/2013 at 12:17 pm

Greetings And Happy Early mother’s Day. Hi Gb22, Looks Like Gerard Is Happy To Be Closer To His Other Half, Myself,Yourself,Ourself. I Can Only Hope And Pray Butler Is Ready To See An Abundance Of Sunshine, Positivity Instead Of Celtic Fog. Smile Butler, you’re A Shining Star Now, All Your Wishes,Hopes, Desires Are Coming Tenfold, You Deserve All Of This And More. i’m Smiling Upon You,Your Family,Your Friends, And Fans. it’s Ok For Butler To Stay In One Place For A Bit, Much R&R Needed. I Will Ask The Same Question, Where R TheSsmokes? I Believe My Butler Is Hearing Me From Great Distances. I Hope Everyone Brings Great Light To Their Moms, I Surprised Mine And Showed Up In Reno To Spoil Her. Gb22 And For Dargabriel Only, Thank You For Messages And The Divine Knowledge You Own, you’ve Said Things Like A Leash Of Some Sorts, I Understand And Straight Teeth, Haha, I Know Certain People Cross Paths With You In Your Life To Give You Things Sometimes Like A Life Long Dream Of Having Straight Teeth And A White Smile, This Is Good Light. Keep Watching Butler No Smokes And Casual Relationships With Many Women, He Is Surrounded By It, We Are Equal, Surrounded By Men, Who Believe To Be The One. For All Of You, We Recieve Offers, But Those Offers Alot Of Times Are Just Tests, We Say Thank You, But No Thank You And Move Forward, You Will Indeed Know When Its Ultimately Right, Look At The Eyes A Reflection Of Oneself And The Energy Viberation,Then Buckle Up Tight And Enjoy The Ride. Tarzan Meet Jane, Come Ride My Rope, Lol, First Thing I Thought Of. Take Care. Love,dargabriel

Can'tGetEnough @ 05/10/2013 at 12:18 pm

Rovelte ‏@Rovelte888 24m
@GerardButler Hi Gerry! I ’m so excited to hear that you’ll come to Japan at the end of this month!! I’m looking forward to seeing you !!!!

@ somebodyelse @ 05/10/2013 at 12:18 pm

@@Somebodyelse: /Can’t get enough/Alina(the russian whxre)

Cam down bxxch!!!

@Somebodyelse: You just called me “paranoid” and then go on to say you don’t attack anyone? You are definitely just trying to stir up **** here. If you want to believe they had a romance, keep believing it. There’s nothing left to discuss. It’s a done deal. If they were in love, and you believe that, they are not now. The end.

Oh my goood!! This man is….HOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!

or Alina (The russian whxore) or Can’tgeEenough.

just chill.bexxch.! You WILL NEVER HAVE GERRY REGAEDLESS!!!!!
GOT THAT! worthless POS!!!

@HIS EGO IS BRUISED:”" After Thailand, he seemed more interested in spending time by himself and his friends.”

A few people have said that things started going wrong in Thailand and at the time was there not a story that she was annoying him big time? Something happened there and things just got worse as time went on.

@Joshua:” He goes on Most vacations with Freddy.”

Lots of single people go on vacation with friends of the same sex, it doesn’t mean they are gay!

dargabriel @ 05/10/2013 at 12:34 pm

Dearest Gerard, Archangle Gabriel/Hope Energies Are Between San Francisco And Mt.shasta. Enjoy Your Travels. Love, dargabriel

@Krista:” He’s likely to change his phone number again if she doesn’t p/iss off”

He’s already changed it, he just sent me his new number, lol.

GB at LAX on the way to Italy! OMG it’s not over.

@C.A.: You should read more comments on this thread but watch out for trolls ;)

@alert: Italy is not the only place we fly planes to.

Can'tGetEnough @ 05/10/2013 at 12:46 pm

“Glasgow University’s well-heeled alumni include self-made men such as former RBS chief Fred Goodwin, current HSBC chief Douglas Flint and 300 actor Gerard Butler.”

Somebodyelse @ 05/10/2013 at 1:05 pm

@FFS: No, I don’t call you ‘paranoid’. I asked you if you are paranoid because you suspect me of some agenda, you attacked me out of the blue, when all I was doing was to gave an neutral opinion about things. Suspecting someone for nothing, but an opinion, no offense, looks like paranoia manifestation, but generally speaking, we use to say someone is ‘paranoid’ when he’s overly suspicious, not necessarily thinking he has cronical disease.
But you and another one, I see, are not standing the assumption that they had a real relationship (as all the facts are clearly suggest that), and became aggressive towards anyone having this opinion, that’s not normal and it means you are emotionally over implicated.
I didn’t say it is not over, on the contrary, I was the one who posted that information, giving a link to that article. If I would want to “save the appearances of a loving relationship, I wouldn’t have done that, would I? Why don’t you put your mind to work before making accusations of “agenda” or “troll”? How could I promote her, or a romance, when I was posted the news and translated first her words in her last interview, her crying and saying it maybe over???

LIAR LIAR @ 05/10/2013 at 1:12 pm

@alert: I work at LAX , he is not even here today , nor was he here last night . Stop Lying !!!!!

Hilarious! @ 05/10/2013 at 1:17 pm

All of this”HE dumped HER” No, “SHE dumped HIM” when no one even knows for certain there’s been a dumping at all!
You’re using as proof of a breakup stories in the Romanian press, the very same Romanian press that everyone disparaged when they were reporting an engagement was imminent!


Yeah right! Is that what you do on your shift? you should be fired, do your job …
stalking celebrities!! UGH! What a loser!

@nr007: haha I know but can’t be bothered to go through the trolls and the haters accompanied by soulmates and twinflames so I just act like most men do to women … Do not read the instructions – better just ask ;-)

@LIAR LIAR: Poor soul, looking at may 9 when he was flying in from nyc.
boy has this place gone to hell and doesn’t look like its coming back either. So you don’t have mg to kick around any more now it’s gb, his friends and every move you think he makes. While he is out living his life, having fun, enjoying the people he meets with much joy, laughing and eating well.
You don’t know squat about who he spends time with and who he is relaxed with. Google and watch the fun. You are a bunch of dead pans, full of spite and hate and wasted your life here.

Daily News @ 05/10/2013 at 1:28 pm


By the law of averages even the Romanian press must get something correct sometime.

@Daily News:
Keep hoping ..just don’t hold your breath too long…..side effects are dangerous…

LIAR LIAR @ 05/10/2013 at 1:53 pm

@@ Liar Liar: Kick Rocks !!!! at least I have a job.

LIAR LIAR @ 05/10/2013 at 2:00 pm

@crazy: You talkin to me ???? I could give a Monkeys dong who he is with , I just disputed with the person lying saying he was at LAX . Are you that person ???? Busted !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

go away trolls @ 05/10/2013 at 2:08 pm

@alert: funny since she is still in Romania doing shopping shopping shopping which she claims she hates, AL must have made the final payment on the contract and I don’t mean her annoying little friend

Beg to Differ! Respectfully... @ 05/10/2013 at 2:25 pm


All of this”HE dumped HER” No, “SHE dumped HIM” when no one even knows for certain there’s been a dumping at all!


A man…ANY MAN…ALWAYS “invests” his time in a relationship when he knows there’s a future in it! WHY?! Because the woman HE LOVES is there along with his HEART and SOUL…


It’s just a well-known FACT!!


The TRUTH IS…these two RARELY spend time together indicating SOMEONE has indeed moved on! Otherwise the world would have been subjected to posts and pics from Miss Maddie, taunting the fans of Butlerdom and feeding her own publicity machine, no??

Given Gerard doesn’t feel the need to explain their extended bouts of separation to the media…it is plain to see which one of them has…


The bottom line is Gerard is EVOLVING…which means he’s “investing” his time where his heart is…and this will be plainly evident soon enough…

ButlerforPres @ 05/10/2013 at 2:28 pm

So for Gerry to be in a relationship for more than 3 minutes, the women must be perfection to look at. Then at minute 5, he’s bored.

Touche'... @ 05/10/2013 at 2:28 pm

@Daily News:

“By the law of averages even the Romanian press must get something correct sometime.”


I LOVE brilliance and wit…can I marry this comment???

i find this a curious thing: people always want to know who dumped who.
i would be interested in finding out what it means.
if a male is the dumpee, what does it mean
if a woman is the dumpee, what does it mean
if the male is the dumper what does it mean
if the woman is the dumper what does it mean

Gerard Butler Grows... @ 05/10/2013 at 2:47 pm

New LOVE in his life…
New PROJECTS coming down the pipe…
New EXPANSION in his career…


So happy for the guy…


Congratulations Gerard…

All the same troll @ 05/10/2013 at 3:04 pm

331,333,335, 336
I give you three guesses who it is

looking for new love baby @ 05/10/2013 at 3:07 pm

@cheating: You are kidding right. Outer beauty has nothing to do with inner beauty. Sometimes inner beauty shines through in a non specific way, Inner ugliness also diminishes outer beauty.

See Campbell, Naomi.

Outer beauty is 80% genetics, 20 % maintenance unless you of course alter the genetics which one can do and this woman sadly has.

If you want to be really harsh, many men who are totally shallow say you have to check out the mother before you commit to a woman long term. If mom is still hot you are good to go. Genetics! For example, Cindy Crawford’s mother and sister are just as gorgeous as Cindy now.

If a man is bored by a beautiful woman that is because just being pretty, looking good together, does not make a relationship unless you are both similarly shallow. And people who are that shallow are always looking for the next better thing anyway. Because they are shallow.

Why did a Prince Charles prefer a Camilla Bowles over a Diana Spencer? Well also because he wasn’t marrying for love but for the heir and the spare. Yes arrangements still exist don’t they only Diana didn’t seem to get the brief at first.

God Bless yoou all! @ 05/10/2013 at 3:08 pm

“He restores my soul.” Psalm 23:3a

MADALINA WINS! @ 05/10/2013 at 3:12 pm

Ya’ll know why?
Because you guys are STILL discussing her!
She has her own category on JJ and Gerard’s threads are still dominated by her.
Let. It. Go.
He’s moved on, surely the rest of you can.

Gerard Butler Grows... @ 05/10/2013 at 3:12 pm

@Peter Pan:

“Every model/actress is his type! As long as they look like the Hollywood accepted ideal, he is willing. He is a follower manipulated by mainstream Hollywood.”


You know sadly enough, Gerard has actually admitted to this. But he has also acknowledged that he (his spirit) has moved on from that way of “being”…as he’s grown TIRED of the emptiness that way of life has produced for him.


Your PROOF…Madalina now gives interviews explaining the huge amounts of time spent away from each other…


It’s not hard to believe that a man like Gerard, brilliant as he is, eventually moves on to “substance”; something more “soulful”…and he absolutely knows that it has nothing to do with A TYPE.


Just as I’m sure that you wouldn’t want to be held constantly to missteps made by you as an adult…neither does Gerard! And…given his recent departure from his previous relationship and the woman who now holds his attention currently…he’s clearly demonstrating something very…”different”.


What I can promise you is this…she is the EXACT OPPOSITE of the woman he left after the now infamous “Rome stroll”…

@All the same troll @ 05/10/2013 at 3:13 pm

It’s Dar.

Worshiping Your Comment! @ 05/10/2013 at 3:17 pm

@looking for new love baby:

Good to see that brilliant minds do exist on these boards…


@Gerard Butler Grows…:
“And…given his recent departure from his previous relationship and the woman who now holds his attention currently…he’s clearly demonstrating something very…”different”.”
No offence GBG, but I read energies and you are completely off base. There is no one holding his attention now. He’s actually much more preoccupied with work. His heart is mending faster than he believed it could and it has surprised him deeply. But it is email after email after email that has his mind focused now. Not family. Not friends. But work.

No, she's not @ 05/10/2013 at 3:25 pm

Whatshername isn’t winning. There is only one troll here who keeps bringing her up. Everyone else has moved on. It’s either her or a friend of hers who’s trying to keep the attention on her.


“Our Gerry says he stays friends with some of his ex gfs. Not this one. Love is forgiveness and respect. He loves himself more.”


And you’re right Joshua!! THIS IS an obvious sign that privately Gerard is learning to love himself more which is playing out publicly…


Shall we lift up our glasses [of sparkling cider out of respect for Gerard's sobriety] to toast this good news? There is indeed much to celebrate…as more evidence will reveal itself.

You go ahead, Amen. I need to go do my laundry. I have my own life to lead and you should, too. You should put as much energy into your own life as you are putting into thinking about GB. Later…

But Then There's The Truth... @ 05/10/2013 at 3:46 pm


Yes indeed, work is very important to Gerard, yet Gerard isn’t working every minute of the day! And, unless you are holding Gerard’s hand every moment…it would be quite difficult for you to make such a blanket statement right?


Gerard likes to keep to himself…generally speaking…and you should know why! But then again…if you really did KNOW him, you wouldn’t be putting yourself out there to be corrected by someone on a board.


That’s the beauty of posting on these boards…ANONYMITY! And you never know who’s on the other end posting…

@All the same troll: It’s GFW.
They ‘paginate’ the exact same way. Embarrassing display of socking here.

@But Then There’s The Truth…:
I’m not a psychic that can foresee events. I’ve never claimed that.
I can only interpret the present moment through energies.
You are correct that work does not occupy his mind 24/7, but in the past week or so, it has been dominant. I cannot see into next week or beyond that.
But I maintain what I said before. Friends, or any other loved ones is not what has him preoccupied at present. I feel him being happy about this. He smiles when he reads emails.

I think some of you should really get out into the dating pool sometimes and find out a bit of what makes men and women tick.

First of all, Gerry isn’t going to do any better than Maddie. No way CAN he do better. He’s a major s.l.u.t, probably spreading STD cooties, and he’s not into commitment, only one-nighters. He could be gay and I’m not convinced he’s straight.

My point is that no decent self-respecting classy woman would give him the time of day and rightly so. He’s so much like the character he played in Lucy Sullivan Got Married. Love em and leave em.

IMO, the only reason he got lucky with Maddie was because of her youth and relative inexperience. She was probably blown away by his celebrity status, too. So he has a nice girl and a lot of fun with her (unless it was all staged) and suddenly she’s not enough for him? He’s got to cheat because that’s what he does. I believe their fling whatever it was started derailing around the time of the Oscars. They really were only seen at one of the red carpet appearances and then…nothing. She was in LA for several days and it doesn’t look like they were together much. I thought they’d be papped more at the time but no dice.

Move along @ 05/10/2013 at 5:02 pm

There’s nothing to see here, Clam. You’re beating a dead horse. Why?

@Move along: Ok, let’s talk about all the other things going on in his life.

His career: crickets.

