Pamela Anderson Publicly Breaks Up with Adil Rami, Accuses Him of Abuse & Cheating

Pamela Anderson has written a lengthy post on her Instagram account accusing French soccer player Adil Rami of being abusive and cheating on her in their two years together.

“The last (more than) 2.years of my life have been a big lie. I was scammed, led to believe … we were in « big love »?. I’m devastated to find out in the last few days. That he was living a double life. He used to joke about other players who had girlfriends down the street in apartments close to their wives. He called those men monsters?” Pamela wrote in the beginning of her post.

Pamela also tagged the National Domestic Violence Hotline in her post, before writing, “He has hurt me and threatened me many times,” and “But I should’ve known better. The jealousy.The physical and emotional torture. It was all a mirror of his own actions.”

Click inside to read the full note Pamela Anderson posted about her ex…

PAMELA ANDERSON’S FULL POST

It’s hard to accept 💔
The last (more than) 2.years of my life have been a big lie.
I was scammed,
led to believe … we were in « big love »?. I’m devastated
to find out in the last few days.
That he was living a double life.
He used to joke about other players
who had girlfriends down the street in apartments close to their wives.
He called those men monsters. ?

But this is worse. He lied to all.
How is it possible
to control 2 women’s hearts and minds like this -
I’m sure there were others.
He is the monster.
How could I have helped so many people @ndvhofficial
and not be wise enough or able to help myself.

But this is worse. He lied to all.
How is it possible
to control 2 women’s hearts and minds like this -
I’m sure there were others.
He is the monster.
How could I have helped so many people @ndvhofficial
and not be wise enough or able to help myself.

Narcissists don’t change.
Sociopaths don’t change.
I will run for my life – I have always fought for truth and justice. -
this is my worst nightmare -
I was not a very jealous person
before I met him.
I’m happy to know the truth.
But
it hurts like hell.

Î’m glad I spoke to his ex.
My God.
He lied to her about all too.
She’s also in shock and is very sad.
It’s the evidence I needed to move on.
He can’t hurt us more.
He warned me that all the tabloids in France are his and his sisters friends?
They control all -
So my last note is here
on Instagram.

I will leave France now.
He has tried all -
He has sent flowers
letters -
I did not accept.
He showed up to my hotel.
Security took him away.
I have a body guard
because he scares me.
He has hurt me
and threatened me many times

I don’t think Î’ll recover easily from this.
I am not a stupid girl.
I felt many times his lies,
his excuses.
But
we were together every day -
unless I went away to work.
This was always hard
because he did not trust me?
He was very insecure?
He wanted me next to him always -
or vidéo every location I was?, with who?
I learned to accept this as normal.
And even found myself asking him the same ridiculous questions?

Some knew all along.
David Lachapelle told me from the beginning that he was a liar.
That he was not to be trusted.
He told him to his face and looked at me and said.Pamela this is a fling.
Don’t get your heart involved.
I didn’t listen .
I was not allowed to see David more after this.
He cut my ‘crazy’ friends one by one out of my life.

He should not be the face
of protecting women from domestic violence.
Or protecting women at all.
He did this to improve image- only.
He has no respect for any woman but his mother.
And he lies to her too – they all lie.
It’s very painful.
I’m so so sad.
I will feel my feelings and move on.

He wanted to marry me?
Meet my father.
Love me for life?
Î’m devastated after talking to his ex girlfriend.
Poor woman.
The mother of his young sons.
I never felt good about dating someone with young babies.
I wanted to know what happened. -
How could he leave them alone?
Why were they apart?
He wouldn’t talk about it.
I did all to encourage their reunion.
He told me it was impossible.
That even if he was not with me they would not be together.

But they were .. I feel worse for her, for them.
His family even lies for him.
I feel used.
Betrayed and hurt.
But I should’ve known better.
The jealousy.
The physical
and emotional torture.
It was all a mirror of his own actions.
I did try to leave 10 times.
Every time he chased me to say he’d die without me.
He’d go to therapy.
He wouldn’t hurt me again.
He wanted us to live in Malibu one day.
I even emailed my friend who owns LA team for him for next year. Like
he asked me to .

I introduced him to my good friends -
He trained in Malibu with people I admire and trust. .
I was happy to see him there.
He seemed happy around dedicated honest people.
Another world.
Well we are all in shock.
He has disappointed us all.
My family.
My sons.
My friends.

(via Instagram)