Ezra Miller is getting candid up about his sex life in a new interview with Playboy.
The 26-year-old actor first opened up about an early memory of Playboy. He shared that during elementary school, a “friend and also sexual partner” who was a couple years his senior found some sexy items belonging to the other boy’s mother, including Playboys.
“We would jerk each other off while we interacted with that stuff in various ways, actually,” he said.
Ezra says that he is attracted to both men and women and that monogamy is not for him. He considers himself a “sexual being” and is part of a “polycule,” which he calls his group of sexual partners.
There’s a selective process to be part of the polycule, which includes people he has known for years, like members of his band Sons of an Illustrious Father, and some new members.
“I’m trying to find queer beings who understand me as a queer being off the bat, who I make almost a familial connection with, and I feel like I’m married to them 25 lifetimes ago from the moment we meet,” he said. “And then they are in the squad—the polycule. And I know they’re going to love everyone else in the polycule because we’re in the polycule, and we love each other so much.”
“I have more of an ecstatic practice, but I do take to instatic practices at times, so sometimes, I don’t have sex for a really long time because a lack of sex is as important to me as sex,” Ezra added.
While preparing to play Credence Barebone in The Crimes of Grindelwald, Ezra says “there’s definitely a lot of sexless, lonely time” so that he could get into character.
Read the rest of the interview on Playboy.com.