New movies coming out in the next year: crickets.

His new gf: crickets.

At least Maddie added some color and flavor to his dull existence.

they can’t get dates, nobody wants them, that’s why they post their lies here all the time
totally desperate

the fact they are attracted to someone like gb and know so much about him, all negative, by the way, and they still yearn for this loser, speaks volumes about their low self esteem

Move along @ 05/10/2013 at 5:13 pm

Dull? He’s been more exciting since he dumped her. WH Dinner, Met Ball, etc. Just because he’s having down time for the last couple of days, I wouldn’t stress it. He’ll be out and about somewhere this weekend, no doubt. Projects in the near future? That’s a cra/p shoot. Who knows?

Let's make a contest @ 05/10/2013 at 5:20 pm

Madalina, please note that we will not be able to proceed your application to Gerard Butler soulmates’ contest.

He’s gay with Freddie his lover.

GB soulmates' contest rules @ 05/10/2013 at 5:25 pm

Madalina, please note that we will not be able to proceed your application to Gerard Butler soulmates’ contest.

Lesbian alert @ 05/10/2013 at 5:27 pm


Clamsie is a lesbian
I thought you would like to know that.

doesn’t matter if she is or isn’t…she’s still right
gb is still gay and the posters here are desperate low life losers with poor self esteem who can’t get a date

Madalina has written two comments on her facebook pages. One is “I am half” and the other is “JUST HAPPY”. That does not sound like a heartbroken young lady.

@Move along: Thank you for that! Appreciated.

Well clamsie seems you are the one that needs to get out of your dull existence. The boy seems to be just fine. Heading to Japan in a bit and having fun. More than I can say for you in your constant negative dull posting. Says a lot for the type of person you are by your dull posts . Always thinking your answer is the exact and only one.
AND you have no idea what self respecting classy girls would do with or to gerry lol. Get a life darlin.
Please don’t call mg young and inexperienced. We all know better than that fairy tale.

@Hoby: No, it sounds like someone who is trying to CONVINCE other people she is anything BUT.
What do you expect? Her to further embarrass herself by saying, “Oh my heart is broken in half, My life is over…” etc etc
Just last week she wanted his babies and said she was “in love”. You are a woman how can you sit there and say she doesnt care? Hahahaha kid yourself

You Are So Very Right!! @ 05/10/2013 at 5:54 pm


“He’s moved on, surely the rest of you can.”


And I for one am resolved to follow your admonition and make a promise to do the same.

Thank you for your astute reminder…

@Friday: If you think Gerry going to Japan is “fun”, you need your head examined. I mean, really, who cares where he goes? Same old same old same old. Maybe he and Freddie can eat sushi off each other’s bodies and drink sake out of each other’s navels.

Gerry’s gay, Freddie told me.

@Ha Ha:
“@All the same troll: It’s GFW.”
Wrong. Have been in staff Retreat away from the office for two solid days with gadgets ordered off. Have a nice day.
whose last comment was before I bolted so happy to see I’m missed when I’m not here :o)
who won’t be here tonight as it is Friday, sunny, and 70 degrees

Buy Bye Bi @ 05/10/2013 at 6:04 pm

I would buy that he is bi. Not gay.

Suzanne Cummings @ 05/10/2013 at 6:05 pm

Does Gerry have a new film ahead? I thought he was doing Robert the Bruce.

Lesbian alert @ 05/10/2013 at 6:09 pm

@Bubba“Gerry’s gay, Freddie told me.”

Was this before or after you had sex?

@GFW: You won’t be but your socky poo will.

@Lesbian alert: Sorry, troll. The Clam likes pe.en. Ask my hubby. Don’t you have Ellen eps to catch up on?

Lesbian alert @ 05/10/2013 at 6:14 pm

@Clamsie: Does she have a strap on then?

SouthernBelle @ 05/10/2013 at 6:20 pm


“Madalina has written two comments on her facebook pages. One is “I am half” and the other is “JUST HAPPY”. That does not sound like a heartbroken young lady.”

She was replying to a comment asking how she could recommend a book she had just bought -had she read the whole book. She responded that she was half – meaning half way through the book. Bing and Google seem to be pretty limited when translating Romanian.

I agree, she doesn’t seem unhappy – hope she isn’t and she’ll just move on.

It's Gerard's Time... @ 05/10/2013 at 6:21 pm

Gerard has moved into a more “inspired life” people!


Olympus Has Fallen…still earning.
Invite to the WHCD…where he has dinner with the President of the U.S. – which eerily synchronizes with his role in the above movie… (even the Universe thinks highly of you Gerard!)
New projects…new heights; where fans get to see more of his gifts in acting and the expansion of his producing skills…adding to the longevity of his movie career.
And…a relationship that reflects the TRUE VALUES of the “man he has become.”

Again…congratulations Gerard!! Many of us are so very happy for you. You more than deserve it…

Stupid Responses @ 05/10/2013 at 6:28 pm

@Lesbian alert:

“@Clamsie: Does she have a strap on then?”

If you had a logical argument, you wouldn’t have to throw slurs. It makes you sound lowlife and immature.

Sorry, Clamsie, I know you don’t need any help in defending yourself.

@SouthernBelle: What the fµck? Of course she is unhappy. But she will get over it. B!tch was crying on third world Romania TV, of course she feels badly. Too bad Gerbarf feels nothing. For anyone but himself.

Lesbian alert @ 05/10/2013 at 6:35 pm

@Stupid Responses: It’s a logical question as she calls her her girlfriend her “husband” and how else can two lesbians have sex as a man and a woman unless the “man” wears a strap on?

I Can Assure You... @ 05/10/2013 at 6:35 pm

@Ha Ha:

Though I take it as a GREAT COMPLIMENT that I would be compared to GFW, it very unfortunate that you aren’t able to tell the difference in our TONE in writing.


GFW, is an avid and marvelous supporter of Gerard’s with superb writing skills! She probably has been on the boards for quite some time and she INTUITS from afar…and very brilliantly I might add.
I, on the other hand, speak from another position and my messages EXUDES it. Just came on to reflect the new changes in Gerard’s life…

It just so happens I love the way she (GFW) spaces…it’s just so much cleaner…you know what I mean?

A response @ 05/10/2013 at 6:53 pm

@Stupid Responses: “If you had a logical argument, you wouldn’t have to throw slurs. It makes you sound lowlife and immature.”

And what about Clamsie throwing slurs about GB? that’s ok then is it?

@A response: Since when is calling someone gay or saying “he could be gay” a slur?

Gay is a slur? I don’t think so…isn’t it a “way of life”? Tsk tsk. You and les.troll aren’t making any sense. Gerry should come out with his man Freddy.

They probably stayed “around” because they didnt ask Gerrald for anything. And he appreciated that? it is odd though and I hear what you are saying. I guess he does pick and choose what doesnt fly with him?
>> @LOL
“Yes we know for a fact he “stays friends” with his ex-girls.
-We saw or heard of Laurie C traveling with him two full years after last being seen in Miami with him;
- Last year we read the report of him hanging with the fitness girl Alicia in Austin Tx THREE full years after he was reportedly boning her;
- Jeannia didnt we see him on the beach with her and her sister in 2011 maybe FIVE years after they were “supposedly” an item?”

Riiiiiiiiiiight @ 05/10/2013 at 7:42 pm

@I Can Assure You…:
GFW changed her “tone in writing” when she used the moniker “I Luv Chips”, so don’t even go there.
And I wouldn’t take it as a compliment that someone compared you to a loon. I guess your standards must be low.
You know exactly the same about Gerry as the rest of the world, so please spare us the psychic intuition bull.s.hit.

NiceToSee @ 05/10/2013 at 8:09 pm

@It’s Gerard’s Time…: Congratulations to Gerard… more than deserve the abominable blessings being bestowed upon you! Your fans love you!

Woot woot…. I’m you fan Riiiiiiiiight.

ur a hypocrite @ 05/10/2013 at 8:19 pm

ur a hypocrite because you change your Name each and every single time you post

Riiiiiiiiiiight @ 05/10/2013 at 8:27 pm

@ur a hypocrite:
The irony of your post has clearly gone over your head.
However, the rest of us would like to thank you the laughs.

Sober Fred @ 05/10/2013 at 8:44 pm

Gerard and his women. WHat a mess.

Your an Idiot @ 05/10/2013 at 8:48 pm

@@ Liar Liar:
If Gerry was in LAX word of mouth would spread, not to mention JJ would have a new thread:)
A liar can be smelt even through the internet and you stink!!!

Sunshine Daydream @ 05/10/2013 at 9:22 pm

It’s official! This thread has turned into a quagmire. Shame. There were some amazingly witty and insightful posters once upon a time. Oh well. Mr. Butler looks quite fit these days albeit a little too skinny for his frame. Hope all is well with him. What does he have going on next? OHF was a fantastic action film. Edge-of-your-seat thriller. Best to you, Mr. Butler.

Sunshine Daydream @ 05/10/2013 at 9:43 pm

All it takes is reading a couple of pages here and it becomes self-explanatory. This thread lost all its decency in the past few months because some posters refuse to let go of the hatred and bitterness that came as a result of the “fling” between Mr. Butler and Ms. Ghenea. And even after the supposed split of Mr. Butler and Ms. Ghenea still the hatred and analytical diatribes persist. Really, is there nothing else to discuss here? I heard Mr. Butler was pondering live theatre. Any news there? Any news about ANYTHING else?

surrender @ 05/10/2013 at 9:46 pm

@Sunshine Daydream: not much going on except the continueing drama of MG sad to say. Wish he had a movie to make. What’s his dog up to these days?

@Sunshine Daydream:
There has been no news of an upcoming acting project for Gerard, at least nothing is confirmed. You’re just going to have to be patient – or maybe take a break from JJ for awhile.

Sunshine Daydream @ 05/10/2013 at 10:16 pm

@Kim: Since this is my first time even looking in several weeks, I think I have already taken my break from JJ and will now turn it into a lengthy sabbatical, respectfully. From a part-timer’s point of view, nothing ever changes here. And that is not a good thing. Honestly, how many people are still posting here? Half a dozen with a dozen monikers each?

That’s three posts – all complaining about how much you hate it here. Getting a bit redundant, no? What’s the point of posting on a site you don’t like? The fan sites might be better suited to you and your interests. But stay or go, it makes no difference to me. I just thought I would answer your question which is – no – Gerry has nothing scheduled career-wise at the moment.

Can'tGetEnough @ 05/10/2013 at 11:11 pm
krismullaney My Mom & her boyfriend #gerardbutler at #shutters today in #santamonica – holy hotness batman! 57min

GOOD GRIEF!!! @ 05/11/2013 at 1:37 am

@One more:

I am not a prude by any means but I simply don’t understand why any decent woman would read the filth they put out on these sights. It’s far worse than what is even posted here. The fact that people read those kind of sites doesn’t say much about the moral fiber of this country. Very sad indeed!

GOOD GRIEF!!! @ 05/11/2013 at 1:41 am


And you are a ________!

Stupid Responses @ 05/11/2013 at 1:55 am


Guess you just joined the ranks of all us indecent women.


You are a disgusting excuse for a human being!


You are the one who is sick. You take great pleasure is coming here and spreading your hate. That is the REAL sign of obsession. Do you make dolls and stick pins in them and beat children, too. Your karma is really gonna be a *****!

You sound like you let your dog lick your crotch when no one is looking.
You’re sick.
Stop posting on our awesome board and then maybe the moral fibre of this country can return to where it belongs!

dargabriel @ 05/11/2013 at 2:19 am

Sounds Like There Is Some Weird Stuff This Evening. i’m Happy For You Mr.butler, I Know You Will Stay In Cali For A Bit, Hopefully You Will Explore Some More Beautiful Places In This Beautiful State. Please Let People Know You Quit The Smokes, I Know But Your Fans Who Love You don’t. Its Time Babes. Peace And Light. Love,dargabriel

A response @ 05/11/2013 at 2:51 am

@Clamsie:”Since when is calling someone gay or saying “he could be gay” a slur?”

It is a slur when it’s not true and there is not one piece of evidence to prove it is!

@Stupid Responses:

How do you figure that? I wasn’t aware of what that site was and I only looked at a couple of lines. That was enough! I won’t go there again and siites like Lainey’s I NEVER go to. It’s difficult enough trying to skip over the awful posts here trying to find some real news or photos. When I leave I feel like I need a bath!

GOOD GRIEF!!! @ 05/11/2013 at 3:21 am


You just proved my point about being sick and disgusting! Thanks!

so annoying with complaints @ 05/11/2013 at 3:34 am

Why are you here???
To complain?
Go away and stay away.

Sober Fred @ 05/11/2013 at 3:36 am

This is a ZOO.

Gerard is not picky... @ 05/11/2013 at 3:58 am

I cannot believe this story!

Lainey: “Especially being here in LA, it’s a f-cking mystery how they managed to turn that skeeze [Gerard Butler] into a star. A mystery. Even among industry players. Somehow his management team pulled off the ultimate play. Because as far as celebrities go, real celebrities, Gerard Butler is a god/d/amn fraud.”

Lainey: “Ew!!!!

And stop top telling me about Dear Frankie. Dear Frankie has EXPIRED. You can’t keep going back to one instance of Hotness years ago as a trump card against current and consistent Assness.
Current and consistent Assness > One time Hotness.

Lainey is bitter @ 05/11/2013 at 4:04 am

She hates Gerard with passion.
Ugly broad got rejected by a man that will hit on most anything.
I’d be pi.ssed too.
I just wouldn’t devote a career to discrediting him.
Hope she cries herself to sleep every night next to her ugly husband and dreams about what could have been, if only, she wasn’t ugly herself and he gave her a bit of attention.
She’s a loser.

@Lainey is bitter: “Ugly broad got rejected by a man that will hit on most anything.”


Lainey is bitter @ 05/11/2013 at 5:00 am

Google photos of her.
The evidence is there.
She’s ugly.

lainey gossip @ 05/11/2013 at 5:01 am

people who complain about lainey complaints are lame.
please….she is not interested in these actors/actresses.
never has been
its all entertainment for her
but she believes in something or she wouldn’t be able to do what she does
She is a woman who believes in women!!! dammit!
something you lame-o lousy female losers don’t get.

lainey gossip @ 05/11/2013 at 5:05 am

besides which i am not clicking on her link
i only click if i am interested
and if you report she is trashing gb…well then i probably agree with her.

