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Khloe Kardashian Seemingly Pens Essay About Lamar Odom

Khloe Kardashian Seemingly Pens Essay About Lamar Odom

Khloe Kardashian is opening up about her feelings.

The 31-year-old reality star took to Instagram to share a long message, which is seemingly about Lamar Odom.

“‘Letting go doesn’t mean that you don’t care about someone anymore. It’s just realizing that the only person you really have control over is yourself,’” Khloe wrote. “Letting go with love takes great strength. We have to learn to stop taking on peoples problems as if they are our own. Loving people does not mean we have to carry their burdens and confusions on our back.”

She continued, “Sadly, You can only express your opinion on a situation. You can’t want their life more than they do. This is in fact their life to figure out on their own and in their own time. I do believe in timing. I do believe timing is everything. You forcing your beliefs and dreams down ones throat is only going to cause resentment and possibly manifest deeper issues. Possibly to the point of no return. ‘People say time heals all wounds…I say time heals wounds but scars are left to remind you what you have been through and what you survived.’”

“Stop shattering your own heart by trying to make a relationship (friend, family, partner) work that clearly isn’t meant to work,” Khloe added. “We have to stop trying to repaint people’s colors. We have to learn to believe the love we AREN’T given. You can’t love someone into loving you. (God I wish it were that easy) You can’t force someone to be loyal, kind, understanding. You can’t force someone to be the person you need them to be. Even if it’s for their own good!! Sometimes the person you want most is the person you’re best without. 😩😫 You have to understand… some things ARE supposed to happen in your life, but they just are NOT meant to be. Damn… It took me so many years to understand that.”

A photo posted by Khloé (@khloekardashian) on

Click inside to read the rest of Khloe’s words…

Don’t lose yourself by trying to fix what’s meant to stay broken. God always has a plan even if we can’t understand it (or don’t want to understand it) Even in the darkest of places… Our Lord sees His vision.

We might not understand it at the moment but I promise you, your future will always bring understanding and clarity of why things didn’t work out. Don’t put your happiness on hold for someone (family, friend, partner) who isn’t holding on to you. ‘A Girl once told me… Be careful when trying to fix a broken person. For you may cut yourself on their shattered pieces.’”

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  • Will

    I will always be there for lamar no matter what, until of course it becomes a burden to me.

  • Kaitlyn

    Expressing your feelings privately shows the amount of love you have in your heart.

    Expressing your feelings publicly and paying bloggers to promote your private feelings is psychotic.

  • Mare

    The Koven must be done with using Lamar as a storyline.

  • Jenny from the flop

    Shut up

  • millerz

    Since when did writing in an Instagram caption become “penning an essay” Jared??? Lol ridiculous. I think she felt she had to address her going through with her divorce and letting Lamar go so that she won’t feel the guilt and people can’t criticize her for leaving Lamar if he keeps going down a bad path. People say she helped him for attention when I truly believe that is untrue! People will say this is also for attention. I’m sure she can accept that but she wouldn’t be able to live with not addressing it if someone bad happens to Lamar again. People who’ve never dealt with a love one with an addiction should not judge. She’s done everything she could, now she could walk away. And NO I’m not a kardashian lover I really can’t stand them lol but I admire Khloe. And I respect her because I’ve gone through something similar and there comes a time when you need to take the energy you’re putting into someone else that doesn’t want it and put it in yourself

  • millerz

    I have to disagree with that, her life is so public. If she doesn’t comment on something people talk if she does people still talk. She needs to protect herself in knowing she’s done all she could so she doesn’t feel any guilt if/when something bad happens again. If he keeps down the path he’s going he will self distruct once again

  • millerz

    You must have never had a love one with an addiction before. Any therapist would tell you that there is a point you need to walk away for your own well being. Doesn’t mean you don’t love them but that you’ve done everything you can and you can’t help someone who doesn’t want to help themselves

  • Mike1288

    You clearly have never experienced someone who is addicted to something like drugs or drinking. Does she need to make this public? It’s up to you but judging her for moving on just shows you have never been in that situation. Eventually one has to choose themselves. Drug addicts take everything from their loved ones and sometimes no matter how much you give it isn’t enough to help someone and you need to cut them off. Lamar clearly doesn’t take what happened to him seriously. He nearly died but is still going to clubs.

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