Lainey is bitter @ 05/11/2013 at 5:19 am

@lainey gossip:
“and if you report she is trashing gb…well then i probably agree with her.”
You won’t click on the link and read anything yourself, but you’ll blindly trust anybody on the net saying basically anything about Gerard, as long as she’s trashing him?
Why are you here again?
Oh, that’s right.
The same reason you post every day.
You are lonely and crave attention from strangers. Just met Gerard Butler. Rockin. Ohh Santa Monica — at The Bungalow

lainey gossip @ 05/11/2013 at 5:29 am

I’ve read lainey before
I know her schtick and
I know the excuses people make as to why she writes what she writes
I don’t buy that the she is bitter that gb rejected him. Its always the same story about every actor she trashes….Its always the same old lame-o excuse. Which means it doesn’t fly.
gb is dogbarf and she is publicly rejecting him. who is the bitter one here again?

Somebodyelse @ 05/11/2013 at 5:32 am

@Granny: ” B!tch was crying on third world Romania TV”
Off topic – just a remark about this statement, maybe Romania is not a wealthy european country, but Antena 3 television (which is CNN affiliated) received professional recognition by receiving some awards. At AIB International Media Excellence Awards (by Association for International Broadcasting) in Nov 2011 they received two special jury awards and in Nov 2012 three nominees. This year was nominated (among the best televisions in the world – CNN, BBC, Aljazeera, Discovery and other ) at New York Festivals – “World Best’s TV & Films”, and received three nominees for Documentary Drama, Best Camerawork and Best Editing and won a golden world medal for one of them – for image (best camerawork),35
That’s a lot for a “third world TV”.

lainey gossip @ 05/11/2013 at 5:32 am

“You are lonely and crave attention from strangers.”
just because you fish for compliments doesn’t mean you’ll get them…you might not deserve them.

Lainey is bitter @ 05/11/2013 at 5:34 am

@lainey gossip:
“gb is dogbarf ”
Do you really expect anyone on here to believe that you actually feel this way??
Strange how every Gerry hater always has so much time on their hands to post on JJ. I can’t stand Aniston, but I don’t waste my time on her threads.
You’re the worst kind of phannie there is. You’re so bitter that you can’t have him that you have started hating him for it. Hence your support of the equally bitter and ugly Lainey.

“And then there’s Gerard Butler. As you know, he’s not my type. But to his credit, he was the only one who exited his ride and immediately went to the people waiting to sign autographs. Wearing a Versace suit that fit him beautifully, surprisingly no spittle gathered at the corner of his mouth, he joked with photographers and took his time down the line, had most the female reporters twittering and quivering with his big voice and his accent. Since my loins aren’t set to his frequency, soon as I got my sound bite I was outta there. Was tired.

But still, Gerry was a total pro. With a real movie star quality about him. In that respect, I guess I sort of get it. Sort of.”

lainey gossip @ 05/11/2013 at 5:38 am

gb is gay
your gaydar is off

lainey gossip @ 05/11/2013 at 5:38 am

you stupid phannies have terrible taste and you are so neglected by the men in your life you don’t know a good one.

Lainey is bitter @ 05/11/2013 at 5:40 am

@lainey gossip:
By your own admission, at least we have men.
More than what you have : )

lainey gossip @ 05/11/2013 at 5:41 am

it might behoove you to read other jj threads. they are not all sunshine and roses…and gb definitely doesn’t fit those qualities himself. he’s a bitter old grouch.
people who don’t like gb are allowed to post it.
if you don’t like it then don’t read it. read something boring instead.

Sockalina @ 05/11/2013 at 5:42 am

Another interesting take on Butler. For some reason, I buy this about him. LOL

lainey gossip @ 05/11/2013 at 5:42 am

you sound like gb’s pr
maybe you should quit while you’re ahead.

Lainey is bitter @ 05/11/2013 at 5:43 am

@lainey gossip:
“people who don’t like gb are allowed to post it.”
Of course they are.
I guess there’s a lot of pathetic people out there, wasting time on things they hate.

lainey gossip @ 05/11/2013 at 5:45 am

gb’s not my man
oh joy!
praise the lord!

“….M and her friends were debating whether or not it was really Spittle. As M puts it, she’s “drunk enough to go confirm”. So she walks up to him and apologises for bothering him and asks if he’s Gerard Butler because she just made a bet that he was Gerard Butler. After acknowledging that he was indeed Gerard Butler, he then asked M if she wanted to win another bet. “You should unbutton your shorts and dance along the fence.” M asked why, what would be her reward? And he answered magnanimously: MY TIME. Spittle is so generous, non? Needless to say, she didn’t care to have any more of his time. So she walked away, laughing at him, followed by “his manager”, who tagged along to come hear what she reported back to her friends, and they ended up laughing in his face until he scurried away too.”

Sockalina @ 05/11/2013 at 5:48 am

@Lainey: He really has a big head but it’s empty. He’s starting to creep me out.

lainey gossip @ 05/11/2013 at 5:48 am

i think you are pathetic for buttkissing the gay guy gerbil

don't engage the troll @ 05/11/2013 at 5:48 am

@Lainey is bitter:
it’s the same anti-semitic, bigoted homophobe that starts posting at this time in the morning. just ignore her. she is sick in the head. she always tries bait people by responding to every poster. then she starts with the, “you sound like his pr”, “you sound gay”.
this troll is derailing every thread on gerry.

lainey gossip @ 05/11/2013 at 5:50 am

pr is the troll

Lainey is bitter @ 05/11/2013 at 5:51 am

@don’t engage the troll:
” then she starts with the, “you sound like his pr”, “you sound gay”.”
I see what you mean.
Okay, I’m out.
I’m not going to be responsible for yet another three pages of defending Gerry against a known troll.
Thanks and bye.

lainey gossip @ 05/11/2013 at 5:51 am

i don’t know what you are talking about
but i can tell you are pr because you don’t like anything that differs from your troll bait
and you get upset when people don’t bite
some of us are too good for your lame-o schtick

it’s the same anti-semitic, bigoted homophobe that starts posting at this time in the morning. just ignore her. she is sick in the head. she always tries bait people by responding to every poster. then she starts with the, “you sound like his pr”, “you sound gay”.
this troll is derailing every thread on gerry.

lainey gossip @ 05/11/2013 at 5:56 am

440 and 442 are the same pr troll
feel free to leave

Sockalina @ 05/11/2013 at 5:58 am

@don’t engage the troll:Hey, trolls have the right to post here, too. If Dar can post word salad and GFW can post her rants, then everyone else has a right to post too.

The only thing you can do is refuse to read them. Personally, I’m entertained by the non-gushers who’ve finally figured out Gerry is a sl.ut and user of women and possibly men. He’s not a nice man and never has been. Some of you want to see him that way but he’s really a jerk who can’t keep his pants zipped up. Creepy.

talking to yourself again pr troll

What distinguishes Team Spittle from the rest of the ardent idiots is the H.orny. These b.itches are straight up H.orny. Here’s one from a few months ago when I was writing about what a misogynist pig he is. From Teri-Lynn in Missouri:
“Lainey, your a focking messed up c-ntface, how do you know how Gerry treats his ladies? He treats the ho’s bad but for a real woman he would role out the red carpet and carry me on his yummy big shoulders and love me so good and so hard I would have nothing to complain about. That’s the Gerry I know and want every night in my dreams. All I have to hear is his voice. So f-ck you. He probably rejected you and now all you can do is make fun his mouth. Real Gerry fans love the way he talks with passion and hunger. B-tch.”

hi sockalina,
i didn’t comment on it but i think miranda would not agree to have her pic taken with gerbil. gerbil was eager to be seen with a model. that’s what i think actually happened.

the person who cut and paste lainey’s hatemail is actually gerbil’s pr troll
trying to keep the fantasy going
gerbil is dogbarf and unmanly

gerbil is gay and gerbil”s pr are buttkissers

don't engage the troll @ 05/11/2013 at 6:15 am

it’s the same anti-semitic, bigoted homophobe that starts posting at this time in the morning. just ignore her. she is sick in the head. she always tries bait people by responding to every poster. then she starts with the, “you sound like his pr”, “you sound gay”.
this troll is derailing every thread on gerry.

i don;t know what you are talking about
i think you are paranoid or something
have you ever been hospitalized?
you should see a doctor for your symptoms of paranoia regarding a gossip site
ps: gerbil is gay and you are his buttkisser

Sockalina @ 05/11/2013 at 6:20 am

@lainey gossip: You might be right. I heard a long time ago that he and Orly don’t get along so maybe he didn’t want to start a world war.

I really do think he’s the kind of guy who likes women he can’t have. Remember how he acted with Priyanka. He loses respect for anyone who sleeps with him.

hmmm. nope i don’t know anything about a conflict with bloom
i recall the prianka thing but didn’t follow it too closely
i would tend to believe your assessment he wants what he can’t have or doesn’t deserve.
he places a low value on sex because the women he’s supposedly been with are not that attractive. except for mg.

when a guy gets with an unattractive woman, it turns off attractive women. but he’s gay so it doesn’t matter.

“He loses respect for anyone who sleeps with him.”
Doesn’t make sense. You mean he loses respect for anyone that sleeps with him too soon?
If that’s the case, he lost respect for MG pretty early on. Four days is fast to bed someone you just met. But they lasted a year, so I think your assessment is way off. He doesn’t lose respect for women that sleep with him. He loses respect for women that use him. JMO.

what’s the scoop with bloom?

Good grief! Phannies embarrassing themselves again. No wonder Lainey likes to make fun of them. They make themselves easy targets when they behave like that.

he didn’t sleep with mg because he is gay.

@lainey gossip:
You might be right that he didn’t sleep with her because on Stern he said her breasts were real LOL! But he’s not gay.
And the scoop with Bloom and Kerr is that she’s been cheating on him for years. Once with a photographer and then with Leo apparently. It’s pretty well known and insiders have been saying that’s why she got dumped from Victoria’s Secret and lost some commercial contracts because a divorce is probably going to be announced in the next year or so.
A hot mess model is not a good commodity. She’s falling to pieces, as is her life.

hmmm…….leo again?
just proves my point that gerbil is gay.
i thought sockalina meant an argument of some kind between bloom and gerbil.
wasn’t kerr previously married to a singer? or am i confusing her with someone else?

ok i’m getting kerr confused with the one who was/is married to harry connick jr. these two are my favorite vs models.

Sockalina @ 05/11/2013 at 7:05 am

@lainey gossip: I used to go to a Gerry fan site years ago where a lot of the members used siggies of all kinds. Someone had an Orly siggie and Gerry saw it and told his PA Tonya to get them to remove it. He didn’t want Orly advertised in any way on a Gerry fan site. This was in the early days when Gerry was accessible to fans and he used to read the sites, like around 2004 time of POTO. As you know, when POTO came out, he started distancing himself from fans.

@lainey gossip:
“my favorite vs models.”
WAS a vs model.
Thankfully they took her ugly mug off the stage.
More room for the REAL models like Adriana.
Kerr is a great commercial model, but se.xy? NEVER, EVER!

Sockalina @ 05/11/2013 at 7:15 am

@Jolie: I hadn’t heard Kerr was having troubles. Her PR spin for leaving VS was that she had other modeling obligations that took priority. Not sure if it’s true or not.

ok thanks for the back story
question: did his pa tonya post a long post in this thread to mg?
i thought amy was his pa
or is tonya merely a webmistress?

i actually don’t like adriana lima
but that’s personal taste isn’t it
i prefer kerr.

i think vs has been having model problems this past year. another model is leaving or has already left. kerr would be the third this year if i’m not mistaken…sounds like management at vs is at fault.

Sockalina @ 05/11/2013 at 7:20 am

@lainey gossip: No, Tonya was his PA long before Amy came along. Tonya and Gerry had some sort of falling out and she quit working for him. She had been with him for like 10 years. She was planning on an acting career and got married too. I don’t know her married name. I think her maiden name was Meli or something like it.

Sockalina @ 05/11/2013 at 7:22 am

Yes, her name is Tonya Meli. She’s still in showbiz and you can google her to read up on her.

Sockalina @ 05/11/2013 at 7:24 am

Correction, Tanya Meli. She was soooooo years ago how soon I forget.

thanks for filling me in sockalina :)

is her speaking style the same as the style of the tonya who posted in this thread?…its a very long post, more than 5 paragraphs.

@Sockalina: Tonya and Gerry are still very good friends. She left to pursue her own career which she is quite successful. She is a lovely, nice person. Why don’t you limit your BS to something you think you know about?

Is it really cool to post private citizen’s complete names on an International gossip site, regardless for whom they worked? Especially all you cowards hiding behind countless monikers?

how would you know that cassie?
are you close personal friends with either of them?

Sockalina @ 05/11/2013 at 7:41 am

@lainey gossip: I don’t know the Tanya on these threads and I don’t know what Tanya Meli’s speaking style is. There may be an old vid from the GALS convention when Gerry and Tanya went to Vegas and dropped in. I think she spoke then. GALs probably has any vids from that time.

Gerry had to be in Vegas anyway because his friend Ariel was screening his new film so Gerry gave GALs about 15 minutes of time. From others who went I gathered that he wouldn’t pose with them for pics. He brought his gf Bianca with him and both bolted out of there after a short visit. He made some sort of nervous speech.

are these things tonya meli would say?
ie the things written in this post?
has she said things like this when she was on the website 10 years ago?

Sockalina @ 05/11/2013 at 7:48 am

@GFW: Tanya Meli is a Brit and in showbiz. She’s not a private citizen. No one has a problem mentioning Joy Fehlily or Rupert what’s his name publicist for Gerry. Or Alan Siegel.

What’s YOUR problem, GFW? Jealous of anyone who PA’d for Gerry?

i think post 7 and 8 on that thread are the same person.
what is your sense about it?

Sockalina @ 05/11/2013 at 7:59 am

@lainey gossip: scroll up. I have no idea who the poster is.

could be the prtroll but not tonya meli
in any case, its unprofessional.

No, not jealous. Their roles are more performative than immerisive.

or could be gfw working on her mg smear campaign still

No, not her. She is a Brit so wouldn’t make grammatical errors like that.
And the one trying to condone Gerry as gay as payback or to be mean or hurt his career in some way? Please give it up. He has no skwalms being call it. And for the 1,001th time: Gerard Butler is not a homosexual.

gerbil is gay and
gfw is a buttkisser

may not make grammatical errors but that is a brit style of speech and she is brit right?

maybe its someone from the the agency or a reject of the agency
could it be you that is a reject gfw?

Can'tGetEnough @ 05/11/2013 at 8:30 am

Gerard Butler and Chris Rene:
Shelbs ‏@ShelbsJann 3h
Just was with Gerard butler at the bar. Oh how I love Cali babyy !!!!!
from Santa Monica, CA

Sockalina @ 05/11/2013 at 8:31 am

@GFW: What? Immerasive????????

Gibberish. I have no idea what you just posted. You’re nuts.

Can'tGetEnough @ 05/11/2013 at 8:51 am

LaurenBothaSA Lauren Botha 3h
Me with one of the best phantoms Gerard Butler!:D #ILoveHim!

@Can’tGetEnough: Hi CGE, thanks for the links. Out and about in sunny LA. Hope we hear soon about a new project. I think he does have some things in the works but he wants to lock them down before we hear about them. Have a nice day and weekend.

Believe what you like. I don’t think it is Tonya. Someone snagged the recognizable name to force people to think that. She has better things to do esp after all this time out of his employ than to wander in and type up a verbose scolding list! Really?
Immersive. Typo. You know what I mean. Not immersed. They gain no depth they see different sides of him of course, but they would never be here on stupid (low-end –sorry Jared) gossip site blabbing about their ex employer. They sign confidentiality agreements. Gerry, believe it or not, is very deep, even more sensitive and truly a highly emotional man. Have a nice day.
~K, bouncing

Can'tGetEnough @ 05/11/2013 at 9:02 am

@lolita: You’re welcome Lolita. I’m sure we’ll hear about something soon, but we may just have fan pics for awhile. That works too. He always seems to look relaxed and happy with the fans. Hope you have a nice weekend too.

Shelley Poteet @ 05/11/2013 at 9:30 am

I remember Tanya. She used to drop in at some of the fansites and sometimes chat with us. She was very nice and sweet. What a difference as Amy now handles his fb and twitter accounts. There’s no interaction, she posts using Gerry’s words and the fans react, nothing else. A lot of stars do that, though.

Makes no sense @ 05/11/2013 at 9:36 am

Just wanted to be post 500

PR student @ 05/11/2013 at 10:50 am

@Somebodyelse: Well Ms. Romanian Tourist Bureau your print media is not in danger of winning any Pulitzer prizes. The total garbage printed about MG and GB is so laughable even Romanians have expressed embarrassment in comments. It makes the National Enquirer look credible.

PR student @ 05/11/2013 at 10:58 am

@Granny: I am INTUITING that MG is not the friend/ex-girlfriend type. So dream on. I think even for sex he’s going to give this one a wide berth for as long as he can given they have far too many friends in common.

Not only has Kerr been rumored to have had a fling with Leo but Justin Bieber too. Now I hope that is not true, my brain hurts even trying to conjure up the image or MK needs to stop drinking and soon.

saturday night's all right @ 05/11/2013 at 11:02 am

@MADALINA WINS!: Allow people to adjust to the new reality, In a week or so it will be MG who? Back into obscurity she goes.

saturday night's all right @ 05/11/2013 at 11:19 am

@geraldine: Back to business as usual Lol.

Makes no sense @ 05/11/2013 at 11:31 am


Phew. That was a lovely prize!!!! Thanks for the fun!!!!

@Makes no sense: haha, you’re welcome ;)

Shelley Poteet @ 05/11/2013 at 11:40 am

@geraldine: Can’t wait to see the phannies ripping into his next gf too. No one’s good enough for Gerry LOL!

Just a matter of time and they’ll find fault with MK and KP too.

@GFW: For once, I completely agree with you.

@lainey gossip: It would be beyond foolish to answer that question now, wouldn’t it?

So Inspiring... @ 05/11/2013 at 12:17 pm

Gerard is really one EXTRAORDINARY human being!!
This man STAYS FOCUSED throughout it all…given his new station in life.
As of this morning, Gerard’s FOCUS:

New, fulfilling/spiritual relationship…
Developing projects of a “grander scale”…
Life expansion and well-being…


Anything else in his words…just doesn’t really matter (materialize).

Don't be silly @ 05/11/2013 at 12:23 pm

@Shelley Poteet: I doubt that very much. This recent gf was so bad, she makes everyone else look amazing. I’m sure everyone would be happy about anyone he dates from this point forward, with the exception of the two here who think they are his soulmate.

Factorfanfic? @ 05/11/2013 at 12:24 pm

I just logged in to the last page to read my posts and see if I had any responses and they were all put in moderation! For what reason, I have no idea! This is a strange site!

Shelley Poteet @ 05/11/2013 at 12:38 pm

@Don’t be silly: I don’t think Maddie was bad at all. What she was, in the end, was a willingl accomplice in going along with creating the illusion that he was in a relationship. I don’t know if he ever had feelings for her or not or if the whole thing was a big fat fake-out but you have to admit it’s bizarre.

Why would he feel the need to pretend he was in a relationship? Makes no sense. It wouldn’t have mattered a rip to any of his fans. If it was real, when was the breakup? I think before Rome…so, why the need to create a fake scenario of “we’re still together”?

Butler is a strange man. I just don’t get it.

Don't be silly @ 05/11/2013 at 12:41 pm

This was about getting her image out there. He was doing someone a “solid”.

Factorfanfic? @ 05/11/2013 at 12:52 pm

@Shelley Poteet: I don’t think the relationship was fake really. I do believe that Gerry was initially smitten with her, pursued her and then, in normal Butler fashion, drug her all over the place doing things in his usual intense manner until she needed “breaks” just to catch her breath. But I also believe that with Butler he burns out quickly on things, especially those that he burns so hot over initially. It all probably just ran it’s course. He may have even had a momentary thought of settling down and she was the one no where ready for that. I think that’s called not being on the “same page” no matter what their feelings for each other were at the time.

I think he is loyal to a fault with people that he cares about and enjoys keeping in his life and that don’t judge him and take him for who he is. A woman in his life would have to be more like one of his friends first with a little bit of his Mum thrown in and that’s a tall order and then everything else would have to fall in line.

I would think being his friend is probably more rewarding then being a “lover” or girlfriend. He seems to be a really fun person. And I don’t believe the man will ever marry because he’s terrified of being locked in to one person and I don’t blame him really. Sometimes when you commit to someone, they come with all kinds of “requirements” they put on the relationship and he may feel that all his other relationships would be compromised because of that. And I’m not speaking of other sexual relationships. I’m speaking of his friends, family, etc.

He prefers many relationships rather than to having to answer to just one person. He wants to be himself and his friends appreciate that. A spouse might want to change him.

I could see where he could wear one person out and it’s better for him to have many relationships so he is never overwhelming one person with his intensity. I’ll bet each friend in his life has a different “purpose” for him and he is fulfilled by that. The sexual one, however, is one that he has to satisfy by settling for more casual, unattached relationships that don’t threaten his freedom. Sex is always something that usual comes with a commitment of some sort. All the other aspects of his relationships are easier to achieve and met with other relationships.


Gerard's TRUE Love!! @ 05/11/2013 at 12:55 pm

Gerard’s new relationship with his IDEAL WOMAN, who is NOT in the business…let him tell it, offers him so much more than he’s ever experienced in all his 43 years! For the first time in his life…he’s learned how to love and trust a woman…wholeheartedly and completely.

Again…in his words.

Gerard even seems to be easing into the role of “stepfather” rather well…

Factorfanfic? @ 05/11/2013 at 1:00 pm

@Gerard’s TRUE Love!!: What the heck are you talking about?? You know something the rest of us don’t?

Shelley Poteet @ 05/11/2013 at 1:04 pm

@Factorfanfic?: She doesn’t know jack. LOL

Makes sense @ 05/11/2013 at 1:05 pm

I agree with most of this. I think he was sex/ually attracted to her in the beginning, but that’s about it. I don’t think they had much to talk about and very little in common. He is a middle-aged man now, and he’s not going to change. This is the lifestyle he is comfortable with. He can’t even stay in the same place for five minutes, never mind have a wife and family. It’s just not his personality. He seems to like variety in all things and he has an extremely short attention span. Imo he sees commitment as very suffocating, which it can be.

Seriously @ 05/11/2013 at 1:06 pm

@Factorfanfic?: You really are talking out of the left cheek of your butt. There is no new relationship. I am not even convinced that his relationship with Maddy is over. He is doing what he does. At industry events, he chats up others, does a little schmoozing, etc. On his free time now, he’s hanging around his favorite places in LA, apparently alone. He seems to be the type who needs to be in the middle of people and not at home meditating his next moves.

Factorfanfic? @ 05/11/2013 at 1:11 pm

@Shelley Poteet: I do believe it is Gerry posting on his twitter page really. Most of his tweets do sound like him.

dargabriel @ 05/11/2013 at 1:12 pm

Greetings To All, Look Not Everyone Is Superficial, Just Because Gerard Has A Job In Show Biz, doesn’t Mean He Is Fake, He Is Godlike. I Believe In Him. I Know How He Thinks, He Sees Good In People Who You Probably wouldn’t Even Take A Second Look At, Trust Me I Am The Same. I Meet Many Individuals, Disabled,Old,Young,Sick, And Give Light, My Yob, I Love And Embrace. Showbiz Is Just A Yab, Nothing More, Nothing Less. Love Is Real, Beyond The Physical. Love And Light. Love,dargabriel

Factorfanfic? @ 05/11/2013 at 1:13 pm

@Seriously: Excuse me? I didn’t say he had any “new” relationship. So maybe you’re using your own butt to do your posting for you.

Factorfanfic? @ 05/11/2013 at 1:19 pm

@dargabriel: If there is anything I do know for a fact, is when I spot a phony or fake. Let’s just call it a “gift”. He can be “fake” when he needs to be as many of us can. But he’s honest to a fault too, sometimes when it really doesn’t serve him well. He’d be the kind of guy who if you asked him if something made your butt look big, he’d tell you the truth! Actually, I like that. It’s constructive! You change pants and get on with it! LOLOL!

Seriously @ 05/11/2013 at 1:22 pm

@Factorfanfic?: It wasn’t my butt, but it was obviously aimed at the wrong person and for that I truly apologize. My response was to “Gerard’s TRUE Love!!”. Forgive me?

Can'tGetEnough @ 05/11/2013 at 1:25 pm

LoraFitz Lora Stacey 8m
Rather aptly my 300th follow goes to one Mr @GerardButler #OlympusHasFallen

Factorfanfic? @ 05/11/2013 at 1:27 pm

@Seriously: Apology accepted and for the record, I think we both know who that is. You can always expect the change of moniker after closing her last post with, “Have a nice day.” Someone’s obviously still yanking her chain! Too bad!

Factorfanfic? @ 05/11/2013 at 1:30 pm

It’s been fun, phellow phannies! But I must be gone! xoxoxoxox

@Factorfanfic?: Very well put .. Amen to that :)

Can'tGetEnough @ 05/11/2013 at 1:43 pm

Gabriel Soufo ‏@soufism29 9h
Shook hands with @GerardButler – that was awesome. Thanks bud #rockin
from Santa Monica, CA
BBOYURIAH Uriah Clevenger 17h
@GerardButler don’t hesitate

It’s the other “true love.” The “stepfather” comment was the giveaway.

he who laughs last @ 05/11/2013 at 2:02 pm

@Factorfanfic?: A good post and good assumption, since we really don’t know anything about anything lol.
Remember the gas station encounter last week?
I thought that whole video was so funny and the reporter was a stitch. But love this picture with her in the background and gb’s expression. Would love to see a gf with a sense of humor like his and have fun with someone instead of what we just went through.
To much drama or maybe we just made it so. Katy P. seems to have that nutty sense of humor too.
Liked the fact that he ran into Chris Rene yesterday. Seems he is having fun and “love life”.
Honestly don’t think we will hear to much about who he is with or date till it is a serious event and although we would love to know, think after the past affair he will be very discreet.

The ONE Gerard Really Loves... @ 05/11/2013 at 2:04 pm

Mature, educated, dynamic woman…of two. Yes, of two!

Spiritual, refined, grounded; she brings forth the best in Gerard each day.

Her love for her favorite charities (My Sister’s Place; Davidson Institute for the Gifted; St. Jude’s Children’s Hospital – saved a young family member and others), has already secured Gerard Butler’s support.

Her acumen in quantum and theoretical physics; and the study of consciousness, complement’s Gerard’s abilities (outside of acting) and his working knowledge in the subjects in every way…

And finally Gerard is most accepting of her very “unique way” to show fan (site) appreciation…

Their relationship will indeed inspire millions…

dargabriel @ 05/11/2013 at 2:10 pm

@The ONE Gerard Really Loves…: Thats Not True, Falsehood. Poster Is Trying To Throw People Off, Try Again. You Sound Like you’re Trying To Sell A Product. dargabriel

he who laughs last @ 05/11/2013 at 2:11 pm

@The ONE Gerard Really Loves…: Oh get off it, he cannot marry his mother.

@The ONE Gerard Really Loves…: I Agree With You Completely. Just About Every Word Is Correct.
Mature, Educated, Spiritual, Charitable. Yes Yes
Not Too Sure About The Physics Acumen. Gerard Only Knows The Physics Of His &ecker!

@he who laughs last:
The only reason we heard about the last one is because we were meant to. He will go back to being more discreet now, I’m sure. Personally, I hope he really is dating Katy Perry, because he could do with a little fun for awhile, after that dismal time with the narcissistic and humorless ex. At least Katy doesn’t need any shopping trips from him.

Can'tGetEnough @ 05/11/2013 at 2:50 pm

Gerard Butler
20 minutes ago
Check out my buddy’s film The Iceman. It’s awesome.

he who laughs last @ 05/11/2013 at 3:07 pm
Very true. I found her to be lacking in a natural sense of humor as well and tell you the truth, I was waiting for some sign of that.
Still waiting to hear if he is going to Cannes next week. Maybe he will bow out this time.
Good and nice that he is promoting the Iceman. Good and loyal friend.

he who laughs last @ 05/11/2013 at 3:10 pm

I was speaking of mg and not Katy. Should have made myself clear.

Back from The Great Gatsby (3D). Yes, indeed “careless” people who use a break people then recess into their world of money. Not bad, not great. But it was true. The crowd he hung out with were lousy and he better than the lot of them but like Gerry.
Thank you Cassie. Apologies for the typos. I am myself.
Good to see my lug promote his good friend Ariel’s work. He should. He should do all he can, and then more. Anything. If it comes in close enough I’ll see it, if not I’ll Netfix it. Either way I’ll see it. I’m fascinated.
Finally finished a film (The Broken Tower) which slightly stared Michael Shannon who plays James’ character’s homosexual lover that was written and directed by Franco. He’s good for these parts. Not that I’d recommend it but will say Hart Crane’s works, or words, were dark pearls well strung together and quite captivating. Only the entire movie was watching Franco walk through foreign city streets alone as he read them! His roles are dark and edgy, which he does well, which is why he was horribly miscast as Oz.
Anyways my humble opinion is this was way over the moment he decided to rent out his treetop nest.

@Me: Awww what’s the matter honey, feeling all alone in your cave with all the bats and no one to bash with you. Poor little blood sucker.

Lesbian alert @ 05/11/2013 at 3:59 pm

@not me: Not another lesbian! Clamsie must be getting all her gay friends to post here.

Makes no sense @ 05/11/2013 at 4:16 pm

Maybe my brain is still oxygen starved from the lovely picture nr007 posted for me this morning, but the way you ladies talk I’m beginning to think I’m GBs one true love!!! Had to stop and search the whole house just in case nr007 sent me an early Mother’s Day present!! But alas only in my dreams does he cook pancakes for my brood on Sundays.

I’d like to think he has a normal gal like us in his future, but we all know unless he starts hanging out in the pick up lane at the elementary school, little league practice, the grocery checkout aisle, or the pool picnic area it ain’t gonna be any of us!!! But damn, it sure is fun to dream!!! Now I really should go do some laundry~wait, did I check that room?

he who laughs last @ 05/11/2013 at 4:44 pm

@Makes no sense: Did you look in the shower, silly girl.
Happy Mother’s Day to all !!!

dargabriel @ 05/11/2013 at 4:47 pm

So Many Phychics, Yet No Proof. Including Myself, However i’ve Been Right About Somethings. I Hope Butler Finds Everything he’s Long Desired. No Matter Who It Is, Good Luck To The Butler. Love,dagabriel

Love all the new GB pics…he looks great…but #502, WHOA!!! :)

dargabriel @ 05/11/2013 at 4:52 pm

@GB22: So Many Tricks And Jokes, I Wonder When The Nonsense Will End, Gabriel Likes Being A Jokester, Would You Agree? Butler Has Sent Me That Message About Fanatical Fans, And Laughs, But Also Loves The Attention. I Hope Your Day Is Great. Love,dargabriel

I would like to know why you twinflames, soulmates, whatevers on here who think you are his one and only, don’t put yourself in a position to find out? It’s not like he’s hard to find. He’s a very social person. If you want to see if there’s a connection, go find out. He’s not going to come over to your house and knock on your door in the suburbs, you can be sure of that. Maybe the fantasy is more fun, perhaps? Can’t blame you for that, I suppose.

Makes no sense @ 05/11/2013 at 5:20 pm


Because we’re all old enough to know the fantasy is wayyyyy the hell more fun!!! As awesome as he might be he’s still gonna have those moments where you want to brain him! He is, after all, a MAN. They’re cute, but trouble!!!!

I would like to thank the rest of you for all the fun links!!! I haven’t had this much fun doing the Saturday house cleaning in a long time!!! Happy Mother’s Day all!

he who laughs last @ 05/11/2013 at 5:39 pm

@nr007: That is tooo funny. okay here is a clip of the cast and crew of Phantom. Have to look hard for gerry.

he who laughs last @ 05/11/2013 at 5:43 pm HA would have been nice if I had included the link. Dah

A suggestion @ 05/11/2013 at 5:48 pm

@he who laughs last: Try putting more water in it!

gerbutt syndrome @ 05/11/2013 at 5:55 pm

Gay Bowel Syndrome (GBS):[32] The Journal of the American Medical Association refers to GBS problems such as proctitis, proctocolitis, and enteritis as “sexually transmitted gastrointestinal syndromes.”[33] Many of the bacterial and protozoa pathogens that cause gbs are found in feces and transmitted to the digestive system: According to the pro-homosexual text Anal Pleasure and Health, “[s]exual activities provide many opportunities for tiny amounts of contaminated feces to find their way into the mouth of a sexual partner . . . The most direct rou te is oral-anal contact.”[34]

Proctitis and Proctocolitis are inflammations of the ****** and colon that cause pain, bloody rectal discharge and rectal spasms. Proctitis is associated with STDs such as gonorrhea, chlamydia, herpes, and syphilis that are widespread among homosexuals.[35] The Sexually Transmitted Disease Information Center of the Journal of the American Medical Association reports that “[p]roctitis occurs predominantly among persons who participate in anal intercourse.”

Enteritis is inflammation of the small intestine. According to the Sexually Transmitted Disease Information Center of the Journal of the American Medical Association, “enteritis occurs among those whose sexual practices include oral-fecal contact.”[36] Enteritis can cause abdominal pain, severe cramping, intense diarrhea, fever, malabsorption of nutrients, weight loss.[37] According to a report in The Health Implications of Homosexuality by the Medical Institute for Sexual Health, some pathogens associated with enteritis and proctocolitis [see below] “appear only to be sexually transmitted among men who have sex with men.”[38]

No, she’s right. This person works by setting the trap of offense. She’s abnormally offensive about Gerry. This is her bait for reaction. Most aren’t trained to recognize her traps for what they are. to offend you through him. I see her as an enemy of your soul. How she makes you feel, which is not pleasant, is her delight.She sets the trap, you walk in. Keep in mind she is not the only person here or in this business that does this.
Creating self-doubt is just one of the tools of Satan. Satan works subtly by eroding confidences and creating fear.
The ex worked in a similar way. Her offensive behavior was openly rubbing her relationship status in the nose of posters for reaction.
The best thing to do is to ignore them. Easy? No. Worth it? Always.

God Bless yoou all! @ 05/11/2013 at 6:00 pm

“A man’s wisdom gives him patience; it is to his glory to overlook an offense.” – Proverbs 19:11

@GFW: Never associate her with evil ever

Oh for heaven’s sake no way I want to even scan over this stuff and nonsense from the lonely its arriving to spend their Saturday nights here.
~K, waving ciao

@he who laughs last: Good heavens be still my heart!!!

I’m sure Maggie PU will agree, he looks just as hot in a blue towel as a yellow one. What say you crazy Lady. Hope you are well from your surgery♥

You’re taking this too seriously, or personally, as was not associating her directly with evil. Maybe my sentence structures could have been better arranged?
I was making the personal observation, from being here for a while and a target, the covert offensive behaviors were used for reaction, and not a positive one. Same like Yuck/Lainey/Clamise who operate using the same method. Is this helpful?
Since these subtle nudges were not aimed at you, you have no intimate feeling experience from the way people were manipulated to react, and I hope you are never on the receiving end. I’m sorry I have offended you. And yes, all feelings are a choice. I have to take it from the trap and feed it to my heart allowing myself to become offended.
who wonders if some people here can’t feel bad all by themselves?

You can associate her with whomever you want.

gerbutt syndrome @ 05/11/2013 at 6:36 pm

you sound like a creepy butt kisser
i got that for you because you are diseased.

he who laughs last @ 05/11/2013 at 6:38 pm

@A suggestion: #557
This is for you and your wonderful sense of humor.

gerbutt syndrome @ 05/11/2013 at 6:40 pm

sounds like you are talking from experience in these methods. do tell

gerbutt syndrome @ 05/11/2013 at 6:42 pm

I forgive you, gfw
you didn’t know

gerbutt syndrome @ 05/11/2013 at 6:42 pm

you can be saved dear…see the light
get your head out of gerbutt’s gay ****

Our response to offense greatly determines our future. The closer the relationship, the greater the offense. Many find the greatest offense to those people who were once close like many fans of Gerry’s. In one way or another, for whatever reason, illness or intent, he’s offended a bunch of folk who chime in daily to toss a dart or too at him as their dartboard or his supporters. He’s a wiping post for all that ails him, like you. You don’t matter enough to upset me. You are wounded, hurt and bitter and offensive for sport. Have a nice night but I doubt it.
~K, jumping

gerbutt syndrome @ 05/11/2013 at 6:44 pm

keep telling yourself that loser
buttkisser is peeved

Lesbian alert @ 05/11/2013 at 6:45 pm

@gerbutt syndrome: Another lesbian!

gerbutt syndrome @ 05/11/2013 at 6:50 pm

gerard is gay and you are a buttkisser
pretty obvious

gerbutt syndrome @ 05/11/2013 at 6:53 pm

“You are wounded, hurt and bitter and offensive for sport”
you’re right, you should doubt it.

Lesbian alert @ 05/11/2013 at 6:57 pm

@gerbutt syndrome: another lesbian!

You know what I’m peeved at? Love is Blindness only had three seconds in The Great Gatsby!
And Gatsby was the only one Nick was not disgusted with, and I agree. Buttkisser so not me. ;o)
For you, you lonely it… or should I say you jealous it?

gerbutt syndrome @ 05/11/2013 at 6:59 pm

to lesbian alert:

gerard is gay and you are a buttkisser
pretty obvious

gerbutt syndrome @ 05/11/2013 at 6:59 pm

you are buttkisser galore
save your vids for your lonely deluded self
get some education and fix your gaydar

Lesbian alert @ 05/11/2013 at 7:01 pm

@gerbutt syndrome: Why don’t you get lost you pathetic old ****.

gerbutt syndrome @ 05/11/2013 at 7:07 pm

I’m not the one who is lost,

gerbutt syndrome @ 05/11/2013 at 7:14 pm

Anal Cancer: Homosexuals are at increased risk for this rare type of cancer, which is potentially fatal if the anal-rectal tumors metastasize to other bodily organs.

Dr. Joel Palefsky, a leading expert in the field of anal cancer, reports that while the incidence of anal cancer in the United States is only 0.9/100,000, that number soars to 35/100,000 for homosexuals. That rate doubles again for those who are HIV positive, which, according to Dr. Palefsky, is “roughly ten times higher than the current rate of cervical cancer.”[49]

At the Fourth International AIDS Malignancy Conference at the National Institutes of Health in May, 2000, Dr. Andrew Grulich announced that the incidence of anal cancer among homosexuals with HIV “was raised 37-fold compared with the general population.”[50]

#566 not me. Knock it off.

#587 not me. Knock it off.

there there @ 05/11/2013 at 8:57 pm

@gerbutt syndrome:

You rode the short bus didn’t you, honey…..

Makes no sense @ 05/11/2013 at 9:02 pm

@there there:

Nah, I’m thinking kicked off any and all buses for being too difficult to deal with….the prison must have computer access time in the evenings for inmates as this same crew shows up most nights and flings their feces all over…..

bars and stripes @ 05/11/2013 at 9:35 pm

@Makes no sense: @there there: Where is Clyde Shelton [LAC] when you need him?

What's Missing @ 05/11/2013 at 10:49 pm

I am the one that is lost and way, way behind. You guys are saying that it is over and finished. I can’t even figure out when it started, much less all the mess in between. It makes no sense to me. I guess I will never have the answers to the red flags that popped up. The whole thing is so very bizarre.

(✿◠‿◠)……HAPPY MOTHER´S DAY to all……………….señor gerard que tenga un lindo domingo……y de mi parte envio unos saluditos a su mami con mucho respeto………..muchos besitos y adios………suerte……….✿ ❀…

HAPPY MOTHERS DAY; Maybe Miss Margaret will take G to see “JAWS” again, for old-times sake. After all it’s only been 37 years or so since she took then 6 year old Gerry, who had just lost his Dad for the first time, and had been taken to a place he had no memory of, with people he barely knew, to a grizzly, horror film Rated seriously R in the US anyway, because he pestered her relentlessly to see it, but which would absolutely traumatize the fragile wee lad with night terrors for years, just so she could say, ” Maybe now, you’ll listen to your Mum”. Ahh, another proud moment in Mothering 101.


You r a good friend.


That’s normal. If us kids of the 80′s were not scared by the movie Jaws we would feel robbed.

@Amy: That’s sick, you realize. G wasn’t old enough to just be scared. He was SIX. The hallowed Miss Margaret took a header into the Marianas Trench of disrespect, for me, when I read G talk about this experience, which obviously scarred him, ( note: not frightened), last month. Now adays, this would rightly be considered child abuse. Keep in mind Amy, “messes” are made, not born. The more you read his comments about his childhood, you feel his anger, mistrust, and pain, and it’s directed at the one person he loved, trusted,and depended upon the most, his Mother. Have you never wondered why he lives 7,000 miles away from her? Oh, that’s right they have no movie industry in Great Britain. You don’t have to like someone , nor trust them, nor allow yourself to depend on them- to love them, especially when the person in question is you primary parent.


Get a grip. It was a MOVIE. I am starting to understand the ‘phannie’ phenomenon now. I was THREE when it came out. Relaxxx

@Amy: You are an as.hole.


Btw you are a bit ‘sick’ to speak of his mother that way. Most parents do the best they can. It is not always the “right” way. Parents r people too. You are exceedingly judgmental.

Don’t bother Amy, it’s just a troll seeking attention.

Happy Mother's Day @ 05/12/2013 at 1:37 am

@Amy: Buddy is right Amy. Don’t bother wasting your time. She has no idea why Margaret left and what she went through as a single mom of three to survive. They were living with his grandparents, safe and loved and well cared for. Like so many of us single moms, you give it your very best and she set the mark high for herself and her children. That mother is to be commended for all she did and the support she still gives. And her son loves her dearly as I am sure his brother and sister as well.

sunkist=buddy @ 05/12/2013 at 2:46 am

‘she’ is a ‘he’
a misogynistic woman hater

sunkist=buddy @ 05/12/2013 at 2:48 am

hmd is same troll

@SUNKIST: When Margaret took the young Gerry to see Jaws it was rated as a PG (Parental Guidance) in the UK so she was not breaking any laws. It was only last year that it was changed to a 12A which means it is considered unsuitable for young children. Why are you saying these things about his mother? Gerry absolutely adores that woman and his pain and anger is not directed at her. It was aimed at his father who he say as having abandoned him. Remember that Margaret only returned to Scotland with her children AFTER Edward had left home.

@gerbutt syndrome: What is the point of these posts? This sort of thing is appropriate on a medical site but not on a site like this so please stop it.

@JS: That should read “who he SEES”

Gerard will be very single for a long, long time.

@JS: and you point is?

@JS: “Gerry absolutely adores that woman and his pain and anger is not directed at her.”

And do you know this?

Gerry himself or his PR DOES visit this site and threads by the way….

Can'tGetEnough @ 05/12/2013 at 6:47 am

Happy Mother’s Day JJer’s. Hope you all enjoy your day.
Gerard Butler ‏@GerardButler 16h
Check out my buddy’s film #theiceman. It’s awesome.
Ariel Vromen ‏@vromen 15h
@GerardButler Thanks for the support brother!!!

Amanda132 @ 05/12/2013 at 7:45 am

Hoping Gerry’s Mum had a lovely Mother’s Day this year and was spoilt rotten with love and kindness.

She Dumped HIM @ 05/12/2013 at 7:53 am

It’s obvious to me.

So if I am not (too) wrong – after reading all the post with “huge interest” ;) – then GBs next goal should be finding his twinflame who has these traits:
1: watersign
2: brunette
3: about his age
4: likely to be divorced with kids GB can play with
5: spiritual
6: tiny bit religious
7: clever
8: insightful
9: beautiful green eyes
10: spacious
11: travelled a lot
12: likes dogs
13: likes a Scottish mum (who wouldn’t)
14: not in the “business”
15: friendly
16: caring
17: can show sympathy
18: loves gossip sites
19: able to carry herself with grace
20: wanting a man who cares
21: ??????????
hmmm ….. couldn’t think of any other good pointers ….

Anyone…??? LOL ;-)

“when I read G talk about this experience, which obviously scarred him, ( note: not frightened), last month.”
Hi Sunkist. Could you direct me to this article? I didn’t get a chance to read up on all of them. Thanking you in advance with hopes you come back in.
who understands why they moderate this site because some people, especially the angry or rejected can come in anonymously
who are stuck focusing on the negative who can fail to break out of that mold… as this place does not steward anyone but it can be an indicator of
who is saying what so some who know who they are can tell who they are and can go to the source to stop it
i.e. “cheating” the other day saying that a certain someone, in a recognizable form of speech, can talk about their life as it is their life… well, to me that was flare… a red one indicating a grudge
who thinks Gerry needs to take care of the people he is close to who are of tremendous meaningful value honest and genuine around him getting that blow torch and lead and start mending what got fractured because he knows for certain the foundations are solid and not built on sand
who wishes everyone a Happy Mother’s Day mother’s or not as it is a day of appreciation and focusing on, here in the USA, on the one and only who taught us to tie our shoe laces
who picks that one thing over and over again for a reason
who sees Gerry wears shoes with them hoping he thinks of him lovely mum every single time he ties them!
saying love is kindness as well as blindness
who will see TGG again not in 3-D as that annoyed the bloody hell out of me!
who thinks Gerry needs to start stewarding himself and from there every single thing in his life will improve as he is a gem, a rough cut diamond unique to this world living in the time his for a reason but that is up to him to figure out and will
who knows he lives and works in an industry that does not line up with his values
and that due to conditions beyond his control lost a lot of his fan base when they began to see how he has allowed himself to transform to the world rather than creating his own
who could explain that but won’t here
who knows hopes he can become all he used to be! :o)
who knows this place becomes a pit of despair but has some really nice folks here too
but can’t be here like she used to as I’m being ordered to stay away and work on other stuff
who hopes Gerry finds something interesting to do with himself soon enough and thinks Franco is highly intelligent and that “Gardens” goes well
who’ll check in for photos and any news of progress as idling is going nowhere and he’s far too creative and talented to not get the bug again soon enough

Time to ask... @ 05/12/2013 at 9:43 am

HAPPY MOTHERS DAY!! Hoping it will be special for all of you, surrounded by people who appreciates, LOVES, and gives you much happiness!!!

I think this is cool, and I hope they take it slow. She seems fun, and has a career of her own so he wouldn’t get bored babysitting her. This could work if they don’t move too fast.'s-new-love-interest-

Katy Perry and Gerry?
Why not?
They’re both successful without a lot of talent.
Could work.

@C.A.: oh man… change #1 to Air sign, delete all the words in #4 and just put the word “chubby”… and I am totally GB’s twinflame!! Thank goodness!! Y’all can calm down now… mystery solved! :-)

PS: I’m just playing… don’t hate! Happy Mother’s Day!!

@MJ: hahahahahaha now THATS funny ….. and shows my point totally …. anything is possible when we put our mind to it ……… :)
Happy Mother’s day (and to you too??)

@Buddy: Actually, they’re both talented. But if you don’t like them, then don’t watch his movies and don’t listen to her music.
She’s too young for him anyway and spends too much time touring.

Gerry's Twin Flame? @ 05/12/2013 at 10:25 am

No offence meant towards the divorcee mothers out there, but I don’t see Gerry raising someone else’s kids. He said in an interview during MGP that he wanted to have his own children rather than adopt.
He’s an alpha male and is probably after a woman that can devote herself totally to him. She would have to be smart and have her own career, but he would have to come first, not her work. JMO.

@FO: Rumors. That’s how Katy Perry and John Mayer started out, too. There could be a lot of truth in a possible developing romance.

I have a theory about why Gerry and Maddie broke up. It wasn’t anything to do with Maddie, it’s that Gerry suddenly had a huge movie hit on his hands and he’s definitely missed that since the days of 300. Suddenly, everyone knows his name again. They want him at their parties and events. A whole new generation of teens and young adults know who he is now. More women are checking him out, opening up new opportunities for him to score. Gerry is back in A-list territory having a hit movie making over $100mil at the boxoffice.

The temptation and lure of so much new strange is always too much for him and he can’t keep his relationship together and he bolted. This should be a warning sign for any women who think they’re the one. No one will ever get him to settle down and be faithful. It’s who he is. He’s permanently on the move. He’s said himself that he has an addictive personality.

Stop blaming Maddie. She fell in love just like most of you would have done if you’d been in her shoes. Truth is, he can’t really ever love anyone. He’s too much of an emotional wreck to get close to anyone for long. When he dies, he’ll be all alone with his money and his fame and no “love of his life”. It’s not in the cards.

Gerry's Twin Flame? @ 05/12/2013 at 10:32 am

“Truth is, he can’t really ever love anyone.”
This is the part where you showed your true colors. In that, you’re an idiot and know jack about Gerry.

@Gerry’s Twin Flame?: UFO.

Show me proof of where he’s fallen in love for a long time. There are no long relationships in his history except the ones in your insane phannie mind. A year, two years, are not long relationships. If he had one for 5 years or longer, then I admit I’m wrong.

He’s never been in a long relationship because he can’t tolerate permanence with one person.

Gerry's Twin Flame? @ 05/12/2013 at 10:42 am

You sound very bitter and angry.
Sure, he hasn’t had long term relationships, but saying that the man is incapable of loving someone is stupid.
By the way, on one hand you’re telling me the I’m a phannie and created a fantasy in my mind, but on the other, YOU’RE the one dictating what his private life is really like?
Not a bright person are you?

This is so cute. He’s kind of clueless as to what he’s doing but needs to be doing it right. So, so Gerry.
More offense? See what I mean? These are malcontents. These are highly judgmental bitter sad and very tormented people. They post how and what they do for only to offend, hurt and belittle. They are the diseased ones. In fact they are the lonely misbegotten folks without love, any kind of love in their lives so pounce on happy people. Just be happy, ignore them, post around them and that gets them more than the battle. They’re in here for battle and to belittle the one man they can never ever have.
That said, yes, I’m back because I’m looking for the article, but need to say you are wrong Ms Stalecakes. How wrong? 100% wrong. He knows love, how to love and loves like no other man on the planet. There are many forms of love. When in love he’s completely committed, it’s a duty and one he takes complete responsibility for with sincere relish because it makes him feel good, secure and safe.
who needs to say Jaws scared the shi+ out of me then and still does now but Gerry put himself in the Ocean fearless to make one of his best films ever, Chasing Mavericks who has more courage than the bullies here ever will

Gerry's Twin Flame? @ 05/12/2013 at 10:49 am

Well said, GFW.
He always surprises with his choices in life. His love life won’t be any different.

Horrorscopes @ 05/12/2013 at 10:56 am

Katy and Gerry are two Scorpios. Yowza. No wonder they’re attracted to each other. This could work well if played right. @Buddy, the fact that she is busy touring is a plus. From what I have seen, GB doesn’t like to be suffocated, and would appreciate someone who had their own life.

@Gerry’s Twin Flame?:
Thank you. But see what I mean? How these people try to force you to feel a certain way? The energy they put into these negative posts must lower their Ph levels. Which needs to be around 7 btw.
The strategies for some are to disrupt your flow, hinder your joy and bring you down to their level.
I think that Gerry is harsh on himself. Some he lets into his life will pick up of on his fears, insecurity and judgments and pounce on them which is what could be going on at the moment, but he’s people in his corner who don’t walk, bail, who defend and protect but not enable. Beneficiaries enable. He must first go in and love and accept every part of himself. Loving exactly what’s going inside of him doesn’t mean having desire to change those things but to embrace such things.
Another reason people hold back from being vulnerable with each other is the fact that they don’t know how to own their own strength. Whenever we give our power away to others and take crap from them, it closes our hearts and causes us to pull back. It’s painful to be open with someone and have them take advantage or them treat us not so nicely.
There are people in his life who know him well. Even some who know him better than he knows himself who mean no harm only good. And some in close who don’t know him so well. They know different parts of him. Those who love him shepherd him while keeping themselves heading in the right direction, forward.
I’d rather be his eternal flame. Someone who warms him when cold. Who lights the way when dark. Who flickers steady when they’re lost to lead them back to safety, peace, praise, love. Who is draws people to them not pushes them away.

Katy & Gerry @ 05/12/2013 at 11:04 am

Are not dating FFS!
Would he tap that?
Hell yeah!
But seriously? Do you really think he’d date a pop star after the dramas with Maddie? He’s done with high maintenance women.
Katy is down to earth, but a little dim if you’ve seen her interviews.
He’s gong to hit it and quit it.
I don’t think Katy would want anything more either.

I think Gerry admires Katy’s talent and drive that in many ways, while different, match his own. But there isn’t anything going on there.
He could be in soul searching mode like many of us and more cautious now than ever?
I would like private Gerry even more than I do the public one including warts and issues and he’s well worth the learning curve because of his brilliance, imagination and creativity. His mood swings might be difficult for some but again, when folks know each other well, they learn to read each other just as well.
He is temperamental because of his childhood. He likes to feel safe by being liked. His humor does this along with his likeability which carries him far. But it is in his talent, that I fear if he idles too long, he’ll lose confidence or drive. Yet if he uses this freedom to work on tweaking a few bits of his softwear it can only benefit the Cntl Alt Delete reboot of his fantastic life!
who isn’t supposed to be here but is told to ping the pongs because she was also told never to leave the door and those out there on the take need to know blow torches and lead create secure breaks and they should never forget that

Horrorscopes @ 05/12/2013 at 11:13 am

@Katy & Gerry:
Sounds good to me. He could use a fun girl for a while. They are both at a place in their lives it seems where they could enjoy each other and just have fun on the side while focusing on their careers. Win-win. And she could not possibly be more dim than what he just dated, *cough*.

ooOOoo Don’t take the bait from Ms Stalecakes. She doesn’t have a leg to stand on. She’s basing everything on external not internal information. And also the love is romantic or tangible or with a woman. Which is way wrong way to judge his life. Gerry is more than his public persona. Once people realize this maybe they can mend their own fractured views of him. They should. His heart is 24K, soft, golden and pliable. He is as unique as a rare African emerald, veins and all. He’s a precious gem. And just as human and flawed as each and everyone of us. Give him some wiggle room to rebuild his engine. It has had some bad fuel in it that has made it sputter and stall. Let him take his engine in for an overhaul.
who says 300 – Rise of the Empire 3-D will put him back on the map in no time who hopes he’s better prepared this time

Gerry's Twin Flame? @ 05/12/2013 at 11:30 am

“It has had some bad fuel in it that has made it sputter and stall. Let him take his engine in for an overhaul.”
~ I love this GFW.
He will be new and more loveable than he is now. Is that even possible? lol!

sunday sunday @ 05/12/2013 at 11:34 am

@Amanda132: pardon me if this correction has been made but they had Mother’s Day in the UK in March

sunday sunday @ 05/12/2013 at 11:39 am

@TeaCakes: Well not only that most sane women don’t tolerate his behavior either, in other words he f**cks up even the relationships he isn’t ready to let go of yet.

I disagree that many women would fall in love with him hard even phannies. Many women are not that impressed with Mr. Butler after only spending a short time with him. Again smart women wouldn’t even give him a shot, why waste your time on a foregone conclusion if you’ve got better options.

I often speak in metaphors. Grief is a metaphor for change. There is a possibility, a good one, he’s grieving. There is a possibility he could be worried what the next plan is by the anyone who openly claimed to be a planner? Some just don’t go easy esp the don’t get it easy types. If I were them and my man rented his nest I’d have taken the hint then and there. But not my business. My business to ping pongs and keep steward myself not others who are capable of stewarding themselves.

Makes no sense @ 05/12/2013 at 11:48 am

@Gerry’s Twin Flame?:

Sure. What man doesn’t. But his face lights up with kids. They fit his playful, mile a minute personality. If he met “the one” I don’t think her kids would need more than 5 minutes to steal his heart. I actually think that is how it will happen. The kids will keep him around long enough for him to work through his issues and really commit.

@Katy & Gerry: Her blue hair and his blue b.a.l.l.s = a match made in blue heaven.

@sunday sunday:
Have you reinvented yourself Ms Stalecakes? Your M.O. is to pound on happy people. Leave Amanda alone. His mom spends enough time in the USA to benefit from two Mother’s Day’s! Back off would ya?
Again, you don’t know squat what Butler is like so what’s with downtrodden message? Not that I do, but for crying out loud he can’t keep the friends in his life for years and years if he was all you say? Do you realize how misguided you sound? Bitter?
You are member of the if I can’t have him I want to destroy him club. Take yourself outdoors. Shut off your laptop, iPad or whatever and go talk to some humans. You’re in dire need of something pleasant happening. Volunteer to walk a dog, cat sit or make some type of being interaction. You’re crashing and your hatred will not be a contagion here. Beat it! Yeah, come to think of that why don’t you do that too?

dargabriel @ 05/12/2013 at 11:53 am

Happy mother’s Day To All Moms. Time Will Tell Who Mr. Butler Ends Up With, He Surely Will, But I Do Think It Will Surprise Everyone. I Do Know This. Lighter Hair And Eyes, As Is He Will Certainly Be With The Darker Hair And Dark Eyes, Earth And Water For Sure. Have A Great Day. Love,Dargabriel. This Is Fun.

@Gerry’s Twin Flame?: You’re the one who’s not bright enough to see what he’s like. Didn’t I preface my comment with, “I have a theory”??????? Are YOU NOT BRIGHT ENOUGH to know what that means?

It’s clear that a 43 year old man can’t keep a relationship together and be faithful for more than a few months at most. He’s never been in a long relationship past two years, he’s said so himself.

Maybe HE’s the one who’s not bright, but then of course, you’re not bright enough to at least consider and listen to others’ THEORIES and at least think about them.

Oh, and I’m not a fan or a phan. I can’t stand him most days. I’ve been lurking and following the Gerry news for awhile wondering if he’d break out of bad actor h.e.l.l and IMO he still sucks as an actor. He’s a great celebrity and p.o.o.n.t.a.n.g. chaser, though.

@sunday sunday: Exactly! He can’t keep any relationship together. It’s like as soon as they fall for him, he’s gone. He’s so afraid to commit and he’s only in it for the thrill of new romance and nothing more. Once that heady phase is over, or once he’s put a few more on his radar, he’s outta town.

I agree, most decent women would never have anything to do with him. He’s only going to get the Brandis, the Katys, the Taras. Wild horse Gerry will never be broken.

Ms Stalecakes, you’re a hammer who sees everyone as a nail. What do you eat tacks for breakfast? Are you that jealous of Katy? Her youth, drive and talent that you need to poke fun at her too? What did she do to you? We know what Butler has, he won’t ever be yours. He has family and loyal friends, a sweet pet and is liked despite his shortcomings.
Oh, and you should rent The Hunger Games. Blue hair will be commonplace in the future. As for The Hunger Games? Oh, they’re taking place right now. Right here actually. Have a nice day.
~K, Katniss

Ms Stalecakes, you’re a hammer who sees everyone as a nail. What do you eat tacks for breakfast? Are you that jealous of Katy? Her youth, drive and talent that you need to poke fun at her too? What did she do to you? We know what Butler has, he won’t ever be yours. He has family and loyal friends, a sweet pet and is liked despite his shortcomings.
Oh, and you should rent The Hunger Games. Blue hair will be commonplace in the future. As for The Hunger Games? Oh, they’re taking place right now. Right here actually. Have a nice day.
~K, Katniss

Stop talking to yourself. It’s pathetic. It is. You are giving yourself away with another thing you do.

Ms TeaCakes, I apologize. Went back and reread your original post and maybe you’re right but I think he still is capable of strong loving in his future. He hasn’t found her yet. Don’t pay attention to the malcontents, not all of us are like that. I know you’re not trying to destroy him because no one but she did that to him methinks.


@Makes no sense: I don’t think so. If he wanted kids he would have had them by now. Everyone lights up around kids. Hasn’t he made it obvious by now he doesn’t like to be tied down? Kids are the ultimate commitment. You can’t just run off around the world with kids around. If he has any, it won’t be until he’s really, really old. He’s middle-aged, and obviously he enjoys his lifestyle very much. Has he ever dated a woman with kids? I don’t think so. Doubt he would do it.

dargabriel @ 05/12/2013 at 12:12 pm

I Do Believe Gerard Has Learned To Love From The Heart, Not Only Towards His Spiritual One, But Towards Others Who Really Touch Him And Children Are A Big Source. dargabriel

@Unlikely: You’re onto something. Very good point. He doesn’t date anyone with kids and his fling with Brandi didn’t count. Which means he probably wouldn’t do Miranda because of her baby son.

GFW: apology accepted. We can agree to disagree but as I said, it was only a theory. No need for people to slime me for my theories, just back up your feelings with proof from articles and interviews he’s given.

Miranda Kerr is gorgeous. I wish he would end up with her. There would be a lot of hairpullling, pearl-clutching, and phannie implosions but it would be so worth it to see him with someone permanently.

But it’s not likely to ever happen.

Gee, imagine even TMZ would have to start talking about him again since it’s almost like they’ve banned him lately.

@GFW: He was never destroyed, but enlightened

Legal aid @ 05/12/2013 at 1:05 pm

@Lise Leveillee: “relationship wit me.” Oh Lord, poor gerry.

Suzanne Cummings @ 05/12/2013 at 1:14 pm

Ok Gerry is still following Madalina on twitter and she’s following him. They are still in contact. Maybe they are taking a break? Or was it all for show.

Young Girl @ 05/12/2013 at 1:20 pm

@GFW: # 642
” who openly claimed to be a planner ” & “my man rented his nest I’d have taken the hint”
What do you mean?

Miranda Kerr and Gerry? HAHAHA!!
Watch a few interviews with Miranda. She can’t string a sentence together and is probably the dumbest of the VS models.
Much too stupid and old for Gerry and with a baby? R u kidding? You don’t know Gerry at all.

@Suzanne Cummings:
I think it’s assumed that they are broken up for good, but no one can know for sure. Following her TV interview, there’s little doubt that there’s some sort of break in process. Wether permanent or temporary, remains to be seen.
The twitter thing is weird, but so much of it is publicity anyway. I doubt they even remember who they’re following on twitter.

@Lise Leveillee: STFU, ugly old witch!

Legal aid @ 05/12/2013 at 1:34 pm

@Lise Leveillee: By the way, what ever happened to client confidentiality? Naughty girl.

Just saying @ 05/12/2013 at 1:43 pm

A jealous girlfriend, is a faithful girlfriend. If she doesn’t get jealous when someone has your attention, then someone else has hers.

sunday sunday @ 05/12/2013 at 1:44 pm

@GFW: carry on delusional one it must be the only way you can cope

sunday sunday @ 05/12/2013 at 1:47 pm

@TeaCakes: Unless Orlando got full custody which is highly likely.

Given there have been no bairns or even claims of possible offspring pop up over all these years maybe someone already got the snip snip and all the stuff about settling down and having kids is, wait for it, PR spin. As you can see it has been bought hook, line and sinker.

@TJ: Because he has said that his father leaving had a bad effect on him. He has never once blamed his mother and why would he?

Suzanne Cummings @ 05/12/2013 at 1:53 pm

@Rolf: I was reading who he follows. Really doesn’t keep In touch with any of his old rumored loves except Jeannia. Whatever happened to the one from Denmark, the model Olson or Fishnet chick?

Suzanne Cummings @ 05/12/2013 at 1:54 pm

@Mr. Hyde: As much as I’d like to disagree with you, I can’t. Which makes it very possible he’s not into women except for show.

I still think he’s straight. Something very off about all of this though.

@Suzanne Cummings:
I laughed when I read “the model Olson” and it got me thinking. Has Gerry dated a woman who wasn’t a model in the past five to seven years? I can’t recall a woman he’s been linked with who wasn’t a model.
Man sure has a type doesn’t he? lol!

@Just saying: An overly jealous girlfriend =nag =embarrassing =goodbye.

You can’t handle being with male celebrity who has female fans, then you are with the wrong man. Plenty of rich unfamous men to choose from.

@Suzanne Cummings: Ok “Gerry is still following Madalina on twitter and she’s following him”

Could just be that they have not removed each others names yet..

men hate nags and if they are nagging on you in the supposed honeymoon phase of a relationship, no point sticking around

Charmaine @ 05/12/2013 at 2:01 pm

@Rolf:” Has Gerry dated a woman who wasn’t a model in the past five to seven years?”

Yes he has, Me!

Suzanne Cummings @ 05/12/2013 at 2:01 pm

@Rolf: True. Next to his name in the dictionary is “modelizer”.

For real, I don’t think he’s dated anyone but models. He’s rumored to have been with actresses but no proof. He doesn’t date anyone outside of the entertainment industry either.

@Suzanne Cummings: That anyone knows about for sure. He’s a sneaky one. Or do you not include hookup with date.

Suzanne Cummings @ 05/12/2013 at 2:03 pm

@JS: He seemed pretty mad at the married woman he dumped…enough to block her from his cellphone. But neither Maddie nor Gerry have removed each other from twitter. If I was young enough to date someone and break up with them, I’d cut them off twitter too.

@Suzanne Cummings:
“Next to his name in the dictionary is “modelizer”.”
LOL! Very fitting.
It’s sad from a female’s point of view, but I also understand why he’s doing it. Because he can!
Men don’t romanticise love and attraction the way we do. Any other man in his position would be doing the same thing.
No time for a relationship but the most beautiful women in the world are throwing their, ahem, ‘themselves’ at you?
Most, if not all men would happily oblige.

@Suzanne Cummings: Well, to be honest, I don’t think Gerry has anything to do with his twitter and as for MG, we all know how she likes to play games. She’ll probably still have his name on hers when she’s 80.

Suzanne Cummings @ 05/12/2013 at 2:10 pm

@Rolf: That’s it. Going back to what someone, Teacakes maybe, said earlier. He’s suddenly back in the game again and reveling in his hotness and he’s being chased by many women. He’s never going to settle down, it’s not in him.

It's Uncomplicated @ 05/12/2013 at 2:10 pm

is GB going to the Simon Cowell school of love

Blind Items Revealed
October 19, 2012

This A list reality mogul and television personality has his third or fourth new girlfriend of the last two months. He has grown so used to being rich and getting whatever he wants when it comes to women that he no longer even bothers trying to date someone normally. He only dates women who are willing to be paid and to be there when they are needed and to disappear when they are not. He says he does not have any feelings towards women which would ever want him to be in an actual relationship and just prefers using them for what he wants, when he wants.

Simon Cowell

Suzanne Cummings @ 05/12/2013 at 2:12 pm

@It’s Uncomplicated: Back before any of us knew anything much about Gerry’s personal life, there was a lot of speculation that he paid the pros for sex rather than be in a relationship, because it was easier for him. Maybe he still pays them.

Lord Love a Duck @ 05/12/2013 at 2:14 pm

This is an older interview of gerry’s but a very good one that you might find informative on a lot of levels. This is part 1 will look for part 2 as that is good too.
Happy Mother’s Day to all.
Hi Lolita

@Suzanne Cummings:
“He’s never going to settle down, it’s not in him.”
I have to respectfully disagree with this. I think his unwillingness to settle down will change in the next few years. He’s not 35 anymore. He has the success and he’s been through most of the models anyway. Even on Stern he said that the lifestyle becomes boring after a while.
But my one disclaimer is that, he has to find a woman he really cares about enough to take that step.
I’m not saying she’s not going to be young and stunning, but she will love him for who he is, not what he is. Then, he’ll take that step.

It's Uncomplicated @ 05/12/2013 at 2:16 pm

@Suzanne Cummings: Does anyone think Clooney’s girlfriends are any different – they just have longer term engagements.

Charmaine @ 05/12/2013 at 2:16 pm

@Suzanne Cummings: Where did that come from? I’ve never heard anything like that before.

@JS: This is totally her m.o. The only way she gets attention is through her boyfriends. She leaves pics of all of them on her facebook. Despite claiming she wants attention for her work and not who she dates, her behavior is the opposite. All of the Romanian articles and interviews she’s doing now are about her boyfriend. Not her. No one would know who she was to this day if not for who she’s dated. It’s sad and very retro. She’ll do it again, too.

@Rolf: Well isn’t that the million $$$ question, will Butler end up like Mickey Rourke and Jack Nicholson or Warren Beatty or none of the above because we’re barking up the wrong tree?

Suzanne Cummings @ 05/12/2013 at 2:47 pm

@Lord Love a Duck: Interesting interview, I missed it before. Not sure I buy some of what he says, though. He says he hangs out with people in the business and dates them but totally understands why some actors end up with “civilians” or those outside the business. It doesn’t get him off the hook from being a serial modelizer.

Agree that some of what’s said about him can’t possibly be true but also where there’s smoke there’s fire. He really isn’t photographed with anyone outside of show business.

@Lord Love a Duck: Hi Ducky, That is one of the best interviews because she asked questions that Gerry felt comfortable with answering and he felt comfortable with her. You can see it was as he wasn’t fidgety as he gets sometimes. I don’t doubt for a minute when he meets the one that makes his heart go pitter pat he will settle down. He is no dummy so he will know if she is there for him as the man he is and not what he does for a living. Everything will fall into place so being together will not be hard on either of them. As he says if it happens it happens. I don’t think it is as hard to be with him as some think it is. He will be very loving and his goofy side will keep her giggling.

@Suzanne Cummings: Hey, that’s not true. She’s NOT following him on twitter. She only follows Barack & Michelle Obama. Also she doesn’t “like” his page on fb (on her “private” & funpage). Don’t get other people wrong.

Just saying @ 05/12/2013 at 3:08 pm

@Mr. Hyde:
“An overly jealous girlfriend =nag =embarrassing =goodbye.

You can’t handle being with male celebrity who has female fans, then you are with the wrong man. Plenty of rich unfamous men to choose from.’
1. I was a fan of celebrity, not someone with a celebrity.
2. I’m not looking for rich or famous man.I’ m looking for true and deep love.
3. I’m not overly Jealous, I can handle some window shop, but I have my instinct as a women to know when I should get jealous.
4. Did you took me mistaken for someone else?
But thank you for answering me, I was confused about a relationship in my personal life, and I got my answer, even more information than I asked.

@Suzanne Cummings:
“He really isn’t photographed with anyone outside of show business”

Could just be that he is very discreet about that. He has said that he has had relationshipswith women that people never knew about.

Charmaine @ 05/12/2013 at 3:16 pm

@lolita: I agree with all you say. I think he will setle down and with someone who is not famous but will turn out to be his soul mate.

Time to ask... @ 05/12/2013 at 3:23 pm

@GFW: Well said!!

Lord Love a Duck @ 05/12/2013 at 3:28 pm

@lolita: Hi Lolita, good to hear from you. Yes, this is my favourite interview yet. There was another on stage question & answer with her, but think that is gone. Wasn’t as good as this one on one.
I totally agree with you and find some of the assumptions nothing more than that. To know what is in ones heart and mind set isn’t so easily detected. Makes for gossip and a talking point, but that’s about it. He lets us see a little through his window, but that’s about all the guarded man will show and a good thing too. Looking for the day he falls hard for that “comfortable” ONE too.
Now you have a great day girl. Ducky.

Suzanne Cummings @ 05/12/2013 at 4:04 pm

@nr007: My mistake. But I’m not arguing with anyone else. He’s following her, she isn’t following him. She also never liked his films or posted anything but a bit of OHF info on her fb page. I think it’s strange she loves AB and LD movies but never any of Gerry’s films.

Let’s start something. I think she’s dense if she’s following the liar in chief Obama.

God Bless yoou all! @ 05/12/2013 at 4:05 pm

Happy Mother’s day to all mothers whether you are truly a mother or have mothered a child or loved one.
To everything there is a season, a time for every purpose under heaven. —Ecclesiastes 3:1
Mary, the mother of Jesus, experienced times of joy and sorrow. What joy she must have felt when the Christ-child was born! (Luke 2:7). What excitement when the shepherds and later the wise men came to worship Him (vv.8-20; Matt. 2:1-12). What uneasiness when Simeon prophesied that a sword would pierce her soul (Luke 2:35). And what heart-wrenching grief as Mary watched her Son dying on the cross! (John 19:25-30). But her seasons of being a mother didn’t end with that terrible scene. She rejoiced that He rose from the grave.

Mothers, and all of us for that matter, experience many great joys and intense sorrows. But when we submit our lives to the Lord, every season of life can serve His eternal purposes.

Thank You, Lord, for motherhood
With all its vale of tears,
For happy moments never dimmed
Through all the many years. —Strecker
Being a mom is a sacred partnership with God.

#658 was not me. Like you I have a shadow. At that time I was a ways away in a darkened theater seeing The Great Gatsby (in normal mode) for the second time who liked it much more this time
who, while in an apologizing mood, would never apologize to Ms Stalecakes who apparently fell for my shadow’s response
who needs to say it isn’t your theories, which are proofless, but the way you so nastily present them
who is, btw, delighted to hear that
who knows no one can destroy a man who is as self-aware as Gerry
who isn’t toxic but a tad clueless at times like all men
who knows like in The Great Gatsby he’s worth more than the lot of the lousy crowd
who knows stuff

@Time to ask…:
What was well said? Which post? No worries. Thank you.

@Suzanne Cummings: Maybe she thinks that Gerry isn’t a real star like Ab. But that is just my really, really illogical theory.

@Suzanne Cummings: #703 isn’t me. Because of so many of my readers and those who live to spite me, I am popular everywhere so many yearn to knock me down and shadow me. Diana for one.

who knows stuff. a lot of stuff. more than you know.
who knows he is better off without her because she is a failure and would bring him down
who knows he loves everyone and needs to find himself fully before he thinks he’s fallen again. because he never did fall for it.


Stop it NOW Diana. Your narcissism gives you away every single time. See, I didn’t even need to say it did I? You did for me.
who can’t help but agree with some of your thoughts but can’t be in here as some of us just have a 48-hour window to get stuff done!
who needs to say #706 is not me but my shadow and thinks it’s freaky

Makes no sense @ 05/12/2013 at 4:30 pm

@Suzanne Cummings:

Just tells me he doesn’t spend his own time on twitter, and may still be following her just to keep up on what she’s saying~

stop it NOW Clarinda Butler. who thinks its freaky that Diana is following us. who has a short window of 48 hours to sit and post at JJ.

who will bear his children? who will sit by his side when he grows old and gray? knows stuff.


someone at the other site is watching

Suzanne Cummings @ 05/12/2013 at 4:36 pm

@Makes no sense: But I thought his PA handles his twitter and fb accounts for him. If she does, why would she keep Madalina on his twitter?

Contest infor @ 05/12/2013 at 4:36 pm

Dear all who would like to participate in Gerard Butler soulmates’ contest, please check this site next week for more details. We will accept applications from females only aged 25 – 42. Everyone has a chance. We will send the finalists to Gerry.

Dear Madalina, as said above, we will not consider your application as it is obvious you are not the one.

Have a great Sunday!

Organising Committee
Gerard Butler soulmates’ contest

Suzanne Cummings @ 05/12/2013 at 4:39 pm

@Contest infor: Leave me off the list, I’m old enough to be his mother lol

To all the mom’s here and everywhere. Happy mothers day.

Good one! @ 05/12/2013 at 4:43 pm

@Lise Leveillee:

Haha! Someone is making fun of the real Lise Leveillee, a crazy, obsessed Gerry fan who posts here all the time as “Just Wondering”, among other monikers. I’m pretty sure “Just Saying” is her, as well. She’s a known Madalina hater who goes on and on and on about her on her FB page. Her rants are pretty boring and difficult to read since English isn’t her first language. She’s not a lawyer but a legal secretary, but she said she’s a lawyer many times. She has a long history of obsessing over Gerry. She needs help.

Truth. #703 is me.
~K saying bye and that I’m proud of Gerry and know deep down if he were truly ever in love, or her either, neither of them would be behaving like this and soon the fog will rise as this too shall pass and know he will soldier on and start managing himself better like he used to who has a quote somewhere that says, “Be all you used to be.” and never give up who you truly are: a soulful man with a soulful heart who has chosen and was chosen to work in a very hard environment to uphold and real values but can create his own Eden if he so wishes and will just use that observing ego moving forward and always trust your gut

#709 is not me. And I’m taking care of business, doing several must do things at once, so don’t worry where I sit okay? Just worry about yourself. Steward that.

Just saying @ 05/12/2013 at 4:55 pm

@Good one!:
No I’m not those you mentioned above, but you are right about my language, you can skip any post you don’t like to read. and I’m not visiting her FB page or her twitter. I have many moniker here, but I never lied and I would never do. And I never offend any one here. I don’t hate her, but also don’t like her.

For Miss K- The “JAWS” comment by G was in the 13/ April/ 2013- “I know there are things I will take to the grave” article in ‘The Independent’;> … > Profiles/Gerard Butler.

I want to add, that I have great respect for single mothers, having been one myself of several children I have been Blessed to adopt. They are my very greatest treasure. There is however absolutely No excuse to traumatize a child who you know has just been through his own little hell. I equate her taking him to see that trash, knowing full well that it was a ghastly horror film, with someone letting a six year old run around with a stick in his hand, and when he gets poked in the eye, big imperious you get to say “see, I told you so”. “I was trying my best” is one of those God-forsaken cliche`s like “I was just following orders”. There is NOTHING,… let me repeat, NOTHING more important than a child, any child, every child.

?????????????????????????????? @ 05/12/2013 at 5:04 pm

pascal vicedomini ‏@pascalvicedomin 11 May

@Madalina_Ghenea happy you found on your #cinema way two great #lady Val Conti and Pat Biancamano. #Italy will support you toward Hollywood

Good one! @ 05/12/2013 at 5:14 pm

@Just saying:

My apologies if you’re not Lise. No harm intended. I do know she’s “Just Wondering”, and I only thought maybe you were her, too.

Can'tGetEnough @ 05/12/2013 at 5:18 pm

Just ran into Gerard Butler , the star of 300 and a bunch of other movies……Happy Mother’s Day…

Hollywood wouldn’t put her in OHF as an extra in a film that cast thousands.
And it is my personal observational opinion she can’t act. And it is my personal opinion Dom Hemingway won’t be released in theaters but go straight to DVD. I know talent. Jude has it. Gerry has it. The ex does not.
who wants to thank SUNKIST for that and I’ll take a closer look at it agreeing with you for certain thinking maybe she wanted to see it so took him with her who knows Gerry takes a lot in visually and audibly so saw those first few frames and must have been terrified
who thinks the real terror in is life was not his mom though but I’m not talking about him like that here anymore because I care too much and his business is his business for him to sort out but he is a highly sensitive and multifaceted complicated man whose heart is as big as Texas who needs a purpose in life other than serving just himself or letting others use him who knows his people can’t stand me and I don’t care and that they may have hit the target but didn’t sink the ship

Just saying @ 05/12/2013 at 5:28 pm

@Good one!:
That’s what coming with anonymity, misunderstanding. I’m glad that Gerry is secure person, and he know those fan and people around him who once loved him, won’t offense him or lie about him even anonymously, if anytime he comes here and reads any of these comments.

Can I just say @ 05/12/2013 at 5:33 pm

@??????????????????????????????: Pascal Vicedomini is rumored to be the person behind the whole fake GB / MG relationship.

Can I just say @ 05/12/2013 at 5:37 pm

@SUNKIST: “There is however absolutely No excuse to traumatize a child who you know has just been through his own little hell. I equate her taking him to see that trash, knowing full well that it was a ghastly horror film,”

How do you know his mom knew what the film contained? It has been pointed out that it was regarded as suitable for children in the uk when it first came out.

Aw, he’s sitting outdoors with one of his gadgets and folders and stuff on the the table taking a meeting with himself and maybe others?
He looks thin but serene and not the least bit unobliging or annoyed.
I think saying he’s the guy for 300 is fine. Why not? Many say the most recognizable film by actors years down the road. It is impact. That film made the most impact on him on many levels and his career.
who stayed for the credits for The Great Gatsby knowing Baz and his wife worked as a team taking on different duties and hopes it gets at least a nomination for best costume design… w.o.w.

@Can I just say:
Don’t think it was fake at the start but it simply didn’t work out. I think Gerry is well on his way to cultivating his mystery. That this coming out that he’s moved on in his own unique way is inspiring to a lot of people who are literally breathing sighs of relief. But, he had to do it his way and on his terms, his idea. And notice how no one is rubbing his face in this? People are bubbling with respect for him making this decision. So what if he’s single for a spell longer? It’s not a sin. Hell, even Jesus never married and lived as a man on Earth.
He’s becoming his own man again. When he managed his career and himself it was mobile, moving upward like it is now. And he was far happier.
who thinks he might feel like Nic did in The Great Gatsby about NYC right now but that’ll change

It wasn’t a bad breakup, why slam the door in their face.
I still follow TWO of my ex boyfriends on Twitter and they follow me.
No hard feelings either way. What is the big deal??

Gerards stardom is slipping…
He used to get THOUSANDS of likes on these articles on jj…
Now just a paltry 127 likes?? :( very telling.
And no Gerard would NOT date a woman with childen “seriously”. Bang them, if hot why not. But no, no kids.

@Susan Cummings he stays in touch as friends with a few of the women he was with in the past. Someone posted pages ago. Rings true.

Only I understand that word in its entirety. Thank you.
You know what that is? It moves way past the powerful introspective self-knowledge to the even more powerful necessary, self-acceptance!
who thinks anyone’s stardom can slip as all actor’s do because unless you over-work yourself or fall into an tabloid cycle of trying to stay famous for being famous but Olympus Has Fallen has placed him back on the map and 300 – Rise of the Empire will even more so as I know men and women who have seen that multiple times and now years later it’ll have a new audience as well plus Hollywood wanted to do it
who doesn’t give a crap about “likes” only that we like ourselves and value ourselves and stick close to those who make you feel good, see what don’t or lend a hand when you’re feeling low or overwhelmed who works at building a life of excellence

There is one prerequisite for managing the second part of your life: you must be begin doing it before you enter it. He is.

@Can I just say: It defies credulity that Margaret could possibly have been ignorant of that films content. It was the biggest blockbuster in 25 years. Everyone was talking about it, and the publicity for it was an absolute deluge. Also the rating of PG in the UK even at that time was not the same as a US PG. And even if everyone on the planet told me a film like that was perfectly suitable for children, I would respect and LOVE my child more than that. I try to protect my children from things that will hurt them, even if that hurt is to frighten them, or emotionally manipulate them into crying, or to desensitize them to values I try very hard to instill in them. It wasn’t “just a movie” to that six year old, since he still vividly remembers being traumatized by it at 43 years of age. That was just plain bad parenting, and should be noted as such, not made excuses for. Would YOU have taken such an emotionally fragile six year old, who loves and trusts you, to see that? All she had to do was say ” No “. It shows in G now that he has trouble with LIMITS. I only mean to infer, there is a long history here of things that set off alarm bells in me, and explain an awful lot about G’s behavior. It doesn’t excuse it, it just is text book. This site goes out of its way to criticize every little nuance of his character. People condemn the symptoms, but never the causes.
There are too many children out there raised this same way, and then society condemns them as “messes”.

Suzanne Cummings @ 05/12/2013 at 6:53 pm

@SUNKIST: Maybe the Butlers didn’t have money to pay a sitter and she and her family went to the theater together, including the grandmother. But I agree, that movie is one that young children should not see.

It’s called immature parenting. And also a lot of Gerry’s hurts came before he could voice the word no to the one he loves. I also said back to you in my closing (weird-ass) messages that she went for herself (to see JAWS) more than for him possibly.
While the topic you’re veering into is of immense interest to me and I could really get into it, just know, that Gerry was also raised by another caregiver than his maternal mother who caused more damage (all manageable) Gerry is a mess, a beautiful one.
But know this, he has the clear advantage to all his issues. How? Won’t say but just know he’s very in tune with his personal challenges and we all work best when we tackle one at a time. He did. Drinking. Let him take care of him. Men will fix what needs fixing. They’re problems solvers by DNA.
I agree people condemn the symptoms. And symptoms are symptoms that should not be ignored either. He won’t. And also he works in a highly addiction fulfilling values missing industry that is wickedly excessive by its choices alone. Just keep in mind it loves people to fail, fall of bandwagons, and stay down with them… hooked on many things but mostly money. Enablers fear change catalysts.
The star-maker machinery can build you up, put your name in lights and if you disappoint them can bring your career to a screeching halt. He almost ran the risk of this and surfaced in the nick of time. God works in mysterious ways.
Just be thankful he saw the light, hit a personal bottom, and is now taking precautions (I presume) to retool his amazing high-octane career, soul, body and mind engine trying best he can to keep them connected. Like in the movie 42, Butler like Robinson, was built to last.

Makes no sense @ 05/12/2013 at 7:06 pm

@Suzanne Cummings:

Any Mom knows that at least once in your life you screw up and leave them with “something to tell Oprah” if they ever get famous. Since he seems confident enough to learn to surf in the actual ocean where sharks live, I think our baby is OK….leave Miss M alone, raising 3 kids on her own cannot be easy!

@Suzanne Cummings:
“Ok Gerry is still following Madalina on twitter and she’s following him. They are still in contact. Maybe they are taking a break? Or was it all for show.”
MG is NOT following Gerry on twitter. She’s never followed anyone until very recently when she put the Obama’s on her list.
This is MG’s follow list. Have a look for yourself, Gerry is not on it.
Yes, Gerry has followed MG (and lots of other women) ever since he started twitter, but Gerry rarely accesses his account anymore, let alone his follow list. He’s probably forgotten she’s on it. Gerry pretty much ignores his twitter account these days.

Gerards Facebook and Twitter are just for show.
Ever see him tweet someone BACK or say something IN RESPONSE to what a person comments on his account pages? No.
His PR has to REMIND him to even post something. Then, they’ll post up what he says on his behalf.
@GFW you are so annoying.

Time to ask... @ 05/12/2013 at 7:42 pm

@GFW For this:
“Loving exactly what’s going inside of him doesn’t mean having desire to change those things but to embrace such things.

“What was well said? Which post? No worries. Thank you.”
…Slow down!!!… :-D

That’s all you have? GB’s mother took him to see Jaws? If GB complained or is traumatized he needs to grow a pair. Leave his mother alone. If that is the worst she ever did she rocks.

“Gerards Facebook and Twitter are just for show. Ever see him tweet someone BACK or say something IN RESPONSE to what a person comments on his account pages? No.”
Actually, Gerry did reply to tweets when he was promoting OHF. He would only reply to people on twitter though, never FB. However, since OHF opened he doesn’t respond to tweets anymore, he rarely posts anything at all.

Can'tGetEnough @ 05/12/2013 at 8:22 pm

GB still in CA:
Ana Sofia ‏@anaasofiaa 1h
Having lunch with my dad and realized Gerard Butler is sitting right in front of me 😍😍 #hejustlookedmeintheeyes

Gerry’s back to hoping he gets lucky in a Portopotty again. Man oh man does he look thin and wasted in some of his pics. I hope he’s not using but ya never know with him. He truly looks like the kind of person where anything goes.

Very few stars tweet their own stuff these days. Lots of actively working PA’s seem to be helping their bosses out.

@euro: leave her the fvck alone